5 Sure-fire Signs INFP Likes You Romantically (And NOT As A Friend)

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  • Since INFPs are kindhearted individuals, it’s perplexing to discern whether they like you as a partner or not, if you’ve breached the friend zone or not. That said, it’s important not to confuse friendship with romance.
    Sometimes, INFPs unconsciously show hints. It depends on how sensitive you are to interpret them.
    Without further ado, here are 5 signs INFP likes you:
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ความคิดเห็น • 523

  • @thumb5225
    @thumb5225 ปีที่แล้ว +3023

    Me, the INFP watching to learn how to hide more effectively 😎

    • @arwayehia954
      @arwayehia954 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      Yeaaaah saaame😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Kath-kp1zx
      @Kath-kp1zx ปีที่แล้ว +81

      Another infp here learning for the same reason 🙋‍♀️

    • @diya7119
      @diya7119 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      how do infp get caught liking someone by accident?

    • @sonatachabanga
      @sonatachabanga ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Same

    • @sonatachabanga
      @sonatachabanga ปีที่แล้ว +9

      🤣🤣

  • @Shiaro9
    @Shiaro9 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +430

    As an infp, i'm watching this to find out if I romantically like someone, cuz even I can't figure out

  • @karma5734
    @karma5734 ปีที่แล้ว +711

    Another point i wanna add is that ,
    Infps suddenly become more dependent on the person ,that they usually love.
    It's a sign ,that they wanna spend more time with that person.

    • @deadleaves5773
      @deadleaves5773 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Omg yesss

    • @studio.terangbulan2572
      @studio.terangbulan2572 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      thank you, you made my day

    • @violetevergarden9087
      @violetevergarden9087 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Can't agree more🙃 It's the point i don’t like much about me🙃

    • @ellem8990
      @ellem8990 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Love? So does not apply to crushes?

    • @karlyyoude
      @karlyyoude ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Honestly! I never thought I was so dependent till I met my husband haha I just wanted to spend all my time with him 😂❤️

  • @AlwaysBrokenHeart
    @AlwaysBrokenHeart 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +202

    I dated an INFP once. We weren’t compatible as partners but she was one of the nicest and most genuine person I’ve met. The way most INFPs think and perceive the world is magical

  • @bonemasked3925
    @bonemasked3925 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    "INFPs talk and care for you in private, but ignore you in public"
    Guys I think im in luck
    Edit: nvm I was delusional lmao

  • @izzamario3108
    @izzamario3108 ปีที่แล้ว +361

    thank goodness my crush knows nothing about MBTI types because this would expose me😭😭

    • @ahmadsrizal2365
      @ahmadsrizal2365 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Seems like this is the reason why she acted like she forgoten her type when I asked. - dying ENFJ who trying to know them better

    • @heiresslaite2950
      @heiresslaite2950 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I def took my time with a Enfj ,being there for them but not really committing, bcos I was observing some few I tot would prevent us from being a perfect team..

    • @TheLaaauuureeen
      @TheLaaauuureeen 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😅 I was thinking this as I watched the video

    • @victoriousgaming9018
      @victoriousgaming9018 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂

  • @TheivanaiNatarajan
    @TheivanaiNatarajan ปีที่แล้ว +88

    If my crush learns about INFPs and watches this video… I AM DOOOOOMED

    • @youngkookie4025
      @youngkookie4025 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      OMG. I AM AN INFP TOO HELP ME OUT I THOUGHT THE SAME THING.

    • @isa115
      @isa115 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      MY CRUSH KNOWS IM INFP AND I TOLD HIM WHATS MBTI 😭

    • @lvnxtix
      @lvnxtix 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      NAAAH

    • @ZackCoder-bg4pj
      @ZackCoder-bg4pj 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Just go for it, have faith. You should take care of your needs too. You can't reject your needs. Just go for it.
      BTW, if you wanna plan everything then let me know more background. I will tell you more tips about making them fall for you.
      I am intp grown into ISTP with Ti Si Ne Fe and 7w6. Just let me know, if you want help =_=

  • @jarmoliebrand2005
    @jarmoliebrand2005 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    I feel like most people watching this video are fellow INFP’s just checking out if all these things are relatable.

    • @heatherhafer3333
      @heatherhafer3333 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Spot on for me.
      I clicked on this video with skepticism. Lo and behold it was actually very accurate! Very impressed.

    • @easypencilwork8871
      @easypencilwork8871 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      trueee

  • @vi6ilanteshit
    @vi6ilanteshit ปีที่แล้ว +148

    Me, an INFP, watching this for cues of whether I’m really attracted to someone currently in my life 😅

  • @liltunturi1251
    @liltunturi1251 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    We as INFP are the extremely deep thinkers and creative people who think outside the box, but we are also the most restrained personalities who constantly struggle with our own idea of self-worth and being very critical of our behaviors, and thinking what is ok to do and what isnt, to the point we often get stuck. It takes a long time for us to be ready to jump into a new relationship, which makes the other person think we are not interested in them, but we just need to make sure. We mostly dont like spending time in public spaces like restaurants, cafes, bars, and definitely not nightclubs, in places with lot of noises and chatter around we wont be able to really open up. Better activities for first date is going for hike in nature, biking, chilling at a lake or beach, art galleries, or simply staying at home and showing the other person the music/paintings/projects/fanfics you have made. It doesnt matter if INFP is girl or boy, we HAVE TO trust you and be comfortable in your company.. we take vulnerability very seriously and wont be vulnerable with many people.
    We sure are interesting pokemons

  • @Eldritch-One
    @Eldritch-One ปีที่แล้ว +143

    So good at hiding it even I don’t know if I’m into someone.

