Another biblical habit of godly wives: she is quick to listen and seek understanding, rather than just seeking to be understood 🤍 share yours in the comments below!
I frequently read 1 Corinthians 13 when I need a reminder of how to love my husband. I was just reading it last night and verse 7 in tpt stuck out to me: “…Love never takes failure as defeat, for it never gives up.” If your spouse feels like you have failed them in a moment, or vice versa, don’t be quick to fall in despair. But pray for their heart to be uplifted by the LORD and give them patience as they heal from it. Cultivate the spirit of kindness in your home and this shall bring you both closer again.
No offense but it's hard to understand when it's not KJV aka the real thing. Pretty sure you're talking about this verse. 8 Charity never faileth: but whether there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away.
@@thesunflowersimmer No I’m talking about the verse I mentioned, which is 13:7. I personally do not like kjv because of all the “thee”s and “thou”s and all the “th” at the end of words that don’t originally end with “th”. It’s all too confusing for me😆. But even though kjv or tpt are not the real things, tpt sometimes gets it right with their interpretation of scripture from its original language, like in this verse. You just have to discern and research which translation to go with.😊
Thank you for a lovely reminder. Another biblical habit - serving my husband even if he doesn't deserve it. Please let me know the reference you referred to 'praying rather than nagging'
Thank you for this. I actually realised I have never actually prayed and sought God's help in becoming a good and godly wife. I always pray about everything else except that. I can only cultivate the fruit of the Spirit in my marriage through God's help.
Very sweet. Thank you ! I never thought to ask my husband what makes him feel honored and respected. Will be doing that soon. I think one we miss often is telling our husbands we find them attractive, masculine, strong etc. Women get compliments but we forget men need them too.
It's funny how these kinds of things sounded so simple to me when I was still single. 'Yeah of course, I'll be the best wife ever' Then I got married and it's a daily fight honestly 😅 but also.. a chance to die to myself and be closer to God ❤
I’m not married yet, engaged. But I feel this so much. I was super naïve before being in a relationship and didn’t realize how much work it would take. And how often I would have to die to self. And how much I would be praying for myself to not be a nag or critical. So many things that I just didn’t understand until I got into a serious relationship. It’s honestly the hardest thing I’ve done.
Im not married yet so I could be wrong. I think there is a distinct difference between simple and easy. Yes, the rules are simple, but to actually do it is not easy because marriage provides you with new challenges all the time that need to be judged and dealt with. And dealing with another person and coming to an understanding is hard even if you don't live with them.
I like when you share focus on ourselves, rather than nitpicking what your other half didn't do or should do, and speak life, showing gratitude where for me Asian culture a little bit not used to say it outloud. Thank you for sharing
Wow your video was so timely. I just got done nagging and then feeling uncomfortable about it, started praying and journaling and then I came across your video. It’s so important to keep god first and always have prayer on our lips.
I was just praying about this then I opened up TH-cam and this video was the first one I saw. Thank you for this video, this was definitely what I needed to hear today. Also thank you for all you do.
I am not married yet but I will begin to pray for my husband now!! I have always had a desire to marry, so I am confident God will give me wisdom in choosing a husband, or take away the desire. Thank you for the wonderful video Kaci!
Hi. I'm also single and desires to be married one day. I want to be a godly wife. Do you think it's just good to prepare for it even though Im still single? Even tho the future is unknown
I am in love with #1 and I SO agree. I love the story of Esther. She had this probing, time sensitive thing she was dealing with, not to mention presssure. She didn't run to her husband, king xerxes first. She saught God, and she fasted and prayed. This has become my go-to. When there's something I"m desiring from my husband..or a big life decision that I'm going to bring up to my husband, I go to God first. I seek him in prayer and give God time to work. God gave it 3 days I believe it was, and God was moving. But I have also found that it gives God room and space to work on my heart. If I'm wrong, God has the authority to shut it down on my side before I even bring it to my husband (aka protecting our husbands by what we allow to get to him) LOVE THIS GIRL! thank you for sharing such wisdom x
Hi Kaci, thank you for this video. Please make more content about how to take advantage of the time and energy that we have during singleness, how to prepare for marriage, and also about healing past wounds.
Thank you sister! I was prompted to look up your videos again by the Holy Spirit. I’m newly a wife, and I’ve been struggling with my composure. I really appreciate what you shared and your biblical wisdom and encouragement. I feel very grateful that God has directed me through your teaching the word. God bless you and your family!
Thank you for this Kaci. Just what I needed and your vid also highlighted a couple of things I was not doing in my marriage. I think acts of service towards our husband are very biblical acts and I want to work on this as a wife. Also to show my boys what a biblical wife is ❤
It IS? that 's good to know! I'm glad I went out to eat TODAY. I ask God EVERY DAY to help me to draw closer to Him, so even though I didn't prepare for it, I will TRY to fast starting tomorrow for the next 40 days.
@@A.bulb.always.needs.a.switch It's NOT! many Christians have the belief that Lent is based on Jesus' temptation in the wilderness. But it doesn't really matter because it's still a good time to fast (and I'm not just talking about food. NOBODY can go 40 days without food)!
