How to Deal with Difficult Family Members - Toxic Family Members - Monica Gupta
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How to Deal with Difficult Family Members - Toxic Family Members - Monica Gupta
How to Deal with Toxic Family Members - परिवार के दुष्ट लोगों से कैसे निपटें
घर के लोग परेशान करे तो क्या करे - How to Deal with Negative Family Members
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परिवार के मुश्किल लोग
How to Deal with Difficult, negative or Toxic Family Members...
परिवार के मुश्किल लोगों से कैसे deal करें
रिश्तों को मजबूत बनाने के लिए एक छोटा सा उसूल बनाते हैं, रोज कुछ अच्छा याद रखते हैं और कुछ बुरा भूल जाते हैं…
मैंनें अपनी पिछली वीडियो में बताया था कि कुछ ऐसे लोग होते हैं जिनसे दूरी बनाना ही सही है..
जिसमे अलग अलग 9 तरह के लोगो के बारे में बताया था...
उस वीडियो पर बहुत सारे कमेंटस और मैसेज आए कि ऐसे लोग अगर हमारे घर परिवार में हो तो क्या करें...
उनसे कैसे दूरी बनाए.. वो नेगेटिव भी हैं jealous करते हैं, बात बात पर criticize करते हैं.. आलसी होते है... गप्प भी मारते हैं.. !!
तो यही सोच लिए मैं किचन में चली गई और सोचने लगी कि जो ऐसे हों उनके साथ कैसे डील करें ?? क्या क्या बातें अपनाई जानी चाहिए..
घर के लोग परेशान करें तो क्या करें... ससुराल वाले या पति अगर परेशान करे तो क्या करे...
This video will teach you how to deal with difficult, negative, or toxic family members...
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Ma'am , बात संस्कारों और परवरिश की आ जाती है वरना जो सुन सकता है उसे सुनाना भी आता है , लेकिन मैम यदि झुकने से रिश्ते बनते हैं तो झुक जाना चाहिए लेकिन बार - बार हमें ही झुकना पड़े तो रुक जाना चाहिए ।
बहुत खूब😊👍
@@MonicaGupta धन्यवाद मैम ।🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Aapki baat se sehmat hoon main jo log mere sath achha vevhaar nahi karte main unke sath utna hi achha karti hoon time Laga par sab theek ho jata h
Bahut sahi
@@soniya9155 kuch thik nahi hota kitna v acha kr lo thak vyi hu ab chup reh k apne dil ma dukhi hona he adat ban gyi ha
अधिकतर परिवार में ही होता है कि के काम आते है तब वह हमारी कदर करते हैं जब हम उनकी किसी काम के नहीं रहते वह हमारी कदर करना छोड़ देते हैं मतलब हर तरह से स्वार्थी
Madam sari umar nikl jayegi patience rkhne me bt hmari zindagi sacrifice krte hue jhukte hue nikl jayegi koi na badalta h.. Hmara time is sb me hi fans jata h or bache b bde ho jate h fir pachtana hi rh jata h k aise logo ko ignore krke apne liye jeena chahiye tha
Very true...
Continueously poke karagi then muh automatically khul jayagi... 1 2 3 4 days spare karnay se taken for granted ho jaya ga.
हाय
Right
Ignoring is the best solution
Or dil par nhi lena chahiye kuchh bhi.
Kb tk
very well said madam.
Hume sabak sikhana he padega nahi to puri zingagi aise he nikal jani.
I have been struggling to get the meaning of "Setting your boundaries" specifically.
Now i know that i don't have to shout, be rude, get angry or react. N i don't have to cross it.
If i will cross i will be in trouble.
Thanku soo much. I really need it.
Some ppl are not avoidable... like u said ki Hume room se bahar nikal jana chahiye agar koi zyada bol rha ho to .. But there are ppl who wait for us to get return so that they again start their bad behavior
तब एक प्यारी सी स्माईल दीजिए...