  • @mthlndxmthmphtmn
    @mthlndxmthmphtmn ปีที่แล้ว +224

    0:47 INFP’s talk and care for you in private but they ignore you in public
    1:45 INFP’s like alone time with you. Not social invitations
    2:31 INFP’s like you when you sense they are jealous
    3:15 Once INFP’s compliment your physical attributes, this means they see you
    3:58 If INFP’s get upset with you but stayed in touch that means they like you

  • @ousha5011
    @ousha5011 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    As an INFP, I think we really hate inconsistant, unauthenthic, and show-offs. I hate liars and Im pretty good at detecting it, We can like or dislike people and they have no idea what we are thinking unless we are really close

  • @infpreflections
    @infpreflections ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Acting awkward around someone you like is definitely a sign that an INFP likes you.

  • @arc4031
    @arc4031 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    As an INFP, I'd say this is so accurate for me, like everything describes me

  • @tomhidley6763
    @tomhidley6763 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    As a male INFP this video is really illuminating. I found myself clicking with every point 😄
    I find it incredibly difficult to get to know women as I’m a very private person (obviously 😂) and in the past I’ve felt like a total oddball for how quickly parties and social gatherings tire me out.
    It’s so nice to see things like this and to learn that I’m not alone in feeling this way ❤

  • @shutterfruit
    @shutterfruit ปีที่แล้ว +78

    As an INFP I'd say this is a fairly accurate description of off-the-shelf INFP romantic tendencies. But, would add, for lonely INFPs who feel overlooked in love, that you can develop your Extroverted Intuition (in particular) and mostly bypass the default settings.

    • @cjclementine434
      @cjclementine434 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you for saying this, the video was making me feel like I’d mistyped myself. I probably have, but I guess it’s hard to get a good read on yourself when you’re constantly aching with loneliness

    • @shutterfruit
      @shutterfruit ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@cjclementine434 I think a lot of our ‘shortcomings’ actually become massive advantages when we can get out of our own heads… and out of the house! ☺️

  • @cathleancat6415
    @cathleancat6415 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    This is relatable because if a guy I know smiles a lot, no matter how physically unattractive they are, i immediately think they are attractive. Smiles make me smile 😊

  • @llarosa1375
    @llarosa1375 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    I am an INFP too and some of this is true! I am very secretive when it comes to sharing my love life and personal stuff to my family and friends (even to my closeset friends). But I have no problem letting my crush know that I have feelings for him. He's the only person that knows what I feel towards him(fortunately, he's cool aboutit) Of course I am very shy when I see him face to face but I'm quite bubbly in chats despite of not having the guts to have a conversation with him in real life. I give genuine compliments and he told me that he enjoyed talking to me a lot. So, this is my little story. I hope you have fun reading 💝

    • @israhmanal8296
      @israhmanal8296 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Does ur crush like u back?bcz I can never imagine confessing to anybody in my life tho I might if I really like them but o just wont😂and ignore them at all cost😂😂

    • @israhmanal8296
      @israhmanal8296 ปีที่แล้ว

      I meant he is INTP and I'm Infp*

    • @heiresslaite2950
      @heiresslaite2950 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A younger info can never imagine confessing but as u grow...

  • @Akash_Xavier_Rai
    @Akash_Xavier_Rai ปีที่แล้ว +65

    As an INTJ, I am here to know for a fact if an INFP I am attracted to is attracted to me as well.

    • @my_Ni_Te_Fi_Se
      @my_Ni_Te_Fi_Se ปีที่แล้ว +8

      No way I am in love with an INTJ too . What do you guys feel about love ?
      Btw INFP here

    • @lunam33
      @lunam33 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      :D a grown INTJ is a gem.

    • @Akash_Xavier_Rai
      @Akash_Xavier_Rai ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@my_Ni_Te_Fi_Se I can't talk about INTJ in general. However personally, I think no matter the structural lifestyle I like to live when it comes to love I think I am a mess. Cause I don't know what to expect out of it, every relationship has given me a different insight.
      But I can tell you, like me I think every INTJ must have a list of priorities I want in a partner. It is really really important for me atleast in an initial stage of a relationship. However, as more time passes by we're ready to compromise. Also since we are big on loyalty, I think the threshold for trust is a pretty high. So I don't think trust comes easy to us. We are always skeptical.
      Also feeling things is hard, I am overwhelmed so easily. So much so that I numb out, even when I go through a breakup and also when a girl pursues me too much than I want. Lol. Hope it helps.

