Boutta be the first second channel with 20,000 subscribers and still no videos😭 Should I do a "The Button" reaction or Dress to Impress Roblox lets play first? Yes these are the only 2 options😠
Matt is the type to insist they should try being polyamorous, and would be quickly humbled by how few people are interested in him, and how many people would be lined up to get with his wife.
@@GrimzyShake The average woman has a 'marriage value' and 'one night of fun value.' All women have more 'one night of fun value' than men. Women who sleep around a lot are highly undesirable as partners and are not marriage material though. Even if the guy is the more attractive person in the relationship, there's still a chance his wife would have more 'one night of fun' people. One thing that's absolutely bonkers is that 'top chads' are using both average women and the more desirable women , but when the 'top chad' settles down he always chooses the most desirable woman he has access too. It's absolutely laughable that average woman, who were simply used by a chad, estimate their relationship worth based on the fact they were able to get a 'top chad' to USE them. Like, no, being able to get used by a guy you consider top dog doesn't make your marriage value at the top. And the more men who use you, the more men will gravitate to younger women with less baggage once those men reach the top. Some women need to stop sleeping around and focus on being better quality partners, instead of deluding themselves and inflating their worth while dismissing a lot of good men's worth.
@@wellsaidgoodheadfred9843that’s an incel take if i’ve ever heard one, holy shit lmao. body count has no inherent value at all and it doesn’t determine if someone is “marriage material,” being a good person does. abby could easily sleep around and STILL find a good husband after, matt is not likely to accomplish either of those easily, if at all.
The worst part is, she’s loyal and protects his public image in hopes he’ll wake up and appreciate her effort , and he just makes her look like an idiot. She needs to leave him.
Wasn’t a public figure but literally did this shit for my ex-husband and I will never fucking do it again I saved his ass from getting dishonorably discharged from the military in a way I can’t even legally say out loud and he thanked me by cheating on me with multiple people while I was pregnant and after etc., and came home once with genital warts He’s also an alcoholic to this day… thank God, my mother got me Gardasil 😂
Yeah, a young wife and mother of two needs to leave her not-so-perfect husband (and btw, we're all imperfect, in case anyone forgot that!), so she can become yet another sad statistic and leave her marriage, why? All because the internet told her to?! No. News flash! That is not your marriage and he is not your husband! Leave them alone! Misery loves company. This backwards generation just loves to see marriages and families end, tear down men and women who enjoy and embrace "traiditional" gender roles, and demonize the smallest imperfections in people all because they're miserable themselves. Put your phones down, youngin's, and go enjoy your lives in the real world. Wake up. Find Jesus. Touch grass!!
@@southernmama7606 he treats her like shit. Obviously you didn’t follow the story, because he doesn’t even have a traditional job, they literally both are influencers and he fails to pay the bills lol - and even if he did, “traditional men” did so little to support their families outside of 9-5. Not to mention, the majority of Americans have two-parent-working households - not even because they want to, but because they literally have to due to the cost of living… and you’re telling me that women should still carry the entire burden of raising their kids and taking care of the home? Unhinged. The statistics are what they are for a reason. Men like him and women like you support tolerating this and for what? For weak praise? For the approval of the pastor who takes your money and lobbies for child marriage and against women’s health legislation? Girl get a grip.
@@southernmama7606 he treats her like shit. Obviously you didn't follow the story, because he doesn't even have a traditional job, they literally both are influencers and he fails to pay the bills lol - and even if he did, "traditional men" did so little to support their families outside of 9-5. Not to mention, the majority of Americans have two-parent-working households - not even because they want to, but because they literally have to due to the cost of living... and you're telling me that women should still carry the entire burden of raising their kids and taking care of the home? Unhinged. The statistics are what they are for a reason. Men like him and women like you support tolerating this and for what? For weak praise? For the approval of the pastor who takes your money and lobbies for child marriage and against women's health legislation? Girl get a grip.
@@NotesNNotes SAME i talked sooo good about him and protected his image and his reputation (he only had a good one because of me..). i regret it so much. thank god for divorce and birth control.
Complaining about the s*x after childbirth is actually the most heinous thing he's done. She literally gave birth to his child, and he has the audacity to state/imply that the s*x is worse because of it, intentionally trying to break down her self esteem and make her feel insecure after she had a literal baby come out of her.
It brings to mind the quote from Look Who's Talking "You trying pushing something something the size of a watermelon, out of an opening the size of a lemon and see how hot you look!"
@@SiesVEyes she did. It was an unexpected pregnancy and sooner than doctors recommended to have another pregnancy due to recovery time. This is why recovery could potentially be prolonged . It takes a while for the muscles to fully tighten back up and heal and be toned again after childbirth, doctors say several weeks but it may still feel different especially when there is tearing. Healing takes time
You left out one of the worst things about Matt 😭😭 he has flat out admitted that he IGNORED his wife the first couple of days after she gave birth - because he was mad that having a family was “interfering with his music career” like?!
@@Yourmummy666 then you are really naive. People on internet do it all the time because it gives them more sympathy and views. Maybe she was upset a bit but she must have known about camera
@@bigchill9873 well she obviously knew it was in her face that's not what I said I said that I think she actually crying and he's filming her I think she's really crying but she obviously knows about the camera
I think one of the most messed up things this guy has said was that his wife "cheated childbirth" by having a c-section. Y'know, a c-section.... where you get cut open while you're awake (edit to add: this being after getting a needle inserted into your spine). Absolutely wild and horrible of him to think let alone say.
I had 2 "natural" births and honestly my friends that has c sections had it harder! C section moms are the real troopers. Pushing a baby out IMO is easier than major abdominal surgery.
And she had hernia surgery right after her first birth and wasn’t supposed to get pregnant for a year.. and they got pregnant again within months.. It truly seems like he doesn’t value her life.
@@Anrd0meda Yes! They give the pregnant person an injection (known as a "spinal") to numb everything from the waist down. There's a curtain put up so the person giving birth can't see what's happening, though.
A “traditional man” wouldn’t even EXPECT his wife to throw him a party for his birthday, let alone father’s day 🤣. A “traditional man” wouldn’t let his water bill not be paid for 7 months. He is so self centered and egotistical.
Everyone claims they’re a “traditional man/woman” when the only “tradition” they follow is “my husband works & pays the bills while I take care of the kids and clean” that’s not traditional.
@@coquettecockroach47 this blew my mind! how did they not receive ONE bill or reminder?! if they're only receiving electronic mail then he's failing on checking that too.
Currently 7 months pregnant and if my husband said or did even one of these things to me I would be so irreparably hurt. He insisted we celebrate his birthday in the most chill way possible this year, because I was pregnant. He would never film me while I’m crying because wtf. He only ever says positive and appreciative things about my body. Can’t count the number of times he has said “thank you for carrying our child.” This is what a “traditional man” should be; the type of guy who insists on carrying your purse through the Dallas airport for you when your feet hurt lol. Abby, you deserve better
Awwwwee this is so cute 🥰 it makes me even more excited that I want to have a traditional marriage when i get older (wait til marriage to have kids, have biological kids, male works and i take care of kids and house)
1:18 The fact that Abby kept repeating "Don't be mad at me" is a HUGE red flag. In healthy relationships, you don't have to worry about the other person getting mad at you for needing help.
i fully get what you're saying and i do think what you're saying applies here; however consider that people with trauma and anxiety around relationships can have that as it can ve a major fear of setting someone off when growing up or being used to walking on eggshells
I get that. But ptsd can affect relationships. I have ptsd from my past relationship so it effects my current relationship, even if I have no reason to be scared I still am as a defense mechanism
@@jaxorisit1447 I agree. Neurodivergent people can get caught up in wondering if people are mad at them. There are t-shirts aimed at people with ADHD that say “Are you mad at me?”
This is the type of dude who eventually gets dumped and goes around telling everyone "love is a lie" and "women these days give up on marriage too quickly"
100% I think of the father of my niece and nephew. That man was not a good father. Best decision my sister ever made was leaving him. It allowed her to find her now husband who is a fantastic father to 2 children who aren't biologically his. Their actual father hasn't made contact or seen the kids for 7 years now in spite of multiple family members trying to make contact with him. It's not what you are, it's who you are that matters.
Children just need their basic needs (including mental stimulation e.g. 📚) and to occasionally be physically restrained for their own safety. Children are not fancy pieces of chinaware 🫖 meant to just sit there are look pretty. They are supposed to live. If children were so needy with hyper-specific demands, humanity would have gone extinct in the Stone 🪨 Age.
He could run off and abandon them like 60-70% of father's these days. Smh. The internet is so ridiculously judgemental. This generation needs Jesus so much.
The difference between her "I wasn't attracted to you" and his, is that hers is almost certainly not about looks. Women lose attraction to their partner when they feel disconnected with them, when they're feeling overworked and under appreciated and they don't feel like their concerns and needs are being ignored. She basically said I was miserable in our relationship and it made me not look at you properly and he turned around like "SAME" about his pregnant wife, when he definitely meant he thought she wasn't attractive either before, during or after her pregnancies. Instead of listening to her, he just outright blew all her insecurities out of control.
Plus, he gave her the silent treatment after she gave birth in the hospital and at home - because the birth was inconvenient and he had to put his music career on hold. News flash, noone is interested in listening to your music. One of his songs is literally about regretting his life.
@@_abby_g thats the vibe i always got from them! especially the video of her on the couch after pain meds or whatever. how quick she is to think its her fault for things that she isnt even doing wrong. and you know if she ever tries to say anything about him being stupid lol like lack of brains for the bill situation hes gonna say some dumb shit.
@@_abby_gOh he definitely does. If this is what he feels comfortable with saying in front of millions of people, imagine what he feels comfortable with saying in private.
Matt acts like he is the popular jock who ended up with the sweet nerdy girl and that's why he's entitled to her taking on a more submissive role. But she is literally so much prettier and overall out of his league. Edit: Just to add, he is also balding. Toxicity karma
@@okkelly6207dear god that’s worse he has a complex about being inferior😭 saying this as a former theatre kid some of the WORST guys I’ve met have been theatre dudes
@@beanman9936 oh god I suppressed those memories, had a guy LITERALLY pitch about directing a play based on women’s mistreatment from their boyfriends because “well I can learn from the women in my cast” despite abusing our classmate (his ex girlfriend) for a year💀 he had both complexes and I fear coming across him everyday
@@piffba as an ex professional theatre kid who went AEA and had multiple in the room auditions for Bway I can confirm I got worse and worse as a human the older I got and the more I performed; there is an epidemic of self-inferiority for theatre men and im not sure we're ready to face it.
My husband and i have traditional roles but i am also disabled. He works sometimes up to 100 hrs a week and still offers to help me at home. I just had a hysterectomy at 32. He took time off and the first 2 weeks he did everything for me! No matter how many times he had to get up, he never complained. He told me how great my stomach and scars looked. When i got emotional, he held me and told how beautiful i am and how im still just as much of a woman and that we can adopt one day if my health gets better. Weve been together since we were 15/16, married at 18/19 together 17 yrs through thick and thin. Dont settle people. Great men are out there!
I love this so much, legit got chills when I read this. ❤ I hope you get relief and a treatment plan to ease your day-to-day symptoms to allow for you two to have a family because you both would make such amazing and caring parents.
I love that you shared this comment. I am newly starting to go through what seems like similar health issues as well. My husband and I always been for the most part pretty traditional, where I take care of our home and kids, and he works and takes care of us financially, while helping each other when needed. It has always worked well for our family, so I can’t help but worry to myself a little about how this change will effect everything. While I’m sure it’s not always gonna be easy breezy, reading your comment really helped ease my mind a bit, since there’s always been true love, understanding, and support within our family. Thanks for sharing what I think I needed to hear from someone else. I sincerely hope your health gets better, and everything works out for you and your husband, and you both get what you want out of life.
ong, my birthday I made dinner because I know no one would make it the way I want. I don’t expect people to do it for me either cuz im an adult?? like this is quite entitled
@@rosesweetcharlotte especially since there was an actual child coming 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ he should have been excited but I guess it was a bummer 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️. My cousin had his first child born on Father's Day in 2022, I and the rest of the family were so happy, it was a big deal ❤😂 and I haven't forgotten about it since, so cute. But some people are bummed out 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Been there, it’s rough. There’s not much else you can do to keep your family together. Can’t force him to be a Man and if you leave it feels like you’re the one messing up your children’s lives. For me, I thought it would get better but it got worse with the years until he left me for his side pieces Weird that we also got married young due to religion
The way she says, "I grew your baby everyday" and he immediately goes "but fathers day and my birthday were the same exact day--" AS IF THAT'S MORE IMPORTANT/MORE DIFFICULT THAN HIS WIFE LITERALLY GROWING HIS CHILD
THAT IRKED ME TOO!! as if him having to not have a celebration up to his own standards for ONE YEAR is on par with dealing with the absolute nightmare that pregnancy can be
@beanybabyrabie naturally does not constitute for the many hardships of child birth. It completely changes your body and is a very long and painful process.
