Is He Playing Games With Me?!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ก.ย. 2024
- Is he playing games with me? Power games men play on women! Pull away power game!
In this video, I'm breaking down for you a story of my client. And a pull away power game that her boyfriend played on her.
PART 1
Hi Greta, I will give you a background story as it is dragging from last Friday now. So my guy is a builder and did not help with the repair in my house, he promised for ages and never did it . So asked him what the fair price would be if I hire someone and he said £100 and not offered to fix it. I posted this in your previous live saying that I will make it hard for him to see me. You said that my thinking was correct, you said to fix it myself and pull away. So I had my conversation about repair with him on Friday at midday. Today is Sunday and he has not reached out since. Do you think is it him playing a power game? To me it very much looks like it..And how do I respond after he contacts me? Because it looks like he pulled away so I didnt even got the chance to do my pull away as suggested by you? What do I do in this situation as we should not show emotion after their pull away. Thank you Greta
PART 2 follow up
Hi Greta, my builder guy has finally got in contact after a week of a power game. You said it was a power game and you were right and I was not sure and I really think you are a genius 😁! I will describe everything as it is quite interesting how the dynamic went. So he called me really late on Sat night but I didn't pick up and he left me a message 'Are you ok?'. When I woke up on Sun I saw the notifications but didnt really read the messages. At 12.00 midday I replied I am ok and he called right away. He pretended everything was normal, that he was busy and this is why he kept quiet. I said 'Don't worry, we all need quiet time. I was so busy myself'. He asked if I got my thing in the kitchen fixed and I said ' Yes, my friend came over and did it for me and he did such a good job'. My boyfriend was surprised and he started saying that he was going to do it for me. I said 'Don't worry about it, it is done'. And then I said that I am just about to finish watching a very interesting thriller movie and I finished the conversation first. After that I went for a nap, I was emotionally exhausted and didn't sleep well the whole week because of his power game and pulling away. After my nap I woke up to a missed call and 5 messages on messenger saying that I don't care about him, I am free to be with somebody else now, how could I let someone else to fix my kitchen and he hopes I enjoyed my time with whoever fixed my kitchen. I could also see I was blocked on messenger as I had notification that I couldn't reply to these messages, so I was blocked on messenger and unfriended on Facebook. This was such an extreme reaction as he really is a very calm guy. I called him right away asking what is going on, he picked up right away and had a tantrum that I don't care about him but I could hear his voice became very soft and loving. He said 'why you didn't call me or messaged me for the whole week'. I said that it is him who stopped talking and I just gave him time. He was furious and so worried that I might not love him anymore. He said he loved me and during this week of not speaking he realised how much he loves me. I told him that I care about him and love him so he was happy. And you know Greta what is interesting.. After trying to put a blame on me that we didn't speak all week, at the end he said 'I know it is my fault we didn't speak. I should have messaged you. I am sorry'. He asked me if I accept his apology and I said 'yes'. Greta you were so right that it was a power game, but it still surprises me that guys would risk their relationships just like that as I was about to send him a message today after your live that it is not working for me. He is back to being a loving boyfriend and already sent me 2 good morning messages 😊.
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My boyfriend did this to me, and I never answered the phone again. ✌🏾✌🏾👋🏾👋🏾
lol
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Omg love this...I used to chase, it's exhausting...I do nothing but sit back and wait for guys to text or call...it really does prove whose interested and whose not. I wish I knew this years ago.
exactly
LOL him losing it had me weak! 😂
Me too. And he definitely didn't deserve to be taken back so easily. He should have felt her anxiety for at least a weak. Or forever.
He didn't exactly showed her love, but cockiness, interest, weakness. He didn't really care for her to be good.
When a man loves you he will demand to be the one fixing everything!
She is too sweet. I would not even call him after his childish tantrum of blocking me and unfriending me. I wish if she went completely radio silent on him. I did similar tactics and his I love yous was just cheap words, he had to show in action his so-called love for 3 month before I entertained taking him back.
Corrrrect!!!
I started to watch you videos since Christmas and it changed around the relationship ..for real..Thanks so much .
so happy to hear that
My husband and i had misundertanding and he said he will not go home tomorrow and then, and i said ok do it now.. but he stays ..(fyi only )he works at night and usually he calls me or checking me when he has time but that night before he get to work he never calls me and actually go home late ..i did not reacted and let him be ..i think he is expecting me to call him ..going home late trying to scare me that he is not really going home.. i just called my frnd the whole night and i did anything else trying myself busy .. and you were right .. before i was a chaser .. begging him ,needy , loser of his game but after i watched your videos and it is effective .. Godbless ! Thank you
Love this video,,,, talking to someone at this moment and he does that, he disappears for weeks and comes back.. I honestly don’t care because I have no attraction toward him but he’s a cool guy to talk to.... after dating for so long I’ve learned so much and now I just don’t chase any guy at all..... feels good
thank you
The problem is when a guy says he needs space or pulls away it’s because he sees new supply new woman he wants to pursue
So if he comes back it’s because she rejected him and if you take him back then you are a doormat
Definitely not true, I've seen guys pull away from financial issues, loss of a family member, feeling stressed etc.
