Mothers of the Believers(Part 12): Zaynab Bint Jahsh | Shaykh Dr. Yasir Qadhi
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- In this Episode of Mothers of The Believers, Shaykh Yasir talks about Zaynab Bint Jahsh.
Presentation Details: April 17th, 2019 @ Memphis Islamic Center
In this Series, Mothers of the Believers (Ummahat Al-Mu'mineen), Shaykh Dr. Yasir Qadhi discusses the backgrounds, stories, and legacies of the wives of the Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him [S].
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Every time the sheikh says that he is going to tell us about some events in seerah that is going to be problematic/have some issues
I find those events just so beautiful innocent interesting and mostly beneficial
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Episode 12 Notes:
Zaynab Bint Jahsh RA
Zaynab RA was the first cousin of the Prophet SAW because her mother was Abdullah Ibn Abdul Muttalib’s sister. Zaynab RA was married once before to an unknown husband and she migrated to Medina after embracing Islam. The Prophet SAW sent her a proposal to marry his adopted son, Zayd Ibn Haritha RA but she rejected this.
Eventually, Zaynab RA did agree to marry Zayd RA and the marriage was a disaster from the start. Both of them had issues and arguments constantly. During one of these disputes, the Prophet SAW visited them in order to reconcile their issues. But, Zayd RA was not home and Zaynab RA answered, wearing just her normal clothing without a veil. The Prophet SAW upon seeing her immediately lowered his gaze and commented “Glory be to the one who changes the heart”, after which he left. Zaynab RA heard this and was confused by it.
When Zayd RA returned and Zaynab RA told him what happened. Zayd RA understood what the comment meant and thus he went to visit the Prophet SAW. During this visitation he complained about Zaynab RA and how his marriage to her isn’t working. The Prophet SAW then advised him not to divorce her. After this Zayd RA did not approach Zaynab RA and he then later divorced her. They were married for almost a year.
After he divorced her, the Prophet SAW asked Zayd RA, to ask Zaynab RA if she would marry him. Zayd RA went to her house and then realised if she says yes, it would mean that, she would become the wife of the Prophet SAW. Zayd RA therefore faced the wall and then asked her if she is interested in marrying the Prophet SAW. Zaynab RA upon hearing this did Sujud and then asked him to wait for an answer until she makes Istikhara. During this interim Allah SWT revealed Ayah 37 of Surah Ahzab and the Prophet SAW visited her. The Prophet SAW explained that Allah SWT has done their Nikkah via Ayah 37.
The Nikkah and Walima of Zaynab RA occurred in 5AH and she was 35 years old at this time. The Verses of Hijab were revealed on the day of Zaynab RA’s wedding. Zaynab RA was known to be very generous, truthful and had a high level of Taqwa. During her marriage to the Prophet SAW, she accompanied him to Battle of Hunayn and Taif. Zaynab RA also did Itikaf in the Masjid with Aisha RA and Hafsa RA.
Zaynab RA also had a harsh temper that would subside quickly and the best example of this is prior to the demise of the Prophet SAW, when Zaynab RA got into a marital spat with the Prophet SAW. The Prophet SAW disciplined her for 3 months, to the extent she believed she wouldn’t see him again. However, a few weeks prior to his demise, he visited her and they reconciled.
After the demise of the Prophet SAW, Zaynab RA spent her life taking care of orphans and giving to charity. Zaynab RAs love for charity was so great that she gave away any finances Umar RA gave her, during his Khilafah and she died with no personal possessions. She was the first wife of the Prophet SAW to pass away after his him in 20 AH. Upon hearing of her demise, Aisha RA cried for her and praised her immensely.
Fun Trivia fact: Zaynab RA wanted to marry the Prophet SAW even before she was given the proposal to marry Zayd RA.
Fun Trivia fact: Some Tafsirs state that Zaynab RA only decided to marry Zayd RA after Quran was revealed reproaching her.
Fun Trivia fact: Aisha RA and Anas RA stated that, if the Prophet SAW was to hide any Ayah of the Quran it would have been Surah Ahzab Ayah 37, because it exposed how he truly felt about Zaynab RA. The Prophet SAW hid his desire for Zaynab RA although, there are different opinions on what the Prophet SAW hid.
Fun Trivia fact: Zaynab RA would boast to her co-wives that Allah SWT did her Nikkah in the Quran and that her Wali was Allah SWT.