🙄 this is taking it a bit too far. She had a HERNIA removed and was on anesthesia. If that was me I’d be hyper aware of not being touched as well. How you went from that to he feels entitled to her body (plus 170 people in agreement) feels like a witch hunt
i literally never liked him. i remember watching their videos and just thinking about how fake it is, and all the comments were “omg matt is husband goals!!” like no, hon. all of this is staged and fake. the camera wasn’t there on coincidence. he set up the camera, hit record so he could play the FACADE of a good husband to look good to an audience. he once filmed himself cleaning up abby’s vomit, and everyone in the comments was praising him. like, wtf??? why would he whip out a camera and record himself filming his wife’s vomit instead of just CLEANING IT UP in the first place???
You know what I noticed too? The way she acted when she was coming off the Anesthesia, constantly saying “ please don’t be mad at me, please be nice to me”, over & over again. . . How the hell does he treat her, that in her scrambled mind, she still has to ask him to treat her kindly? Idk. It was a huge red flag for me. Like , clearly she’s asking him to be kind for a reason. 😳
I understand what you mean, but this is just because of her personality. I am such a person, too. I've had a GREAT relationship with a guy who treated me very good and respected me and we loved eachother genuinely. And I just know that I am a person who whines a lot when in pain. So I always excused myself and said exactly those words, because being the husband in this situation needs a LOT of patience. You are trying your best to help and wifey is telling you, you are doing it wrong. And she knows how this will hurt him, helping and getting this response, so she tells him. I would say, this is good communication. And the excuses are normal for people who are emotionally sensitive. Cause they know that they'd be hurt if they were the other person. So stop hating. There are people who have a different background or who are more emotional and therefore act different than you would.
“Don’t be fooled by me taking care of my son” *bro what* how are you just gonna casually drop the fact that you don’t take care of your baby and then not expect backlash
Exactly 💀💀 and what's worse is dad's like this will do the absolute bare minimum and still expect to get praise for *checks notes* taking care of a child they helped make..huh
@@kesia872 my dad right now feels like my opps every other day, but I know he was involved when I was a baby. Not only was I told, I actually saw pictures 😅 and we are African, It's actually normal that in 2001, a Nigerian dad hardly held his baby, not like the millennial parents trying to change that, but my dad was even the one at home with me, Mom was working in a bank at the time
@tamiausten873 that's different from framing it as "this is my wife's duty, I'm just doing it as a favor to her." Being involved isn't just holding your baby, and I'm glad your dad was involved in your life. We need parents/parental figures to be involved in how children are raised. These two are mostly influencers, and most of the influence came from her. He's a musician who ignored his wife after she gave birth because he felt having a family was in the way of his music.
They should’ve never went viral and famous after that first video. She is CLEARLY suffering from trauma from an abusive relationship, and the fact that he’s the only partner she’s ever had… it’s the large amount of apologies. The having to be aggressive to actually get him to listen and get help, but then having to apologize to avoid the aggression on the other end. The emotional monitoring on her end, making sure she’s not too rude or ungrateful (possibly out of fear). The making sure he’s not mad at her, and begging him not to be mad. And literally saying “don’t touch anything without talking to me first”!! I mean come on… nothing about that is sweet and adorable. It all appears to be underlying trauma.
When I finally got into a healthy relationship I apologized so often he asked me to stop saying it. It was driving him crazy when I was constantly apologizing for any and everything regardless if it’s not my fault.
@@carnevalmefistoshe’s been with him since she was like 14. So she’s not been with anyone else, is married and has 2 kids. It’s all so rushed she wasn’t able to process what was going on
Basically he’s gaslit her into thinking he’s not as “good” at cleaning and taking care of the kids as she is. It’s weaponized ignorance, and it’s disgusting.
This is the guy who said he gave his wife the silent treatment after she gave birth because he felt resentful about their baby. Like truly an awful father and husband.
@@BirdEdits_xnow imagine having a spouse with the emotional maturity of a two year old? And the two year old got over it before this grown man who apparently fumed for 2 days. Tragic.
Let's remember, she was pregnant, like, five months after giving birth the first time. She was taking care of the home, working, doing everything while also taking care of one baby while breastfeeding and pregnant with the next. That would be too much for anyone
As a licensed therapist, all I will say is that his utter lack of empathy for his beautiful wife/mother of his children is palpable. I’m worried about Abby.
Same, I work in primary care and he sounds like every single practically useless father who comes in and can barely remember their kids’ birthday or allergies or medical conditions or teachers or school or favourite colour or… basically anything but their name. Sometimes we’re lucky if he even remembers the appointment.
@@aleighb6433 I do! However, you would need to be living in CA, as that is where I’m licensed. I highly recommend getting into therapy if you are married to someone this selfish 🙏🏼
She chose this. HE isn’t a content creator THEY are content creatorS!!!!! It’s how they make money on top of doing AIRBNBS. Smh it’s really a joke how everyone is pretending she’s a victim or abused or something. Y’all crazy Brittany spears crazy but Abby a victim 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 weirdos
@@SincerelyYours_Rebekahexcept people think I'm ungrateful because "at least I have a dad". They don't understand that with fathers like Matt it's better off if you just didn't have 1
NOT TO MENTION he also gave his wife SILENT TREATMENT for 48 hours AFTER GIVING BIRTH because he was mad at her because they had another child. After all, he was upset that he wouldn't be able to pursue his CAREER as much.
@@juliannap6878 Kiki Chanel did a long video on them and she shows the video where he talks about this. I recommend watching that. Cooper's video is a good introduction but Kiki shows even more wild shit. 😬
Cooper, you’re such a treasure, I’m so happy that men like you exist. I’m 36 and my son is 15, I used to worry about my son becoming an incel at some point (I believe he’s out of the woods rn), but I’m glad that men your age that love and respect their partners exist and are not afraid of showing it online
17:25 PSA! Breastfeeding burns HUGE amounts of calories, so often women who breastfeed indeed require the same caloric intake as a man who is much larger than them. But instead of spreading useful information, this dude just used it to make some strange point about his wife eating a suspiciously large amount. It shows he didn't bother to learn anything about pregnancy and breastfeeding. Sigh.
true, also ppl can have different metabolisms and hunger levels anyways. overall very weird to be commenting about how much food your wife eats in general ugh
This is so obvious and yet I hadn't even thought about that when Matt was talking about her weight. I've seen other ppl say that they're both a bit clueless about reproduction and contraception in general cause they seemed so shocked they could even get pregnant 5 months after the 1st kid was born (and she also had major surgery in between then??)
That's actually not fully true. I've spoken to two different doctors about this as a breastfeeding person who has struggled with anorexia in the past. You only need an additional 3-500 calories. Which most people eat over 500 calories in a single small meal. If you don't believe me actually measure out the calories at dinner. So you really only need like two extra small snacks. Not to eat 4 meals a day or as much as a man twice your size. I'm only making this comment to help any women who are concerned about packing on weight during breastfeeding.
My husband works 40+ hours every week. I am not employed. I'm nine months pregnant. I have been expected to do *very little* in my household during my pregnancy. I doubt I'll lift a finger around here for at least two weeks after I have the baby, with the exception of breastfeeding which my husband physically could not do for me. Women, please don't think these people are normal and that this is acceptable treatment. It is not. You deserve better.
@@KAKTUS_1991SonMy husband wasn't like this AT ALL when we first met, but he learned! It took a lot of patience. I had to remind myself that a man-child probably doesn't want to be that way either. There's a reason man-children seem frustrated and immature all the time, humans have innate need to care for themselves and when that need isn't met they throw tantrums, ignore other's issues just like they ignore their own issues (expecting someone else to fix it for them), and act selfishly because that's all they were taught to think about. People (man or woman) are robbed of the skills to cope with life when they're raised in a mysognistic environment. Spending time, patience, and willingness to break free from that is an accomplishment within itself and I commend anyone who puts in the effort to unlearn and relearn those basic life skills. That's their responsibility to grow up and their journey to take. The only reason I was so patient with my husband is because I saw he was willing to accept that responsibility of relearning through his actions. Even if some of those dishes were crusty af in the beginning... 😂 That being said, this dude in the video is too far gone. I would launch myself out a window if I had to teach him how to wipe his own ass.
@@MedicoreMacaroni yeah I mean it comes down to being considerate.. if someone doesn’t respect you there’s no way they’re ‘learning’ how to help out around the house my 11 year old son does almost as much as I do age appropriate and doesn’t complain at all.. reasonings being he will make someone else’s life extremely miserable if he doesn’t step up & I’ve taught him to not settle either.. it goes both ways..
My fiancé and I met when we were in high school and are due to get married in December, 4 days after our 10 year anniversary. Similar to Matt and Abby, we were each others first and only kiss and yet he still worships the ground I walk on 10 years later! Watching men like this makes me so grateful for him because I definitely don't realise how good I have it. I've never been pregnant or had a child but my weight was a big problem and I yoyo a lot (like by 100lbs, not just a little bit) and he never made me feel less attractive when I was heavier and still told me I was beautiful every day. I hope Abby can find someone like that.
may I ask you what does "I yoyo a lot" mean? I've been learning English for a long time, but haven't heard that phrase before. Does it mean your weight fluctuates?
One thing I noticed is how it’s always Matt filming Abby in these incredibly personal and vulnerable moments, never the other way round. He always brings up the most degrading topics to make her feel bad. There was no need to comment on how she ate the same amount as him, there’s no need to comment and say sex feels different after she’s had two kids. It’s all made deliberately to degrade her and beat her down until she has little self worth.
I just commented same,he enjoys to record her in her most vulnerable moments,when she sick,vomits,after surgery,what is wrong with him,leave a wife to rest,why shoving camera in her face while she vomits🤬🤬🤬🤬
@@evat514 this. She’s never had anyone else so thinks this is normal. She’s been manipulated into defending him even if she knows deep down that it’s not exactly right
I will say in his defense, my dad’s birthday tends to fall on or within days of Father’s Day. He’s almost always been jipped into combo presents (one present for both). It’s kinda like the people who’s born so close to Christmas not getting birthday presents because Christmas is 2 days later so they get a combo birthday/Christmas present.
@@krugel17I am one of those Christmas people but I never complain! There is no need to imo. It’s an unchangeable thing and I am accepting of the fact that most are stressing about holiday shopping and celebrations. ♥️ I think people get a little too weird about birthdays anyways lol
@@Kimmie9553”she was starving the baby” she was just struggling to lactate… cause you know- it’s literally biological - it’s not like babies even need that much milk upon birth, but he essentially just wouldn’t let her be a mom then stonewalled her for days because a baby was going to disrupt his “music career” that doesn’t even exist
I just found film cooper’s channel and have been watching quite a bit of videos this week. You sound like a really sincere man, that a lot of other men in this world could benefit from hearing(if they choose to). Congratulations to you and Sophia, it sounds like the two of you are lucky to have found each other, and I wish you guys the best!
what’s insane is that in the video where she’s on anesthesia, she’s constantly saying “you’re mad at me” as if that’s the expectation. how often does he have to be mad at her where she can expect that under anesthesia, when you’re typically being your most simple version of yourself???
Yeah but she also seems very needy and whiny why no one talks about that? Everyone wants to just go all on the guy but she is very clingy and consyanly needs validation, I have seen their vid3os to say she asks him questions wants thectruth and when she gets it does not like it@carlycrays2831
@Alixir1228 I think she just didn't want Matt to do what he did when she gave birth to their second, which was the silent treatment during the most vulnerable times. Whenever they post her breakdowns, she always says to Matt, "don't get mad at me." I get your point, she chose to go and to not baby her. But she seems too much of a people pleaser and doesn't want Matt to be mad at her. It is scary sometimes when the one person she chose to spend the rest of her life can get mad over a simple no.
@@JewelO3411I sometimes thank my fiancé for not getting mad at me when I express certain emotions. it’s due to childhood trauma in my case. My fiancé has NEVER gotten mad at me for expressing myself or abused my trust. But I am afraid to think what would have happened if a controller / abuser had gotten his claws into me when I was younger. I was so vulnerable. Abbey might be in a similar situation. Yes, she is an adult and has the right to make choices. But the reality is sometimes different for people in controlling relationships.
FINALLY someone is talking about him. His attitude toward his wife has always made me so uncomfortable and made me unfollow them initially. Him posting his music to monetize his family really disgusts me.
One of the worst parts is the differences between platforms. Tiktok and instagram clearly hate matt but all the videos on youtube I've seen are supporting matt and saying "we love to see a guy treatng his wife well!" "We need more guys like you" "keep going man you're great!" And stuff Its so sad honestly
I want Abby to divorce him and find a new man that’s over 6 foot who never makes her feel insecure about herself, but he constantly makes Matt feel insignificant just by existing.
He's 5'7" completely Napoleon syndrome. The poor girl always looks like she's crying or wanting to cry. At any given moment she looks like shes on the verge of crying. @@Anna.T.
whenever abbys crying and matts fliming, it feels like a parent shoving a camera in front of their kid crying, exploiting them. it actually icks me out
@@rosesweetcharlotte”Abby you’re a not SPENDING TIME WITH THE KID YOU NEED TO BRING HIM OUT INTO THE WORLD AND TAKE CARE OF HIM WHAT IF THE BABYSITTER KIDNAPS HIM???????” And she’s just caught in this idiotic man crossfire.
