when that women who cried was explaining why she had to intervene made me so sad. she has such a point. some families don’t even have the choice to have a good bond and be a family. and the fact that they’re just throwing that away is so heartbreaking.
IK, my mom died when I was young so I know how she feels. Many take their family members for granted and don’t support them. I hope that all going through those struggles rekindle. If the family still does not accept you then they are not your true family. Family is not blood but those who love you unconditionally.
She actually did. She is probably the most sympathetic person. To feel someone else pain is something real, I have felt some strangers pain but mostly happens with my brother. Once my mom was scolding my brother and I started crying cuz he was crying.
I'm an Asian, a christian, and I'm bisexual and this just hits home. The 1st time I came out to my parents, it was very hard for me. My whole family was very religious. I felt scared and ashamed. There was a point in my life where I even despised myself and was utterly disgusted by myself for being like this. But I just couldn't. It was who I was and god knows how much I already tried changing that part of me which obviously didn't work. So I was thankful to my friends especially my childhood best friend who lives in an another country. I was devastated during those years, it felt like I couldn't reach to anyone. I wanted to die, but then I thought, "God gave me this life to see the beauty in life and the world. Why would I waste it? He gave me this life, so I should cherish it. I should prove to him that I was worth being born" and then I prayed to God. 1st, I thanked him for the life his given me. 2nd, I asked him for forgiveness that I turned out like this and forgiveness for the constant suicidal thoughts that kept on running through my mind. 3rd, I also asked that he forgives my parents for their hurtful words, not to me but towards the other people who's also currently struggling this issue that I was also facing. And lastly, I asked for guidance, for a sign. And boom. That's when my childhood best friend called me for a vc. When I told her my situation, the 1st thing she did was congratulate me for being brave and for taking the risk of coming out to her. She was happy that I finally found one of the pieces within me. I was so touched. She was the best friend slash sister I've ever had in my entire life. She's straight and she also came from a family like mine; Asian, christian and very religious but she was still there for me and she gave me advices. She never stopped loving me as a best friend, a sister and almost as a twin. She also risked herself talking to my parents regarding this issue. So as time went by, my family gradually but finally accepted me. Although some of them still don't fully support me yet at least they were civil and getting there. My mom, she was the best. She was the first to comfort me after their talk with my best friend. And then there goes dad. But the best of all was my grandma. Before my parents finally accepted me and before my friend talked to them, my friend actually consulted my grandma first if it was okay for her to confront my parents. And we were so shocked at what my grandma did. She actually hugged me and said sorry for how my parents were acting. She was sorry for the times she never knew what I was going through, but most of all she was sorry that I've gone through those days where I hated myself. She was the best. Now, my parents fully accept me. Heck my dad even hides money from my mom just to give me extra allowance for dates (well that was before pandemic) anyway, I love them. Especially my best friend and grandma. But even though if they still didn't accept me, I don't think I ever hated them one bit. I mean, I know where they were coming from. I know how hurt they must've felt when I outed myself. I understand them and I'd still love them no matter their harsh remarks because they were my parents. They gave birth to me. They're the reason why I'm alive and seeing the world right now.... Parents may come out tough at times, they may become passive aggressive towards you for how many years but no parents don't love their kids. All parents love us and I know for a fact, that one day, they'll forgive you. It may take the longest time, but trust me they will. The point is, they're mad because they know how society is like and they just don't want their child to experience being criticised and mocked and harassed by others. They're afraid for us. So I understand them. Just give them time, and show them that you being gay or bisexual or pan or trans doesn't change who you are as a person and as their child. That no matter your gender, you're still that same kid that they raised and that you being like that doesn't make you less of a person. Rather, it makes you a better version of yourself❤️
I understand what you’re getting at but we don’t need our parents to ‘forgive’ us. We’ve done nothing wrong in coming out to them. Parents shouldn’t feel ‘hurt’ that their kid isn’t straight. Parents shouldn’t be passive aggressive towards their children for not being straight. You can accept and even support your child’s sexuality without understanding it because I know it can be hard for some parents to properly understand. I’m sorry you had to go through that ❤️
@isblueokay "god" isnt real the truth is religion is just the control of peoples morals and ways of thinking. What better way to convince someone to think gay people are icky than to say well god says gay people are icky. Religion takes place in the minds of weak people who cannot critically think or are too afraid too because god says they will burn in hell for eternity for even daring to have their own thoughts. Sounds like a cult to me. "god" did not give you life. If you put down that cultist fairytail book for a second and did some critical thinking and research on evolution, you would know that. Please, please get out of this cult.
I'm Asian Bisexual as well! And just know, that we will ALWAYS be there for you, I hope your family supports you for who you are, because, you can't change yourself, if your gay, your gay, if your bi, your bi! Or if you are a part of the LGBTQIA+ Comm, just know, there are MILLIONS of people out there who support you, don't feel ashamed, and also, no one needs their parents to forgive them, that's just the way you are, and if they can't accept that, then. . . It's their loss, y'know? So. . . Don't feel bad about it, just. . . give it some time, and until you feel you are ready, then you can come out, good luck! We will always be there for you and support you!
@@angel-nv7jk no its not actually statistically there are other places in the world that is far more accepting towards homosexuality than America. Many are neutral to. No matter were you go though it generally just depends on the individual person. There are many who hate it, like it, or don't agree with it but except it
@@justinmoore3217 okay, but I was being rhetorical and didn't ask now did I? I don't give a damn if other countries are more accepting, good for them if they do! If not, the world keeps turning. I was referring how obnoxious the US is about it. Jeez
I'm not gay but it really hurts when i try to tell my Asian parents that being gay or LGBTQ+ is not something to condemned for and they somehow think that i'm gay, and im just like 'no but you can't just invalidate their identity'
@ツKylie then leave they don't want you either bitch 😐 stop discriminating against people just trying to live a happy life it has nothing to do wit yo ass
@ツKylie Um okay? Just so you know christianity/catholicism and literally every religion is about respecting each other, being forgiving, and loving each other and if you're not doing that and treating everyone equally then you're disrespecting your religion and people.
@classyt20f7 bruhhhhh, get yo judging ass out of here, you probably sleep with children. Which is WHAT THE BIBLE WAS TALKING ABOUT "NO MAN SHOULD LIE WITH A BOY" NOT MAN ON MAN.
@@FrogmanDOGE to bad for them, millions of children already need a home and deserve one. My father was adopted actually, and I am forever grateful to my grandparents. They could have biological children but still made the choice to give a child a loving home.
Actually the bible didn't actually specify, the thing about the gay, it was just a story that told that rape was bad, because a handsome angel was almost raped, or raped, I don't remember, by some men, but people took it the other way. Damn, catholisism was supposed to be a religion of love... but some people are just getting killed for their sexuallity... is so 😭...
@@thequ1etkid Damn. If only there was something in the bible that said we shouldn't judge other people... If you don't decide who goes to heaven or hell, I don't think you have any position to judge.
@@sseralific No no, my friend. I ain’t no dang homophobe, I meant that because I’m a female and gay means that he likes men right? That’s means that I had no chance in the first place
Gay Asian kid “Dad, I’m gay.” Dad: “I don’t care, you gay doctor yet?” Gay Asian kid: “no...” Dad: “I get rainbow belt for you.” *whip Dad: “come back when gay doctor.”
How to know if you are on WWYD: -You see Traci -You are in a restaurant or store -The actors leave at convenient times -They say "I'm just saying what everyone else is saying" -They come to you when no one else will -The talk very loudly so you can hear their problems
My mom told me everything these parents did when I came out and it's been years later and I still feel completely destroyed by her rejection. She's done a few things over the years to show that she's trying to be 'tolerant'...I don't think she'll ever be accepting...it still really hurts deeply. I'm so glad some of the bystanders were quick to help the kid out.
