Classic Divorce Court- Crudup Vs. Pelley: Slacking Spouse
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- Today on Divorce Court, a wife’s attempt to school her husband on his duties, and his failure to check off each task means they are going to have a rocky and lonely night…today with Judge Lynn Toler.
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I watch Judge Lynn Toller so much that I got inspired to go to law school. I just graduated with a political science major.
Amen.
She is special, and congratulations 🎉. I'm confident that this will mean so much to Judge Toler.
Dude look like Vincent Van Gogh ... sound like MGK 😂
The accuracy! 😄 Now there's an image of Van Gogh sounding like MGK in my imagination!
Its the accuracy for me🤣🤣
I'm wheezing 🤣
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omg. you're RIGHT about Van Gogh... lol
She did say he didn’t exhibit anger until her family members moved in . . They dirtied his house, no food after work, threatened his car AND bust him in the head with a bottle & SHE didn’t even defend him . . I’m pretty sure anyone would be angry after all of that . . She showed no loyalty for him he probably just felt used
She said it was HIS family members. So at that point it’s not her place to check them if it’s HIS family.
Right . He was only angry towards the extra bum people in the house.
I agree ☝🏾 There’s no ownership on her side.
My dear everyone gets their karma one way or the other
The guy has anger issues. Period!
Family members or not, he would still find something to get angry about.
She wanna leave him but wants him to continue paying for everything 😂. She better get her family to pay her bills.
He has some issues, but she ain't no victim. He seemed like he wanted to work the marriage out but she became spoiled and disconnected.
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I agree. I was just saying that yea he has anger issues but she definitely provokes him on purpose. I think they provoke each other. Lowkey I think she turned him into a mad man lol
@@CleverAOYM she clearly stated he wasn’t angry until the family moved in
He looks like he belongs in a picture from the civil war
You ain't lying😳
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He looks like he's be a good guy in a beard and beer commercial 😂. Lager. Goes down smooth and don't come up rough. 😂
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"I'm pretty intimidating" He looks like abraham Lincoln. I'd be mad too if she made a list of stuff for me to do right after working 12hrs.
The Abraham Lincoln comment though 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Honest Abe! lolololol 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
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I wish my husband would just take out the trash 🤦🏼♀️
it was eight hours and only ten things to do
She's looking for someone to take care of her. She used him and he's angry that things aren't like they used to be.
BINGO!
Every women wants someone to marry and take care of them. There's absolutely nothing wrong with being taken care of by a man. Everyone says this as if it's wrong, when in all actuality it's the natural way of life, biblically. This modern day way of thinking is not the wave. I'm independent and make my own this and that, usually those types of women end up old, lonely, living with a couple of cats that they've given human names too. In this case, the women knows her worth however if they are separating the she needs to take care of herself and not want for him to continue funding her lifestyle, she can create that on her own until someone else finds her and is suitable to her moral code.
Three children that are not his and doesn't work, brings in relatives and has her relatives fighting him.
Surely wrong. She'll regret how she put her relative before him
@Gwenette Thacker , I haven’t met anyone with my last name that wasn’t my family. I wonder if we are family?
Wow she is spoiled 🙄
You guys miss the whole first pt
🤣🤣 I’d probably be cursing her ass out too, god forgive me
That's a couple that should have never been together and definitely shouldn't have had children together.🤦🏽♀️
I think she's the cause of most!
She's tryn to look innocent on this show.
How she literally works take care of the house and kids yeah he works 12 hours but you can’t come home and think you can unload on your family like it’s nothing he was cussing out his family when they lived there and now that they aren’t he cussing her out
umm he is verbally and mentally abusing her. if someone was doing that to me I wouldnt have their backs either.
Both of them caused the problem
She seems not to care
He has some anger issues
But she pushed his buttons
@@Sabrewood13 unload on her family?
If you know that your husband and that family member does get along why are they there when he comes home from work knowing that it's going to be a problem
@@What-sr2pk not a good wife
He got suckered. As soon as she had a baby she’s ready for a divorce thinking he was a meal ticket. He acted the same way prior to marriage and then she brought in bum relatives to mooch as well girl bye
He's not rolling in dough, so how is he suckered. They met at a motel not some 5 star hotel.