What Abby spoke while on anesthesia shows that matt makes her feel subconsciously behind the camera. Sad she goes through the enormous amount of insecurity because of her husband.
He’s not even sweet to her when she’s having bad days. Even while acting he doesn’t do a good job at being supportive or thinking of her first for once…
Every time I see a video of her emotionally breaking down and crying, I wish I knew where they lived just so I could go yell "PUT THE DANG PHONE DOWN AND TAKE CARE OF YOUR WIFE PROPERLY!!!😡" at him. Seriously, since when is it ok to film your partner like that instead of comforting them PRIVATELY?!
@@Bella-q9ji think she does believe that matt is really being a good husband and father other wise she wouldn’t defend and apologize for him but u think matts probably manipulating her to think that way
@filmcooper can i PLEASE point out what an amazing point you made at 4:32. i grew up in a situation where my dad worked all the time, and my mum looked after us. he didn’t let her have a job (it’s complicated but that’s the summary) and he’s still in a place where he feels that everything is HIS - he doesn’t think half belongs to his wife. it was just rlly nice to see someone calling out that underhanded behaviour for what it is - control and abuse
@@beanybabyrabie You're aren't exactly respecting your body if you married someone you barely know just to have sex with that person that you barely know.
@@beanybabyrabie I think you misunderstood the comment, the reason you get married is because you love that person and want to spend your life with them. To do it because of hormones is crazy.
@@beanybabyrabieI think you misunderstood the comment, the reason you get married is because you love that person and want to spend your life with them. To do it because of hormones is crazy.
Ya he talks over her... reminds me of female friend i used to have.. She was so self centered.i have met so many self centered individuals and yes exactly like matt
This is what happens when basically children get married. He went straight from being a spoiled child to being a spoiled man-child. It is so hard to watch him being borderline mentally abusive. I have been married for 30 years, and my husband tries never to tear me down. We also try really hard to always put up a united front.
Ehhh I think it's more their culture that is the problem. My husband and I have lived together since we were 18 and he has always taken care of his own things
@@UlexiteTVStoneLexiteI don’t know how old they are. My husband and I have been together since we were 18 and I don’t think we’re much older (we’re early 30s). my husband watched this video over my shoulder and couldn’t stand this guy.
@@katiekuchen9694 I am pretty sure they are in their 20s still. My husband and I are a little older then you guys are, mid 30s. My husband never acted like that guy is.
They’re mid 20s, but they’ve been together for like 10 years at this point. They come from incredibly conservative families and are all each other knows. Shes defending him and idk that she really understands the difference between her husband and an actual good husband.
I am a stay at home mom, but my husband comes home from work every day and takes care of the children and the house WITH me, not as a favour. Bc it’s his house and his kids too. People like Matt make me sick
He also spent like ten minutes complaining about the fact that he had to celebrate Father’s Day and his birthday on the same day most years and how it’s “unfair” on their podcast I spent that entire clip thinking did your dad ever throw a fit that they had to celebrate you on his day? AND THEN MATT MENTIONED HIS DAD DIDNT CARE
@@NamesAida.idk man I fell people are projecting. I never follow these guys as I don’t even use TikTok. Might have seen there TH-cam shorts one or two randomly. But you can’t really judge a relationship from few seconds of TikTok.
The fact that he made her feel bad about her postpartum body right after having the kid! "They said it would go back to normal, but it hasn't." Dude, you have to give it time! It can take years for your parts to heal. She just gave you a child, and you're upset that she didn't return to "normal" overnight? He's gross!
@@admar6934but there’s a way to answer that’s not awful. Years ago Kourtney Kardashian asked Scott Disick the same question, he by no means was a great partner but his answer was something along the lines of “it’s basically the same and I’d do anything to get back in there you’re still the hottest woman alive to me”. That’s the way you answer the question
@@admar6934 that's the problem with these people. They want to seem open, like they communicate but definitely this is going to crash. It may not happen that soon but it's not going to be good or cute for long. She definitely sees videos like this dissecting their content/marriage and truth hurts
That's how you know someone doesn't love you. My kids Dad made comments about me being chunky and I was already at a lower weight than before I got pregnant at 110 pounds and I was the healthiest I've ever been. It really pissed me off
My mom’s anniversary, birthday, and Mother’s Day are right next to each other and my dad’s birthday is right next to thanksgiving. They give each other extra gifts for the events and don’t guilt trip each other or force each other to celebrate months later. They also don’t force big parties or anything and never ask for the extra gifts they get. Matt has nothing to complain about and could handle his problem like my parents and many others.
I heard a psychologist say that men who have a damaged or spoiled relationship with their mom seek out women who will mother them. Then after they feel secure (sometimes post honey moon stage, marriage, baby, etc..) they cheat on the mother figure/gf/wife with the woman they actually want.
@@daniellewilliams2831If this happens I hope she divorces but it's worrying because they have literally said "Divorce isn't an option for us" he was the one majorly saying its worrying people that say that end up on the news
@@daniellewilliams2831men with narcissistic personality disorder often cheat when their wife has a young baby because they are pathologically jealous of the baby abd resent the fact that they aren't the centre of their wife's attention
@@daniellewilliams2831 idk I feel like it's more nuanced than that. men also cheat because their friends won't judge them for it or actively support it, etc etc etc. some of them had tough moms but enabler dads.
True.. notice at the point when he hasn't paid the water bill, she says autopay could have solved it.. ideally she also seemed to have managed fine doing it before him.she was just happy he picked something he can do..pay bills and then screwed that up.. and all you hear are his excuses...
Yeah isn’t it like giving the company your credit card/debit card pressing the autopay switch and pressing submit. Like every month make sure you’re making enough money. Meaning he’s made it out to be really difficult and it’s not. In others words kinda manipulating
i know people nowadays throw around the term "narcissist" so often, but matt acts exactly like my narcissistic ex to the point where it's honestly scary. the way he talks to her makes me feel sick. the constant demeaning, the backhanded comments/compliments, the gaslighting, the way EVERYTHING has to be about him no matter what, avoiding accountability at every turn, the entitled behavior, even the fact he constantly interrupts her and never ever listens. if this is how he treats her when the cameras are rolling I can't even imagine what she has to deal with in private. ever since I've found her content I've prayed for her to see the light and leave him with the kids, he is so awful. it makes me even more sad because they're high school sweethearts, she probably thinks this is what a healthy relationship looks like. i know I did. poor girl :(
can we just talk about the fact that if their bill is on auto pay, he doesn’t even have to go in and click “submit payment” because that’s what auto pay is for 💀💀
They are laughing all the way to the bank making scripted videos . Seeing how people are so outraged over everything the couple are banking while one pretends to be a unloving jerk and the wife pretends to be a gullible innocent angel . Their rage videos are making the couple very wealthy. 😂😂😂😂
@@annaverano5843yes! This! I am floored by how many people have rage bait videos. I was shocked that among "content creators" it is actually a thing. I do understand it, it's a super crowded ecosystem and they must have engagement to continue to compete.
"My husband takes care of the finances, car insurance,..." oh right because that takes up a full day of work, 7 days a week, equal to managing a whole house hold, taking care of your kids and putting food on the table 3x a day 🙄 jeez does she really believe that herself or is she trying to put up a façade?
I kinda feel so bad for her though, even though i just want to shake her and get her to wake up to herself she seems like she's in denial. She's trying every possible way to make everyone see all the 'helpful' things he does to stick to everyone's mind just enough so it will tip the scale so we don't see the bad. I think she's just use to doing that herself in alot of situations and now she's doing it in her relationship as well.
Victims of narcissistic abuse try to tell themselves that the narcissist is not so bad and they justify that person’s behavior to themselves. Seems like that’s what Abby is doing.
@@angelh1843 no I'm not blaming her, sorry if you got that vibe from my comment. I'm just wondering if she really believes what she's saying, or if she's trying to make everyone believe that everything is fine.
I did all the cooking, cleaning, child care, grocery shopping, errand running, etc. while also working full time. My husband and I split the bills. Then since I made more, he began giving less. He started giving me $300-$600 a month, and did nothing else. I am so grateful for that, because he taught me that I didn’t need him. In fact, leaving him would save me money, and have one less person to clean up after. Some people don’t realize that they are teaching you how to live without them.
This is my first time watching your channel and I just gotta say your decor is absolutely incredible!!! The plants, the lighting, the art, I am obsessed
Yeah 100% bc this year for Father's Day my son was only 7 days old. My dad bought my partner a cheesy Father's Day shirt. His mom sent him $$ I didn't do anything. I apologized and he immediately said - why are you apologizing, you just had our son. And he says that any time I'm apologizing about things like this.
In context of everything else, it’s absolutely a red flag. But to play devils advocate.. I do this with my fiancé. I was in an emotionally abusive relationship for 7 years from the age of 19 and have a bit of baggage and anxiety about ‘upsetting’ him. He is incredible and so loving and supportive. We have an 18m old daughter and he is a true PARTNER in every sense of the word. But I have issues and it’s something he is very understanding about and he is helping me work on. It’s getting better everyday but I still have moments of weakness, especially when I’m feeling hormonal or vulnerable.
@madamemelone4947it was his responsibility to manage their credit cards, and there was one of her cards with a small recurring charge on it that he forgot about, so it destroyed her credit and they had to use his exclusively after that. Fires me up whenever I remember that
How the crap do you not pay a bill for 7 months? They've got to be getting notified by email and mail. Is he in charge of checking those too? Is that why it got "overlooked" for that long? Blows my mind.
i threw a surprise birthday for my boyfriend, invited a few of our friends. it was nothing big or fancy. But after the reveal, he pulled me aside into an empty room, hugged me and cried into my shoulder. He was so happy because he had spent his last birthday completely alone (i hadn't met him yet). I am so glad that i have someone who is grateful for the little things. my fella matt needs to work on some things
I don’t really watch these people other than the clips of them in other peoples’ videos (like this) but my heart breaks for her every time. She’s so cute and she seems so sweet and genuine. She could do so much better, she DESERVES so much better ☹️
He’s the type to give silent treatments, and go on “Boys Only” trips or nights out regardless of how his wife feels. If she does somehow convinces him to stay home, he would throw it in her face and make her feel like crap about it. Pathetic.
He gave her the silent treatment for 48 hours after birth. He was mad the new kid would ruin his music career. What career!? That would've been enough for me to throw him out.
And don't forget on mothers day he'll find a generic candle a cup that says she's a great mother and then make her plan out what they'll do to celebrate her day, never lift a finger to give her some time to relax and have some time to herself and pat himself on the back.
He’s definitely trying to humiliate his wife by making her feel insecure and guilty on camera, recording and posting her emotional breakdown about feeling lazy and bloated, and passive aggressively shaming her for her body. All these things together in a pattern of behavior shows abuse
I honestly think he’s too immature to even realize how his words impact her. I don’t think he’s doing it on purpose. That’s just his maturity level at this time.
Seriously. Very abusive. Clearly has a massive ego, meanwhile he's balding and still making dollar tree version Disney channel pop music videos to upload to tiktok. He really would have NOTHING without her.
What the heck?! He ALWAYS throws compliments on her body! „whoah you‘re so ripped“ „you look soo good, Abby“…. I could count a ton of videos in which he is so sweet. I literally don‘t understand why people comment on other people‘s lives, if they don‘t even know their whole content. Lame DUDES
He said after vag deliver her vag was not the same n sex was better before, May be that's y she opted for c section for 2nd baby n then the while time he was like, "do u feel like u cheated in pregnancy by not having natural birth" Abby can't win with this man. So gross.
She opted for c section because she had things go really wrong with Griffin’s birth and the doctors recommended a c section to avoid similar issues with August
I mean didn't she ask him if it was the same? Like idk I feel like these are questions people do have, I rather have someone tell the truth or their thoughts then lie.
Actually she had a c-section because with her first they had a shoulder dystocia, aka, the baby was so big his shoulders got stuck in her pelvis. I had the same thing happen with my 2nd & will now most likely be pushed into a c-section too.
To me, the only legit funny and non-toxic tik tok couples are Jack and Meghan, who just post silly videos, Deven and Eileen (basically the same thing, they just post silly videos and sometimes talk about their relationship on their youtube and it's nothing like what Matt and Abby talk about), and Uyen Ninh and her german fiance and they're incredibly wholesome and sweet, and it's mostly Uyen anyway because she respects her partner's privacy by never showing his face, and she doesn't show her relatives faces either. I enjoy all of these couples because whenever I watch them, I can see the genuine love and respect they have for each other, and you see them actually having fun, and it's not even forced like so many others. It makes me smile. Matt and Abby just make me fucking angry. Mostly for Abby. .___.
the thing that irks me the most is she takes on the every day responsibilities- things that have to happen every single day- whereas he takes care of the once in a while responsibilities. her jobs are constant; you always need to have dishes done and a kid always needs care. you don’t pay bills every day. you don’t do car maintenance every day. she is on constant duty, he’s not.
