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The ratio she’s referring to is John Gottman’s 5 positive to 1 negative interactions. It’s worth highlighting the ratio is not about the optimal for a happy relationship; it’s the minimum to avoid a breakdown or deterioration. 1:1 ratio is impending divorce. The conclusions was the less issues the better, but at the very least you need to aim for 5:1 and you should aim for better. Let’s share facts…
Rich, there is more in life then cars and business. Women with a healthy consciousness want to have deep philosophical discussions, also they want to talk about emotions. Many men are emotional unavailable.
I agree that men want agreeable women. The only thing that can be a bit of a bore is if your woman isn't that smart and you can't have an intelligent conversation with her. I've experienced that, and it kinda sucks. That being said, I would still take that over a woman who thinks she knows everything
U need a submissive woman. Its just biology. We need an agreeable wife. Imagine a conflicting woman. Imagine her in the bedroom lol u would lose ur excitement so quickly
@@Benny-zo3qh I've definitely heard men complain that their woman can be boring. What I haven't heard is them complaining she's boring because she doesn't challenge them enough.
She was projecting. Women get bored with men who don't challenge them enough, and are shameless enough to push this equality crap forever. There is a reason. Women gain from it (she can do anything) and men lose from it (you run like a girl).
@@Rijotangood wives are smart enough to challenge men and even call them out and correct them sometimes. You guys are just weak and insecure. You want the easy life because you cannot handle a woman with dignity and self respect
She is a perfect example of a woman that knows nothing about men. She just knows what she wants and that is all that matters to her. She is a nightmare , strong independent modern woman.(headache)
@@Billybobthor I think Rich has perhaps had her on a video as a warning. If it looks like chaos and drama, and sounds like chaos and drama, it's chaos and drama.
@@jth_printed_designs It is more about her just being selfish and not caring about what men want. The world revolves around her very common today with Modern American women. And a very good reason not to marry them.
The struggle should be outside the home, not inside the home. The relationship doesn't get stronger from arguing, it happens from getting through those struggles outside of the house. Keyword, outside
@@Melissa.712they don't care to see a man's perspective. They listen to the sisterhood and spark up bs disagreements inside the home. Danica is an undercover efinist
So much effort to pushback, rather than accepting the word from a top guy. She's providing an example right here in this video of what men don't want while insisting they should want it
Which is also why, by definition ,she’s post wall and single. It’s always that type who cannot see themselves as others do. It’s becoming extremely prevalent in western culture.
1. She's about 5'1" but gives off significant masculine energy. 2. She knows subconsciously that she is the originator of her relationship problems but can't seem to grasp why - and she never, ever will.
I challenge me. That's why I'm constantly improving myself. I don't need someone to challenge me. I need someone to be my peace when the challenges wear me down.
"i want a woman that challenges meeeeee!" Lol hard pass. We want them to be easy going. Not "challenging."😂 Someone who is pleasant. Not arguing all the time for no reason. Us men are not complicated.
Translation. You are weak.Strong men absolutely appreciate women who correct them and call them out if they do wrong. Women are not robots and do not exist to make you happy
@@SilviaLampa Uhh, actually no...he's NOT "weak". THIS is the reason MOST of ya'll modern women end up filling for divorce (ESPECIALLY if you have a college degree!!!) - you broads think that equal opportunity means we're "equal". We are not. Strong men DON'T need you to make us happy. Strong men ABSOLUTELY want to come home to a spouse who is not: argumentative, contentious and pleasant to be around. Further, get THIS through your brain REAL quick: feminine women don't make it their business to correct their man (ESPECIALLY with a sharp tongue!!!). Asking a question bout a subject that needs further examination (correction?) is the best way to NOT have the warrior come out on you. If he gets "quiet" when you "correct" him, one or maybe two things are happening in his brain/heart - he's thinking of a reason why (figuratively?!?!?!) he shouldn't chop your head off and/or pulling away from you emotionally. Consider this: the last time you "corrected" a man what was his response? Did he respond harder than you spoke? MOST men match energy for energy. You might want to consider yours the next time you think you need to correct a man. He dealt with @zzholes at the office. Why would he want to come home to one?!?!?!? I'll wait...🤔🤔🤔
I somehow felt extremely uncomfortable throughout the interview, I kept feeling Danica was challenging even in silence and somehow was not accepting to anything Rich was mentioning, the vibes, the expressions, the air - nothing was feminine about her. I saw her other interviews and she is generally like that, Rich was very polite and kept his calm.