    • @nodamekira8580
      @nodamekira8580 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      May I ask you? Is an INTJ flirt with someone they like? There's an INTJ i know who can flirt with some girls, but he never did that to me. We just, friend. We like to talk about books, films, humanity, world system, etc (Are you and her on this phase too?). His act of services are crazy, he helped me A LOT. But when i ask him how his feelings towards me, he said it's an ordinary feeling.
      We still friend now. But it's still sad when my feeling isn't mutual 🥺
      Oh, the video is 85% right.
      Edit : 95% right.
      -infp

    • @Akash_Xavier_Rai
      @Akash_Xavier_Rai ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@nodamekira8580 We carry confidence well. Friendly flirting is one of my ways to ease myself with the person. However, perhaps he sees right through you and knows flirting with might land him in a tight spot someday. You guys have similar interests cause you both have 'intuition' in your personalities. But our overview comes from 'Thinking' so we look far ahead, while your's come from 'feeling' so you look right ahead.

  • @teruko_san4663
    @teruko_san4663 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I'm ISFJ and my friend is INFP
    We get along and really enjoy the time we spend together
    And now I'm watching this video and I just-
    The fact that all of these are similar to his behaviour
    Well, I actually love him, so if he loves me too then it will be great I guess :)

    • @subhadramahanta452
      @subhadramahanta452 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Try observing your INFP's behaviour

    • @teruko_san4663
      @teruko_san4663 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @@subhadramahanta452 Ty, but I don't need that anymore
      We're dating ;)

    • @subhadramahanta452
      @subhadramahanta452 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@teruko_san4663 congratulations!!!

    • @neerjasingh07
      @neerjasingh07 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@teruko_san4663 aww yay!

    • @Cuteemogirl94
      @Cuteemogirl94 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@teruko_san4663that's great 🫶

  • @roxyg24g
    @roxyg24g ปีที่แล้ว +133

    As an INFP in a relationship this is scarily accurate and I'm lucky my bf has no clue about this 😂

    • @ellem8990
      @ellem8990 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Wait but if you're already dating, why do you worry about him finding this? Xdd

    • @Kath-kp1zx
      @Kath-kp1zx ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ellem8990 maybe tgey're still new so its still embarrassing to show sides like that. Just a guess

    • @ellem8990
      @ellem8990 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Kath-kp1zx Makes sense I suppose and that's also very cute

    • @lunam33
      @lunam33 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Indeed, I would never want them to know lol. I will play it off til the death of me.

    • @Cuteemogirl94
      @Cuteemogirl94 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm INFP and my husband is ENTP, we talk about mbti a lot XD share memes together and always Look up the mbti once we watch somthing or play a game 😂. It's great we even have 2 children.

  • @DjokovicIsOurLordAndSaviour
    @DjokovicIsOurLordAndSaviour ปีที่แล้ว +58

    I'm an INFP who got friend zoned recently. I would have continued to hide my feelings for a much longer time. But, I was leaving the country so I felt it might be the last time to express how I feel in person... 😢

    • @dankr7009
      @dankr7009 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      i hope you feel better dude, you deserve love - INFJ

    • @DjokovicIsOurLordAndSaviour
      @DjokovicIsOurLordAndSaviour ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dankr7009 Getting there, thanks.

    • @savemyeyebrows6613
      @savemyeyebrows6613 ปีที่แล้ว

      omg..that is my exact plan...and i have the same story..so did u tell them ur feelings...getting friendzoned is the hardest

    • @eribofaelkanah174
      @eribofaelkanah174 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You'll find love man. ❤❤❤

    • @Actually_Woke_6277
      @Actually_Woke_6277 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s ok, an ENFJ broke my heart about seven years ago and I still ruminate over it 😄🥲

  • @ruthletaru1785
    @ruthletaru1785 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    This got creepier coz it's spot on and I just find it easier to hide my feelings using the "read between the lines" kind of thing.

  • @keranhuang0531
    @keranhuang0531 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I think this makes us more vulnerable to emotional damage or betrayal too.

  • @Ricky.Z
    @Ricky.Z ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Yeah it really doesn't feel like I hide it well 😂
    I feel bad ignoring him at social gatherings but I'm so afraid of it being more obvious to other people than to him.😅 I didn't know this was an INFP thing. Weird.

    • @linmonPIE
      @linmonPIE ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I hate it so much when other people point it out. It really does make me want to stop liking the person all together because the whole situation is so embarrassing. I hate feeling like other people are watching me.

    • @ZackCoder-bg4pj
      @ZackCoder-bg4pj 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I am INTP grown into ISTP with ennegram 7w6.
      Let's analyze your case, Fi pared with Ne, so your feelings follows your intitutions which is Extraverted, so I guess it's a self doubt case. Are you really self doubted?

  • @adamleach471
    @adamleach471 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    mATURE iNFP HERE, i FELT ALOT OF THIS WAS True for me in my youth, as ive matured ive realized that unless we are around people in forced social settings, we will retreat into our private lives if we dont find early and repeated success's in meaningful relationships. its been far easier for me to be alone.

