maybe people will think this is weird, however your videos are such a safe space for me. I feel like you’re so real and transparent and I can comment whatever I want without feeling (that) judged. I just love you soooo much and aspire to be half as great as you
I have been watching Gretchen for at least 6 years and this is by far my favorite video she has ever made I feel so much closer to her now and this advice helps me more then she could ever understand!!
I’m a therapist and It’s a thing! It’s a protective mechanism that your mind does! Think of it as a security blanket trying to bring ease to your mind and sometimes you’ll have dreams about it that are a bit distorted.
The story of the man sitting in your passenger seat when you were waiting for Max is so scary!!! I always lock my car when I’m sitting and waiting for someone. Glad your ok!!!
I seriously love how you explained your thoughts on birth control, and how it’s totally up to the person and if they would like to put that in their body or not, it definitely affects people differently! I remember that video where you talked about that story where the guy got in your vehicle, oh my goodness that was so scary! I love that you filmed this video, I really enjoyed it!
i’ve watched every single one of your videos since the start and this has to be one of my all time favorites. i so appreciate how open you were w these q/a and i caught myself smiling so many times. seriously feels like a friendship
I really thought I was the only one who blocked out traumatic experiences or embarrassing moments and it made me feel better that I wasn't the only one. I love your long vlogs!!
Really proud of you for talking about intimacy staff! I have always been bummed when you kind of glossed by questions about sex etc. previously because I feel like its something that us girls should be able to talk about without feeling weird! I understand that the internet is a totally different beast when it comes to talking about personal things so I get why you have avoided it in the past, but was super excited to see the range of topics you talked about in this video!
I recently discovered your channel and I love how when I watch your videos I feel like I am talking to my best friend. You are so real and honest and I really admire that!
I loveee that you were willing to answer these questions. I get the sense that sometimes you’re scared to speak your mind on here about certain topics & I’m proud of you for being so genuine ❤️
The way your brain blocks bad things out is a defense mechanism to protect you from traumas. So it’s definitely a thing. Also I soooo wish we could be friends😩 you have such good energy
Thank you for being so real on both your channel and podcast, It makes me so happy to see someone as lighthearted and also being so soft hearted as you really makes my world a little better and i love you so so much! by the way my name is also Gretchen haha
Ok someone has def already said this but I love you grech. You just make everything easier to talk about and help me know how to deal with things when I’m older. Also, I was watching this on the way to my soccer tournament during the day and felt so cozy watching like we were actually having a sleepover.
I get the same way about locking my doors too! Hearing someone else talk about it is so comforting because I always feel weird talking about it with my friends but I’ll get scared when someone else yells at another car because I’m afraid that car will wind up following me or something. Idk kinda irrational but it’s something I’ve struggled with for a long time
Hi Gretchen! I appreciate how open you were about the personal intimate question hahaha. I know it’s very new for you to talk about that stuff on your channel but I am living for it! It shows how real you are and as a college student it’s very relatable. We love hearing about your experiences and any advice you have to give! Overall, love the educational mature content!❤️
I had a similar scenario where someone opened my passenger door and robbed us at gun point! I barely remember it because I blocked it out like you said but I also get extremely anxious being in my car and always lock the doors. I relate to what you said about the anxiousness, PTSD, and blocking out bad mems SOOOOO much! Loved this vid Gretchen
LOVED THIS VID!! I've been a subscriber since your freshman year at BU and this video really made me understand you more and feel closer to you! I love that you opened up about intimacy and everything like that because a lot of people on youtube don't talk about that stuff. It was all very relatable and I loved seeing that side of you! It's hard not to put you on a pedestal and see you as more than just a normal person, but I feel like this video helped me realize you're only human too and you have struggles just like everyone else. So thank you for that! This was definitely my favorite video of yours in a while!
wow I really felt like I was comfy in bed with my bestie chatting all things girly talk, thank you for being so open and honest with us gretchen it means so much and makes my heart and soul so happy :') I'm the oldest of 5 so you really are like my older sister!!
I appreciate this video so much! You talked about so many topics that I know make you feel uncomfortable, but I liked getting to know you better and your answers really helped!! 🤍
On the body image/intimacy question - totally agree, they think you look great! BUT - if it really is just an off day & you don’t feel good and wouldn’t be able to get out of your head and enjoy yourself... you don’t have to be intimate that day!! You don’t owe that to anyone 😊
Only person I can sit through these long vids with!! Love how real this was, so helpful!! You honestly feel like an older sis!! I remember you talking abt the car story, so happy you’re okay!! Sending you sm love❤️❤️
I honestly feel so much more connected to you and you don't even know me. Thank you for being so real and making this a safe space. I love you so much girl.
love videos like this where I just feel like I'm chatting with a close friend! SO smart of you to try to get out of your car and run instead of trying to get him out or worrying about possessions in the car.