Fun Trivia fact: Zaynab RA never did Hajj a second time after the death of the Prophet SAW.
Fun Trivia fact: Physically disciplining a wife was something was normal in Arab culture at the time of the Prophet SAW. Even some of the Sahabah RA did this.
Fun Trivia fact: Zaynab RA had the most lavish Walima out of any of the Ummahatul Mumineen. There were 300 guests and meat was served to them.
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Disclaimer for my Notes of Sheikh Yasir Qadhi’s Ummahatul Mumineen Series:
Assalamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh, these are my notes on Sheikh Yasir Qadhi’s the Mothers of the Believers series.
Please note: I HIGHLY recommend that you all watch YQ’s MOB series, as I DON’T cover every single detail the Sheikh mentions. I made these notes primarily for myself but, decided my fellow brothers and sisters may benefit from them too. I no doubt will have made mistakes in my notes. All the good in these notes is from Allah SWT and all the mistakes are from myself. But, I was very meticulous and tried my best to make sure everything is accurate as the Sheikh mentions it.
You also will see I have added “Fun Trivia facts” under each of my notes. These FTFs are information YQ said that was off topic or not necessary to include in my notes for the episode. But, they were still worth mentioning hence the inclusion as FTFs. FTFs aren’t always HAPPY pieces of information. Sometimes they are very sad trivia. I just want to say that FTF is the phrase I used for them all collectively when making the notes.
One thing I wanted to do but am too lazy to do is, maybe someone could take the FTFs from under each “Episode” and make an Islamic reminder/information IG/TikTok account and post them daily or something. Could be a great form of Sadaqah Jaariyah.
Please keep me in your Duas and ask Allah SWT to forgive all our sins during this blessed month and beyond! Ameen
Perfect timing. I am watching the seerah of the prophet mohamad (s.a.w) and i am on the part of zainab bint jahsh which you talked shortly about ( you promised to explain more) and i wished to know more since you said her era was the era of hijab.
I don't find anything wrong with what Prophet (SAW) felt, After all he is simply a human. The way he tackled that feeling was of a pure gentleman and only a person of taqwa would do that.
how you can even believe this? Read verse carefully Allah said ("while concealing within yourself what Allah was going to reveal") according to him Prophet ﷺ Conceal His feelings and Allah was going to reveal his feelings? how does this even make sense according to him had feelings for Zainab (R.A) (fabrication) but concealed so Allah said in next verse we are going to reveal that you have feelings for Zainab (R.A) ? this does not even make sense bro
And next verses ("And ˹so˺ you were considering the people, whereas Allah was more worthy of your consideration".) The meaning of this is Holy Prophet RasulAllah ﷺ knew munafiqs would taunt and say Holt Prophet RasulAllah ﷺ is marrying his own son's wife it was an evil custom of jahiliyah and thats why Holy Prophet RasulAllah ﷺ concelad it and that is why Allah said ("Allah was more worthy of your consideration"). if question may arise why the Holy Prophet RasulAllah ﷺ chose to conceal this matter. i provide detail answer attached to this comment read it too may Allah guide you
and dr yasir didnt even read next verses. Allah clearly told us in next verses why he ordered Holy Prophet RasulAllah ﷺ to marry Zainab (R.A) in Quran Allah says ("So that there would be no blame on the believers for marrying the ex-wives of their adopted sons after their divorce. And Allah’s command is totally binding".)
Allah clearly told us the reason for the Marriage in the verses ("So that there would be no blame on the believers for marrying the ex-wives of their adopted sons after their divorce.) TELL ME then how you can believe in this fabricated narration that is not even authentic not even in a hadith book only in few old tafsir and most of the scholars say it is fabricated thats why bukhari muslim or other 6 famous hadith books does not even mention this narration of visiting the house Because its fabricated and goes against the verses of the Quran and islam and the Teachings of our Holy Prophet RasulAllah ﷺ
this house visiting fabricated story is written in ibn saad book fabricated every muslim scholar believe it has no authentic chain
The Meaning of these verses are Explained by our many old and new scholars and the explanation is
Allah Ordered this marriage So that there would be no blame on the believers for marrying the ex-wives of their adopted sons after their divorce and Holy Prophet RasulAllah ﷺ Conceal it because munafiqs would taunt and say bad about it and thats why Allah said "Allah was more worthy of your consideration."