Yes Rich is diplomatic and handled the interview very well. I mean that's how you gotta treat these type of women; be indifferent to their emotions and their negative reactions.
She had the reputation for being a be-otch when she was driving.She was noted for having a hot temper.I don't think she was very well liked by the other driver's.
Exactly they always want to argue and challenge 🙄 she's the type to be in a relationship were everything is going smoothly and she tries to find a way for it to not be smooth by starting a fight over something stupid.
Danica is a tiny little girl. She had to pump iron twice as much as the men to have the strength to operate a steering wheel in those long races. She didn't Champion the Racing circuit. Just got attention for being a girl in a men's dominated sport.
You will never find an atheist or a feminist in a foxhole. Stop kidding yourself. Every possessor of a vagina is a few missed meals away from submitting to a man.
King Solomon, the wisest man to have ever lived, said that it is better to sleep on the corner of a rooftop than to live with a contentious woman, as he also said it is better to get lost in the desert and it is to marry a contentious woman. Amos 4:3 has a good line about women who try/do wear the pants in the household, a term that was common then, looooooong before obese women ended up with that term
Unfortunately, ‘Getting’ it as a modern woman requires humility. Which goes against everything we’ve ever been told. I honestly feel bad for Danica. She’s completely blinded by the lies and becomes her own worst enemy.
I would feel sorry for them, but they've crapped on us gleefully, or sat back and quietly let us be crapped on for so long that i don't feel sorry for them. 🤷
Makes me wonder how she was brought up, did a father do this to her by treating her as the son he never had..etc... or did she learn it from a weak father who let his wife run over him in front of her.
When I was younger and newly married I would tolerate a certain amount of conflict while trying to condition my wife and come to a consensus for living. Now that I’m at retirement I just want to live a peaceable life. The old life paradigm supported this approach since a couple would grow old together and by the time they reached retirement age the conflicts would be long ago resolved and both would know and accept each other however, divorce has changed that. Now that my wife has left me and I am living a peaceable lifestyle on my own I am loath to change that by inviting another woman into my life.
I want zero contention from any women I'm with. Ive got enough contention and bullshit to deal with in my career path, i don't need to face that crap when I'm at home.
At 42, she's gone through the wall. Genetics and make-up can hide a lot, but kids and family are not in her future. I can see why she's single again. The caliber of guys she seeks have other options.....that are younger, more peaceful and feminine if they are looking for a LTR GF or wife to start a family with.
I think I understand what Danica is saying. Neither party in the relationship should be a doormat. Having said that, most modern men are not experiencing women who are doormats. They are experiencing highly disagreeable women in most of their romantic encounters. Men do not want anything like that. Most guys have plenty of women in their lives that will give them push back: mothers, sisters, daughters, former spouses, modern men have their pick of women that will give them push back in relationships if that is what is actually needed. What men want is agreeableness. None of the women I just mentioned tend to be agreeable. They are usually the first ones to challenge a man if they don’t like something or anything that he is doing with his life. Guys do not want or need that from a romantic partner.
Danica showing the matrix programming is strong in her. Hope she gets a red pill of her own. Men and women are not only different, but on many things they are opposite. No man desires a disagreeable woman.
I considered dating an older woman who seemed attracted to me - stunning, well groomed, intelligent...but after so many years of being in the legal profession, the masculine edge of her was so evident, I knew it would become an issue quickly. And one false move on my part would become a nightmare. You have to know when to hold em' know when to fold em'...
My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years and we never once had a fight, we have the occasional disagreement and that is it. She is a compliment to my life and she knows I appreciate her contributions and she definitely appreciates mine.
