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If your partner does not look at you the way Filly was looking at Sharky when he was mentioning all the things he did during lockdown,then I'm sorry,they are not the one 😭😭😭😭
I agree. I think when you are growing and maturing you are going through the process of psychological separation from your mother (gaining independence, autonomy, developing your own identity). As a result, your mother is no longer your most important focus in your life (as it was in childhood), you focus more on creating your own family and providing for your own family. You are not attached to your mother that much (although you may still love her and appreciate her very much). I think that if a man is always spending time with his mother/asking her for advice/depending on her too much - that may be a bad sign, he might be too attached to her.
She is the last couse she is the only one who can leave anytime mom will never leave and also she was thier for him when he was nothing and kids will cary his name
@@googoogaga3154 Mu’awiyah ibn Jahima reported: Jahima came to the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, and he said, “O Messenger of Allah, I intend to join the military expedition, and I seek your counsel.” The Prophet said, “Do you have a mother?” He said yes. The Prophet said, “Stay with her, for Paradise is beneath her feet.” Source: Sunan al-Nasā’ī 3104.
@alisa9846 theres many hadiths about women and mother s 🤣 the most known one " your mother, then your mother, then your mother, then your father" showing the importance of our mothers
I think in reference to women being talked about/treated very poorly under Islam, it's more a cultural thing and many men use it to treat girls and women extremely badly.
Putting wife last is wild . Once you’re married ,your partner should come first . Your kids wouldn’t be here if it weren’t for your wife . If your mum is the number 1 , marry her then 😂
This is what I’m saying. My oldest brother is over 20 years older than me at 46. And he’s been with his wife since they were both 15. I listen to him when he said Wife first, kids second and mom third. He’s also the only one of my older siblings still married and one of the few in my family still married and never divorced.
@@neemer5245 There is a reason why in every culture a mother is the most valued member of the family. Just like the kids of your family will favour your wife above you since she is their mother, so will every husband favour their mum over their spouse, I cant believe there are so many delusional women believing their husbands will pick them over their mothers, who tf do they think they are
@@robleyusuf6454 Favoring your mother over your wife is the reason why so many women grow resentful and distant in their marriage. Your mother is married to your father, not you. Your priority is YOUR spouse. You committed to marrying them for a reason.
@@neemer5245 Doesn't change the fact that my love for my parents surpasses that of a wife, she can be resentful all she wants. And i would argue that thats not the reason why the grow resentful, its because of the lie that is feminsim which condradicts reality itself.
This is why I LOVE and RESPECT Chunkz so much. He understands in islam the importance of your wife, and how she should come first in terms of RESPONSIBILITY. Because your mum is always going to have her own place but she is your fathers responsibility. Whereas your wife as soon as she becomes your wife is your first and main priority and responsibility to love honour and care for. Same with a husband for the wife! And to put your kids before your wife is crazy remember where your kids came from
@@Unknown12504 nah they are realists - mother will always be before the wife, the wife is a conditional relationship which you must put value in, mum will rock with you no matter what, children have a duty to you and an unconditional love as well. And thats why the wife is always last.....
@@robleyusuf6454this is why marriages don’t work. My oldest brother is over 20 years older than me and he is the one besides my mom I take advice from. When it comes to this question I listen to him and he says wife, kids and his mom. He’s the only one of my older siblings still married along with being one of the few people in my family still married and never divorced. Got with his wife at 15, they married at 32 and still together at 46 and going strong.
@@DrizzFizzlebeatz in terms of responsibility i agree with your list but it is in terms of who you love more. The wife will always be last as she will only be with you if it benefits her and that is the cold harsh reality you guys need to accept. Mother and child have an unconditional bond, that will be there regardless of age.
Chunkz is 100% right with his order. Your wife is your LIFE partner. You leave your parents' house to start your OWN family. Your kids will leave your home one day to start their own families. All you will have is your wife. Your wife has to be number 1.
