BE CAREFUL OF THESE 6 RED FLAGS BEFORE GETTING MARRIED !
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1. Deen and Akhlaq.
2. Respecting (behavior) to parents.(How they treat their parents)
3. Behavior you saw from them, something potentially they will change. (Such as a bad behavior, don't think you can change them)
4. Willing to commit haram before Nikah.
5. A people pleaser who is obsessed with pleasing people. (They will not stand up for their spouse) Balance with No and Yes.
6. Their current company. (Type of company(workplace) that they keep right now)
Thank you for such helpful content.
You are most welcome
❤
How do you know when it’s arranged marriage,
Parents just wed you off as increasing age won’t bring better spouse :( May Allah help us
Jazak'Allah for sharing 💖.
Wat is akhlaq ?
inshallah when i’m older i’ll get married to someone who respects me and is a fun dad and likes to put a smile every day ameen
محمد صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم ❤️
1 Deen and akhlaq
2 How they treat their parents. If they don’t respect their parents they are never gonna respect their spouse.
3 Their present characters because they cannot be charged most of the time(Urdu poem- It’s possible for a mountain to move from it’s own place than a person can change from his own character)
4 Are they willing do something haram before the marriage then usually they may do something afterwards.
5 Are they a people pleaser, if the say yes to everyone then usually they are not gonna stand up for their spouse.(They should have the potential to say no when they have to)
6 What is the type of company they may keep with opposite gender. (If you don’t like the way they interact with the opposite gender, then you shouldn’t marry them)
Jazakallahu khair for taking the time to type this up
Allah Humma Salli Ala Saydina Muhammad Wa Ala Ali Saydina Muhammad 😊
This is so on point and the most important message for people and parents looking for marriage.
Subhanallah an amazing video n an amazing reminder .I'll keep dese in my mind insha allah.
Im actually looking to get married , Pls include me in ur duas ..
May Allah bless me with an amazing, understanding husband who loves Allah n his rasool , has a good character n treats me nicely n someone who will take me to jannah n may he also help me be a good understanding wife who compromises n does everything for the sake of allah n someone who brings him peace at home n someone who will help him go to jannah .. Aameen
May he bless everyone who is looking to get married with a righteous n understanding spouses who will be the coolness of thier eyes n may he bless everyone who is married with a happy married life filled with rahmah n barakah aameen aameen aameen ...
May allah make all our tests n trials easy for all of us , make us steadfast in our deen ,guide us to the right path n always keep us connected to the quran at all times n forgive all our sins n accept all our duas , grant us jannah n safeguard us from the hell fire aameen aameen aameen
Ameen and may Allah swt return your duas to u.
Allahumma ameen sis
1, people pleaser 2,disrespecting parents 3,din and ikhlaq 4,there company,are they able to commit haraam relationship before marriage,
Thanks a lot for providing such valuable contents 😊😊😊❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏👍
You are most welcome 🤗
This vedio is very helpful to choose a right life partner bcoz nowadays marraiges are just for show so this are the main points to choose a right partner inshah allah protect us and choose a right person
Amen ya Allah
This is outstanding..
Much love to guys
Plz be dropping the episodes in two's... We want to know how Mr. Paul can handle this case .
جزاک اللہ خیرا کثیرا ❤
Also, their relationship with TIME & MONEY. How judicious they are about spending these. If they waste their own limited time & money then they will waste yours as well... so that you cannot entrust anything on them and gradually find yourself lonely.
And whether they can prioritize relationships or not. As we know, all relationships do not need equal access and attention. Ability to say NO is important to focus on new family-building.
Tabaraka Allah
Marriage by itself is already a big Red😅 flag. If you keep this in mind, nothing that is coming late will chock us. It’s just by doing our best to ourselves and to our spouses that inshallah bahakah is always inside home. 😊😌
Ma sha Allah
Alhamdulillah
Jazak Allah Jazak Allah.
A lot of people when you are looking at this list don’t just think of it in regards to who you marry but who you are when getting married
It’s a good list for the character we should have
Thanks for enlightening me
"Akhlaq" was miswritten as "a clock"
Aamiin Allah Humma Aamiin
What u say here is not all true.. My husband is highly religious (never misses a namaz or missed roza since age 8) n lives like a Mutavva.. Unfortunately our elder son is jst the opposite.. No salaat, no fasting no fear of Allah & has now taken to alcohol. 😢😢😢😢
You should make dua for your boy, give charity, he will change in shaa Alloh. Remember Imam Al Bukhary was blind, his Mother made dua for him, gave charity, then he started to see again Subhanolloh.
