When A Guy Is Hot And Cold Towards You
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 ธ.ค. 2018
- When a guy is hot and cold towards you? In this video, I'm sharing 3 types of the most common hot and cold games guys play on women.
Men Play these games to get more attention from you. To get you to react to push your buttons or just have some fun watching you go crazy because they are a little bored.
For whichever reason he is playing these games it doesn't matter. What matters is your reaction to it. As reacting to these games in a low-value way will actually make a guy to lose some attraction towards you. On the other hand, if you will react to these games in a high value way your attraction in his eyes will increase.
Hot and Cold Games:
1. He sweeps you off your feet and then pulls away or makes you jealous with your friends.
2. He breaks the pattern to make you a bit insecure.
3. Out of the blue, he starts to act cold as an iceberg.
Make sure to watch my video to find why is he behaving like this. And what to do about it?
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Jesus.. I cannot believe how complicated relationships have become.. This is so sad.. It feels like we have to go university just to have a real relationship..
Thats how I feel I hate how it effects my mood. Thank God we have Greta to help us 🙂
Yes that’s pretty much true. Back in the day all you had to be is slightly pretty and you get the guy.
Exactly! I didn't know there was so much psychology to it..
Stop trying so hard please! just learn to stay calm at all times
@@kgotsomashigo4043 If people would stop playing games and learn to be in a relationship Then we can relax and be calm at all times.
It’s not healthy to stay in a relationship with someone who plays these games. Just leave for your own sanity
Or learn how to play better
I agree.
You want a LIFE partner who is serious. This is good for someone you hook up with.
Shandy Rose
Ya, if your partner is still playing head games, manipulation, lies by omission, triangulation, deliberately excluding you, gaslighting, blame shifting, etc etc etc it’s a rigid pattern called
Narcissism. Unfortunately, no amount of love, understanding, patience or game playing can break the pattern. Game over!
Yup
Guys who like to play games are certified players.
They do not intend to but they’re out to break your heart from the very start.
This is seriously every guy I have met since 2016. Listen, I just want a nice guy and a good relationship. No games, no ghosting, no you check off 95% of my boxes and then he fades out. Just a straight up, I like you, you like me. Let's do this.
You say you want a nice guy but that won't last long. And if it does,you'll just be in a boring relationship
Men preffer women who are cold and distant be too warm n they will run away or dump you.
@mike right so we have to play games. Then when we do you guys complain about it.
So tru makes no sense like y I gotta b a bitch fa u to find me interested hella dum Thas like us women liking jerks 🙄
We have to make them yearn for our love, not the other way round.
Kenia Sharpe mtu wa nyumba, 😊
Hobi Water true
😢😢😢😢why is it so hard ?why do guys have to play games when you just being genuine and in your feelings
Testosterone make them do it😏
Because love is a power game. Every time.
Nqobile Bridget Mhlongo it's unfortunate 🙄🙄
Because some girls aren't genuine and in their feelings and try to manipulate as well. Girls do the same but it's done differently and this is how we(guys) weed them out
When a guy is playing hot and cold he's playing games and he's loosing interest, you pull away go hang out with your family or friend.
Wow. Too much work. I already have a full time job. This is why I stay single and have a cat. No games, no drama. 😸
Your existence and followers make me realise we leave in a sick world . Thank you for existing 🙌
It is just so exhausting to deal with such a person.
God imagine if you have to keep a man on his toes to keep it exciting after 5 years or 10 years of marriage your gonna be worn out lol
This is the same for us guys minus the marriage part
Needed this advice today. Going through the Iceberg treatment now. So horrible!
oh nooo x
This works LOL they break so fast like an egg haha!
Just went through the hot & cold game .dont like it and WHY do guys have to play games..Lifes to short for all this BS..
You’re advice is spot on and articulated perfectly.
Great video!!! Thank you Greta!!!
That's great video, Greta! Thank you!
This video should be labeled... How to waste your time on an emotionally unavailable man or a dismissive avoidant man! They need to be in therapy, not a relationship. Women should not have to waste their time on this bs! I feel my wrinkles growing watching this video! Omg! These type of men drive me crazy!! Lol
Thanks for this.
Sadly this type of guys will ghost you at the end my personal experience is this type of guys are emotionally unavailable avoidant. It won’t work please do not waste your time with losers. While you are waiting for them they are busy with someone else. My advice don’t waste time 😢😭😫
I'm losing interest, so basically I'm lukewarm to cold...
Me too. I'm losing interest.
You look like Tay Swift!! Love the channel!!
Ewwwww.
Taylor 🤢
This lady is much prettier.