@@nothanks71 exactly. and in failing to do that ONE SIMPLE TASK, he cost her her peace of mind, making her wonder if she has to take on yet another responsibility. so not only is he incompetent, but he’s making her worry more than she needs to about things he claimed “he has covered.”
and the fact that the "once in a while" responsibilities he does have (the bills) he sets up a system where he doesn't even have to do them, essentially letting him do absolutely nothing.
@@scriitleplays right! and her poor peace of mind. i could she see her thoughts about omg who am i with why do i always gotta be captain. she is relied on to do EVERYTHING and she cant even relax thinking about the little things she doesnt have to do because hes gonna come and fuck it up. she gets backlash for her mistakes but he just giggles his makes off like its not his responsibility in his own home to make sure everything is taken care of. she seeems like she takes a lot of pride in making sure everything they need and want and whatever is taken care of while so they can be stress free and just live but he is just there for fun. like wake up dude she should be as care free and happy as you if your life is actually as good and happy as he makes forgetting the water bill for 7 MONTHS seem. like i wouldve been stressing. which i think thats why he wasnt cause he knows shes gonna come in and fix it which she shouldn't have to do. i hate seeing one person take all the negative feelings that come with life in a relationship. she has no one to actually support her.
And after she had miner surgery after Griffin he didn't take care of anything. Didn't even pay the water bill and it got shut off. That's why the inlaws had to move in. Because Matt doesn't do anything!
I honestly don’t get what Abby sees in Matt.. every time he opens his mouth I can’t help but cringe. What grown man complains about Father’s Day being celebrated at the same time as his birthday? Whaaat? I can understand a child or even a teenager.. but a grown man? A father?? Abby really tried hard too. Even though they were both away on vacation she still managed to invite family and friends over to celebrate Matt. She got him a cake.. it’s pathetic honestly. I could never ever be around someone like Matt, let alone marry someone like him. Never.
My mums was always has her birthday in the same month as mothers day and my day always has his birthday the same month as fathers day and I have never heard this complaint 😅
God forbid they have another kid and that kid is born on his birthday. My bf was born on his mom’s birthday. I’m due with a baby 8/8 and me and his anniversary is like a week or so after, I wouldn’t care if he was born then (well maybe a little cause I don’t wanna be 41 weeks pregnant😂)
Like the whole thing of him talking about how sex has changed... women (if they have had education on childbirth which doesn't always happen) know how much pregnancy and childbirth change their body and inevitably change sex. But there is this whole feeling with men that they think we just bounce right back with no changes. If my wife and I were talking about how sex has changed after giving birth I'd say "of course sex has changed because your body has gine through a massive physical and emotional change but it hasn't changed how good it is! It's incredible, and you're incredible! You are so so so beautiful, and you're the mother of my child, I am the luckiest person on earth. Yes, things have changed, but it's the most amazing change of my whole life"
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The fact that she knew more about paying the bills than him shows that she really does do everything, and then he tried to defend himself...
are u alive after what happened last night at the eras tour
It's giving me flashbacks to my narcissistic ex who really just needed a parent
@@mahumansari barely
@@justagirlwholovesmusic real
@@mahumansariwait what happened at the eras tour???
Matt is the type to insist they should try being polyamorous, and would be quickly humbled by how few people are interested in him, and how many people would be lined up to get with his wife.
Yeah and then suddenly be opposed/offended/mad when anyone’s into her. And flip it on her in some way.
FRR
This is so fucking true omg
@@GrimzyShake The average woman has a 'marriage value' and 'one night of fun value.' All women have more 'one night of fun value' than men. Women who sleep around a lot are highly undesirable as partners and are not marriage material though. Even if the guy is the more attractive person in the relationship, there's still a chance his wife would have more 'one night of fun' people. One thing that's absolutely bonkers is that 'top chads' are using both average women and the more desirable women , but when the 'top chad' settles down he always chooses the most desirable woman he has access too. It's absolutely laughable that average woman, who were simply used by a chad, estimate their relationship worth based on the fact they were able to get a 'top chad' to USE them. Like, no, being able to get used by a guy you consider top dog doesn't make your marriage value at the top. And the more men who use you, the more men will gravitate to younger women with less baggage once those men reach the top. Some women need to stop sleeping around and focus on being better quality partners, instead of deluding themselves and inflating their worth while dismissing a lot of good men's worth.
@@wellsaidgoodheadfred9843that’s an incel take if i’ve ever heard one, holy shit lmao. body count has no inherent value at all and it doesn’t determine if someone is “marriage material,” being a good person does. abby could easily sleep around and STILL find a good husband after, matt is not likely to accomplish either of those easily, if at all.
abby eats double the amount matt eats because she cleans and cooks and takes care of two children while he does nothing. she actually burns it off
And breastfeeding burns SO MANY calories.
THAT PART. I wish she had said, "It's because I actually WORK up an appetite."
Including him adds up to 3 kids!
@@DawnKellyMedia yes. about 800 calories extra a day.
And she DOES NOT eat double what he does. That’s just not true. Even with breastfeeding
One time I commented on a tiktok saying "Matt should have worn a condom" someone replied "Matt's dad should have worn a condom."
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The worst part is, she’s loyal and protects his public image in hopes he’ll wake up and appreciate her effort , and he just makes her look like an idiot. She needs to leave him.
Wasn’t a public figure but literally did this shit for my ex-husband and I will never fucking do it again
I saved his ass from getting dishonorably discharged from the military in a way I can’t even legally say out loud and he thanked me by cheating on me with multiple people while I was pregnant and after etc., and came home once with genital warts
He’s also an alcoholic to this day… thank God, my mother got me Gardasil 😂
Yeah, a young wife and mother of two needs to leave her not-so-perfect husband (and btw, we're all imperfect, in case anyone forgot that!), so she can become yet another sad statistic and leave her marriage, why? All because the internet told her to?! No. News flash! That is not your marriage and he is not your husband! Leave them alone! Misery loves company. This backwards generation just loves to see marriages and families end, tear down men and women who enjoy and embrace "traiditional" gender roles, and demonize the smallest imperfections in people all because they're miserable themselves. Put your phones down, youngin's, and go enjoy your lives in the real world. Wake up. Find Jesus. Touch grass!!
@@southernmama7606 he treats her like shit.
Obviously you didn’t follow the story, because he doesn’t even have a traditional job, they literally both are influencers and he fails to pay the bills lol - and even if he did, “traditional men” did so little to support their families outside of 9-5.
Not to mention, the majority of Americans have two-parent-working households - not even because they want to, but because they literally have to due to the cost of living… and you’re telling me that women should still carry the entire burden of raising their kids and taking care of the home? Unhinged.
The statistics are what they are for a reason.
Men like him and women like you support tolerating this and for what? For weak praise? For the approval of the pastor who takes your money and lobbies for child marriage and against women’s health legislation? Girl get a grip.
@@southernmama7606 he treats her like shit.
Obviously you didn't follow the story, because he doesn't even have a traditional job, they literally both are influencers and he fails to pay the bills lol - and even if he did, "traditional men" did so little to support their families outside of 9-5.
Not to mention, the majority of Americans have two-parent-working households - not even because they want to, but because they literally have to due to the cost of living... and you're telling me that women should still carry the entire burden of raising their kids and taking care of the home? Unhinged.
The statistics are what they are for a reason.
Men like him and women like you support tolerating this and for what? For weak praise?
For the approval of the pastor who takes your money and lobbies for child marriage and against women's health legislation? Girl get a grip.
@@NotesNNotes SAME i talked sooo good about him and protected his image and his reputation (he only had a good one because of me..). i regret it so much. thank god for divorce and birth control.
Complaining about the s*x after childbirth is actually the most heinous thing he's done. She literally gave birth to his child, and he has the audacity to state/imply that the s*x is worse because of it, intentionally trying to break down her self esteem and make her feel insecure after she had a literal baby come out of her.
Yeah and she even shared that she ripped badly too. Like she's been through enough. He's so mean.
Didn’t she get pregnant again shortly after her son was born?
@@rcg224EXACTLY
It brings to mind the quote from Look Who's Talking "You trying pushing something something the size of a watermelon, out of an opening the size of a lemon and see how hot you look!"
@@SiesVEyes she did. It was an unexpected pregnancy and sooner than doctors recommended to have another pregnancy due to recovery time. This is why recovery could potentially be prolonged . It takes a while for the muscles to fully tighten back up and heal and be toned again after childbirth, doctors say several weeks but it may still feel different especially when there is tearing. Healing takes time
You left out one of the worst things about Matt 😭😭 he has flat out admitted that he IGNORED his wife the first couple of days after she gave birth - because he was mad that having a family was “interfering with his music career” like?!
barely a "music career" at that 🙂
Haha what music career?
he doesn’t even have a music career. bet he isn’t signed into a record label
i truly love when talentless losers think they can actually enter the music industry successfully
also did he not willingly participate in creating that child like 💀
That girl is constantly upset & crying. That is clearly a sign that something is really wrong with her life.
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I think crying in the videos is for views and drama
@@bigchill9873 it was really realistic though i doubt you could fake that well
@@Yourmummy666 then you are really naive. People on internet do it all the time because it gives them more sympathy and views. Maybe she was upset a bit but she must have known about camera
@@bigchill9873 well she obviously knew it was in her face that's not what I said I said that I think she actually crying and he's filming her I think she's really crying but she obviously knows about the camera
I think one of the most messed up things this guy has said was that his wife "cheated childbirth" by having a c-section. Y'know, a c-section.... where you get cut open while you're awake (edit to add: this being after getting a needle inserted into your spine). Absolutely wild and horrible of him to think let alone say.
That’s absolutely horrific he would say that!
I had 2 "natural" births and honestly my friends that has c sections had it harder! C section moms are the real troopers. Pushing a baby out IMO is easier than major abdominal surgery.
wAIT YOURE AWAKE FOR THOSE???
And she had hernia surgery right after her first birth and wasn’t supposed to get pregnant for a year.. and they got pregnant again within months.. It truly seems like he doesn’t value her life.
@@Anrd0meda Yes! They give the pregnant person an injection (known as a "spinal") to numb everything from the waist down. There's a curtain put up so the person giving birth can't see what's happening, though.
It’s not a “favor” to watch your own kids. That’s just what you signed up for when becoming a parent
Yeah my absent dad called looking after his own kids babysitting 😂
I noticed that language too🚩
@@AlexSebastian-r7fyikes… dads that say this aren’t it
That’s what you sign up for the moment you have sex. Young people need to understand that.
@@DelaneyB.444 yeah and I’m one of his kids that he was absent for lol. Popped up to try and steal money from me though
A “traditional man” wouldn’t even EXPECT his wife to throw him a party for his birthday, let alone father’s day 🤣. A “traditional man” wouldn’t let his water bill not be paid for 7 months. He is so self centered and egotistical.
REAL like how do you not pay the water bill for 7 MONTHS!! Like he had one job lol
Everyone claims they’re a “traditional man/woman” when the only “tradition” they follow is “my husband works & pays the bills while I take care of the kids and clean” that’s not traditional.
@@coquettecockroach47 this blew my mind! how did they not receive ONE bill or reminder?! if they're only receiving electronic mail then he's failing on checking that too.
He had one job can't even do it right
And such a baby. Who tf? 🙄
Currently 7 months pregnant and if my husband said or did even one of these things to me I would be so irreparably hurt. He insisted we celebrate his birthday in the most chill way possible this year, because I was pregnant. He would never film me while I’m crying because wtf. He only ever says positive and appreciative things about my body. Can’t count the number of times he has said “thank you for carrying our child.” This is what a “traditional man” should be; the type of guy who insists on carrying your purse through the Dallas airport for you when your feet hurt lol. Abby, you deserve better
Awwwwee this is so cute 🥰 it makes me even more excited that I want to have a traditional marriage when i get older (wait til marriage to have kids, have biological kids, male works and i take care of kids and house)
I hope your baby is safe and healthy and you're happy!
You're lucky. My daughters father has never once told me that.
1:18 The fact that Abby kept repeating "Don't be mad at me" is a HUGE red flag. In healthy relationships, you don't have to worry about the other person getting mad at you for needing help.
i fully get what you're saying and i do think what you're saying applies here; however consider that people with trauma and anxiety around relationships can have that as it can ve a major fear of setting someone off when growing up or being used to walking on eggshells
@@jaxorisit1447true.. I think he's just always been shitty to her..she's anxious..
I get that. But ptsd can affect relationships. I have ptsd from my past relationship so it effects my current relationship, even if I have no reason to be scared I still am as a defense mechanism
@@jaxorisit1447 I agree. Neurodivergent people can get caught up in wondering if people are mad at them. There are t-shirts aimed at people with ADHD that say “Are you mad at me?”
@@jaxorisit1447 this makes sense til you remember she's never had a past relationship 💀 so it's all trauma from... Him??