Yes! It is common that people forget things from their childhood! My friends will always be like do you remember when you did xy and z... and I’ll have no clue what they are talking about. It’s your mind trying to protect you!
I seriously feel like we’re best friends! I love you and your videos and I truly appreciate you being a place where I can come to and just not feel judged.
this really made me feel safe and connected to you! it seems like we are best friends HAHA. i have finals tomorrow but had to stay up and watch this! you are my favorite ever! 🥰🥰🥰
Hey Gretchen your one of my favorite TH-cam I’ve been watching you for like 6 years!! My best friend passed away this thanksgiving in a car accident and we became best friends from you! She was watching you and I was so we became BFF!!! Im thankful you!!! 💜💜
@@GretchenGeraghty7 thank you so much! We bonded over your videos all the time!!! We actually went into Boston to try to find you one day! That will be the day I will always remember!! 💛
Gosh every sexually actively girl has had at least one pregnancy scare. I am a HUGE worrier so when the slightest thing is off I get so worried. I always take a pregnancy test just to clear my head otherwise I fixate on it too much. Meanwhile my boyfriend is the total opposite of me. 😂😂 it just a girl thing. 😂
I just wanted to share some information with all of you since birth control was a topic in this video. As you may already know, hormonal contraceptives can increase your risk of blood clots. There is a genetic mutation called Factor Five Liden that makes you more prone to blood clots, however, you have to be tested to see if you have it or you won't know. I have Factor Five Liden but was unaware and have been on hormonal birth control for years. This August I developed a blood clot in my leg and it went to my lungs and caused a pulmonary embolism. Thats how I found out about the genetic mutation. If I had known I had this I would have never taken hormonal contraception. If you are thinking about starting birth control pills I strongly encourage you to talk to your doctor about getting tested for Factor Five Liden first!!
your answers on birth control were like perfect imo. so helpful but didnt give away too much as to girls wanting to like copy u. ur frickin awesome just thought id say that:)
I love you and your videos and I don’t know about anyone else but looking at the tape behind you the whole video for where you want to hang photos above your bed I think it would look so good if you did one large photo that covers the 4 middle boxes and 2 accent photos on each side where the tape already is. Just a thought, ily.
OMG when you were talking about your scary experience, that also happened to me at Starbucks when I was waiting for my friends to come out and a man started walking to my passenger door. He reached for the handle & I literally shook my head no at him and went into reverse 😂 I was in flight or flight mode and was so scared, my heart was racing
Thank you for being so open and honest, love all your videos, I would watch you do laundry lol love you and Max’s relationship! Your fur child is awesome too 😋
I love this video. I have been watching your videos since I was in middle school, and you’re the reason i decided to go to college lol. Now im a junior in college so I feel like Ive been growing up with you 🥺
My mind totally forgets bad things that’s happened to me. It’s a coping mechanism. I have forgotten a lot of family issues that have happened in the past. It can totally relate!!!
Girl I totally feel you about the pill! I started it after I was a competitive gymnast and needed to gain weight to get my period before entering college! tbh my only side effect is relatively dry skin.
"I just spilled all the tea, its all on the floor in front of me" that made me laugh so hard haahahahah love u gretchen this video made me feel so much closer to you!!
On the subject of birth control. Ive been on the pill for 2 1/2 years and one morning I woke up with my left arm blue and tense/swollen. Long story short I could of died from a blood clot. Throughout the 2 1/2 years birth control did not change one thing about my body/mental health. I thought I was very lucky and not one of those girls who get symptoms. Still don't know 100 % if my blood clot was from the birth control but I know for a fact it was a factor. I wanted to comment this because I myself loved being on birth control, but after going through this(still am) Id do your own research and maybe get blood work done. Doctors tell you that you may be at risk for blood clots when your on the medication, but they don't specify that your blood thickens when your on a hormonal birth control which can lead to blood clots and even death. Obviously consult with your doctor but I wanted to comment this.
maybe people will think this is weird, however your videos are such a safe space for me. I feel like you’re so real and transparent and I can comment whatever I want without feeling (that) judged. I just love you soooo much and aspire to be half as great as you
I feel the same way!! She’s the best
I have been watching Gretchen for at least 6 years and this is by far my favorite video she has ever made I feel so much closer to her now and this advice helps me more then she could ever understand!!