Kinder eyes too.
Not sneaky like tAyLoRs
So much value in this!
This is really awesome!! Thank you :)
Very good advice lol😉👌
I love your videos and they are helpful
So thankful for channels like this 🙌🏼
aneema chowdhury 😍
Greta, how can I join the high value female group? Also If a guy u just met is super nice and flirty with you in the beginning but the next day he is completely cold and aloof how would u u react to that?
This video actually was helpful
Another brilliant date coach 😃 wish we had these yrs ago Thankyou xx
so basically, let them take the lead and respond accordingly.
💞 thank you.
Absolutely not, do not accept breadcrumbs and do not play it cool. Do not chase either, and do not worry about being perceived as bitchy. One chance at most is enough. Once you have let them know it is not acceptable and they do it again, end it. Do not play the game. Move on.
Jessica Duhon I agree
Gretta you are the best, thank you!!
Thank you
I messed up already. Lmao. But this is great advice 👌🏾
I generally feel like all hope is lost with relationships. I’m thankful for the advice but honestly this is just depressing and reminding me of bad past mistakes.
What about just calling them on it? "So what's with the different mood? Is something wrong?" Let them explain what's going on, including trying to "explain away" the hot & cold...
Coming from a guy,I'll tell you that's a bad idea. It shows you care. You have to be as, cold if not, colder
I've experienced this with a guy. He rejected me and then was interested again and i called him out on it and he made some lame excuse and started acting into me again. Then he's cold again. Wtf I'm done.
Yh just move on
Always lame excuses
Leave
Thank you very much. This is so interesting because, if a guy tries to manipulate me, if he wants to make me insecure, that what will come in marriage? If a guy tries to manipulate me i absolutely loose all my feelings for him. For me, this is not a normal behaviour, something is wrong with him if he tries to make a girl insecure. I guess than he has some issues with Power addiction.
*Hot n Cold by Katy Perry plays*
Amazing!!!!!!!!!! love you!!!!!!!!
I enjoyed watching your video.. very clever! ... precisely!
Thank you
This is true.
That was helpful thank you.
Your advice is too precious. I'm learning alots from your vedio.
thank you verry much I really like you.
your sweet and helpful
I love your videos! What color/brand lipstick, and nail polish are you wearing?
Omg!!! You look like Taylor Swift lol beautiful missy
Your lipstick and nail polish-what is it? :)
Yes mirror his behavior lol👍
Yep he use to text me good Mornin every mornin then abruptly it jus stop SO I stop textin him good Mornin 🤷🏿♀️ and now we longer text good morning o well I’m not putting n more than I’m getting......💋
Greta I love your vids!! I have a question, can being high value change a narcissist?
Betty Carmella it depends is he really a narcissist or you are just behaving doormaty 😅 99% of time it’s just women behaving doormaty and then blaming men for walking all over them...
Thanks Greta! I think it's a little of both!
Why would you want to change a narcissist? You can’t control what others do. Only you
I passed the test.. I love all your videos. Very interesting and educative. Thanks..
I am married woman but this young man in the supermarket keeps flirting with me then he ignores me I don't know why as I am a customer and much older than him lol He must have thyroid disease When he is hot , he has an overactive thyroid When he is cold , he has an under active thyroid I go to another employee now to serve me.
Hot and cold simply destabilizes a person and one must be strong to know it’s happening.
Just happened this thing. We are neighbours. And i had his tshirt, i went to give him back. And he didnt kiss, hug or something like that. And i took my poker face and act everything is ok. I didnt give any hug or kiss just act everything is ok. He does that per week at least one or two times 😂😂😂🙈 but i act super cool because i know and remind myself when he is in his mood he is going to come back. 😂😂
I love herr so muchh ❤❤
Love ya too x
Greta ! How do you know all of this !? I am 30 years old and barely learning this 😣
Same!!
so he really is very busy and goal oriented, but he also lives in another state so the odds of him coming to my city are like once in a blue moon. so i think hes cautious to not lead me on because he knows its just not realistic right now. but hes my dream guy 😢 ive seen him once though and the chemistry was good, but he was definitely holding back. i know the logical thing is to just find someone that can sweep me off my feet and treat me the way i deserve.. but i have a lot of respect for him and hes my type in most ways so its difficult. to put it simply most guys ive dated have been "losers" and i want someone successful, attractive, and has that magnetic feeling about them. just sucks being left on delivered for days on end and when we do text for a minute its very shallow
Just me or did i saw taylor swift
if he don’t send a goodmorning text while he does....should I send first or let him send when he wants ?
