Entitled Bridesmaid Gets KICKED OUT OF A WEDDING - REACTION
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- Entitled Bridesmaid Gets KICKED OUT OF A WEDDING - REACTION
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It's so rare to click into a wedding story like this and then when the groom makes an appearance your immediate reaction is "MARRY HIM FASTER!" Glad it had a good ending.
For real though! That man is definitely a keeper!!
I’m glad she was kicked out of the wedding because if this is how she acted before the wedding could you imagine how she would have acted on the actual day? 😂 she would have ruined this poor girls weeding!
@@theresadunstan6629 *wedding
Me too. Congratulations to the happy couple! ❤😊❤ And good riddance to that annoying leech. 😒
Awesome groom. He saw his fiancé was overwhelmed, he knew her sweet and non-confrontational personality, and HE. TOOK. CHARGE. Someone had to deal with bridesmaid-monster, and he handled it. Kudos to him!
👏👏👏 Damn good man right there!
I thought that was very Prince Charming romantic, the way he slayed the dragon for her 😁
Modern day knights in shining armor still fight monsters, they’re just not as obvious as a fire breathing dragon might be…
Amen! That’s a good man right there! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Also, he probably knew Sara wouldn’t want to be the person to kick Lia out since they were friends before all this, so he took the “bad guy” role for her. So sweet ❤
I have a wealthy family member who always pays when we go out to dinner. I can't afford the places she wants to go to, so I don't argue. You pay them back in time, love, attention, being thankful and sure as hell not asking for more! My cousin was really struggling in his science classes (I have a degree in Environmental science and I went to a specialize science university) so I of course offered to tutor him. They lived in a different state so I offered to do it online, but my aunt missed me so she flew me out to visit for two weeks and tutor him for his finals. I was more than happy to help and I basically just helped out with my cousins school work and cooked for them because I was staying with them. you give what you can, when you can.
You are such a sweetheart and so kind. Its all about giving what you can. Someone with a million dollars can afford to spend $100 on you, but if you only have $100, we dont go demanding more or just get complacent! Acts of kindness are immeasurable in showing gratitude and anyone with even an ounce of decency and morality should know this. Hats off to you!
The fact she flew you out because she also missed you is so sweet and it sounds like it was something of a nice vacation between the tutoring sessions
@@Sunari oh for sure. my mom comes from a small family so we are all pretty close. When we were young we lived in the same duplex, so my cousin was more like my brother.
You are a very kind person
I'm extremely poor and my boyfriend is fairly well off. He knows I can't afford dates but I always offer to make food, give my time, and make presents for him. He appreciats the thing sI do for him verses what I could buy for him
If my friends do much as buy me French fries I’m like thanking them and telling them I’ll get them next time. Idk how people can be entitled to their friends. Blows me away
For real. Me and my friends usually have the rule that if one person gets it one time, someone else has them the next go round. Whether its sending the money for the food, or getting the food next time, etc. this week me and my friend are going somewhere, i have the extra money, so im getting the food, and while i dont expect any kind of payback, i know my friend will insist on it so its never just one or the other. I dont get wanting things like this from friends, it’s just terrible to treat a friend like that. Glad ‘Sarah’ had people to stick up for her at the least, glad she wasnt dealing with this alone
People like this obviously just want a ride to free stuff town. Good on the other bridesmaids for standing up to the greedy "friend."
A time my friend lent me THREE dollars and I couldn't stop thanking her cuz she just handed me it so casually and when I still was one dollar off I felt so bad asking for more so I could never ever see myself doing that
EXACTLY BRO
Right. Even when I began dating my ( ex) boyfriend I felt weird when he paid for my food. Never mind the fact that I paid for food too for us all the time and also cooked for him. It’s just weird to EXPECT It. Like it’s fine to accept help. ( took a while to comprehend that too) but it’s a whole other thing to constantly demand it. Generosity is a GIFT. NOT a necessity.
Sara is like a princess, really. And her groom is a knight in shining armor. From what the OP's story, I could tell she's a wonderful person even with all the riches and privileges she had. And I can't blame her if she can't refuse Lia, she's a softy and Lia is just a manipulating B. Her groom is amazing. Their group seem very wholesome. Reminds me of mine. Tho we ain't rich hahahhaa
Yeah every push over needs a partner who will take charge and stand up for them. Ofc they have to let their partner help them. I've seen push overs who get angry when their partner tries to step in and protect them. The relationship always ended up eventually imploding because it was so exhausting to listen to your partner choose to be hurt by the same person over and over and refuse to do anything about it.
I think maybe Lia idolized her and it wasn't fully about the money
@@maj1395Then you need to listen again.
I admittedly have some money to spend and I come from a humble wealthy family. I love to give to people, but unfortunately I had a friend like Lia...We will call her Melissa, and stopped doing as much so because it kind of messed up my trust in people. I'm too nice and I get taken advantage of because of how much I love to give. Even my husband AND my ex back in the day told me that I needed to be more careful and that they think Melissa and maybe some others take advantage of me. I stopped giving so much for awhile and the friends that stuck around were the real ones. All I had to do was put away my wallet and naturally weed out the Melissa's - it was actually easy and fast. You have to be careful out there...
The way her future husband handled it when he saw how upset his wife was is wonderful that's the kind of husband every girl wants
Agreed!
A good husband takes on the stress their wives feel whenever possible, and a good wife does the same if she is better equipped to shoulder it. Isn’t true love wonderful?!
@@Saltine_American wives never do that though
If my man ain’t like that; I don’t want him!!! Tell that B to stfu 😂
@@ImaginationEngine-xq3wgbruh 😬
That's a super sweet friend, it sucks that someone tried to take advantage of her kindness but it's beautiful that Sarah had plenty of actual friends to help her maintain perspective.