again i say if question may arise why the Holy Prophet RasulAllah ﷺ chose to conceal this matter. i provide detail answer attached to this comment read it too may Allah guide you
May Allah guide and forgive those who say and believe in such fabricated narrations
A question may arises here as to why the Holy Prophet ﷺ chose to conceal this matter which became the cause of Divine displeasure only to avoid the taunts of a hostile people? To answer that, it can be said that there is an essential general rule in this matter which stands proved from the Qur’an and Sunnah. According to this rule, when doing an act may cause misunderstanding among people or may invite their taunts, then, in order to protect the faith of people and save them from the sin of throwing taunts, it is permissible to avoid that act, subject to the condition that this act itself should not be one of the objectives of the Shariah, and no religeous injunction of halal and haram is related with it - even though, the act in itself be praiseworthy. When the Baytullah was constructed during the period of Jahiliyyah, several things have been done contrary to the original structure laid out by Sayyidna Ibrahim (R.A) The Holy Prophet ﷺ said: ’Had there been no danger of throwing neo-Muslims into misunderstanding, I would have raised the Baytullah once again in accordance with the Abrahimic foundation.' This Hadith is present in all authentic books. From this we know that it was to save people from misunderstanding that the Holy Prophet ﷺ abandoned this intention of his, an intention which was, otherwise, praiseworthy in the light of the Shariah. And against this there came no admonition from Allah which also shows that this conduct of his was acceptable with Him. But, this matter of reconstructing the Baytullah in accordance with the Abrahimic foundation was not something among the objective of Shari'ah, nor something relating to the precepts of halal and haram.As for the event of the marriage of Sayyidah Zainab (R.A) there
was an Islamic legal objective to be achieved therewith, that is, to refute an evil custom of the Jahiliyyah and to dispel, practically and openly, the erroneous notion of marriage being unlawful with the divorced wife of an adopted son. The reason is that eradication of wrong customs, dragging on and on among peoples for ages, becomes actually possible only when it is implemented practically and demonstrated openly. The Divine command had unfolded to fulfill this objective in a perfect manner in the case of the marriage of Sayyidah Zainab (R.A) On the basis of this
deposition, the apparent dichotomy between the abandonment of the reconstruction of Baytullah and the implementation of the marriage of Sayyidah Zainab (R.A) as Divinely ordained stands resolved, and answered.
And it seems that the Holy Prophet ﷺ took the oral communication of this injunction which has appeared in the earlier verses of Surah Al-Ahzab (Verses 4 & 5) as sufficient for declaring the law, while the need and wisdom of its practical demonstration escaped his ﷺ attention. Therefore, he ﷺ let it remain concealed despite the knowledge and intention. Allah Ta'ala put it right and said: (so that there may not be a problem for the believers in marrying wives of their adopted sons, when they finish their desire for them - 37). It means: We gave Zainab in marriage to you ﷺ so that Muslims do not have to face any practical difficulty in marrying the divorced wives of adopted sons.
Saw a video on the very same topic on the channel truth shall prevail and this is what they have commented and pinned in the video "The earliest account of the Love Affair angle between Muhammad (pbuh) and Zaynab bint Jahsh with detail were accounted by Al-Waqidi and his student Ibn Sad, both of them were Muʿtazila. According to Ash Shafi’i, Ahmad ibn Hanbal, Al-Nasa’i, Al-Bukhari, Al-Dhahabi, Yahya ibn Ma'in, Ishaq ibn Rahawayh, Abu Dawood, Al-Daraqutni, Ali ibn al-Madini, Ibn Hajar al-Asqalani, Al-Nawawi and many more, both Al-Waqidi and his student Ibn Sad are liars fabricators and story makers. The earliest historians including Ibn Ishaq has not reported or mentioned any such accounts. Ibn kathir criticized Al-Waqidi and his student Ibn Sad's version and mentioned these are made up story and their is no need for mentioning such fabricated story and ignored the accounts of Al-Waqidi and his student Ibn Sad. Majority of the classical scholars did what Ibn Kathir did. At Tabari collected accounts from everyone, including from unauthentic sources like Abu Mikhnaf, and many other unauthentic sources and did not out line as authentic or unauthentic. Another person who is know for fabrication is Sayf ibn Umar al-Usayyidi al-Tamimi."