    • @ZackCoder-bg4pj
      @ZackCoder-bg4pj 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      So, you are not infp anymore! I am intp grown into ISTP with 7w6 ennegram.
      Let's analyze your case, when you were infp. Your intraverted feelings used to follow Extraverted intitutions. So, you were more self doubt as I can clearly see in research pattern. Now, you mentioned about "you don't do it anymore", is a sign of cognitive functions growth. Maybe, your Ne came in Dom with Fi in auxiliary. So, you follow intitutions for feelings.

    • @ZackCoder-bg4pj
      @ZackCoder-bg4pj 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      100% ENFP but not a traditional ENFP.

  • @FluffyEmmy1116
    @FluffyEmmy1116 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    As someone that's been talking to an INFP recently, this is the video I needed right now. I kinda figured some of this stuff, but yeah it makes sense and explains a lot. [INFJ]

    • @ellem8990
      @ellem8990 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This might be weird, but fancy seeing you around here 😁 (you probably won't recognize my name tho)

    • @FluffyEmmy1116
      @FluffyEmmy1116 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ellem8990 oh? Which name would I know you by?

    • @ellem8990
      @ellem8990 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@FluffyEmmy1116 Elerio perhaps 😉

    • @ZackCoder-bg4pj
      @ZackCoder-bg4pj 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I am intp grown into ISTP with 7w6 ennegram.
      Wait, infp and infj's are not capable.
      It's because of infj's cognitive functions are:
      Ni Fe Se Ti.
      But infp's cognitive functions are:
      Fi Ne Si Te, see? Tons of difference.
      Compability status: 50%
      Will work but is 50% compability. One single mistake can make it worse.
      Advice from Ti Si Ne Fe.
      How to work around?
      Infp will be self doubted but infj's will be selfless. So, INFP partner should be aware to not push infj's too far because their heart carves for other's wellbeing not for them.

  • @havingfunnot
    @havingfunnot 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    i feel like some of the points apply to close friendships too… i occasionally get jealous, and there are so many things i disagree with her, but i still respect her and can’t imagine losing her as a friend

  • @9dodger9
    @9dodger9 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    ISFJ here. Haven’t met an INFP I don’t absolutely adore - love you guys!

    • @heatherhafer3333
      @heatherhafer3333 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Sweetest comment!
      I'm an INFP married to an ISFJ for 11 years!

    • @9dodger9
      @9dodger9 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@heatherhafer3333 ❤️
      Been married to a fellow ISFJ for 8 years myself. I’m sure your ISFJ husband must be very happy with the wonder you bring to his life. 😊

    • @Moonxmooon
      @Moonxmooon 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ISFJ are sweeties, I love all of them, one of the best friendships i had was an Isfj ❤

  • @becks6180
    @becks6180 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I literally went "ohhh shittt" when it she said saying things like "you two look good together" or "I'm not as pretty as her" and pushing the crush to another person, to show signs of jealousy. I totally did NOT do that :)

  • @averya53
    @averya53 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    as an infp i got shocked by how accurate this is lmao
    this video has exposed me

  • @wisdomseeker3132
    @wisdomseeker3132 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    This is soooo accurate, for me An "Infp" 😇👌

    • @impastabowl2328
      @impastabowl2328 ปีที่แล้ว

      Uhh, are you not an INFP but into one?

  • @eribofaelkanah174
    @eribofaelkanah174 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I'm an INFP and I'm in love with another INFP we talk on a deep level but I Still can't tell if she's into me but I'm into her and she doesn't know either. It's crazy

    • @Aliem-p8x
      @Aliem-p8x ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh😮, good luck🍀

    • @lunarialoonatic
      @lunarialoonatic 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Any updates 👀

    • @KariN-rt1ok
      @KariN-rt1ok 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      same i'm an infp in love with another infp, the struggle is real 😅

    • @blackeneddove
      @blackeneddove 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think you each know deep down that you are in love with each other.
      Edited to add:. Maybe I’m projecting based on my own situation/experience as an INFP. But I think you both know.

  • @lekoraxx5406
    @lekoraxx5406 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    As an INTJ, I find this very interesting and look forward to see more about other MBTI types to study their behavior and be more aware of their intentions.

    • @ZackCoder-bg4pj
      @ZackCoder-bg4pj 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      INTJ x INFP's compability status is 75%. You are applicable.

  • @paavani5337
    @paavani5337 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    i just know that the people watching this are INFP's

    • @andreafeg
      @andreafeg ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣So true

  • @Dgn404
    @Dgn404 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I am about to engage in a relationship with another infp, For some reason both times they emerged quickly which is not the norm for me. Wish me luck, she wanted to go to an arcade for our first actual date so she could be the real deal lol. I love arcades =]

  • @joannechua8266
    @joannechua8266 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I have always thought that this weirdness that I have is due to my horoscope, until I realised I'm an INFP! Omg, all the points resonate so much! I have this problem of ignoring the person I like in public! and I was thinking like, omg, you just spill my deepest secret hahahah

    • @hayalatanriverdi1238
      @hayalatanriverdi1238 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your horoscope is Aquarius?