Putting wife last is dirty work. Your mom is important don’t get me wrong, but your wife and children are now your direct family and should be #1 priority. Now, your relationship with your wife existed far before the kids, and will continue when the kids leave the house. How are you going to provide your children with a happy, healthy home if your marriage is lacking? This is not to say the kids are not important, but they should definitely not take priority over your spouse. Your wife birthed your children and now you’re putting her last? Wild.
"your relationship with your wife existed far before the kids, and will continue when the kids leave the house." - Your relationship with your mother existed far before you wife, and will continue if your wife leaves you "Your wife birthed your children and now you’re putting her last? Wild." - Your mother birthed you and now you're putting her last? Wild. "but they should definitely not take priority over your spouse" Yes they should
@@SSSlid You realize that people grow up, start their own families, and priorities shift? Me personally, i’m not going to live my life catering to my mother when I have a wife and kids to take care of it. I’m also not going to live with a fear mindset that my wife *may* leave me. If you have any doubts about your relationship maybe you should address that before you get married. All this is not to say your mother becomes unimportant, she simply isn’t the first priority. That’s the reality of life. Your mother is your father’s priority, your wife is yours. -No, they shouldn’t, and I already clearly explained why. Once again, that does not mean they are unimportant.
1 wife 2 kids 3 mom Wife is 1st because she's who you build your family with and if yall ain't 100% together you can't be 100% for the kids. Kids 2nd because kids need yall to grow. You are the protectors of them. You help and build them up. Mom is 3rd because she's grown and knows you have to take care of your family. It's all love all ways around. I'm sure mom's putting her husband before her grown kids too. As she should especially if the kids are grown doing they own thing anyway.
Hands down my favourite ep, love how this showcased so much more of Sharky's personality. So humble and the intro was 10/10, love that yall genuinely have love and respect for each other and that really shows. Couldnt stop smiling this ep was too good! Petition to have Sharky on another ep already ♥️🙌
Ngl this whole episode I missed Lawrence’s Input, speaking about marriage I was waiting to hear his voice, I feel like he still deserved a feature on the guest eps
It's amazing how anyone will put their wife last.... I, as a woman, know my children’s spouces and children should come before me. Parents will die (hopefully before you), children will tow their paths, you have your spouse by your side till death happens. The goal should be getting your person as spouse. And having such a great union, you can't imagine your life without them.
Yeah as a mother if my children put me first I will cry because I have done a bad job raising them. I will be first from the first half of their life but when their wife and kids come I step down and that is beautiful to me
Sharky is really my favorite, he’s the only reason I started watching beta squad 😂 SDS was getting heavily suggested in my recommended till one day I clicked on it and I was hooked. Haven’t missed a episode since 2022 and I went back and watched the ones before that. Sharky’s hosting skills are on point and his personality always shines through. So then I see a Beta Squad video in my recommended and I’m like “oh shit, that’s Sharky in it” so I click and yea I start watching Beta Squad. It’s also dope to see how Sharky gave all the SDS guys the platform to shine on their own, got guys on Sky Sports and collaborating with premier league clubs. LEGEND!!
On the friendship thing, it’s a quality over quantity thing Most male friendships may last for years but there’s rarely any deep relationship compared to female friendships where they actually put in effort to have quality friendships
I don't really agree... Women can have met a girl yesterday and call her "my love", "my life" (I don't know if they say that in English too, I'm translating from what I hear in French lol) and lots of other words like that when they've known each other for barely 24 hours 😅 And so it doesn't surprise me that these kinds of relationships end quickly... so I wouldn't call them quality friendships
Please get AJ we have to give him the recognition he deserves
omds frrr
His the funniest beta squad member
Thisss!!!
Damn, relaxxxxx... you watch them all the time, can they create what they want first?
