FINANCIAL INDEPENDENCE ADVICE EVERY MUSLIM GIRL NEEDS TO KNOW
ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 19 พ.ย. 2024
- Asalamu'alaikum all. In this video I give important tips on how to become financially independent as a Muslimah.
I hope you all enjoy the video and it leads to you taking action in the positive direction.
This was a requested video so insha'allah it serves the purpose intended.
Below are the links to the sites mentioned:
DISCLAIMER: Fear Allah and only resort to claiming benefits if there is a genuine need. There will be no blessings in money that has been earned unlawfully or through lies!
1. UK GOVERNMENT FINANCE SUPPORT www.govukbenef...
2. UK GOVERNMENT DEBT HELP nationaldebtad...
1:1 Mental Health & Relationship Coaching for Muslim Women- Contact Me: nafisaspearlz@gmail.com
Contact me
nafisa's pearlz@gmail.com
Follow me on instagram @Nafisa's Pearlz
The winners of the challenge will be anounced soon. I had a lot of entries so bear with me.
Nafisa's Pearlz we understand sister btw the msg of the video is Beneficial for everyone as it has good precautions in life.
I totally agree with you that we must be selfdepended at least to the point where we can handle the life.↗️seeking Allah azawajal's guidance..😊.
إِنْ شَاءَ اللَّهُ
Allah will bless every one n help everyone to be in good state of health and I'maan.Aameen ya Rabul Aalameen.
جَزَاكَ اللهُ خَيْرًا ❤️✅
Nafisa's Pearlz. AsSalamm Alakum dear sister I just want to say I love your videos. I just want to say that I agree if a woman should know how to save and buget , but I have a different view point on the woman contributing to the household. Now I say this as a mulsim women that has been married for 17yrs. I have seen that if a woman is constantly contributing to the household she becomes resentful toward her husband and does not repect him. If she works she should SAVE her money so just incase her husband leaves her or dies she will have savings
Nafisa's Pearlz please do make a video on budgeting Barak’Allaahu Feeki
Hi nafisa.. I love your content. Juz wanna add 1 thing plz do chk wid ur bank if u r not taking the interest money den where is it going. Sometimes they ll divert it to missionary or other nonislamic charity.i guess dere r video abt it on youtube.
2. You can also use interest amt to pay for your tax . If ur bank ll not cancel it n you also cant open current act.... Tkcr .❤
Omg, you have opened a conversation that needed attention, I agreed and urge all females before marriage to save, I will tell you my story; when I got married my husband only gave me a ring for mehr, I had everything I needed in my house, because I worked. A year into the marriage I had a baby, all my hours of sick leave I used up while, I was on maternity leave for 3 months, the sick leave only lasted for 1 month. I didn’t have savings as I relayed on my husband, but that’s when I realized my husband didn’t want to pay for everything, he just gave me 500, that’s not enough. 2 months later he told me he didn’t want to be with me and left me for a woman that “claimed” to be Muslim but doesn’t cover. I had to place my child to daycare and go to work. Don’t ever trust a Muslim make sure he is a believer, that fears Allah and knows your rights!!!!
Asma Idris subhanallah , sister your story really touched me may Allah help you to remain strong ans take care of your child give you health and happiness in your life. You totally nailed at it many people just marry because the man or the woman is "Muslim" well I would say that Muslims depending on their iman and taqwa have different levels and seeking for someone who truly love and fear Allah is the key.
Subhanallah. It's a sad reality sis. These things really do happen as you have said. May Allah continue to provide for you and your child. Don't worry, I think I remember putting a quote up that states that, Muslim women should read surah Mariam to realise that Allah doesn't need anyone to take care of you as a woman. If he desires, he will provide for you without their help as long as you make the effort. Thank you for sharing your story sis. I'm sure it will benefit a lot of people. Jzk
Not only Maryam’s story but also, Hajar, prophet Ismail’s mom, gave me the strength not trust no human beings but Allah. Just at their legacy, mentions in the Holy Quran and mentioned today, that’s the power it has! May Allah bless me the same way they were blessed, Ameen.
