She Made Me Homeless | The Baby Fathers Podcast EP37

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  • @abbiogeneisisserket4346
    @abbiogeneisisserket4346 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Why is this man having children with women that he knows he didn’t want? He speaks as if he had no control… he sounds very self absorbed… he left during the first pregnancy…if you first meet a child at the age of 4…. And expected to be recognised as a father? That takes more than a few meetings… he’s only 4 he deserved more from both parents at that time…I’m finding it hard to empathise with this mans decision making.

    • @bigc12able
      @bigc12able 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That's so true!!!!

    • @natalienelson3332
      @natalienelson3332 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is exactly what I was thinking. There’s no accountability and plenty of blame. He had every opportunity to use a condom!

    • @missyasharahla4388
      @missyasharahla4388 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Totally agree with other comments.he basically said the first woman was all over next man and clubbing too much but still inpregnated her. Told her he dont want nothing to do with her or the child then feels a way when shes got a next man that stepped up. this guy aint serious. He said his 4 yr old hurt his feelings so he left lmao this guy aint right. He then went on to impregnate another woman he states that he didn't want and the relationship was never good but he just wanted a baby. This is nuts. Don't think i can watch the rest this really pissing me off

    • @natalienelson3332
      @natalienelson3332 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @D&B care to elaborate?

    • @PJ-po7fu
      @PJ-po7fu ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Plus in his words the worst thing he said was "I don't want nothing to do with you or the kids"
      Can you imagine what kinda other bad stuff he told her? No wonder she pretty much told him to get gone. As for the poor 4yo that he didn't take time and get to know ...instead he blamed the mother of the 4yo and the child himself!!! Wtf??? Gerroutahere

  • @ghettolife6759
    @ghettolife6759 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Big man like dat playing victim he come like he need a lie detector test... Pure chattings and very self absorbed. Type of man you run from like a fart in the wind

    • @PJ-po7fu
      @PJ-po7fu ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm only 5mins in but this comment made me laugh

    • @darleneyounge9197
      @darleneyounge9197 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Not the fart in the wind 😂

  • @kaliansingh1230
    @kaliansingh1230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Addicted to the podcast, even though I don’t have any kids.
    Great show.
    I need at at least 1.30h per episode.

  • @jermainehibberd7672
    @jermainehibberd7672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    When a woman can call the police on you. It's time to go big man & never EVER go back!!!!

    • @Fabbz304
      @Fabbz304 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Especially when it’s a black women calling police on a black man.

    • @JayW16
      @JayW16 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      A Caveat - if the man is committing a crime call the police yes!

    • @Mrreal1871
      @Mrreal1871 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly this.

  • @andrewl8199
    @andrewl8199 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    🤦🏾‍♂️ I’m sorry that happen to him but to go back again and again to be treated with that much disrespect and your still having kids with her.. I’m lost for words. I actually can’t listen to this anymore.

  • @jermainehibberd7672
    @jermainehibberd7672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Always have your own place! Never give up your place unless your name is on the tenancy or mortgage!

    • @rossboakyewebb3830
      @rossboakyewebb3830 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Even if it is stil have your own place the system favours woman. I was talking about this yesterday

    • @jermainehibberd7672
      @jermainehibberd7672 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rossboakyewebb3830 inform all the mandem they need to know. 👏👏👏👏

    • @Thatguy-dc2xu
      @Thatguy-dc2xu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Or just have your money. Most man wont get a council place if they tried but private spots are everywhere. If im "made homeless" will only be for as long as it takes to view and find somewhere.... (if you aint going home onwership)... Its empowering when you have your own money no matter who's roof your under

  • @meangirlkrissy3204
    @meangirlkrissy3204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I think there’s more to this story he ain’t as innocent as he’s making out. He probably was abusing the woman and just using her for a place to live cos he keeps saying he only wanted the son but not her if that’s the case he got kick out and deserved it. What a fool then he got so desperate breaded her up again Definition of a waste man.

