The fact that he tried to propose BEFORE the results were given shows how much of a manipulative person he is. It’s sickening. Smh. Sadly she will forgive him.
You're right! I know a guy who did a similar thing. He had a long-term gf (they had 1 daughter together). He found out his side-chick was preg, so he immediately proposed to his long term gf (who was patiently waiting for him to propose for years) because he was trying to get ahead of the situation to prevent his gf from leaving him when she found out about the preg side chick. Smh
Yep. He's a smooth talker with a bunch of "sweet" sayings committed to memory. Women who lack self-worth are his perfect prey. Heck, the judge may be the only woman with whom he's communicated who can see right through the smooth talk and catchy sayings.
I pray she wises up. Her daughters are young and watching her every move, I’m sure. They will see this and think it’s normal! The cycle will never end.
The way that he pulled at her wrist after the proposal when the judge was advising her to listen to the results first- speaks volumes. Master manipulator.
Lauren Lake is straight gangsta, and I love it! She interrupted a whole "engagement" with the lie detector results! What killed me was the "Not to get in your business" shade!!
Ms.Almanza couldn’t answer why she is still going back to him despite him being a poor example of a man. The truth is she is emotionally attached to him and he knows that and takes advantage of her. Sad but it happens every day!
Sad truth: the longer she stays with him, the worse her self-perception will become because he will NOT change. Everything is everybody else's fault; he has accepted responsibility nothing.
She such a beautiful lady and she put herself in that position but the 9 other kids plus one of them is from her relative…….they know how to pick these men
As long as she is with him...she will have no self esteem. She cant even give her self permission to cry or yell. It was the most pathetic thing I have seen. I wish they would not air some shows. He is a con. He literally said the lie detector is lying.
She doesn't think she deserves any better. The baby with a relative should've been the end. He has her on assistance, so he doesn't provide. Plus he still cheating... There's nothing to hold on to. "You teach ppl how to treat you"
Especially for them to have girls!!! If they daddy ain't gonna show them how a woman should be treated, mama needs to at least show them how a woman is supposed to treat herself!!!
@@sensual2kizz613 very sad!!! They are beautiful girls that may not even have a chance to understand their value!!! Kinda hope the new baby is a boy but not sure how much better that would!!!
@@hybridownzDK Well, she needs new girlfriends. She needs to hang out with women who want RESPECT, COMMITMENT, TIME, ATTENTION and a REAL FATHER for their children. I guarantee none of the women he sneaks around with are worth a dime. First clue: THEY pick HIM up. Chew on that for a moment.
It's called self-sabotaging behavior. By the time she wakes up, so much time will have passed by and I hate to say, but by then she wouldn't be dateable
He knew he was the dad and his every answer was a lie, that's why he came prepared with a ring and strategically went for the knee before the results of the lie detector test. What a poor excuse for a man. Mom needs counseling to find out why she keeps laying down for the abuse.
iBeGaming2 And at this point she deserves it because she knows the risk but she keeps taking him back! I don’t feel bad for her because she complains and doesn’t do anything about it
Tiffani Farrington hope you’re not having unprotected relations. No one deserves it. The Jezebel curse is strong in every generation, but at its highest ever in this generation including Fornication and Adultery.
Lol, she kept saying, "really?!" as if she didnt know he was a liar to begin with. And he got the nerve to say, "our problem is the trust issues, thats what the main thing was" RIGHT CUZ YOU JUST FAILED EVERY QUESTION ON THE LIE DETECTOR!!!
@@jamesbonofffradestin761 Truth be told, If we all minded our own business there would be no comments. I like to learn what and why people think the way they do.
@@reahleneroberts3312 *l see some of your replies on other threads/episodes and i don't think your elevator goes all the way to the top floor!* SERIOUSLY.
to lock him down. She is trying to show to all the other women that he is hers. Oh and to her family member that she's better than her. This young woman will keep having babies until he leaves her for someone else, Sad
Amen 🙏🏾 and I'm also praying for him and men like him. We have to stop just dropping multiple children like it's some kind of hobby. The children suffer everytime. Brother's ...fix up man and women please try to love yourselves. Bless up from the UK
Most of us, for some reason or another, get lost at least once on our lives, some of us find our way back and find our true selves with self love and self compassion and self forgiveness and find a rock, our center that keeps us balanced and on the paths we deserve to chose to be on. For me, that Rock, that center, is my Savior, Redeemer, Jesus Christ, and my relationship with him and my Heavenly Father. We all make plenty of mistakes. Let's keep on going. Our Godhead knows us, sees us and loves us to a depth we cannot comprehend. Don't give up or give in. Be strong. Love yourself. Live by your good beliefs, God Bless. You're precious. 🦋
When I hear a single man say that he has multiple kids and he takes care of all of them, I begin to shake my head in doubt. It is almost impossible to give each child the one on one attention that they need growing up, especially when they live in multiple homes. 3/30/2021
I'd bet she didn't grow up with a father in her home, or the father she had in the home was distant, so she believes she should stay with him at any cost as long as he's there. He cheats, exposes her unborn child to diseases that could affect it for life, she endures his accusations of cheating so he can have a reason to argue so he can go out and cheat when he knows she not cheating, even the judge called him out on it, and she even said herself he doesn't help her with the children like he should be. There's no redeeming qualities with him. I hope she gets help soon in building her self respect and esteem so her little girls can see a stronger, more self assured mamma and grow up like that instead.
It was never there. He spotted her from a mile away. Her cousin is sleeping with her children's father and its no big deal to either of them. Lots of issues in her family, not just her household.
@Janet Montgomery There is such a thing as natural beauty. However, there is never an excuse for cheating. If you are not happy then leave. That simple
If she marries him, he's really gonna cheat because he feels like she'll never leave him. Girl, please don't marry him! You deserve better & he's never gonna stop cheating!!!!!
Don’t worry, because I’d bet money that he never plans on marrying her anyway. That was just a show to try and offset the results that he knew were coming.