Agreed
Who tf is liking the spammer's comment...?
@@Arcanist_Gaming Assistant spammers? Hired trollbots??
@@avrilj1191 "Assistant spammers" lmao XD What a concept.
@@avrilj1191 All of their other comments _also_ have 2 or 3 likes, so you might be on to something....
I'm so glad that the bride ended having wonderful wedding. I'm very happy for her and very grateful that she has loving friends and a loving husband that care enough to get rid of someone SOOOOOOO TOXIC! I hope Lia is doing worse. Not sorry.
You can bet Lia's doing worse. It sounds like she pinned her entire self image and status to Sara's wealth. Without access to that, she's miserable and, unfortunately, doing her best to make anyone who associates with her just as miserable.
@@pablodelsegundo9502 Well hopefully everyone this Leah associates with have all distanced themselves from that miserable black hole who sucks the joy out of any room. 😒
Completely off topic but I love your pfp and I love your name even more!! I saw DemonSkunk and got so excited lol. It’s just so fucking badass! 🤘
(I also wholeheartedly agree with everything you said in your comment. I’m so thrilled that this miserable bitch wasn’t able to ruin everything and Sara and her husband still had the brilliant wedding they deserved. I wish Sara (and the other bridesmaids) didn’t have to go through all this hell but now Lia the Leach can’t suck anymore out of her and that is of the good. 💜)
This gave me PTSD about my own wedding.
When my now husband and I talked about getting married back in late 2011, we already had an idea of the date in mind. Fast forward to April of 2012, I told my grandmother about the engagement, and that the date was set for our 11th anniversary together. I had the wedding planned out. It was supposed to be a small beach wedding in Cancun, as back then gay marriage wasn't legal in all of Mexico, but it was in the Mexican state of Quintana Roo, where Cancun is. My now brother in law was to be my husband's best man, and my husband's nephew was supposed to be mine. I had NO intention of telling my mother, because I was still miffed that not only was I left out of her 1993 wedding, I was the last to know about it, and I knew right away that my mother would make it about her. But my grandmother insisted on me telling her, so I did.
Right from the jump, my mother hijacked everything about the wedding. EVERYTHING. Me, falling (again)for that FUCKING FALSE NARRATIVE of blood being thicker than water, I relented because my grandmother convinced me to let her be "a mom".
It wasn't until after my husband and I said our vows that it dawned on me that my mother just wanted to rub it in her sister's face that because my mother got a new job at a prestigious NYC law firm, she had $$$$ now, and saw the wedding as an opportunity to do so.
Here's the kicker: My grandmother had the AWW-DA-CITY to tell me "I can't believe your mother did that on your day of all days." To which I replied, " That's EXACTLY why I didn't want her involved, you fucking moron!"
Here's the kicker, Part Two: My mother's name is Lia. Hence the PTSD.
You didn't call your Granny a moron did you? 😂😭😭😭😭
@@charlottedavies7910 I grew up in a highly dysfunctional family where you either had no filter, or you kept your mouth shut just to keep the peace. By the time the wedding rolled around (I was 35 then) I had become the former after years of being the latter. Trying to say anything with tact would just garner you a blank stare LOL.
Oh my gosh. I’m so sorry you had to put up with that. I don’t blame you for responding that way and I hope you and your partner are happy together now that that horrific event is over. My goodness that sounds rough.
@@brklyn345 I want to call your grandmother a moron because I have a dysfunctional family too but it's not your grandmother's fault it's your mother's from the beginning that's the one that you should really be on
@@melindajimenez3210 Dysfunction is such a vicious cycle. It certainly didn't start with my grandmother, but she's complicit in keeping that ball rolling and enabled that behavior from my mother. I didn't realize till a few years after that there's this certain mentality - like a combination of willful ignorance and Stockholm's Syndrome - and both my grandmother and my mother were so far gone in that mentality, that whatever "broke" them was irreparable well before I came into the equation.
Rule number one: you don't harass or make the bride cry. Whether she's paying for stuff or not.
Rule number two: see rule number one.
Rule number three: never make the bride cry in front of the groom.
clever!
👏👏👏👏for the brides husband, that set clear boundaries when his wife couldn't. even when it seemingly was out of his comfort zone. he seems like a keeper. i am glad the story had a happy ending.
Lia needs to learn that life is NOT about the collection of things. It's about relationships , LOVE of friends and family. Period. 👭👪💏
You forgot the “t” at the end. The kids these days put emphasis on it by saying “periodt”. 😉
@Link to the clip Get a life
@@Belle-rk2hk what was that link? Looked kind of suss.
@@lotstodo It's 100% suss, don't click it. Fucking scammers.
@@davidguidry657 😂😂 Kids today!
I’m just glad everyone else all equally realized how bad Lia was. Imagine if she had found a way to not be quite so obvious to Sarah and was able to actually convince Sarah that the other friends were in the wrong. (Which happens a lot too unfortunately!)
I lost friends in highschool because of someone intensely trying to ruin my raputation to anyone who seemed to like me
I barley knew this girl so I really didnt understand why
@@EstherHulst-Artist jealousy
@@EstherHulst-Artist no more words needed. Only pure jealousy
What often ends up happening is the person who’s been slandering someone isn’t satisfied with that and decides to slander the people who had been supporting them, causing them to realize, “Wait…if they lied about me, maybe they lied about the other person too!” Entitled people end up exposing themselves.
That would've been worse than what she actually did. At least even the bride noticed her strange behavior of Lia coming to her house & expecting to stay.