Kaci your content has a been a great blessing to me. I admire you, your relationship with God, and your family! As a 24 year old Christian young woman desiring a Godly marriage, I have days here and there where I get down. But the Lords word and your content encourages me. Please continue with the content for us singles.😁💛
Wonderful tips! I'm going to rewatch this again and write these notes down and see where I can improve in my marriage. I love your channel and your content has been incredibly helpful and encouraging to me. God is using you in amazing ways, all the glory and praise to Him♥
Getting married in a little over 2 months, and I know it will be a lot of work and adjusting, but I'm so looking forward to it! I pray to be a good Christian wife. Also, I love that you include Bible verses supporting each of your points.
I feel like this video speaks to me and that god wanted me to watch it so I watched it twice. ❤ I think a biblical habit that I and maybe some others can work on is making me and my husband equal and that both of our feelings are important not one or the other. Also I could work on using open communication more often and working together as a team vs the problem. ❤ I need to work on all of them.
Please do a video on how you dealt with the naysayers in your single season.... esp those who wanted you to believe that it was too late for you to get married
Thank you, Kaci, for another wonderful video. Was wondering if you had any other thoughts to share on how women who struggle with anxiety disorders can prepare to become peaceful wives (if they can even become wives). I have tried to pray a lot and for a long time that God change this part of me, but it seems like it'll be a lifelong battle to unroot and, since I've seen what a burden my anxiety has been for my ex-boyfriend, I struggle sometimes with the belief that my desire for a peaceful, Godly marriage (or marriage at all) can ever be fulfilled. Thank you!
I really appreciate this video!!! If you don’t already have one, I would love to see a video on Hospitality! Also, curious where your bed frame is from?
Hi☀️ thank you Kaci for this video! I needed this ! Could you do a video on a married couple one a Jesus Follower the other not a Jesus Follower,please? My husband believes in God but that’s as far as he goes right now. I can’t get enough of God! This is hard! Especially #4, submitting. I do respect him and honor him. He’s a wonderful man but not a Godly man. I would love to hear what you say and the biblical scriptures on that topic. I just found you and love you! You may have done a video on this topic already. I now listen to you every morning as part of my God time! You keep it short and easy to understand with scriptures. I just love it! God is so awesome. He led me to you the other morning and He has helped so much through you. So THANK YOU THANK YOU❤
Hey, you mentioned about someone who made a video about praying for you husband, where can I find it? ❤️🙏 Very interested, and yes, the nagging is an easy temptation to fall into. I need it ☺️
Thank you for this video!!! I have such a strong desire to be married and have a husband and home and a family to take care out…. Would you be able to make a video about how God gave you confirmation that the time was coming to be married?
Is there a powerpoint that I can purchase to go with this? I'm working with wives in Zambia and would like to present this content, but in ppt form since I will be using an interpreter. I'd also like content on a godly woman's inner beauty, specifically as it relates to GRATITUDE and CONTENTMENT. I'd really appreciate some direction to an editable powerpoint that I could purchase. Thank you so much.
Hi. I see the value and merit in some of the things you discuss in this video but find it difficult to relate to on the context of being in an abusive marriage with a ‘Godly’ husband. Do you have any videos addressing this kind of thing?
I get that its good to respect eachother, not just the wife toward the husband. The bible also says for husbands to honor your wife. I don't get this whole headship thing, though. We are both capable of coming up with good conclusions and plans. We can lead together. I also feel I shouldn't submit to another human, who is fallible, just like me. We should work together in making decisions, and I feel he shouldn't get the final decision because he's got a different appendage than I do. The only headship I am comfortable and okay with is with God's. God is all knowing, I don't want or need a leader/Lord here on earth in the form of a person. Jesus/God deserves to be followed. My husband and I deserve to lead another to help another in the ways necessary. We should seek God on equal footing and not have one above another.
I have thought about these things too. Sometimes God can tell wife and husband different things at different times (like God told Josef and Mary separately how Jesus was going to be born and then God told Josef where to take the pregnant Mary) Headship is a very biblical consept, if we want to live according to Bible standards and believe Gods will for us is good we cannot take mans headship out of the marriage. It is not about value but about order and protection. And Bible does not say that women are stupid, even wisdom is called she, but sometimes women can be more easily influenced by emotions (Eve) so man is the protector between Satan and woman. In marriage if there is disagreement, woman should tell her opinion with wisdom, but choose to submit to husbands will (if it is not sin) so the family will work in order) it is important to trust mans leadership and help him lead (giving opinions and information is helping) and not constantly quarreling. And if the husband cant lead well we can pray that God gives him more understanding and wisdom to be more Christ like and honoring . we are not only together in marriage God is there too.
Hi Kaci! Great advice as per usual 😊 I was wondering what your thoughts would be on a Christian girl dating a Catholic guy? Do you think that’s doable? Thanks and hope to hear from you soon😊
I thought I was supposed to be desperately running through the snow to get a girl to like me on Desperation Day. (obviously kidding, Desperation Day is a How I Met Your Mother reference)
Respect for one's own husband should be right next to seeking God, not way down the list, as that is where most women fail, and that is where godly women should set the example. Honouring his needs and desires is almost as important, and serving him should be right next.
I want to be married. There is one particular man I have in mind. I want to be his wife ❤ Lord if it is your will please prepare me and I pray we make a wonderful team together ❤❤❤
One thing I wonder about: If your husband has destructive bad habits, like never contributing at all, a bad spending habit, bad personal hygene, or hording, how do you deal with that? Im not married yet but I have seen it in couples I know. I know that nagging doesn't work, the only thing that seems to work with extreme behaviours is breaking up, then they either fall deeper, or take the push to better themselves. How do i not get into this sitution? How would I fix the marriage? Can I really trust that god will fix it? Ive not seen that happen ever.