I agree with you. He's not gonna stop cheating and I don't think their relationship is gonna get better. This guy is a slickster that has gotten away with cheating and still gets the woman. Let's not forget he tried to stick the cheating label on her.
Why waste the court time this low self esteem woman is still gonna be with him and continue to have kids with him , it makes me sick to think this man could bring a deadly disease home to her😩
He said he's there sometimes, when she mentioned the sleeping in same bed.. So he is a part-time father. Unless he was talking of his time incarcerated. But it didn't seem that was the case.
Yes!! You teach people how to treat you!! Until she demands respect he will keep disrespecting her, being with her family members and she'll keep accepting it having more children.
I hate that saying.He's not going to stop cheating because she demands it, that's his character trait and the only one who can change that is him. She has the option of staying and accepting who he is or leaving and finding someone who will love,respect and be faithful to her.
Why let him knock you up more than once. Learn your lessons & move on. He is a deadbeat, dead weight, a jailbird, a baby making machine. Not a prize to be won. Wow!
She'll build up the strength to leave. It's just a matter of time. Sometimes breaking soul ties ain't easy for ever. For some it's a long process but when it happens its done for good.
really you have to think about your children you have 2 daughters what examples are you setting for your daughters and let's not forget about your unborn son
Shea Williams ikr. He needs help with child support with the other children Chile have that baby and run 🏃🏿♀️ fast have him to give you child support for your children. The choice is yours🤭🤔🤷♀️
She is such a sweet and humble woman. She stood tall and said with conviction that the children could not have been fathered by anyone else other him. She was proven right in all instances. She deserves better.
I normally don’t say anything about the women but GIRL, you sitting up complaining about the mess but choose to stay because you don’t want a part time dad for your kids. Girl he a part time man! He partially yours and the rest of the community. Run!!
Thank you. I mean does she has to walk in a bedroom and catch him in the act? She keeps choosing to stay and allowing herself to get pregnant by him. Yes, it takes two but at the end of the day the onus of the responsibility is on her because she knows exactly what type of man she's dealing with...smh
*Well, with this case, I'll just make a quick educated guess. She agreed to marry him and he is STILL CHEATING ON HER! The only other update that it would be other than this is, is most likely that; they have not yet gotten married BUT HE IS STILL CHEATING. With 11 children now..*
He probably has all daughters. Most trifling men have a bunch of girls that go on to date trifling men. Low self esteem is the worst thing to ever happen to humanity, because she is the saddest thing I have ever seen.
Infidelity, Lies, and watching their mom cry (I’m sure) because of their poor excuse for a father. Prayers for those babies. I wish she would RUN and teach her girls to be strong and confident women.
He’s a tired criminal populating the earth. Her self-esteem is zero. Girl please put him out. You and your children are being slowly poisoned by his presence.
Exactly my thoughts. I knew from the moment he turned to get to say he loves her that he was going to fail but manipulate her so she doesn't leave him.
JulySummers right!!! 12 kids??? Ain’t worth 2 pennies rubbed together. SMH!!! A man who is careless with his money is careless with his woman. Case in point.....CHILD SUPPORT!!!
@@geraldmukiibimagala2937 it is our business when they come on television and air their business for the world to see!! We can judge!! Leave it to a black man to say this kinda behavior from a Man is acceptable simply because she loves him!! Gtfoh 💀
Magala Mukiibi Gerald But the public is paying to raise his children, so it is our business. Unfortunately, people who behave this way are producing far more children than the ones who are self-sufficient and want a better life for their children. As they grow up, society still has to deal with the ones who are taught that irresponsible behavior is the norm because someone else will step in and pay.
Oh lord how the parents of this girl messed her up. It's not about having just any piece of a man. It's about getting the same love and respect from each other . But she's not even ready for that level, she needs to love and value herself first. God help her with all her children..
That's what desperation does.. She's waited 11yrs, went thru many women and children, even her own family, yet he's now chosing her 😯 so she feels she has won.
“I’m wearing the ring because...” girl both of y’all are wasting the court’s time. He’s not going to stop treating you how he is & you’re not going to require him to do any different. Bye 🙄
My mouth dropped when I saw her holding her belly about “I’m wearing the ring because...” 👀👀👀😳😳😳😳😮😮😮😮 That man is a master manipulator, I pray she breaks from from this narcissistic vs co-dependent relationship
They say love is blind. I guess it's also deaf and mute too! She's a beautiful young woman with a sweet spirit. She deserves better. I just wish she knew it.
She took the ring.... 😯😐. Her self respect and self esteem is out the door. What is she teaching her girls?? It's okay to accept as much 💩 from a man in the name of love. Foh.
@@sensual2kizz613 Another good one? She's never had one before! She's never had any self esteem or respect for herself. The idiot has 9 kids outside of them, 3 with her and one of those isn't even out yet! He's still sleeping with other men...I mean women 😏 she's willing to put up with his mess and he won't commit to her. Yep, he just now proposed to her and she is holding the ring. Listen, if he loved her and cared about how his girls were being raised, he would've married her a long time ago. The "proposal" was to manipulate her thoughts AFTER the poor lie detector results... It worked, too.
Three children in? What Divine Intervention do you want??? When one makes these types of decisions and continues to make them, what exactly do people want God to do? Swoop in like superman? God gave us the ability and right to choose just as some continue choose to reject Jesus. It's unfortunate and sad. I pray this lady comes to know Jesus Christ and finds her identity in Him.
He did! I left him alone! My youngest is now 9 and we are living our best lives without him. It took a while. But that man is a narcissistic human and was never going to change. Thank you for your prayers. It took a while but God finally touched my heart.
The guy went 'away' , no job,9 kids,have kids with her relative,cheats on her and still she is all smiley... where do some women feel their love from?The dude got litterally nothing to offer...jeeez
Notice how he was trying to talk you her and keep her distracted when the judge was advising her not to accept the proposal before the lie detector results. He knew exactly what he was doing. That man is a manipulator.
Never argue with someone who believes his own lies! There comes a time when you have to choose between turning the page and closing the book?? I honestly don't believe his worth your time! Your a beautiful young lady who deserves so much more and even more for your 2 beautiful children!