This is the type of dude who eventually gets dumped and goes around telling everyone "love is a lie" and "women these days give up on marriage too quickly"
“And now here’s a song about it!”
👨🎤 “Youre so out of pockeeet 🎵”
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And they will for sure tell everyone and anyone he can that she's crazy and not "the women he thought he married"
damn... thats so true
"It came out of nowhere:((("
This is why I roll my eyes when people say “children need fathers!” No, they need *good* fathers. This guy is not one of them.
100% I think of the father of my niece and nephew. That man was not a good father. Best decision my sister ever made was leaving him. It allowed her to find her now husband who is a fantastic father to 2 children who aren't biologically his. Their actual father hasn't made contact or seen the kids for 7 years now in spite of multiple family members trying to make contact with him. It's not what you are, it's who you are that matters.
Children just need their basic needs (including mental stimulation e.g. 📚) and to occasionally be physically restrained for their own safety.
Children are not fancy pieces of chinaware 🫖 meant to just sit there are look pretty. They are supposed to live.
If children were so needy with hyper-specific demands, humanity would have gone extinct in the Stone 🪨 Age.
Exactly! With fathers like that, a child is better off fatherless.
Exactly! I grew up without a father and i grew up perfectly fine. My mother did honestly such a good job filling the two roles.
He could run off and abandon them like 60-70% of father's these days. Smh. The internet is so ridiculously judgemental. This generation needs Jesus so much.
The difference between her "I wasn't attracted to you" and his, is that hers is almost certainly not about looks. Women lose attraction to their partner when they feel disconnected with them, when they're feeling overworked and under appreciated and they don't feel like their concerns and needs are being ignored. She basically said I was miserable in our relationship and it made me not look at you properly and he turned around like "SAME" about his pregnant wife, when he definitely meant he thought she wasn't attractive either before, during or after her pregnancies. Instead of listening to her, he just outright blew all her insecurities out of control.
Plus, he gave her the silent treatment after she gave birth in the hospital and at home - because the birth was inconvenient and he had to put his music career on hold. News flash, noone is interested in listening to your music. One of his songs is literally about regretting his life.
YES!!!!
I think convincing her to have sex right after giving birth to their first child has something to do with it.
@@soccerchick1that is not a good sign
The way she talks so bad about herself whenever she’s breaking down and apologizes to him is SO sad
Makes you wonder if he breaks her down whenever the camera is off...
@@_abby_g thats the vibe i always got from them! especially the video of her on the couch after pain meds or whatever. how quick she is to think its her fault for things that she isnt even doing wrong. and you know if she ever tries to say anything about him being stupid lol like lack of brains for the bill situation hes gonna say some dumb shit.
His tone did not help. Or the body language
made it 1k 🔥
@@_abby_gOh he definitely does. If this is what he feels comfortable with saying in front of millions of people, imagine what he feels comfortable with saying in private.
Abby’s mom hates Matt. He says it because they’ve been together since they were kids. But I think because he has no ambition or drive to work hard.
Didn't her mom move in with them? I thought maybe it was money problems, but now I wonder if it wasn't because Abby was so overwhelmed
That is just sad. It's not going to get any better
@@rosesweetcharlotte like he said he doesn’t take care of his kids, I can imagine her being overwhelmed with 2 kids under 2.
It might just be both she knows matt since she was a kid and knew what type of person he is and clearly wants better for her
But his music!!! 🙄
Matt acts like he is the popular jock who ended up with the sweet nerdy girl and that's why he's entitled to her taking on a more submissive role. But she is literally so much prettier and overall out of his league.
Edit: Just to add, he is also balding. Toxicity karma
it’s ironic cuz he was a theatre kid in high school i’m pretty sure 😭
@@okkelly6207dear god that’s worse he has a complex about being inferior😭 saying this as a former theatre kid some of the WORST guys I’ve met have been theatre dudes
@@piffba probs 1 of those theatre kids with the superiority complex
@@beanman9936 oh god I suppressed those memories, had a guy LITERALLY pitch about directing a play based on women’s mistreatment from their boyfriends because “well I can learn from the women in my cast” despite abusing our classmate (his ex girlfriend) for a year💀 he had both complexes and I fear coming across him everyday
@@piffba as an ex professional theatre kid who went AEA and had multiple in the room auditions for Bway I can confirm I got worse and worse as a human the older I got and the more I performed; there is an epidemic of self-inferiority for theatre men and im not sure we're ready to face it.
My husband and i have traditional roles but i am also disabled. He works sometimes up to 100 hrs a week and still offers to help me at home. I just had a hysterectomy at 32. He took time off and the first 2 weeks he did everything for me! No matter how many times he had to get up, he never complained. He told me how great my stomach and scars looked. When i got emotional, he held me and told how beautiful i am and how im still just as much of a woman and that we can adopt one day if my health gets better. Weve been together since we were 15/16, married at 18/19 together 17 yrs through thick and thin. Dont settle people. Great men are out there!
I love this so much, legit got chills when I read this. ❤ I hope you get relief and a treatment plan to ease your day-to-day symptoms to allow for you two to have a family because you both would make such amazing and caring parents.
Your husband sounds amazing. Unlike Matt. I hope you're one day able to adopt!
Amazing ❤
I love that you shared this comment. I am newly starting to go through what seems like similar health issues as well. My husband and I always been for the most part pretty traditional, where I take care of our home and kids, and he works and takes care of us financially, while helping each other when needed. It has always worked well for our family, so I can’t help but worry to myself a little about how this change will effect everything. While I’m sure it’s not always gonna be easy breezy, reading your comment really helped ease my mind a bit, since there’s always been true love, understanding, and support within our family. Thanks for sharing what I think I needed to hear from someone else. I sincerely hope your health gets better, and everything works out for you and your husband, and you both get what you want out of life.
Matt’s music career might actually go farther if he wrote about things he’s actually experienced.
Tbh I find it weird that the husband was upset that he grilled on his birthday, like my dad loves grilling even if it isn’t a holiday 😭
I think part of the problem is that he is used to sharing Father's Day and doesn't like it. Which is fair, but it's all the other stuff
ong, my birthday I made dinner because I know no one would make it the way I want. I don’t expect people to do it for me either cuz im an adult?? like this is quite entitled
Same
He's just a brat. He would have found something wrong with anything, I'm sure.
@@rosesweetcharlotte especially since there was an actual child coming 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ he should have been excited but I guess it was a bummer 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️. My cousin had his first child born on Father's Day in 2022, I and the rest of the family were so happy, it was a big deal ❤😂 and I haven't forgotten about it since, so cute. But some people are bummed out 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
the fact she is so defensive about it shows that she knows everyone is right.. he is a horrible husband.
Exactly what I was thinking
Been there, it’s rough. There’s not much else you can do to keep your family together. Can’t force him to be a Man and if you leave it feels like you’re the one messing up your children’s lives. For me, I thought it would get better but it got worse with the years until he left me for his side pieces
Weird that we also got married young due to religion
He is. But she isn't great either. They're both arrogant and insufferable.
@@MavonEastshe is in a trauma bond
@@Lemana28021989 It's possible to be a victim and also not be a good person.
The way she says, "I grew your baby everyday" and he immediately goes "but fathers day and my birthday were the same exact day--" AS IF THAT'S MORE IMPORTANT/MORE DIFFICULT THAN HIS WIFE LITERALLY GROWING HIS CHILD
THAT IRKED ME TOO!! as if him having to not have a celebration up to his own standards for ONE YEAR is on par with dealing with the absolute nightmare that pregnancy can be
I truly don't get it. BOTH holidays are for him! He just MUST have two whole days where he's told he's a special boy? Lmao! So embarrassing.
I mean…. Our bodies naturally do it but I get what you mean.
@beanybabyrabie naturally does not constitute for the many hardships of child birth. It completely changes your body and is a very long and painful process.
Factss
“Don’t touch me without talking to me first” was an exact phrase I used after my ex SA me. I wouldn’t be surprised if he feels entitled to her body… 😔
🙄 this is taking it a bit too far. She had a HERNIA removed and was on anesthesia. If that was me I’d be hyper aware of not being touched as well. How you went from that to he feels entitled to her body (plus 170 people in agreement) feels like a witch hunt
I think she said "don't touch anything without talking to me first" but if she did say that I would agree with you
@@ChessieChessstill gross regardless
Nah that’s insane to imply
"all he has to do is be a good husband"
Truly the hardest story quest imaginable
It doesn't feel right to see one of your comments before it has blown up
you put the guacamole song in my head
for some men, I guess it is ??? 💀
i literally never liked him. i remember watching their videos and just thinking about how fake it is, and all the comments were “omg matt is husband goals!!” like no, hon. all of this is staged and fake. the camera wasn’t there on coincidence. he set up the camera, hit record so he could play the FACADE of a good husband to look good to an audience. he once filmed himself cleaning up abby’s vomit, and everyone in the comments was praising him. like, wtf??? why would he whip out a camera and record himself filming his wife’s vomit instead of just CLEANING IT UP in the first place???
But but but how is he supposed to be a husband when he wants to siiiiing 😂😂 singers never have families lmao
You know what I noticed too? The way she acted when she was coming off the
Anesthesia, constantly saying “ please don’t be mad at me, please be nice to me”, over & over again. . . How the hell does he treat her, that in her scrambled mind, she still has to ask him to treat her kindly? Idk. It was a huge red flag for me. Like , clearly she’s asking him to be kind for a reason. 😳
True
Cause his baseline is acting like a prick all the time
i noticed this too!!!!! i immediately was like why is she saying that to him….?
I understand what you mean, but this is just because of her personality. I am such a person, too. I've had a GREAT relationship with a guy who treated me very good and respected me and we loved eachother genuinely. And I just know that I am a person who whines a lot when in pain. So I always excused myself and said exactly those words, because being the husband in this situation needs a LOT of patience. You are trying your best to help and wifey is telling you, you are doing it wrong. And she knows how this will hurt him, helping and getting this response, so she tells him. I would say, this is good communication. And the excuses are normal for people who are emotionally sensitive. Cause they know that they'd be hurt if they were the other person. So stop hating. There are people who have a different background or who are more emotional and therefore act different than you would.
@@rudymoody that ain't what's going down and you know it
“Don’t be fooled by me taking care of my son” *bro what* how are you just gonna casually drop the fact that you don’t take care of your baby and then not expect backlash
And then she calls him an involved and good father
Exactly 💀💀 and what's worse is dad's like this will do the absolute bare minimum and still expect to get praise for *checks notes* taking care of a child they helped make..huh
How did you make the text smaller
Edit: I spelled it wrong 🤦♀️
@@kesia872 my dad right now feels like my opps every other day, but I know he was involved when I was a baby. Not only was I told, I actually saw pictures 😅 and we are African, It's actually normal that in 2001, a Nigerian dad hardly held his baby, not like the millennial parents trying to change that, but my dad was even the one at home with me, Mom was working in a bank at the time
@tamiausten873 that's different from framing it as "this is my wife's duty, I'm just doing it as a favor to her." Being involved isn't just holding your baby, and I'm glad your dad was involved in your life. We need parents/parental figures to be involved in how children are raised. These two are mostly influencers, and most of the influence came from her. He's a musician who ignored his wife after she gave birth because he felt having a family was in the way of his music.
They should’ve never went viral and famous after that first video. She is CLEARLY suffering from trauma from an abusive relationship, and the fact that he’s the only partner she’s ever had… it’s the large amount of apologies. The having to be aggressive to actually get him to listen and get help, but then having to apologize to avoid the aggression on the other end. The emotional monitoring on her end, making sure she’s not too rude or ungrateful (possibly out of fear). The making sure he’s not mad at her, and begging him not to be mad. And literally saying “don’t touch anything without talking to me first”!! I mean come on… nothing about that is sweet and adorable. It all appears to be underlying trauma.
When I finally got into a healthy relationship I apologized so often he asked me to stop saying it. It was driving him crazy when I was constantly apologizing for any and everything regardless if it’s not my fault.
That poor girl is so brainwashed.
This is emotional abuse.
It is!!!
Yep, she's with him because she is unaware she can get a FAR better partner.
@@carnevalmefisto it's not about just him,.it's her tooo
@@carnevalmefistoshe’s been with him since she was like 14. So she’s not been with anyone else, is married and has 2 kids. It’s all so rushed she wasn’t able to process what was going on
@@rav0nnAgree
The fact that Abby is literally his only partner ever and he wrote a song about toxic exes. 💀💀💀
WHATTTTT
Whaaat??!! What a loser 😂😂💀 (not the only having one partner, it's the faking a past that's ridiculous 😂😂)
you can have a wild imagination
what’s his song called?
Lmaoooooo fr
Matt is absolutely the type of person to have a "birthday week" and expect everyone around him to drop everything and celebrate him.
Reminds me of some people back in school 😂
More like a birthday month
he def looks like he would cheat during a bachelors party
@@undreyuhh omg 💀
@@undreyuhhREAL
Basically he’s gaslit her into thinking he’s not as “good” at cleaning and taking care of the kids as she is. It’s weaponized ignorance, and it’s disgusting.
