When I was younger, I was attracted to women around 10-15 years older than me for many of the reasons mentioned. I did get the ick a couple of times . Being seen with me just seemed too important. I’m not anyone’s trophy. I don’t know if my experience is similar to other younger men. If so, older women should be aware of it.
I dated a woman who had a tight female friend group of around five women along with a nice family. Some of her friends were married and some weren’t. She had a full, rich life. Decentering Men is an excellent idea.
Good argument for every man to go get a female platonic friend... so we learn to become better socialized...
When I was younger, I was attracted to women around 10-15 years older than me for many of the reasons mentioned. I did get the ick a couple of times . Being seen with me just seemed too important. I’m not anyone’s trophy. I don’t know if my experience is similar to other younger men. If so, older women should be aware of it.
I dated a woman who had a tight female friend group of around five women along with a nice family. Some of her friends were married and some weren’t. She had a full, rich life. Decentering Men is an excellent idea.