Chunkz is very logical, and he’s never looking for the room to agree with him he stand on what he believes but also open to listen to others. This man is elite!!!
0:16: 🏖️ Dreams about niece, beach club booth, fear of her falling into the sea. 6:33: 🌍 Chunkz and Filly's impactful trip to Kenya was incredibly fulfilling, focusing on giving back to those in need. 12:30: 🎬 Discussion on Bollywood and Nollywood entertainment, highlighting unique characteristics and favorite actors. 19:39: 📸 Discussion on how people may look different in real life compared to their pictures due to angles, grooming, and editing. 25:30: 🤔 Discussion on mistaken identity between Katy Perry and someone else, along with a humorous exchange about Spencer. 31:44: 🐻 Choosing between a man or a bear in a forest scenario, with a preference for safety and familiarity. 37:33: 🎥 Discussion about a failed attempt, confusion over a video, and a golf-related disagreement. 44:00: 💑 Exploring the concept of loving multiple people and different relationship dynamics. 50:11: 💬 Discussion on the possibility of being in love with more than one person and the concept of polygamy in Islam. 55:35: 💬 Discussion on involving spouses in purchases, using Mayweather as an example, and comparing celebrity relationships to everyday ones. 1:01:46: 💑 Discussion on love, lust, and relationships between men and women. 1:06:58: 💑 Discussion on compatibility and finding common interests in relationships. 1:13:08: 💖 Discussion on different types of love and judgment towards others' expressions of love. Recap by Tammy AI
Chunkz mentality snd thoughts are so manly and respectful. He articulates himself so well and is so protective over his thoughts and ideologies and religion ❤
28:10 the way he set the conversation straight RIGHT away. I love Chunkz. I love him, he’s so respectful, kind and thoughtful. Proud of him & his come up man
If it makes you feel better most normal men agree because we also would choose a bear maybe not all for the same reasons but still a bear would be a better choice than either a strange man or woman.
Tbh I agree and I ain’t begging it, if I was a woman I’d choose the bear. The worst man will always be way worse than the most evil bear and I wouldn’t want to take my chances
@@DrizzFizzlebeatza bear that is known to kill people is a better choice than a stranger? You walk past strangers every day constantly and for most people they are fine I don’t see anyone being around bears constantly and there’s a reason why bc why Tf would anyone be stupid enough to choose a bear over a man or human being
Sometimes it’s not about “what the woman has been through with a man specifically” women usually are very observant. And what I observe from a bear vs a man is wild. I expect one thing from a bear and thats an attack based off of the bear’s instinct to EAT AND SURVIVE.
@@alutamgobhozi9813 He used to be on True Geordie as his main wingman of sorts, I remember him from a few years back at the 1st Sidemen Roast but a lot of things have changed for him since then.
Love the pod! In christianity, God is love, which gives us the perfect example on how to love. In 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, it describes what loves is, love is choice not a feeling, in christianity the husband is meant to love his wife how Christ loved the church and "gave Himself up for her" (Ephesians 5:25) and the wives are meant to respect, honour and submit to their husbands accepting him for who he is. Love the fact that the pod can go from jokes to meaningful conversations, stay blessed
I love this podcast, I wish filly stood his ground on his view a little more he was on the money about the boxes being ticked and often makes very clear points. Big man you are as articulate as chunks and Lawrence, just a likkle view. ❤
Was worried about what would be said on the man vs bear debate. I appreciate that you've taken time to speak to the women around you and made it clear that its not something youre able to speak on. I'm grateful youre holding up men to the standard that they should be. Thank you :)
Can you please explain why a lot of women choose the bear? I don't understand it as a man. I ask out of pure curiosity. Are men in general really that bad? That you would choose certain death over being alone with them? That's really worrying for me as I didn't know how much women feared men. Again I would love to know your perspective as I want to educate myself. Nothing less nothing more
@@imaaduddin8758 The majority of the women who have put input within the man vs bear debate & choose the bear use their personal experiences and/or the experiences of other women to base off their answer. A lot of these experiences have to do with SA / SH, & the vile things that men have done & can be considered genuinely worse than death.
@@imaaduddin8758 The simple fact that men act in ways that animals don't treat their own scares us. Not all men, of course. It's crazy that we have to add that part.
