Classic Divorce Court: First Love Fail
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Solida was raised in a strict Christian household and wasn’t allowed to date. Solida lost her virginity to Derrick and found out she was pregnant. They were married before the birth of her child. Sadly, when they were married, none of her family showed up. She says the very day the two of them moved in together they started having problems with their relationship. Salida says Derrick was verbally abusive. She says the two of them were both physically abusive towards each other.
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I have to give the judge props for sitting through this.
All I could think was poor Judge Lynn.. and poor kids
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Mercy 😂. She does have patience . I’m trying to get through the first 10 min, which is why I’m in the comment section 😂
I blame her family for sheltering her and teaching ONLY ABSTINENCE. They should have also told her about boys, relationships and PROTECTION !!!
Yes!!! Sometimes religion works against women...
Agreed 💯....you could grow up in a two parent household and still fall for bullshit cause you haven't been trained against it.
She was disobedient too tho
Times are crazy because What great parents do is teach abstinence
Abstinence is not realistic. Abstinence only teaching leads to this. Parents have an obligation to teach their children about sex, the emotional and mental consequences, and also reproductive health and birth control, no matter their beliefs.
Yes Judge both of them owe us some money for listening to that mess😂
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on this note.... imma head out
"I held myself longer than other people would"
............ me a 27 yr old with 0 kids says otherwise boo. You made that decision
THANK YOU 😂😂 this needed to be said.
But I think she means about losing her virginity as well at 19, and that kids were having sex since high school.
Same here. Just made 27 in February with no children, or even pregnancies. Idk what SHE was talkin about LOL.
Same! 34, engaged and saving ourselves for marriage! It feels good to know I waited and he waited for the right person, our forever person, and got to know each other without sex and fell madly in love. I can’t wait to marry my man! We will “experience” together. That’s the beauty of it.
@@AnooDw that's how i took it as well, i think she specifically meant she waited longer to lose her virginity than the average person. I personally waited until I was 20 and have only ever been with my husband, but I know literally all of my high school friends lost their virginity before we graduated.
She meant she held out on sex obviously. Not kids.
And after 1 kid you know how not to get pregnant.
Exactly! I sure know how not to get pregnant
Y’all give people way too much credit and expect way too much because I promise you a lot of people don’t. There’s men whose wives have babies and they still don’t know exactly how they got them pregnant
@@Chazcott lol 😂. I’m so puzzled by that. Like how do you not know! Lol
@@Chazcott it is 2021 people are playing dumb. All the information anyone needs about anything is available at the tips of our fingers. People like to play dumb about having kids because they are lonely and/or unhappy and they can blame that on having a bunch of kids.
I miss Judge Toler’s wisdom in educating this generation
Should be parents doing that job!!
I have lost several brain cells listening to these two? Are they effing serious?
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Me too 🤣🤣🤣
Lol I'm glad I'm not the only one! SHEESH! two dodo birds!
I know right me too
Neither one can talk right
“He was hiding in the closet, then he bust out the closet”... I got a feeling your’e gonna say that about homeboy again someday...
hahajwkhhhh please
Homosexual vibes 😀🤪
@@ace50105010 I swear I was thinking the same thing!! He's so feminine in the way he holds his hands and neck when he's telling a story lol
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Lmaoo I was getting that too
Its so rare to hear someone say Sex isnt a casual thing.... Thank You Judge Toler!!!!!! Educate my generation...
I don't think the elevator goes to the top floor, on either of them. I couldn't finish the episode, these two couldn't put a sentence together if their lives depended on it.
I hope I age like Judge Lynn. She aged like fine french wine!
Say that again!!!!!
She is 😍😍😍😍😍😍
Being a millionaire helps.
@@hailalexander93 Sure does
This is what happens when you marry too young and dont finish your education.
Judge said because of these two, their children have no sense of what a conversation is. I don't think they understood her.
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The shade of it all lol
That's the worst couple I met on DC. No communication skills at all, very immature and total lack of common sense ...
What in the feminine/ wrist flickering/ neck rolling/ smacking lips... Is going on with Mr.?😒
Thought I was the only one who caught all of that!!!!😉
@@ddnquestion1 😂... Lol! I was 5 min in & couldn't concentrate on what he was even saying cuz his body language was so loud!😩
Okaaaaaaaaaaay
👀 lol
It sounds like to me home boy tank full of sweet sugar
She is such a child so sad
ikr, 25 never seem so- immature
Yes
IMHO, both of them are. neither one of them is choosing to be the adult and grow up, they dont seem to hav any goals, dreams or direction or working to better themselves or family
I feel sorry for her. The right upbringing is so important.
Both of them kids and their puppy love
He's pouring milk on her head? That is freaking abuse.