Hi. All I do is go to God in my marriage and being loving and kind to my husband. But he is the one who comes against me for some reason. He is a Christian also. But behaves like he is ungodly. I don't know what else to do. Husband attacks me with his bitterness and his negativity. What is happening with him. Why is he this way. All I do is give him peace. What do I do to have husband give everything to God. Rather than to me which he attacks me with it all
I respect my husband when and if he deserves it, not because of his appendage. I expect the same in return. I will still treat him with human dignity, but I don't think it's wise to respect behavior that isn't Godly or respect someone who would just supercede my opinions based on the fact that they are a guy.
That’s odd. I respect my husband because of who I am as a person, and in turn I very frequently find that he more than meets my expectations. It’s like a self-fulfilling prophecy. Tell your husband he’s a good husband and he’ll be a good husband. Show your husband respect and he will deserve your respect. When my boys were dating, in their late teens and early twenties, and they would inevitably break up as relationships do at that age, I would always tell them “don’t bad mouth her to anyone. You chose to date her, you picked her, so if you bad mouth her it says just as much about you and your character as it does about hers”
did you know eve's name "help meet" is from the heebrew..."ezer kenegdo" ...ezer is a word meaning something like warrior helper and used to describe God or other men. Eve is the only woman in the bible with ezer in her name. kenegdo means something like a force equal to. put those together and you have one heck of a name and character of the first woman, an image for all woman, a warrior helper force equal to the man and God has female attributes that help describe His nature towards us....El Shaddai, shad is hebrew for breast, so the image is of a nursing mother taking care of her helpless young.
Is there a way to have a healthy, Christian relationship without submitting to the husband ?!?!?! To me, honoring and respecting your husband has nothing to do with submission. I appreciate the rest of the video very much by the way. I've been married for 43 years.
God Eveline Jill here Lord Please continue to create me from a male to a female and understanding my womanly needs and dreams Please Bless me with womanhood and motherhood and a Happy Marriage to the man you choose for my husband and the father of my babies ❤Amen Eveline Jill ❤Amen God please open the door for me to become your daughter and the woman housewife and mother I wish to become for your Glory and the Glory of the Kingdom of Heaven Amen ❤❤Eveline Jill Please place me with other females who Love and serve you Lord and Give me female friends that I share meaningful experiences and friendships with and share the joys and sorrows of being a woman with ❤Amen ❤❤Eveline Jill Amen
I'm just speaking from the heart. I do not care WHO I upset, because this NEEDS to be said. I was not blessed with marriage. I've dealt with it. I'm not even disappointed with God anymore, but I'm so disgusted by the attitudes of other people that I'm ashamed to be human. One reason that Christians are leaving the faith in droves is because the vast majority of churches treat the unmarried demographic as invisible. This has become an elephant in the room, because it's an uncomfortable topic. It SHOULD make people uncomfortable! The vast majority of churches are failing the demographic of unmarried adults MISERABLY, and instead of taking accountability, they immediately become angry and defensive. I'm not going to force myself into a place where I get treated like I do not matter. I still have a deep love for Jesus, but what I see happening in the vast majority of churches would break His heart, and I am this close to walking away from church because I have been treated so poorly there. I know my value. It's just enough that Jesus died for me, but on top of all that... I went to an elite private school in another country (I'm from USA, but the public colleges here are glorified indoctrination camps)... I mean, I went to school in MEXICO and that is an HONOR... how many Americans get to go to school in freaking Mexico?? I speak multiple languages, I play multiple instruments, and I can sing. I know how to ride a horse. I am brave and courageous. And yet... all people judge me on is my naked ring finger. That's all ANYONE ever sees! It's WRONG, and it NEEDS to STOP. I know for a fact that some of you reading this have cheated on your spouses. I have NO IDEA who, nor am I accusing anyone in particular. However, I know that some of you who are reading this have cheated. Back when I had social media, I know for a fact that SOME of my "friends" in my network cheated on their husbands. The whole world may view you as superior just because of a wedding ring, but God knows what you did, and one day you will have to answer to HIM for it! I hope that what I write here does piss people off, because I deserve to be seen and heard for ONCE, for the first time in FOREVER, and if it makes someone uncomfortable, then I am willing to go to that means to achieve that end. My value comes from God, not a wedding ring. I'm sick of hearing that I'm worthless because I didn't get married. Yet, I get told that practically every day by people who claim to be Christian. What will they do when they answer to God for that?
You are seen and valued. I'm sorry you had/have to go through this :( It is enough that Jesus died for you and that Jesus loves you. I understand what you're saying about people judging based on the naked finger. I'll be praying for your peace and better treatment friend (I'm single too, btw)
My husband and i are equal and joint heads of our household. I do not and will never submit to my husband. He is not in charge of me nor i him. If we were religious i would expect him to pray for me if i were to pray for him. I asked my sisters christian vicar who has been to university and studied theology about all this submitting to your husband etc and he said belief in god, faith and living a good and decent life is enough. He doesnt preach or teach those things. Ypu must belong to a very fundamental church.