i like at the end where lawrence was talking. about how him and his wife eventually meshed together & filly saying that his problem is that he is “….trying to find as many boxes ticked before he finds it serious” and i have that same problem currently, but this gave me such a great insight to stay more patient and not rush a soon to be amazing relationship
Asalamualaikum, chunkz this one is for you. I’m saying this because you’ve got a platform and a lot of people hear what you have to say especially when it comes to Islam. I really advise that you go and listen or read about the prophets life especially how he dealt with his wives. It is one of the most beautiful topics to see how amazing a man can be to multiple women. You will understand the possibilities behind it and why. You could also ask one of the many imams you know. Also yes, in Islam you aren’t encouraged to marry more than 1 but you are alllowed to if you have the means but especially if you can treat all of them right. If you can’t then you aren’t allowed to. It is really important to understand these topics and then be able to explain to the public because it is an amazing form of dawah. May Allah bless you
Can you please explain why a lot of women choose the bear? I don't understand it as a man. I ask out of pure curiosity. Are men in general really that bad? That you would choose certain death over being alone with them? That's really worrying for me as I didn't know how much women feared men. Again I would love to know your perspective as I want to educate myself. Nothing less nothing more
@@imaaduddin8758being alone with a bear: the bear is in its natural environment, he knows how to take care of himself and just be a bear yk. if u leave him alone he’ll most likely won’t see u as a threat and leave u alone. the worst that can happen is he can kill u. being alone with a man: he’s not in his natural environment so he might lose his mind and go insane. he can r*** u, s.a. u, force u to do things for survival bc again he’s not in his natural environment or he’ll do things to u. u could have the most traumatizing experience ever. moral of the story: the worst thing the bear can do is kill u but the man can also kill u. other than that the bear can’t really do shit but the man can do a bunch of terrifying shit.
@@imaaduddin8758 yes 90% of the men that have come into my life have harrassed me one way or the other and these are people i trusted with my life so yes men are that bad and women aren't stupid to be wary of a man
A bear would at worst kill you. A man could violate, degradate, torture, and humiliate you physically and mentally. Then if you survive you have to live with that as well as have other men say "She asked for it, look at how she dresses, talks, etc... I know some truly good men, yet I've also met some that scare the living daylight out of me. Often they exist in your inner circle, family too. Nowhere feels safe to a lot of women. We always have to be aware of who is around, it's a subconscious action to be on guard around men.
The way filly said “sounds like a diffehrehnt vidhideo da”, so quickly into the mic honestly had me floored. Poor guy literally just says what on his mind
This gotta be the dumbest shit I’ve ever heard, comparing the average man to the average bear 🤣 Other bears won’t taunt you, they’ll rip your arms from their sockets
If a bear attacks you and you survive what other people say won't really matter cause you'll be permanently scarred and suffer for the rest of your life
If you survive a bear attack you’ve most likely lost body parts or heavily scarred lol, I’d say that’s worse than having a few trolls questioning what you were wearing
No one will tick all your boxes. In marriage you learn about that person every day. They’re generally minimal glows and differences that you’ll have to adjust to. -Imagine role play in the bedroom. She likes when you initiate but at times you’ll like her to initiate without you telling. Love is a conversation that shouldn’t have differences nor a thought of what is it. Hence you have moments of heartache or even the word missed. Everyone’s mind is different because of upbringing… I don’t differ to how someone loves or would like to be loved.
omg the way I gasped I was watching an old video from the podcast and chunks was talking abt filly's toes so I went on TH-cam to check and saw you guys posted 🤣❤
I heard that mothers love to see their kids eat because it means they’re witnessing they are getting sustenance, i.e., maintaining good health. Health means life. So I think that’s a very honest place to start from. I think a deeep and honest love keeps the person on your mind so often that you wonder about small things like if they ate lunch. Obviously different types of love have severely different nuances. But I think it hard enough to understand yourself, that makes monogamy (attempting to fully understand another person as well) challenging. I don’t understand how a person can have the capacity to put that effort into multiple people. But again… the definition of what love is, is paramount to determine what a person is capable of.
as a woman, listening to this a thought crossed my mind. I feel like the love you have for your children, is a even bigger and greater love than the one for your partner, and somehow you can love all your children equally by loving each specific little detail about them, that makes the who they are. So in that mindset, I feel like this could be applied to multiple partners. I don't personally have children, but everytime someone I know is pregnant with their second, they always say how can I love someone more than my first, and somehow you heart makes room. Maybe I'm just bugging, because I'd hate for that to be true but some food for thought. your pod challenges my thinking wallahi, love from Italy. ❤
You definitely can and as a matter of fact, it is what polyamory is and you've used a good example with having children. another example would be having friends that you love all so much and differently. I'm not polyamorous but I know a bit.
I kind of disagree because the type of love u have for a child is miles different from the love you have in a relationship. one is a maternal love thats nutured for months until theyre united face to face whereas when you're in a relationship the love you have is almost like a soul partner (in an ideal world) in a sense the emotions are similar between the two because the bond is so deep and strong but I don't think they're the same, one was made from you (child) and one was made for you (your partner). In my opinion I don't think you can have true love for more than one person because I don't think men/women can handle it, for example if a man were to have 2 wives one would always get more attention and love because men have biases just like you said with loving a specific detail of a child, tbh we all know that mothers have preferences over their children it might not be a lot or a big difference but there are some traits in children that make them more desirable maybe because they're similar to her beause mothers have biases too cuz they're are human . In the long run one a relationship like that one 2 women would outweigh the other for many different reasons or just simply falling out of love
Love for your children and love for your spouse is two different kinds of love. You can't compare them. Your love for your children is maternal love, and the love for your spouse is a romantic love imo.