    • @BRI2020-d8x
      @BRI2020-d8x 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I've heard these stories alot men need to learn how to be leaders

    • @talk2s5061X
      @talk2s5061X 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      100 percent way more to this

    • @PJ-po7fu
      @PJ-po7fu ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts, he shoulda never embarrassed himself on this show

  • @nikkis7453
    @nikkis7453 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Unfortunately this man is completely troubled , this is what happens when a man has no plan b you end up like this . He was with a woman who made his life hell , but instead of staying strong he had another child with her utter and complete madness . As they say in the West Indies if you can’t hear you must feel . Never a true word spoken . I wish him all the best In the future . Young men please stay woke and be careful who you have children with 🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @PJ-po7fu
      @PJ-po7fu ปีที่แล้ว

      This guy is annoying me waaaay too much to keep watching. He's the type that move in with women , make children, then disappear. Wasteman

  • @Letisha1235
    @Letisha1235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Nahhh.... there is something missing with this one.🤔 the first mother situation..confuses me. Why would you question her lifestyle if thats how you met her? And for him to think that his son should give him a chance after 4 years of not seeing him...nahhh! He sounds ignorant. As for the second situation, what were you doing for 5 years financially? No back plan? You aint married!!! So now its poor me situation 😕....
    Obviously we dont know all the details but this guys isnt painting a good picture of himself.

    • @yellowish1966
      @yellowish1966 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      In he's mind he's just a victim. This interview made feel embarrassed for him. Even now, I don't think he's a man that a woman should even try something. The entitlement is unbelievable 🤦🏾‍♀️ The victimize is so frustrating. I can't see this like the other stories in this podcast. He's what??? 50??? And still in he's own world.🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @Mrreal1871
    @Mrreal1871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    He made himself homeless no back up plan and it's the woman's house. Not me I got my dough for.my yard of needs be. You can't hold my mouth closed with the thought I will be homeless. He clearly has issues to keep doing the same thing. You can't get your kids back if you don't have a home so why would you stay homeless. Then move back in with her scrap the court order after all that and have a next child with her. 🙄🙃 At this point it seems like you deserve it. I can't feel sorry for someone who keeps throwing themselves in a fire and then complains they got burnt. Sounds like a Fake victim.

  • @motivation-wz7qi
    @motivation-wz7qi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Gentleman needs therapy. He would not have been great for the children and was part of the problem for sure. Glad he’s on a better path. Playing the lead figure within a household that is not yours is simp behaviour. A man who looks for handouts and moves away from his children has a lot to reflect on. Sad to see this repeat constantly within the JA/BLK community.

    • @PJ-po7fu
      @PJ-po7fu ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh my goodness, he's a wasteman. Just impregnating women that he doesnt like or doesn't want. He knew he didnt wanna be with both BM but consciously got them pregnant and had a 2nd child with the last BM. Nothing this ejit says makes any sense

    • @copperman4855
      @copperman4855 ปีที่แล้ว

      Happens in every race of ppl not just melanated

  • @musicms7723
    @musicms7723 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    🤣🤣 na this guy isn’t serious 🤦🏽‍♀️😂

  • @arochester5310
    @arochester5310 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    23 mins in… this man is talking sh*t. I was with him until he said if she calls the police that’s assault and battery…. U cannot get charged with assault without the victim being visibly injured… they were not “arguments” as he said, they were fights! After that part, I now see why she had another man when she was 6mnths pregnant! The new man was her saviour at the time and was looking out for her. My opinion! I don’t believe anything. Acting like he’s an angel, no accountability…. I don’t buy it

  • @icequeen620
    @icequeen620 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Architect of his own demise and still wants to blame the women!!!! Pick the decent women you claim are so great!

  • @jesschierichettis2679
    @jesschierichettis2679 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    He’s leaving a lot of the story out trust me - ‘why she kick you out?’ ‘No reason’ and something about air freshener. I smell bs not lavender 😂

    • @PJ-po7fu
      @PJ-po7fu ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm telling you. He's a wrong un. Chatting about cornmeal porridge

  • @charleyhoward4182
    @charleyhoward4182 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If delusional was a person!