Stay strong sister... May Allah swt give you strength and sustainability to deal with this trial...
I am 22 but I am planning to get married to a slave of Allah, who fears Allah and is grateful... the person who fears Allah would never do injustice to me and who is thankful to Allah would always acknowledge his s wife's efforts..☺️
I believe sisters should learn how to code (web development and design). The tech industry is booming and we can work at our own schedule and not even have to leave the house. The pay is very good and you can avoid 9-5 jobs in an office. Be well sisters
/arttledsoulfindspeace great advice! If you have any personal experience with this, do you mind sharing? I've been thinking about it for a while now but need a push to get started!
Hey, yeah definitely worthwhile. Depends on what exactly you want to get into but I started off with front-end development which means building of websites and mobile responsive apps. So this means learning languages like HTML, CSS, Javascript and PHP. I also enjoy design so I got into something called UI/UX (User Interface design and/or User Experience design) which is great when you have web development knowledge. UX is very important and is very popular now. It's essentially two different job titles in one. I started off with youtube tutorials then I checked out online tutorials such as www.skillshare.com / www.udemy.com / www.codeacademy.com / www.codeschool.com etc. Finally I decided to go back to school for a more structured curriculum and the opportunity to network with other students and teachers. Alhamdulilah, it's been a great and fulfilling journey.
/arttledsoulfindspeace fantastic!! thankyou SO much for sharing, God bless!
Please suggest some job like this for me coz I have a toddler and can't go out and work.
I'm studying IT but I'm not sure if I know what I want to do.. I'm mainly concerned about the work opportunities. Working as a programmer in an office sounds really demanding and stressful. Freelancing on the hand seems intimidating. I struggle with my mental health so I think it's part of what's holding me back. I would really appreciate your prayers and advice♡
And yes for a budgeting video
Great advice mash aa Allah. What should a sister do when her husband-to-be demands money from her? Born and raised in France, I can tell you that a lot of brothers here want their wives to be co-providers, especially when they deal with educated sisters in their 30s like me. I’ve been turned down by a brother just because I refused to give him half my salary if we were to get married. And what’s more frustrating is the fact that these brothers keep on rejecting sisters of their age even more because they feel insecure and jealous. Also, I know some brothers who don’t allow their wives to work just because they can’t touch the money. Personally, I would not give my salary to a man. Men are qawamun period. But I completely agree with you when you say women are compassionate and can give part of their money to help. But to me if a woman starts paying bills or the rent on a regular basis, the whole concept of muslim family is being dismantled, which might create conflict and tensions within a marriage.
I think this issue is getting more and more problematic and visible in the ummah. Can you please make a video on this issue?
Chiara Lombardo I hear you, but I still believe what Allah swt ruled for men is for every situation and every era. Women should not work for men nor should they become full-time providers. Exceptions should be rare. Also keep in mind that a lot of sisters do not work.. peace
Blueend End agreed 100%. Unfortunately you married a monster. A lot of so called muslim men act this way. Salafi just by the looks, but when it comes to behaving like a real one.. but Allah sees everything... you will be rewarded for your patience. I hope that you will find your motivation back and build a new life for yourself. Trust me, even if you are broke, it’s just temporary and a test.. your ex is the only one to blame. Stand up and fight for your future. This is your jihad. And I feel like you’re a strong person mash aa Allah.
Subhanallah, the more I hear about unjust husbands, the more I think that my situation is not that bad.. I would be destroyed if I finally married a man who does not respect my rights.. I’m 35.. have been chaste and lonely for years. I prefer remaining this way than being with a man who demands my salary. And Allah is the greatest.
@@chiaralombardo8380 yes if you wish you can help! But your husband cannot demand your financially support! Only you can decide for it! And i dont think you would like to be with a male gold digger!