@@إخلاص16 it is not the easiest thing to wrap your head around but I don’t see how you can disagree with the existence of people as polyamory is definitely a thing and polyamorous people definitely exist. Maybe use the parallel of loving your closest friends equally, but differently, rather than maternal love if that makes more sense to you. Also, to address the point of falling out of love with one partner, though that is possible, it most times doesn’t have to do with polyamory and moreso, the people themselves as monogamous couples can also fall out of love with eachother independently of there being another partner or not. Hope this helps. Also, if you care for it, there’s tons of resources to help you understand better.
THE BEARRR 29:22 ALWAYS THE BEAR also thank you guys for not invalidating how women feel about this situation and also expressing their opinions in a respectful manner ❤️❤️❤️ also Lawrence we’ll choose the BEAR thanks 🤙🏽
new listener subsequently a new subscriber. From the dmV, US. Love the discourse and substance of the discussions. Great chemistry and flow within the banter. Wasn't expecting to be as hooked. Thank you for the content and discord
I love This podcast I’m always watching whilst doing course work for college my motivation for real inshallah FILY AND CHUNKZ bless me with a shopping spree 😂
i was so worried their opinions on the "man or bear" question would be insane but im glad they aren't absolutely terrible. and i hope they get to see more content that educates on why women would pick the bear.
i think that if u marry 2 wives u can "love' them both but ur obv bound to love one more than the other. kinda like how in every trio theres a bound to be a secret duo whether u like it or not
31:19 it’s more like the reason us woman would prefer the bear to the man is because if we were attacked by a bear we would be believed 100% rather than if we were attacked by a man we wouldn’t be believed and would be asked ‘well what were you wearing then’ plus woman can’t even go to the police to report things like that because of the amount of police officers who have assaulted women has gone up. We know the mindset of a bear not a man.
If you getting attacked/kidnapped by a man. I don't think the question is gonna be "what we're you wearing"😂 like I am sure that not gonna be the case from general experiences of reporting things to police.
something to add to the “can you love multiple people conversation”, in Islam men are allowed up to 4 wives BUT it’s actually said that if they cannot love them equally, or at least treat them equally, then it’s not allowed. And not that anyone asked LOOL but my personal opinion is that you can possibly be in love with more than one person but the amount of love may differ ? Idk it’s a tricky topic & I haven’t personally been in love yet so idk how much credit I have in this convo 😂😂 loved this ep tho ❤❤❤❤
I am not commenting to fight with anyone on the internet. The only reason I'm commenting is because Chunkz and Filly asked what we thought of Laura. I have no problem with Laura. Making that statement was really brave. Advice I would give is try to share empowering statements like that with people that with people that uplift you. To clarify, maybe not lawrence. I dont know if it was his idea for you to share that statement, but the intro he gave you wasn't very uplifting and his comments and suggestions to make a beta squad video of a woman defending herself for entertainment lead me to believe his objective was to make you feel weak. I appreciate chunkz for still encouraging her by saying "if [an attack] does happen, do [everything to defend yourself]" even though he didn't totally agree she could take the guy down. Filly was helpful for suggesting other means of protection. To give nore realistic insight, gouging eyes, stabbing airways, biting thumbs won't necessarily take a person down, but can deter the attacker if they feel it's no longer worth it (attracts attention) and gathers their dna making it easier to catch them. I never comment on things. I love the CHUNKZ AND FILLY show. This episode had me looking at Lawrence like 👀 So maybe try Laura as a moderator?
I mean if you'd atleast see the size of Laura would give you a comprehension of what they're getting at. The world has very menacing people in it and I can say I've see with my two eyes people maybe twice her size get put down in fights with ease. Its not that he's even trying to take a down, its just the statement was rather bold and a bit arrogant seeing the people in the world we live in. Its all jokes and fun and no one needs their roles stripped from a joke discussed on and off camera as just friends👍
I SAID IT WAS THE WILD THORNBERRIES DAD THAT CHUNKS COULDNT REMEMBER BUT WAS TRYNA SAY PHILLY LOOKED LIKE ON THE LAST EPISODE 😭😭💀LMFAOOAOAOA I KNEW IT I WAS RIGHT!! 😭😭😭😭😭😂😂💀💀🙆🏽♀️
God bless Lara, thank the lord she clearly has never experienced it and I hope she never does but the only thing that works in your favour is Suprise you 100 percent kick them as hard as you possibly can in the balls but you’ve then only got seconds… you need to hope your fast because all you should ever do is run because 9 out of 10 men will be able to over power a woman eventually xx
@@shuuuuushhshs2698 running first is unlikely to help unless your very fast, most men are faster, stronger and have longer legs than most women, if you can incapacitate them even for a few seconds will help
Loving the episode as usual, but I just HAD to answer your question! I do believe you can love more than one person. Everybody loves differently, and the extension of that love varies from person to person; for example, you would love your brother just as much as you love your sister, so why couldn’t you love your (hypothetical) boyfriend just as much as you would your (hypothetical) girlfriend? In a world without societal strings dictating that ‘normal relationships’ are made up of no more than 2 people, I believe that monogamous relationships would be a lot more commonplace and accepted than they are now. Hundreds of years ago, it was unheard of, and even shamed, to be in ‘love’ with someone of the same sex, yet after years and years of constant growth and evolution, that is now widely accepted and very rarely frowned upon. Sexuality has grown exponentially in the last few years, and I think that in a few more years, monogamy will become more commonplace than it is now. I believe the later generations will grow up without the societal stigma of ‘normal relationships’ consisting of 2 people and more of how you feel as a person and who you are in love with or chose to spend the rest of your lives with and commit to. Everyone loves differently, and being able to be in love with and commit to monogamy depends on the individual’s personal capabilities. These are my thoughts on loving multiple partners; not that I am in a monogamous relationship, but no lie, the topic has piqued my interest recently.