Pouring milk on her head is not no damn abuse
@@superaniya8895 it is literally assault, honey, look up the law. That's abuse and extremely demeaning and humiliating to boot.
I don't have to physically hit someone for it to be assault. If I spit on someone, that's assault. If I throw something at someone, that's assault. If I pour something on somebody's head, that is assault.
Learn the law and try again.
Super Aniya,
Are you kidding me????😨😨😨😨
Where and how were you raised???
It's definitely an abusing situation. He humiliated her. That's abuse!
Yes
@@superaniya8895 it is LITERALLY abuse/assault. Wow...some of y'all are so lost.
What's wrong with these two? I'm not understanding any of the stories they are telling.
Me too. I'm struggling to follow these stories or even understand their relevance.
These two need some marriage counseling. She slept with his family member?
stop trying... IT MAKES NO SENSE
They have no idea why they're even here. "No that didn't happen" "not that time" WHAT HAPPENED WITH THE TREE
Omg I was so frustrated when she kept avoiding that question
I THOUGHT IT WAS ME... what the hell happened with the tree and the Ax body what?
I really want to know what happened with the tree though :P
I watched an episode when Judge Toler busted two friends trying to pass as husband and wife to get the appearance fee; these two give me that same vibe.
@@sergeantbee2503 I don't recall that episode. Do you remember which one?
I will not speak any negativity about this case. IM PRAYING FOR THOSE KIDS!!! Thats it.
captain190669 Amen
Nothing wrong with coming from a religious home but people who are held back from learning about sex and sexuality the moment their out of the house, they will go buckwild and end up having 5 kids by like 27.
That's definitely not everyone.
Raygen Travis she not going no where until he can’t turn her in anymore 😂 they just fuss fight and fuck 😂 and a baby come out
Lmao what no god people really be talking so much shit thinking they sound intelligent 💀🤣😂😂
My mom was a church girl. Had four kids by 25. Luckily she had sense to not have any kids, her fourth kid was actually a miracle. She had had her tubes tied before her. Don’t let religion you don’t teach your children how to have an intimate relationship.
And the same can happen to the ones who don't. In fact, it is up to the individual to make good decisions.
WAIT A MINUTE WHY WAS THERE NOT A DNA TEST PERFORMED ON THE BABY IN QUESTION????
Will see them on paternity court next
I really like their accent!! 😍 They are immature & can’t tell a story to save their lives
Or anawer a question, or finish finish a story, wow!
They gotta be from Charleston SC. Thats how we talk out here. Geechie accent
So he told you to go see other people. And you stayed with him and had three kids. Smh.
When she said “you throw shade”😂😂 she was so happy
I rewinded back a few times because it made me happy too😂😂😂
Me too 🤣
What the hell does the audience find hilarious about these people engaging in, CRIMINALLY ASSAULTING ONE ANOTHER????
I was wondering the same thing....why is that funny to the audience?
My money comes with my mouth! Damn Judge Lynn is on point!
"Gave." Women need to stop saying, I gave my virginity to him. No, you shared your virginity and pureness with him. Don't devalue the experience.
They are immature and "slow"
Sounds like they from Charleston SC. Not slow but Geetchi
@@jerrybryant8579 right. That’s our dialect.
Anyone else see what I see about this dude? She not his type, she don't know he play for the other team? Or he's Bi. Smh, this is painful to watch.
Shut up
I see something strange there
NO BI MEN 💯💯
So very painful to watch...
This was a childish one ..
He has some feminine vibes like was raised by all women...gotta lil island twang to him too...I dunno, I would watch him if I was her...🤔👀
Sound like he from the gulf coast...Louisiana maybe.
Sounds like he from New Orleans
They sound like they have a Geechee accent (sp?)..like South Carolina.
Sounds bajan with some of they pronounce words
@@anastasiaabrahim9096 I was thinking Trinidadian
There is nothing I like more than the comments section. You people uuuh
I second that💥
Omg if I love the judge one more time 😂 she said my thought exactly “ I think you both are 😜 crazy.
I lost a few brain cells after watching this I had to make a run for it 🏃🏽♀️
Why is this guy moving his hands so girlie
😂...his momma & auntie coming out! Lol
Becos he be is a girly man.
@@jewelz3179 HA! HA!
My older brother is like that. That's how they talked.
His momma said he ain’t need no daddy and she could do this on her own...
These two are crazier than bat sh*t 😱😱
@ Diane Parr. Crazier than bat shit. I love that,I got 2 remember that.
The fact I’ve watched this a million times so I can memorize it so I can tell people about it
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Whewwww Chile. They Make Me Wanna Smoke & Read A Book At The Sametime LoL
I love this comment
He seems a little feminine, i don't think he's Gay seems like he was raised in a house with females
I feel really sorry for their kids :(
The only reason why I'm sitting through this mess is to hear the judges advice for them
Somebody is a little fruity over here 🌈
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Yes he's definitely got some Skittles in his popcorn
Thank you for uploading this video, I am upset Judge Lynn Toler is leaving she in my opinion the best, knowledgeable, humorous and able to understand the workings of relationships. Judge Faith to follow.