    • @aichacamara5733
      @aichacamara5733 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Or pisces?

    • @fmellish71
      @fmellish71 ปีที่แล้ว

      Any kind of personality test like this will give you more or less the same results as really any divinatory practice.

    • @lalalisamanobangs
      @lalalisamanobangs ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@aichacamara5733im pisces and I'm 100% like this with my crush 😆

  • @kairinaminemix
    @kairinaminemix ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I fully relate to the last one as an INFP female. I usually push away or avoid those who have disappointed me, but if I like them enough it’s so easy to forgive them and keep loving them

  • @geocacher79
    @geocacher79 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    As an INFP I have to say that this is dead on accurate.

  • @theivanaimoe
    @theivanaimoe ปีที่แล้ว +5

    INFP here, everything from this video is creepily true!😮 Sometimes by ignoring him, I would fear that he thinks I’m arrogant. But that’s not the true, really.

  • @SapphoForAphrodite
    @SapphoForAphrodite ปีที่แล้ว +14

    INFP here: I compliment people all the time, including strangers, so number 4 isn't accurate.
    Number 5 - most of the time, when someone upsets me, I ghost them, so that's true for me at least.
    I used to ignore people I liked in public, but now I pretty much don't do that anymore. I only ignore people I dislike or don't care for in public.
    I spend quality one-on-one time with friends as well, not just romantic interests, so number 2 isn't generally true either. I hate groups period lol.

  • @ferrariunicorn
    @ferrariunicorn ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Although jealously is not considered a primary emotion it reflects a vital and relevant emotional process BUT it's what you do with it that's either healthy or unhealthy and successful or unsuccessfully. The jealous actions stated in this video remind me of a turbulent person.. please, not only for others but for yourself, express yourself what ever way possible - take a breath, gather your thoughts, keep it simple and express them the best way you know how without reacting - I want all my fellow INFP's to succeed and I know you can ♥️

  • @rogers.5
    @rogers.5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Only thing that doesn't fit me is the avoiding/ignoring, unless I'm busy I tend to hover around the person I'm interested in.

    • @linmonPIE
      @linmonPIE ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I’ll pretend I’m doing something else or talk to someone else in their proximity hoping they’ll see me and want to come over and talk. It’s rare that I would be the one to initiate though.

  • @ioptimoist
    @ioptimoist ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As an INFP-t I have this massive crush, and I can’t even go near that person. Either out of embarrassment or not wanting to show hints of having a crush. 😭

  • @Caitlin_Mitchell
    @Caitlin_Mitchell 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    In regards to the first one: having been teased or mocked my entire life, it's definitely a desperate attempt to avoid teasing.
    As for the final one and as an INFP myself, I'd like to add: don't push it. There is a limit and when an INFP reaches that limit, even with someone they love, they will be blunt about it and it's extremely unlikely they will ever even speak to you again. We have a tendency to cut people completely out of our lives when we reach our limit. While some of us will be blunt about it, others will just straight ghost you. It's sort've a 50/50.

    • @creatureofstyle
      @creatureofstyle 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah, really wish I would have known this sooner. When he ghosted I (ENFJ) got concerned and kept reaching out telling him I cared and asking if we could reconnect. I think I may have unintentionally burned that bridge by continuing to reach out, but there's also a part of me that worries that he thinks I didn't make enough of an effort because I would reach out and then when he didn't respond I would say "OK, I'll give you space" and wait a couple of months before I reached out again

    • @ZackCoder-bg4pj
      @ZackCoder-bg4pj 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I am intp grown into ISTP with 7w6 ennegram.
      Let's analyze INFP x ENFJ.
      ENFj are Fe Ni Ti Se.
      INFP are Fi Ne Se Ti
      Compability status: 50%
      Advice for INFP, ENFJs are other prioritizers for them individuals. They want to take care of you but for them. So, looking at behavior: support them. Show them that you are genuinely interested in them.

    • @ZackCoder-bg4pj
      @ZackCoder-bg4pj 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      They will not like you if you starts to cheat them.

  • @kellywarrillow9751
    @kellywarrillow9751 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Some folk can think you ate flirting when you are not though when you are just being kind.

    • @whatsoulever
      @whatsoulever ปีที่แล้ว +2

      YES EXACTLY 🥲

    • @outoforbit-
      @outoforbit- 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes happens me all the time. I realised that alot of men thought I fancied them when I didn't.

  • @SuperUghhhhh
    @SuperUghhhhh ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I feel naked after watching this

    • @rawr1248
      @rawr1248 ปีที่แล้ว

      (2)

    • @onbekendgamaardoei285
      @onbekendgamaardoei285 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂 me too

    • @VintageCR
      @VintageCR ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i feel like a skeleton.
      an all layer undressing.
      the purest of pure naked.

  • @acutelilcatto2023
    @acutelilcatto2023 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    i feel called out on a molecular level

  • @afiffarakhan4992
    @afiffarakhan4992 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is soo enlightening we love it!