Malicious complying.
This is the guy who said he gave his wife the silent treatment after she gave birth because he felt resentful about their baby. Like truly an awful father and husband.
100% true! Weirdo!
I did that to when my brother was born.
I was two years old. I gave up ignoring my mother and brother after about 5 hours anyway
@@BirdEdits_xbc you were two, this man is prolly in his 30’s or somethin, and doesn’t even know how to take care of the house bills💀
@@BirdEdits_xnow imagine having a spouse with the emotional maturity of a two year old? And the two year old got over it before this grown man who apparently fumed for 2 days. Tragic.
@@harvestcheddar0 Exactly. This man acts like a 5 year old instead of his own age
Let's remember, she was pregnant, like, five months after giving birth the first time. She was taking care of the home, working, doing everything while also taking care of one baby while breastfeeding and pregnant with the next. That would be too much for anyone
That sounds like an actual nightmare. I cant fathom myself having a baby, let alone finding out I'm pregnant again only FIVE MONTHS after
She was pregnant FIVE MONTHS AFTER THE FIRST BABY!??!?!?!
And had double hernia surgery shortly after her first birth
And she had a hernia surgery around there as well!!!! He barely did shit!
And he said she let him down for merging Father’s Day and his birthday celebration whilst 8 months pregnant 🤯 “you let me down”
"He pays the bills" is so funny when they literally share an income from their shared social media account.
Hmmm
Lol yeah
They also had a YT short where Matt literally did not pay their bills and their water got turned off
Plus you pay the bills once a month and taking care of the kids and cleaning is every second of the day every day
He means the 15 min a month it takes to go online and sign the Bills. Oooh autopay for things too..wow make that no work.
The IUD horse ride "gift" freaked me tf out because why the hell would he think that going on a horse ride after she got an IUD was a good idea.
Ah man I forgot about that garbage 🗑️
He WHAT
As a licensed therapist, all I will say is that his utter lack of empathy for his beautiful wife/mother of his children is palpable. I’m worried about Abby.
Same, I work in primary care and he sounds like every single practically useless father who comes in and can barely remember their kids’ birthday or allergies or medical conditions or teachers or school or favourite colour or… basically anything but their name. Sometimes we’re lucky if he even remembers the appointment.
@@kentuckyroutezero I know the type very well! It’s so sad to witness.
as an aspiring psychology student, therapist & intuitive empath, same 🥺💗 hugs for abby. i hope every deserving woman like her gets treated with love.
Do you take insurance and do video visits? Because I need a new therapist and I’m married to a man like Matt.
@@aleighb6433 I do! However, you would need to be living in CA, as that is where I’m licensed. I highly recommend getting into therapy if you are married to someone this selfish 🙏🏼
Karma is that hairline.
Every time he’s a trash husband, he loses a hair.
Dead 💀🤣
Omg underrated comment 😂
He's gonna be bald by tomorrow
no logic in your comment, because why he not bald yet?
I was thinking the same thing, the second this dude isn’t hot is when Abby will get a self esteem and leave him
Their podcast feels like I’m watching their marriage counseling and it’s so uncomfortable.
Omg I genuinely can’t unheard that now 😭
That’s why I clicked once and I don’t watch them. Spilling way too much info online is not a good look.
That’s exactly what I thought when listening to it for the first time
More like we are watching a passive aggressive argument. As if we are kids watching our parents fight/
Yes!
the cut from “he pays the bills” to “our water got shut off” had me on the floor 😭😭
if i was violently breaking down, and my man was standing there filming me???? i think i would become violent
I would be a widow that’s for sure
He's always filming Abby's meltdowns and posting it you can hear him laugh too. I feel so bad for the kids.
Ick, I would slap his phone away if that's me
@@ninipanini11 😂
She chose this. HE isn’t a content creator THEY are content creatorS!!!!! It’s how they make money on top of doing AIRBNBS. Smh it’s really a joke how everyone is pretending she’s a victim or abused or something. Y’all crazy Brittany spears crazy but Abby a victim 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 weirdos
He's gonna be that father who wonders why his kids barely talk to him when they're older.... cause they were only close with mom. What a clown 🤡
He’ll also be one of those dads that doesn’t know his kids birthdays, their eye colour and their allergies
You literally just explained my whole life in one sentence😭
@@SincerelyYours_Rebekahexcept people think I'm ungrateful because "at least I have a dad". They don't understand that with fathers like Matt it's better off if you just didn't have 1
@@ojs5988 Factsss
He’s insufferable!
NOT TO MENTION he also gave his wife SILENT TREATMENT for 48 hours AFTER GIVING BIRTH because he was mad at her because they had another child. After all, he was upset that he wouldn't be able to pursue his CAREER as much.
Wait what ?!?!
Are you being serious ?
They had the child together tho. Like he contributed while making of the child. How??? How can you be mad at your wife???
@@bear9295and he also knew she was obviously pregnant for MONTHS prior? Why wait so long to be mad 😭
@@juliannap6878 Kiki Chanel did a long video on them and she shows the video where he talks about this. I recommend watching that. Cooper's video is a good introduction but Kiki shows even more wild shit. 😬
Cooper, you’re such a treasure, I’m so happy that men like you exist. I’m 36 and my son is 15, I used to worry about my son becoming an incel at some point (I believe he’s out of the woods rn), but I’m glad that men your age that love and respect their partners exist and are not afraid of showing it online
17:25 PSA! Breastfeeding burns HUGE amounts of calories, so often women who breastfeed indeed require the same caloric intake as a man who is much larger than them. But instead of spreading useful information, this dude just used it to make some strange point about his wife eating a suspiciously large amount. It shows he didn't bother to learn anything about pregnancy and breastfeeding. Sigh.
true, also ppl can have different metabolisms and hunger levels anyways. overall very weird to be commenting about how much food your wife eats in general ugh
This is so obvious and yet I hadn't even thought about that when Matt was talking about her weight. I've seen other ppl say that they're both a bit clueless about reproduction and contraception in general cause they seemed so shocked they could even get pregnant 5 months after the 1st kid was born (and she also had major surgery in between then??)
I thought the same!!! I lost a ton of weight breast feeding and going on long walks but eating more than I ever had before
That's actually not fully true. I've spoken to two different doctors about this as a breastfeeding person who has struggled with anorexia in the past. You only need an additional 3-500 calories. Which most people eat over 500 calories in a single small meal. If you don't believe me actually measure out the calories at dinner. So you really only need like two extra small snacks. Not to eat 4 meals a day or as much as a man twice your size. I'm only making this comment to help any women who are concerned about packing on weight during breastfeeding.
And in fact, you need even more calories while breastfeeding, compared to the 3rd trimester!!! Crazy!
My husband works 40+ hours every week. I am not employed. I'm nine months pregnant. I have been expected to do *very little* in my household during my pregnancy. I doubt I'll lift a finger around here for at least two weeks after I have the baby, with the exception of breastfeeding which my husband physically could not do for me. Women, please don't think these people are normal and that this is acceptable treatment. It is not. You deserve better.
You sound like me, minus 9 mos pregnant. Happy for you ♥️
you got lucky with your husband! prayers for a safe delivery and a beautiful baby!❤️❤️
Everyone knows we deserve better but where do you find such husbands lol
I have no one because I refuse to deal with a drop kick like this 😅
@@KAKTUS_1991SonMy husband wasn't like this AT ALL when we first met, but he learned! It took a lot of patience.
I had to remind myself that a man-child probably doesn't want to be that way either. There's a reason man-children seem frustrated and immature all the time, humans have innate need to care for themselves and when that need isn't met they throw tantrums, ignore other's issues just like they ignore their own issues (expecting someone else to fix it for them), and act selfishly because that's all they were taught to think about. People (man or woman) are robbed of the skills to cope with life when they're raised in a mysognistic environment. Spending time, patience, and willingness to break free from that is an accomplishment within itself and I commend anyone who puts in the effort to unlearn and relearn those basic life skills. That's their responsibility to grow up and their journey to take. The only reason I was so patient with my husband is because I saw he was willing to accept that responsibility of relearning through his actions. Even if some of those dishes were crusty af in the beginning... 😂
That being said, this dude in the video is too far gone. I would launch myself out a window if I had to teach him how to wipe his own ass.
@@MedicoreMacaroni yeah I mean it comes down to being considerate..
if someone doesn’t respect you there’s no way they’re ‘learning’ how to help out around the house my 11 year old son does almost as much as I do age appropriate and doesn’t complain at all.. reasonings being he will make someone else’s life extremely miserable if he doesn’t step up & I’ve taught him to not settle either.. it goes both ways..
Being this bad of a husband is one thing but showing it is another. Like if this is what they show how bad is he irl 😭
fr like is this the highlights of his kindness
Him also exposing himself as a bad father is worse
exactly. we’re only seeing bits and pieces. imagine how much worse he is behind doors.
Yeah he can’t even lie enough to convince the internet he has redeeming qualities
it gotta be worse, poor her
My fiancé and I met when we were in high school and are due to get married in December, 4 days after our 10 year anniversary. Similar to Matt and Abby, we were each others first and only kiss and yet he still worships the ground I walk on 10 years later! Watching men like this makes me so grateful for him because I definitely don't realise how good I have it. I've never been pregnant or had a child but my weight was a big problem and I yoyo a lot (like by 100lbs, not just a little bit) and he never made me feel less attractive when I was heavier and still told me I was beautiful every day. I hope Abby can find someone like that.
may I ask you what does "I yoyo a lot" mean? I've been learning English for a long time, but haven't heard that phrase before. Does it mean your weight fluctuates?
@@АннаШироких-х4ф yes, its just a another term for fluctuating! :)
@@АннаШироких-х4ф yes thats what it means!
"I yo-yo a lot" would probably mean their weight fluctuates between two extremes, like 120-220 lbs.
One thing I noticed is how it’s always Matt filming Abby in these incredibly personal and vulnerable moments, never the other way round. He always brings up the most degrading topics to make her feel bad. There was no need to comment on how she ate the same amount as him, there’s no need to comment and say sex feels different after she’s had two kids. It’s all made deliberately to degrade her and beat her down until she has little self worth.
Typical narcissist trying to break someone down who is confident and beautiful.
I just commented same,he enjoys to record her in her most vulnerable moments,when she sick,vomits,after surgery,what is wrong with him,leave a wife to rest,why shoving camera in her face while she vomits🤬🤬🤬🤬
I remember a video where Abby threw up for some reason and he proceeded to set up his tripod on the floor to film himself cleaning it up like what 💀💀💀
The fact that she is with him and defends him when he’s called out is indicative that she already has very low self-worth.
@@evat514 this. She’s never had anyone else so thinks this is normal. She’s been manipulated into defending him even if she knows deep down that it’s not exactly right
wouldn’t his birthday being on father’s day just make it more of his day? why is he crying about that 😭
I think it's because it means he only gets one day of the year being about him instead of 2 😅
I will say in his defense, my dad’s birthday tends to fall on or within days of Father’s Day. He’s almost always been jipped into combo presents (one present for both). It’s kinda like the people who’s born so close to Christmas not getting birthday presents because Christmas is 2 days later so they get a combo birthday/Christmas present.
that is exactly what i am thinking smh
My moms birthday and Mother’s Day are within a week and she somehow has never complained it’s crazy
@@krugel17I am one of those Christmas people but I never complain! There is no need to imo. It’s an unchangeable thing and I am accepting of the fact that most are stressing about holiday shopping and celebrations. ♥️ I think people get a little too weird about birthdays anyways lol
Lets not forget him storming out of her delivery room to go get food when he got pissed off during their lactation consultation. Hes absolute trash
What did he get pissed off about?
He's pathetic.
@@Kimmie9553”she was starving the baby” she was just struggling to lactate… cause you know- it’s literally biological - it’s not like babies even need that much milk upon birth, but he essentially just wouldn’t let her be a mom then stonewalled her for days because a baby was going to disrupt his “music career” that doesn’t even exist
@@beccaquesnel2806 that's crazy 😧
WHATTTTT
I just found film cooper’s channel and have been watching quite a bit of videos this week. You sound like a really sincere man, that a lot of other men in this world could benefit from hearing(if they choose to). Congratulations to you and Sophia, it sounds like the two of you are lucky to have found each other, and I wish you guys the best!
what’s insane is that in the video where she’s on anesthesia, she’s constantly saying “you’re mad at me” as if that’s the expectation. how often does he have to be mad at her where she can expect that under anesthesia, when you’re typically being your most simple version of yourself???
Someone else pointed that out and I can't unsee it. She is afraid and that has to come from somewhere.
Some people have traumas and no matter how nice you can be to them, they will still fear rejection, it doesn't prove anything
OK I totally see what you’re saying, but I would be that way no matter what, because of my past
Yeah but she also seems very needy and whiny why no one talks about that? Everyone wants to just go all on the guy but she is very clingy and consyanly needs validation, I have seen their vid3os to say she asks him questions wants thectruth and when she gets it does not like it@carlycrays2831
Yeah, I absolutely noticed that. It was really freaking sad...and telling.