Init i want AJ this year or shows a shambles
Finally a beta squad member
Umm Chunkz i a Beta squad member
@@BibiHamann-hx9cqw response
@@BibiHamann-hx9cq so close I meant a guest
Niko next pls
It's probably gonna be awkward but I'll love itt
NIKO 🙆 ... I NEED NIKO 💖
Filly looking at Sharky like he's star struck😅
If your partner does not look at you the way Filly was looking at Sharky when he was mentioning all the things he did during lockdown,then I'm sorry,they are not the one 😭😭😭😭
Timeskip?
can't find it @@osidjekskxjndd9224
@@osidjekskxjndd9224 38:03
@@osidjekskxjndd9224 did you find it
@@osidjekskxjndd9224 6:15
I absolutely love how Chunkz is so well read; a very very great quality and Filly is actually so kindhearted. Love this for them.
Filly man 😭😭 “ginge has had a crash but the car still moves” is crazy btw 😭🤣
He didnt lie tho
Filly shouting I'm the girl with excitement before role play had me in stitches 🤣😂🤣😂
Finally, we got a sharky one. Love yall
Putting Wife last shows a lack of maturity.. Big up Chunkz for saying Wife first he is a wise guy
How does it show lack of maturity? 🙃
I agree. I think when you are growing and maturing you are going through the process of psychological separation from your mother (gaining independence, autonomy, developing your own identity). As a result, your mother is no longer your most important focus in your life (as it was in childhood), you focus more on creating your own family and providing for your own family. You are not attached to your mother that much (although you may still love her and appreciate her very much). I think that if a man is always spending time with his mother/asking her for advice/depending on her too much - that may be a bad sign, he might be too attached to her.
She is the last couse she is the only one who can leave anytime mom will never leave and also she was thier for him when he was nothing and kids will cary his name
Nah bro, your mum and your kids will love you unconditionally. He's absolutely right imo.
Knowing Filly has a semi this episode the whole time changes everything for me lmaooooo no Diddy
LMFAO
Stop trying to make no Diddy happen
What is a semi
@@missmong12if you don’t know you don’t need to worry. You’re too young to know
Jesus is the way the truth and the life 😊
Yess Sharky is quoting what the prophet Muhammad(PBUH) said ‘Heaven lies beneath the feet of your mother’. One of my favourite teachings of Islam
Its not a proven saying. Be aware of the sources of what you spread
@@googoogaga3154 Mu’awiyah ibn Jahima reported: Jahima came to the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, and he said, “O Messenger of Allah, I intend to join the military expedition, and I seek your counsel.” The Prophet said, “Do you have a mother?” He said yes. The Prophet said, “Stay with her, for Paradise is beneath her feet.”
Source: Sunan al-Nasā’ī 3104.
@@googoogaga3154ofc it's not, Islam would never say something nice about women.
@alisa9846 theres many hadiths about women and mother s 🤣 the most known one " your mother, then your mother, then your mother, then your father" showing the importance of our mothers
I think in reference to women being talked about/treated very poorly under Islam, it's more a cultural thing and many men use it to treat girls and women extremely badly.
Putting wife last is wild . Once you’re married ,your partner should come first .
Your kids wouldn’t be here if it weren’t for your wife . If your mum is the number 1 , marry her then 😂
This is what I’m saying. My oldest brother is over 20 years older than me at 46. And he’s been with his wife since they were both 15. I listen to him when he said Wife first, kids second and mom third. He’s also the only one of my older siblings still married and one of the few in my family still married and never divorced.
Exactly. Wife first. Imagine giving birth to x amount of children, tending to their every need, then being put last 🤨
@@neemer5245 There is a reason why in every culture a mother is the most valued member of the family. Just like the kids of your family will favour your wife above you since she is their mother, so will every husband favour their mum over their spouse, I cant believe there are so many delusional women believing their husbands will pick them over their mothers, who tf do they think they are
@@robleyusuf6454 Favoring your mother over your wife is the reason why so many women grow resentful and distant in their marriage. Your mother is married to your father, not you. Your priority is YOUR spouse. You committed to marrying them for a reason.
@@neemer5245 Doesn't change the fact that my love for my parents surpasses that of a wife, she can be resentful all she wants. And i would argue that thats not the reason why the grow resentful, its because of the lie that is feminsim which condradicts reality itself.