Judge Lynnn dont leave please..you really repair these black families..you dont know what positive change you are making for the young black generation..DONT LEAVE PLEASE!!
I don't even know how the judge sat through this one...to even give them advice 😩😩😩🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️
If their child could see their behavior, they would tell them we have the same age
She's truly a *prime example* of why sheltering kids too much, not (responsibly, gradually and age appropriatly) exposing them to the *real world* and teaching abstinence only (until marriage) as "sex ed" is a recipe for nearly guaranteed *disaster.* Smfh, that's just hella irresponsible. Being sheltered your entire childhood, only to get thrown into adulthold without any safe and guided exposure is *hella bad and irresponsible "parenting".* That's setting your kids up for failure. Growing up that way won't benefit the child at all. A *massive* part of a parent's job is *preparing them for the next stage of life,* so they're better equipped to handle going into adulthood. Sheltering is just neglectful.
It's so much better to come prepared with knowledge instead of having to figure it all out on your own without any guidance.
Those kinds of parents are only shielding themselves from being uncomfortable, leaving the child unprepared for life. It has *absolutely no benefit* for the child, those parents are simply shielding themselves from the responsibility of being parents. Smfh, I just can't stand those kinds of parents. They're truly really only setting their children up for failure, which is hella irresponsible and negligable. That breed of parents are selfish and irresponsible. They're truly neglecting their children's needs. Your kids are not kids forever. Why is thos such a hard concept???!?!?!? Jfc.. I've never seen that kind of (non-)parenting work in the kid's benefit.. at all.
*Don't become a parent if you're not ready to actually parent. That's abusive to the child. Nobody benefits at all.. all it does is endanger the child even more.* The real world always comes. Your child is gonna learn what you're trying to shield them from one way or the other, so *please* for the love of children and their well being, actually properly prepare them for the world. Don't have children if you're not prepared for them to not be toddlers the rest of their lives. It's better to come prepared with knowledge, than earn that knowledge the hard way. Jfc, parenting classes should be mandatory.
This is simply child endangerment. The real world always catches up to you. Your baby is not going to be a baby forever. *Don't have kids if you're not willing to do the work and take on the responsibility of actually raising a child. WHY IS THAT SO HARD TO UNDERSTAND FFS!?!??!?!?????*
Knowledge is not harmful for a child. Lack of knowledge on the other hand most certainly is. This shouldn't be that hard of a concept to grasp. I guess far too many people want the benefit and credit of being a parent without the responsibility of actually being one. Ughh.
I think they are from Charleston, SC. They have a Geechie accent. Ease up y'all.
That's what I thought too!!
They are both slow 😶
Yellomix Yes. We all are slow in some area with life.
They are children pretending to be adults.. they do not have no reason to stress the beautiful judge..they just wanted to be on the show
My head hurt! Judge asked one question: what happened with the tree? We still waiting on that story! 🙄🥴😒
The young lady acted like she was just released from being locked in a cage and hasn't quite gotten her bearings.
That boy sweeter than sugar. Jezzuz!!! 😅😂😂
Both of them don't know how to listen, answer a question or tell a story. They are all over the place and it's quite annoying lol
I told my daughter all the time she has no business shacking up with a male and she has to ask me for money. She got tired of hearing my mouth and finally dropped the bum
Sounds like they're from Charleston, SC. I know a fellow geechee when I hear one! 😆 #843
I couldn’t detect the accent but I knew it was there!
843 STAND UP!!
Damn this was hard to watch..I would've told them to get out of my courtroom...Judge T said was he in the closet with the tree 🤣😂🤣.. the judge specifically asked her to tell the story of the artificial tree and the police n she didnt do that...GO HOME ROGER!!!! BOTH OF U!!! nerve reckoning
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That Tree story was all over the place. She annoying af.
This is what happens when two distressing people meet.
He wanted you to experience other people because he was still in the closet and didn’t want you to see his true colors. 🤷🏽♀️ I understand he has an accent but his body language is telling me that he didn’t want a female he for a girlfriend, he just wanted to experience a girl.
I definitely agree
That's what I'm reading too! 😂
Oh my God before I even read this message... I was thinking the same exact thing
EXACTLY
Geechie! Geechie! Gullah geechie!
Charleston sc to Savannah ga to north florida
Gullah Geechie is from Wilmington, NC to Jacksonville , FL.
THANK YOU. They sound like they are from here in Charleston.