Nita W the sad thing is he can’t support 12 kids... I don’t know what woman see in a guy who is not taking care of the kids he already have they don’t have to assume how he would be as a father they can see.
Ask a Trucker - These men are out here hiding the fact that they have several children by several women. A new woman get suckered in and added to the chain of fools and the children suffer for it.
The judge saw it and I thought that the woman would take some time to reflect on it after she heard the results, even though she probably knew what it was going to reveal. Nope, several minutes later, she is wearing the ring. 🤦🏻♀️
He knows that her self esteem is so low that there is a possibility that she might believe him rather than the lie detector and that is why he says the lie detector is a lie. “Oh what a tangled web we weave when first we practise to deceive”.
He needs to get snipped. And this woman still took the ring. SMH. I pray she wakes up & sees she's worth so much more than him. She owes it to herself & her children to have a real man that truly loves her. When you're in love & wanna talk marriage, you don't cheat & you don't even look that way at her family or friends, let alone go for it & do it more than once. In my opinion, he's a dime a dozen type of manipulator, cheater & just all around pathetic.
@@nmd899 You don't know how humans work. I smile when I'm uncomfortable or nervous. Someone will tell me their family member died and I have to hold back a smile... not because I'm happy, but because that's my body's coping mechanism with dealing with a situation I don't know how to react to. Laugh to keep from crying.
"You have a lot of phrases, but you have no logic!" Judge... I loved that :-) This man is manipulative, wow... He wants her to marry her before she even gets the results.
@@Kari_Michele hes too busy cheating and popping children, and checking in on the 7 he got, I didn't include 2 with her because she said he doesn't do the family stuff with them.
When he got on his knees to propose, I almost fell out my seat laughing. I had two people knock on my door to ask if I was okay. This dude is the definition of prison game 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
One with a family member....that he still sleeping with!! She has NO...NONE...NADA SELF ESTEEM!! Where is her mother...her father? She don't have brothers..no men in the family. In my family...I have some uncles...cousins that would have taken him off the earth. They would be in prison rt now...and I would feel guilty for the rest of my life and get to put money on their books. This is the truth!! In my family you hide things from the men...try to not get in situations...because you already know how this is going down.
I agree that Both Deserve Each Other he's cheating with family members she's cheating with his friends Lord help them for Keys some people don't need children
I respect that but I can tell your still young lol. Its not about how many kids you have its about if you love them and take care of them and give them the best life no matter how things went with there mother.
She said “why do you keep having kids with me?” No, why do YOU keep having kids with him when he shows you he doesn’t love or want you.
LifeOf Jas u betta PREACH!
Because she is dom
Loretta Argyle dumb*.... don’t call someone dumb if you can’t spell 🤦🏾♀️.
I can't hit the like button on your comment because it's at number 665!
They think if a man get them pregnant they want them
The fact that he tried to propose BEFORE the results were given shows how much of a manipulative person he is. It’s sickening. Smh. Sadly she will forgive him.
You're right! I know a guy who did a similar thing. He had a long-term gf (they had 1 daughter together). He found out his side-chick was preg, so he immediately proposed to his long term gf (who was patiently waiting for him to propose for years) because he was trying to get ahead of the situation to prevent his gf from leaving him when she found out about the preg side chick. Smh
Anisha LaNee yep. He’s a narc and they love using us empaths and/or codependents.
Yep. He's a smooth talker with a bunch of "sweet" sayings committed to memory. Women who lack self-worth are his perfect prey. Heck, the judge may be the only woman with whom he's communicated who can see right through the smooth talk and catchy sayings.
I pray she wises up. Her daughters are young and watching her every move, I’m sure. They will see this and think it’s normal! The cycle will never end.
Anisha LaNee He is so manipulative and she is simple watch his eye motions and body language after the lies started being discussed
The way that he pulled at her wrist after the proposal when the judge was advising her to listen to the results first- speaks volumes. Master manipulator.
I completely agree and caught on to that quickly
Manipulation at its finest. He pulled out that engagement ring FAST! As soon as the judge highlighted he seemed nervous…
Controlling. The first signs of an isolating, ownership-type of relationship in my personal experience.
I don’t think he is a master. This is coming from having a brother who is
Master manipulator is generous. A good majority of people would not fall for this nonsense.
Lauren Lake is straight gangsta, and I love it! She interrupted a whole "engagement" with the lie detector results! What killed me was the "Not to get in your business" shade!!
That part 😂😂😭😭😭💀
She knows that women in love are never logical. She was just trying to help.
And educated and smart and beautiful with it you are so right young lady
Meghan Williams , Ms Williams l agree with you. Lauren Lake I a straight up gansta.
Amen to that!
Ms.Almanza couldn’t answer why she is still going back to him despite him being a poor example of a man. The truth is she is emotionally attached to him and he knows that and takes advantage of her. Sad but it happens every day!
Ken u got that ryt,REAL MESSY.
Sad fact
Facts
True story 😭
She doesn't know her worth!!! It's sad but true
Ms Almanza “not to be in your business” but....🗣🗣🗣THROW THE WHOLE LOSER AWAY!!!
Facts
Better yet, flush him down the toilet. Here ya go...and don't forget to wipe 🚽
Omg I just posted that this dude is a LOSER. YES HE IS!!!
💩💩💩💩💩🚽🚽🚽🚽🧻🧻🧻
I want to see her results.
You can be beautiful and still suffer from low self esteem.
Ike Stanley Definitely!
Jamelia Body, she needs help but not from this excuse of a boy cos men take responsibility.
Sad truth: the longer she stays with him, the worse her self-perception will become because he will NOT change. Everything is everybody else's fault; he has accepted responsibility nothing.
women want what other women want
happens all the time
It's sad that she doesn't see her worth, but what is worst is that her DAUGHTERS will see her as their example to follow and that cycle will continue😞
She such a beautiful lady and she put herself in that position but the 9 other kids plus one of them is from her relative…….they know how to pick these men
This episode was pointless 😂 he knew those were his kids, she knew he was a liar and she knew she was gonna stay anyway 🤷🏾♀️.