I’m sorry your mother wasn’t supportive. Children learn what they live and it’s hard to break that cycle especially if it’s a cultural norm. I’m a mother to a bisexual daughter and I don’t see it as big deal or even a small deal. However I was raised in a non religious household by my single mother, to be open minded and to accept and respect others for who they are so long as they’re doing no harm . I was taught we’re all equal regardless of our differences. It upsets me to see children being hurt by their parents. Sending you some love ❤️. I’ve been hurt by my father for different reasons so I relate. It still there no matter how they try to make up for it. They don’t realise the disappointment/ hurt they claim to feel works both ways.
When the last girl said that she lost her mom at twenty and that she can’t stand when people aren’t close with their parents I felt that. Lost my mom at twelve. And it is sad to see kids getting mad at their moms/dads because I wish I could’ve been on better terms with my mom. Now I don’t have I don’t have that option anymore
@@monica-mv8kj guys that's both horrible and I'm really sorry for your loss. I know there's nothing I can do but I just want you to know I'm sorry for your loss
Alexia Seas yeah I get that. My mom was ab*sive to me in early childhood but she started to change. And then she passed. I understand what you’re saying
@@kingakuma1990 You're ignorant to the subject obviously. You can't control what or who you're sexually interested in you imbecile. Educate yourself, and also that analogy is so ridiculous. Nobody truly knows if you're born that way, or if it's because of some other factors. Scientists still don't know and you surely hell aren't an expert in the field. You feel me dumb ass?
im Latina, and I’m bisexual. Both of my parents are super religious and extremely homophobic. Watching this video seeing these people saying that it’s wrong just breaks my heart. I just wanna be accepted. Sometimes I’m ashamed to be like this, but I really can’t help it. I was born like this, so I don’t know what they want me to do. I’m not always ashamed, most of the time I’m very proud, but this just breaks my heart .
I’ve always been gay. While my parents support me, I still find myself seeking approval from others that just don’t agree with it. You will never feel fully accepted by your parents or others but you can’t let that stop you from being yourself. We live in a world where we can be who we are. We also have the choice of wether or not we let people influence how we feel about ourselves. Hang in there, we got this.
@@milabae1114 Leviticus 20:13 13 “ ‘If a man has sexual relations with a man as one does with a woman, both of them have done what is detestable. They are to be put to death; their blood will be on their own heads. Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God’ 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 Ignorance is bliss
it's staged but not fake, stage in a way that the actors will take louder, the restaurant will be filled with some actor to make it look busy, but the person that speak up are real, not actors
The actor for the gay son is so beautiful. I appreciate his beauty but I can also appreciate this video's message. I was truly touched to see so many people support this boy while his own family couldn't, since I have suffered with my sexuality due to my parent's hostile view on homosexuality. It uplifted my spirits. I appreciated that. I also appreciated the man's beautiful features and I see no wrong in praising beauty.
_Me: I have to tell you something._ _My Asian Parents: Is it about your grades?_ _Me: I am gay._ _My Asian Parents: But you are doing good in class, right?_
EXACTLY! Like I say to this ppl:,, Did you chose to be straight? So, you could also choose to be gay?" I can't stand those ppl. It's not an opinion, it's discrimination.
Yes those people are so ignorant of how sexuality works. I can’t turn it off or on. It is just a part of who I am. I know if I had a anti pride country, I would probably be forced to go through chemical therapy(pills ) to stop or a lot worse. But even then, that doesn’t work. I really wish people would educate themselves before saying that stuff.
that old man had me until he started talking about the Bible and conversion therapy??? as a bisexual who has conservative grandparents I would be sHAttered if they started telling me these things
That old guy that was saying that being gay is a sin is out of order. The fact he told the family to seek conversion "therapy" to top it off really takes the biscuit, especially how he talks about his beliefs while looking at the table. Yeah, that shows ALOT of faith, just goes to show how zombified certain people are by religion.
No, he is not out of order. These are the traditional views held by the overwhelming majority of people of the United States for the majority of the the 244 years of its existence. gays are out of order by the very virtue of them acting apart from the traditional order of morality in the US and the wider west.
Especially since the Bible was mistranslated, and even changed later on. Originally, Levicitus 20 13 was about a man and a boy, saying that pedophilia is wrong. S
Because she never had parent's... If she would have parents she would know being gay is not fine... She would never be born if they were gay.. Would you want your parents to be gay??? Offcourse not!!!! Society turning into sodom and Gomorrah... There are testimonies of many who turned straight from gay.. As God's power heal them from inside.... Temptations and early child abuse plays a huge role in turning someone to gay... It's not a normal condition it's a mental issue which needs to be treated... I came from the same background and i know how being gay impacts your health your brains and your social life!!!!! No one is born gay... PERIOD
@@livinghope1561 It would be nice if you shut your trap ;) It's funny how people always use the bible to say that being gay is wrong. But remember that it was people who wrote the bible, not God. Even if God told us himself that being gay is bad, then he is wrong. If God truly loves us (if he even exists), he will accept us for who we are and not hate us because we like the same gender. If he hates us for that, then he doesn't really love us and I'll rather go to hell than change myself.
@@glitterkoo1516 God created us and He have the right to tell us what is wrong and right!!!!! Didn't God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah?? You may research and they still exist... God created male and female... Not male and male... If all turns gay then a society will cease to exist that is what Satan wants everyone to go hell and no one turn to God.... Every gay knows whatever i said is truth and facts... They need psychiatrist and Jesus can heal them all...... Go and check ex gay's testimonies ... If gay can't turn straight then u r wrong just as saying sick cannot be healed......
But why equate her worth to being in a relationship with someone? And you assumed it'd be a bloke. How strange. Obviously you meant it in a nice way, but we should stop thinking that being content in life equalls romantic relationships. New evidence suggests the opposite is true for women.
japared oakfield nah all bi lingual parents do this. It’s easier to speak when you’re mad in your first language so they switch if they child would understand you
True, I'm also an Asian and if I had kids, as long as integrity, morality, and spirituality are part of their values, then their gender and sexuality shouldn't matter. There is so much more to the human experience than your personal identity based whom you're attracted to.
maybe he referred to the way they were raised. Some of my friends are gay and they come from broken families, some were abused. For me, I can't put myself in a category; my parents wanted a boy and growing up, they dressed me like one. Maybe they didn't realize but I questioned my sexuality later on.
@@dncl1519 No I'm aware. However, I was raise by two straight parents and nobody in my family was part of Lgbtq+. Yet, I'm bisexual. It really depends on the person rather then how they are raised or who they're raised by, you cannot control what gender you're attracted to honestly.
Kill all Fat People you're a real fucking hero dude. That hate speech is just such an inspiration to so many awful people, thanks for your contribution
I'm an White Gay Aussie with an Asian Male partner and I know how hard it can be for an Asian guy to come out. We were together for about 9 years before he told his parents.
Yes the bible does. Just because you think someone is sinning doesnt mean you cant love them. If someone is a murderer the bible still teaches it is wrong but you should still love them.
Families are fucked up, when I was 14 my 17 year old cousin told me that being gay is a sin and wrong, and all gay people should be inprisoned. Took me until I was an adult to come out.
I love it when people think you can just manipulate the brain into not thinking as a gay person, and manipulate everyday life to not be a gay person. Like-you're funny, but also stupid. Go read some science and psychology books, love. 😂
“I grew up in a totally masculine world” I’m gay, but I work out and am on the football team at my school. I love everything about football. Our sexual orientation doesn’t define us.
CAPRISunLLuminati well theirs 2 sides a feminine and a masculine gay I see it with my friend who’s gay but he’s a masculine guy not the ones that color nails and do makeup he’s chill I respect it though .
As a feminine gay women who is close friends with a masculine gay man, I am being honest. Who you sleep with is only a very small portion of a way bigger personality.