@@Michelle-yj1mp Better than having no food on the plate and no roof over your head.
I see a Man passionate about his family. He is taking care of the household, watching his kids and her children he probably can't even discipline the kids that's not his to get them on the right path, she wants spousal support that's what this is all about. No Man is going to want her with 5 kids.
He just need to get his baby and go
@@sonicthehedgehog8348 he wanted her with 4 kids. Heck i know people with more and still get a man/woman. Definitely odd, but I guess it depends. Maybe after seeing this show no one will want her but it depends on if she doesn't learn and grow or if an equally or more bummy person comes along and falls for her
If anyone was looking for the picture of a toxic couple, look no further. This is it, and this is so sad.
She said “he’s gotten me used to this lifestyle so he’s gotta pay for it when I leave” gold diggin ass 🤦🏻♂️
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I actually feel sorry for the guy. That girl got on that soap box and made herself into a victim. He has anger issues cause he can't deal with her bullshit anymore. I'm glad they ended it.
Sadly hes gonna be on child support for quite some time now.
And she wouldn’t even wear her wedding ring!
That girl is taking advantage of this guy
You are insane
@@JB-uy9ts "That Girl"🥺 not sure how to take the emphasis! 🤫
I don't like her energy or behavior... shady.
Yes, she got a sneaky manipulative stench to her and a chump for letting her family member & dude go at it yet he seems very disrespectful & aggressive. They both need to go their own way, pay their own way and find happiness
@ what???
@ you sound dumb 😕😒
I feel she got with him bc she knew he would take care of her and those kids. Also feels she thought he was a sucka and realized he in fact was not.
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The judge is one beautiful black queen👑❤
The sad thing is the children are in the middle of that mess!
Love the classic. Whoever is reading this God will put your enemies to shame and reveal all their evil plots, traps and plans against you Keep your faith in God
Amen
you really believe in imaginary sky-hippies?
Thanks, I needed to hear this.
@@d820m Obviously she does. Whether she believes or not, she's coming from a place of love and well wishes. You might want to think of a better name to mock God. Hippies love everything and everyone. God has consequences to sin. I don't see a hippy damning one to fight on a battlefield. George Carlin had some good ideas. Believe it or not, she's wishing you a good life as well.
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I understand both parties but at the end of the day when you do not have a job in your home all day long with kids there is no reason your house cannot be clean even if you have to clean everything else and put the kids to make a mess in their room and only their room
She's home with a six week old baby and 4 other kids. She also seems like she may have post partum depression. She might need some help until she get a grip on things.
@@franceskittrell8761 She's young asf to have all those cherin.. I DON'T GET WOMEN WHO DO THAT TO THEMSELVES... JUST SETTING THEMSELVES UP FOR A HARD AS WAY TO GO IN LIFE..
I really feel bad for this man to be honest. 14:56 he just explained why some men are not
getting married. I didn't see the anger the judge said he displayed either. He didn't really talk over her.
So if your wife is ever unhappy and wants to leave...the man has to fund it AND move out?
He is a slave to her happiness.
He obviously has an anger problem because he said he doesn't know how to express himself to his wife with out cursing or breaking things.
If I had to deal with everything that came with her, along with her attitude, I'd be cussing everyday too. It's as if she just wants a check and for someone to take care of her while she does nothing.
That's one (among many reasons) why people don't get married anymore.
Spencer Evans,
I know right. You can put up with the anger and attitude of every woman but a black one.
@ what?
@ Just say you're racist and go. I'm waiting.
Nevermind, I checked your other comments, and apparently you have a problem with interracial couple. How pathetic. Get over yourself.
He is suppose to take care of her. Although all those kids should be a hard NO
He needed to be away from her... she looking for someone to take care of her and her kids. But he is disrespectful to they need the divorce.