If that's true, it's so sad.
Am I the only one that, now that i get what kind of games man play I find it funny and exciting? Like yeah, if you loose you heart breaks but if you win and cotinue to be winning it is very exciting. It is actually really cool being a woman. XD
when you said "what a monkey" i laughed so hard hahahah. i really appreciate your directness and help, greta!! i'm currently unemployed due to the pandemic so i couldn't get your coaching but i'd do it once i've enough money :)
mines pulls away for months then comes back then pulls away for months again without answering calls, emails or text. Alot of men are not worth it, I'm seeing someone else right now because he is always ghosting me, Joe is definitely pushing my buttons
Always ghosting is no longer pushing ur buttons, it is time to leave the guy becos he isn't interested.
They have other supplies.
Months?!?...hunny..
This is so good and such a powerful testimony. This guy sounded like my ex boyfriend trying to blaming me all the time pulling away and then coming back. Is this going to happen even between engaged ,married couples. Sometimes , one gets tired of silly power games. It is exhausting. Thank you very much Greta. I agreed you’re a genius. I bought your ebook and in the process of reading it :). Thousand blessings.
Maeby we women need a vacation from our boyfriends from tie to time. Maeby we can act insecure and clingy only on full moon, or only in our periods...XD
After watching and following you .. my husband changes .. i love it how appreciates me now ... more blessings to you and thank you ! 💋💋🥰💕
😂😂 that's a good history & i will do that too. thanks for sharing, Greta..❤
xx
Well explained QUEEN.G !!😭😘
my ex boyfriend did this a lot, playing who’s texting first each day or few times in a week lol
omg! You are the best ever !
You make us to know how man knowing us we will panic and (we must will learn about them) 😈 and wining in this game 🕹
Thank you❤️❤️❤️
Your makeup is so gorgeous love this look Greta
Super awesome video Greta..... this is the perfect way to deal with this situation... 💃💃
Greta, than you for the video! Great content in all your videos. You look amazing in this new haircut :)
thank you
Why do you not have 10 million likes already!
This is so accurate, Greta. I experienced this. But I don't understand why guys do this.
Thanks Greta ;) much appreciated.
But how long do we go on playing these games ?
What if you've been playing games for 5 to 10 years and then you find out he has been cheating on you all along !? Wouldnt that be a complete waste of time ? All the energy and investment ?
What if these are signs that these men are just not right for us ?
Cause if we stick around with the wrong guy longer, we'll miss the opportunity to meet the right one.
Preach!!!!
Any insights as to why this man had such an extreme emotional reaction? It just seems really over the top! I would not like if a guy did this to me.
Thank you so much for sharing. I learned a lot. It's fun listening as well. I will definitely apply your tips to my Bf.👍😘
Great content! You help me to understand my man better and not take things to personal
This guy is with her for something else than love... next
Exactly. I think he has someone else behind closed doors. When men pull away, its because they're entertaining back up supplies.
Clearly. That's not how an in love man behaves. Oh poor victim, he lost his benefits, whatever those benefits were.
This is my favourite video so far 🤣🤣🤣💖
So so true most of the guys do play power games and do pull away 👌👍
greta you are a gem
You look beautiful in this video I love the lavender
Ladies please a question, my ex who I have to see everyday, offers help and then if I say OK thanks, becomes rude. Any answers to that? really upsets me.
Beautiful dress Greta!
O wow, I love this 😅
Greta does older men play games too? Like men in their 50s? I think they're more mature to be playing games. Can you talk about mature older men
ofcourse
They r better at it
Men 50+ years old play lots of games.....smh
OMG I love you so much you are so awesome
You look like a lot with a TV star in Greece we have!!Eleni Menegaki is her name!!
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Going through the same shit ..an asshole asked me to let’s take a break for 8 days and he didn’t show up on day 8 or 9th or 10th Lol .. even day 40th but started giving me subtle signs.. today is his birthday .. I don’t what “neutral” msg I should send? Which is not sweet neither sour
Greta, your book is it available on Amazon US? As I can't purchase from the UK website of Amazon.
What games do you like ? :))
He wants attention. She should hire someone and that’s it. Men say they don’t like drama , but i see that men create it. We should not react !
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I dont see a ring on your finger...explain how your advice is expert without such plse?
You're so pretty...love from Nigeria
Is it okay to play power games ?
Greta you're amazingly too much