  • @YaeBocchi
    @YaeBocchi ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I ignore all my friends in public hehehe... I'm guilty.

    • @Ravenii61
      @Ravenii61 ปีที่แล้ว

      same here🙋🙋

  • @Kayy4
    @Kayy4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The fact that infps are the only people watching this 😔 I'm disappointed in us.

    • @leonorabrandscheit
      @leonorabrandscheit ปีที่แล้ว +4

      greatings from the INFJs

    • @creatureofstyle
      @creatureofstyle 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ENFJ here 😊 I watched too late, already lost my INFP. Trying to understand him anyway

  • @Igor_Chausov
    @Igor_Chausov ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm INFP, and I scared of how correct this video is☺️

  • @LittleMoon281
    @LittleMoon281 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Haha
    yea the jealousy part is exactly how i feel around mah crush n her current partner

  • @stereoheart7
    @stereoheart7 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Scary to see how accurate it is !

  • @fumi9276
    @fumi9276 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I hope she doesnt found this, im for sure dead if she does cause this is so me

  • @benelizajunacecaminero8112
    @benelizajunacecaminero8112 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The thumbnail makes me click the instantly but more like it when "jealousy" "they push you aside/to someone else".
    Me:😏 *I've been called out!*

  • @kassandra0
    @kassandra0 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wha-
    No need to expose us like this! 😭
    If this was common knowledge I’d be toast by now

  • @LilyIglesias
    @LilyIglesias ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm an INFP. Don't expose us 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @charboday
    @charboday ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh no, you're giving away our trade secrets here 😅😅
    I also have a bad habit of getting overwhelmed and running from my problems or ignoring them. This person is the only person I stay for. These feelings are too much though. I wanna run away and hide 😐😐

  • @winniestarwins
    @winniestarwins ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That ignoring part is so true... Like, I feel like I've just been exposed!

  • @pikachubrando8303
    @pikachubrando8303 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Good luck understanding us😂

  • @hestikleynhans4926
    @hestikleynhans4926 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As an INFP, if I don’t ghost you, I like you. Simple as that.

  • @TiredJogan
    @TiredJogan ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ENTP here … always falling for INFPs

  • @hrae91
    @hrae91 ปีที่แล้ว

    That person wouldn't know especially if i see it as one sided. You got the jealousy part spot on.

  • @ikmalabubakar8931
    @ikmalabubakar8931 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    💯 true.. but, im not sure if I really deserve to be loved by someone

    • @Patooz7
      @Patooz7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      But isn’t it true that love is not something people deserve? Love is not to be deserved, but it is something we choose to give each other freely - otherwise it is not true love i think.
      And you, being a unique being, created in a uniqe way and given talents to use as only you can do it, you have great worth. I wish you can find your peace and truly bloom and know your worth by knowing the One who created you.

    • @tiantian6956
      @tiantian6956 ปีที่แล้ว

      If we don't work on ourselves or don't try to fulfill our dreams, I think we may remain invisible. INFP need to stick to a well thought-off plan to succeed. And when we succeed, only then we can become a good partner. Need a good coach I think xD

  • @philrei2797
    @philrei2797 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    I'm watching this as INFP to see if I like someone romantically lmao
    damn, that's possible I like my best friend... but I want atill just be her friend tho, am I rly... overly romantic or something? :c

    • @geescar
      @geescar ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I've fallen in love with my best friends for many times. That's awful

    • @VinterBear-xv1fy
      @VinterBear-xv1fy ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too!! 😂😂😂

    • @bramskellton6234
      @bramskellton6234 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I've fallen for friends and it never went well. It's just about the most painful feeling ever because it's always a rejection. Girls do not like it when their guy friends develop feelings. Women put up walls.

    • @loocydity6119
      @loocydity6119 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@bramskellton6234 oh that's unfortunate.. I'm actually quite the opposite, I prefer to date guy friends than strangers to lovers. A guy friend who knows abt my ups and downs but still loves me is really what I'm looking for. Good luck to you, hope it gets better!! :)

    • @bramskellton6234
      @bramskellton6234 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@loocydity6119 I actually surveyed some women I know and the women under 35 seemed to prefer that their guy friends not have feelings for them. The women 35 and older (approximately) said they prefer to build relationships from friendships because they tend to be the most harmonious relationships. Statistically men tend to fall for their female friends more often and more easily. I'm not sure why this is.

  • @annamanansala2773
    @annamanansala2773 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Manifesting a future bf/hubby INFP 😂💗🙏✨
    -
    Love your
    INFJ future gf and wife 😂

  • @denvercolorado811
    @denvercolorado811 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am intj with relationship with infp

  • @ZhenWangLei
    @ZhenWangLei ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I ignore them because I get nervous, so I get really awkward. To avoid making myself look like a fool, I ignore them 😂

  • @SapphoForAphrodite
    @SapphoForAphrodite 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    INFP here
    1. I've done the same with platonic friends.
    2. Done the same with friends.
    3. Been jealous with friends.
    4. Have given friends plenty of physical compliments.
    5. Have stayed in touch with friends I *really* cared about.
    So, this is inaccurate.