Thank you for good sharing. Only with the heart of Christ can you be a godly wife and husband.Then, how do you have the heart of Christ? The heart of Christ is only possible through faith in the gospel. The Gospel is Jesus Christ in me who has come a mediator of New covenant and fulfilled second covenant made with Abraham,Isaac and Jacob. The second covenant, the new covenant, or the gospel, which promises to give the Lord's heart, can be clearly understood by meditating at Deuteronomy 30:6 and below. Hallelujah ^^
Ironically, it was a secular video on femininity that helped me understand submission and headship. I had been traumatized by a very conservative church that drilled home "husband is boss," "wives obey" period! Sixteen year old me knew something wasn't right, and it seemed like a very sinful, worldly interpretation that had nothing to do with Christ. Anyway, this video described a woman's submission as receiving and supporting, and the husband's leadership as acts of service that motivate a man to be his best. So, you have submit to one another, wives receive and support, and husbands do acts of service in order to love and care for the wife as Christ loves the church. There's no hierarchy or who is the boss there. It's a way of illustrating Christ's command to love one another that speaks to the essences of femininity and masculinity, and as all things (as Christ even illustrated), don't take this to legalistic extremes. I look at husbands and wives as a salt and pepper shaker set: each very different and good on their own, yet best when they work together.
Surat No. 5 Ayat NO. 75 75 Christ, son of Mary, was no more than a messenger. Many messengers passed away before him. His mother was a virtuous woman and they both ate food [like other mortals]. See how We make the signs clear to them! See how they turn away! Surat No. 5 Ayat NO. 73 73 They are deniers of the truth who say, ‘God is one of three.’ There is only One God. If they do not desist from so saying, a painful punishment is bound to befall such of them as are bent on denying the truth.
The head of the woman is the man, the head of every man is Christ, the head of Christ is God. (1 Corinthians 11:3) *Jesus is the Son of God.* Jesus is a servant; the Son of God worships the Father. When Jesus was on the cross, he said, "My God, My God, why have you forsaken me?". (Matthew 27:46) "Why call me good? None is good, except God." (Matthew 19:17, Mark 10:18, Luke 18:19) The head of every wife is her husband, the head of every man is Christ, the head of Christ is God. If your husband tells you to sin, you are NOT to do it. We are supposed to follow the laws of the land, if your husband tells you to commit a crime, you are NOT to do it. (1 Peter 2:13-14) ⚠Some people want to argue about the name, the message is more important than the name. ------------------------------------------------------------------------ I'm not JW. JW, catholics, black hebrew israelites.. are cults.
I enjoy listening to your faith based content but it seems so commercialized now, selling things and making it a business instead of sharing Gods word. Always promoting something!
There are thousands of Christian women on TH-cam posting videos about how to be a good wife. Why don’t I see that same enthusiasm from Christian men? Where are all of the videos of men coming together to proclaim and promote the importance of honoring and respecting their wives? Why are Christian women doing all of the labor in the marriage-improvement space?
these types of woman are damn near impossible to find in the west. not to mention the court system favors the woman. not worth it in my opinion if i want to get married, i wouldnt look for women in a westernized country also, why are people celebrating valentines day? its a commercial holiday with the sole purpose of causing men to cough up money youd be surprised at how many woman (Godly women included) would be angry with their husbands if they didnt celebrate valentines day AND spend money on their wives like i said, western woman have had their minds poisoned.
Another biblical habit of godly wives: she is quick to listen and seek understanding, rather than just seeking to be understood 🤍 share yours in the comments below!
I frequently read 1 Corinthians 13 when I need a reminder of how to love my husband. I was just reading it last night and verse 7 in tpt stuck out to me: “…Love never takes failure as defeat, for it never gives up.” If your spouse feels like you have failed them in a moment, or vice versa, don’t be quick to fall in despair. But pray for their heart to be uplifted by the LORD and give them patience as they heal from it. Cultivate the spirit of kindness in your home and this shall bring you both closer again.
No offense but it's hard to understand when it's not KJV aka the real thing. Pretty sure you're talking about this verse. 8 Charity never faileth: but whether there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away.
@@thesunflowersimmer No I’m talking about the verse I mentioned, which is 13:7. I personally do not like kjv because of all the “thee”s and “thou”s and all the “th” at the end of words that don’t originally end with “th”. It’s all too confusing for me😆. But even though kjv or tpt are not the real things, tpt sometimes gets it right with their interpretation of scripture from its original language, like in this verse. You just have to discern and research which translation to go with.😊
Thank you your message helped me so much. I even prayed with what you mentioned, so thank you and May God bless you ❤
@@agufortunatekawisi-5068 Praise the LORD! I really love this for you. I needed the reminder too. May the LORD bless you as well 💚
1. She seeks God first.
2. She cultivates a peaceful home.
3. She prays for her husband.
4. She respects, honours and submits to her husband.
5.
uses her words to speak life
Thank you for a lovely reminder.
Another biblical habit - serving my husband even if he doesn't deserve it.
Please let me know the reference you referred to 'praying rather than nagging'
I'm so glad it was a good reminder - and the habit you shared is so good too 🙌🏼 as for the video I referenced, I linked it in my cards 🤍
Proverbs 21 : 9
Your husband deserves to be served by you (and you deserve to be served by him) just because you married each other..
Love this! Getting married in 30 days and trying to submerge myself in ways to be a biblical wife as our wedding day approaches.
Congrats on your union! May God bless you both richly
Congratulations! Just said a prayer for you guys, may God bless you richly as a married couple!
So how it went and how are you guys doing?
So grateful the Holy Spirit led me to your video! Thank you for your obedience to the Lord.
Would not know about being a Godly wife but bless are the woman that get to be a Godly wife. Getting to be a wife is a blessing.