Don't people realize by now that if you're in a diner and you overhear a family TALKING WAY TOO LOUD about what should be a private conversation and one of them storms off and the other turns to you for advice IT'S PROBABLY WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
I mean if I where to come out to my extremely homophobic family I would do it in a public place as well to make sure there where people around in case things got intense. So I guess it kind of makes sense
When John is interviewing people at the end you can tell it’s always hard for him not to correct these ignorant people He has to remain a neutral reporter and just ask questions
I KNOW them setting it up in English was a red flag, but still...ah man, this one broke me down into tears. You guys keep doing what you're doing and the ladies at the end are so endearing. I wish them both well.
There is this amazing show called ask Japanese and in one of the episodes they ask people in Japan how homosexuality is viewed and while still stigmatized a bit a lot are accepting of it. A lot of youri (lesbian) anima exists and it's very popular
EnviousNeptune8 • I believe there's something that makes you gay there just has to be something im not gay but theres a reason why I can't go have sex with a guy it would be off putting😂 but a gay guy that doesn't like or want to have sex with a girl which there then there has to be reason then, I'm not saying I'm right but that's my opinion everyone is entitled to there own opinion but obviously people gets hurt over this when ya hear people committing suicide I've had a few people I new that were gay and took there own life because there family didn't accept it or they got bullied so if it had to be something if they gained that sort of depression ya can't fake being gay like ya just can't
Asian daughter: im lesbian Asian parents: *i thought you were american* Edit: holy shit i didnt think id get 1k likes thanks guys lmao Edit #2: 3.5k likes... im actually speechless
This is really heartwarming and all but I’m sorry the comedic timing of her friend suddenly showing up and saying “what did you do?” Was too perfect. I was laughing so hard
StayCalm Starz never heard of murder go to a pastor, the pastor is a good idea, if my kid like that I would definitely go see a pastor or priest. Because if the pastor/priest is on my side, my kid would understand it(problaby) I would definitely remind him and make him straight again, but if the pastor/priest is on my kid side then I must let my kid choose the best for him. I just hope my kid doesn't get a sin/bad things. Plus,I feel bad for his kid.
This is such a major problem asian families face... Not accepting gays... i personally don't know anyone where i live who are gay... This is such an important issue and WWYD dis such a tremendous job to bring it up
When the last woman started talking I started bawling at her story. I’m bisexual and black. A lot of people in my family wouldn’t be okay with me being bi and would look down upon me. And seeing this woman be so open made me feel good. I know that I can never openly date a female in my family because I would be shut out and I feel for Daniel because of this. I just wish that everyone would open their hearts and eyes and love everyone regardless of their race, sexuality or gender. Preach love not hate. 💜💜
I haven't came out to my family as an Asian Bisexual yet, but I did to my friends, and I'm so glad they support me, I burst out into tears. . . So. . . Don't feel scared or nervous, because, if you're not ready to come out, then don't. Just leave it be until you feel comfortable! And P.S This is for EVERYONE out there, who feels as if they are committing a sin//crime by being a part of the LGBTQIA+ community, NEVER THINK THAT! You are not alone. . . Alright?? I there are MILLIONS of people who support you, and JUST SO YOU KNOW, IM ONE OF THEMM!!!! I love you all SO SO SO MUCH! Stay safe out there everyone, and good luck coming out. . .!
@@stellaoctangula6 I think they mean that their mum was even more disappointed about the grades than she was about them being bi. I don't know if that makes sense
my brother is 18. he has a gay friend. his friends parents didn't believe in being gay, as 'the bible says a man and woman should be together', or whatever, so his parents said 'if you don't believe in marriage with a woman, you are not allowed to live under this roof'. he knew 100% he was gay, so he was kicked out of his own families house. he had no where to go. he felt embarrassed living with other family or friends, so he was left homeless on the streets. my brother got his own apartment, and he now lives with Anthony, his friend. he was so happy to be able to have access to everything. any parent that won't accept their child for the sexuality or any disability they have, should of never been a parent. if you're a parent, you should love your child, no matter who they are. no one is perfect. no one is going to be the best. but you always put your children as your first priority. you should put them before anyone. it isn't hard, it's only hard if you make it. accept them for who they are, and everything will be okay.
It's a sad reality that Asian families put their kids through alot, you have to get a's in school, marry someone who's rich and has a degree, no free time and much more
I’m Asian and I don’t know any Asian people that would say this in English
@Sam not all of us are like that-
@Sam festishising asian people is becoming all too common its so yeesh
I agree because 99% of parents whose English is their second language revert back to their first language when they are pissed.
Lynn St. Hilaire my parents get so pissed when I speak English but I still do
Scarlet Young same
*no Asian family would talk about these types of things in EnGlisH*
Best comment I heard so far.
Ha ha ha!! Especially at a public restaurant. This is like a movie already.
Phoebe Thien TRUE
they'd start yelling like "AJDBEJNEDKSKWURH DKSKEJHFDBJWIDNFF"
Oml so true 😭 it would be full on cursing at each other and yelling in a different language maybe even a few slippers thrown at the kid's face.
The Asian gay actor didn't know how to respond and act when that last lady showed so much compassion.
Her heart is as big as an ocean. 😥
She's so kind nd nice. I hope she gets all the happiness she can wish for!
Mi Pillsburry ❤️❤️ Ikr
Damn I almost cried at that part, bc I really could relate.....
shes literally an angel. My heart is melting
The level of empathy the last woman has. The way she just soaked herself with what the actor was supposed to be bottling up.
Reverse the roles: young man comes out as Asian to his traditional gay parents.
Wait what! Lol
Traditional parents come out as young to gay man
🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂what a twist
Wait a second...
You know stuff is gonna get *REAL* when he says:
"We roll one last time."
True😂
I usually skip to that part when it gets boring
Mr.Funny! Facts
Mr.Funny! I litterly saw ur comment once he said it
True
when that women who cried was explaining why she had to intervene made me so sad. she has such a point. some families don’t even have the choice to have a good bond and be a family. and the fact that they’re just throwing that away is so heartbreaking.
omg a stay hello
That made my eyes teary
And my nose running
@@reynaldo969 mine too
IK, my mom died when I was young so I know how she feels. Many take their family members for granted and don’t support them. I hope that all going through those struggles rekindle. If the family still does not accept you then they are not your true family. Family is not blood but those who love you unconditionally.
Bless her soul, she is so kind hearted ❤️🙏
The last womans empathy and complete openness with her emotions was really moving
She should go on a date with Daniel (they are wholesome together)
I want to be friends with that last girl, she seems like a wonderful person
Same
Same😊
Same
I feel the same way
Yeah- and the actor got cuz hes cute lmao-
My Asian family:
You can be gay as long as you become doctor
My Asian Family:
You can have a husband if you want. I just need you to be a doctor or you’ll never be successful.
Right lmaoo
sure you're "Asian" 😂😂😂
Kat
Me too. That’s my parents
Yo wtf this is so true 😂😂 my parents always be telling me to become a doctor, especially my mom
“YOU BRING SHAME TO OUR FAMIRY” wow my mom says this all the time and im straight
I have changed my comment because these r/woosh comments hit differently at 12 a.m
@@butteredtoast4486woosh
B u t t e r e d T o a s t It was a joke, genius.
Lolx
I’m getting shogun 2 flashbacks lmao
Karen’s: “Be yourself”
Person: ok, I’m gay
Karen’s: “wait that’s illegal”
SSSnipperwolf vibes
Fr-
WHY IS THIS KINDA TRUE- 👁👄👁
Did this really deserve 815 likes it wasn’t even that funny
I want to talk to your manager 👁👄👁
That last woman made me cry. She's the sweetest, most compassionate person. ;3; I wanna be her friend.
same she made me cry too!
same dude.
@Lzb Lmvm Nice you think that, honey.
Lzb Lmvm no u
She actually did. She is probably the most sympathetic person. To feel someone else pain is something real, I have felt some strangers pain but mostly happens with my brother. Once my mom was scolding my brother and I started crying cuz he was crying.