I had a friend like this in high school. I had just moved schools in year 9, and I quickly became really close friends with this very extroverted girl who had been very welcoming when I first arrived. I had never had real friends before, so I was so excited when I became a part of her lovely friend group. Fast forward to the last few weeks of school for the year, and when we were talking about our Christmas plans, she mumbled something along the lines of "hmmm, I wonder what I'm going to get the other girls for Christmas?" Having never had real friends before, I all of a sudden went "oh shit, I have to get the girls presents! This must be what normal friends do." So I went rushing to my mum and begged her to take me out shopping for presents, and I even asked all of the girls what they wanted. Mum and dad ended up spending quite a bit of money on getting presents for all of the girls, and I was super relieved that I'd now be able to give everyone great presents like normal friends do. Well, a few days before the end of the school year, I bought in this giant bag of gifts for all of my friends. All of the other kids where like "who are those presents for?" when I told them it was for my friends, they all looked confused, and were like "I never give Christmas presents to my friends." I was confused as I thought that it was what everyone did. As I'm giving out the presents during lunch, one of the other girls in my friend group was like "you know, we don't usually give each other presents, normally it's just a Christmas card." When I went home and talked to mum about it, she gently explained to me that I had been taken advantage of, and that my best friend had lied to me just to get me to give her gifts. I felt so embarrassed and frustrated, as I'd never had friends before and I genuinely thought that this was what friends did for each other. We eventually cut ties after she ghosted me after we graduated high school, and looking back now I can see all of the massive red flags that I didn't see at the time because of all of her lies and gaslighting.
I'm sorry you were used like that. With "friends" like those, who needs enemies?
It was tough learning but you got it and moved on. I wish you'd gotten at least one real true friend 🌼
@Zoe Zubko I'm from Australia too, but this was many years ago, so maybe it wasn't as common back then?
@@TheOGPokemonGirl i went through primary school in the late 70's and high school early 80's... we gave presents
I am so sorry. I hope you have the friend group now that you deserve.
Good for 'Sara' and the rest of the friends!
My uncle suggested that we all go out for dinner together, and said he would invite his Dad because he always pays. He planned for us to go to a reasonably expensive well known chain restaurant.
My parents frequently invite my Grandfather to dinners at home and we love spending time with him.
But after the meal at the restaurant, I made sure to pay for myself, my husband, my parents', and my grandfather's meals, without asking anyone first. [The restaurant had one of those tablets on the table so I could easily split the bill.]
My 2 brothers are over 30, so I wasn't concerned about paying for them, and I'm definitely not paying for my uncle and his kids.
My uncle however was really embarrassed once he realized what I did. My grandfather still ended up paying for everyone else. They had all ordered expensive things because they knew they wouldn't be paying, but at least it was less. [I had paid 1/3 of the bill.]
Whenever I go to a restaurant, I ALWAYS order something I'd be comfortable paying for. If I know someone else is paying, I'll ask first before ordering a slightly more pricey dish.
“Sara” clearly married the right man! 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻
Also her true friends were fantastic 🎉
5:24 I had a friend's mum who was like that so I knitted her some handmade dish cloths and I'd always top up the fluids in her truck and come over to help when there was yard work or painting to do and whatnot. It meant a lot to me to have her insist on including everyone in things I would not otherwise have been able to partake in. So though I never expected it, I always did everything in my power to express my gratitude. Five years after grad i was told by a mutual friend's mum that my best mate's mum really liked me because I always said thank you, never assumed she was paying and tried to be helpful around the property. This was ten years ago and it still chokes me up because at the time, I always felt so guilty when she'd insist on paying so I was glad to find out that she knew how grateful I was, was happy to do it, and saw that I was trying my darndest to contribute in anyway I could. I still miss my mate's mum. 😔
You are all a class act! ...amazing how the Potato Queen has amassed some great folks from around the world. Finding Charlotte AND you guys last year had been a life-saver at an incredibly rough time medically and personally-ending of a 5 year rel while also still in a walker recovering from multiple surgeries). Because I was new here, I also had the benefit of many vids to binge-watch plus read the often hysterical, and warm, posts from others to extend the time....12 minutes of Charlotte's Step-Mom Zillas then all YOUR stories. It was just what the doctor ordered. God bless and hugs to YOU, a very kind-hearted co-Tater Tot, from here on Long Island, New York
Bless your mate's mom's soul
I think it’s because you showed you weren’t taking her for granted. You appreciated everything she gave, and you gave back with as much love and consideration. It’s a good feeling when someone sees you as a person, not an ATM. ❤
The groom standing up for her is what we all deserve in our person. Good on him! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I got to the “am I getting a crown too” part….I CANNOT WITH THIS WOMAN 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
I like the way her future husband took charge and defended her! The way her real friends were appreciative and there for her.
Sara is an angel and I'm so glad that her true friends, and future husband, stood up to that ungrateful bully
Trembling in anticipation of the karma. Karma is my life blood
LOL
Lol
Karma = guilt-free petty. 😂
Karma is the ultimate petty revenge
@@jimmckay2337 exactly! Free therapy
So proud of the groom for taking charge. Especially when he saw his bride to be getting overwhelmed. I'm so so happy the wedding was perfect and this Leah person was not present for it.
Yes, even though I’m sure it still sucked for Sara to find out that her “friend” was just mooching off of her, I’m glad they weeded her out before the actual wedding day so they could just enjoy it.
Dude, I’m so happy that they had their fairytale wedding, and they didn’t have to worry about that monster of a bridesmaid, but the fact that she had to deal with that to begin with, is very unfortunate and I do hope she will never have to experience that again. I’m so happy for them. I hope they live a happy life together. Congratulations on the wedding!
"It's not your wedding. You're a psycho" Absolutely made me laugh so hard. Brilliant.