It's also just plain wrong, doesn't she need the guys running power plants, and water facilities and the guys that built her house? Her entire lifestyle is built on the grueling work of a distinct class of men she's never even met. She does need them but she's never had a time in her life without these things.
Love between two partners is stable, calm, peaceful, respect, loyalty,… It is not constant chaos, drama, competition, manipulation, triangulation, gaslighting,…
I recently had a realization about this one thing - You often see people complaining that many modern women turned themselves into the men they want - headstrong & argumentative, successful (OF), often bad bitches with lots and lots of sexual experience. And people criticize this - "how are they so stupid to not see this will not work?". But than take a look at some guys. How many of them are agreeable, niceguy people pleasers? I know everybody tells men to not be that, but I have never seen it mentioned that it is exactly the same as what women are doing. You show exactly those characteristics you are looking for in a partner, without the understanding they want something completely different. For one I think this is superinteresting and also that it can very clearly illustrate to women, that guys really want nicegirls. That is the only reason guys are "niceguys". Because they genuinly believe that is how you can be a best partner to somebody. My ex challenged me more than any other person I have ever met. It was superfucking annoying and pointless, I am very grateful she is gone and hope to never meet another one like that.
You can just see it in her face. She wasn’t listening…she was just looking for a point to argue. The type of person who’d be counseling their therapist lol.
She’s having a lot of trouble realizing she has been lied to and that feminism is the reason most men have left the plantation and don’t want anything to do with modern women. She has drunk the cool aid and she can’t go back. . She can only watch as men avoid her.
This really goes to show the stark difference in how men and women think. What some men might see as opening up and showing emotion to better connect, women see as beta weakness. Many of us former nice guy men thought the way to please a woman is to say yes to her, but that’s a guaranteed way to make her look at you like a weak beta and cheat or leave. Women can be quite vicious.
Born in the 1950’s and taught the way to win a woman meant putting your coat over a mud puddle for for her to cross. Today, I wouldn’t take it off and she can find her own way home. Lesson learned after repeated failures. The ‘Unplugged Alpha’ confirmed a lot of emotional, financial and physical beatings I did to myself over decades with five women that took everything they could and moved on. Now my dog is my best friend and we live in peace and I wouldn’t trade him for another headache
I’m not sure if I’m correct but I wanted a women who’d support me, so I could be even more successful than I am. (A soft place to fall). I realized that isn’t going to happen for me so I go at it mostly alone. I’m okay with that, as that’s my reality.
Exactly. It is not going to happen because women are human beings with ideas,opinions and flaws. We do not exist to please you or to be soft for you. This is why you guys are dying for loneliness and suicide. If you do not respect women (AT ANY AGE) this is precisely what is going to happen
Women have been pushed so far to masculinity that even her being respectful and trying to be feminine still holds strong feminism tropes that are completely inaccurate and men simply don’t want. Bless this generation of women and chances in relationships 🥲
It's fascinating that Danica kept asking "What's the point of a relationship?". That is a very good question. Since men are the gatekeepers of relationships, she needs to learn to ask and answer that question through the prism of MEN. That means the question should really be, "What's the point of a relationship for men?". That leads back to the question "Do men want 'challenging' women?". Challenging = competition. Men are meant to compete with men; men and women were never meant to compete with each other. Therefore, the answer is NO. Heterosexual men aren't looking to have relationships with other men, which is what Danica is between the ears. Danica seems incapable of understanding this simple concept because she's so far into her masculine energy and continues to fail to see the consequences of choosing to put herself into a competitive male dominated profession. She's the epitome of modern "feminism", which is a misnomer because it teaches women that it's cool to act like men, and there's no consequences for it. While they may have that right, again, it comes with a lot of consequences, and modern females like her seem to have buyer's remorse in accepting responsibility for their choices. If one is looking for an accurate definition of "toxic masculinity", that definition should be women trying to act like men. Men acting like men isn't "toxic". The vibe I get from the video is that none of this has even begun to sink in for her either; the light is on, but nobody is home. The wall remains undefeated.
