Keep your parents with ypu Having a multi generational home with grand parents, parents & kids calls for plenty adjustments . But overall gains are huge. Child is never alone with relatively unknown people like maids & nannies. Nor is there the stress of unreliable maids & nannies who leave work so easily or could be misbehaving with the child in the absence of parents. . Plus you are assured that your parents will take care of your child over and above even themselves. That way couple can focus on their work & ensure a healthy income to provide for all
If you are blessed with such supportive parents and grandparents you are very very lucky and may God bless. Most of the ones I have seen will not support specially their DILs , egoistic and find pleasure in creating drama in India.
@@aastha466 It's all about adjustments, compromises, acceptance & respect . Be it at work or be it friends, there could be that one person who is outspoken or rigid about their beliefs or is a bully. At work & with friends we accept, adjust & learn to maintain silence for the sake of calm if that person is important to us . So why not with immediate family ?
@@aosaeanor Adjustments and compromises are fine as long as it is reciprocated. Putting up with a bully whether at work , friends or in family will ruin a persons mental health be a man or a woman and shouldnt be encouraged. Family is a safe space that we create for oneself and for the children/ future generations. Yes there might be people who wouldn't want to take a stand and that is ok...they can continue living there lives like that.
if a person is lucky then the health insurance company will choose the most expensive available facility possible even with medicine. That's how it works in USA, so ? we're not usa right ? but the owners who run these are. Private Equity.
Kindly avoid music it’s irritating
Keep your parents with ypu Having a multi generational home with grand parents, parents & kids calls for plenty adjustments . But overall gains are huge. Child is never alone with relatively unknown people like maids & nannies. Nor is there the stress of unreliable maids & nannies who leave work so easily or could be misbehaving with the child in the absence of parents. .
Plus you are assured that your parents will take care of your child over and above even themselves.
That way couple can focus on their work & ensure a healthy income to provide for all
If you are blessed with such supportive parents and grandparents you are very very lucky and may God bless. Most of the ones I have seen will not support specially their DILs , egoistic and find pleasure in creating drama in India.
@@aastha466 It's all about adjustments, compromises, acceptance & respect . Be it at work or be it friends, there could be that one person who is outspoken or rigid about their beliefs or is a bully. At work & with friends we accept, adjust & learn to maintain silence for the sake of calm if that person is important to us . So why not with immediate family ?
@@aosaeanor Adjustments and compromises are fine as long as it is reciprocated. Putting up with a bully whether at work , friends or in family will ruin a persons mental health be a man or a woman and shouldnt be encouraged. Family is a safe space that we create for oneself and for the children/ future generations. Yes there might be people who wouldn't want to take a stand and that is ok...they can continue living there lives like that.
Having a child is like being in a cab ride with the meter down and the fare only increasing as you move forward i
Very detailed thanks ❤
Too much disturbance of background music to hear anything in the conversation
But sometimes its law of diminishing utility 😅😅..
BackGround music is irritating
if a person is lucky then the health insurance company will choose the most expensive available facility possible even with medicine. That's how it works in USA, so ? we're not usa right ? but the owners who run these are. Private Equity.
Totally waste