I’m glad somebody said it because I was sitting here confused about what their first language was
You can tell the judge is annoyed by this couple.
They are definitely from Charleston, SC. The accent tells it all.
Or somewhere off the islands in south carolina
Definitely from the low country
Yes indeed!
🤦🏾♀️ this was painful to watch
3 kids and she acts so childish. Damn they are so not right for eachother. Only people I feel sorry for is the kids.. They are attacking eachother so badly and yet they are parents.
What happened with the tree? smh
Do they have accents or is that a disability?? They both sound like children.
Nene Nene These young people do not have a disability. They simply speak with a deep southern vernacular, perhaps they’re Geechie.
@@criticalthinking6929 I was thinking Jamaican, but a woman at work said it wasn't her slang. Thsnks for the info
Geechie absolutely
they geechie, straight out of Charleston SC
They are definitely gullah/ geechee I know my people
His very FIRST sentence!…I sped to the comments!…
The boy is sweeeeeett!😂
1.She still 19. 2.He’s not mad at the gizzards, he mad cuz she didn’t listen to him about the gizzard.
These young people are a straight up MESS ! They need to :
1) Do a paternity test in the child in question
2) go to counseling individually and.
3) as a couple &
4) BOTH need anger management classes ...
& THEN there can be a question of
maturity, divorce, and having jobs that are capable of supporting a spouse & 3 damn children, married or divorced.
Oh man!!!! That was amazing Judge!!! You are amazing!!!!
First time viewing this case. It shortly after you loosin your love.
I am still praying for you . I can’t imagine the hurt and pain you are under.
Take care of your self. Im also praying for your boys.
Big hugs
Much respect
From Oklahoma
What the hell are they talking about?
Taylor Williams ok!! I am so lost.
Something isn't right about this dude hmmmmmm
He is undercover batty boy
@@MsLovely802 yep
Wth... our education system is so broken if they let her graduate high school. She can’t compose a complete sentence to save her life!!!
Both of them tell looong stories that lead to nothing and nowhere. 🤦🏽♀️
They are both insane. Miss the days of people actually being MARRIED on this show.
Lawd have mercy these two have some maturing to do
I have a headache after that bs
She should have waited until the connection was not so new. Unfortunately she fell for the first unreliable skunk she crossed.
She needs counseling. He needs to stay out the closets.
Lawd, not the gizzards🤦🏾♀️ My South Carolina people😂🤣
This is the 1st episode of DC I couldn’t watch till the end smdh
I need the patience of Job to sit and listen to this mess..
that lil “see what he do” 🤣🤣🤣
31 with no kids. Talk about yourself sis 😂😂😂
This was so painful to watch. Trying to get them to finish a thought, or complete a sentence, was like pulling teeth. My God.
aww I love the judge she is funny and wise
They are definitely from Charleston SC with that GEECHEE accent.
This man sweeter than my grandma’s yams 🍠 🤨
Did you see how the judge side eye him while he was clapping at the end???🤔
Some men want women that cook like their grandmothers and mothers but can't even boil water themselves🙄
He prolly has a lil sugar in his tank , he acts like a female “ I poured milk on her “ ..said that w confidence like it’s cute .
God bless whoever made it to the end smh
There is a lot of commentary about the gesticulation, gestures and movement of the defendant as feminine. I understand Americans interpreting his body language in this way. It is mischaracterized in as much that clearly from his accent his family is from the Islands either Jamaica, Belize, Cape Verde or Haiti. Men and women from these areas are more demonstrative when they speak, smacking or pursing you lips and all kinds of noises can mean different things like a punctuation to add that a person is lying, a situation is ridiculous and the like. Rocking back and forth from side to side like a pendulum is seen more as the movement of a man a masculine movement. Women from the islands seldom do that in speaking and explaining things. Men who appear present as masculine or feminine may or may not be gay or bi-sexual. Yet to put his speech, pursed lips and body movement in cultural context. From the islands none of those movements are seen as gay and the more exaggerated movements of all of the above happen more from men than women. He is patterning after men who are considered overtly masculine from the islands and not the opposite.
Thank you for this!! I’m so tired of people judging men like that. I’m middle eastern and men in my family dance, cook and have a lot of animated hand gestures as well and they are not gay. Not like I would care if they were but a man is not just a still , aggressive, non emotional human. Men can and ate anything they want from
All backgrounds and cultures and ways of speaking and expressing !
He is not “acting feminine” he is feminine 😒
Where is this guy from? He's giving me island vibes 🤔👀
children, children, children go away and give us a break
He sounds like he's from New Orleans. & yes they sound really umm.. immature for marriage smh
Her parents did her a disservice.. they needed to teach her what to look for in a good mate and not just abstinence. She seems very naive and girlish even after all she's gone through.. teaching a kid to abstain from sex is not enough...