दो परिवार मे एक परिवार झुकता है और एक नही झुकता, शादी के कुछ साल बाद जो नही झुका वो आज बहुत आगे बड़ गए उनके पास सब कुछ है और जो रिश्ता निभाने के चक्कर में आज भी वही है और वैसे ही है उनकी जिन्दगी मे बहुत स्ट्रग्ल है अब पछताते रहो इस कलयुगी दुनिया में सब अपनी जिन्दगी के देखते है 🙏 इसलिए मैडम आप जो बोल रहे हो वो करे तो पछतावे की जिंदगी मिलेगी 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Ma'am mai un logo me aati hu jo sbke sath khdi rhti hai unke bure wkt me apne begane sbke sath but jb mere bure wkt me vhi log tmasha dekhte hai mujhse jlte hai mere jkhm kuredte hai tb mai unlogo ko krara jbab deti hu aur sbkuch khtm kr deti hu rishta unke sath......kyunki purani khavt hai ki 100 ghatiya logon se acha ek vfadaar dog paal lo....vo jyada safe rhega.....10 bure dost se acha ek bhla insaan behtr hota hai....❤aapki sbhi vedio bahut hi positive and motivational hoti hai...
sabse badi baat ye h ki..yadi sasural me apk husband apk sath h..to sab sahi....kisik himmat nhi ki koi apk kuch bigad le....
Your tips are wonderful.. I have been married in a very progressive family and live abroad, but still there are some members with whom its difficult to get aligned and we change as a person in front of them.. I try to learn from you on how to prevent difficult situations with such members. Thanks a lot for being there..
Rishton ko mazboot banane k lie chalo ek chhota sa usool apnate hain,
har roz kuchh accha yaad rakhte hain aur bura bhool jate hain..
Amazing!!
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Parivar achha mila hoga
* एक सीमा के बाद झुकना गलत है । " बुरे के साथ अच्छा व्यवहार करना , अच्छे के साथ बुरा करने के समान है ।" -शेखसादी .
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patience jitna bhi rakh lo kuch log iska galat fayda uthate hai aur bhi jyada pareshan karte hai aur agar kuch kah do after 2 years to bhi kahte hai ki ham galat hai specially these in-laws are like that do anything for them but they will never stop criticise you and your parents they will remain same
Some relationships are not worth ur time, effort and energy, they drain ur energy and make u mental pateint, stop being door mat to stupid people, when u feel u r being taken for granted just leave it, if someone cant compromise then y should u, pura life nikal jayegi kutte ki poonch kabhi seedha nhi hoti, toxic relationship se niklna better hai pura life ghut ghut k jeene se
Hell is patience .. does not matter how much patience you hv people who don’t want to change never gonna change ..
Thank you ..
*Very nicely explained, It is a simple yet powerful solution, I think many people underestimate the power of Sorry, Thank You, Please, etc due to their ego*
Yes, you are right
Gussa or fight nhi hoti kyunki ab main ghar hi nhi jati n milti hun sasuraal walon se.
Your thoughts are very very positive. You give good argument. You are an angel in my life. Love you so much.
Really I need this video......I will definitely try it.
Things are not so simple, there are some people who have been behaving with patience since 30 yrs thinking that things will improve one day but now they are repenting .
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Samne vala bakwas krte rahega to hum Kya sant banke bethe rhe? Not psblm mam.....me to kehti hu k kisi ko ye hq do hii mt k koi aapke bare m bakwas kre ya koi chilla k baat kre .....jaise hi koi bakwas krta hai usko vhi rok do fr chahe rude hi ku na hona pade ....fr dekhna vo kbhi aapse bakwas nhi krega .....try it ...
Watching this video (full) also requires patience...
BTW love your videos...🥰
Thanks Archana Verma 🙏🏻🙂
Your advices really feel like talking to some family member😍
हमारे लिये चुप रहेना बहेतर है, कौआ बनना है या कोयल उन पर निर्भर है.
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Nyc
Koyal chup nahi rehti .. wo kehti hai.. madhur vaani me hi ...
Good
Ager koyel ko bhi jayada debarge to vo bhi crow hi bn jayegi
But mam !!!
My mother and younger sister always harash me...
Mem मुझे आपकी बातें बहुत ज़्यादा पसन्द आई।
Very good tips for relationships.
Nice line that Jivan me rishtey hote he but more important is Rishtey me Jivan he ke nahi.
Very true Ma'am.
Thank you
Thank u soo much
I am in joint and big family my papa have 5 brothers and each brother 2child and wife then 25members and 2 grandfather and mother .
Total member-27
Each family make there own separate food,
And all r jealous to each other .
But I will show this video to my parents.🙍
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Thank you mam for these lines 😊👍
Most welcome 😊
Thank you mam.. It's very helpful...
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Thankyou so much, your videos help me a lot, please keep making videos. Lots of dua for you❤️
Very inspired thoughts
Thanks Ranjna Bhalla
you r so pisitive mam.. thanx for every solution. god bless u..