May Allah guide him aameen
May Allah guide him ❤🙏🏼
Sometimes bad company can override parents upbringing. Don’t be quick to blame your husband/yourself just yet. Look at your son’s friends, who is he hanging out with?
Can someone please share the original link to this podcast or can you let me know who this mufti is?
MUFTI MANK
Maybe I’m the red flag 😔
You can work on it
First thing is realization which is very important and that is a good sign then we can definitely work on it and improve slowly and ask Allah
Be gentle with yourself
Yeah but if you are not a red flag in the Christendom that doesn't work either 😂
I feel you 😢
Asalamualkum I come across this video please how can I link you please
If someone needs advice from you sir how can they contact you please!?
SUBHANALLAHI WABIHAMDIHI, Astaghfirulla.
Thank you ❤
You are welcome
Now you MUST work on it
Sooo differents unuques young women and who Estlyyyyy Estlyyyyy E is other wey around.familyyyy thenthen SELFSELF
What if i have two men and every has one charater what can l choose
Aamiin
I am also the red flag main apne parent ki bohut disrespect karti hon
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I want counseling Plz help me
Google islam marriage counseling muslim
Who is the speaker here
I think Nouman Ali Khan
It's not Ustad Nouman Ali Khan
Because of red flags that I was look on everyone I remained single in my 28 age
Is this mufti menk's voice?
Yes it is
No it’s not, it’s a different speaker
I don't understand. They say its haram to interact with them before marriage. And also we have to look after for every points here. And is it possible to find a person with alll this qualities?
Once someone finds a potential partner, they have to let someone know so that he/ she can be approached thru the family. If both party agrees, then they can meet with each other in the presence of someone else from the family. Like you and your potential partner meeting in a coffee shop or restaurant or at home, and talked and get to know each other but someone nearby has to be present. In this way you can meet as much as you want with a few restrictions of the topics you can talk.
@@goldmist_1216 Sadly People Lie too. So you cannot really know them just by "Talking"
@minhalabbas6901 You will find people spending 25 years together and they still dont know each other. Are there cases where people in relationship, gets to know each other and after 5 years of relationship they break up? Yes. Are there people who gets married in 6 months yes.
You will never know a person, but that does not mean you wont get married to anyone. The key is to use your judgement, and by "talking" you get to know their intentions, their moral and value. How close they are to Allah SWT. And above all, you keep the faith in Allah SWT. When it comes down to getting hurt by people in this world, people will always do that and even if there is nothing you did wrong. Thats why we should pray to Allah SWT to detach our heart from this duniya. Believe in Allah's decree, have trust in him, use your own judgement, make Dua to Him for a righteous spouse. If you are doing the things right way, even if things fall apart, you will have the peace in mind.
@@goldmist_1216 thanks I really needed to hear this.
@@goldmist_1216Beautiful and true words ❤
A religion of confusion & contradictions.
He is red but I am redder 🤦♀️
That sounds and looks like hell
Asalamu alaykum warahmatullah. Thank you do much for the insight. May Allah make this as an ujjah for and not against us on the day of resurrection. Ameen.
My question is. Is genotype compatibility a prerequisite for marriage in Islam?
For example
If a girl or boy married a nonmuslim,after marriage he/she got hidayah,in that situation what he/she can do.
He/she should left his husband/her wife
Or we have to pray alllah to give hidyaaa..
Because they love each other thats why they married,But after marriage he/she got to know value of allah.
In that situation what will be the good advice.
First, It's forbidden for a Muslim woman to marry non-Muslim. Second, as the sheik has said, you should choose a Muslim woman over a non-Muslim one. A Muslim woman is the one who will be able to properly raise proper Muslim children.
1. She is not a virgin
2. She is not a virgin
3. She is not a virgin
4. She is not a virgin
5. She is not a virgin
6. She is not a virgin
7. She is not a virgin
8. She is not a virgin
What happens when you have an arrange marriage and he only keeps up his pretending for a few months? Then you get married and learn everything he said was lies, he has committed zinnah hundreds of times and all this pretending of deen was a false image? What then? You can do all your background checks but you will never know until you marry.
Thats why its recommended to pray salat istikhara b4
Name of speak please
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