If someone from HIS family was dogging her, calling her out her name and all that, Lynn Toler would've blown him out of the water saying he should be defending his woman...and if he even LOOKED at her with a bottle in his hand, he would be considered to be the next Ike Turner
These two are like oil and water 💧
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He looks likes a Confederate soldier
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Absolutely...I thought he looked familiar, with a civil war rifle and one of those uniforms, he could win at a Halloween costume party!!😅
Or a gold miner 😆
My ex husband was like that. I got into verbal altercations with his sister (she was very dominant in MY house) and he NEVER stood up for me. He turned a blind eye. I'm with Mr. Pelley on that.
Something is off with her. She reeks of narcissism.
He is verbally abusive and has an anger issue. They don't need to be together. It's toxic.
He deserved better. That's all I'm saying !
Judge Toler brought it ALL with her makeup on this episode!!!
The lady is evil. She used this guy and now wants to kick him to the curb AND make him pay her alimony.
Never just hang, just hanging...?Ain't got nothing to do, I will miss you so much Judge Lynn Toler.Thank you for teaching me so much.
Where are the 3 fathers children to pay for their kids to make sure she's comfortable.. I don't like her AT ALL..She was using him all along SHE'S A LEACH!!!!!!
3 fathers... she has the same kids father for the first 3. What are you tlkn about?
Hopefully he’s helping her with his kids & not her soon to be ex husband fitting the bill! That wouldn’t be fair at all!!!
Really.. how you know? You the father??!! LAnd if that's the case why didn't she marry the father. Either way she's a low down ungrateful character. He must pay spousal support and kids maintenance while she moves on to the next man?? She did this on purpose.. get married and pregnant ..drop the guy then collect a cheque for a long time. It was a trap all along
This is why you never marry a chick with 3 kids already, not sure how many baby dad's she has
They struggled together... got an apartment and she moved in her family members
Imagine coming after 12 hrs to 4 to 5 kids, and random family members in a dirty ass crib.....
With that said he has issues as well... he did marry her
Uh and he's a childish, angry, and short sighted. They're both a mess
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@@Ask8613 100, hes a mess also BUT she is a worse mess.... she calls the cops on him, HER relative busted a glass on his face, she moved in HER family to a small ass apartment..... she is about 70% of the blame in this one.
Perfect comment, don't get with somebody with kids. Especially 3 and she in her early 20s. Nope
She's very childish.
She doesn’t want him , she used him until she completed 🏫 school, now she wants spousal support smh. Sounds like he is real man that’s frustrated with being used and abused.
He works all day and she has the audacity to have a chore chart for him when he comes back😡😡😡
this "marriage" was a money arrangement to her. she found someone to take care of her and her kids. thats the most important thing for her. thats why she brought it up so much. damn shame cause she messed it up but still wants to act like she's the prize that he missed out on lol.
You noticed that also huh... seems like she's doing better now she feels like she can get better 🤷
I hope the courts sniff out her plan and don't pay her nothing but enough for the care for the child. Period!
She's so damn young & have a those cherin.. then have the nerves.. to not know how to run a household and her marriage..
I got married at 20.. NOT NAN FOOLISHNESS WAS GOING ON.. GROWN UP TIME. PERIODT.
SHE HAD NO BUSINESS.. NOT STEPPING UP & SUPPORTING HER HUSBAND.. TALKN BOUT SHE DIDN'T WANT TO GET INVOLVED. BCUZ SHE'S KNOWN HER FAMILY MEMBER (LONGER) ALL HER LIFE VS HIM. THAT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH BACKING YOUR HUSBAND..
MOVING SOMEONE IN WASN'T THE RIGHT MOVE FOR THEM.. ONCE THEY REALIZED THAT (PROBLEMS).. THE PERSON(S) SHOULD HAVE BEEN TOLD.. THEY HAVE TO MOVE OUT.. INSTEAD OF LETTING THAT SITUATION *CONTRIBUTE.. TO THE DEMISE OF THEIR ALREADY STRUGGLE MARRIAGE..
THIS COULD HAVE WORKED IF THEY REALLY WANTED IT TO...