  • @yellowish1966
    @yellowish1966 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is the kind of man I pray for my daughters never find. He was homeless but that didn't stop him from having kid's that he knew he didn't want, like it was the woman's fault....like if he was such a good innocent young guy.🤦🏾‍♀️ God!🤦🏾‍♀️ he's old enough now to recognise he's fault in all of this and still talks like he's such a innocent young guy🤣 Naaaaa he's story is not appropriate for this podcast. I feel weird vibes with this tail🤦🏾‍♀️ I'm thankful my mom found a man willing to raise her kid and do what the real father didn't do when she was pregnant, they had more kids, they are separated now but the father of all of us is the one that was by her side all the way🙏🏾

    • @arochester5310
      @arochester5310 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Unfortunately my dad broke my mum down so much she never had another partner after him. She completely detached. These ‘adult boys’ don’t no how much it affects the kids. We must pray for our daughters for real 🙏🏾

    • @PJ-po7fu
      @PJ-po7fu ปีที่แล้ว

      Same, I pray my baby girl never meets a wasteman like this

  • @hardknocke9
    @hardknocke9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Made homeless twice by the same scorned woman? Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice… well you know the rest

  • @jzen1032
    @jzen1032 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's everyone's fault (even the child that he struggled to bond with). We all need to look within and with accountability comes reward. No one 'made' this man homeless; other than himself.

  • @thunderjoy7250
    @thunderjoy7250 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    It was all good until he said he went back to another kid...sorry but I have know empathy for him

  • @tinystunner
    @tinystunner 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    These OGs are to blame too you can’t just blame the women! How you goner sleep with a women raw countless times that you don’t want to get pregnant

  • @bigc12able
    @bigc12able 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Big man ting. Make sure u have your own. This guy is different. From his baby mother showed him certain things, he should know the score.

  • @lgibbz7036
    @lgibbz7036 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I laughed in disbelief…he had me on side up until he slipped back into the kitty.
    All I could Hear after that’s was Kranium opening line
    🗣Gal you take man for fool, take man for idiot
    But all seriousness very good episodes, but my man needs advice from Big Doug & Pounds lool

    • @PJ-po7fu
      @PJ-po7fu ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He's a first class fool. And I'm not sorry for the comments I've made. WOE did he think he was doing by going back while homeless and making another child then wanna talk about cornmeal porridge versus rice Krispies and overpowering air fresheners in the house???? Is he fir real?. Even then we don't get to find out if he sees any of his children??

  • @Immaculateve
    @Immaculateve 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You guys need to book more studio time because I just know there’s always more to these stories

  • @max20817
    @max20817 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dysfunction after dysfunction he kind of done this to himself

    • @PJ-po7fu
      @PJ-po7fu ปีที่แล้ว

      Kind of? This guy either made up this story or he's just dumb

  • @SJ-jx6ox
    @SJ-jx6ox 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow this man is gluten for punishment.
    First of all he expected to much of a 4 year old, gave up 😞 then made two more children knowing he never wanted the women but wanted a child. That’s the first problem. He was homeless but didn’t know how the housing system worked… hmm 🤔 May holes but I guess he can only share part of his journey.
    I’m sorry that he went through homelessness and hardship, he’s done good to get back on his feet and turn his life around. I hope all three of his children get to have a relationship with their father but I also hope he has now learnt from his experiences. Light & blessings to him, his children and the mothers

    • @bezzyranx9839
      @bezzyranx9839 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      *Glutton lol gluten is wheat 😉💯✌🏾

  • @olekssambrogadtonle6437
    @olekssambrogadtonle6437 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This guys a weirdo, didn't want the woman but wanted to have a child with her !?!?!? alright mate. Also cant connect with his first child ... plays the victim. Wotless

    • @PJ-po7fu
      @PJ-po7fu ปีที่แล้ว

      And then had another child with the woman he didn't want . Mans capping

  • @redpillreloaded369
    @redpillreloaded369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    also why was this guy in a position to where he cannot afford his own housing so frequently

    • @musicms7723
      @musicms7723 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hmmmm good point, as he was working full time initially in Housing…very strange, parts of the story have been left out 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @redpillreloaded369
      @redpillreloaded369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@musicms7723 yup this dude was leaving out alot cos the story dont make sense

    • @PJ-po7fu
      @PJ-po7fu ปีที่แล้ว

      Yet he waffles on about air freshener?!?!?!? Wth?

