when men say women should bring more to the table than sexuality,they are not referring to women's salary,,they are talking about ''submission, naturing,support''...men dont care about women's money.. a man has the ability to support the whole family by himself if he taps into his musculine energy
Relationships thrive on equality and shared responsibility. Both partners can contribute financially, emotionally, and practically. In today's world, many families have two working parents, and woman might be the primary breadwinner. Everyone has strengths to bring to a relationship, and these don't have to be limited by gender roles.
@@TheJagero if a woman brings in money,yes it helps...but the most important thing a woman can bring to a relationship to ensure that it thrives is not her money (money helps). The relationship thrives when the woman let the man lead .and so the most important thing she can bring to relationship is her submission, nurturing,energy ,support..being a helpmeet. Society is so rotten and ungodly that wen u say submission ,they are thinking slavery.nooo...i just mean recognising that the man is the head of the family. We have differing views on where to live,where to invest our money, after i hear u out as my wife,if i still feel like option A is still the best, i think our relationship would work better if u give in just off of the fact that im the head. Not u bringin in the fact that this is also yo money and u not budgin. And the husband has to get rid of this nonsense that he is equal to his wife.when his wife messes up in AREA A,and he messes up in AREA B, he should not be like "ok,woman u clean up A,i'll clean up B". Practically that can happen if it does not weigh down the woman heavily.but a true husband's mentality in this should be "we are not equal, i love my wife just like Jesus love His church.therefore i'm willing to die for my wife.So im gon put in extra time and clean up both Her mess in AREA A,and my mess in AREA B". Thats true definition of "we are not equal.we are different ". But women take it to mean "ohhhh...u saying the man is superior,he is the master, and wife is servant ". This is the view of an unhealed society. Bible urges men to take care of their wives as "they are the weaker vessel". Women dont make great leaders nor co-leaders.its just not in their nature.thats why they can excellently lead law firms,but then wreck up their marriages.because to be an excellent leader,u need to acquire musculine energy.but in a romantic relationship, a husband requires woman with feminine energy,not money. Today, women are working,bringing money to the table,but divorce rates are high.you know why? Because a woman dont know how to act when she has financial power (in a romantic relationship, not in coorporate field). She also dont know how to act wen she has leadership role in marriage .you know why .while she is bringin money to the table,she is also bringin musculine energy. If she knows wen to switch off the musculine energy wen she gets home,then its no problem.but women have not been trained to do that because God did not create them to lead men. Wen choosing wife,its very important to prioritise a character of submission,nuturing,helpmeet attitude, over her money".....money can always be made down the line
That was true about the Catholics hit me up for more Jagero we talk about how Christianity is divided and the correlation with our mannerisms and ideologies as people of the earth.
It's always interesting to hear different viewpoints, especially on sensitive topics. It's important to have open dialogues and try to understand where others are coming from
I like the question he poses in response to the sentiment of being bitter towards women. "Is he wrong about the things he says?" I think people who are not objective, most often deflect when they don't have a valid point/argument for their case.
I disagree with Aliet. It is actually men who have a problem with women providing, they easily feel emasculated. You'll be sneezing and be labelled as disrespectful by your man who is earning less than you, so I'm pro hypergamy. 15:00
What I want to put across is that most men hate women, with options, women who are self-aware once you start providing you automatically 'become hard headed' because you are in control financially which is not the truth. You find men tend to go for women with less options, those that are financially wanting-waitresses and the like. I'm talking as a waitress, once you go out with a man and they realise you are more that and you actually have a plan and bigger dreams, they run
@@nancymuriithi5147 excellent points. Wont you say its both true that some guys are insecure and some women are harder to deal with when in "power". Think of all the times you've experienced rude services at public offices, hospitals, or even in school. Is it more likely to be a man or a woman?
@@chickynuggies2739 true to your word, there are women who always want to prove a point, always wanting to compete with men. These are masculine women. But a woman sitting in her femininity will never be that. They will want to be loved, taken care of no matter how much wealth they possess. Problem comes when a man wants to treat you like trash, then they start gaslighting you that you are disobedient because you have money. Another thing, I hate when a man tells me umenikataa juu sina pesa this only tells you one thing, other money that man doesn't have anything else to offer. These are men who become ATM machines to thier family, theirpresence is never felt. Your family only thinks of you when they want money, nothing else.
Great conversation and glad to find out that there are men in Kenya with this troubling mentality. But I must question: why do we Africans follow White men and people to inform our culture on such sensitive issues? When we can tailor make our own ways for all genders to exist together in harmony. Imagine telling your grandfather to follow Andrew Tate and your grand mother to follow whatever female version of Andrew Tate is. I weep for my people.
While everyone has their opinion, using terms like "simp" can be disrespectful. The interviewer was likely just trying to create a positive and engaging conversation.
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Much respect for Jacob
Thank you
Best episode so far...I would love his books in hard copies, send to Uganda your neighbours ,I promise you will make it .
Jacob always spewing wisdom...
Wisdom is timeless, and it's always refreshing to hear thoughtful insights. Do you remember any specific piece of advice that stood out to you
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What an insightful conversation! Thanks
Glad you enjoyed it!
Amazing show. Learnt so much. Was great .
Glad it was helpful!
Great interview. 👍.
Thanks for listening
very educative, thanks men.
You're welcome
when men say women should bring more to the table than sexuality,they are not referring to women's salary,,they are talking about ''submission, naturing,support''...men dont care about women's money.. a man has the ability to support the whole family by himself if he taps into his musculine energy
Relationships thrive on equality and shared responsibility. Both partners can contribute financially, emotionally, and practically. In today's world, many families have two working parents, and woman might be the primary breadwinner.