Im so busy in my life these days but the second i saw sharky on the pod i couldn't hold myself back. I'll watch a few mins and be back after my exams😂
aww girl hope you pass =)
This is meee😂 good luck
Ahhh ma twin now😢
Niko next
Then AJ
Then Kenny
Then all of the beta squad together 😂❤
I would love Kenny and Niko together. That would be epic. 🙌🏾
We know enough about niko but Aj, I say AJ next.
The banter between Chunkz, Filly and all their guests is one of a kind! Love watching all eps, much love
This is why I LOVE and RESPECT Chunkz so much. He understands in islam the importance of your wife, and how she should come first in terms of RESPONSIBILITY. Because your mum is always going to have her own place but she is your fathers responsibility. Whereas your wife as soon as she becomes your wife is your first and main priority and responsibility to love honour and care for. Same with a husband for the wife! And to put your kids before your wife is crazy remember where your kids came from
Dygg, the rest of them are so immature it's crazy
Chunkz is actually going to be a very good husband. His wife will be lucky. I acc feel sorry for Filly's wife, he's got a whole lot to learn still
@@Unknown12504 nah they are realists - mother will always be before the wife, the wife is a conditional relationship which you must put value in, mum will rock with you no matter what, children have a duty to you and an unconditional love as well. And thats why the wife is always last.....
@@robleyusuf6454this is why marriages don’t work. My oldest brother is over 20 years older than me and he is the one besides my mom I take advice from. When it comes to this question I listen to him and he says wife, kids and his mom. He’s the only one of my older siblings still married along with being one of the few people in my family still married and never divorced. Got with his wife at 15, they married at 32 and still together at 46 and going strong.
@@DrizzFizzlebeatz in terms of responsibility i agree with your list but it is in terms of who you love more. The wife will always be last as she will only be with you if it benefits her and that is the cold harsh reality you guys need to accept. Mother and child have an unconditional bond, that will be there regardless of age.
Chunkz is 100% right with his order. Your wife is your LIFE partner. You leave your parents' house to start your OWN family. Your kids will leave your home one day to start their own families. All you will have is your wife. Your wife has to be number 1.
nope she dead last
And what about divorce? All 3 (spouse, children, parents) have equal importance.
Sharky is crushing on everyone 😂
Everyone except me lol😂
@@IamNyatichi and me lol😭😂
My heart is full seeing Somalis doing big things. My boys make me so proud Wallahi. MashaAllah
Yo why do hella Somalis love Bollywood my somali mates know more songs/movies/actors than me and I’m Asian😂😂
@@user-ds8gf3ki2gour parents enjoy it a lot for some reason lol, bollywood slaps so i get it
Jesus is the only way 😊
@@StayblessedWithChristShowShut up 😤 stop being nosey and random TF
“Big things” meanwhile it’s just a podcast 💀
Love how humble Sharky is, gorgeous man in and out. He really deserves all his success!!
“I’d be deva” when talking abt his daughter bringing back filly, chunkz kills me man
Finally Chunkz gets it!!! Wife, Kids, Mom. ❤
Putting wife last is dirty work. Your mom is important don’t get me wrong, but your wife and children are now your direct family and should be #1 priority. Now, your relationship with your wife existed far before the kids, and will continue when the kids leave the house. How are you going to provide your children with a happy, healthy home if your marriage is lacking? This is not to say the kids are not important, but they should definitely not take priority over your spouse. Your wife birthed your children and now you’re putting her last? Wild.
Well said!!! I agree with every point. ❤
Makes sense I understand now
right. that's what i was thinking too. you have to have a solid foundation with your spouse to create a good environment for you children.
"your relationship with your wife existed far before the kids, and will continue when the kids leave the house."
- Your relationship with your mother existed far before you wife, and will continue if your wife leaves you
"Your wife birthed your children and now you’re putting her last? Wild."
- Your mother birthed you and now you're putting her last? Wild.
"but they should definitely not take priority over your spouse"
Yes they should
@@SSSlid You realize that people grow up, start their own families, and priorities shift?
