Leave your wife without a fight, and get a place to stay, start a new life and quit the job to protect your manhood and God and your ancestors will provide u with a better income, but if u continue working there and with the wife, u will never find peace ever, be a man and stand your ground as a man and u will teach other man out there.
Eysh my brother i know kubuhlungu kona bt u have to do a big decision for urself... sukwenza lutho, take ur time act like everything is normal untill you are ready nam ngkwello
Umfo wethu yinkinga le ahlangabezana nayo and ifuna isibindi nobulumko bokuthi a confront umama ukumxelela ukuba uyayaz into ephakathi kwakhe no boss then then bese uyaphuma endlin apho ahlala nomfazi khona amshiye umfazi azihlalele kodowa angawuyeki umsebenzi wona ade u boss amgxothe ahlukane yena nomfazi kufuneka isibind
Host should avoid complaining and saying he's young and can't understand, how will more people come to ask for help from you but you know nothing because you're young . Lungisa Bhuti.
Easy way just a devoce my brother I know it's not easy but it will help at end of the day no need to confront her or ask just devoce cause she will know you found out
Confront your wife about this in order to get a relevant answers bro, is no longer a secret at all, it was happening behind you're back, I can feel a hard pain that you're, you can't leave it like, at the end, you're the one who need closure, be a strong man, remaining silent will hurt you beyond.
My brother leave her ,once you forgive her still you gonna have those memories, for you to have a peace of mind am advising you that you need to start a new chapter am move on, your happiness comes first
Yazi yenza njani thola indawo umama unga mtsheli wakhe uchede unga mtsheli then leave her please because i believe kuthi your mental health is much important shem bhuti
Bhuti wami ungamhluphi ngokulala naye cos usuyalazi iqiniso, just relax,uqhubeke nokusebenza imisebenzi ayikho,uthule engathi awazi lutho,hola ubeke imali ungayimoshi,uqhubeke nokuzenza islima,umshiye ngeskhathi enganakile,uqonywe futhi khona uzoba happy
Leave your wife without a fight, and get a place to stay, start a new life and quit the job to protect your manhood and God and your ancestors will provide u with a better income, but if u continue working there and with the wife, u will never find peace ever, be a man and stand your ground as a man and u will teach other man out there.
Bafo myekele nomake uMcuphe😮yey sekmele ngithemb. Bani
Very painful story
You are young but you so mature, yebo we can tell ukuthi you are young here and there but you are doing fine , iba ngumkwenya womtanami phela kkkk
Mcuphe umfazi indoda ikhukhumale amasende umshiye lomfazi
Emva kokunkanta kukamphathi wohlelo, udaba lube seluyaqala ngo2:36
Hay wendoda mkeyeke kodwa ungalwi naye ngoba uzokubopha. Shiya nje nge peace mfo...
Jwaze kwabuhlungu ukusokola😢😢
Woza ngikunikeze umuthi wokumcupha for freeee
Bafo inumber yakho
Nami ngyawufuna bhuti ngifuna ukucupha lendoda
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@@NcamiCeleste😂
Yabona kunzima langaphandle😢niFebelani niShadile mxmm xosha leNja
Uzothi akamshiye uMkakhe kanti nomfazi wakho bamudla scoon!
Eysh my brother i know kubuhlungu kona bt u have to do a big decision for urself... sukwenza lutho, take ur time act like everything is normal untill you are ready nam ngkwello
Ngomzimba we female yonke into iyenzeka bendi ngazi umntu ongu mama uyakwazi ukuwu sacrifice for kuqasheke umntu wakhe
Kufuna uthathe iqhumo ezinzima kodwa ungali ngoba uzophelelwa umusebenzi thola umuntu wesintu
Ayi abantu besifazane bahamba phambili manje ngobufebe ave sibaphoxa abantu abasithandayo sifuna laba abazodlala ngathi sorry bhuti yibastrong noma kunzima
Mina bengingathi cupha lomfaziwakho ndoda Mcuphe le manenger khona izokaka yerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr gha
Kungenzeka umama waphushwa ukuthwala kanzima ebheke ikhaya yedwa wayezamela umyeni wakhe umsebenzi kubuhlungu ukuba nendoda engasebenzi angisho ukuthi wenza kahle bhuti ngicela wehlise umoya uhlale phansi no mama uzwe ukuthi kwenzakalani then beşe niyakhulumisana lf esethanda umphathi file for divorce in peace kodwa ungawuyeki umsebenzi uyayidinga Kakhulu imali uma nilungisa izinto Yekani umsebenzi bobabili nithathe imali niqale ibhizinisi niqale kabusha pls ungavumeli inhliziyo bhuti wami think about it
Yehlisa umoya uphuze amanzi, bese uhlala naye phansi umkakho nilukhulume udaba. Uzomuzwa ukuthi umkakho ungalaphi, bese uthatha isinqumo, noma ungamxolela, kodwa uma nisasebenza laphayana, nisadlala amagenda. Ukuba yimi bengizokwesula emsebenzini ngifake isehlukaniso, ngiqale kabusha impilo yami. UNkulunkulu uhambisana nabahlukumezwayo futhi abakhalayo, uzowuthola omunye umsebenzi uma uthandaza. Emva kweminyaka emithathu uzoba usukwelinye izinga, sondela kuNkulunkulu.