You are so Interesting to me because of how deeply you understand the truths about females vs males. Everything you say is so spot on. As female, some of the content is offending but admittedly it’s because you have women figure out and nailed down perfectly with how bitchy we can be, demanding plus the fact we turn men into beta, weak men and are oblivious to the fact we made them this way because they only try to please us, try to make us happy, then we find them unattractive, unknowingly because of our own actions being the cause. I guess what’s interesting is how in the world, have you figured these things out so intricate, to the point of even helping women understand WHY they see their spouse/boyfriend as beta, when most of us can’t see this when it’s two feet in front of our face? What resources? I have to say, usually only individuals who’s been hurt profoundly within a relationship or in whatever circumstance, becomes knowledgeable and more wise to whatever has impacted one’s life deeply as in hurt. You were strengthened profoundly because of though beyond measure. Super interesting content and I just ordered your book for my son. 🙏. I disagree and feel I’m being honest with some things as well but mostly admit everything you’ve figured out about women is the truth.
What do you mean by masculine? Do you think it means being abusive, degrading, difficult or aggressive? If so men shouldn’t even be that way. Or what about hard working, stoic, brave when it matters and kind. We need to change the word to what it used to be.
I don`t want a woman telling me how to solve my problems just like they don`t want me telling them how to insert a tampon... Some things we do alone...
The polarity of masculine and feminine energy is off balance. Think of the yin and Yang symbol, it’s 80/20 not 50/50. Without polarity there’s no attraction. This women has a masculine heart, passionate, ambitious, disagreeable, she can’t polarize with an alpha male. Like putting the two positive sides together on a magnet create repulsion, the alchemy of attraction is no different.
Argh! My now ex-wife tried to constantly and consistently "betasize me by a thousand concessions" during our entire marriage (late January 2007 - late October 2013). And, admittedly, I did venture into beta male simp territory in a desperate and futile attempt to save my deteriorating marriage. Guess what? She divorced me anyways. I am very angry at myself for allowing myself to stoop so low. But I learnt my lesson... no matter what, never simp and never become beta.
He is right about no challenging women on serious relationships. As much as I tried to let this past relationship woman know I hated being challenged on even my field. She ignored pretty much everything about it, I just ended up leaving her, it doesn't work
What man ever said, "She's got a smoking hot body, she's faithful, she cooks like a Chef. She loves and respects me, but I still had to break up with her because she just didn't challenge me. "
At 4:20. She is disagreeing with Rich on agreeableness. Danica is combative and pushes back on the truth. I see this every day with women. Those women remain single over the long run.
But the one thing they love more than a hero is to see a hero fail, fall, die trying. In spite of everything you've done for them, eventually they will hate you. Why bother? 😞
The term is "self-sacrifice". Men learn early the value in supporting each other. (Sports, military, etc.) Women (and definitely Danica) are always trying to be "independently" powerful. These women are terrible partners as they only serve themselves. They challenge men to exert their individual dominance - not to work as a team. Avoid them at all costs. And men who cry aren't weak. They are human...ones who often care more about others than they do themselves. Being an honorable and self-sacrificing man is often a lonely and painful road. A few tears are nothing to be ashamed of. Men must be proud of their strength, honor,...and their heart.
Rich the lady that cuts my hair makes about $250k a year. She just bought a house in Italy. 2nd home and paid cash. It cost $325k. She owns a home worth about $500k paid for here in Orlando. A decent hair cutter, if they want to work, can make well into 6 figures.
Marriage is about something greater than yourself. If both are looking merely for what they can get out of it, the relationship becomes transactional, and destined to fail when they no longer receive it. It's not just about feelings.
No marriage is about yourself, your partner and the kids. That’s it. If there are kids the parents must be happy or the kids won’t be. Unless you are talking about the biblical kind. If you are then we must go WAY back to where men are head of the house because of all the crap they deal with at work. However, I think that ship has sailed my friend. Feminism is live and well in church today.
