Matthew I was diagnosed only 3 years ago. I thought it was a curse but in the end its a gift. I now think its my superpower and I'm also unstoppable. Only problem there is not any help where I live here in Canada, I've exhausted every avenue with know help. Even Autism Canada, another story for another time. I do not bash any organization but little help for later diagnosed. I haven’t met anyone like me with three savants and I'm misunderstood most times because the neurotypical world is of normal and I'm not at all which I love about myself. I'm learning to be authentically autistic any suggestions? Bailey
Hi Bailey. My sincerest of apologies for taking this long to get back with you; my work is morning to night most days. Anyway, the following is merely a summary of my suggestions and I hope it helps in some way: my main encouragement is to maintain belief in yourself and to acknowledge your values; find (or continue) with what your passions are (what's going to fill you with joy), knowing that they can be of good contribution to this world, whether it's singing or other talents. One of the big things, however, is coming to terms with the diagnosis and its pros/cons; as you said, in the end, it's a gift. Therefore, we need not hide Autism and pretend to be neurotypical; I personally think that neurotypicals should know and recognize our struggles upfront so that they can treat us how we want to be treated. Again, that's my summary and I hope it helps in some way. Have a blessed weekend :)
@matthewkenslow722 it would be nice if my partner accepted my difference and learn how it's hard for me to communicate my emotions or change my wording for his understanding. He does or won't do either. It can be hard but I go to my higher power the Lord for guidance. I'm a children's book writer unpublished yet but in time I hope, money is hard to come by to do of such. It's interesting how you chose singing to talk about. I love music and singing is another passion I do. I hope I will not have fear and move on with my life without people whom choose not to accept me. I am to the point of letting people know in my life if they don't accept me for whom I am then I vacate the relationship but still I'm respectful but I don't indulge anymore by over sharing or over caring. I haven't gone to this point with him as of yet. I'm working on me and I will get to the point of where I need to go and find my purpose through the Lord.
@@matthewkenslow722 glad we are friends! You inspire me each day with your videos and posts. Btw you are really a talented piano player! Keep up the good work Matthew; I’ll follow you along the way.
@@christopherdavidholmberg1336 Thank you so much. I feel blessed in knowing that you enjoy my videos/post and my piano playing. Just took a lot of practice :) I appreciate your support.
Well explained Matthew
Thank you :)
Matthew I was diagnosed only 3 years ago. I thought it was a curse but in the end its a gift. I now think its my superpower and I'm also unstoppable. Only problem there is not any help where I live here in Canada, I've exhausted every avenue with know help. Even Autism Canada, another story for another time. I do not bash any organization but little help for later diagnosed. I haven’t met anyone like me with three savants and I'm misunderstood most times because the neurotypical world is of normal and I'm not at all which I love about myself. I'm learning to be authentically autistic any suggestions?
Bailey
Hi Bailey. My sincerest of apologies for taking this long to get back with you; my work is morning to night most days. Anyway, the following is merely a summary of my suggestions and I hope it helps in some way: my main encouragement is to maintain belief in yourself and to acknowledge your values; find (or continue) with what your passions are (what's going to fill you with joy), knowing that they can be of good contribution to this world, whether it's singing or other talents. One of the big things, however, is coming to terms with the diagnosis and its pros/cons; as you said, in the end, it's a gift. Therefore, we need not hide Autism and pretend to be neurotypical; I personally think that neurotypicals should know and recognize our struggles upfront so that they can treat us how we want to be treated. Again, that's my summary and I hope it helps in some way. Have a blessed weekend :)
@matthewkenslow722 it would be nice if my partner accepted my difference and learn how it's hard for me to communicate my emotions or change my wording for his understanding. He does or won't do either. It can be hard but I go to my higher power the Lord for guidance. I'm a children's book writer unpublished yet but in time I hope, money is hard to come by to do of such. It's interesting how you chose singing to talk about. I love music and singing is another passion I do. I hope I will not have fear and move on with my life without people whom choose not to accept me. I am to the point of letting people know in my life if they don't accept me for whom I am then I vacate the relationship but still I'm respectful but I don't indulge anymore by over sharing or over caring. I haven't gone to this point with him as of yet. I'm working on me and I will get to the point of where I need to go and find my purpose through the Lord.
Matthew I’m your friend ! I hope you make many more ! 😊❤love, -Chris
Thank you so much, Chris, for your friendship.
@@matthewkenslow722 glad we are friends! You inspire me each day with your videos and posts. Btw you are really a talented piano player! Keep up the good work Matthew; I’ll follow you along the way.
@@christopherdavidholmberg1336 Thank you so much. I feel blessed in knowing that you enjoy my videos/post and my piano playing. Just took a lot of practice :) I appreciate your support.