  • @xTAUNxSOLIDERx02
    @xTAUNxSOLIDERx02 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I totally agree with all the signs showed in this video, my gf is totally like this

  • @alexwelts2553
    @alexwelts2553 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don't get jealous. And competition in any form for any reason is the fastest way for me to let something go for good.

  • @ariesstorm9577
    @ariesstorm9577 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So, I’m an INFP struggling with these feelings I’m having for a work colleague. I think she is amazing and extremely beautiful, not just physically but I feel like she has a beautiful soul as well. I don’t know why I feel the way I do or why I care about her so much.
    But I don’t say anything because I don’t want her to feel awkward at work, plus I don’t feel that I’m good enough for her and that she can do better than me. Also it has recently dawned on me that she is always just being very nice towards me and she would never in a million years see me as nothing more than a work colleague.
    I even spontaneously bought her a Christmas card and have written two different letters explaining how I feel and wanting to put inside said Christmas card. Yesterday my depression really hit and I was a miserable so and so at work. Seeing her makes me feel good but it also hurts at the same time.

    • @vatiiii
      @vatiiii 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ONG ive never related to a piece of text so much

    • @kylonhollier838
      @kylonhollier838 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      haha . this is classic infp behaviour. we can fall in deep with people before naything has even happened. to avoid awkwardness maybe try asking a friend of your colleague if she or he can ask if their interested in u . ik this might sound dumb but we are not good at putting our selves on the spot to relay feelings so we might just silently resign aka friend zone yourself. another method : exchange numbers . texting is way easier to express yourself and wont be as big a burn if she lets you down.

  • @Krishnapriya1
    @Krishnapriya1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you soooo much ❤❤❤❤❤ . I found this at a time when my infp is killing me with his mixed signals. But these infps are such beautiful wonderful people that you can't let them go that easy.

    • @heatherhafer3333
      @heatherhafer3333 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      May I ask what temperament you have?

    • @Krishnapriya1
      @Krishnapriya1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​​​​@@heatherhafer3333 I can tell you flowery words about me but since I find you very earnest and straight forward I would like to reciprocate and tell you the weird and not that comfortable truth.... I am an infj so I feel that like most infjs my temperament is according to what is required by situation and not by what I feel in the heart at first instance of hearing or seeing things/persons. Simply put what I mean is most of my everyday behaviour are made by brain not by heart. And my brain like to uphold logic, morals, compassion and love for food!!!! I would like to think I am fairly stable human being ofcourse some time my inner demons do win and I might act badly but I feel that my controls are above average if not higher than that.

    • @Krishnapriya1
      @Krishnapriya1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@heatherhafer3333 You are an infp too right ? ( I feel my mushy feel for infp be awakened )

    • @heatherhafer3333
      @heatherhafer3333 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Krishnapriya1 I am an INFP female married to my ISFJ husband. I really like INFJs. My almost best friend is an INFJ. She's so much busier than me due to her Ni focus/goals. She would never write me a message as you did though. She is very introverted and doesn't easily initiate.
      Thanks for answering my question. I appreciate your distinguisment between Fe and Fi.

    • @Krishnapriya1
      @Krishnapriya1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you..... May you have a happy life 😘.... Bye 👋

  • @arunatyan
    @arunatyan 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omg, so true! And i love the comment section, i kinda feel like i am around my people, or those who are same as me, woah. we guys are so amazing, let’s stay true to ourselves together *piu piu* (luv attacks)

  • @heatherhafer3333
    @heatherhafer3333 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Watching this video makes INFPs out to be mysterious...pretty weird how I can get that reaction from a video meanwhile relating to it because I am in fact an INFP.
    I want a video explaining why I don't hug when I would like to hug, but I refrain.

  • @AngelikaMonego
    @AngelikaMonego ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i remember in highschool reading in a magazin "10 ways to be more mysterious" and there were the dumbest tips in there. LOL
    like say stuff like "Who knew. I just knew that would happen" and so forth. It was very bad lol
    But yeah it was in a teen magazin so it had to be true, and I mean I tried. But again: It was stupid.
    I just remember thinking "I just want to be SO mysterious".
    And then we had to do these emotional things in our German Classes and we had to tell our lab partner what we thought was good about the other. (Which I can't remember what the girl said), but I didn't really wanna know what was good, I wanted to know in the negative. and so she said "You are so mysterious. I know hardly ANYTHIGN about you." AND I frikkn glowed.
    Like she made my whole highschool worth while.
    I did not see it as a negative. I was floating on cloud nine. it was the strangest thing.
    I was trying so hard to be "mysterious" but turned out I was already a riddle to everyone xD

  • @mildrose898
    @mildrose898 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That’s scary.. because it’s so me. 😅

  • @toad4112
    @toad4112 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel crazy. I have barely talked to him, but I still think about him everyday and think about how he might percieve me. He just has the weirdest humor, he likes cool movies and he’s nerdy but still really talkative and welcoming. I just get so scared around him. I literally start shaking when we’re on a group project together or something. I also overthink the way i walk and the way i speak to my friends when he’s in the room. But I only look at him when he’s looking another direction. I’ve liked him for like 1,5 years. Ahh. I also stalk his ex on social media sometimes and SHES THE PRETTIEST PERSON. And she also goes on cool trips and have a lot of friends and is so popular. I’m like the opposite, except I’m pretty, but she’s the kind of pretty that makes people feel bad about themselves. I kind of know that it can’t work out, but still.. I really want to. And he’s also a friend of MY ex. Yay.