I am binge watching a ton right now, I just can't get enough. 😂
Poor Sarah. I'm happy that she had such a close group of wonderful friends (except Lia, of course) around her to help as much as they could. Props to her fiance too, that is how you support your significant other!
She should have been booted out during the first confrontation. Horrible female.
Petition to make all Charlotte's videos 20 minutes long from now on 🥰
Those algorithms that TH-cam uses though... Charlotte has to make sure it wont mess her channel analytics up though.
For myself, I could listen to @Charlotte Dobre all day, so the longer video the better! NGL I have had bad days and power watched her older videos for hours!💜
@@michellebarnhill5130 I didn't even think about it affecting the algorithm! That's crazy
Aye
@@michellebarnhill5130 she's the perfect cure for depression and anxiety.
Charlotte, I know I’m out of your demographic but I listen to you all the time. Please tell me where I can find your mailing address. I have some cute accessories for your puppets.
I LOVE that the groom stood up for his future wife. It shows how much he loves her and will always protect her. ❤️
that poor bride has hopefully learnt to stand up for herself a little more now; also hopefully she's learnt that being an open cheque book isn't a way to get friends, not real friends.
This is one of my favorite stories Charlotte has reacted to. I'm so happy Sara's fiance stood up for her and she had a good group of friends to support her
18:11 “how you gonna hate from outside the club? You can’t even get in?! Hahahahahaha leggo?!” Lmao 🤣
It’s so hard to be a generous person these days with people like Lia running around, give an inch and they expect everything. It’s nice to see the groom step in to defend his future wife because I image it would have happened eventually, rich people don’t like moochers
A few years back when I graduated from college and friend and I planned to go to Mexico to take in the culture and visit Mayan archeological sites. We planned to do it as cheaply as possible, but because she comes from a rich family, her Dad decided on his own to pay for everything as a gift to both of us. I was blown away and never expected how lavishly he went with beautiful hotel rooms, excursions and first class tickets. So I made it clear that I would pay for all of our food for the 3 weeks we were there. There was no way, I would ever take that gift for granted and could never repay her father's kindness, but I in no way expected any of it and still don't. No one should be ungrateful just because a person is very wealthy
I have a friend who comes from a better off family than I do. Not rich rich, but both her parents work well paying jobs and help her financially. I never expect her to pay for anything when we go out to eat or go places. In fact, for her birthday I always offer to pay for the hotel/event we go to. Anytime she does pay for the meal, etc, I’m always super appreciative but never EVER expect that from her
@Link to the clip Reported.
@@alyzu4755 reported him too. He's spamming all the comments
That's because you're an actual friend!
I have some rich friends and it's honestly weird to let them pay for something even though I can afford it, but it's not weird to me to pay for them when it happens. Idk why 😂
@@laurenh978 me too. Hope this troll is banned
The only time I let my friends pay for me is when it's a trade for something I did for them (that we'd mutually agreed upon beforehand) and even then I'll get the cheapest thing I can (it would usually be a meal from one of the groups midnight steak n shake trips) and I'd still feel guilty. I always brought enough money to cover myself too.
Sarah sounds like an amazing person, she doesn’t have to be generous but she wanted her friends to be there with her. What a gem I’m glad she had a beautiful wedding surrounded by the people ahead of her loves and the ones that love her.
It was clear from the start that Lia was desperately trying to live this wedding through Sara as if it was her own. That's why she wanted to know and control everything as well as have the spotlight on her the most possible. She made it HER wedding in her head.
Everything in Lia's life and everything in the lives of people around Lia is supposed to revolve around her and what she wants...to satisfy her endless craving for attention and her bottomless desire to acquire stuff. I pity any children she might have.
People do this, not just with weddings, but anniversaries, birthday parties, baby showers, etc.
I want to scream at these types of people, "This is NOT your day!!!!!!"
@@teslagirl1 Me too. I really hope that little brat never has any children of her own. (٥↼_↼)
Handmade and thoughtful gifts are always awesome. Especially if they are so rich they can afford whatever they want. It is the thought and love put in to it that is priceless♡♡♡
I crocheted and embroidered a soft wool/alpaca/angora beanie for a friend; we were all out in a group (pre-Easter get together) and she looked vaguely horrified when she opened her present. (I still think it was the best one I ever made). Even I, who can be oblivious sometimes, noticed. So did other people. I hurriedly explained that I'd made it myself; didn't expect her to wear it out to restaurants, just walking her dog during winter...After that, she sabotaged me with that friend group and even told me an outright lie about a future meet up to ensure I missed it. I just let them all go. We'd all known each other for years by that point; if they truly thought I was that awful, it wasn't something I needed in my life. All over a hand crafted beanie, as far as I could figure out. She just had it in for me after that. Maybe she was jealous I could make something? None of the presents exchanged were valued over $10 on that day, so I couldn't figure out her issue. She was a real snob though. Apparently it wasn't some kind of "name brand" item.
@@Kayenne54 What a garbage person! Even if it like, wasn’t her style or whatever, that’s rude as shit!! If someone puts in the time and effort to make something for you, you should be freaking grateful! Sorry you had to deal with that.
@@myconfusedmerriment It came out of left field. Maybe I'd offended her some other time? But if that were so, I expect people to directly come to me about whatever. I'd hope no one ever has to deal with that, but it seems kind of usual. Thanks for your wishes.
@@Kayenne54 I'm sorry but wool/alpaca.angora yarn is NOT cheap. Girl was a fool to not want that.
@@Kayenne54 how rude- WHY WOULD SHE BE SO RUDE?! You know what, I would just not get them anything.