What an adviser yhoooo
Hlisa umoya mf2.uqhede umtshele umakoti wakho ukuthi usuyazi ngaye nomphathi wakhe ukuthi kwenzakalani ungalwi naye .uqede umtshele ukuthi uyamkhulula akaqhubeke naye ngomoya okhululekile
Kulikhuni, akuzoba lula akuzoba mnandi, kumele uqale kabusha, if umxolela, mxolele ngampela if ungamxoleli, ungenzi kabi, unezingane, uma kungakhulumeka nazo khuluma nazo, uzazise isnqumo sakho, nokuthi uyazithanda, for zona, mshiye emzini wenu, ufune enye indawo uqale impilo kabusha, ukukhohlwe wuye, izingane impilo yazo ikuNkulunkulu ayikho kuwe, myekele adlale indima yakhe, wena focus yekela ukuzizwisa ubuhlungu ngokucabanga kade ngalento ne relationship yenu as umkakho, ngeke ukushintshe osekwenzekile, futhi akukusizi ukucabanga ngakho nokukulwisa ngeke kukusize, uyindoda wamshada or wamthatha, kusazokwenzeka baningi ababuka ithuba kuwe🤗
Well said❤
Hambofuna ilumbo lokukhingqelana njengezinja,ukuze bakphendule bexhumene boy2 ukuth y bekwenza nje
Yey siyadlala ngeyngane zabantu thina bafazi kodwa sofa nini amadoda aphumule😢
Sho uphinde cc
Shiya lomfazi umbekezelele I manager until uthole omunye umsebenzi, awkwazi ukuyeka umsebenzi awtholakali
Wena bafo uvele ukhulume wedwa isikhathi eside lokho kwenza uhlelo lubhore
Kuze kuphele u2mins aingeke
Alakhulumi we Jehova
Best thing is to.walk out
Mmmm kwaze kwanzima bhuti wami ngyakzwela😭😭
Cupha lenja mfwethu
yho kubuhlungu bt myeke uqhubeke wena usebenze ngoba uzokwenzenjani ngoba uzophela umsebenzi bese wenza njani
Mitshele umama ukuthi Suyaz umphathi akaxoshwe ngoba usebenzisa Amandla okuphathA ngendlela ewrong ungamlahli umama enzela izingane akahambe aye Kubo abusye nenhlawulo akahlawulele ukuthi ungene esbayeni sakho
Khunbulhongo chemi sorry 💔💔💔
Cupha lomama kulimale leyanja busumyeka emva kwalokho
Muchuphe mese uyaphuma uyohlala wedwa.ubebeka umunye umsebenzi.
Noma iyiphi into ongathi uzama ukuyenza bazohlangana ngawe bakuxoshe. Wena ibe ubheka owakho umuntu. Sebenza lapho ufihle imali yakho uyqokelele ukuze uzokwazi ukuvula ibhizinisi masushiya lomsebenzi ongcolile. Ungamcuphi ngoba uzothi uyamcupha avele afe awdingi ukukhipha isdumbu cabangela unembeza wakho. Khipha lesfebe enhliziyweni kusazophileka. Usyeke futhi ungabe usalala naso. Mtshe le ukuthi ufuna ukusave imali for a business akenze izinto zasendlini. Ithi ingaba ningi loyomali umtshele ukuthi uqoliwe ihambe yonke lomali. Qoqa yonke imali ezakuwe ube iqola. Ubuye uzongbonga mhla uphumelele.