Thank you for this. I actually realised I have never actually prayed and sought God's help in becoming a good and godly wife. I always pray about everything else except that. I can only cultivate the fruit of the Spirit in my marriage through God's help.
Very sweet. Thank you ! I never thought to ask my husband what makes him feel honored and respected. Will be doing that soon. I think one we miss often is telling our husbands we find them attractive, masculine, strong etc. Women get compliments but we forget men need them too.
It's funny how these kinds of things sounded so simple to me when I was still single. 'Yeah of course, I'll be the best wife ever' Then I got married and it's a daily fight honestly 😅 but also.. a chance to die to myself and be closer to God ❤
I’m not married yet, engaged. But I feel this so much. I was super naïve before being in a relationship and didn’t realize how much work it would take. And how often I would have to die to self. And how much I would be praying for myself to not be a nag or critical. So many things that I just didn’t understand until I got into a serious relationship. It’s honestly the hardest thing I’ve done.
Good stuff, sister! Agreed!
Im not married yet so I could be wrong.
I think there is a distinct difference between simple and easy.
Yes, the rules are simple, but to actually do it is not easy because marriage provides you with new challenges all the time that need to be judged and dealt with. And dealing with another person and coming to an understanding is hard even if you don't live with them.
I like when you share focus on ourselves, rather than nitpicking what your other half didn't do or should do, and speak life, showing gratitude where for me Asian culture a little bit not used to say it outloud. Thank you for sharing
Wow your video was so timely. I just got done nagging and then feeling uncomfortable about it, started praying and journaling and then I came across your video. It’s so important to keep god first and always have prayer on our lips.
I was just praying about this then I opened up TH-cam and this video was the first one I saw. Thank you for this video, this was definitely what I needed to hear today. Also thank you for all you do.
Aw praise God! And thank you for these encouraging words 🤍
I am not married yet but I will begin to pray for my husband now!! I have always had a desire to marry, so I am confident God will give me wisdom in choosing a husband, or take away the desire. Thank you for the wonderful video Kaci!
Hi. I'm also single and desires to be married one day. I want to be a godly wife. Do you think it's just good to prepare for it even though Im still single? Even tho the future is unknown
I am confident that preparing ahead of time even not knowing if you'll ever marry, is wise and honors God!
I am in love with #1 and I SO agree. I love the story of Esther. She had this probing, time sensitive thing she was dealing with, not to mention presssure. She didn't run to her husband, king xerxes first. She saught God, and she fasted and prayed. This has become my go-to. When there's something I"m desiring from my husband..or a big life decision that I'm going to bring up to my husband, I go to God first. I seek him in prayer and give God time to work. God gave it 3 days I believe it was, and God was moving. But I have also found that it gives God room and space to work on my heart. If I'm wrong, God has the authority to shut it down on my side before I even bring it to my husband (aka protecting our husbands by what we allow to get to him) LOVE THIS GIRL! thank you for sharing such wisdom x
Hi Kaci, thank you for this video. Please make more content about how to take advantage of the time and energy that we have during singleness, how to prepare for marriage, and also about healing past wounds.
Thank you so much for these video ideas!
Please say prayers for me and my husband travis michaud for our marriage and our finances,
Thank you sister! I was prompted to look up your videos again by the Holy Spirit. I’m newly a wife, and I’ve been struggling with my composure. I really appreciate what you shared and your biblical wisdom and encouragement. I feel very grateful that God has directed me through your teaching the word. God bless you and your family!
Making sure that you are preparing your heart for the responsibilities that come with marriage!
Thankyou so much for sharing these habits..precious daughter of our Father in heaven..bless you in His name! 🥹
I'm getting married in January and this video was so helpful!
I love these tips!!!! I need to do all of these more!
Thank you for this Kaci. Just what I needed and your vid also highlighted a couple of things I was not doing in my marriage. I think acts of service towards our husband are very biblical acts and I want to work on this as a wife. Also to show my boys what a biblical wife is ❤
Thanks Kaci for this video. I praise God for your video. 😊❤
As a single man looking for a godly wife, your videos give me hope that she's out there.
Thank you soooo much Kaci, this is what I was looking for and needed today!
This video has blessed me!!
Hey! It’s also the beginning of lent tomorrow which marks the fasting season in preparation for Easter ❤❤❤
It IS? that 's good to know! I'm glad I went out to eat TODAY. I ask God EVERY DAY to help me to draw closer to Him, so even though I didn't prepare for it, I will TRY to fast starting tomorrow for the next 40 days.
@@KristaBrewer-rq7mo Awesome! I hope the season draws you closer to God
Where in bible(nt) that says abt lent days?
@@A.bulb.always.needs.a.switch It's NOT! many Christians have the belief that Lent is based on Jesus' temptation in the wilderness. But it doesn't really matter because it's still a good time to fast (and I'm not just talking about food. NOBODY can go 40 days without food)!
A video about how to pray for a husband without idolising marriage.🙏🏾🥺
Kaci your content has a been a great blessing to me. I admire you, your relationship with God, and your family! As a 24 year old Christian young woman desiring a Godly marriage, I have days here and there where I get down. But the Lords word and your content encourages me. Please continue with the content for us singles.😁💛
This is so timely for me!! Thank you. I hope there will be more content like this in the future. I love mileenas content as well
Daily submitting to Christ and repentance for sure!