Jasmine agreed 😂
PREACH 🤦🏾♀️💯
Complete waste of time
Jasmine no man never really knows
Jasmine 😂😂🤣
Fix her family?! Lord Jesus, please fix this woman's SELF ESTEEM 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
As long as she is with him...she will have no self esteem. She cant even give her self permission to cry or yell. It was the most pathetic thing I have seen. I wish they would not air some shows. He is a con. He literally said the lie detector is lying.
IKR!! Just so desperate!!
Ryan Foster amen
Mental health is needed
Ryan Foster fact
👀😳 How did you get 9 other children and you have been with her for 11 years🤔
monique ozier 🤣🤣🤣🤣
he said they wasnt in a relationship in the beginning she was his sidechick
Ikr
But he accepted those 9, yet he had the nerve to deny her kids without explaining why 😩🤦🏾♀️
I can't even do that kind of math!!!
She broke my heart. She loves him and love her daughters and want them to live as a family, but he does not deserve her. Such a beautiful lady.
She should have known better....he had a ton of kids already!
She deserves better
She doesn't think she deserves any better.
The baby with a relative should've been the end. He has her on assistance, so he doesn't provide. Plus he still cheating... There's nothing to hold on to.
"You teach ppl how to treat you"
@@mamabear7497 no she doesn't
Nobody wants a mom of 3 with a trash baby daddy
Incarcerated? I am not familiar with that term did he “go away?”
Dead 🤣🤣🤣
😭😭😭😭 YES
😂😂😂😂
Ong though😂😂💀
🤣🤣
Please break up, for the sake of the children. They do not need to witness a relationship like this.
Especially for them to have girls!!! If they daddy ain't gonna show them how a woman should be treated, mama needs to at least show them how a woman is supposed to treat herself!!!
@@daaimahgreene558 EXACTLY 💯
@@daaimahgreene558 she's showing them that right now and children are sponges it will continue smh so sad
@@sensual2kizz613 very sad!!! They are beautiful girls that may not even have a chance to understand their value!!! Kinda hope the new baby is a boy but not sure how much better that would!!!
She's showing her daughters what to tolerate from a man.
And she is still having babies by this dude. Sometime you have no one to blame but yourself.
HotMess women want what other women want
True
That part!!
@@hybridownzDK Well, she needs new girlfriends. She needs to hang out with women who want RESPECT, COMMITMENT, TIME, ATTENTION and a REAL FATHER for their children. I guarantee none of the women he sneaks around with are worth a dime. First clue: THEY pick HIM up. Chew on that for a moment.
It's called self-sabotaging behavior. By the time she wakes up, so much time will have passed by and I hate to say, but by then she wouldn't be dateable
He knew he was the dad and his every answer was a lie, that's why he came prepared with a ring and strategically went for the knee before the results of the lie detector test. What a poor excuse for a man. Mom needs counseling to find out why she keeps laying down for the abuse.
Men like this don't change they simply find a woman who puts up with it.
Feral Chicken he found one in her & her family member
Truth
Exactly
Exactly.
@@Passion85031 oop!
Girl, he's gonna give you something that you cant wash off with soap and water if you keep taking him back
iBeGaming2 Nor abort or give up for adoption!!
iBeGaming2 And at this point she deserves it because she knows the risk but she keeps taking him back! I don’t feel bad for her because she complains and doesn’t do anything about it
Tiffani Farrington hope you’re not having unprotected relations. No one deserves it. The Jezebel curse is strong in every generation, but at its highest ever in this generation including Fornication and Adultery.
Ice 247 This doesn’t have to do with me lol that was random
Tiffani Farrington 🤣IKR
Staying with him will not give your kids a full time dad.....
No, he's to busy cheating around anyway.....👎
Especially when he has 9 other kids
6:18 she says he's not there for the kids.... so........... y u with him again?
Staying with him won’t give her anything but an STD!!!
Also she's silly too cuz she keeps having babies by him. Nd u know the kids are seeing them act a fool. Smh 🤦🏾♀️
The craziest part about all of this is, he Brought her to court, just to get exposed 🤣🤣🤣
She wants a family dynamic so bad she does not realize with him it's not possible.
Yeah it's sad
Pffft only Yah could change this man xD
Rs it’s impossible he got too many kids and she blind
What part of 'still sleeping with your family member' doesn't she understand?
Janet H right like lord have mercy 🤷🏽♀️🤬🤦🏽♀️
Exactly!! That's a deal breaker!!
I thought I knew 99.9% of the world's stupidest people, now I am convinced I know 100%
The part she's so desperate for the ring she's not listening to anything else. Sad
@@tanisha.r.thomas hey
Paternity court has really made me realise there are more dumb people alive than I first thought 😂🤦♀️
Amen!!!!
RJ london 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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lol
*Realize
Lol, she kept saying, "really?!" as if she didnt know he was a liar to begin with. And he got the nerve to say, "our problem is the trust issues, thats what the main thing was" RIGHT CUZ YOU JUST FAILED EVERY QUESTION ON THE LIE DETECTOR!!!
I think she knew and she has 3 kid's with him so she wants to keep her family together however it's two sides to every story.
This dude seeded the whole family. Just call him uncledaddy.
Ew😭😂
🤦♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣
😁
😂😂😂
Or Father +Uncle equals Funcle
That "man" ain't 💩! Her self esteem is nowhere to be found! Wow!
Maybe if she got morals she'd have self-esteem.
@@me-pm6mx mind your own business
@@jamesbonofffradestin761 Truth be told, If we all minded our own business there would be no comments. I like to learn what and why people think the way they do.
Too bad the judge can't order a vasectomy because he clearly needs one.
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That his body bible says be fruitful and multiply
@@reahleneroberts3312
*l see some of your replies on other threads/episodes and i don't think your elevator goes all the way to the top floor!* SERIOUSLY.
She really can’t order anything
@ron stetz
*And you're an A$$, thanks!*
She is a gorgeous lady with absolutely no self-respect, esteem, or confidence.