Uyacabanga kodwa ukuthi for sure memubuka umfazi wakhe endlini kuvele kuthi akafe.... UzoPretend kanjani nje.....abantu besifazane abavame ukuba good ekuzenziseni
Mmm kwaze kwanzima mmewethu😢
Cupha baba ngoba nishadile akuyona intombi vale umlomo ungambuzi lutho mamA
Thola intombi yayo lendoda or umfazi wayo ujole naye if akanamfazi zama ukuthola noma umama wakhe or sister wakhe.
Separation is the best way to go for now just to find yourself and figure out what to do next
Ungamcupha bhuti ngoba umfaz wakho aksiyi girlfriend ang understand why abantu besfazane befeba beshadile
Ngicela ukubuza akengithi usungicuphile makwenzeka ushona ke kshuthi mina makufa wna angeke ngisaqoma ngba ngisaba ukthi ungicuphile
Mcuphe.wena please from mpumalanga cupha unemali mosi
Cupha umfazi ikake lomananger
😂😂😂
Bafo ungabe usabuza lutho ngoba induna iyamudla vele,wena nje zitholele uNdlunkulu ekubeni unaye futhi usebenza 50/50
Kulemishato yabafazi abasebenzayo kuhlala kunamahliphi hliphi njee wokukunkantuka kwabafazi
Nawe uwubhanana njee ufakwa umkakho emsebenzini sukaa awuqinanga tuuu
Part 2 plz
Yekela baba lomuntu wesmame qhubeka nempilo..mubuze umshiye uryt loh okwazisile kuwumuntu onobuntu..wenzekahle CZ bekobanini uyisilima😮😮😮ngajabula ukuthi uytholile thatha iskhathi ubuzisfebe
Situational problem
Ngiyazwelana nawe mde2😢
Ungawuyeki umsebenzi uma usamthanda mcuphe
Thola omunye umsebenzi ushiye konke unake izingane.
Mf2 kuhle uthule uvele umcuphe uma usumbanbile futh uthule ungakhulum lutho
Ubafo akahlukane nalomfazi ngoba isisekelo samanyala asilungile
Ayyy senishutha eskhotheni kanje 😢😢😢😢sekuphele izindawo yini bantu be Nkosi 🤣🤣🤣😂Wuuuuuuu kanti konakelephi ngobu FEBE BACUPHE BHUTI UZITHULELE BAZOKUDINGA AFTER SORRY BHUTIZA KUBUHLUNGU 💔💔💔
Sengqedwa eyesikhotha😂🤣😂🤣😂
Mfw2 mcuphe lomfazi uzithulele ungakhulumi kakhulu Impilo izoqhube
Iwisdom wehost ayiyi ngemnyaka ifumaneka kuJehova nghlez ngkuzwa Ubalisa ngalento Musa ukzeya ube uvele unikwe lomsebenz uthenjiwe ngeznpilo zabantu
Cupha umfazi mfowethu, ife i manager after that ushiye isifebe
Bhuti phuma kunondindwa uphephise impilo yakho muyeke bafo uzoba ryt mani😢😢
Mcuphe bhuti sikhathele abantu abashadile aba ngena smilo
Lalela uma kuwumfazi mcuphe uvale umlomo, fonela u Dr 2+2 ukhona la ku TH-cam
I'm so sorry my brother 😢.
Uxolo mfowethu kodwa ungazibulali andazi ukba ndingathini kodwa ungalinge umbulale, nawe uzibulale apho ndiyakucela
Umfo wethu yinkinga le ahlangabezana nayo and ifuna isibindi nobulumko bokuthi a confront umama ukumxelela ukuba uyayaz into ephakathi kwakhe no boss then then bese uyaphuma endlin apho ahlala nomfazi khona amshiye umfazi azihlalele kodowa angawuyeki umsebenzi wona ade u boss amgxothe ahlukane yena nomfazi kufuneka isibind
Hey niqulathe lukhulu kunjawunje ~
Komele ungibonge bafo ngokuthiphisa😢
Host should avoid complaining and saying he's young and can't understand, how will more people come to ask for help from you but you know nothing because you're young . Lungisa Bhuti.
Ukucupha umfazi ikhona okungcono kodwa inzima ngoba Uma usumcuphile uyafa kunzima khona
Easy way just a devoce my brother I know it's not easy but it will help at end of the day no need to confront her or ask just devoce cause she will know you found out
makenze umuzi omncane ecaleni, athule asebenze enzengathi akaboni
Im sorry to say ukucupha kuhle when comes to such matters
The please tell about easy bet I want to be in but I don't know what is it?