This was sooo good ❤Thank you!!🙏🏾May God continue to keep you and your beautiful marriage ❤️
Wonderful tips! I'm going to rewatch this again and write these notes down and see where I can improve in my marriage. I love your channel and your content has been incredibly helpful and encouraging to me. God is using you in amazing ways, all the glory and praise to Him♥
Getting married in a little over 2 months, and I know it will be a lot of work and adjusting, but I'm so looking forward to it! I pray to be a good Christian wife. Also, I love that you include Bible verses supporting each of your points.
Thank you for this message. Eveline Jill.
I feel like this video speaks to me and that god wanted me to watch it so I watched it twice. ❤ I think a biblical habit that I and maybe some others can work on is making me and my husband equal and that both of our feelings are important not one or the other. Also I could work on using open communication more often and working together as a team vs the problem. ❤ I need to work on all of them.
Please do a video on how you dealt with the naysayers in your single season.... esp those who wanted you to believe that it was too late for you to get married
Wonderful video!!! Be blessed!!!🕊🤍
Oh thank you so much, you've just reminded me on some of the most important things I have not been doing.
I'm so glad it was a good reminder 🤍
Topic about fasting please
Thank you!
Thank you and God bless
Topic : Emotional intelligence and how it benefits your relationship.
Thank you Kaci! Had this very conversation yesterday. We’re on the same page here 😃
Aw love that so much!
Love this, thank you for sharing!
Really needed this today! Thank you
Great video
I thought I was getting that woman 28 years ago. That is what she said anyway. I was scammed. Thanks Jesus.
Thank you, Kaci, for another wonderful video. Was wondering if you had any other thoughts to share on how women who struggle with anxiety disorders can prepare to become peaceful wives (if they can even become wives). I have tried to pray a lot and for a long time that God change this part of me, but it seems like it'll be a lifelong battle to unroot and, since I've seen what a burden my anxiety has been for my ex-boyfriend, I struggle sometimes with the belief that my desire for a peaceful, Godly marriage (or marriage at all) can ever be fulfilled. Thank you!
I really appreciate this video!!!
If you don’t already have one, I would love to see a video on Hospitality!
Also, curious where your bed frame is from?
This was awesome!❤
Hi☀️ thank you Kaci for this video! I needed this !
Could you do a video on a married couple one a Jesus Follower the other not a Jesus Follower,please?
My husband believes in God but that’s as far as he goes right now.
I can’t get enough of God! This is hard! Especially #4, submitting. I do respect him and honor him. He’s a wonderful man but not a Godly man.
I would love to hear what you say and the biblical scriptures on that topic.
I just found you and love you! You may have done a video on this topic already. I now listen to you every morning as part of my God time! You keep it short and easy to understand with scriptures. I just love it!
God is so awesome. He led me to you the other morning and He has helped so much through you. So THANK YOU THANK YOU❤
Hey, you mentioned about someone who made a video about praying for you husband, where can I find it? ❤️🙏 Very interested, and yes, the nagging is an easy temptation to fall into. I need it ☺️
Love that I found your channel. =) Where did you get your beautiful necklaces?
Thank you for this video!!! I have such a strong desire to be married and have a husband and home and a family to take care out…. Would you be able to make a video about how God gave you confirmation that the time was coming to be married?
Beautiful teaching .Thank You Jesus Thank You Holy Spirit.Jesus Loves you.Happy Vals day much love God bless you and your family abundantly
God bless you abundantly as well! 🤍
God’s timing …. 😊
What was the other TH-cam lady you suggested to listen to
Found her! It’s Milena Ciciotti. 😊
Amen 🙏🏾 ❤😊
Is there a powerpoint that I can purchase to go with this? I'm working with wives in Zambia and would like to present this content, but in ppt form since I will be using an interpreter. I'd also like content on a godly woman's inner beauty, specifically as it relates to GRATITUDE and CONTENTMENT. I'd really appreciate some direction to an editable powerpoint that I could purchase. Thank you so much.
Can you do a video about how to know God is calling you to wait for someone
Hi. I see the value and merit in some of the things you discuss in this video but find it difficult to relate to on the context of being in an abusive marriage with a ‘Godly’ husband. Do you have any videos addressing this kind of thing?
Leslie Vernick and Patrick Doyle (Pathway to Hope) are two Christian counselors who speak clear Biblical truths about this! Both on TH-cam
I get that its good to respect eachother, not just the wife toward the husband. The bible also says for husbands to honor your wife. I don't get this whole headship thing, though. We are both capable of coming up with good conclusions and plans. We can lead together. I also feel I shouldn't submit to another human, who is fallible, just like me. We should work together in making decisions, and I feel he shouldn't get the final decision because he's got a different appendage than I do. The only headship I am comfortable and okay with is with God's. God is all knowing, I don't want or need a leader/Lord here on earth in the form of a person. Jesus/God deserves to be followed. My husband and I deserve to lead another to help another in the ways necessary. We should seek God on equal footing and not have one above another.
I have thought about these things too. Sometimes God can tell wife and husband different things at different times (like God told Josef and Mary separately how Jesus was going to be born and then God told Josef where to take the pregnant Mary) Headship is a very biblical consept, if we want to live according to Bible standards and believe Gods will for us is good we cannot take mans headship out of the marriage. It is not about value but about order and protection. And Bible does not say that women are stupid, even wisdom is called she, but sometimes women can be more easily influenced by emotions (Eve) so man is the protector between Satan and woman. In marriage if there is disagreement, woman should tell her opinion with wisdom, but choose to submit to husbands will (if it is not sin) so the family will work in order) it is important to trust mans leadership and help him lead (giving opinions and information is helping) and not constantly quarreling. And if the husband cant lead well we can pray that God gives him more understanding and wisdom to be more Christ like and honoring . we are not only together in marriage God is there too.