I am sooo glad Sara got her dream wedding without a hitch and such lovely supportive friends to have her back when entitled friend was making unreasonable demands. Sara seems like a lovely person with a lot of class! Goes to show you can be rich and not spoiled or entitled while you could not have the money and still be entitled and spoiled. Sara was way too kind and gracious with this Lea, it sucks that there are the Leas in the world who assume that just because you have money and are generous, you're willing to give and give without getting anything in return even if you don't expect to get anything in return. OP, on the other hand sounded like a fantastic appreciative friend!
Holy crap!!!! This totally reminds me of someone that I originally wanted in my own wedding. (I came to my senses when this exact behavior started rearing its ugly head.) So sorry to hear that my experience is so common. Good on the groom for giving her a reality check. Mine did the same (in a different way). More videos like this please!!!! Keep up the great work, Charlotte!!! You truly make my whole day.
oh I felt this way before mine too. Didn't bother having a girl beside me as my bff is a guy.
Atleast it was a happy ending. Sarah sounds like a saint and her husband sounds like a delight~
I felt so bad for Sara the whole way through but the part that made me feel worse for her was at 14:33 when it said Sara was very hurt by this. I’m really glad the other bridesmaids, and groom were nice and supportive and was telling Lia off.
Love this video, I used to have friends like these. I used to have a best friend that invited herself to my boyfriend's home where he and I were living and spent the weekend with us, not only did she try to flirt with my boyfriend, but kept opening up discussions about our relationship, mentioning all the things I told her in private about my bf when I was mad. Then she started talking to his mom about us. His mom hated me at the time. After that, she had the audacity to call my mom and tell her I was unhappy when it was not true, and my mom is very sensitive felt hurt and bad for me and actually suffered because of this information. I actually got so furious when my mom told me that I called my now ex-best friend and completely cut her out of my life forever with no regrets. My advice, get rid of the toxic people in your life, you will feel so much better. AND CHARLOTTE DARLING, I LOVE YOU BABE.
Oh Jesus Honey!!!! So sorry you went through that, how unbelievably cruel someone can be so conniving/ deceitful and call herself your friend at the same time. I don't know your age, but if y'all kinda just started having serious relationships, she may have been trying to get you all to herself again. Not saying that makes it right one bit. I'm all about second chances but some things are unforgivable
@@missmayflower Yes...guard and protect your relationship...
Complaining to others is triangulation ..and a betrayal...
That sucks. Ar you and your boyfriend still together?
Good for you for cutting her out! I think she had a crush on your boyfriend & wanted to do everything she could to split you guys up by turning his mom against you & making your mom think you were in a terrible situation.
@@jenniferwilliams9548 I'm 33 now. This happened back in 2015 and and my bf were together for slmost 3years
I’m a generous person because it makes me feel good but I have had a few entitled friends in my lifetime who always abused my generosity. As you get older, it’s easy to pick out the ones who are using you and the ones who really value you as a person. Don’t let the entitled ones kill your kindness just weed them out of your life! No leeches allowed 😂
Just one of the many perks of aging! Discernment and a reduction in the amount of bs we tolerate are high on the pro side.
My mom and I fight over the bill the time. Always disappointed when the other wins the fight. Iv3 gotten to the point where I "go to the bathroom " right before the bill was due and would be up paying instead of resting in the designated room. My mom has caught on. Now we both fake the bathroom break pushing and shoving eachother up to the register to be the one that pays. Typically both crying out of laughter when we reach the register. Love my mom!
Lol love this so much. But what designated resting area? Most places in the US bring the bill to you and you pay at the table. I was just curious. And your relationship with mom sounds so great.
This is image is freaking delightful
That's so cute!
@@erikarussell1142 They would go find the waitress instead of going to the restroom (bathroom)
@@gilded_lady ah i see, thank you so much. For some reason that confused me. Lmao
Applauds to Sara's husband for saving everyone from Lia
i feel so bad for her she’s so kind and generous and had no bad intentions and she got used and pushed into a mental breakdown. And i’m so happy that she had a groom that actually cared. i hope sara is doing well.
When you mentioned good friends are ones you fight over the bill with. It's so true! My bestie and I will get in arguments of who will pay. Most of the time our arguments get so bad we have to split the bill. 😂 But we know we do it cause we care about each other.
I have a fantastic friend and I love going out with her partially because of the creative ways we come up with to get the check! She won the last round by buying a gift card for the restaurant we went to 15 minutes before we got there...
@@ShellyS2060 That's the awesome! It honestly adds to the adventures we have with amazing friends!
I recently discovered your videos. Thank you for your humor and kindness. You have helped me through some dark days. I hope that you have a wonderful day!
I'm so glad!