I’m a therapist and It’s a thing! It’s a protective mechanism that your mind does! Think of it as a security blanket trying to bring ease to your mind and sometimes you’ll have dreams about it that are a bit distorted.
I love how real and honest these answer are!
Same it made me so happy
The story of the man sitting in your passenger seat when you were waiting for Max is so scary!!! I always lock my car when I’m sitting and waiting for someone. Glad your ok!!!
this felt just like talking to a best friend, i loved it
Absolutely love you Gretchen, I feel like I have grown up with you. Please never change you are such an inspiration!!
I wait for Gretchen’s vlog all day I love that it comes out at night because watching it is how I can unwind and finish my day!!
big sissy vibes 🥺have been watching you for for EVER and this is one of my fave videos youve ever made
I seriously love how you explained your thoughts on birth control, and how it’s totally up to the person and if they would like to put that in their body or not, it definitely affects people differently! I remember that video where you talked about that story where the guy got in your vehicle, oh my goodness that was so scary! I love that you filmed this video, I really enjoyed it!
ur so pretty!!!
@@madisonmclaney5132 Awww thank you, so are you!!!
i’ve watched every single one of your videos since the start and this has to be one of my all time favorites. i so appreciate how open you were w these q/a and i caught myself smiling so many times. seriously feels like a friendship
I’m loving your vlogmas this year omg!! I feel like we would be such good friends 🥺🤍
I really thought I was the only one who blocked out traumatic experiences or embarrassing moments and it made me feel better that I wasn't the only one. I love your long vlogs!!
Really proud of you for talking about intimacy staff! I have always been bummed when you kind of glossed by questions about sex etc. previously because I feel like its something that us girls should be able to talk about without feeling weird! I understand that the internet is a totally different beast when it comes to talking about personal things so I get why you have avoided it in the past, but was super excited to see the range of topics you talked about in this video!
Thank you so much for this video, Gretchen! It’s like chatting with an older sister❤️☺️
I recently discovered your channel and I love how when I watch your videos I feel like I am talking to my best friend. You are so real and honest and I really admire that!
I loveee that you were willing to answer these questions. I get the sense that sometimes you’re scared to speak your mind on here about certain topics & I’m proud of you for being so genuine ❤️
The way your brain blocks bad things out is a defense mechanism to protect you from traumas. So it’s definitely a thing. Also I soooo wish we could be friends😩 you have such good energy
Honestly here for the night uploads to end my night with positivity and authenticity ❤️
Thank you for being so real on both your channel and podcast, It makes me so happy to see someone as lighthearted and also being so soft hearted as you really makes my world a little better and i love you so so much! by the way my name is also Gretchen haha
Ok someone has def already said this but I love you grech. You just make everything easier to talk about and help me know how to deal with things when I’m older. Also, I was watching this on the way to my soccer tournament during the day and felt so cozy watching like we were actually having a sleepover.
I now lock my doors whenever I am anywhere bc of the incident that happened to you. So glad that nothing worse happened!!
I love how you opened up here!!! Thank you!!
I get the same way about locking my doors too! Hearing someone else talk about it is so comforting because I always feel weird talking about it with my friends but I’ll get scared when someone else yells at another car because I’m afraid that car will wind up following me or something. Idk kinda irrational but it’s something I’ve struggled with for a long time
Hi Gretchen! I appreciate how open you were about the personal intimate question hahaha. I know it’s very new for you to talk about that stuff on your channel but I am living for it! It shows how real you are and as a college student it’s very relatable. We love hearing about your experiences and any advice you have to give! Overall, love the educational mature content!❤️
“keep it moving” is my new favorite line 😂
HAHA
lmao 😂
I had a similar scenario where someone opened my passenger door and robbed us at gun point! I barely remember it because I blocked it out like you said but I also get extremely anxious being in my car and always lock the doors. I relate to what you said about the anxiousness, PTSD, and blocking out bad mems SOOOOO much! Loved this vid Gretchen
UGH I LOVED HOW OPEN YOU WERE. this was awesome. like my fav vid from you and ive been watching for years
watching gretchens vlogmas video for the day is my favorite way to end my night :) love you so much gretchen!!