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Chunkz is very logical, and he’s never looking for the room to agree with him he stand on what he believes but also open to listen to others. This man is elite!!!
How is wanting to have your mom in a forest logical, you want her as safe as possible in a city. 🤦🏽♂️
@@kidusgetachew9215 find somewhere else to be sad 👍🏽
@@moyaharrison1573 uhhh?
@@kidusgetachew9215she’s just dumb
Absolutely love the guy
0:16: 🏖️ Dreams about niece, beach club booth, fear of her falling into the sea.
6:33: 🌍 Chunkz and Filly's impactful trip to Kenya was incredibly fulfilling, focusing on giving back to those in need.
12:30: 🎬 Discussion on Bollywood and Nollywood entertainment, highlighting unique characteristics and favorite actors.
19:39: 📸 Discussion on how people may look different in real life compared to their pictures due to angles, grooming, and editing.
25:30: 🤔 Discussion on mistaken identity between Katy Perry and someone else, along with a humorous exchange about Spencer.
31:44: 🐻 Choosing between a man or a bear in a forest scenario, with a preference for safety and familiarity.
37:33: 🎥 Discussion about a failed attempt, confusion over a video, and a golf-related disagreement.
44:00: 💑 Exploring the concept of loving multiple people and different relationship dynamics.
50:11: 💬 Discussion on the possibility of being in love with more than one person and the concept of polygamy in Islam.
55:35: 💬 Discussion on involving spouses in purchases, using Mayweather as an example, and comparing celebrity relationships to everyday ones.
1:01:46: 💑 Discussion on love, lust, and relationships between men and women.
1:06:58: 💑 Discussion on compatibility and finding common interests in relationships.
1:13:08: 💖 Discussion on different types of love and judgment towards others' expressions of love.
Recap by Tammy AI
Not all heroes wear capes 🔥
God bless you
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Thanks
can’t go wrong with a new episode from yung philanthropist and bits and pieces !!
This is class
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I'm weak 😂😂
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Love the eps when Lawrence is involved heavily, best lowkey trio.
Nah
29:00
if it’s brown, lay down
If its black, fight back
If it’s white, take flight!
I thought it was 'if its white, goodnight' ....
We talking bears or people?
@@DogAndSheep 💀
@@DogAndSheep go to sleep dog
@@sidahmeddjedid-n4s ooh someone's angy 😂
Chunkz reciting Shahada during the hypothetical bear scenario took me out. So funny yet so deep. Qadr is real fam.
funny asf but wallahi i’m doing the same 😭 laying down eyes closed and saying the shahadah
Its soo reallll coz I'd do the same honestly not fighting my qadr if I'm supposed to survive I will 😅
filly is such an attentive listener 😭
32:16 not Lawrence saying "Drake" as who he would want to be stuck in a forest with 💀💀
I thought I was the only one who peeped lmaoooo
im crying😂😂
Does he know??? 😂
@@bazza1024yeah i’m 99.9% sure he’s joking 😂
@@maria-se5gh its that .1% im worried bout 🤣
The person that marries chunkz is lucky waalahi
yes i will be thank you hahhaaha
@@SalmaSaid-m9x keep dreaming
@@SalmaSaid-m9x byeeeee😭😭
when Chunkz mentioned he’s been watching NBA Lawrence fully turned into a kid with that excitement 😭 too cute
Just like me lol, I was gassed he was talking bout the NBA
Love how respectful they talk bout women. Real men here.
Chunkz mentality snd thoughts are so manly and respectful. He articulates himself so well and is so protective over his thoughts and ideologies and religion ❤
28:10 the way he set the conversation straight RIGHT away. I love Chunkz. I love him, he’s so respectful, kind and thoughtful. Proud of him & his come up man
not chunkz and filly fully validating every woman that chooses the bear > man during the lara segment 😭
What do u expect them to say??? U do realise they have to politically correct in everything they say
If it makes you feel better most normal men agree because we also would choose a bear maybe not all for the same reasons but still a bear would be a better choice than either a strange man or woman.
I feel like in any scenario if you choose the bear you're an idiot. Especially as a man @DrizzFizzlebeatz
Tbh I agree and I ain’t begging it, if I was a woman I’d choose the bear. The worst man will always be way worse than the most evil bear and I wouldn’t want to take my chances
@@DrizzFizzlebeatza bear that is known to kill people is a better choice than a stranger? You walk past strangers every day constantly and for most people they are fine I don’t see anyone being around bears constantly and there’s a reason why bc why Tf would anyone be stupid enough to choose a bear over a man or human being
How I am addicted to this show
Sometimes it’s not about “what the woman has been through with a man specifically” women usually are very observant. And what I observe from a bear vs a man is wild. I expect one thing from a bear and thats an attack based off of the bear’s instinct to EAT AND SURVIVE.