The first couple was like “ohhhh the tea is spilled” after he said he was gay.
ikr made me laugh
Lmfao that would be me
XDD
*screams in Trixie
Whahahaha nice, tackled both being Asian and coming out gay in one sentence. Gold
That last lady has such a beautiful soul.
iLearnedItFromThePizzaMan it’s time to relax spongebob
Spongebob I love you
iLearnedItFromThePizzaMan FUCK THAT LADY SHES GAY
I'm an Asian, a christian, and I'm bisexual and this just hits home. The 1st time I came out to my parents, it was very hard for me. My whole family was very religious. I felt scared and ashamed. There was a point in my life where I even despised myself and was utterly disgusted by myself for being like this. But I just couldn't. It was who I was and god knows how much I already tried changing that part of me which obviously didn't work. So I was thankful to my friends especially my childhood best friend who lives in an another country. I was devastated during those years, it felt like I couldn't reach to anyone. I wanted to die, but then I thought, "God gave me this life to see the beauty in life and the world. Why would I waste it? He gave me this life, so I should cherish it. I should prove to him that I was worth being born" and then I prayed to God. 1st, I thanked him for the life his given me. 2nd, I asked him for forgiveness that I turned out like this and forgiveness for the constant suicidal thoughts that kept on running through my mind. 3rd, I also asked that he forgives my parents for their hurtful words, not to me but towards the other people who's also currently struggling this issue that I was also facing. And lastly, I asked for guidance, for a sign. And boom. That's when my childhood best friend called me for a vc. When I told her my situation, the 1st thing she did was congratulate me for being brave and for taking the risk of coming out to her. She was happy that I finally found one of the pieces within me. I was so touched. She was the best friend slash sister I've ever had in my entire life. She's straight and she also came from a family like mine; Asian, christian and very religious but she was still there for me and she gave me advices. She never stopped loving me as a best friend, a sister and almost as a twin. She also risked herself talking to my parents regarding this issue. So as time went by, my family gradually but finally accepted me. Although some of them still don't fully support me yet at least they were civil and getting there. My mom, she was the best. She was the first to comfort me after their talk with my best friend. And then there goes dad. But the best of all was my grandma. Before my parents finally accepted me and before my friend talked to them, my friend actually consulted my grandma first if it was okay for her to confront my parents. And we were so shocked at what my grandma did. She actually hugged me and said sorry for how my parents were acting. She was sorry for the times she never knew what I was going through, but most of all she was sorry that I've gone through those days where I hated myself. She was the best. Now, my parents fully accept me. Heck my dad even hides money from my mom just to give me extra allowance for dates (well that was before pandemic) anyway, I love them. Especially my best friend and grandma. But even though if they still didn't accept me, I don't think I ever hated them one bit. I mean, I know where they were coming from. I know how hurt they must've felt when I outed myself. I understand them and I'd still love them no matter their harsh remarks because they were my parents. They gave birth to me. They're the reason why I'm alive and seeing the world right now.... Parents may come out tough at times, they may become passive aggressive towards you for how many years but no parents don't love their kids. All parents love us and I know for a fact, that one day, they'll forgive you. It may take the longest time, but trust me they will. The point is, they're mad because they know how society is like and they just don't want their child to experience being criticised and mocked and harassed by others. They're afraid for us. So I understand them. Just give them time, and show them that you being gay or bisexual or pan or trans doesn't change who you are as a person and as their child. That no matter your gender, you're still that same kid that they raised and that you being like that doesn't make you less of a person. Rather, it makes you a better version of yourself❤️
Which country in asia?
I understand what you’re getting at but we don’t need our parents to ‘forgive’ us. We’ve done nothing wrong in coming out to them. Parents shouldn’t feel ‘hurt’ that their kid isn’t straight. Parents shouldn’t be passive aggressive towards their children for not being straight. You can accept and even support your child’s sexuality without understanding it because I know it can be hard for some parents to properly understand. I’m sorry you had to go through that ❤️
@isblueokay "god" isnt real the truth is religion is just the control of peoples morals and ways of thinking. What better way to convince someone to think gay people are icky than to say well god says gay people are icky. Religion takes place in the minds of weak people who cannot critically think or are too afraid too because god says they will burn in hell for eternity for even daring to have their own thoughts. Sounds like a cult to me. "god" did not give you life. If you put down that cultist fairytail book for a second and did some critical thinking and research on evolution, you would know that. Please, please get out of this cult.
I'm Asian Bisexual as well! And just know, that we will ALWAYS be there for you, I hope your family supports you for who you are, because, you can't change yourself, if your gay, your gay, if your bi, your bi! Or if you are a part of the LGBTQIA+ Comm, just know, there are MILLIONS of people out there who support you, don't feel ashamed, and also, no one needs their parents to forgive them, that's just the way you are, and if they can't accept that, then. . . It's their loss, y'know? So. . . Don't feel bad about it, just. . . give it some time, and until you feel you are ready, then you can come out, good luck! We will always be there for you and support you!
Girl aint nobody gonna read all that
This is not realistic, the parents would just smack the shit outta their son
Hahah usually that comes after a long nagging! :D
christhegeek517 lol no they'd act chill in public, drag you home, THEN beat the shit out of you
Speaking from experience 🙋 :'))))
@king jebril What? You can't control it......
Moral of the story don’t be homophobic
I’d beat my son
The last girl was so nice and I actually cried. ONCE AGAIN.
ikr, I love these videos, actually revive my faith in humanity.
Me too! It broke my 心!
I cried too
"We did not raise you in America to be gay!"
Momma, you went to the wrong place
Lol America is literally the gayest place on earth. The capital for many LGBT+ movements over the decades.
@@angel-nv7jk no its not actually statistically there are other places in the world that is far more accepting towards homosexuality than America. Many are neutral to. No matter were you go though it generally just depends on the individual person. There are many who hate it, like it, or don't agree with it but except it
Go to iran or saudi arabia 🤣 he is not be gay there
@@justinmoore3217 okay, but I was being rhetorical and didn't ask now did I? I don't give a damn if other countries are more accepting, good for them if they do! If not, the world keeps turning. I was referring how obnoxious the US is about it. Jeez
In the middle east they kill gay people
I'm not gay but it really hurts when i try to tell my Asian parents that being gay or LGBTQ+ is not something to condemned for and they somehow think that i'm gay, and im just like 'no but you can't just invalidate their identity'
Ironically there been many cases of pastors being outed as gay.
yeah lol how someone ever thought Ted Haggard was straight??? I'm amazed he was even able to father those kids he has without using a turkey baster
@ツKylie then leave they don't want you either bitch 😐 stop discriminating against people just trying to live a happy life it has nothing to do wit yo ass
@@lilfker LOL, deadass
@ツKylie Lmao leave. Sorry to break it to you, but you literally don't matter to the church 😃
@ツKylie Um okay? Just so you know christianity/catholicism and literally every religion is about respecting each other, being forgiving, and loving each other and if you're not doing that and treating everyone equally then you're disrespecting your religion and people.
I died when her Asian friend showed up and was like “WHAT DID YOU DO??” 😂
ikr🤣
She should have said what would you do?
Every on died
Oh I just told my parents I get a boner when I see men
@biggreenleaf
Oml yes. That's smart. Since I'm bi, people think I like everyone. NOPE.🤣🤣🤣🤣
"Its an environmental thing"
Man, this weather sure is making me feel *g a y*
It's the tap water shhhh. It's the gay agenda
Marshal *Alex Jones would like to know your location*
That tree makes me feel a little bit bi today
@classyt20f7 shut up, I never asked
@classyt20f7 bruhhhhh, get yo judging ass out of here, you probably sleep with children. Which is WHAT THE BIBLE WAS TALKING ABOUT "NO MAN SHOULD LIE WITH A BOY" NOT MAN ON MAN.
Parents: how can you have kids if you’re gay?!
Adoption: Ight Ima head out
Adoption: Cringe
Surrogacy: Based
Surrogacy is also an option
Some people want biological grand kids not adopted ones
@@FrogmanDOGE to bad for them, millions of children already need a home and deserve one. My father was adopted actually, and I am forever grateful to my grandparents. They could have biological children but still made the choice to give a child a loving home.