She said ‘why do you keep having kids with me then?’
Ummm honey.
WHY do YOU keep allowing him to knock you up?!?!
to lock him down. She is trying to show to all the other women that he is hers. Oh and to her family member that she's better than her. This young woman will keep having babies until he leaves her for someone else, Sad
QueenB Jade you better say it again and louder!!!!😮
I'm praying for her and women like her. I once was lost, but now I'm found. Thank you Jesus for never forsaking me.
Amen.
Amen!
Amen 🙏🏾 and I'm also praying for him and men like him. We have to stop just dropping multiple children like it's some kind of hobby. The children suffer everytime. Brother's ...fix up man and women please try to love yourselves. Bless up from the UK
Idek who sent you but I’m crying!
Most of us, for some reason or another, get lost at least once on our lives, some of us find our way back and find our true selves with self love and self compassion and self forgiveness and find a rock, our center that keeps us balanced and on the paths we deserve to chose to be on. For me, that Rock, that center, is my Savior, Redeemer, Jesus Christ, and my relationship with him and my Heavenly Father.
We all make plenty of mistakes. Let's keep on going. Our Godhead knows us, sees us and loves us to a depth we cannot comprehend. Don't give up or give in. Be strong. Love yourself. Live by your good beliefs, God Bless. You're precious. 🦋
Lord, keep me hidden from “men” like this. 🙏🏾
I have no problem resisting any of these men, actually they would regret ever crossing my path
This is my sons father up and down, unfortunately. Lord, keep these men from me, too.
😁😂🤣😂😁😂🤣
Amen
Amén 🙏
When I hear a single man say that he has multiple kids and he takes care of all of them, I begin to shake my head in doubt. It is almost impossible to give each child the one on one attention that they need growing up, especially when they live in multiple homes. 3/30/2021
Facts.
I wonder what happened to this young lady that her self esteem is no where to be found.
Lol! It ran away when she met him,even her self esteem knew when to bail..leaving her to deal with the loser.
I'd bet she didn't grow up with a father in her home, or the father she had in the home was distant, so she believes she should stay with him at any cost as long as he's there. He cheats, exposes her unborn child to diseases that could affect it for life, she endures his accusations of cheating so he can have a reason to argue so he can go out and cheat when he knows she not cheating, even the judge called him out on it, and she even said herself he doesn't help her with the children like he should be. There's no redeeming qualities with him. I hope she gets help soon in building her self respect and esteem so her little girls can see a stronger, more self assured mamma and grow up like that instead.
It wasn't there BEFORE they met. This is how the relationship progressed this way---
It was never there. He spotted her from a mile away. Her cousin is sleeping with her children's father and its no big deal to either of them. Lots of issues in her family, not just her household.
Moral of the story: if you don't value yourself you can't expect a man to value you.
And pretty girls get cheated on too🤦🏾♀️
Honestly, pretty girls probably get cheated on the most :/
@Janet Montgomery There is such a thing as natural beauty. However, there is never an excuse for cheating. If you are not happy then leave. That simple
The most
@@kovanightshade cause they are most probably loved for thier beauty. not always though, some do love regardless.
Lol yea looks has never made a man faithful! They will cheat with a roach
If she marries him, he's really gonna cheat because he feels like she'll never leave him. Girl, please don't marry him! You deserve better & he's never gonna stop cheating!!!!!
Unfortunately she doesn't think she can do better. I need to see an episode of "Where are they now?"
Don’t worry, because I’d bet money that he never plans on marrying her anyway. That was just a show to try and offset the results that he knew were coming.
She deserves better but she has 3 kids by him.. 🤦🏾♀️
I agree with you. He's not gonna stop cheating and I don't think their relationship is gonna get better. This guy is a slickster that has gotten away with cheating and still gets the woman. Let's not forget he tried to stick the cheating label on her.
Nope, he has too many other kids & mothers to 'visit'!!!
Could tell he was going to fail the lie detector test as soon as he tried to propose to her before the results!
That’s why he tried to hurry up and give her that ring lol
RIGHT?! After 11 years and 2000 children, he want to give a ring to distract her from the lie detector test
When in fact he didn't have to give her nothing, she gonna stay anyway
Why waste the court time this low self esteem woman is still gonna be with him and continue to have kids with him , it makes me sick to think this man could bring a deadly disease home to her😩
Exactly!
She need to leave him ASAP!!
“I don’t want my kids to have a part time father” Two seconds later “He does nothing for the kids”
Make it make sense!!!
I'm glad someone else picked up on that, too 🙄🙄
He has too many kids with too many women to be a full time father to any of them
EXACTLY
He said he's there sometimes, when she mentioned the sleeping in same bed.. So he is a part-time father. Unless he was talking of his time incarcerated. But it didn't seem that was the case.
@@denyss3476 Just cause he's there doesn't mean he's a fulltime father
I’ve never quite understood the term “trifling” until I saw this man.
Facts!!!!!!!
Oh my god 💀💀💀💀💀
My grandma used that word a lot...
He's for the streets ...throw the whole man away👊
The way she is smiling and rubbing her belly shows that she is a sweet, special kind of crazy...
Yea I kinda like her 😄
😂
Wow🤣
@Cais Chevez you might be onto something!
No... it shows she in love with him! Now that what makes her crazy!
She said she don't want a part time father with 9 kids he's a part time father to all those kids
I thought that too!
He's a part time father and a full time cheater
I said if she didnt want a part time father then she should've got a full time MAN
Preach!
He does all that to her because she allows it.
Yes!! You teach people how to treat you!! Until she demands respect he will keep disrespecting her, being with her family members and she'll keep accepting it having more children.
I hate that saying.He's not going to stop cheating because she demands it, that's his character trait and the only one who can change that is him. She has the option of staying and accepting who he is or leaving and finding someone who will love,respect and be faithful to her.
When u settle for broke dusties....
Exactly! 11 years? 6 other kids? At least one while they've been together? Shiiiddd! Ain't no way.
EXACTLY! If you take all kinds of trifling behaviour in order to keep a relationshit (no typo) then that's what you will keep getting.