LOVED THIS VID!! I've been a subscriber since your freshman year at BU and this video really made me understand you more and feel closer to you! I love that you opened up about intimacy and everything like that because a lot of people on youtube don't talk about that stuff. It was all very relatable and I loved seeing that side of you! It's hard not to put you on a pedestal and see you as more than just a normal person, but I feel like this video helped me realize you're only human too and you have struggles just like everyone else. So thank you for that! This was definitely my favorite video of yours in a while!
wow I really felt like I was comfy in bed with my bestie chatting all things girly talk, thank you for being so open and honest with us gretchen it means so much and makes my heart and soul so happy :') I'm the oldest of 5 so you really are like my older sister!!
I appreciate this video so much! You talked about so many topics that I know make you feel uncomfortable, but I liked getting to know you better and your answers really helped!! 🤍
You are literally the big sister I've always wanted and needed in my life ❤
On the body image/intimacy question - totally agree, they think you look great! BUT - if it really is just an off day & you don’t feel good and wouldn’t be able to get out of your head and enjoy yourself... you don’t have to be intimate that day!! You don’t owe that to anyone 😊
One of my favorite Gretchen videos of all time!!! Always felt like you’re my Internet BFF and this convo was so helpful/healing/fun 🥰❤️
these videos are so comforting love them so much!! ❤️
Only person I can sit through these long vids with!! Love how real this was, so helpful!! You honestly feel like an older sis!! I remember you talking abt the car story, so happy you’re okay!! Sending you sm love❤️❤️
I honestly feel so much more connected to you and you don't even know me. Thank you for being so real and making this a safe space. I love you so much girl.
My heart was racing during the starbucks incident. That’s terrifying. I’m so sorry that happened to you
love videos like this where I just feel like I'm chatting with a close friend! SO smart of you to try to get out of your car and run instead of trying to get him out or worrying about possessions in the car.
gretchen!!! i loved this video so much! i love how open and honest you are! you truly feel like a big sister/best friend to me
Thank you for being so honest with us! It genuinely helps learning or I guess knowing other people’s experiences. You’re such a sweetheart ✨💕
love you Gretchen!! you have such a bubbly personality and i love it!! 💕
Yes! It is common that people forget things from their childhood! My friends will always be like do you remember when you did xy and z... and I’ll have no clue what they are talking about. It’s your mind trying to protect you!
I feel like we’ve all overreacted and taken a pregnancy test and when it came back negative and we were like omg I’m so stupid lol
I seriously feel like we’re best friends! I love you and your videos and I truly appreciate you being a place where I can come to and just not feel judged.
this really made me feel safe and connected to you! it seems like we are best friends HAHA. i have finals tomorrow but had to stay up and watch this! you are my favorite ever! 🥰🥰🥰
omg i loved this- i laughed so hard at some different parts and itb legit felt like i was chatting with you
goodnight! xoxoxo
don’t we all know about that 1am boy text... Gretchen love how real you are!
Hey Gretchen your one of my favorite TH-cam I’ve been watching you for like 6 years!! My best friend passed away this thanksgiving in a car accident and we became best friends from you! She was watching you and I was so we became BFF!!! Im thankful you!!! 💜💜
From Boston too 💜
I am so sorry about your lost 😔. Hope Gretchens video can bring some positivity cuz I know they do for me ❤️ stay strong.
@@dani10200r thank you so much appreciate it !
Breyanna I’m so so sorry for your loss💛 that’s so special you bonded over my videos, sending all my love!!
@@GretchenGeraghty7 thank you so much! We bonded over your videos all the time!!! We actually went into Boston to try to find you one day! That will be the day I will always remember!! 💛
GRETCHEN I LOVE YOU. i have been watching u since u were so young and i love ur vlogmas this year
Loved this video. Your dad and mum must be so proud of you. You are a classy girl and I'm proud of you
Gosh every sexually actively girl has had at least one pregnancy scare. I am a HUGE worrier so when the slightest thing is off I get so worried. I always take a pregnancy test just to clear my head otherwise I fixate on it too much. Meanwhile my boyfriend is the total opposite of me. 😂😂 it just a girl thing. 😂
I just wanted to share some information with all of you since birth control was a topic in this video. As you may already know, hormonal contraceptives can increase your risk of blood clots. There is a genetic mutation called Factor Five Liden that makes you more prone to blood clots, however, you have to be tested to see if you have it or you won't know. I have Factor Five Liden but was unaware and have been on hormonal birth control for years. This August I developed a blood clot in my leg and it went to my lungs and caused a pulmonary embolism. Thats how I found out about the genetic mutation. If I had known I had this I would have never taken hormonal contraception. If you are thinking about starting birth control pills I strongly encourage you to talk to your doctor about getting tested for Factor Five Liden first!!