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@Link to the clip lmao uh yeah.... the dark truth is that's a scam link and we all know it. Stop it. Get some help... lol
This Lia chick reminds me of a former friend I was trying to help out a few years ago when her mother decided to go live with another daughter, essentially leaving my friend high and dry. I helped her pack up to move, paid for the movers, and told her I’d help her with groceries until she could get a job. A year later she still hadn’t done anything about finding a job to supplement her disability check, and it had gone from one purchase of groceries a month to two. I tried not to let it show that it was starting to irritate me. For some reason she was always dying to get me to take her to Costco, which I couldn’t understand because she had no one else living with her and she couldn’t get all the groceries she needed cuz of the bulk buys, and I refused to pay more than $200 at a time. Then that year her daughter-in-law was pregnant and the girl asked me if I would take her to Costco so she could get stocked up with easy meals for when she’d had the baby. Then I took her to Ricky’s for supper, during which I got her to reveal something she’d mentioned in front of me that I didn’t quite catch, and my friend’s panicked reaction of “Shhh!” made me want to know, so while I had the DIL with me, I asked her. Come to find out, my so-called friend had been taking orders from her neighbours to get me to buy, and she’d sell the healthy food I bought her to them at a discount. Then she’d order huge amounts of fast food with the cash, which explained why she always needed a second trip to the store every month. I was livid! But I decided I wasn’t going to be treated that way. I took the girl by her MIL’s place so she could leave a box of diapers for future use, and we got the third degree as to where I had taken her. The friend was upset that I hadn’t taken her with us, but I explained that I wasn’t doing any shopping, her DIL was. The baby arrived a week later and I took the friend to see her. The DIL wanted to run to the store for something and I offered to take her, and of course the supposed friend wanted to shop, too. I told her that I could no longer afford $400 a month, which was true, and I’d only be able to get her $100 worth every two weeks. She didn’t like that at all, but I gave her $100 anyway, which she gave $40 to the DIL for something she owed to her. I had an inkling she was going to try something, so I got my shopping done and went to find them to tell them I was going out to sit in the car. I saw her basket was full and she laughed, “There’s just so many bargains!” I didn’t say anything and went to the car. Next thing I know, the DIL is back at the car and looking for the woman’s wallet because the friend had gotten more than she could afford and wanted the DIL to come ask me for cash. The DIL said no, you’ve taken advantage of her enough, and lent her the cash. So everyone was pissed off by the time I dropped her off and I told her we wouldn’t be doing that EVER again, and next thing I know, she’s accusing me of trying to take her place with the DIL and the new baby! Needless to say, that was the end of that friendship. I tried to be a good friend and she took advantage of my niceness repeatedly. I decided I would NEVER do that again for anyone who wasn’t family. Sorry for the novel! 😂
I am so sorry your kindness was so brazenly and repeatedly abused.
Oh sweetie, the fact you couldn't drop her when you found out she was selling the groceries you bought at half price, no less, says a lot about what kind of person you are. It's easier said than done, it doesn't mean you're weak, it just means you're
empathetic
You were way too generous. I would've cut the chords the moment I heard my "friend" was taking advantage of me like that.
I’ve put myself in similar positions trying to help people out and got played instead. Unfortunately I’ve learned that people who’ve lived off of assistance for a lifetime have learned to con the system and they’ll con you too.
Narcissists need to be cut out immediately for everyone's own good.
My father had a cousin in America, we're Irish, who was very wealthy. He would come across to Ireland every year for a holiday and always arrived with a suitcase packed with money. He never let anyone pay for anything, but he always expected them to at least offer. One time my mother snuck to the bar at the pub and paid, Dave very gently told her off, explained he liked people to offer, but also enjoyed spoiling everyone and she wasn't to do it again. My mum loved Dave like a brother and his wife Katherine. They stopped coming due to age before I was born.
Oh my word! I've been in an awful wedding but this takes the cake.
Pun intended? x)
Yum 😋
I love getting invested in longer stories. I can't read onlinebecuase my eyes basically reject lit up text. This one was amazing. I am glad there was a happy ending.
I grew up with a lot of privilege and so many times ppl would steal from me or my family and then laugh it off because “we could afford to buy more.” This is all in spite of the fact that my parents would always pay for everything for my friends. I HATEEEE entitlement like that and got rid of so many “friends” for that kind of crap
Yes, same. It wasn't the belongings - it was the betrayal and loss of trust. Plus, some of the things I lost were irreplaceable. Someone stole my great grandmother's ring that had been passed on to me. They know who they are. I hope they enjoyed having my family heirloom. I have been not enjoying since I was 17. Now I am 50, and I haven't forgotten.
Regardless if you can afford to replace stuff, it's still theft.
@@jenx5870 I'm so sorry about that. That must've hurt. Rich or poor, the sense of violation cuts deep.
Friends like that aren't friends.
As someone who frequently gets taken advantage of (not because I’m super wealthy just because I try my best to be a nice person) my heart breaks for Sara that she had such a horrible friend taking advantage of her. People like Lia need to realize that friends are not just tickets to wealth, and kindness should be reciprocated. Props to OP and her friends for being there for Sara and standing up to Lia.
I can’t even wrap my head around the women thinks she’s entitled to the brides money. I have a friend he’s got extra money and people seem to think that that means that he should give them money I’m like yeah when he was working two jobs when he was younger and putting money away and wasn’t so he could eventually support you he’s a nice person and my TV went out he bought me a new one and I paid him back I had to do payments because I couldn’t afford it all at once But my mom raised me that just because somebody might have extra money that doesn’t mean that you’re entitled to it
People who ask for handouts like that are just bottom feeders.
Yeah, if you can't pay the full amount right away, just do it chunk by chunk.
Had a guy in my town win the lotto jackpot solo, $42 million, a couple of decades ago. Each of his 15 siblings came out of the woodwork, and he helped them but made it clear he wasn’t a gift that kept on giving. He took it annually, rather than lump sum and contributes to the community and wherever he can. He was still working his job and living in his same apartment for the longest time. I cannot imagine the degree of delulu, and also lack of pride, you’d have to have to behave like this.
Man that one girl seemed like she was a nightmare to be around. I'm happy they kicked her out before she could ruin the wedding itself. The karma here was perfect and beautiful.
My heart breaks for Sara, she seems like such a nice person who had a real shitty friend
I had a friend suggest we go out to lunch. I was doing quite well at the time and had treated her/our friends a few times.
On this day, I said ‘sure, but we’ll have to split it as things are tight right now’. She replied that she couldn’t afford to go in that case and did not suggest any alternative - like lunch at one of ours.
So SHE invited ME out to lunch, so I could pay for us both.