33:37 the way chunkz started to pray😭😭😭
Why’s Lawrence made out to be a mystery, when he’s been on Truegeordie for the past 5 years haha
Chunkz and Filly have an international audience who probs aren’t familiar with the uk scene enough to know of Lawrence
Chunkz and Filly is way bigger then True Geordie tbf
That's true, examplei don't know how he looks. @ayupnur2501
I literally only found that out today, I can’t believe it took me this long to realise it’s the same Lawrence 🤣
@@ayupnur2501exactly idk who Lawrence is
Why do they act like we don't know what lawrence looks like, the guy has been around for a long time 😭😭😭
If you've watched the videos, Lawrence came on set one time for about 5 seconds
Fully thought donny looked like Link from @GoodMythicalMorning till I searched McKenna
lolz right?
Who is Lawrence?
@@alutamgobhozi9813 He used to be on True Geordie as his main wingman of sorts, I remember him from a few years back at the 1st Sidemen Roast but a lot of things have changed for him since then.
i live in kenya and when i tell you, WHEN I SAW THEY WERE IN KENYA. my jaw dropped. i wish i got to meet them
Ongea kiswahili mzee😂😂
Can I ask why you’re in Kenya it so random. Parents work?
@@chosenone4426 Labda si mkenya lol
@@BrenMaina Brenda please 😂😂🫴🏽
@@chosenone4426 unataka aanze kuwaffle 😂😂😂
I agree with Filly. I don’t think there is anyone who will check all the boxes. But the important boxes are a must.
We'd love to have you back, Chunkz. Kenya loves you 🇰🇪🇰🇪❤️
That laura is so delusional it became cute
I really can’t imagine TH-cam without chunkz or filly I love them so much ❤
The evolution of the podcast is crazy, best one yet
Love the pod!
In christianity, God is love, which gives us the perfect example on how to love. In 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, it describes what loves is, love is choice not a feeling, in christianity the husband is meant to love his wife how Christ loved the church and "gave Himself up for her" (Ephesians 5:25) and the wives are meant to respect, honour and submit to their husbands accepting him for who he is.
Love the fact that the pod can go from jokes to meaningful conversations, stay blessed
I’m in love w chunkz and filly show ❤:))
The way I’ve just jumped on TH-cam and this has dropped 2 seconds ago 😂
And the way I knew Filly was gonna say he fell in love in 2 weeks at the end 🤣
okay bum lick
Vid came out 3 mins before your comment so it wasn’t 2 seconds:)
@@hgunrr7785yeh ur sped , when he got on TH-cam it was uploaded two seconds ago he still had to click on the vid type out his comment and upload it
@@hgunrr7785you’re fun at parties huh
@@hgunrr7785 you’re that guy 😂 you’re Trevor bro
Chunkz is doing amazing things in this world🇰🇪the respect I’ve got is crazy Kenya appreciates you💯
Don’t let it be mistaken how good a dynamic Lawrence adds to the show. Chunkz & Filly are a 9/10 but Loz makes it a 10/10. Great pod.
nah filly and chunkz are like a 7.5 lol
I love love love when it’s just you guys
I love this podcast, I wish filly stood his ground on his view a little more he was on the money about the boxes being ticked and often makes very clear points. Big man you are as articulate as chunks and Lawrence, just a likkle view. ❤
Was worried about what would be said on the man vs bear debate. I appreciate that you've taken time to speak to the women around you and made it clear that its not something youre able to speak on. I'm grateful youre holding up men to the standard that they should be. Thank you :)
Still is mad to choose a bear over a man
Can you please explain why a lot of women choose the bear? I don't understand it as a man. I ask out of pure curiosity.
Are men in general really that bad? That you would choose certain death over being alone with them? That's really worrying for me as I didn't know how much women feared men.
Again I would love to know your perspective as I want to educate myself. Nothing less nothing more
@@imaaduddin8758 The majority of the women who have put input within the man vs bear debate & choose the bear use their personal experiences and/or the experiences of other women to base off their answer. A lot of these experiences have to do with SA / SH, & the vile things that men have done & can be considered genuinely worse than death.
@@imaaduddin8758 The simple fact that men act in ways that animals don't treat their own scares us. Not all men, of course. It's crazy that we have to add that part.
@@Festus034 When you have a daughter you love, you'll see the point.