Me personally, i’m not going to live my life catering to my mother when I have a wife and kids to take care of it. I’m also not going to live with a fear mindset that my wife *may* leave me. If you have any doubts about your relationship maybe you should address that before you get married. All this is not to say your mother becomes unimportant, she simply isn’t the first priority. That’s the reality of life. Your mother is your father’s priority, your wife is yours.
-No, they shouldn’t, and I already clearly explained why. Once again, that does not mean they are unimportant.
25:16 Filly "Dad don't say that, he makes more money than you" 😭😂
You got to bring Damson Idris on. The main character from Snowfall
that intro was needed,he's our favorite tooo Chunkz❤❤
1 wife
2 kids
3 mom
Wife is 1st because she's who you build your family with and if yall ain't 100% together you can't be 100% for the kids.
Kids 2nd because kids need yall to grow. You are the protectors of them. You help and build them up.
Mom is 3rd because she's grown and knows you have to take care of your family. It's all love all ways around.
I'm sure mom's putting her husband before her grown kids too. As she should especially if the kids are grown doing they own thing anyway.
EXACTLY and you wonder why they is single
Fuck no kids first always
@@Rangitb how you going to have kids without a wife smh 🤦🏾♀️ men are slow these days read the bible your wife comes first no matter what yall are ONE
@@shanellemleemom is irreplaceable, kids are your offspring. Kids first, we live for our children.
Mom second because she’s irreplaceable.
@@Bagel11 then thats your fault always wife up a good woman to have kids with and no kids is second end of story
OH FINALLY I’VE BEEN WAITING FOR SHARKY. NEXT NIKO
Hands down my favourite ep, love how this showcased so much more of Sharky's personality. So humble and the intro was 10/10, love that yall genuinely have love and respect for each other and that really shows. Couldnt stop smiling this ep was too good! Petition to have Sharky on another ep already ♥️🙌
Women definitely struggle to keep friend groups more than men 😭😭
It’s true
Finally, the Sharky ep...so happy to see him as a guest. Sharky been killing it on everything lately 👏👏
21 seconds ago is crazy thanks for the upload mandem
thanks for dropping this i was getting bored at work
SHARKYYYY I WAS LISTENING ON SPOTIFY WONDERING WHERE THE VID WAS 😻
same😂😂 Heard longest guy and came over to youtube cause I knew it was Sharky 😔
I've just been smiling throughout the wholeeeee videoo❤🥹Sharky is beautifull😭💕
Ngl this whole episode I missed Lawrence’s Input, speaking about marriage I was waiting to hear his voice, I feel like he still deserved a feature on the guest eps
It's amazing how anyone will put their wife last.... I, as a woman, know my children’s spouces and children should come before me. Parents will die (hopefully before you), children will tow their paths, you have your spouse by your side till death happens. The goal should be getting your person as spouse. And having such a great union, you can't imagine your life without them.
Yeah as a mother if my children put me first I will cry because I have done a bad job raising them. I will be first from the first half of their life but when their wife and kids come I step down and that is beautiful to me
Everything you said
Anyone can die anytime
you wouldn't even exist without your parents
I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONEE🎉!! WE NEED NIKO NEXTTT
Chunkz is the only youtuber that can actually have me dying of laughter
Sharky is really my favorite, he’s the only reason I started watching beta squad 😂 SDS was getting heavily suggested in my recommended till one day I clicked on it and I was hooked. Haven’t missed a episode since 2022 and I went back and watched the ones before that. Sharky’s hosting skills are on point and his personality always shines through. So then I see a Beta Squad video in my recommended and I’m like “oh shit, that’s Sharky in it” so I click and yea I start watching Beta Squad. It’s also dope to see how Sharky gave all the SDS guys the platform to shine on their own, got guys on Sky Sports and collaborating with premier league clubs. LEGEND!!
been waiting for this onee
FINALLYYYY SHARKY IS HERE!! I AM SO EXCITED🤩🤩🤩🤩
WAKES UP CHUNKZ AND FILLY POSTEDDD
uggh the ep ive been waiting for❤
These podcast episodes fly-by and that's compliments to you boys. Well done and keep up the good work
You know i gasped loudly and almost broke my tablet on how hard i clicked onto the video my finger actuallt hurts lol
The moment we waited for!!!