PLS muslims dont believe the stories he said!!!! he heavly depends upon bin ishaq who is criticised and rejected by majority of the scholars in isla becoz bin ishaq contains chain of narrators who are weak in memeory and doesnt have proper authentic chain of narrators!! and bin ishaq uses narrators who are rejected by bhukhari and muslim!!! thats why anti-islamic people use bin ishaq books and insult our islam!!! pls dont get decieved by such stories!!! and i am not saying yasir qadhi a bad scholar.. what i am saying he depends upon bin ishaq who is rehect by majority fo scholars and the reason is given above: and you can as normal think how we get so much of personal detalis after 300 years!!! you can watch this video: th-cam.com/video/JNBu5tHbJ5o/w-d-xo.html
سلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته..
With my respect..
As long we know Adhab must Be There..
No One Know What was in our Prophet S. A. W Heart..
Except Allah..
If its Nothing Of clear Lessons to Be Taken except imply Attraction which is Just Humen in the end.
Then I do Not want to be going there.
Just our own Mother . Aysha's Words about Her Are So Powerful Beautiful..
A Testemony by itself..
Going Deep inside my heart..
An extraordinary Women Gazed On by an Even More Sophisticated Amazing Beautiful women.
Personalities..
Truth is Light.
More Vibration and Heart Moving than covering Up human Nature living Together in Tribes..
Not Bobbles
Aysha Ra
If researching about Domestic Violent abuse in the Western world Its There..
So it's important to Educate about It..
Islam does Not justice Violence.
When I many years ago visited a Women shelter
Many Muslim women unfortunately were There..
Great Sensetive Issues become talked about.
Expanding humanness
Yet Know Limits..
jazak Allah khair Sheikh...
version B is not depicted properly imho. It is not the knowledge he wanted to hide but rather it was the controversy marrying the exwife of one's adopted son in tribal arabia which is like marrying the own sister in our society.
I don’t find any problem with version A. Subhanallah what a great role model he(saw) is for us.
Bismi Allah was it as you teach the lesson was two she did not in heart find peace with him as husband. Then what and Allah knows best he Tryed to ignore his human Ness how it would be talk and then It was revealed nothing about him desiring her was she the Phophets cousin he had seen her many times lesson about adopted Son and marriage you never heard this he hid the knowledge she was the one who wanted out
شکرا خطیر یا شیخ
Do upload videos every week
And could you please make a talk about women not leaving the house, and how they managed that, i.e mentally, physically, psychologically
Does this apply to all women to not leave the house ?
You guys should watch your tongue
You can leave the house out of necessity . The place for a woman is her home .
As far as I am concerned, the hadith only talks about our mothers.
Finally, we are back!!
Assalamu alaikum could you please make a lecture about the verses that talk about hiting the wife please
U can watch nouman ali khan video.i think its titled messed up or hitting women...he explained it very very well
at the end of the day Allah will ask us abt what we did in world not these things.
To learn of the characters of The Prophet and The Mothers is surely beneficial for us as guidance for living our own lives.
What is the meaning of milkiyamin
concubine
Those in whose hearts is a disease will never understand this verse and will never understand this concept of adoption
if you were born into a non-muslim family, would you respect the prophet of Islam like today?
@@manobik I'm A Revert to Islam who reverted to Islam 10 years ago. i was born and Raised a Christian as a Protestant In a Christian Family.But Allah Guided me to Islam Al-hamdulillah.
@@kangemicho did you learn about the incident of the prophet before you reverted? Would your sibling think the same?
@@manobik I'm Now taking/doing Post-Doctorate in Islamic Shariah Studies at the University of Medina here in Saudi Arabia. I hope i have answered your Question.
@@kangemicho nope.. When you were not reverted and would come across this incident of prophet you would consider him as a fake prophet. So is any person from different faith community. It has nothing to do with 'disease at heart'
Sheikh's seerah class is excellent
Br. Can you fell in love of your daughter in law?
I bet you are in your 20s br.
A normal God fearing man can’t do it
So why Blind following of any scholar or some stories ?
And I m 50+ year
Why ask this question
I really find it irritating when you say its a sensitive topic 😒 where is the sensitive god a woman being divorced and the prophet marry her where is the problem is Zaid the son of Mohammed peace upon him is he from his family !! No so everything is halal and normal why you kept insisting it is sensitive topic 😐
because it's been a topic of controversy among people. People make it controversial.