It's not the same
*Oh man, imagine if there was something in the Bible that says that people shouldn't judge other people..*
??? I don't remember commenting this y'all
Actually the bible didn't actually specify, the thing about the gay, it was just a story that told that rape was bad, because a handsome angel was almost raped, or raped, I don't remember, by some men, but people took it the other way. Damn, catholisism was supposed to be a religion of love... but some people are just getting killed for their sexuallity... is so 😭...
@@adrianaholguin4286 Oh, okay. Thanks for telling me! :)
Life is fake.
edit: when the hell did i post this tf
@@thequ1etkid Damn. If only there was something in the bible that said we shouldn't judge other people...
If you don't decide who goes to heaven or hell, I don't think you have any position to judge.
oh man imagine if you actually read the bible.... sped
The lady in white will be a great friend
Child: I'm gay
Homophobic parents: *Uno reverse card*
Child: reverse uno cards them back
SWSDDEEEKKGR
Child: I’m gay
Not Homophobic but Still Close-Minded Parents: Are you sure this isn’t because of last week’s Monopoly outcome?
Juxatiel SKKSJDKSNFD
@@grinchie-n2b™
I love that lady who cried at the end - what a wonderful human being
Mix it up a little
Son: I have to tell you guys something
Parents:
Son: You’re gay
Parents:😲
plot twist
Is that jk Rowling
I was confused than i read it again than I’m like “ooohh 😂😂😂”
Oh how the turns have tabled
the ultimate no u
NOO I READ IT AS "YOUNG MAN COMES OUT AS ASIAN" HELP
HAHAHA ARE YOU OKAY?
BYEE LFMAOO
@Emily Rotando LOL
👁️👄👁️
"We did not raise you to be Asian!"
Lol but when he said "im gay" the first couple's faces.
"oooo the *tea* has been _spilled_ bitch”
☕☕☕
ooooh
Bultaoreune omg lmao
STEEVI KIDD I’m weak lmao
HAHAHAHA THIS COMMENT 😂😂
Bro, off topic but the Asian actor is cute.
Heck yes!
Too bad he gay ;-;
Yea
But I’m gay☺️
@@AshleyBlackVA wdym "too bad he's gay" ???
Is there something wrong with him being gay? 😐
@@sseralific No no, my friend. I ain’t no dang homophobe, I meant that because I’m a female and gay means that he likes men right?
That’s means that I had no chance in the first place
that last lady is beautiful, inside and out.
I have to admit I cried too.. she's a very kind hearted girl
Irene's Tunes I wanted to cry my pansexual potato tears out
@Raven Bloodshadow Fuck off
Raven Bloodshadow Why would you say that? I’m just curious to hear your point of view
Have you seen what the lower intestine stores?
Gay Asian kid “Dad, I’m gay.”
Dad: “I don’t care, you gay doctor yet?”
Gay Asian kid: “no...”
Dad: “I get rainbow belt for you.”
*whip
Dad: “come back when gay doctor.”
Laughter of the day ❤️👌😅
Family guy referance?
Fredrick the Catfish no, I just thought it up
@@rickysmith923 that's very similar to in family guy
Fredrick the Catfish it probably is, dunno, what I do know is that I came up with that myself
How to know if you are on WWYD:
-You see Traci
-You are in a restaurant or store
-The actors leave at convenient times
-They say "I'm just saying what everyone else is saying"
-They come to you when no one else will
-The talk very loudly so you can hear their problems
Lmao
xD, first step: YOU SEE TRACI
LMAOOO PLSSSSS 😭
Traci😂🤣🤣
So you mean I have been in WWYD situation a lot of times before? WOW
My mom told me everything these parents did when I came out and it's been years later and I still feel completely destroyed by her rejection. She's done a few things over the years to show that she's trying to be 'tolerant'...I don't think she'll ever be accepting...it still really hurts deeply. I'm so glad some of the bystanders were quick to help the kid out.
I’m sorry your mother wasn’t supportive. Children learn what they live and it’s hard to break that cycle especially if it’s a cultural norm. I’m a mother to a bisexual daughter and I don’t see it as big deal or even a small deal. However I was raised in a non religious household by my single mother, to be open minded and to accept and respect others for who they are so long as they’re doing no harm . I was taught we’re all equal regardless of our differences. It upsets me to see children being hurt by their parents. Sending you some love ❤️. I’ve been hurt by my father for different reasons so I relate. It still there no matter how they try to make up for it. They don’t realise the disappointment/ hurt they claim to feel works both ways.
When the last girl said that she lost her mom at twenty and that she can’t stand when people aren’t close with their parents I felt that. Lost my mom at twelve. And it is sad to see kids getting mad at their moms/dads because I wish I could’ve been on better terms with my mom. Now I don’t have I don’t have that option anymore
i lost my mum at 5 :(
@@monica-mv8kj guys that's both horrible and I'm really sorry for your loss. I know there's nothing I can do but I just want you to know I'm sorry for your loss
January Wynter Your loss doesn’t invalid people’s feelings
January Wynter there’s also parents who are horrible to their kids so that’s why they can’t have good relationships
Alexia Seas yeah I get that. My mom was ab*sive to me in early childhood but she started to change. And then she passed. I understand what you’re saying
"It's an environmental thing" He drank the water that makes the frogs gay.
Do I see a news freak out reference?
@@kingakuma1990 You're ignorant to the subject obviously. You can't control what or who you're sexually interested in you imbecile. Educate yourself, and also that analogy is so ridiculous. Nobody truly knows if you're born that way, or if it's because of some other factors. Scientists still don't know and you surely hell aren't an expert in the field. You feel me dumb ass?
@@stazz6028 YES 👏 QWEEN 👏
@Instagram Ts_jazzmine Exactly Jazzmine that's the point i'm trying to get across to this guy.
@@Kai-bf3qq :)
*Guy stabs someone* - “Omg son you must of been so pressured.”
*Guy is gay* - “SON HOW DARE YOU DO THIS TO ME. YOURE GOING TO HELL”
Oml That is very true
WazupFanta I love your pfp
must have
This is dumb
@@Thekingkhari it is true
im Latina, and I’m bisexual. Both of my parents are super religious and extremely homophobic. Watching this video seeing these people saying that it’s wrong just breaks my heart. I just wanna be accepted. Sometimes I’m ashamed to be like this, but I really can’t help it. I was born like this, so I don’t know what they want me to do. I’m not always ashamed, most of the time I’m very proud, but this just breaks my heart .
I’ve always been gay. While my parents support me, I still find myself seeking approval from others that just don’t agree with it. You will never feel fully accepted by your parents or others but you can’t let that stop you from being yourself. We live in a world where we can be who we are. We also have the choice of wether or not we let people influence how we feel about ourselves. Hang in there, we got this.
You are not born that way. You choose it. The environment influenced you
we truly live in a society.
God loves you no matter what. Gay, bi, or straight.❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
@@milabae1114 Leviticus 20:13
13 “ ‘If a man has sexual relations with a man as one does with a woman, both of them have done what is detestable. They are to be put to death; their blood will be on their own heads.
Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God’
1 Corinthians 6:9-10
Ignorance is bliss
That women in white at last made me cry 😢😢
Marcus Romero ???
Marcus Romero OMG you need to get your lazy little rusty ugly af homophobic brain checked bitttccccch
it's staged but not fake, stage in a way that the actors will take louder, the restaurant will be filled with some actor to make it look busy, but the person that speak up are real, not actors
I cried too man
Dammmm!
Alastor255 It's fake and gay
The actor for the gay son is so beautiful.
I appreciate his beauty but I can also appreciate this video's message. I was truly touched to see so many people support this boy while his own family couldn't, since I have suffered with my sexuality due to my parent's hostile view on homosexuality. It uplifted my spirits. I appreciated that. I also appreciated the man's beautiful features and I see no wrong in praising beauty.
Right 😂😂😂
shut the fuck up angela
I know right
@@quanage4296 Why should I silence myself? I am simply admiring beauty.