Let's not forget, when he booked a horse riding lesson, the SAME DAY, Abby was getting her IUD put in, and refused to cancel it.
WHAT?damn
Oh god I remember that...that was fucking awful
Are these stories real? I almost can’t believe this person exists.
@Alixir1228 I think she just didn't want Matt to do what he did when she gave birth to their second, which was the silent treatment during the most vulnerable times. Whenever they post her breakdowns, she always says to Matt, "don't get mad at me." I get your point, she chose to go and to not baby her. But she seems too much of a people pleaser and doesn't want Matt to be mad at her. It is scary sometimes when the one person she chose to spend the rest of her life can get mad over a simple no.
@@JewelO3411I sometimes thank my fiancé for not getting mad at me when I express certain emotions.
it’s due to childhood trauma in my case.
My fiancé has NEVER gotten mad at me for expressing myself or abused my trust.
But I am afraid to think what would have happened if a controller / abuser had gotten his claws into me when I was younger. I was so vulnerable.
Abbey might be in a similar situation. Yes, she is an adult and has the right to make choices. But the reality is sometimes different for people in controlling relationships.
FINALLY someone is talking about him. His attitude toward his wife has always made me so uncomfortable and made me unfollow them initially. Him posting his music to monetize his family really disgusts me.
My exact thought
I mean other TH-camrs have too
So many problems here. So much dysfunction
Kiki Chanel did a good video on this wild ride a couple of weeks ago! So insane!!
Yeah idk where you've been cuz like every youtuber has made a video about them in the last few weeks
One of the worst parts is the differences between platforms. Tiktok and instagram clearly hate matt but all the videos on youtube I've seen are supporting matt and saying "we love to see a guy treatng his wife well!" "We need more guys like you" "keep going man you're great!" And stuff
Its so sad honestly
I want Abby to divorce him and find a new man that’s over 6 foot who never makes her feel insecure about herself, but he constantly makes Matt feel insignificant just by existing.
How tall is Matt? 😂
He's 5'7" completely Napoleon syndrome. The poor girl always looks like she's crying or wanting to cry. At any given moment she looks like shes on the verge of crying. @@Anna.T.
@valatrix711completely Napoleon syndrome 😂 he's 5'7" the exact same height of Napoleon.
@@laffin_out_loudnapoleon syndrome is such a perfect way to describe him 😭
@@laffin_out_loud he always looked so tall next to Abby😭😭 how short is Abby then
whenever abbys crying and matts fliming, it feels like a parent shoving a camera in front of their kid crying, exploiting them. it actually icks me out
It reminds me of Onision....another infamously bad father/boyfriend/husband
@@Iblamethebarrels can you explain who that is? i’ve never heard of him
@@augustine-17 you don't want to know trust me. just know he's a predator.
at least abby can consent to this. a child can't.
@@dayan5454can she though? We don't know that for sure.
no joke my friend saw them at disney and matt was ignoring abby while she was trying to eat dinner and wouldn’t help her at all with their baby😭
God, why not just hire a nanny for the trip? But nope, he would complain about that too
@@rosesweetcharlottefacts!
Reminder that this comment could be lying before you take this as fact
@@rosesweetcharlotte”Abby you’re a not SPENDING TIME WITH THE KID YOU NEED TO BRING HIM OUT INTO THE WORLD AND TAKE CARE OF HIM WHAT IF THE BABYSITTER KIDNAPS HIM???????” And she’s just caught in this idiotic man crossfire.
It literally feels like he's her kid too.
What Abby spoke while on anesthesia shows that matt makes her feel subconsciously behind the camera. Sad she goes through the enormous amount of insecurity because of her husband.
Him recording every single bad moment she has just to convince people he’s “sweet” really irks me. It’s like he’s being defensive in a way.
He’s not even sweet to her when she’s having bad days. Even while acting he doesn’t do a good job at being supportive or thinking of her first for once…
Textbook abuser move actually. Trying to show he's the normal one. When you have no idea what his behavior is like behind the scenes.
Imagine if she recorded him lmao he would be soooo pissed
Every time I see a video of her emotionally breaking down and crying, I wish I knew where they lived just so I could go yell "PUT THE DANG PHONE DOWN AND TAKE CARE OF YOUR WIFE PROPERLY!!!😡" at him. Seriously, since when is it ok to film your partner like that instead of comforting them PRIVATELY?!
I thought he did it for people to think she’s whiny and spoiled because she is very emotional, at first , I thought she was the problem.
The victim will ALWAYS try to protect and make excuses for the abuser
ALWAYS. And this is coming from someone that experienced this exact thing for several years.
what about if she actually belives in what she is saying though??
@@Bella-q9ji think she does believe that matt is really being a good husband and father other wise she wouldn’t defend and apologize for him but u think matts probably manipulating her to think that way
Oh god. He is not an abuser. You people are fckn nuts
i dont think that matt is considerable an abuser hes just a jerk
This “man” don’t wanna be a husband and a father, he just wanted a wife and a child to claim. This guy sucks
Not even sure about the latter, I think he just wanted to kiss/bang someone and sadly he apparently needed to get married to do so.
He just wants to potray an image that he is such a good husband and father. His image is all he cares about. Typical covert narcissist.
Exactly. He uses them as trophies.
@@PreMal2023Agreed
She said that he takes care of bills but he has admitted to not paying them for 7 months before. Then complained when they piled up.
@filmcooper can i PLEASE point out what an amazing point you made at 4:32. i grew up in a situation where my dad worked all the time, and my mum looked after us. he didn’t let her have a job (it’s complicated but that’s the summary) and he’s still in a place where he feels that everything is HIS - he doesn’t think half belongs to his wife. it was just rlly nice to see someone calling out that underhanded behaviour for what it is - control and abuse
Wanting to have sex is the worst reason to get married.
So outta pocket but true 😭👍
Nah, some people have values and respect their bodies.
@@beanybabyrabie You're aren't exactly respecting your body if you married someone you barely know just to have sex with that person that you barely know.
@@beanybabyrabie I think you misunderstood the comment, the reason you get married is because you love that person and want to spend your life with them. To do it because of hormones is crazy.
@@beanybabyrabieI think you misunderstood the comment, the reason you get married is because you love that person and want to spend your life with them. To do it because of hormones is crazy.
The way he’s ALWAYS talking over her/interrupting her is so freaking aggravating
OMG IT GIVES ME THE FRIGGIN ICK WHENEVER HE DOES THAT BECAUSE IT'S LEGIT SO ANNOYING
Ya he talks over her... reminds me of female friend i used to have.. She was so self centered.i have met so many self centered individuals and yes exactly like matt
Yea I noticed that aswel , so rude
It literally irks me soooo bad
This is what happens when basically children get married. He went straight from being a spoiled child to being a spoiled man-child. It is so hard to watch him being borderline mentally abusive. I have been married for 30 years, and my husband tries never to tear me down. We also try really hard to always put up a united front.
Ehhh I think it's more their culture that is the problem.
My husband and I have lived together since we were 18 and he has always taken care of his own things
@@UlexiteTVStoneLexiteI don’t know how old they are. My husband and I have been together since we were 18 and I don’t think we’re much older (we’re early 30s). my husband watched this video over my shoulder and couldn’t stand this guy.
@@katiekuchen9694 I am pretty sure they are in their 20s still. My husband and I are a little older then you guys are, mid 30s. My husband never acted like that guy is.
Agreed. They’re both very mentally immature. They are both in the “kids that got married” phase and haven’t yet matured past that.
They’re mid 20s, but they’ve been together for like 10 years at this point. They come from incredibly conservative families and are all each other knows. Shes defending him and idk that she really understands the difference between her husband and an actual good husband.
I am a stay at home mom, but my husband comes home from work every day and takes care of the children and the house WITH me, not as a favour. Bc it’s his house and his kids too. People like Matt make me sick
They should be boycotting Father’s Day because Matt self admittedly doesn’t even take care of the child he helped create
Also women’s calves are technically supposed to be bigger naturally than men’s naturally
He barely helped create the child either 😬, all he did was 🥜, AND she probably didn't even enjoy it knowing how lazy and self centered he is.
He also spent like ten minutes complaining about the fact that he had to celebrate Father’s Day and his birthday on the same day most years and how it’s “unfair” on their podcast I spent that entire clip thinking did your dad ever throw a fit that they had to celebrate you on his day? AND THEN MATT MENTIONED HIS DAD DIDNT CARE
@@chloenicole42 Wasn't he even upset about it when he wasn't even a dad yet?
@@Mimi-sg6fe YEP
Her thinking she didn't have to worry about the bills and then realizing she couldn't rely on him for it was craaazzzzyyy 💀
She was thinking she had a husband but she is actually alone in this relationship.
@@plamenapetrova9672 lmao yes she does EVERYTHING herself😭
@@NamesAida.idk man I fell people are projecting.
I never follow these guys as I don’t even use TikTok. Might have seen there TH-cam shorts one or two randomly.
But you can’t really judge a relationship from few seconds of TikTok.
But at the same time even I don’t like people who flim person life for views then actually living it
it was the realization on her face…
The fact that he made her feel bad about her postpartum body right after having the kid!
"They said it would go back to normal, but it hasn't."
Dude, you have to give it time! It can take years for your parts to heal. She just gave you a child, and you're upset that she didn't return to "normal" overnight? He's gross!
She asked is not like he brought it upb,shes always asking questions and gets mad at the answers
Talk about a trainwreck 😮😮😮
@@admar6934but there’s a way to answer that’s not awful. Years ago Kourtney Kardashian asked Scott Disick the same question, he by no means was a great partner but his answer was something along the lines of “it’s basically the same and I’d do anything to get back in there you’re still the hottest woman alive to me”. That’s the way you answer the question
@@admar6934 that's the problem with these people. They want to seem open, like they communicate but definitely this is going to crash. It may not happen that soon but it's not going to be good or cute for long. She definitely sees videos like this dissecting their content/marriage and truth hurts
That's how you know someone doesn't love you. My kids Dad made comments about me being chunky and I was already at a lower weight than before I got pregnant at 110 pounds and I was the healthiest I've ever been. It really pissed me off
My mom’s anniversary, birthday, and Mother’s Day are right next to each other and my dad’s birthday is right next to thanksgiving. They give each other extra gifts for the events and don’t guilt trip each other or force each other to celebrate months later. They also don’t force big parties or anything and never ask for the extra gifts they get. Matt has nothing to complain about and could handle his problem like my parents and many others.
He 100% filmed that water bill video so they couldn’t argue freely
Absolutely agree!
Yes
yep
if he isnt already, he is absolutely going to cheat on that woman
And then he’s going to say “well she wasn’t taking care of my sexual needs🥺” like Abby doesn’t take care of EVERYTHING without any relaxation.
I heard a psychologist say that men who have a damaged or spoiled relationship with their mom seek out women who will mother them. Then after they feel secure (sometimes post honey moon stage, marriage, baby, etc..) they cheat on the mother figure/gf/wife with the woman they actually want.
@@daniellewilliams2831If this happens I hope she divorces but it's worrying because they have literally said "Divorce isn't an option for us" he was the one majorly saying its worrying people that say that end up on the news
@@daniellewilliams2831men with narcissistic personality disorder often cheat when their wife has a young baby because they are pathologically jealous of the baby abd resent the fact that they aren't the centre of their wife's attention
@@daniellewilliams2831 idk I feel like it's more nuanced than that. men also cheat because their friends won't judge them for it or actively support it, etc etc etc. some of them had tough moms but enabler dads.
She says she is not good with finances, insurance, cars, etc because that's what she was made to believe.
True.. notice at the point when he hasn't paid the water bill, she says autopay could have solved it.. ideally she also seemed to have managed fine doing it before him.she was just happy he picked something he can do..pay bills and then screwed that up.. and all you hear are his excuses...
This is also all stuff you have to just figure out sometime. Meaning googel, make calls, done. Men also learn it...
Yeah isn’t it like giving the company your credit card/debit card pressing the autopay switch and pressing submit. Like every month make sure you’re making enough money. Meaning he’s made it out to be really difficult and it’s not. In others words kinda manipulating
Im pretty sure she would have paid the electric bill at least once though. Therefore, she'd be better than Matt
Exactly
i know people nowadays throw around the term "narcissist" so often, but matt acts exactly like my narcissistic ex to the point where it's honestly scary. the way he talks to her makes me feel sick. the constant demeaning, the backhanded comments/compliments, the gaslighting, the way EVERYTHING has to be about him no matter what, avoiding accountability at every turn, the entitled behavior, even the fact he constantly interrupts her and never ever listens. if this is how he treats her when the cameras are rolling I can't even imagine what she has to deal with in private. ever since I've found her content I've prayed for her to see the light and leave him with the kids, he is so awful. it makes me even more sad because they're high school sweethearts, she probably thinks this is what a healthy relationship looks like. i know I did. poor girl :(
can we just talk about the fact that if their bill is on auto pay, he doesn’t even have to go in and click “submit payment” because that’s what auto pay is for 💀💀
I remember him forgetting to pay their water for months and had a bill in the thousand. So he can’t even do that properly.