Fatima Noor Ahmad I wrote this comment a quite a while ago, and indeed now reading it again I don’t fully agree with myself. I still believe the expectation of the women shouldn’t be too high (restaurants and big house), but the men obviously has to provide and even if the wife works he should be the number one provider. Working for a woman is and should stay a choice, as you say!
@@chiaralombardo8380 I have no idea what you mean, i'm french, literally loads of people survive off only one income, also france has one the best welfare systems in the world.... in islam if a man isn't able to provide for a family he is supposed to wait to get married until he can and opt for fasting instead, if your happy to cooperate with a man who is asking for your salary prior to getting married you do you boo, but don't advise other people to to do something so stupid..
I feel like Muslim women forget about khadijah May Allah be pleased with her who was a successful business woman and used her wealth to help Islam! I'm motivated to work towards being like her💕
We aint forgetting her (r.a.) but here we are Muslimas running around thinking that Khadijah was out there mingling and doing businesses with random non mahram but aint that the case.
Isn't it interesting that she was a single successful woman BEFORE Islam, yet Muslims like to claim that Islam came to give women rights. In ancient Egypt a woman's testimony was EQUAL to that of men.In Egypt today it is not.
Subhan Allah you have such light in your face, it's so beautiful mashaa Allah....❤ I'm struggling with my Iman, but when I'm watching your videos I feel so different.
They kind of remember me how Allah (swt) loves us and how almighty and merciful Allah (swt) is... (but as we know just Allah (swt) puts these feelings in us, and let us remember him) Allahu akbar....
You're very inspiring, and just sooo pure... 😊💕 May Allah bless you and the whole Ummah with the best in this life and in the next one inshaa Allah ☝❤
Just wanna say thank you and please keep going with your channel💕
oh my goodness, nobody covers these topics, and they're so crucial !!! God bless you, best topic yet!! 👏👏👏👏👏
Amal Adrs Thank you 😉✌
God bless you too
Amal Adrs YESS‼️‼️
Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu....
I hope everyone's in good health and imaan....☺
I'm so desperate to be financially independent. Though i'm a B.Tech and MBA graduate i have never worked before.
Now i have a kid, in sha Allah he'll turn 1 this December. Alhumdulliah😊😊
I just can't leave him alone, i have watched many work from home jobs but i still lack proper direction, mentor, adviser....basically long story shot i wanna make something for myself but donno what to and how to!
If your bank is not willing to stop paying interest on your savings account, I would recommend opening up a secondary checking account and use that as your savings account.
I second this. I have two current accounts. One for everyday finances and one for savings. That's the one I also intend to calculate my zakah from as well, InShaaAllah
Nura Mohamed. Another alternative would be to give the interest money to charity, otherwise giving back the money to the bank is like feeding fuel to the fire.
@@fahima7492 I dont give interest money to charity,in my community,we take the interest and give to people who are constructing their houses.they use it to buy sanitary wares,meaning in constructing toilets.only toilets not other household stuffs.
Thank you sister I needed this
yeeey please do the budget video
May Allah guide us ... May Allah bless us with righteous a husband that can help n support us
Aminah A Ameen
Amen ya rabb
Masha Allah sister nafisa. Watching your videos make me so happy. May Allah reward you for your sadaqah tul jariyah.
mmustapha23 Aww, thank you. May Allah reward you too and thanks for watching
I'm working at home but it's really hard to make an income...inshallah Allah make it easy
noo noo Ameen. Don't worry keep working hard and maming dua for Allah's support. It will come insha'Allah
The first line, made me give it a like asap. I have been saying that to my girlfriends for the longest !!!!
This was great nafisa, women need this. A point I think you missed is zakat, many women leave to the men in their lives to sort it and don’t understand it at all, you should do a follow up and include this in shā Allāh ﷻ it would be really beneficial
May Allāh ﷻ reward you and grant you shifa Amīn x
mama bawili sister I don’t get your point..there is a difference between zakat and becoming a permanent female provider.. zakat is a plus and does not change the fact that men are qawamun, just like it’s not men’s duty to wear hijab or take care of a household.