Mr Brock.....stop wasting our time! All three are YOURS!
What a disgusting clown he is!!!!
Why let him knock you up more than once. Learn your lessons & move on. He is a deadbeat, dead weight, a jailbird, a baby making machine. Not a prize to be won. Wow!
Don't let the fear of being alone allow someone to continously make a fool of you and make it ok for them to abuse you emotionally and mentally.
She'll build up the strength to leave. It's just a matter of time. Sometimes breaking soul ties ain't easy for ever. For some it's a long process but when it happens its done for good.
really you have to think about your children you have 2 daughters what examples are you setting for your daughters and let's not forget about your unborn son
@@catherinejohnson2215 everyone doesn't have the same strength nor the self esteem. She'll eventually get there
Natasha I really need this thank you
Girl, don't marry him with all that child support, and your kids' cousin/sibling.
Don't be the fool 4xs
Shea Williams she should marry him...don’t let either one of them out amongst the general public
Ikr ain’t no way
Shea Williams He’s got 12 kids total. He won’t be able to pay all that child support. He’s a loser ffs
Im pretty sure if ur married u dont have to pay child support. She is a sucker.
Shea Williams ikr. He needs help with child support with the other children Chile have that baby and run 🏃🏿♀️ fast have him to give you child support for your children. The choice is yours🤭🤔🤷♀️
She is such a sweet and humble woman. She stood tall and said with conviction that the children could not have been fathered by anyone else other him. She was proven right in all instances. She deserves better.
Thank you!
I normally don’t say anything about the women but GIRL, you sitting up complaining about the mess but choose to stay because you don’t want a part time dad for your kids. Girl he a part time man! He partially yours and the rest of the community. Run!!
Well said young lady. Well said 👍👍
Thank you. I mean does she has to walk in a bedroom and catch him in the act? She keeps choosing to stay and allowing herself to get pregnant by him. Yes, it takes two but at the end of the day the onus of the responsibility is on her because she knows exactly what type of man she's dealing with...smh
Exactly and she is having a 3rd with him
On god
Well said my dear
Can we start getting some paternity updates on some of these cases please!!
Right!
*Well, with this case, I'll just make a quick educated guess. She agreed to marry him and he is STILL CHEATING ON HER! The only other update that it would be other than this is, is most likely that; they have not yet gotten married BUT HE IS STILL CHEATING. With 11 children now..*
Napenda Watotowangu I think u mean 12 kids
@@unknownbillionaire
*Right! Actually, i meant 13 NOW..*
Napenda Watotowangu why u say 13
Excuse me for a few years☝🏾, I'm experiencing some technical difficulties.
LOL...HAHAHAHA
Shea Williams lol 🤣🤣😂😂
Ok
Lol not the church finger
😭🤣 at least he didn't say the usual "I went away" BS 🙄
Can we just appreciate the woman in the back with her eyes popping out behind the guy 😭😭 her reactions were so on point to this man’s audacity
Sadly she's teaching her children that infidelity is ok.
gigglyfitzgirl exactly she has little girls listening and watching her every move
He probably has all daughters. Most trifling men have a bunch of girls that go on to date trifling men. Low self esteem is the worst thing to ever happen to humanity, because she is the saddest thing I have ever seen.
Infidelity, Lies, and watching their mom cry (I’m sure) because of their poor excuse for a father. Prayers for those babies.
I wish she would RUN and teach her girls to be strong and confident women.
Her girls. Her beautiful, happy girls. So they can grow and live the life she is.
@@angelafrancis6183
Hey
He’s a tired criminal populating the earth. Her self-esteem is zero. Girl please put him out. You and your children are being slowly poisoned by his presence.
The way he hit them knees RIGHT before the results lets me know he's narcissistic.
Lo Jerome Yes the way he grabbed her arm when judge said not to be in your business.
Yes I agree! He is very much so one! I'm glad she wanted to her the lie detector test before giving him her answer.
Exactly my thoughts. I knew from the moment he turned to get to say he loves her that he was going to fail but manipulate her so she doesn't leave him.
What does that mean? lol
Hes a chicken head down on them knees
I pray that God strengthens and heals this young woman. She and her kids deserve so much better!
"You got a lot of phrases but not a lot of logic."😂😂😂
And yes! He was wasting the court's time.
Right lol
Wanting five minutes of fame 🙄 Stop making all them babies he probably can’t support.
And it’s gone be 11 more years cause she not tired of him. The biggest smile on the biggest fools face....SMH
Period! Only when she gets tired and realizes that she is worth better will she leave. All this other stuff is just talk.
JulySummers right!!! 12 kids??? Ain’t worth 2 pennies rubbed together. SMH!!! A man who is careless with his money is careless with his woman. Case in point.....CHILD SUPPORT!!!
She loves him. It's non of your business.
@@geraldmukiibimagala2937 it is our business when they come on television and air their business for the world to see!! We can judge!! Leave it to a black man to say this kinda behavior from a Man is acceptable simply because she loves him!! Gtfoh 💀
Magala Mukiibi Gerald
But the public is paying to raise his children, so it is our business. Unfortunately, people who behave this way are producing far more children than the ones who are self-sufficient and want a better life for their children. As they grow up, society still has to deal with the ones who are taught that irresponsible behavior is the norm because someone else will step in and pay.
Lord if my self esteem ever go this low please take me home 🙇🏽♀️ Amen 🚶🏽♀️
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Jesus!!
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I'm with you sis. Amen
Amen on that🙏🏽
Oh lord how the parents of this girl messed her up. It's not about having just any piece of a man. It's about getting the same love and respect from each other . But she's not even ready for that level, she needs to love and value herself first. God help her with all her children..
Got a relative pregnant, got 9 OTHER KIDS, AND failed every lie detector question??? She put that ring on???
My Lord!
Sad!!
Exactly!!!! This is awful
That's what desperation does.. She's waited 11yrs, went thru many women and children, even her own family, yet he's now chosing her 😯 so she feels she has won.