They are laughing all the way to the bank making scripted videos . Seeing how people are so outraged over everything the couple are banking while one pretends to be a unloving jerk and the wife pretends to be a gullible innocent angel . Their rage videos are making the couple very wealthy. 😂😂😂😂
@@annaverano5843yes! This! I am floored by how many people have rage bait videos. I was shocked that among "content creators" it is actually a thing.
I do understand it, it's a super crowded ecosystem and they must have engagement to continue to compete.
You have to work for money to pay a bill and a mortage, little lady.
yup
"My husband takes care of the finances, car insurance,..." oh right because that takes up a full day of work, 7 days a week, equal to managing a whole house hold, taking care of your kids and putting food on the table 3x a day 🙄 jeez does she really believe that herself or is she trying to put up a façade?
I kinda feel so bad for her though, even though i just want to shake her and get her to wake up to herself she seems like she's in denial. She's trying every possible way to make everyone see all the 'helpful' things he does to stick to everyone's mind just enough so it will tip the scale so we don't see the bad. I think she's just use to doing that herself in alot of situations and now she's doing it in her relationship as well.
are you blaming her for her husband’s faults?
Victims of narcissistic abuse try to tell themselves that the narcissist is not so bad and they justify that person’s behavior to themselves. Seems like that’s what Abby is doing.
I mean she did say "business things" but that's super vague.
@@angelh1843 no I'm not blaming her, sorry if you got that vibe from my comment. I'm just wondering if she really believes what she's saying, or if she's trying to make everyone believe that everything is fine.
I did all the cooking, cleaning, child care, grocery shopping, errand running, etc. while also working full time. My husband and I split the bills. Then since I made more, he began giving less. He started giving me $300-$600 a month, and did nothing else. I am so grateful for that, because he taught me that I didn’t need him. In fact, leaving him would save me money, and have one less person to clean up after. Some people don’t realize that they are teaching you how to live without them.
Yeesh, sounds like you have another child on ur hand. Dump himmmmm
Haha awesome 👍
Hope you ditch that roommate soon and find an ACTUAL husband that respects and cares for you ❤
Good for you girl! You deserve a real man!
Good for you!! ❤
This is my first time watching your channel and I just gotta say your decor is absolutely incredible!!! The plants, the lighting, the art, I am obsessed
She's apologizing the whole time and that's when you know he's a BAD husband
Yeah 100% bc this year for Father's Day my son was only 7 days old. My dad bought my partner a cheesy Father's Day shirt. His mom sent him $$ I didn't do anything. I apologized and he immediately said - why are you apologizing, you just had our son. And he says that any time I'm apologizing about things like this.
And more importantly that she’s legit a good woman
@@im0just aw that’s so nice of him
In context of everything else, it’s absolutely a red flag.
But to play devils advocate.. I do this with my fiancé. I was in an emotionally abusive relationship for 7 years from the age of 19 and have a bit of baggage and anxiety about ‘upsetting’ him. He is incredible and so loving and supportive. We have an 18m old daughter and he is a true PARTNER in every sense of the word.
But I have issues and it’s something he is very understanding about and he is helping me work on. It’s getting better everyday but I still have moments of weakness, especially when I’m feeling hormonal or vulnerable.
He didn’t just forget to pay the water bill… he neglected to pay her credit card bill and it destroyed her credit
That’s literally economic abuse, it will make her life way more difficult WHEN they divorce
@@Martina-evayup wouldn’t doubt it was done on purpose
@madamemelone4947it was his responsibility to manage their credit cards, and there was one of her cards with a small recurring charge on it that he forgot about, so it destroyed her credit and they had to use his exclusively after that. Fires me up whenever I remember that
oh HELL no
How the crap do you not pay a bill for 7 months? They've got to be getting notified by email and mail. Is he in charge of checking those too? Is that why it got "overlooked" for that long? Blows my mind.
i threw a surprise birthday for my boyfriend, invited a few of our friends. it was nothing big or fancy. But after the reveal, he pulled me aside into an empty room, hugged me and cried into my shoulder. He was so happy because he had spent his last birthday completely alone (i hadn't met him yet). I am so glad that i have someone who is grateful for the little things. my fella matt needs to work on some things
Happy for you ❤❤❤❤❤
U guys r so cute ☹❤❤
That's adorable
Aww, that's so sweet ❤️😍
The way you use dude in the vid to lift yourself up telling. There's no other reason for you to share that story.
I don’t really watch these people other than the clips of them in other peoples’ videos (like this) but my heart breaks for her every time. She’s so cute and she seems so sweet and genuine. She could do so much better, she DESERVES so much better ☹️
He’s the type to give silent treatments, and go on “Boys Only” trips or nights out regardless of how his wife feels. If she does somehow convinces him to stay home, he would throw it in her face and make her feel like crap about it. Pathetic.
He gave her the silent treatment for 48 hours after birth. He was mad the new kid would ruin his music career. What career!? That would've been enough for me to throw him out.
Matt the type of guy to tell a father "are you babysitting your kid today?"
He’s like s child emotionally. Only children are constantly thinking about themselves
And don't forget on mothers day he'll find a generic candle a cup that says she's a great mother and then make her plan out what they'll do to celebrate her day, never lift a finger to give her some time to relax and have some time to herself and pat himself on the back.
@@DawnKellyMedia Legit what music career. His "music career" is barely doing crap.
He’s definitely trying to humiliate his wife by making her feel insecure and guilty on camera, recording and posting her emotional breakdown about feeling lazy and bloated, and passive aggressively shaming her for her body. All these things together in a pattern of behavior shows abuse
Agreed, he is so awful
Even their podcast pfp (it’s somewhere in this vid) has her looking distressed and him looking “great”
I honestly think he’s too immature to even realize how his words impact her. I don’t think he’s doing it on purpose. That’s just his maturity level at this time.
Seriously. Very abusive. Clearly has a massive ego, meanwhile he's balding and still making dollar tree version Disney channel pop music videos to upload to tiktok. He really would have NOTHING without her.
What the heck?! He ALWAYS throws compliments on her body! „whoah you‘re so ripped“ „you look soo good, Abby“….
I could count a ton of videos in which he is so sweet. I literally don‘t understand why people comment on other people‘s lives, if they don‘t even know their whole content. Lame DUDES
He said after vag deliver her vag was not the same n sex was better before, May be that's y she opted for c section for 2nd baby n then the while time he was like, "do u feel like u cheated in pregnancy by not having natural birth"
Abby can't win with this man. So gross.
Oh my god he’s horrible
She opted for c section because she had things go really wrong with Griffin’s birth and the doctors recommended a c section to avoid similar issues with August
I mean didn't she ask him if it was the same? Like idk I feel like these are questions people do have, I rather have someone tell the truth or their thoughts then lie.
@@cheyswags He says it in such a disgusting way though. Like a disrespectful snotty child.
Actually she had a c-section because with her first they had a shoulder dystocia, aka, the baby was so big his shoulders got stuck in her pelvis. I had the same thing happen with my 2nd & will now most likely be pushed into a c-section too.
Telling a woman who just gave birth you feel “empty inside” is ironically cruel
"I failed you im so sorry" i feel so bad for that woman.
AND HE DIDNT DENY IT?!?
@@iiHoneyyyLITERALLY HE DIDN’T THAT ACTUALLY MADE ME SO MAD
The fact Matt doesn’t know what postpartum depression is, is insane. 💀
@!NOTGLITTER Why are you surprised by that....most doctors don't know about it either😷
Exactly..but he was the one, who was depressed and sad because the changes with child...he is egoistic narcissist psychopath
I don’t think it’s that he doesn’t know what it is, he just chooses not to acknowledge it. 🤦🏼♀️😂
Her little face though when he sang about how unfulfilled his life is 💔 her heart broke right there in front of us
i feel like couples content on tiktok can range from "awww couple goals" to "honey...remind me why you married them again?"
Every single day I say, "Omg I'm so blessed ... I'm so blessed to have my husband. Omg."
To me, the only legit funny and non-toxic tik tok couples are Jack and Meghan, who just post silly videos, Deven and Eileen (basically the same thing, they just post silly videos and sometimes talk about their relationship on their youtube and it's nothing like what Matt and Abby talk about), and Uyen Ninh and her german fiance and they're incredibly wholesome and sweet, and it's mostly Uyen anyway because she respects her partner's privacy by never showing his face, and she doesn't show her relatives faces either. I enjoy all of these couples because whenever I watch them, I can see the genuine love and respect they have for each other, and you see them actually having fun, and it's not even forced like so many others. It makes me smile. Matt and Abby just make me fucking angry. Mostly for Abby. .___.
@@zombieedrea Yes meghan and jack are one fvrt couple of mine.
the thing that irks me the most is she takes on the every day responsibilities- things that have to happen every single day- whereas he takes care of the once in a while responsibilities. her jobs are constant; you always need to have dishes done and a kid always needs care. you don’t pay bills every day. you don’t do car maintenance every day. she is on constant duty, he’s not.
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@@nothanks71 exactly. and in failing to do that ONE SIMPLE TASK, he cost her her peace of mind, making her wonder if she has to take on yet another responsibility. so not only is he incompetent, but he’s making her worry more than she needs to about things he claimed “he has covered.”
and the fact that the "once in a while" responsibilities he does have (the bills) he sets up a system where he doesn't even have to do them, essentially letting him do absolutely nothing.
@fruitygals And even that is to much for him to handle
@@scriitleplays right! and her poor peace of mind. i could she see her thoughts about omg who am i with why do i always gotta be captain. she is relied on to do EVERYTHING and she cant even relax thinking about the little things she doesnt have to do because hes gonna come and fuck it up. she gets backlash for her mistakes but he just giggles his makes off like its not his responsibility in his own home to make sure everything is taken care of. she seeems like she takes a lot of pride in making sure everything they need and want and whatever is taken care of while so they can be stress free and just live but he is just there for fun. like wake up dude she should be as care free and happy as you if your life is actually as good and happy as he makes forgetting the water bill for 7 MONTHS seem. like i wouldve been stressing. which i think thats why he wasnt cause he knows shes gonna come in and fix it which she shouldn't have to do. i hate seeing one person take all the negative feelings that come with life in a relationship. she has no one to actually support her.
The fact he accepts her apologies for things she isn’t doing wrong instead of reassuring her speaks volumes about who he is as a person.
Your analysis of him is so on point. Thank you sir. You keep my faith in human men alive. 🙏
Even when he was "helping" her during anesthesia, he sounded annoyed. The way he "comforts" her is so rude sounding.
It sounds passive aggressive, as if if this shit is annoying him but he puts on a good face for the camera.
And after she had miner surgery after Griffin he didn't take care of anything. Didn't even pay the water bill and it got shut off. That's why the inlaws had to move in. Because Matt doesn't do anything!
And the way he put the pillow behind her was so passive aggressive
And she keeps apologizing
I thought I was the only one who noticed that 😭 like he was literally throwing around the pillow and shoving the can in her face and stuff
the amount of shitty husbands cooper talk about is crazy
@SiLLyLiL_GuYThey probably hadn’t been valued before / were gaslit into thinking “oh, yeah, this is normal”
He is calling out the crap. We need to point this crap out
@SiLLyLiL_GuYit really is
He's taking notes on what NOT TO DO
Too bad too many shitty husbands exist.
I honestly don’t get what Abby sees in Matt.. every time he opens his mouth I can’t help but cringe. What grown man complains about Father’s Day being celebrated at the same time as his birthday? Whaaat? I can understand a child or even a teenager.. but a grown man? A father?? Abby really tried hard too. Even though they were both away on vacation she still managed to invite family and friends over to celebrate Matt. She got him a cake.. it’s pathetic honestly. I could never ever be around someone like Matt, let alone marry someone like him. Never.
Its almost like he doesn’t want to be a father (and husband) but doesn’t leave because its easier to stay a manchild
My mums was always has her birthday in the same month as mothers day and my day always has his birthday the same month as fathers day and I have never heard this complaint 😅
Not only did she stay with him, she breeded with him, TWICE 🤮
God forbid they have another kid and that kid is born on his birthday. My bf was born on his mom’s birthday. I’m due with a baby 8/8 and me and his anniversary is like a week or so after, I wouldn’t care if he was born then (well maybe a little cause I don’t wanna be 41 weeks pregnant😂)
Me too! What a big brat!!!!
Like the whole thing of him talking about how sex has changed... women (if they have had education on childbirth which doesn't always happen) know how much pregnancy and childbirth change their body and inevitably change sex. But there is this whole feeling with men that they think we just bounce right back with no changes. If my wife and I were talking about how sex has changed after giving birth I'd say "of course sex has changed because your body has gine through a massive physical and emotional change but it hasn't changed how good it is! It's incredible, and you're incredible! You are so so so beautiful, and you're the mother of my child, I am the luckiest person on earth. Yes, things have changed, but it's the most amazing change of my whole life"