Amazing video mashaAllah, I really appreciate the practical advices you give to live a good life without disobeying Allah. Thank you and sending you love all the way from Egypt
😊💕
great advice. thankyou for sharing
I'd love to see a budgeting video.
🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
Chandana Chandragini...I couldn't agree with you more. You say as it is. Allah bless you.
Salam Nafisa. Please make the how to budget video inshaAllah. I think it's a really good idea you brought up. x
Masha Allah, I can't express my mood as it is now Alhamdulillah this video is over a year, and I only saw it today am sure Allah direct me at the right time. Thanks very much my sister in Islam 🕋
great video like always. Thank you so much for the reminder. I definitively need a budget video 😅😅😅😘
Salam alaykum Nafisa, this topic on Financial Independence is very close to my heart. Thank you for sharing. I look forward to hearing about Muslim Women that have attained some level of financial success
Love u dear sister😘😘😘
Thank you for guiding us more into our religion.
Assalamu alaykum. Jazakallahu kheir for covering this important topic. Are there any books that explains the rulings on a woman's finances, please? My sister's husband only pays towards their baby and himself. He makes my sister pay towards herself and some household bills. It's not like they don't have any money. He works more than my sister but saves up his money to give to his two older sisters and his mum's business. My sister only works 10 hours a week.
Aziza K salam alaykoom, sister without knowing the full situation it is hard to give a good advice but as far as your sister's rights are concern, the husband has to provide for her needs and it is haram for a husband to not spend on his wife to the same level as himself , that being said maybe both sides agreed to that lifestyle, if the wife to not burden the husband agrees to not have him pay for everything she has or doing it is permissible with her consent, the husband cannot force her into that. I hope that was helpful , may Allah bless our homes, families and marriages salam alaykoom.
Wow that sad. She should demand her rights and go to a religious leader to counsel them, nothing breaks my heart more than men not caring for their wife. It’s so common smh!
Amira L My sister is very shy and allows her partner to take advantage in every aspect of their marriage. But Djen Diabate raised some important advice above. I need to ask my sister if she agrees to not being supported by her husband and forced to pay towards expenses. If not, then I can direct her to seek help from an Islamic society etc. Otherwise, I'll just continue praying for her and the ummah. Jazakallahu kheiran to both of you for your kind help.x
Aziza K well if she agreed to it before it happened that’s fine. But if it was forced on her and then she agrees to it it’s still something haram being done to her and that breaks my heart. 💔 I’m struggling with standing up for myself too but if we don’t learn to do this our life will be people running over us and sadness. May Allah help us all!
Amira L Ameen. The brother made so many promises to my sister prior to getting married- they all do!!. But after, his sister wanted her house back. So my sister had to look for another house, and is paying for most of the bills. The sad thing is he never carries money. So if my sister wants anything from the shops, he'll ask her for the exact amount. Wallahi, I keep telling my sister to seek knowledge because Islamic knowledge will empower her so much. Women are given so much rights in Islam but different cultures make us forget our rights. I pray Allah gives you ease and relief in your circumstances, ameen.
MashAllah! Big thumbs up, this is truly golden advice 😢 BarakahAllahufeeki Nafisa, really I am so grateful!! 😭💛
May Allah reward you soo much and may He open all your doors.
I truly love you for the sake of Allah ♡... btw the beginning had me cracking up 😂👌
Lalla Fatima Ameen. Thank you and may Allah grant you the best of both worlds too.
Yes please do a budget video too! JazakAllah khair! This is such a great and useful video
Ma sha Allah- very informative, pls do upload a video on budgeting. Jzk- Allah bless you with more knowledge and reward you for the knowledge you pass on to others. Aameen x
Famida Shaikh Ameen. May Allah reward you too
All your videos are very beneficial to me Allhamdulillah
Shafeeqah Badrudin Alhamdulilah sis
Very much needed topic! Jazakillahu kheiran ya ukhty Nafisa
Very much needed pieces of advice and eye opener.one advice that I really liked is dont feel so comfortable in this dunya that you forget your akhirah.