Iz me daquan damn who hurt you 😔😬
“It’s an environmental thing”
Well, look like it’s gay season again!
Damn I'm feeling really gay today, must be because of this weather
dang it better stay inside! dont wanna catch a cold of LGBTQ+
LOL
That's not what he means idiot
These comments are the most funniest thing I’ve ever seen
That last girl is just such a sweetheart. I can't believe she started crying, And she loved her mom so much. Just adorable.
First guy was SHOOK.
Actor: "I'm gay"
Guy: "oh, WIG"
snatched
-snatched-
*snatched*
It's in orbit.
s n a t c h e d
“It’s an environmental thing”
Climate change is making me gay!
And guess who caused the climate change?
Us 😔
100000 IQ
But guess who doesn't believe in climate change 👀
leonardo cardoso That’s not what he means.
_Me: I have to tell you something._
_My Asian Parents: Is it about your grades?_
_Me: I am gay._
_My Asian Parents: But you are doing good in class, right?_
ᴀɴɪᴍᴇ ʟɪsᴛɪᴄ what is anime listic?
I would like but the amount of likes are 420 so 😂😂
,,No, i have C - ..."
,,YOU'RE NOT MY CHILD ANYMORE"
@@ihavelemonade5640 Lol. You bring shame to our family!
ᴀɴɪᴍᴇ ʟɪsᴛɪᴄ lol well
The bible isn’t a valid reason to be homophobic 😐
I’m sure God won’t be mad at someone for being gay. I think someone who was homophobic put it in the bible .
The bible never said anything about anti-gay. Predegist is not a valid reason to be homophobic either.
@@kirstycarlsson2919 Pls get your facts right before making assumptions.
Don't be ignorant!!!
@@RYCH3 1 Corinthians 6:9
Romans 1:26 - 27
@@vanillaoverchocolate5440 I’m not being ignorant.
"Take him to a pastor or a counselor."
Me: *sarcastic clap* Yeah. Just _counsel_ away all that gayness.
Yep, gotta pray the gay away (sarcastic laughter)
"Take him a pastor... to get abused."
I am a christian and I'm bi but God loves everyone because he created all of us. My parents are christian and they support me.
I agreed with that man!😡😡😡
@@heatherrose4264 ok? Good for you
A STRAIGHT person never has the right to say its a choice, makes my blood boil. YOU DONT KNOW HOW WE FEEL.
EXACTLY! Like I say to this ppl:,, Did you chose to be straight? So, you could also choose to be gay?" I can't stand those ppl. It's not an opinion, it's discrimination.
Ablas Favorites ily
@@Angel-to8xm Thanks
Exactly. Straight people can’t choose either. No one can choose, you simply like a gender or two, and that’s the end of it.
Yes those people are so ignorant of how sexuality works. I can’t turn it off or on. It is just a part of who I am. I know if I had a anti pride country, I would probably be forced to go through chemical therapy(pills ) to stop or a lot worse. But even then, that doesn’t work. I really wish people would educate themselves before saying that stuff.
That woman at the end is a beautiful person.
wyatt kubar yes you’re right
that old man had me until he started talking about the Bible and conversion therapy??? as a bisexual who has conservative grandparents I would be sHAttered if they started telling me these things
But he’s right
@@Frenite fax
@@Frenite No, he isn’t.
@@OuiGodApollo23 Yes he is
@@Frenite no he isnt
So apparently being gay is an environmental issue.
Who knew?
Hehe you're absolutely right! I live in a Muslim environment but I'm still bi 😭😠👄👅😍👅never imagined hehehhaha🗿🍷😂🤘👁👄👁
@@faidee6197 mybe because of you see lgbt on the internet and got inspired 🤔
@@sosmedpunya6560 dude my comment was sarcastic, plus I knew I was bisexual before I knew even the concept of it on internet gg
Fai Dee You pole smoking mo mo!
@@jonmacdonald5345 thanks
“You bring shame to the family!” Anyone else have a Mulan flashback....
🤣
Korah
Oh yeah. I did
Im ded 😂😂
Korah 💀
oh Yeah!!
Gay Asian son: "mam dad I am gay"
Asian parents: "..."
Gay Asian son: "also I got an A- in math"
Asian parents: "YOU DISHONOR OUR FAMILY!"
Myron Kapetanakis is that a reference to an old WWYD episode with the tiger mom?
Also gay Asian son: I am not talented
Parents: SREEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Myron Kapetanakis I can’t tell if this is racist or not 😂
Myron Kapetanakis happens all the time
Myron Kapetanakis Lmao
That old guy that was saying that being gay is a sin is out of order. The fact he told the family to seek conversion "therapy" to top it off really takes the biscuit, especially how he talks about his beliefs while looking at the table. Yeah, that shows ALOT of faith, just goes to show how zombified certain people are by religion.
That is what religion was MADE to do
made to zombify and make people slaves to the cult that is Christianity while getting lost in insanity and delusion
No, he is not out of order. These are the traditional views held by the overwhelming majority of people of the United States for the majority of the the 244 years of its existence. gays are out of order by the very virtue of them acting apart from the traditional order of morality in the US and the wider west.
Especially since the Bible was mistranslated, and even changed later on. Originally, Levicitus 20 13 was about a man and a boy, saying that pedophilia is wrong. S
The Bible is outdated. They need to change it up a little bit. All religion should do that
The girl who was crying at the end - I love her soul.
same its good to clean my eyes
Same
ditto,,,
Son: "I'm gay."
Asian Parents: "Why not gay plus?"
What's gay plus?
@Matt Riley I don't get the joke. 😆
Well, that's not funny. 🤔
@@JimmieJamOfTheDay it is, and i’m asian lol
@@aaliyah9264 I guess, a person has to be Asian to think it's funny?
I can just imagine the audition announcement; “we are looking for an Asian woman and man who are open to criticizing a gay person”
Being gay is more of a white and black culture and not asain culture
Isaac Foster Excuse me? That’s just downright racist. Any “culture” can be gay, and it’s not “more common”
@@isaacfoster2820 tf is wrong with you
@@isaacfoster2820 oh aight sorry
@James Mathew very true
6:49 this lady is so nice she brought me in tears too.
The girl in the white top and headband is adorable I will remember everything she said it touched me.
Because she never had parent's... If she would have parents she would know being gay is not fine...
She would never be born if they were gay.. Would you want your parents to be gay??? Offcourse not!!!! Society turning into sodom and Gomorrah... There are testimonies of many who turned straight from gay.. As God's power heal them from inside.... Temptations and early child abuse plays a huge role in turning someone to gay... It's not a normal condition it's a mental issue which needs to be treated... I came from the same background and i know how being gay impacts your health your brains and your social life!!!!! No one is born gay... PERIOD
@@livinghope1561 fuck off lad 😂 no one wants you
@@livinghope1561 It would be nice if you shut your trap ;)
It's funny how people always use the bible to say that being gay is wrong. But remember that it was people who wrote the bible, not God. Even if God told us himself that being gay is bad, then he is wrong. If God truly loves us (if he even exists), he will accept us for who we are and not hate us because we like the same gender. If he hates us for that, then he doesn't really love us and I'll rather go to hell than change myself.
@@glitterkoo1516 God created us and He have the right to tell us what is wrong and right!!!!! Didn't God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah?? You may research and they still exist...
God created male and female... Not male and male... If all turns gay then a society will cease to exist that is what Satan wants everyone to go hell and no one turn to God.... Every gay knows whatever i said is truth and facts... They need psychiatrist and Jesus can heal them all...... Go and check ex gay's testimonies ... If gay can't turn straight then u r wrong just as saying sick cannot be healed......
She has an exceedingly pure soul
That girl at the end is incredibly beautiful inside and out. She'll make some guy really lucky some day.
Or some lady
or a female... this video is literally about the lgbt+ community lmao
Agreed she is amazing
@@strawberrychaeng5212 Nothing wrong with assuming people are straight since that's pretty much the standard.