  • @spiralingsoul4818
    @spiralingsoul4818 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Me, an INFP: Ready to prove them wrong immediately
    Me, and INFP after hearing the very first example: 😱😱😱

  • @mystified707
    @mystified707 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I used to think that I offended an infp I had crush on. This video proves my theory right. 😢 More depressed than ever.

  • @doanle5062
    @doanle5062 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am completely invisible to her.. in public, now I know why (but in private is complete a different person) for ENFJ, gonna be a long "battle" to get in her heart...

    • @Aliem-p8x
      @Aliem-p8x ปีที่แล้ว

      INFP×ENFJ=perfect match😊
      Good luck🍀

    • @creatureofstyle
      @creatureofstyle 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If you do get her take time to learn about each other's mbti. My INFP and I imploded because we didn't understand each other's dating style, though we were friends for years before we dated. Now he won't talk to me at all and I'm so heartbroken I'm about to start going to therapy to get past it. Our relationship being what it was and then getting ghosted afterwards was traumatic

  • @wiljtrash
    @wiljtrash หลายเดือนก่อน

    Me, the ENFP, just reminiscing the time I was lucky to met an INFP.
    I'd catch him stealing glances a lot of the times, he'd walk to my table to share his poems, we'd challenge together to do a "drawing" challenge, sometimes exchanged sketches on paper, he let me borrow his sketchbook (I wanted to keep it forever).. Whenever I am with him, I feel at home.
    Like my inner child's ready to come out and play, it's been hidden for so long being around ESFJ's and normies for long periods of time.
    Can you please tell him I love him? I miss him so much, I crave just talking to him, spending time with him. he feels like home.

  • @squirrelsyrup1921
    @squirrelsyrup1921 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So, it seems I love everybody

  • @VictorDiaz97
    @VictorDiaz97 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The jealousy one is spot-on.

  • @deepalil1085
    @deepalil1085 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    These are for teenage INFP, after 30 i am more expressive and will not hide my affection and pamper my beloved in public setting too

  • @felixkimani5375
    @felixkimani5375 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Stoooop exposing us

  • @trybaby8753
    @trybaby8753 ปีที่แล้ว

    I VOUCH FOR THIS. DANGGGG this is so true 🥲🥲🥲🥲

  • @rawr1248
    @rawr1248 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    All applies to meeeee!!!! I'm wondering if I should send this to my bf or not. Just so he can feel that I really love him. But I feel like I'm being too approachable or exposing to him with this. And I over think. So nevermind.

    • @sleepy_stranger7488
      @sleepy_stranger7488 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well, if you're ready to open up to your partner I think you can give it a shot! Just don't stress yourself!

  • @mjsmith8427
    @mjsmith8427 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    All true but never try to impress an INFP with jealousy... they would get hurts and walk away like they never liked you

  • @jannomeeuwessen4886
    @jannomeeuwessen4886 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm an INFP, but 2 of these I don't fully recognise.
    For example, I'm not a shy person. So any point that has to do with, will be different for me than said in this video. However, sometimes I dont talk to someone I like when I see them in public, because I want to seem mysterious and not clingy.
    And when I'm jealous, I try to hide is as much as I can, so I dont give hints

  • @rachman.syahril
    @rachman.syahril ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Infps, from an Infj 😊

  • @A18941
    @A18941 หลายเดือนก่อน

    3:38 "He cute" is so real hahahahehehe. Oop.

  • @HarreuVzeveh
    @HarreuVzeveh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Funny how many INFPs came here to find out whether they like someone or not, or to try to hide it better, or just to agree/disagree, etc, and I came here to avoid misunderstandings. I mean, I'm an INFP, but also aro ace, so I just thought "I hope I don't act like I'm in love with someone, I hate awkward situations". Thankfully, I don't, btw.

  • @haven-of-bliss
    @haven-of-bliss ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your videos ❤I feel so seen and heard... 💞

  • @veni.....
    @veni..... 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like how most people watching this video are INFP's

  • @makeitbake3357
    @makeitbake3357 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    As an Infp, I disagree abt the jealousy thing, I can never be jealous of anyone instead I would always be concerned or making sure that whether my person still feel the same way abt me or not and if not, then I would nvr beg anyone to stay in my life✌

  • @Indicolite2000
    @Indicolite2000 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As an infp-t, once the person I liked complemented my necklace in front of everyone... 👉👈
    I never wore that necklace in public (in front of them) again😅...though I kept happily wearing it at home 😊

  • @illaaurell4987
    @illaaurell4987 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As INFP, it scares me to the death watching this. Please don’t let people know you are INFP 😱