IT'S BEST TO DEPART, THAN RAISE KIDS IN A HOSTILE HOME.. NOW SHE'S A SINGLE MOM OF 4 RATHER THAN 3.. SMH.. THAT'S JUST TOO MUCH STRESS ADDED TO THE STRESS OF BEING GROWN.
PEOPLE NEED TO STOP OVER POPULATING THEIR LIFE WITH A HEAP OF CHILDREN.. ESPECIALLY IN AN UNSTABLE SITUATION.. ALL THOSE KIDS CAN'T BE GETTING 100% OF THEIR NEEDS MET..
PEOPLE GET ON MY NERVES.. HAVING A GANG OF KIDS AND THINK IT'S OKAY TO RAISE THEM AS A SINGLE PARENT.. THE KIDS ARE THE REAL VICTIMS..
She keeps talking about stability. He was always this way. She just saw a free meal. I ain't saying she's a gold digger...
I am
He's broke, she, digging in the wrong mine.
@@Michelle-yj1mp Are you stupid? Man is taking careof a woman, and 3 kids that arent his, AND SHES NOT WORKING and wants SPOUSAL SUPPORT to maintain lifestyle, and hes broke?
She used those words for a reason, because child support for his 1 daughter is not going to cover her rent and lifestyle. She wants this dude to support her and her fucking kids because her baby daddies are probably losers. But hes broke?
That man was wrong for calling her names when he gets mad, but she was obviously a user.
@@keithsimon but i said I was working and in school. I wouldn’t of had another kid with him if it was all that.
@@Michelle-yj1mp the wrong mine is right
Interesting case. Why did they ever get together. He seems like he is a angry angry man and just maybe perhaps she doesn't want to be married to him anymore. Why did she get pg and have a baby with this man? I hope they both have a good life without each other.
@th1smomentisfate family doesn't make a person who is not normally angry, angry out of nowhere. Notice he said "how do I Express myself?" After Judge Lynn said "you don't need to break things, cuss, or yell to get your point across." He is a angry person.
When it comes to raising a daughter, be the kind of man you want her to marry.
I definitely wanted to hear why transitional support “doesn’t work that way” in the males case cause he made a good point. He’s the one who has to relocate if they split. And she wants the money cause he introduced her to that lifestyle. Leave her man!!!
It’s was my sectioneight
I dont agree with this outcome whatsoever. He was paying the bills AND had to come home and do the domestic duties of the household but has to pay $1800 because apparently she qualifies as the one that was doing the domestic duties? Even though she literally admitted to having a board up with all the household tasks he had to do when he got home from work? If your a man in this day and age you're best off just not marrying because if one slight hiccup happens on your part, youll pay for it for the rest of your life.
She is shady as hell but no way in hell would I tolerate my husband calling me the “B word” unless it’s BEAUTIFUL!
Don't act like one
This is one time I’m with the man like why he has to get out find a place and rebuild himself and the fact she said he introduced me to this lifestyle he should continue to give it to me irritate me as an independent woman I don’t expect ANYONE to pay for me. These females be using it as an excuse and it’s sad cause some people really need the money
judge is more focused on his anger rather than his situation.. this ruling was unfair, she was clearly using him
Very unfair!
I think the Judge got this one wrong...
I know it “sounds unfair” but she is legally correct. Yes she used him but individuals need to really know the other before they marry them. 🤷🏽♀️
Man makes valid points as to how absurd the "maintaining a lifestyle" argument is. And it's dismissed because the legal system favours the woman automatically. He should pay for his children but the wife's lifestyle is not his responsibility once she chooses to leave, simple.
pretty sad that it turned into that when children are involved.. judge Lynn is right though..
@El Negrito En Rosarito Actually It's 5 children altogether they have 1 child together and she has 3 prior to his 1 prior
A relative hit her husband upside his head and she said nothing.....wowwwwww
Lmaooo The judge low key called her ghetto.