5:33 yes indeed chunkz it is The Water Project
This is my favourite podcast 👊 feel like I’m just chilling with you man when I watch it
No lie this was the best show to date. Proper flowed and wicked to have on in the background. Good stuff boys keep it up. Get me a rolex too
i like at the end where lawrence was talking. about how him and his wife eventually meshed together & filly saying that his problem is that he is “….trying to find as many boxes ticked before he finds it serious” and i have that same problem currently, but this gave me such a great insight to stay more patient and not rush a soon to be amazing relationship
“Samoan from Australia” is crazy 💀
Asalamualaikum, chunkz this one is for you. I’m saying this because you’ve got a platform and a lot of people hear what you have to say especially when it comes to Islam. I really advise that you go and listen or read about the prophets life especially how he dealt with his wives. It is one of the most beautiful topics to see how amazing a man can be to multiple women. You will understand the possibilities behind it and why. You could also ask one of the many imams you know. Also yes, in Islam you aren’t encouraged to marry more than 1 but you are alllowed to if you have the means but especially if you can treat all of them right. If you can’t then you aren’t allowed to. It is really important to understand these topics and then be able to explain to the public because it is an amazing form of dawah. May Allah bless you
not all men but always a man.
i’m genuinely scared of men, i would choose bear over a man.
Can you please explain why a lot of women choose the bear? I don't understand it as a man. I ask out of pure curiosity.
Are men in general really that bad? That you would choose certain death over being alone with them? That's really worrying for me as I didn't know how much women feared men.
Again I would love to know your perspective as I want to educate myself. Nothing less nothing more
There are definitely female sexual predators so idk about that "always a man" bit. Maybe you could say mostly men.
@@imaaduddin8758being alone with a bear: the bear is in its natural environment, he knows how to take care of himself and just be a bear yk. if u leave him alone he’ll most likely won’t see u as a threat and leave u alone. the worst that can happen is he can kill u.
being alone with a man: he’s not in his natural environment so he might lose his mind and go insane. he can r*** u, s.a. u, force u to do things for survival bc again he’s not in his natural environment or he’ll do things to u. u could have the most traumatizing experience ever.
moral of the story: the worst thing the bear can do is kill u but the man can also kill u. other than that the bear can’t really do shit but the man can do a bunch of terrifying shit.
@@imaaduddin8758 yes
90% of the men that have come into my life have harrassed me one way or the other and these are people i trusted with my life
so yes men are that bad and women aren't stupid to be wary of a man
A bear would at worst kill you. A man could violate, degradate, torture, and humiliate you physically and mentally. Then if you survive you have to live with that as well as have other men say "She asked for it, look at how she dresses, talks, etc...
I know some truly good men, yet I've also met some that scare the living daylight out of me. Often they exist in your inner circle, family too. Nowhere feels safe to a lot of women. We always have to be aware of who is around, it's a subconscious action to be on guard around men.
The way filly said “sounds like a diffehrehnt vidhideo da”, so quickly into the mic honestly had me floored. Poor guy literally just says what on his mind
If a bear attacks me and I happen to survive, other bears won't start taunting me, asking what I was wearing and blaming me for getting attacked.
This gotta be the dumbest shit I’ve ever heard, comparing the average man to the average bear 🤣 Other bears won’t taunt you, they’ll rip your arms from their sockets
If a bear attacks you and you survive what other people say won't really matter cause you'll be permanently scarred and suffer for the rest of your life
If you survive a bear attack you’ve most likely lost body parts or heavily scarred lol, I’d say that’s worse than having a few trolls questioning what you were wearing
@@youngomz7205as if men haven't left women physically scarred...
@@KingChaddii vice versa with men too
FILLY IS KLLING ME 😂😂 AND CHUNKZ LOVE YOU BOTHHHH❤
I lost it at fillys bear impression so funny
You can love more than one person but it’ll never be equal
Yaaaas! You definitely should come back to Kenya for a meet & greet🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪 ❤️❤️❤️
No one will tick all your boxes.
In marriage you learn about that person every day. They’re generally minimal glows and differences that you’ll have to adjust to.
-Imagine role play in the bedroom.
She likes when you initiate but at times you’ll like her to initiate without you telling.
Love is a conversation that shouldn’t have differences nor a thought of what is it.
Hence you have moments of heartache or even the word missed. Everyone’s mind is different because of upbringing… I don’t differ to how someone loves or would like to be loved.
The way Chunkz talks about his future wife and family ❤😭
Another Good Thursday again 💪
Bro watched a +1hour podcast in 4 mins 💀
Filly’s “call me”😂😂😂😂😂😂
This is one of the best pod eps with the main trio. Great job yall ❤
This isn’t a chunkz and filly podcast this is chunkz and Lawrence podcast
I love the love Filly has for his mum !!!
omg the way I gasped I was watching an old video from the podcast and chunks was talking abt filly's toes so I went on TH-cam to check and saw you guys posted 🤣❤
I heard that mothers love to see their kids eat because it means they’re witnessing they are getting sustenance, i.e., maintaining good health. Health means life. So I think that’s a very honest place to start from. I think a deeep and honest love keeps the person on your mind so often that you wonder about small things like if they ate lunch.
Obviously different types of love have severely different nuances. But I think it hard enough to understand yourself, that makes monogamy (attempting to fully understand another person as well) challenging. I don’t understand how a person can have the capacity to put that effort into multiple people.
But again… the definition of what love is, is paramount to determine what a person is capable of.