Wow mam you are so good agar sab log aise hi ho jayen to koi problem nhn hogi. 😊life become so easy.
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Thank s ma'am
I will try to apply these things in my life
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Thanks maam. I know this video was totally considered about my comment. Teeth aur toung ka example bhuat acha hi.really patience is most important thing to countinue every kind of relation in our life. Really thanks.
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Nice example of 1.Sabji aur aanch. 2.Getting out of room for a while in garden or peaceful area when temper flies high.(I learned this trick in samarpan meditation) 3 . remember positive things happen and forget negative incidents...thanks.
Very useful video madam. TQ. I also have such family member and this video will be helpful for me to deal with that person. TQ🙏🙏🙏
Thanks Didi for u'r good advice
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Mam thanks aj muje es video ki bhut jarurat thi . App ke tips se meri life bhut easy ho jayegi.aj me bhut tention me thi .app ki video meje ase lag rahi h jese waheguru ji khud muje aa ke meri problem ke liye samjaya h .thanks so much mam
Thanks Sonia आपका भी :)
@@MonicaGupta Ma'am jis vjh se meri nanad badi wali ne mujhe block kr diya blki main ate time sbke per chuke ayi sbko pranam ki fir bhi isiliye main apse puchh rhi hu kyonki main to abhi kuchh ni janti rishto ka bt aap hi mujhe smjha skte ho
@@EktaRaoNamilakonda ji apne bilkul thik kiya ab wo log yhi sochenge ki isne kuch bola kyo ni. Apko presan krne wale log khud presan ho jayenge...
Thanks for this most awaited video Ma'am.
Aapne kaha clear krna chahiye pr itna easy nhi h. Wo clear bhi nhi krte aur kehte hain hume to koi problem nhi h aur fir wahi behavior rakhte hain. Agar aap koi baat jo ho gayi use bhula ke aage badhte hain to wo us baat ko pakad ke rakhte hain aur pareshan krte rehte hain.
Very good mam thanks for the suggestion
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Thank you so much 😀
Yes its very truth but i have lack of patience but from today i will try☺️☺️
Thanks Sonali Dhaygude
Helpful video mam. Thx.
Thanks Sonu Saini
Thank you mam for ur vdo
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@@MonicaGupta 😃😃😃😃😃
Thankyou mam for your wonderful advices❤❤🙏🙏🏽
Thanks ma'am
Thanks Anju Dhillon
Sasural me Sasural wale hi criticise krte hai jb ki uun logo me agr shan't bhi rahe aur response bhi nhi diya to bhi tklif dete hai. ..hm rote hai. .hme bhi pida dukh hota hai aur wo bdnami krte hai. ..isme agr hubnd bhi shamil ho to akele hi sb shn krna pdta hai. ..kb tk patience rakhe. ..smzdari sirf bahu ke sath sath ghrke sare logo kobhi hona chahiye. .. 😢
same situation. like me 🥺
Thanks...ma'am...for your good Advice 🙏
Most welcome 😊
Thanks mam you are so helpful
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Mam so nice video and Thnku
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Very impressive
The way of talking , your voice,your suggestions feeling relaxed thankyou
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Thank you❤️🙏
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Thanks
Ristno ki grmaht feel krne ke liye patience , politeness, tolerance, love , affection , understanding bhut jaruri hai ........... Give up evils & grasp daily new habit , keep your watch on yourself not on others ............ Enjoy healthy relationship ........☝💥
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Very nice mam , you have really explained beautifully . Good job , keep it up........👍
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Geat Suggestions Mam. Really Mam, you have shown a way ahead.
Thanks
Very nice all sagetion
Very nice thought mam
Thanks Prajna Mishra
I agree with you mam aap ki baatein dill ko chuh gyi Thank you nice 🥰
Thanks mam
Best ideas mam, thanks
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My mother in law used to comment my parents often adversely which used to hurt me a lot. I have resolved this issue by talking to them. I am trying very hard to maintain good relationship with my in-laws. Ur videos are very helpful to me madam as I have very less patience. I wonder how you can be so cool, pleasant and patient. I have two daughters and I will marry them only after they listen to ur all videos😊
Me too
Do meditation for relaxation
Thank you for the lovely video. Beautifully explained. I always wait for your videos.
Thanks mam. Very positive thinking 👍🙏
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Excellent Mam! You are perfect...
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Bahot acha video Maa mere liye bahot jaruri tha
Thanks Roshni Jaiswalyyrrr
चुकीच्या माणसात राहून दुःखी होण्यापेक्षा अनोळखी माणसात राहून आनंदी रहा
Life is too too short so enjoy yourself
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Very nice!