Salam Nafisa, tank you so much for the beautiful and beneficial content on your channel! May Allah bless it and bless you!
I would like to add something really important: We have to pay zakat, which is an absolute must for every muslim who has a certain amount of wealth (poor people obviously do not have to pay this). While Sadaqah is a charity, Zakat is an obligation and is 2,5 % of our money. It is one of the 5 pillars of Islam. I am not a financial expert to know any details about zakat, but every muslim should turn to someone knowledgable to know if he or she has to pay it or not and ask how and where to pay it.
Salam my dear sister,
You're soooo right in what you said. So helpful too. May Allah make you and all muslims successful in the two worlds. JazakaLlahou kheiran habibati. Lov u.
From France with love. 😘😘😘
And yes a video about budget will be very interesting. Llahi jazyk jannatul firdaws
Ameen. Jazakallahu khayran
Thank you for such an informative video I am sure this is going to be very useful for many of us sisters.
assalamualaikum sister Nafisa! you re such an inspiration for every muslim woman! may Allah grant you n ur family Jannatul Firdaus inshallah
Thank you so much for this video, can't wait to see a video on investing!!
Assalamu'alaikum Nafisa. Eversince I watched your videos, I've been trying to be a better muslimah. I've been following your advices such as listening to surahs when I'm travelling and following your morning routine 😅 So please make more videos!! 💖 - Fan from Singapore.
Marliana Rahman Thank you sis and God bless you xxx
Nafisa's Pearlz You replied!! God bless you too! 🙈♥
pls! do a budget video. your videos are very beneficial, i have improved in a lot of things since i started following you. like ma fajir prayers and living a single life.
Yes please make a "how to budget" video please
Thank you for speaking about this important topic Nafisa 🧡❤️
Jazak'Allah khayran sis for these video it was very helpful. Barak'Allahu feeki please make the budget video in sha Allah
very inspiring video jaazaak Allah ❤️
اللهم انا نسالك علما نافعا ورزقا طيبا وعملا متقبلا.
Jazakalaahu kheyr nafisa.
Wa alaikum as salam
U talked about bank account, so people in my family, i mean we always open a checking account also called current account in some countries, so no money is added to our account in any way...
And love ur videos, it seems like you say my feelings and thoughts...u r soooo like me..love you :)
Asc Nafisa my name is asiya, I start watching your videos a week ago, I want to tell you that I love you for the sake of allah, keep doing the good you doing, you are very intelligent young girl
﷽
Maasyaa allaah. I neeed house budgetting video ~ jazaakillaahu khayraa
Im here just to watch your glowing skin, sis... Masha Allah
I love all the videos that you post. So nurturing to the soul. You are inspiring and share full of wisdom.
About tax money going to housing, and such and such. In the U.S. I am not happy how the tax money is distributed to the poor. You see the system I am sure it's the same as UK...gives more and more money to the ones who make more and more babies. I am not a support of people (low educated people, specific groups) keep popping babies cuz they know they'll make more money. It's like they abuse the system and don't want to better themselves instead live for free in the government system. It's like why work when I can get free money. This is where my tax money is going. I know there are genuine poor people that needs the support. But most of the people ruin it for them.
Wa Alaykumus Salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu
Assalamu alaykum sister..... Yes please, a budget video would really help. Jazakhillahu khair❤❤❤
Nafisa😍 i'm from Germany and i love your videos they help me so much thank you may Allah bless you❤ Please make more Videos like this
Masha Allah, this was absolutely a needed topic sister and Jizaakilaahu qayr for taking time to make this video. So happy to hear and learn from you as always.❤💯😍😍
hoziz pretty aimer waiyakum. And thank you
Nafisa's Pearlz You are very welcome sister😊😊
Yes for the budgeting video
Asalamu alaikum.....❤️Love from India sister....!! Very informative video...please do video on budgeting..!!