Sharky is correct about female vs. male friendships.
Chunkz is type of friend you need.
I SCREAMED
I’ve been waiting for this one!!
This is going to be a good ep fr 😤
Haven't even watched it but this finna be the toughest episode. LESGOOOO
I need to get a man who looks at me like filly looks at sharky
This is one hell of a smooth episode. Enjoyed every minute of it.
you know filly admires all his friends 😻 and its so beautiful
FILLY WAS FANGIRLING ON SHARKY SO HARD
AYEEEE SHARKYYYY 💗💗
BEEN WAITING FOR THIS FOR FAR TOO LONG❤
I love the love they have for each other😩🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
42:42 The way chunkz squealed 😭😭
best episode so far big ups my brotha sharks
my wish had been granted! can’t wait to see the rest of beta on here🥰
Watched this 3times already can’t wait for next week episode to come out 😪
Was waiting on this one ❤😂
On the friendship thing, it’s a quality over quantity thing
Most male friendships may last for years but there’s rarely any deep relationship compared to female friendships where they actually put in effort to have quality friendships
I don't really agree... Women can have met a girl yesterday and call her "my love", "my life" (I don't know if they say that in English too, I'm translating from what I hear in French lol) and lots of other words like that when they've known each other for barely 24 hours 😅
And so it doesn't surprise me that these kinds of relationships end quickly... so I wouldn't call them quality friendships
The way I’m quite literally in love with Sharky.. SCREAMED WHEN I SAW HIM ON HERE FRRR
beennn waiting for this
I waited for this soooo long to eat with my food ..LOVE FROM 🇹🇿 TANZANIA
Sharky is my favorite beta squad member
Seeing chunkz get riled up over sharky makes me happy, today he is on the other end of the spectrum 😂😂
Filly looks like the ART ATTACK HEAD from back in the day.😂😂😂
No disrespect bro! lol
I remember watching 4 Somalis in a kitchen battle rapping 😂 we need the original 4 chunkz darkest sharky & Aj
Chunks is 100% correct on friendships
Filly is speaking everything I have been thinking about Sharky 🦈 😂😂😂. Love them man
Loved watching the ep... was amazing fr 👏 elite intro ✊️ keep going 🙌 up Chunkz n Filly Show
What an episode man , sharky one of my favorites content creators out here. Hope he reaches even higher levels insha Allah
Best episode so far in my opinion
Wasn’t expecting this one 🔥 but this will be a good one
One of the favorite episodes everrr
Finally sharky😂
Since they were talking about acting , I could see Sharky working as a detective in a show like Luther
yess cuz of the ndl video
Aye finally a reason to watch again, what's good Sharky!
Awww love love thisssss ❤❤❤❤ screaming 😱 lemme go watch
YES FINALLY SHARKY MY MANNN
If you’re prepared to put everyone before your own wife including the kids SHE GAVE YOU why TF are you even married?
Istg
Real friend for telling sharky about his dancing vids
54:30 Sharky very unaware and unintentionally triggered an old disagreement and then trying to lighten up the subject is so funny to me 😭
LOLLLL
Saw sharky and I had to click💯
filly fan girling is everything 😂😂❤
😂food for thought
Can chunkz and filly switch seats for just an episode
Genuinely one of the first podcast I enjoyed ❤😊
I’m waiting on NIKO and AJ!
I love sharky. so positive.
Keep doing what u do guys I love the mix best of both with guests sometimes and sometimes duo. Love ig
I would absolutely LOVE to see Niko and AJ on this podcast!! theyve got so much to offer and best believe imma have my popcorn ready as I watch
Love from South Africa 🇿🇦
you know its a good day when theres pod out
Real
@claudiabober259 can u even hear the audio
Heyyyy 600kkkk finally congrats boys❤️
Happy to see yall posting again goodluck