Everyone has strengths to bring to a relationship, and these don't have to be limited by gender roles.
@@TheJagero if a woman brings in money,yes it helps...but the most important thing a woman can bring to a relationship to ensure that it thrives is not her money (money helps). The relationship thrives when the woman let the man lead .and so the most important thing she can bring to relationship is her submission, nurturing,energy ,support..being a helpmeet. Society is so rotten and ungodly that wen u say submission ,they are thinking slavery.nooo...i just mean recognising that the man is the head of the family. We have differing views on where to live,where to invest our money, after i hear u out as my wife,if i still feel like option A is still the best, i think our relationship would work better if u give in just off of the fact that im the head. Not u bringin in the fact that this is also yo money and u not budgin. And the husband has to get rid of this nonsense that he is equal to his wife.when his wife messes up in AREA A,and he messes up in AREA B, he should not be like "ok,woman u clean up A,i'll clean up B". Practically that can happen if it does not weigh down the woman heavily.but a true husband's mentality in this should be "we are not equal, i love my wife just like Jesus love His church.therefore i'm willing to die for my wife.So im gon put in extra time and clean up both Her mess in AREA A,and my mess in AREA B". Thats true definition of "we are not equal.we are different ". But women take it to mean "ohhhh...u saying the man is superior,he is the master, and wife is servant ". This is the view of an unhealed society.
Bible urges men to take care of their wives as "they are the weaker vessel". Women dont make great leaders nor co-leaders.its just not in their nature.thats why they can excellently lead law firms,but then wreck up their marriages.because to be an excellent leader,u need to acquire musculine energy.but in a romantic relationship, a husband requires woman with feminine energy,not money. Today, women are working,bringing money to the table,but divorce rates are high.you know why? Because a woman dont know how to act when she has financial power (in a romantic relationship, not in coorporate field). She also dont know how to act wen she has leadership role in marriage .you know why .while she is bringin money to the table,she is also bringin musculine energy. If she knows wen to switch off the musculine energy wen she gets home,then its no problem.but women have not been trained to do that because God did not create them to lead men.
Wen choosing wife,its very important to prioritise a character of submission,nuturing,helpmeet attitude, over her money".....money can always be made down the line
@@TheJagero You hosted the master and never learnt😅
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you were exposed directly to the man and his ideas and still refuse to acknowledge reality
B@@africacorporatetrends1 I was about to say the same.😂😂
That was true about the Catholics hit me up for more Jagero we talk about how Christianity is divided and the correlation with our mannerisms and ideologies as people of the earth.
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nice discussion
Childhood experiences can certainly shape us in profound ways. It's crucial to approach such discussions with empathy and understanding.
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I like how wuod Karachuonyo is spewing wisdom.... A friend of mine is asking why is he sound bitter towards women?
It's always interesting to hear different viewpoints, especially on sensitive topics. It's important to have open dialogues and try to understand where others are coming from
He is entitled to his view. Thanks for viewing.
I like the question he poses in response to the sentiment of being bitter towards women. "Is he wrong about the things he says?" I think people who are not objective, most often deflect when they don't have a valid point/argument for their case.
I'm a traditional man. I will not allow my lady to share the bill with me. I pay the bill in full unless she asked to treat me.
I disagree with Aliet. It is actually men who have a problem with women providing, they easily feel emasculated. You'll be sneezing and be labelled as disrespectful by your man who is earning less than you, so I'm pro hypergamy. 15:00
Well, well well. I am not anti hypergamy though. Hypergamy is a fact. Not an ideology.
What I want to put across is that most men hate women, with options, women who are self-aware once you start providing you automatically 'become hard headed' because you are in control financially which is not the truth. You find men tend to go for women with less options, those that are financially wanting-waitresses and the like. I'm talking as a waitress, once you go out with a man and they realise you are more that and you actually have a plan and bigger dreams, they run
@@nancymuriithi5147 excellent points. Wont you say its both true that some guys are insecure and some women are harder to deal with when in "power". Think of all the times you've experienced rude services at public offices, hospitals, or even in school. Is it more likely to be a man or a woman?
@@chickynuggies2739 true to your word, there are women who always want to prove a point, always wanting to compete with men. These are masculine women. But a woman sitting in her femininity will never be that. They will want to be loved, taken care of no matter how much wealth they possess. Problem comes when a man wants to treat you like trash, then they start gaslighting you that you are disobedient because you have money.
Another thing, I hate when a man tells me umenikataa juu sina pesa this only tells you one thing, other money that man doesn't have anything else to offer. These are men who become ATM machines to thier family, theirpresence is never felt. Your family only thinks of you when they want money, nothing else.
@@nancymuriithi5147 when men run, whose problem is that?
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Great conversation and glad to find out that there are men in Kenya with this troubling mentality.
But I must question: why do we Africans follow White men and people to inform our culture on such sensitive issues? When we can tailor make our own ways for all genders to exist together in harmony. Imagine telling your grandfather to follow Andrew Tate and your grand mother to follow whatever female version of Andrew Tate is. I weep for my people.
Jagero is a beta male, can't control emotions. Laughs uncontrollably.
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Problem is 'the interviewer is a simp'
While everyone has their opinion, using terms like "simp" can be disrespectful. The interviewer was likely just trying to create a positive and engaging conversation.
@@TheJagero im so sorry my brother. I was stressed about my own situation while watchin this. Had nothin to do with the interviewer
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the host is good at gaslighting