Not being judgemental but some women this is what they love
“I’m wearing the ring because...” girl both of y’all are wasting the court’s time. He’s not going to stop treating you how he is & you’re not going to require him to do any different. Bye 🙄
My mouth dropped when I saw her holding her belly about “I’m wearing the ring because...” 👀👀👀😳😳😳😳😮😮😮😮
That man is a master manipulator, I pray she breaks from from this narcissistic vs co-dependent relationship
They say love is blind. I guess it's also deaf and mute too! She's a beautiful young woman with a sweet spirit. She deserves better. I just wish she knew it.
😂😂😂
😭😂😂
Yeap 9 other kids??? Dude ain't Neva gonna have any $$$. I hope she know what she getting into.😭😭😭
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It’s sad, but this is the type of man she wants. Some women just love bad/no good boys.
She will be too old when she finally realises he will never grow up and be a man. She has a hold world of hurt and misery coming her way.
She took the ring.... 😯😐. Her self respect and self esteem is out the door. What is she teaching her girls?? It's okay to accept as much 💩 from a man in the name of love. Foh.
Right
The thing is he doesn't love her
She's doing all the loving. She needs a lot of therapy too.
@@sensual2kizz613 Another good one? She's never had one before! She's never had any self esteem or respect for herself. The idiot has 9 kids outside of them, 3 with her and one of those isn't even out yet! He's still sleeping with other men...I mean women 😏 she's willing to put up with his mess and he won't commit to her. Yep, he just now proposed to her and she is holding the ring. Listen, if he loved her and cared about how his girls were being raised, he would've married her a long time ago. The "proposal" was to manipulate her thoughts AFTER the poor lie detector results... It worked, too.
Sooo sad.. She loves him despite his disrespect of her
You couldn't have said it better
Lord touch this lady, empower her mentally, physically and emotionally......... she seriously needs Devine Intervention 🙏
🤣🤣🤣
Amen!!!!
Three children in? What Divine Intervention do you want??? When one makes these types of decisions and continues to make them, what exactly do people want God to do? Swoop in like superman? God gave us the ability and right to choose just as some continue choose to reject Jesus. It's unfortunate and sad. I pray this lady comes to know Jesus Christ and finds her identity in Him.
I feel her pain. God help us!!!
He did! I left him alone! My youngest is now 9 and we are living our best lives without him. It took a while. But that man is a narcissistic human and was never going to change. Thank you for your prayers. It took a while but God finally touched my heart.
The guy went 'away' , no job,9 kids,have kids with her relative,cheats on her and still she is all smiley... where do some women feel their love from?The dude got litterally nothing to offer...jeeez
That’s how she hides the pain
9 OTHER kids. 12 total
@@savh2711 ₩4
Notice how he was trying to talk you her and keep her distracted when the judge was advising her not to accept the proposal before the lie detector results. He knew exactly what he was doing. That man is a manipulator.
The nerve of him to ask her to marry him before the lie-detector results...smh
Manipulation is what it is
He kept that in his back pocket for a moment like this, this may be something she has wanted. But it is not something she needs.
Smartie pants.....aint gonna change if u can't admit where u g wrong
She is gonna marry him anyway. Her actions are very desperate towards this man.🤷🤷
💀💀💀
Trying to propose before the lie detector results manipulation at its finest.
He failed every question.... This man is a snake
Thanks
Yes but she needs to be accountable for allowing this. He’s been consistent with his bs, she needs to stop being a glut for punishment.
With seven heads
“Why you keep getting me pregnant then ”. Cause you keep letting him sis 🤷🏾♀️
Leggs right! It takes two.
Smh...she's needs to run. Stop sleeping with him. He has zero to offer. He emotionally psychologically and even physically distant.
Exactly
OK!
Cooch on a platter... Thats why
Never argue with someone who believes his own lies!
There comes a time when you have to choose between turning the page and closing the book??
I honestly don't believe his worth your time! Your a beautiful young lady who deserves so much more and even more for your 2 beautiful children!
This man has 12 children and how many baby mommas WOW!
Nita W the sad thing is he can’t support 12 kids... I don’t know what woman see in a guy who is not taking care of the kids he already have they don’t have to assume how he would be as a father they can see.
Ask a Trucker - These men are out here hiding the fact that they have several children by several women. A new woman get suckered in and added to the chain of fools and the children suffer for it.
MY GOD
@@askatrucker5548 I would like to know the same thing.
My black brothers get it together time is ticking
Why get pregnant by someone who has 9 kids already? 🤢
9 freaking! Kids!
I think some of those kids weren’t around until throughout their relationship
@@sophiavaughn2059 that's even worse
Just like females have 9 babies daddie and don’t know who are the fathers
Disturbing 😵💫😵💫🤧 I could never.
I love reading the comments after watching the results. 😂😆🤣😄
lol 🤣🤣🤣 I always read them before... I can't wait until the end... 😩😩😩
Anaya Carter me too 😂😂😂
Me too
I can't help myself....I read them when I see that first hint of crazy
Me....
No
When he dropped down on one knee and the court did a looonnnggg sigh...My God! That was a whole message!
Everyone in the audience look tired of them already 😂😂
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not them, tired of HIM alright!
Andrea Vegandi 😂😂😂
I was tired WATCHING this
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Lol guy propose before the lie detector result😂🤣 “the lie detector test is a lie” 🤣😂 he’s such a manipulator
🤣🤣🤣 No he's worse
I was just thinking he was the master manipulator, proposing right before the results, not her but I didn't hear much about her.
The judge saw it and I thought that the woman would take some time to reflect on it after she heard the results, even though she probably knew what it was going to reveal. Nope, several minutes later, she is wearing the ring. 🤦🏻♀️
I was so angry when he said the lie detector test is a lie. He's a manipulator!!! One of the worse kind. I dislike him
He knows that her self esteem is so low that there is a possibility that she might believe him rather than the lie detector and that is why he says the lie detector is a lie. “Oh what a tangled web we weave when first we practise to deceive”.
“Vance Brock is now the father of 12 children” took me out! 😂
I only have 10....and I wouldn't doubt if that ain't a lie....