One of the best podcasts much love ❤️
chunkz talking abt bollywood made my day
Bro every time I’m about to eat and open TH-cam you guys just have a new video I love it , yall are the best duo much love from Toronto ❤️
I have so much respect for Chunkz man, and Filly too, so refreshing
as a woman, listening to this a thought crossed my mind.
I feel like the love you have for your children, is a even bigger and greater love than the one for your partner, and somehow you can love all your children equally by loving each specific little detail about them, that makes the who they are.
So in that mindset, I feel like this could be applied to multiple partners.
I don't personally have children, but everytime someone I know is pregnant with their second, they always say how can I love someone more than my first, and somehow you heart makes room.
Maybe I'm just bugging, because I'd hate for that to be true but some food for thought.
your pod challenges my thinking wallahi, love from Italy. ❤
You definitely can and as a matter of fact, it is what polyamory is and you've used a good example with having children. another example would be having friends that you love all so much and differently. I'm not polyamorous but I know a bit.
I kind of disagree because the type of love u have for a child is miles different from the love you have in a relationship. one is a maternal love thats nutured for months until theyre united face to face whereas when you're in a relationship the love you have is almost like a soul partner (in an ideal world) in a sense the emotions are similar between the two because the bond is so deep and strong but I don't think they're the same, one was made from you (child) and one was made for you (your partner). In my opinion I don't think you can have true love for more than one person because I don't think men/women can handle it, for example if a man were to have 2 wives one would always get more attention and love because men have biases just like you said with loving a specific detail of a child, tbh we all know that mothers have preferences over their children it might not be a lot or a big difference but there are some traits in children that make them more desirable maybe because they're similar to her beause mothers have biases too cuz they're are human . In the long run one a relationship like that one 2 women would outweigh the other for many different reasons or just simply falling out of love
Love for your children and love for your spouse is two different kinds of love. You can't compare them. Your love for your children is maternal love, and the love for your spouse is a romantic love imo.
@@إخلاص16 it is not the easiest thing to wrap your head around but I don’t see how you can disagree with the existence of people as polyamory is definitely a thing and polyamorous people definitely exist. Maybe use the parallel of loving your closest friends equally, but differently, rather than maternal love if that makes more sense to you. Also, to address the point of falling out of love with one partner, though that is possible, it most times doesn’t have to do with polyamory and moreso, the people themselves as monogamous couples can also fall out of love with eachother independently of there being another partner or not. Hope this helps. Also, if you care for it, there’s tons of resources to help you understand better.
I love the random questions Lawrence throws at them but it would be amazing if the audience could submit questions ✌🏻
Love this channel so much
Once again, Lawrence is a great asset to the podcast all round from equipment and personality
THE BEARRR 29:22 ALWAYS THE BEAR also thank you guys for not invalidating how women feel about this situation and also expressing their opinions in a respectful manner ❤️❤️❤️ also Lawrence we’ll choose the BEAR thanks 🤙🏽
new listener subsequently a new subscriber. From the dmV, US. Love the discourse and substance of the discussions. Great chemistry and flow within the banter. Wasn't expecting to be as hooked. Thank you for the content and discord
I love This podcast I’m always watching whilst doing course work for college my motivation for real inshallah FILY AND CHUNKZ bless me with a shopping spree 😂
24:54 i loved the beekeeper movie 🥺🥺
YEEAAAHHHH MAN favourite podcast and youtubers. Always looking forward to the upload 💜
i was so worried their opinions on the "man or bear" question would be insane but im glad they aren't absolutely terrible. and i hope they get to see more content that educates on why women would pick the bear.
Laurence and Filly in Filly's bathroom and closet together is hilarious 1:17:57 😂
i think that if u marry 2 wives u can "love' them both but ur obv bound to love one more than the other. kinda like how in every trio theres a bound to be a secret duo whether u like it or not
31:19 it’s more like the reason us woman would prefer the bear to the man is because if we were attacked by a bear we would be believed 100% rather than if we were attacked by a man we wouldn’t be believed and would be asked ‘well what were you wearing then’ plus woman can’t even go to the police to report things like that because of the amount of police officers who have assaulted women has gone up. We know the mindset of a bear not a man.
If you getting attacked/kidnapped by a man. I don't think the question is gonna be "what we're you wearing"😂 like I am sure that not gonna be the case from general experiences of reporting things to police.
Listening from Kenya.....We didn't even get to meet you guys ....The visit was so brief ....but we were honored to have you ❤❤
I'm so delusional when Chunkz is speaking about his future wife so fondly i think he's talking about me😝🤭
something to add to the “can you love multiple people conversation”, in Islam men are allowed up to 4 wives BUT it’s actually said that if they cannot love them equally, or at least treat them equally, then it’s not allowed. And not that anyone asked LOOL but my personal opinion is that you can possibly be in love with more than one person but the amount of love may differ ? Idk it’s a tricky topic & I haven’t personally been in love yet so idk how much credit I have in this convo 😂😂 loved this ep tho ❤❤❤❤
filly looks very very good here
this show is ELITE…i would LOVE to be on🤝🏼
OMG i love this channel and chunkz and filly ❤❤❤
33:36
Chunkz you're such a legend!😂😂😂
May those be your final word.