She was looking for a 18 year meal ticket and she got it! They should of got married counseling and he could of took anger management skills. She's going to be sorry for divorcing him. You don't meet men like this every day! We all have issues NONE of us are PERFECT!!
Congratulations on Separation..😊😊
I wish there was an update to this case.
Transitional support is such a joke. He has to move out and pay for where he used to live. I’m glad they are done tho
I would not have gone nowhere, she b.c. would of left before I.
th1smomentisfate I get it.... just don’t think it’s fair. Like he said, she was just as broke when he met her, she moved in with him basically, and now that SHE doesn’t wanna be with him anymore HE has to leave to find a new place to live AND pay for his wife to live along with child support just because “he got her used to living that way”. I feel like unless the other person is making absolutely nothing they shouldn’t get a dime unless the person requesting the money is the one getting broken up with
Kinny Boy right plus don’t forget that only have 1 kid together. I wonder what the other baby daddy or other baby daddies are paying
Yeah, I would not have left my home. The judge took her side because the guy seemed to have anger issues, if i am not getting none and then realize my spoiled wife isn't wearing her wedding ring i would of went off too. Now if it was the other way around they would of dug into this Man. You can't win with Women.
@th1smomentisfate Because you know DAMN WELL IF IT WERE UP TO HERE COMPLACENT ASS THEM KIDS WILL BE HOMELESS.
Watching this put me on edge
She's a lost cause, if she can't back up her man when he gets assaulted, he should find the closest Exit.
This is the most powerful message any human being can learn from. All of us has experienced 🤬! However we need to learn how to treat people like we want to be treated!
So because he happened to be nice enough to pay for everything, she just is entitled to continue getting money? If he told her from the beginning to go half he wouldn’t be forced to pay anything. I hate that. Can the man say he’s used to home cooked meals and sex? That should not be his problem because they divorce
He choose me. I will not be with any man who is not taking care of me. Majority of the time i did pay half. I bought him a car on my credit cuz his previous divorce failed and he got a repo on his credit. So the life style is paying for more cars than one.
Really?? "He got me used to this lifestyle", you say? Yet, you allow a relative to hit him on the side of his head, you plead the 5th on knowledge of the situation and now you wan't $$ for the "lifestyle" you don't want to give up? Do I see a shovel with you doing some digging for gold? Three children by someone else, one by this husband and you need time to finish school; what trade are you taking, again? It appears that this man was a 'convenience' for you; IMO.
He wears my ring to show the world how much he loves me..😪😪
These people are so exhausting. Judge Toler must be the MOST patient person in the world.
I feel his pain about coming home and people are always there. He just does not know how to have a conversation without being verbally abusive. She is done because he didn't start out that way.
He was a good husband!! The lady should have done better by him. IJS....
He wanted to throw that phone after she gave her verdict. He started beating it on the podium as she walked off the platform. He really does need help and he’s most likely abusing her, that’s really why she wants out.
He seems a good man.
He looks like he's about 40ish.
They both do.
They both look 40 how old are they
@@andrewpouncil8411 20s
@@andrewpouncil8411 It said she was 26 and he was 29 but looks are deceiving
"This is a court room, blah blah blah, I know how to run things, you need to know how to run yourself!" (Gallery applauds)
I guess they do it different in the states because I've been in court many times and NEVER heard anyone applaud before
Ok...they BOTH crazy!
But did i just hear a woman with 3kids for another man talk about "HE PAID ALL THE BILLS AND IM NOT WORKING SO I NEED SPOUSAL SUPPORT"
She knows about the anger issues, she pushes every button she can and when he trows a fit she wonders why
they both need to separate fast and co parent. counseling for her older kids. I'm sure they've heard and seen their parents fight :(
She right away said ‘ I want the spouse support and a divorce’....She is untruthful and a lie. Gets me pissed off seeing this type women.
Theres something twisted about this woman. She's so selfish and sneaky. He definitely has anger issues, I have a feeling its mostly due to her though
She just got together with him to have someone to pay her bill, so she could live without working, she gave birth to some kids from him so she could get divorce and then get child support.