I strongly agreed that women could work acudento their time plan right
Thank you for your value tips and jezaki allahu keiren
Jazakallah khair Nafisa so much. This is extremely insightful and helpful to me as well as many others. I would love it if you did a budgeting video IA!♡ May Allah bless you and your family always Inshallah. Alhamdullilah you are so sincere and make videos that are really beneficial for this generation.♥
MashAllha great advice thank u so much sister may ALLAH bless u and your family Ameen
Jamila mohamed Ameen
Budget video please. Very helpful video jazakAllah khair x
Assalamualaikkum sister.. I just wanted to say ur amazing.. masha Allah ur vedios r really worth..I love to watch them.
Rizana Rahman Thank you
Ma sha Allah awesome reminders sis, awesome channel. Jazaaki Allahu Khairan
Yes sis please do a vid on how to budget thanks.
Salam I have been enjoying so many nice video s from you continue
Mali Ajuwon walaikumsalam. Thank you
I always look for ur videos and its with joy my son one year alywas comes to kiss u in the screen much love from us kenyans in swiss
Very beneficial advices sister, thanks for conveying it to us.
You’re my biggest sister thank you for your content 🥰
Asalaamu’alaikum
JazakhaAllahu khayrun for sharing, very helpful.
I just watched 7 sec of the video and it become my favorite video😂❤❤ thank you
Assalamu Alaikum Nafisa! I would love to see a budgeting video from you!
I would very much appreciate a budget video insha'Allah
May Allah accept your efforts ameen
Love you sister for the sake of Allah May Allah reward you and bless you with everything your heart desire and put Baraka in it Ameen
JazakAllah Khairan for this encouraging video. This definitely inspired me ❤️
Thank you... Jazak Allah khair... I'm so glad you talked about this topic..
Salamu alaikum sis. Please if you can do the video on budget, it will be fine. Jazakum khairan. May Allah reward you.
May Allah bless you for all that you do!
Adila Aday Ameen
In my first marriage I never even looked at finances in worked very hard in my X's home taking care of his sick relatives, cleaning and cooking for everyone and taking care of my children. I was left in the cold after I asked for a divorce. Please earn some money while married and save some of it to stay safe if anything occurs. Thank Allaha I had a family take me in while I was getting myself financially independent. You would not think that would happen in America but no government agency was able to help me because I was not in a domestic violence case and the divorce was not final yet. I was so desperate I had a point I wanted to punch myself in the face just to get help. Please sisters no matter how much u love the man save anything u can .
Masallha jazakallah kairan
Yes I would like to watch your budget video😍
Jazaka'Allahu khairan the video. It's outstanding as usual. ❤👍
Beautifully quoted darling!!!! May Allah bless you 😍
Salams love your advice and a strong request for a budgeting video x
Thank u very much for a video on such an important topic. May Allah Subhana wa Ta'ala richly bless u
Aisha Tunis Ameen
Yes for a budgeting video ❤🌸
Jazakallahu Khayr
MashaAllah! Jzk Sister!
Absolutely amazing!
God bless you!
aaliya aaliya Thank you
Assalamu alaykum sister Nafisa thank you for covering this important topic. Just amazing. 😘
Salam, subhanAllah, you are so right, I just want to add, this is not only important for young women, also for someone like me whos children grown up Alhamdulillah and thinking what to do now when the children don't need their time as before! When they grow up they don't need our time but they need financial support for their education and I think it's too much to leave this burden for one alone (like the husband /father of the children)!
Mira Desnan I agree
As salamu alaykum ua rahmatuLlahi ua barakatuh my sister in islam ... )))
*_=▲)_*
Thank you for this lecture
jazakAllahukhairan
Walekum assalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh :)
im so so so so happy i found your channel alhamdulillah~!
may Allah bless you!
Looking forward to hearing the budget video ❤️🙏🏼
Jazak Allah khayir you have alot of useful advice!
I love you for the sake of ALLAH sister.
Jazakallah khair sister Nafisa this video is awesome thank you. Pls do make a video on budget.
Masha Allah i love ds vd sis. Will definitely share!
please do a video on budgeting