Kungcono amyeke ngeke kusalunga abaqhubeke akathole omunye
Manje kufuneka ngidlale nga malini.mine ngifuna mali enkulu phela
Look fo another job walk out and look after your kids life goes on
Bafo ngyazi kubuhlungu kakhulu kodwa ukuze uzokhululeka kahle impilo yakho yonke muyeke cz mawungaphoqa uku qhubeka naye ukuphumula ngeke ukuthole enhlizwe yakho
Confront your wife about this in order to get a relevant answers bro, is no longer a secret at all, it was happening behind you're back, I can feel a hard pain that you're, you can't leave it like, at the end, you're the one who need closure, be a strong man, remaining silent will hurt you beyond.
Ndoda, vele uphushe fast uzame ukuzihlanganisela owakho umsebenzi mfwethu, ngoba mzukwaneuyiveza lendaba ukuthi uyayazi, umfazi uyoxoxela iManager mase iyakuxosha noma ikusebenzise kabi... Vele uhlanganise owakho mase uyaphuma kulomuntu ngoba ungaze uvuke ulala ngelinye ilanga umenze into eyokufaka ejele impilo yakho yonke
Shiya mfazi qhubeke nomsebenzi.
Inkinga uzoxoshwa mhlawumbe
Mfethu don't do anything bad just divorce this woman n move on
Mcuphe wakithi mcuphe uthule duuuu uzozibona yena
Ay my brother ukhuluma kakhul let guy finish the story ay wena uyabheda njena
Bhuti wami isimo lesi engingasifiseli ngisho isitha sami
hlukana nesifebe bafo ngoba ngeke uxole uyohlala une anger ugcine wenze okubi uboshwe.
Ungawuyeki wona umsebenzi ngase ufumane umntu nawe uqhubeke usebenze inqabile imisebenzi umjonge nje njengoba naye ekwenza isibhanxa uyeke only xa ufumene omnye
Chupha umkakho wena ife inja ungawuyeki umsbenzi
Saze savelelwa labafazi abangenasmilo odoti laba
Beka imali uzenze isdididi sabo uchuphe lowakho umfazi. Ingathi ungazi umfazi wayo lendoda udle yena nawe. Zibendala zombini qha
My brother walk away she will regret try to find another job coz you can't enjoy that live
Cape town imingenyawo
Easybet
Okungenzeka ukuthi naye ukwenze lokhu ngb efuna umyeni wakhe asebenze ngibona kufanele ambuze kuqala umama amkhuze alandele mabengayeki Mcuphe
Your wife betrayed you. Leave her and the job. Start afresh and put your trust in God.
Wahlulwa into elula kangaka bafo cupha lomfazi
Kahleni bo amcupheleni ngobumfakemsebenzin ubhut akalungise umuzi wakhe ahlale nomfazi wakhe umfakemsebenzin nje noba ayi nami angisazi ngiphelelwa amazwi
My brother leave her ,once you forgive her still you gonna have those memories, for you to have a peace of mind am advising you that you need to start a new chapter am move on, your happiness comes first
Mcuphe bafo uqinise muzi wakho ungalwi futy wena yehlis Moya uzakhele muzi wakho ungahlulwa mshado wakho bafo
Iyahlulkumeza lendaba yakho mfo, kodwa umshado wakho uphelile, ufile futhi ayikho into ozoyilungisa ngesifebe, nami ngafetshelwa uma wengane siphezu kwezinhlelo zomshado,
Ncese bafo😢
Mcuphe ukuze bafunde isfundo
Wembunti muncuphe kuyokusiza lokho
Hhayi kunzima madoda mfake ilumbo uthule phansi ngoba ukube anizele ngabe ngithi mshiye kodwa zama ndoda wakhe umuzi wakho
Kodwa mfo emabibini? Manje inkinga uyenza seyaziwa etohhweni ngangiyezwa ukuthi webela umuntu okude
Yazi yenza njani thola indawo umama unga mtsheli wakhe uchede unga mtsheli then leave her please because i believe kuthi your mental health is much important shem bhuti
Mina bhuti wami ngizokucebisa ngobuhlakani ungambuzi lutho futhi ungaphinde umenzelutho qhubeka nespani ungayeki ungaqali uhlukane naye ungatatazeli ubeke imali bese ezwe kuthiwa uyashada uqala impilo yakho kabusha nomunye umuntu wesfazane
Inkinga yalokho angambulala nokumbulala ke.manje, impilo yabhuti isengozini, and akulula ukuzenzisa ngalesimo