But why equate her worth to being in a relationship with someone? And you assumed it'd be a bloke. How strange. Obviously you meant it in a nice way, but we should stop thinking that being content in life equalls romantic relationships. New evidence suggests the opposite is true for women.
in reality they would've spoken mandarin. When Chinese parents get mad they don't english anymore
Nesiannn Blue yeah that’s what I thought. This was unrealistic.
Nesiannn Blue think that’s only on the movies my man
japared oakfield nah all bi lingual parents do this. It’s easier to speak when you’re mad in your first language so they switch if they child would understand you
@@japaredoakfield3537 nah if i fucked up im boutta hear it from my mother language, family would go full rican on me 😂😂
well then there would be a high possibility of bystanders not understanding the conversation
I am asian I don’t care if my kids would be gay as long as they are good people
Your a good person :)) if you ever have kids they are gonna love you.
True, I'm also an Asian and if I had kids, as long as integrity, morality, and spirituality are part of their values, then their gender and sexuality shouldn't matter. There is so much more to the human experience than your personal identity based whom you're attracted to.
I mean as long as they become doctor everything is fine
"It's an environmental thing"
Me: *You're right the smell of the flowers turned me gay."*
maybe he referred to the way they were raised. Some of my friends are gay and they come from broken families, some were abused. For me, I can't put myself in a category; my parents wanted a boy and growing up, they dressed me like one. Maybe they didn't realize but I questioned my sexuality later on.
@@dncl1519 No I'm aware. However, I was raise by two straight parents and nobody in my family was part of Lgbtq+. Yet, I'm bisexual. It really depends on the person rather then how they are raised or who they're raised by, you cannot control what gender you're attracted to honestly.
@@jamie7785 I understand. It's just that i didn't have gay friends who were raised in a loving family so I thought it's the environment.
iTs ThE tAP WatER (anyone gets it?)
Eden Asher No. Just...no.
All ive learned from this show that A LOT of people eavesdrop 😂
but i also think they talk loud lol when I'm atva restaurant I never hear other ppl lol
@@nataliejazmin9598 Same! Haha
i do with my family and then we talk about their convos
Chris MD we all have ears and eyes
I eavesdrop a lot lol
that one guy basically told them to pray the gay away
No one can change their sexuality
Kill all Fat People l Please stop hating on people who did nothing to you k thanks have a nice day
Kill all Fat People you're a real fucking hero dude. That hate speech is just such an inspiration to so many awful people, thanks for your contribution
Bloody Killer yes you can
@Kill all Fat People Are you Christian? 'Cause if you are, I'm wondering where your Christian values went.
I'm an White Gay Aussie with an Asian Male partner and I know how hard it can be for an Asian guy to come out.
We were together for about 9 years before he told his parents.
"homosexuality is a sin against God"
but didnt the bible tell us to love one another unconditionally?¿
Lucky Me Supreme yes and if I had a gay son as hard as it would be for me to accept it I would still love them unconditionally.
Yes, but the bible is full of hypocrisy.
@@milefernandez4924 that is true.
Yes the bible does. Just because you think someone is sinning doesnt mean you cant love them. If someone is a murderer the bible still teaches it is wrong but you should still love them.
Yes 🙄
sis said "environmental thing"
oh look the tree is made of gay
LMAOOOO
Environmental as in people around you influencing your decisions
MspByVanessa It was joke but thx for explaining
MspByVanessa you don’t get influenced to be straight, the same applies to members of the lgbtq+ community
I tooted over that one lmaooooo🤣🤣🤣👏👏👏👏👏
My Asian parents straight up told me that if I'm LGBTQ then I'll get disowned. I'm straight but I get so angry when they say that.
@@bessdougla why are you homophobic wtf
@ it's not about worrying, it's about their wrong values
Well... To think of it in a positive way... At least they gave you a warning...
Families are fucked up, when I was 14 my 17 year old cousin told me that being gay is a sin and wrong, and all gay people should be inprisoned. Took me until I was an adult to come out.
@@hannandersha I'm sorry to hear that. Did you manage to educate your cousin?
“Daniel you look so thin, you need to eat more.”
*BRO THIS IS SO RELATABLE FOR ME*
A few seconds later “Daniel, why u so fat”
"Parents acting like being gay is a hobby"
"Your gonna stop being gay today"
"no"
@@javirosariovlogs9551 ok
I love it when people think you can just manipulate the brain into not thinking as a gay person, and manipulate everyday life to not be a gay person. Like-you're funny, but also stupid. Go read some science and psychology books, love. 😂
@@stellarfoxx3977 yup
Right???
“I grew up in a totally masculine world”
I’m gay, but I work out and am on the football team at my school. I love everything about football. Our sexual orientation doesn’t define us.
THANK YOU. Orientation has very little to do with how feminine or masculine someone is.
No, it's not that it has 'very little' to do. It really is quite common for gay guys to have slightly higher voices.
Ashtyn Britt Very little? Come on be honest most gay guys usually act more feminine or have feminine voices.
CAPRISunLLuminati well theirs 2 sides a feminine and a masculine gay I see it with my friend who’s gay but he’s a masculine guy not the ones that color nails and do makeup he’s chill I respect it though .
As a feminine gay women who is close friends with a masculine gay man, I am being honest. Who you sleep with is only a very small portion of a way bigger personality.
*Go see a pastor*
The pastor be like: *GAY GAY GO AWAY COME BACK ANOTHER DAY*
Staaahp its 4am I'm laughing so hard 🤣
Hahahahahahhahhahaha
@@petitcactusamer its 2 am and im lol! Wait yoi are up till 4 am??
icy cold heart
i'm wheezing omg-
@@petitcactusamer lmao
" be yourself is what you're supposed to do and if they can't accept it that's their problem"
Don't people realize by now that if you're in a diner and you overhear a family TALKING WAY TOO LOUD about what should be a private conversation and one of them storms off and the other turns to you for advice IT'S PROBABLY WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
I mean if I where to come out to my extremely homophobic family I would do it in a public place as well to make sure there where people around in case things got intense. So I guess it kind of makes sense
😂 and when they are leading you into the conversation by asking “what should I do”
lol
na regular people talk to loud all the time
oh, and it’s always in New Jersey or New York.
When John is interviewing people at the end you can tell it’s always hard for him not to correct these ignorant people
He has to remain a neutral reporter and just ask questions
Tracey Jeanne lmao yeah u can tell he was thinking “this old man kinda an ass hole”
I don’t think the old man was a asshole
The “Old man” has an opinion like y’all do so why is he an asshole for speaking his mind🥱
@@nfleditz9664 why?
@@brysontodd9357 he has the right to an opinion but his opinion is activly hurting people.
My parents don’t speak English, I’d tell them in English
Hahahaha good joke
Me hi Betty
Betty why you no doctor yet?
Me oh oh
Betty don’t talk to me until you are a doctor!
John Wong
Hahahahaha
You have a big brain
I lived in the Netherlands but we moved to England my mom speaks several languages but the language she always speaks is *ENGLISH* 👁👄👁🙄
I KNOW them setting it up in English was a red flag, but still...ah man, this one broke me down into tears. You guys keep doing what you're doing and the ladies at the end are so endearing. I wish them both well.
My asian aunts who are lesbian came to America to get married since it's legal here
Best of luck to your aunt and her lucky spouse~
Family;Gayn’t
That's great that they're moving to America! It sucks that her family doesn't support her, though.
Awww I wish them all luck in the world❤❤
There is this amazing show called ask Japanese and in one of the episodes they ask people in Japan how homosexuality is viewed and while still stigmatized a bit a lot are accepting of it. A lot of youri (lesbian) anima exists and it's very popular
“Pastors know how to handle it”
Trust me, as a gay person with several years of religious trauma, they do NOT know how to handle it.
You okay now?