That was the death of that friendship.
Jeez, i hate people like this ex "friend" of yours.
Uggghh, I get it! Sorry that happened to you but I bet you're better off.
SCAMMER....THIS IS NOT CHARLOTTE@
As someone who has gone through something similar recently.... what Charlotte said at the end was incredibly therapeutic 😌 one of the many reasons we stan the petty queen 💜
It's hard to be nice and generous to people when we got someone like Lia that would not hesitate to take advantage of someone's kindness. I'm glad Sara had a wonderful wedding with people that actually cared about her.
I love that the groom stood up for his bride, before they were even married. Marriage is hard, and having someone like that around would probably spell disaster for the happy couple. Lia was very manipulative and you are right: those are the kinds of stories that make people feel less generous. I wouldn't be surprised if, since college, Lia had been guilt tripping the bride by throwing in her face that she could not afford such things if she ever questioned her sincerity as a friend. I've seen people like that before and it is sad to watch. The bride had a really nice group of friends. She made the right decision when she kept them regardless of social status.
I’m glad the bride had good friends and a great guy looking out for her!
So pleased she had a lovely wedding 💕 with no toxic "friend"♥️
As they say, "With 'friends' like those, who needs enemies?"
‘Sara’ sounds like and awesome friend! The rest of them sound great too! I’m glad they all dealt with her haha
Sara seems like the kindest person and I’m so happy she has the most amazing husband that is not afraid to stand up for her.
As a teen demisexual person who doesn't wanna get married, I can't get ENOUGH of these wedding drama video KEEP EM COMING CHARLOTTE
Thank you for posting! This is the first time I've heard the term demisexual and I'm happy to have learned about an orientation I somehow havn't heard of before. ♥️
Wth is demisexual
@@cheeling794 Demisexuals will not experience attraction until they’ve known someone for a while. Hope that helps!
@@teritt Thanks! I was wondering too, and was about to look it up on google but as a very lazy person, I'm glad you provided the answer!
@@teritt I was going to Google the term, but I love the fact that the "tots" are always ready to help. 🥔 glad I found this community
That was epic Charlotte. I hope you and your family and your boyfriend have a blessed day and weekend my friend.
Thank you! You too James!
@@CharlotteDobre You're welcome. As you can see I figured out how to put my profile picture on here last night.
I love that it's 19 minutes long and it's out for 1 minute and it already has likes. Best potatoes family 👑
That groom and his shiny spine love that for her. I hope they live happily ever after without the dram that some people like to inflict on others just because they are jealous and selfish.
This is sad because I bet if the fiancé didn’t step in and stopped her from being in the wedding Sara would have still let her participate.
Nah, you had me at the MOH understudy thing especially. I was my sisters MOH, and she had a few other friends in the party as well. Only one was someone that we’ve literally known our entire lives, like had Christmas dinner together always until they moved a few hours away (and that was after all of us had graduated high school and gone away for college anyway). That girl would never in a million years do what this girl in the story did. I was 20/21 when my sister got married (it was a week before my birthday), so she was super helpful with planning the bachelorette festivities but none of it was taken from me, or stepped on our actual family’s toes. She was nothing but helpful, an extra set of hands, would run to get someone for pictures, popped champagne in the bridal suite (I had never done it haha), she was just HELPFUL. Not entitled at all whatsoever, just incredibly helpful and we are close as ever years later because of how kind she is. That girl from this story is not a friend. She is a leech.
I’m so glad all of this happened before the wedding. Nothing worse than having to look at your wedding photos and see someone who makes you feel bad. I know people like this and they do not change. I’m happy they got this B out of their lives.
I took a friend with me on a little holiday (domestically) a couple years ago for my birthday. It was totally my choice so I paid for our flights, accommodation and pretty much everything else except for some entry tickets to clubs. This didn't bother me one bit because, as I said, it was my choice. On the day of my actual birthday, my grandmother rang with some pretty upsetting news and I ended up feeling a little down. I was kind of hoping my friend would try lifting my spirits and maybe get me up and about, but I literally had to ask her, "dude, I need you to help me out here" because she was actually trying to avoid me and my negative energy. We finally went out in the late afternoon and I paid for every drink. Every bit of food. We ended up separating each night we went out as she found other people to hang out with while I went home early. One night she got stuck in the emergency staircase screaming for help because it was after hours and she couldn't get in. Woke up half the building. She was very patronising and made me feel less-than quite frequently. Long story (kinda but not really) short, she got a virtually free holiday and I barely got a pat on the back lol. Safe to say, that friendship is over. Side note - it wasn't as though she had no money either.
That story was IN.SANE. just wow. It was lovely that it ended on a happy note, that the groom stepped in and did what needed to be done and they had a lovely wedding.
This was such a horrible story, I had to watch it twice. It also made me check myself to see if I have EVER treated people I call friends so horribly in pursuit of my own wants and needs😢😢😢
She was living vicariously through the rich/famous bride...and gaslighting the bride.
Thank you Charlotte. Your videos are amazing. I love them and I appreciate you making us all smile ❤
You are so welcome!
Charlotte, this story is a train wreck and your reaction are perfectly sane. Loved it.
Sarah sounds like a true gem. Happy to hear you got the wedding you wanted with your true friends. It also sounds like your husband is a good one, at least in the situation we heard. Congratulations and have a long loving marriage
This entitled c u next Tuesday takes the bridesmaidzilla title to a whole other level! 😱🙊 I am so glad that the bride had her groom and loving, supportive friends to help her navigate handling a stressful and toxic person that was clearly just a moocher and fair-weathered friend. I wish the couple all the best! 💗
My in-laws are not rich but they are well off. Every time we'd visit them, they always paid for everything. Even when they visit us, they always paid. I was getting soooo tired of it. My husbands dad and I are both sassy as strongly stubborn. I now win a lot to foot the bills which makes me so happy every time. Sometimes I lose, but I still win other times. It's now a fun competition between my father-in-law and I hahaha
You're amazing that you thought it was important to pay for your wealthy relative to show appreciation and make sure this person felt your appreciation. They will definitely remember your thoughtfulness! More people should think this way!