Already excited for your next vlogmas because I saw your friends surprising you on your IG story💕💕
Thank you for being the big sister I never had but always wanted 😌♥️
Sleepover vibes for sureeeee!!
Obsesssed with this 🥺 thank yoou for being so real, it’s the best 🤍
I never want vlogmas to end I love it🥰🥰
this is my favorite video of yours, you should do more of these! xoxo
i love this!! :) so real and raw. also hehehe 38:08 - "Gretchen wants to come in my Uber!" anyone else remember that?! 😁😍💗❤️
Someone coming into my car is my biggest fear! I always lock my doors. So happy Max was there 😔
I loved this video!! I too block out bad memories haha 😬 and it was just nice to hear relatable and helpful answers/advice❤️❤️
i love your videos gretchen! i feel like one of your close friends during these videos
your answers on birth control were like perfect imo. so helpful but didnt give away too much as to girls wanting to like copy u. ur frickin awesome just thought id say that:)
I love you and your videos and I don’t know about anyone else but looking at the tape behind you the whole video for where you want to hang photos above your bed I think it would look so good if you did one large photo that covers the 4 middle boxes and 2 accent photos on each side where the tape already is. Just a thought, ily.
OMG when you were talking about your scary experience, that also happened to me at Starbucks when I was waiting for my friends to come out and a man started walking to my passenger door. He reached for the handle & I literally shook my head no at him and went into reverse 😂 I was in flight or flight mode and was so scared, my heart was racing
Thank you for being so open and honest, love all your videos, I would watch you do laundry lol love you and Max’s relationship! Your fur child is awesome too 😋
you’re like the big sis i never had!! 🥺💛
I love this video. I have been watching your videos since I was in middle school, and you’re the reason i decided to go to college lol. Now im a junior in college so I feel like Ive been growing up with you 🥺
Gretchen is so relatable & very honest!
Thanks for answering my question!! I just love your videos!!!
loved this!! you are the best big sister
Waiting all day for your vlogmas >>>>
Love this thanks for sharing !!! Cant wait for the next girl talk sleep over eheh !!
Love this! Where did you get your bed side lamps? OBSESSED🙌🏼
My mind totally forgets bad things that’s happened to me. It’s a coping mechanism. I have forgotten a lot of family issues that have happened in the past. It can totally relate!!!
YOU ARE A QUEENNNNN I LOVE YOU
I love all of your vlogmas videos!! :)
Girl I totally feel you about the pill! I started it after I was a competitive gymnast and needed to gain weight to get my period before entering college! tbh my only side effect is relatively dry skin.
“Sweaty soggy panties” HAHAH this video is so real, loved it!
"I just spilled all the tea, its all on the floor in front of me" that made me laugh so hard haahahahah love u gretchen this video made me feel so much closer to you!!
I’ve been watching you for years but I never comment. ty for this video💗
Loved this girl chat while I got ready this morning!! 🤍
On the subject of birth control. Ive been on the pill for 2 1/2 years and one morning I woke up with my left arm blue and tense/swollen. Long story short I could of died from a blood clot. Throughout the 2 1/2 years birth control did not change one thing about my body/mental health. I thought I was very lucky and not one of those girls who get symptoms. Still don't know 100 % if my blood clot was from the birth control but I know for a fact it was a factor. I wanted to comment this because I myself loved being on birth control, but after going through this(still am) Id do your own research and maybe get blood work done. Doctors tell you that you may be at risk for blood clots when your on the medication, but they don't specify that your blood thickens when your on a hormonal birth control which can lead to blood clots and even death. Obviously consult with your doctor but I wanted to comment this.
I love this!!!
yess I love the open and honest talks!!🥰
loveeee this and your positivity 🥰 can you make a video of how you edit your videos & tips ??
Thank you so much for answering my question Gretchen!! You're so kind to men in bars!!😂😂
Love the realness of this video!!
Thank you for being so open and honest
Hahah when you were saying to imagine you’re drinking hot cocoa & to imagine the tea spilled all over the floor, love you sm🧡🧡
Where is your red sweater from the beginning of the video from ?? I need it in my life!!
So excited for this video !! Love your daily vids 🥰🥰🥰
This might be my fav video of yours yet!! I LOVE how open you were
Aww I love how real and open this got!!
I just am still so into this intro. Like the music! Girl yes!
I do the same thing especially with traumatic memories!! my brain says ~delete~
right!!
Your videos make me so happy. They make my day so much better🥺🥰love you! Xoxo
lowkey reminded me to take my birth control pill ... ily !!