I love always your podcast Chunkz and Filly always❤️❤️💯💯🔥🔥🔥
It's cool to see Chunks and Filly evolve in under 40 Eps 🔥 just on the fact of where they see their wife, children and mum' ranking.
glad they acknowledge that people always try look deep in convo at the start of pods🤣
I’m not waiting to see Lawrence’s face until filly and chunks do it justttt to make that ep. 10X better
This podcast is so good it's just sad that we only get one ep per week 😔
Love from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪❤
I love the transformation of chunkz 🙂He is going to be an amazing husband and father😇
I am not commenting to fight with anyone on the internet. The only reason I'm commenting is because Chunkz and Filly asked what we thought of Laura.
I have no problem with Laura. Making that statement was really brave. Advice I would give is try to share empowering statements like that with people that with people that uplift you. To clarify, maybe not lawrence. I dont know if it was his idea for you to share that statement, but the intro he gave you wasn't very uplifting and his comments and suggestions to make a beta squad video of a woman defending herself for entertainment lead me to believe his objective was to make you feel weak. I appreciate chunkz for still encouraging her by saying "if [an attack] does happen, do [everything to defend yourself]" even though he didn't totally agree she could take the guy down. Filly was helpful for suggesting other means of protection. To give nore realistic insight, gouging eyes, stabbing airways, biting thumbs won't necessarily take a person down, but can deter the attacker if they feel it's no longer worth it (attracts attention) and gathers their dna making it easier to catch them.
I never comment on things. I love the CHUNKZ AND FILLY show. This episode had me looking at Lawrence like 👀
So maybe try Laura as a moderator?
I mean if you'd atleast see the size of Laura would give you a comprehension of what they're getting at. The world has very menacing people in it and I can say I've see with my two eyes people maybe twice her size get put down in fights with ease. Its not that he's even trying to take a down, its just the statement was rather bold and a bit arrogant seeing the people in the world we live in. Its all jokes and fun and no one needs their roles stripped from a joke discussed on and off camera as just friends👍
I’m not arguing just being honest. You’re a really soft person based off that comment if that’s how u took it. It wasn’t bad at all
you are looking at this too deep
Chunks said he got the crimson😂😂
beta squad are getting me through gcses atp
😭 a levels
No Lawrence chipping in "Drake" killed me 😅
I love Lawrence and his inputs in the podcast
filly and I hid togheter in the closet is crazyyyyy!!!!!🤣🤣🤣
I SAID IT WAS THE WILD THORNBERRIES DAD THAT CHUNKS COULDNT REMEMBER BUT WAS TRYNA SAY PHILLY LOOKED LIKE ON THE LAST EPISODE 😭😭💀LMFAOOAOAOA I KNEW IT I WAS RIGHT!! 😭😭😭😭😭😂😂💀💀🙆🏽♀️
Chunks is just .... I am crushing BIG on him. Every episode I'm just 🥰😍
I’m a massive supporter but Idk how to explain it but something was off this ep i felt filly was tired as it he needed more sleep
Truly enjoyed this episode!!! Bless Lara
God bless Lara, thank the lord she clearly has never experienced it and I hope she never does but the only thing that works in your favour is Suprise you 100 percent kick them as hard as you possibly can in the balls but you’ve then only got seconds… you need to hope your fast because all you should ever do is run because 9 out of 10 men will be able to over power a woman eventually xx
You’re a smart non delusional woman although running first is best if u can’t weapons should always be included if possible
@@shuuuuushhshs2698 running first is unlikely to help unless your very fast, most men are faster, stronger and have longer legs than most women, if you can incapacitate them even for a few seconds will help
Loving the episode as usual, but I just HAD to answer your question!
I do believe you can love more than one person. Everybody loves differently, and the extension of that love varies from person to person; for example, you would love your brother just as much as you love your sister, so why couldn’t you love your (hypothetical) boyfriend just as much as you would your (hypothetical) girlfriend? In a world without societal strings dictating that ‘normal relationships’ are made up of no more than 2 people, I believe that monogamous relationships would be a lot more commonplace and accepted than they are now. Hundreds of years ago, it was unheard of, and even shamed, to be in ‘love’ with someone of the same sex, yet after years and years of constant growth and evolution, that is now widely accepted and very rarely frowned upon. Sexuality has grown exponentially in the last few years, and I think that in a few more years, monogamy will become more commonplace than it is now. I believe the later generations will grow up without the societal stigma of ‘normal relationships’ consisting of 2 people and more of how you feel as a person and who you are in love with or chose to spend the rest of your lives with and commit to. Everyone loves differently, and being able to be in love with and commit to monogamy depends on the individual’s personal capabilities.
These are my thoughts on loving multiple partners; not that I am in a monogamous relationship, but no lie, the topic has piqued my interest recently.
Someone needs to check on Lawrence, this man’s back must be in bits from carrying the show 🤣
Yes yes yes welcome back to kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪im so happy you will be coming back