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Hi Kaci! Great advice as per usual 😊 I was wondering what your thoughts would be on a Christian girl dating a Catholic guy? Do you think that’s doable? Thanks and hope to hear from you soon😊
Catholics are Christians
I thought I was supposed to be desperately running through the snow to get a girl to like me on Desperation Day. (obviously kidding, Desperation Day is a How I Met Your Mother reference)
I wish l knew how to be a godly wife
Amen
Respect for one's own husband should be right next to seeking God, not way down the list, as that is where most women fail, and that is where godly women should set the example. Honouring his needs and desires is almost as important, and serving him should be right next.
I know this isn't related to the video, but I can't believe people have their entire house just white and tan.
I want to be married. There is one particular man I have in mind. I want to be his wife ❤ Lord if it is your will please prepare me and I pray we make a wonderful team together ❤❤❤
❤❤thank you
Stepping into my 7th year of singleness and still TRUSTING GOD…🌟🙇🏾♀️♥️
One thing I wonder about: If your husband has destructive bad habits, like never contributing at all, a bad spending habit, bad personal hygene, or hording, how do you deal with that?
Im not married yet but I have seen it in couples I know.
I know that nagging doesn't work, the only thing that seems to work with extreme behaviours is breaking up, then they either fall deeper, or take the push to better themselves.
How do i not get into this sitution? How would I fix the marriage? Can I really trust that god will fix it? Ive not seen that happen ever.
Leslie Vernick can guide you through this maze!
Me watching this video convincing myself that iwill be wife and idk know how
Hi. All I do is go to God in my marriage and being loving and kind to my husband. But he is the one who comes against me for some reason. He is a Christian also. But behaves like he is ungodly. I don't know what else to do. Husband attacks me with his bitterness and his negativity. What is happening with him. Why is he this way. All I do is give him peace. What do I do to have husband give everything to God. Rather than to me which he attacks me with it all
I respect my husband when and if he deserves it, not because of his appendage. I expect the same in return. I will still treat him with human dignity, but I don't think it's wise to respect behavior that isn't Godly or respect someone who would just supercede my opinions based on the fact that they are a guy.
That’s odd. I respect my husband because of who I am as a person, and in turn I very frequently find that he more than meets my expectations. It’s like a self-fulfilling prophecy. Tell your husband he’s a good husband and he’ll be a good husband. Show your husband respect and he will deserve your respect.
When my boys were dating, in their late teens and early twenties, and they would inevitably break up as relationships do at that age, I would always tell them “don’t bad mouth her to anyone. You chose to date her, you picked her, so if you bad mouth her it says just as much about you and your character as it does about hers”
did you know eve's name "help meet" is from the heebrew..."ezer kenegdo"
...ezer is a word meaning something like warrior helper and used to describe God or other men. Eve is the only woman in the bible with ezer in her name.
kenegdo means something like a force equal to.
put those together and you have one heck of a name and character of the first woman, an image for all woman, a warrior helper force equal to the man
and God has female attributes that help describe His nature towards us....El Shaddai, shad is hebrew for breast, so the image is of a nursing mother taking care of her helpless young.
You are cool.
Is there a way to have a healthy, Christian relationship without submitting to the husband ?!?!?! To me, honoring and respecting your husband has nothing to do with submission. I appreciate the rest of the video very much by the way. I've been married for 43 years.
God Eveline Jill here Lord Please continue to create me from a male to a female and understanding my womanly needs and dreams Please Bless me with womanhood and motherhood and a Happy Marriage to the man you choose for my husband and the father of my babies ❤Amen Eveline Jill ❤Amen God please open the door for me to become your daughter and the woman housewife and mother I wish to become for your Glory and the Glory of the Kingdom of Heaven Amen ❤❤Eveline Jill Please place me with other females who Love and serve you Lord and Give me female friends that I share meaningful experiences and friendships with and share the joys and sorrows of being a woman with ❤Amen ❤❤Eveline Jill Amen
Beautiful video. I just downloaded the “Still Single” devotional and I’m excited to start it and praying for that biblical marriage. 🩷
I'm just speaking from the heart. I do not care WHO I upset, because this NEEDS to be said.
I was not blessed with marriage. I've dealt with it. I'm not even disappointed with God anymore, but I'm so disgusted by the attitudes of other people that I'm ashamed to be human. One reason that Christians are leaving the faith in droves is because the vast majority of churches treat the unmarried demographic as invisible. This has become an elephant in the room, because it's an uncomfortable topic. It SHOULD make people uncomfortable! The vast majority of churches are failing the demographic of unmarried adults MISERABLY, and instead of taking accountability, they immediately become angry and defensive. I'm not going to force myself into a place where I get treated like I do not matter. I still have a deep love for Jesus, but what I see happening in the vast majority of churches would break His heart, and I am this close to walking away from church because I have been treated so poorly there.
I know my value. It's just enough that Jesus died for me, but on top of all that... I went to an elite private school in another country (I'm from USA, but the public colleges here are glorified indoctrination camps)... I mean, I went to school in MEXICO and that is an HONOR... how many Americans get to go to school in freaking Mexico?? I speak multiple languages, I play multiple instruments, and I can sing. I know how to ride a horse. I am brave and courageous. And yet... all people judge me on is my naked ring finger. That's all ANYONE ever sees! It's WRONG, and it NEEDS to STOP.