  • @NoobieOnrblx
    @NoobieOnrblx 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Assault and battery don't just turn up on your DBS for nothing?? And so he had a baby with a woman he didn't want??? This is what he says, had the baby because he felt he "earned it" Did not work because of this DBS issue??? And was upset and shocked she kicked him out?? I'm confused.

  • @Mrtalkupdating
    @Mrtalkupdating 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Brother you made yourself homeless,wtf

  • @facts4yablowhole600
    @facts4yablowhole600 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This story ain't a time line it's every situation where his been hurt but the blanks tell me he can't live in his REAL truth... Our black elders need to set a REAL example...

  • @andrewl8199
    @andrewl8199 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He had me up until he went back to have a second child.. boy bye!

  • @bezzyranx9839
    @bezzyranx9839 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This dude is strange!!🤔🙄🙄😑🤷🏿‍♂️

  • @musicgeeksoph6722
    @musicgeeksoph6722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    As the story went on its more confusing 😕 🤷🏾‍♀️.

    • @PJ-po7fu
      @PJ-po7fu ปีที่แล้ว

      Coz he's lying.... that's why it didn't make sense

  • @snipzman
    @snipzman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I felt bad for him but after he had another kid with her again despite kicking him out no respect 😔

  • @LoveLife-di2wz
    @LoveLife-di2wz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Serious perseverance tho. Applaud that!

  • @curtisthomas8935
    @curtisthomas8935 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Parental Alienation sooooo common

  • @deldarko3228
    @deldarko3228 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Intelligence is there. Wisdom, maybe not so much. I hope he gets to reconnect with his children as he would be a credit to them. Good luck. 👊🏾

  • @davidcole1670
    @davidcole1670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel the interviewers pain

  • @charmainewilliams6427
    @charmainewilliams6427 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What a liard ras! How you gonna expect a 4 year old child to place a stranger (because that's what you were) on a pedalstal as a father? How are you in the same situation again? Big man realise you are a Big man and start acting like it!

    • @oneoftheangels
      @oneoftheangels 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @PJ-po7fu
    @PJ-po7fu ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's not complicated, you're an ejit

  • @philly1076
    @philly1076 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this podcast is keeping me from having children. Also, there is something strange about this man, but I have to say too many black men, leave the woman in pregnancy?

  • @copperman4855
    @copperman4855 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dose anyone no the agency that helped him with housing, I'm desperate right now Thanks

  • @AmazingAmazing12345
    @AmazingAmazing12345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sad story, he definitely had some nasty baby mothers with issues,maybe the children can grow up and watch the truth.

    • @PJ-po7fu
      @PJ-po7fu ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He chose the BM. He chose not to use protection even tho he didn't want a child with the 1st one. And had two kids with the 2nd BM despite being homeless

    • @lucifer-dd9qu
      @lucifer-dd9qu 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      did you listen to what this man said? did you really listen??? HE TOLD THE FIRST ONE HE WANTED NOTHING TO DO WITH HER AND HER CHILD, AND HE CLEARLY STATED HE DIDNT WANT THE SECOND ONE, ONLY THE CHILDREN!!!!

  • @east_ldnrc1378
    @east_ldnrc1378 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wtf he went back and had another.. there's no emoji to express why....
    Bro u didn't just fuck up you fucked up.
    By all means kids are a blessing but bro

  • @antonybarnes369
    @antonybarnes369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This dude is not telling the full story or he's a SUCKA, gooossh.......mad story thooo!!

  • @superactivemama1172
    @superactivemama1172 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    A sincere man whose been broken and misunderstood he reminds me of DMX

  • @stevenfares9246
    @stevenfares9246 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    hi

  • @lucifer-dd9qu
    @lucifer-dd9qu 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    y

  • @shaunayoung4050
    @shaunayoung4050 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This man is just trash🥴😏

  • @maddybosss
    @maddybosss 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You’re toxic mate! Being offended by your four year old child. Shame on you! No sympathy from me!