This story ended exactly as it should have. It's a pity that Lea was not dealt with sooner.
Had a rich family friend. He told me if I made all A's my senior year of HS he'd buy me a car. He did...Nothing crazy, a gently used 91 Corolla (This was 1997) that I loved! At Christmas, his wife would send me huge boxes of designer perfumes, over night bags, purses and swag from her frequent shopping trips. We'd stay at their huge house sometimes and one time he picked up my grandmother from the airport in his Rolls Royce just to treat her. After I graduated from HS he took me and my family to a Michelin star restaurant and later that same day went to see the musical Cats. Sent me to Vegas in my 21st birthday - got us a suite at Caesars Palace! We had ski trips, horse back riding in the rocky mountains, white water rafting. I never took it for granted and was thankful for the experiences. But I never demanded or expected anything.
"Introducing my friend; her name is Projection!" Put that on a shirt, pillow or mug.
Can i ask for more sarcasm please... coming from the North of England i appreciate it so much 😆
I'm not well off by any means, but I had a similar friend like this. Although, he felt entitled to my time. While I was studying and working two jobs to further myself, he was sitting at home chilling cos his grandparents were decently well off (although they tried to get him to find a job or to consider studying, he didn't want to because "it was boring") but he would constantly message me at work or try to call me when I specifically said I'd be studying for an exam. And sometimes when I did answer, cos he'd message saying he'd urgently need to talk, it was literally because he was bored. He just couldn't understand that I was really busy and not ignoring him on purpose. He did this with other people too. Our friendship ended when he made nasty rumors about a mutual friend's fiancée and then tried to act like the victim, even though we had evidence he started the rumors and he also accused one of our friend's younger sister for "driving him to nearly hurt himself" simply because she didn't want to talk to him?? His toxicity really just became too much and I had to cut ties with him. It's not worth having people like that in your life.
S/o to Charolotte for dropping these gems of videos so consistently. Hardworking babe💖
feel so sorry for the bride. she sounds so wonderful & giving & yet that wasn’t enough for lia. thank god she’s out of her life now
I think the saddest part of situations like this is people rearing their ugly heads to take advantage of an already generous person and bleeding them dry Sara didn’t deserve that and I’m glad Lia not only got kicked out of the wedding but got told off too and it’s good to know that the wedding went as planned
Love the joy you spread Charlotte
I’m so happy when I was getting married, that was a few decades ago, there was none of this hype and thing that happened. In fact I had one of the most chilled wedding and mostly stress free that I can remember. We had a hens night and a bucks night, out on the town and nothing really got out of hand and they were good fund events. The bride and groom usually gave gifts to the MOH/bridesmaids and best man and groomsmen, usually jewellery. The weddings were what the people could afford to have and usually the brides parents paid for most of it, the grooms parent usually paid for the drinks. All I know is we were very happy with our wedding and know everyone said they had a good time, there were no dramas. Bring back the old days and forget the BS.🇦🇺
Sarah is blessed to have friends like that group and such lovely fiancée who all stood by her and helped her get rid of that leech or else Lea would have kept leeching off of her for rest of the life !
My friend from my PhD programme got married in 2018, and another friend from our programme, alongside the bride to be's best friend organised the hen do. They would bring up a schedule of sorts that the bride would like (for one afternoon and night), and got everyone who was invited to contribute so that the event was paid already before it happened. And it wasn't extravagant, maybe at most £30 a person to contribute (my friend who was organizing is a great cook and also Greek so doesn't quite understand small portions of anything!). So they considered everyone's budget (some were still students so they were respectful), especially since some had to travel. The wedding was AMAZING and the guests didn't spend a penny, so we were glad we organised a great night for the bride.
I have a friend who is very well off financially. She helped me out when I lost my job due to a physical condition (company was sneaky because they can't fire you for a physical ailment but they found a way around it). I can never pay her back but refuse to accept any further help when she offers. I also try to send her thoughtful gifts when I'm able. Nothing expensive, just something meaningful. I honestly love this wonderful woman with all my heart. She's been a friend since I was 6 years old and I pray every night for her health and happiness. Lia from the story obviously doesn't understand love and friendship. Kind of sad.
So honestly it's a good thing that tag proga kicked out of that group because you never know she may have tried to start messing with the husband or hitting on the friends you know to keep Herself in that lifestyle
I got my bf into your videos and because of it, whenever our chairs squeak, we'll say "what's that chair?" Love you charlotte!
Wow the level of entitlement is unbelievable 😳.... love your videos
This young lady is something else! She simply couldn’t keep it together enough to not look greedy and entitled.
Had to arrange a the party for a close friend and he left the invite list to me. Of course i invited his two brothers, invited two of his close friends who i knew personally. Then had to think, invited an old school friend from ten years ago, then invited three university friends, they always were together, drinking together almost everyday. Also invited his old boyfriend, from university even though he changed his options after university. We all go through issues and finally settle, invited two of his cousins who were always around. Guest list completed, he didn't want to know and just go ahead. Well everybody accepted and he was in space when he saw the guests. Luckily it was two days before the wedding because not one of us would had been able to attend a wedding the next day. Getting everybody together cost me about £4000, seeing his face was truly priceless. Becoming the godfather of his son was even more amazing.