I know for a fact that some of you reading this have cheated on your spouses. I have NO IDEA who, nor am I accusing anyone in particular. However, I know that some of you who are reading this have cheated. Back when I had social media, I know for a fact that SOME of my "friends" in my network cheated on their husbands. The whole world may view you as superior just because of a wedding ring, but God knows what you did, and one day you will have to answer to HIM for it!
I hope that what I write here does piss people off, because I deserve to be seen and heard for ONCE, for the first time in FOREVER, and if it makes someone uncomfortable, then I am willing to go to that means to achieve that end. My value comes from God, not a wedding ring. I'm sick of hearing that I'm worthless because I didn't get married. Yet, I get told that practically every day by people who claim to be Christian. What will they do when they answer to God for that?
You are seen and valued. I'm sorry you had/have to go through this :( It is enough that Jesus died for you and that Jesus loves you. I understand what you're saying about people judging based on the naked finger. I'll be praying for your peace and better treatment friend (I'm single too, btw)
My husband and i are equal and joint heads of our household. I do not and will never submit to my husband. He is not in charge of me nor i him.
If we were religious i would expect him to pray for me if i were to pray for him.
I asked my sisters christian vicar who has been to university and studied theology about all this submitting to your husband etc and he said belief in god, faith and living a good and decent life is enough. He doesnt preach or teach those things. Ypu must belong to a very fundamental church.
Thank you for good sharing.
Only with the heart of Christ can you be a godly wife and husband.Then, how do you have the heart of Christ? The heart of Christ is only possible through faith in the gospel.
The Gospel is Jesus Christ in me who has come a mediator of New covenant and fulfilled second covenant made with Abraham,Isaac and Jacob.
The second covenant, the new covenant, or the gospel, which promises to give the Lord's heart, can be clearly understood by meditating at Deuteronomy 30:6 and below. Hallelujah ^^
I think your sweater is too low cut. Sorry. I did appreciate what you said.
Ironically, it was a secular video on femininity that helped me understand submission and headship. I had been traumatized by a very conservative church that drilled home "husband is boss," "wives obey" period! Sixteen year old me knew something wasn't right, and it seemed like a very sinful, worldly interpretation that had nothing to do with Christ. Anyway, this video described a woman's submission as receiving and supporting, and the husband's leadership as acts of service that motivate a man to be his best. So, you have submit to one another, wives receive and support, and husbands do acts of service in order to love and care for the wife as Christ loves the church. There's no hierarchy or who is the boss there. It's a way of illustrating Christ's command to love one another that speaks to the essences of femininity and masculinity, and as all things (as Christ even illustrated), don't take this to legalistic extremes. I look at husbands and wives as a salt and pepper shaker set: each very different and good on their own, yet best when they work together.
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Who wants to be a godly wife???
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@@anthonyman8008 im trying to be a godly wife 😊
@@deannadante 🤗 happy Valentine's Day! Let's get some tea, I'm in Toledo OH 💕🥳
Surat No. 5 Ayat NO. 75
75 Christ, son of Mary, was no more than a messenger. Many messengers passed away before him. His mother was a virtuous woman and they both ate food [like other mortals]. See how We make the signs clear to them! See how they turn away!
Surat No. 5 Ayat NO. 73
73 They are deniers of the truth who say, ‘God is one of three.’ There is only One God. If they do not desist from so saying, a painful punishment is bound to befall such of them as are bent on denying the truth.
The head of the woman is the man, the head of every man is Christ, the head of Christ is God. (1 Corinthians 11:3)
*Jesus is the Son of God.* Jesus is a servant; the Son of God worships the Father. When Jesus was on the cross, he said, "My God, My God, why have you forsaken me?". (Matthew 27:46)
"Why call me good? None is good, except God." (Matthew 19:17, Mark 10:18, Luke 18:19)
The head of every wife is her husband, the head of every man is Christ, the head of Christ is God.
If your husband tells you to sin, you are NOT to do it. We are supposed to follow the laws of the land, if your husband tells you to commit a crime, you are NOT to do it. (1 Peter 2:13-14)
⚠Some people want to argue about the name, the message is more important than the name.
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I'm not JW. JW, catholics, black hebrew israelites.. are cults.
I enjoy listening to your faith based content but it seems so commercialized now, selling things and making it a business instead of sharing Gods word. Always promoting something!
There are thousands of Christian women on TH-cam posting videos about how to be a good wife. Why don’t I see that same enthusiasm from Christian men? Where are all of the videos of men coming together to proclaim and promote the importance of honoring and respecting their wives?
Why are Christian women doing all of the labor in the marriage-improvement space?
these types of woman are damn near impossible to find in the west.
not to mention the court system favors the woman.
not worth it in my opinion
if i want to get married, i wouldnt look for women in a westernized country
also, why are people celebrating valentines day? its a commercial holiday with the sole purpose of causing men to cough up money
youd be surprised at how many woman (Godly women included) would be angry with their husbands if they didnt celebrate valentines day AND spend money on their wives
like i said, western woman have had their minds poisoned.
a bit similarity to Islam
You are a false teacher who sells empty religion.
She speaks from the Bible. That is truth.
@@michelepepperrell4701 she makes money on people like you.
Amen @kacinicole
I needed this 💛. Thank you sister.