I'm taking advice.
How this makes sense to anyone at all :-)
But what if he was really having a bad day
What if he drags to message you, my guy used to text me good morning everyday and sometimes he goes mia. Then he pops up! But I still remain my cool!
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Wow ….. relationships are toooo hard does the head in!!!!!!!!!
This makes sense but it sucks. I hate games. Why did I need to play games to counter act his games and bs ugh
Amanda WingZ you don’t need to play games. You just need to be aware of them and know how to handle them correctly when you see it coming. I personally come across many games in daily life. With people in general. And I feel blessed to have the knowledge of them as that way I’m not manipulated. Don’t be naive learn to be wise 😎
@@GretaBereisaite but if he's having a mood and testing me and how I react isn't it essentially a game if I have to look up what this means, get the answer from you and know now not to react to it?? I mean why cant people just be straight forward and say what they want and feel in the moment. If I'm in a mood and want to be left alone I tell the person. If I'm annoyed by how they are acting I will in return act and feel a bit funny but I will tell them I'm acting this way because of something they did or did not do. By me being blunt and straight forward this could work against me? That's crap. Hate the emotional rollercoaster games
Girls think we play games when we don't text or call now and then sometimes we prefer to meet up with the girl so that we can look at each other in the eyes, talk and get physical and have a great time .id like to give you an advice if you are into a guy and he asks for a date just go even if you are nervous just go he's nervous too ,If you tell him you're busy and he finds out that you're not busy he'll think you are not into him and leave ,gone forever
this also applies to girls. I freaking hate mind games! It´s so immature...where can i find a girl that doesnt do this?? If i give too much attention they leave, if if dont give attention they leave, if im grounded they leave... Girls are crazy!! Not saying all of you but dating in the tinder era sucks... People are always looking for the next one..
No.. we’re not crazy. Just feel her out and act accordingly. Don’t be clingy. Have a life and if you don’t pretend you do. Meet people where they meet you and don’t play hot and cold games… just leave them; or ghost people that play these games.
What if guy doesn’t send any morning text or even good night text?
I have someone I just met and I only hear from him every other day.
It's alot of chit chat then he says, bedtime and it's over.
Gone again.
Back in 48 hours.
Bizarre creatures
What a pretty lady
I left !
I don't like the advice since if both are playing with each other and mirroring their lack of attention but when would it end?..
in the cases mentioned it looks like they both want the other's attention, not the opposite.. so why just not talk about it.. seems like a better, way more effective and healthy way.
This is true ladies. Leave his a$$ on read sometimes. Lol 😂
he will panic 😂
LMBO 🤣🤣🤣
Really I prefer to be alone rather than have this bs
Hi" how you know if the guy is seriously in relationship with you
Because I'd seriously think if he was going hot and cold all the time, he has someone else. And I dont wanna waste time like that.
What if he is always cold when you meet ? We hasn’t seen each other for 4 days & he spent the whole day with his lads. He came round late and was still cold 😔 what to do 😩
Maeby he takes you too much for granted. You should pull back from him. Lets see what he does.
why you look like Taylor Swift?
Wow, you are so fair Greta. I wish I was as fair-skinned as you. ❤️😋
One thing I don’t understand is if men naturally are the pursuers and they love a challenge , they don’t want a woman to put her self on a plate ; why in the world would a man want a woman to chase him ? Makes no sense if like you say a woman chasing a man is a natural turn off for the man.
Exactly
Sometimes I feel as though men are more complicated
Problem is as soon as you pull away the grill the shit out of you ...... Jesus it’s hard work!
😭😭😭😭😭
I hate good Morning Texts it is so senseless😅 this is anoying Just Text if you want to tell something ore ask something
All these tips n u r still single
I like to have a talk to u I have problems with him
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Ladies ignore that crap and move on, don't complicate your life
I know why they play hot and cold, because they so hot looking like brad pitt or jd
😹😹😹
How is Playing for TiT 4 TaT
Helpful ?
Sounds like it’s just trying to
Outplay him, it may work short term but long term is questionable. Open communication is key imho
I am guy don't know how i landed on this video ladies here the thing if he or you like you they don't play game if you see game he is not into you just fucking walk away.....
I respect greta but i straight up disagree with all she said. Children play games. If a man cannot be direct with you then the answer is NOT to start wasting your own time. Its called BLoCK and DELEtE.
Damnnnnnn.. who has time for this nonsense honestly?
MGTOW. Good luck ladies, we are done.
Good. Bye! We won't miss you.
@@SR77736 Of course not.. You've got cats n dildos. MGTOW SAVES LIVES