Wow Amazing knowledge... 💐 💐 Salutations
So nice of you
Mam... My mother in law shouting on me too much... From 10years I kept quiet.. Now I also I am using their tonenow they kept quiet
good morning mam nice video apk. sbhi video m bahot kuch sikhne Ko milta h..... thankuuu mam
Thanks Roshni Mishra
I am very inspired with the following video of your thank you
thnk mam .nice vedio
Madam Iam very inspire of you
Thank uh madam
Thanks Arif Abrar 🙏🏻🙂
Tnx mem
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Ok, mam mei koshish karte hu. Thanks
Thankx dear jab koi galat bole to bolo...AAP ki sabhi baate ek dam correct the
Sara kaam kerne pr log ye bole ki ki aap kuch kaam nhi kerte .kuch nhi aata aap ko to is situation pr kya kere.dever nalayak ho bilkul.
Husband bhi aesa bole bhut baar baat kerne pr bhi wo bole yahi baat.
Husband ghar walking baat me bhi aaker bole. Wife ko glt or ghar walo ko, cusion sister ke sath bhi
Mam you are too good...
Love you 😘
Amazing way of explanations 👍😍
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Awesome ♥️♥️
Thank you very very much mam give good knolage
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Very beautifully explained mam 😊
Koi ma baap ko ganda bole. To pyar se kyu bole sahi kar de samne wale ko 😡
Woww... Superb ma'am 🙌🙏
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Thanks mam for this video 😘
Most welcome 😊
Very nice mam
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Came across your video while surfing on TH-cam. I will definitely try to implement whatever you said it. I watched few other English videos however your video on dealing with difficult family members made me to think positively and smile. Thank you for your guidance. New subscriber and pressed the bell icon too.
Thanks JAYESH KADAM 🙏🏻🙂
@@MonicaGuptaMost welcome.🙏
Very nice beuatfu video mam 💕💕💕💓❤️✍️😊👌🙏
Thanks .
Logo Ko bolne k liye kabhi kabhi burai ki jarurat nhi hoti ...bahut sari achaaiya b ek wajah h Bura banane k liye...mam jaise app bolti h ki humare Sanskar un logo k trah nhi h jo Aisa Bolte h....meri maa ne mujhe Aisa hi sikhaya h...but mam samjhdar Insaan ki galtiya log bahut Kam maaf krte h..jabki bevakuf logo ki galtiya maaf ho jati h are use to akal hi nhi h...but JB hum bado se jyada samjhdari wala behave krte h to unko ye b raaas nhi Ata they always try to find ki tum galti karo....or wo insecure hoker b tumse galat behave kerte h....Sambhal Sambhal kr chalne walo ki maajaak banane k liye kuch nhi hota or thoker khane walo pe log atleast haste to h...or unhe Maja Ata h..kuch logo Ko aise log pasand ate h jo galti kare or unhe 4 bate bol sake...but jo galti na kare us se or b jyda pareshani ho.. jati h.....maine bahut log dekhe h jinki Umar bith jati h but Apne bacho k barbar b akal nhi hoti....daya ATI h aise logo pe jinhe ache or bure logo ki pahchaan nhi hoti
mem mera beta 20 sal ka hai meri bat sunta nhi mai kya kru
Ek dum sahi kaha
Pooja Dobhal v right
Mere sath bhi yahi dikkat hai..
Pooja Dobhal right pooja
One who is constantly nagging and criticizing must be in lot of pain .
instant of moving back we should address their pain that can be only possible when they react we don't go in pain.
Valuable information mam💕👏
Thank you very much
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Thanks mam...
Mam har baar hum hi kyu... Kab tk.. Aur humlog agar har baat ko smbhalte hain aur jhukte hain samne wale har baar humari insult hi krte hain... Ye log kab smjhenge.. Acche log humesha use hote hain... 🙏😔
👏👏👏 nice .ek dum sai h.
True ajkl jo pista hai vhi bura hai jo clever hai selfish hai vo hi ache hain.. Humjese log hmesha batain sunte hain ghut te hain
sahi baat hai bilkul
Ekdam sahi...
Nice
Thank you so much madam for this vdo
I need this type of vdo very much
Like this👍
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Aapke sujhav jankar Khushi hui. Bahot achchha Laga. Aankhon mein aansu tak aa Gaye. Thankyou. I wl try to follow all these tips.
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