He needs a VASECTOMY!!!!!!
I have 7 but Lord!!!! I've been married for 24 years...
He needs to get snipped. And this woman still took the ring. SMH. I pray she wakes up & sees she's worth so much more than him. She owes it to herself & her children to have a real man that truly loves her. When you're in love & wanna talk marriage, you don't cheat & you don't even look that way at her family or friends, let alone go for it & do it more than once. In my opinion, he's a dime a dozen type of manipulator, cheater & just all around pathetic.
I wonder how many of those kids we pay for??? Pretty sure he doesn’t support any of them….
Hard to feel sorry for her when they started their relationship in mess. How you get em is how you lose em.🤷🏾♀️
She’s the perfect example of EVERYTHING I don’t.. want my daughter to be
Facts!
PERiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiIOD... where is her guidance and self-worth
You preached a word right there. 💯💯
Amen.
And him ? You want your kids like him ? Lol
The black lady in the back is killing me 😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂me too ..am still trying to understand her
😅😂😂 love looking @ the audience reactions on any show!!
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It's like she's crying in shock😅😅😅😅😅
The man is utterly gross
I'm so ashamed by the fact that she still with this nobody after impregnated a relative 😓😓
@@nmd899 You don't know how humans work. I smile when I'm uncomfortable or nervous. Someone will tell me their family member died and I have to hold back a smile... not because I'm happy, but because that's my body's coping mechanism with dealing with a situation I don't know how to react to.
Laugh to keep from crying.
And 9 other kids
Niks L. That smirky smile of hers like she thinks it’s cute😳
@@nmd899 I agree with you 100%
@@nmd899 Her responses in no way mirrored his. I'm not sure which video you watched.
hes so horrible, my heart goes to this girl. she deserves better.
His daughters are going to end up with men like him and that's sad.
Not necessarily, they could look at him & be like We don’t want anyone like our father.
Unfortunately that happen in most cases but in others they will pick a person totally opposite of what their dad was to the mother .
Sharday C I PRAY that they don’t. Lord bless all 12 of his children.
I hope they'll see the truth and aim to be better and make better choices than their mother.
All we can do is pray they dont
He's not going to marry her. He only put on that show because he didn't want those lie detector results read.
Yep. Now that he sees she knows his dirt and still didn't do anything, he's going to change his mind.
Master Manipulator
Did he believed the Judge would've cancelled reading the test results? It doesn't work that way Bro.
He didnt, he don't look like a married man now. Nothing but a grown fool
"I need you in my life. I need you to be there for me." It's all about him. He said nothing about doing anything for her.
Not only does she need to be there for him, but it needs to go vice versa. He needs to be there for her coz u cant just take and never give😒
IKR?🤮🤮🤮🤮
Or his daughters.
The reaction of the woman behind Mr Brock is soooooo hilarious!!!
The liar calling the lie detector test 'a lie' 😂🤣😂🤣
Shanelle Richardson hahahahaha 😂😂😂🤣😂🤣😂
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! CM
Ridiculous man
Shanelle Richardson ikr lol
"You have a lot of phrases, but you have no logic!" Judge... I loved that :-)
This man is manipulative, wow... He wants her to marry her before she even gets the results.
So true 🤷
Yea I’m like he never asked her to marry him allll them years, all that time until that very moment 🤦🏾♀️
@@Kari_Michele hes too busy cheating and popping children, and checking in on the 7 he got, I didn't include 2 with her because she said he doesn't do the family stuff with them.
When he got on his knees to propose, I almost fell out my seat laughing. I had two people knock on my door to ask if I was okay.
This dude is the definition of prison game 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Cowboy Lemonhead yesss lol
😂😂
Prison game 😂😂😭😭😭😭
Cowboy Lemonhead 😂😂😂 don’t know why I laugh so much @ ur commentary
Yessssss....I did too...lawd
He’s going to hurt you worse once you marry him just you wait and see
This girl has zero self respect and zero self esteem..
Did he add up 12 children? Did she say 1 with a family member? MESSY is an understatement.
One with a family member....that he still sleeping with!! She has NO...NONE...NADA SELF ESTEEM!! Where is her mother...her father? She don't have brothers..no men in the family. In my family...I have some uncles...cousins that would have taken him off the earth. They would be in prison rt now...and I would feel guilty for the rest of my life and get to put money on their books. This is the truth!! In my family you hide things from the men...try to not get in situations...because you already know how this is going down.
I love looking at the audience's reactions whenever someone says something shocking or unbelievable 😂
This is proof of how desperate a foolish women can be.
Thank you dear
Sonnix Jackson not foolish woman just a woman period women have become very desperate smh
Ot maybe he just lied and fooled her. So sad...
@@ginadavis9212 is she some kind of slow brain or something? i mean this is clear as a day
She is a WHOLE FOOL for him. I pray she learns her worth and quickly leaves him.
Birds of feathers flock together. She cheats and he cheats. They belong together
Pray for both of them for the children's sake. And pray for his other 9 children too. Lord God have mercy !!!
EXACTLY...
I agree that Both Deserve Each Other he's cheating with family members she's cheating with his friends Lord help them for Keys some people don't need children
@@bdnicfwpat8755 aye we got the guy that says phrases and quotes lol
If a man has more than 2 kids he can’t even shake my hand. I can’t believe these people be having a whole basketball and football team of children.
I respect that but I can tell your still young lol. Its not about how many kids you have its about if you love them and take care of them and give them the best life no matter how things went with there mother.
Kent Fountain naw she is right. Lol.
How can you show love evenly and financially stability to a bunch of kids from different mothers?
J R right
@@jrkarmagetubih you can't! No way u can spread yourself that thin. Not enough time, energy or money.
What a Saint woman to still accept this horrible man!
Been in jail, no job and father of 12 kids. What woman could resist him ? He has so much to offer ?🤷🏻♀️
He looks OK I suppose but that's about it - i cant think of anything else in his favour at all 🙁
Bibi Smith 😂😂😂😂😂
Pillow talk is a mfer! 🍆
i bet he was in jail for child support😂😂😂
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