She was DEAD wrong for that bottle situation. He needs anger management and therapy and she needs to fess up to some of the things she does wrong to.
For her to openly state that she wants a divorce and get spousal support but doesn’t even mention him maintaining a relationship with their children is a clear indicator that she is just a Money Grubbing Mooch.
She played him up until she she ain’t need him nomore and I’m salty cuz he fine. Everyone gets tired of bs.
No relative can come into my home and put hands on my man...
#itaintgonehappen
Yall ever wonder why Judge Mablean's Court picture isn't up on the wall?
@JAYLEN WRIGHT they have pictures of the past DC judges on the wall
Never thought about that 🤔
Judge mablean was a fool and a clown. I was glad they got rid of her
Maybe it’s just the dead ones
I wondered that myself
he was just a meal ticket to her, he has issues but i beleive he wanted this to work
And she's need a job PERIOD
She’s so beautiful! She looks classy and so well put together and she just had a baby!!! When I had mine I didn’t have the energy to get ready. A shower was good enough.
my god?.. Men across America!.... Are you paying attention 😂
This relationship (Family) shouldn't have gotten together because all of this toxicity,this can turn out really tragic.She stayed and had babies to someone who she let slide with disrespect because he furnished a lifestyle u didn't have.She don't really love him like that,that's why she didnt take up for him,jmo
Lady Tia's T-shirts n Designs Exactly, she said he introduced her to paying bills on time, and saving. A world she thought only existed in the movies. That’s what she married, not him. He took the girl out of the hood,but he didn’t realize you can’t take the hood out of the girl. The first time one of her family members raised a hand to me, and she called the cops, but wouldn’t tell them what happened, Me and my daughter would have been gone.
Nah that’s not right! He gotta move and pay her $1800. I agree take care of your child but if she can’t financially take care of her daughter then maybe the dad should take the daughter. And she can go back to her lifestyle with her 3 other kids.
“You don’t get angry, angry gets you.” -Judge Toler 🥰😱🙏🏼😍
This is sad. She used him.
Imma miss the judge when she leaves 😪
SHE has No respect for their Marriage maybe Motives No Honor😣😒😰
Hmm 🧐 this case was interesting and I love how judge Lynn phrase that anger question to her because someone with that serious of an anger issue always usually show it somehow even if it’s not directly at you but how they speak to people who makes them angry 😡 you have to watch.... So it was their she just chose to overlook it.
She keep bringing up spouses support
Judge Toler. While I try to be an inspiration to others,, Gurl I sooo much want to thank you. Because of you, I have gained sooo much & many reasons to change my 'stinking thinking', giving me reason to step up my game. Often time I hear you voice & see you face..... thank you! Can't afford therapy, but I sure do use you for my "self help". Much Love & Many Blessings. Coming from my ❤ 2urs, of course "IMO" (inmyopinion). Peace
This is unhealthy. She is obviously wanting her and her family to receive more than she gives. I think that's where the anger stemmed from.
He pissed about that outcome i know he is 😩🤷🏾♀️ Be careful next time.... && i also feel like she was playing victim she didn’t even have second thoughts about working their marriage out geesh.....
I was done with her when she didn't tell the police what happened. He should have left her then. She caused the mess. And she got anger problems too. She's a BUM!
Judge Tyler is right. She cares more about hanging than having a relationship with her man.
If u start a relationship and a man calls you out your name he will forever do it and it will be hard to break. Have a zero tolerance for it.
I would like updates on these cases. 💫💥✨ Where are they now? It Would be nice to see what has happened with these cases...🤔🙄💭
1,800 was cheap to get that Cancer out of his life . Why do horrible women always get the good guys??? !!😡
She knew what his likes and dislikes are this man works and she does not work then she constantly calling the police how she gon expect for him to continue paying her bills then she should have just did what he required of her she knew all this before
He doesn’t need to be with her. She is not supportive of him.
Sounds like she just wanted a meal ticket. Cause for her to say it’s because of his anger when she already saw his anger before marrying him is weird. Then honestly some of the stuff he got mad about would make me mad too.