@@rice2240 no :(
@@TheofficalKagamineLenI'm sorry to hear that but it'll get better
hope u get better
@@TheofficalKagamineLen lol 😂 imagine liking men.
you know the best scene is about to come, when John says “We’re rolling one last time.”
yES omg whenever i hear that ik i gotta go get my popcorn
That's when you know that's stuff is going down
the woman that was pleading with them to hear him out was a real one. she knew to stay in her lane but to also give them some outsider perspective
I respect every person’s religion, but I don’t respect people who abuse their religion and use it as an excuse to hurt people.
Jaylyn SAME
How are we hurting ppl we just telling how we feel
@Gage Cabani I would repect u but it's wht Jesus would do
Jaylyn nobody is hurting anyone it’s just the right way to go is be straight. You can’t be born gay it’s important buddy
EnviousNeptune8 • I believe there's something that makes you gay there just has to be something im not gay but theres a reason why I can't go have sex with a guy it would be off putting😂 but a gay guy that doesn't like or want to have sex with a girl which there then there has to be reason then, I'm not saying I'm right but that's my opinion everyone is entitled to there own opinion but obviously people gets hurt over this when ya hear people committing suicide I've had a few people I new that were gay and took there own life because there family didn't accept it or they got bullied so if it had to be something if they gained that sort of depression ya can't fake being gay like ya just can't
Asian daughter: im lesbian
Asian parents: *i thought you were american*
Edit: holy shit i didnt think id get 1k likes thanks guys lmao
Edit #2: 3.5k likes... im actually speechless
I CHOCKED ON MY AUR
U mean "I thought you were Asian"
@jade williams i know the vine, i just thought putting "asian" was more fitting
TheJams JiminLost if he’s born in America you can say he is American too
IM WHEEZING
“Pastors know how to handle it” uh... really?
Welshy they try their best but hA, too bad I’m still bi as ever and they won’t change my mind🤷🏻♀️
He would be surprised that the pastors are the same one that wanna hit it
Welshy yes really!
Andre Powell 😂😂
@@allune524 maybe the good beatings would
This is really heartwarming and all but I’m sorry the comedic timing of her friend suddenly showing up and saying “what did you do?” Was too perfect. I was laughing so hard
“take him to a pastor or counselor to solve the problem”
Wtf? He’s not a murderer!
Not all old men are wise men.
@PaulyGTv I was going to rant as well, bit I think you've done it all for me. Thanks for saving my thumbs
StayCalm Starz never heard of murder go to a pastor, the pastor is a good idea, if my kid like that I would definitely go see a pastor or priest. Because if the pastor/priest is on my side, my kid would understand it(problaby) I would definitely remind him and make him straight again, but if the pastor/priest is on my kid side then I must let my kid choose the best for him. I just hope my kid doesn't get a sin/bad things. Plus,I feel bad for his kid.
@@fos1451
Yeah you people don't choose to be gay Lmfao. You can't make gay people straight . Lol Whut?!
I legit wanted to scream at him
This is such a major problem asian families face... Not accepting gays... i personally don't know anyone where i live who are gay... This is such an important issue and WWYD dis such a tremendous job to bring it up
RyanA so true
RyanA no one comes out in my area like...
RyanA I'm gay myself I have alot of SUPPORT my family plus I have a loving Boyfriend soon to be fiancee 😍😍😍😍 we can getting a new apartment January
andrew carson where do you live that place seems very accepting.... I want to move out of here so bad
excuse me, we are required to be straight rich doctors....im dying
When the last woman started talking I started bawling at her story. I’m bisexual and black. A lot of people in my family wouldn’t be okay with me being bi and would look down upon me. And seeing this woman be so open made me feel good. I know that I can never openly date a female in my family because I would be shut out and I feel for Daniel because of this. I just wish that everyone would open their hearts and eyes and love everyone regardless of their race, sexuality or gender. Preach love not hate. 💜💜
Jada Bell I am so sorry. I support you as you are. There is never any pressure to come out.
So do you always bring race into everything
@ᴀꜱᴜᴋᴀ ᴀꜱᴜᴋᴀ you find out after years of living on this planet makes total fucking sense
@ᴀꜱᴜᴋᴀ ᴀꜱᴜᴋᴀ explain to me how you were something and then you weren’t that thing and then you became something else it makes no fucking sense
@ᴀꜱᴜᴋᴀ ᴀꜱᴜᴋᴀI’m going to assume you think woman can be men and men can be woman
I haven't came out to my family as an Asian Bisexual yet, but I did to my friends, and I'm so glad they support me, I burst out into tears. . . So. . . Don't feel scared or nervous, because, if you're not ready to come out, then don't. Just leave it be until you feel comfortable! And P.S This is for EVERYONE out there, who feels as if they are committing a sin//crime by being a part of the LGBTQIA+ community, NEVER THINK THAT! You are not alone. . . Alright?? I there are MILLIONS of people who support you, and JUST SO YOU KNOW, IM ONE OF THEMM!!!! I love you all SO SO SO MUCH! Stay safe out there everyone, and good luck coming out. . .!
3:54 * boy aggressively throws fork on table when he’s not even eating anything *
Lil Baddie lmao nice catch 😂
He threw the fork because asians eat w/ chop sticks, duhhhhhh
qween.lxxna periodt its a joke
qween.lxxna periodt r/wooosh
My Mum's asian, she reacted pretty badly to me coming out as bi, but she was mortified when I donated blood and I got an A-
Doesn't make sense sweetie.
r/woooosh
@@local_garage_enthusiast I know. I understand the meaning, (bad grades) but the fact that he/she but bi before doesn't really relate to the joke.
•Vibe•Check• •You•Failed• Yeah good point
@@stellaoctangula6 I think they mean that their mum was even more disappointed about the grades than she was about them being bi. I don't know if that makes sense
my brother is 18. he has a gay friend. his friends parents didn't believe in being gay, as 'the bible says a man and woman should be together', or whatever, so his parents said 'if you don't believe in marriage with a woman, you are not allowed to live under this roof'. he knew 100% he was gay, so he was kicked out of his own families house. he had no where to go. he felt embarrassed living with other family or friends, so he was left homeless on the streets. my brother got his own apartment, and he now lives with Anthony, his friend. he was so happy to be able to have access to everything.
any parent that won't accept their child for the sexuality or any disability they have, should of never been a parent. if you're a parent, you should love your child, no matter who they are. no one is perfect. no one is going to be the best. but you always put your children as your first priority. you should put them before anyone. it isn't hard, it's only hard if you make it. accept them for who they are, and everything will be okay.
not really lol
x o made my day
hoaX Are you fucking homophobic
hoaX if you are can get the fuck out people like you disgust me
Well said
As someone who's Indian and queer, I know my parents would never accept and it makes me upset, but I'm glad people can confide in their families.
Yes unfortunately arranged marriage will probably always be a thing in India
It's a sad reality that Asian families put their kids through alot, you have to get a's in school, marry someone who's rich and has a degree, no free time and much more
*you dishonor family!!!*
Bill nye the smarter than you guy if not doctor don’t come home
aluna I'm sorry you have had to go through that stuff. If you want to talk to someone I can give you my email.
that isnt always true. Please stop assuming things which are not true for everyone.
Bill nye the smarter than you *I WONT SPEAK TO YOU UNTIL YOU DOCTOR*
(South Park reference)
That last woman is a literal angel 😇 We need more people like her in this world xx
RoboCraft7 Nope we don't
ツiDropYou *SALT* More like salt in your name.
RoboCraft7 we literally don't
yes we do, what a beautiful pure soul and heart. she made me cry.
RoboCraft7 No. No we don't.
D-did that man just imply that they should bring him to conversion therapy 😳
That's really not how sexuality works ma dude (talking to the dude in the video)
@@wolfgirl4486 Aren't those illegal?
@@empressofhearts7300 conversion therapy? Yes I am pretty sure
Damn, I thought he meant family counselling to work on accepting him
Its even legal in the uk I think
That last lady in white with white hair tye, SHE was incredible!!! What a beautiful spirit!!!!