@@sylon7717 I agree that the husband and wife must put their relationship first. If it becomes all about the kids, what do they have when the kids leave? I also believe marriage works best when the man has the final say in family decisions, while also respecting his wife's judgment and expertise where applicable. I sympathize with trying to find a woman with traditional values in this day and age. I found mine in church thirty years ago.
@@jontallman Very well said!! Your generation was pretty awesome 👍. Great music and cars! I am in a younger generation so it’s not as easy finding a good partner. Although, I have no issue living alone and can take care of myself quite well, whilst still helping the community when I can. Though I will give marriage & Family an honest effort, giving my absolute best. However, if things aren’t good I would leave/separate once the kids are 18. Wishing you all the best. 🙏
Whenever a girl would tell me what to do I would always tell her nope not going to do that and you better never ever tell me what to do again .. then about a week later I would end it .. peace of mind is everything .. besides that being single doesn't mean you're lonely and being in a relationship is not how you grow .. being single and knowing yourself is how you grow
Wowser. The more she spoke, the more she exposed that even though she claims she's NOT a fembot (feminist), she absolutely is a modern woman that has been socialized by it (feminism). She talks like a dude. She is VERY easy on the eyes, but her framing is VERY rigid. 😔😔😔 Tragically masculine...💔💔💔
Try dating a narcissist, she won’t only challenge you and wear you down, she will completely destroy your self worth and sanity if you let them. Edit: She will pick a king and then do everything in her power to dethrone him.
@@cringemaxxing28 I watch the clips the algorithm pushes. But, if you can recommend a good video where he engages a competent challenger, I'm all ears.
I found this exchange really awkward for Rich. I think its because Danica isn't your typical woman, yet at the same time she doesn't want to sound too masculine.
he wants a woman who brings peace calmness kindness stability ...she seems to be unable or unwilling to process that because it kind of puts her in not the best light perhaps?
The point of a relationship is we need each other. You can't go through life alone, we need relationships, healthy ones in fact. Not fighting and arguing about everything. She's so backwards 😂
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The ratio she’s referring to is John Gottman’s 5 positive to 1 negative interactions. It’s worth highlighting the ratio is not about the optimal for a happy relationship; it’s the minimum to avoid a breakdown or deterioration. 1:1 ratio is impending divorce. The conclusions was the less issues the better, but at the very least you need to aim for 5:1 and you should aim for better. Let’s share facts…
Rich, there is more in life then cars and business. Women with a healthy consciousness want to have deep philosophical discussions, also they want to talk about emotions. Many men are emotional unavailable.
I have NEVER met a man who said, "I'm bored with my wife because she doesn't stand up against me enough."
I agree that men want agreeable women. The only thing that can be a bit of a bore is if your woman isn't that smart and you can't have an intelligent conversation with her. I've experienced that, and it kinda sucks.
That being said, I would still take that over a woman who thinks she knows everything
U need a submissive woman. Its just biology. We need an agreeable wife. Imagine a conflicting woman. Imagine her in the bedroom lol u would lose ur excitement so quickly
@@Benny-zo3qh I've definitely heard men complain that their woman can be boring. What I haven't heard is them complaining she's boring because she doesn't challenge them enough.
She was projecting. Women get bored with men who don't challenge them enough, and are shameless enough to push this equality crap forever. There is a reason. Women gain from it (she can do anything) and men lose from it (you run like a girl).
@@Rijotangood wives are smart enough to challenge men and even call them out and correct them sometimes. You guys are just weak and insecure. You want the easy life because you cannot handle a woman with dignity and self respect
She is a perfect example of a woman that knows nothing about men. She just knows what she wants and that is all that matters to her. She is a nightmare , strong independent modern woman.(headache)
She can’t stop disagreeing the whole interview. It’s quite hilarious.
@@Billybobthor I think Rich has perhaps had her on a video as a warning. If it looks like chaos and drama, and sounds like chaos and drama, it's chaos and drama.
And she’s masculine 😖 total turn off!
It’s amazing she could be around so many men due to her career choice and still have no clue what men want
@@jth_printed_designs It is more about her just being selfish and not caring about what men want. The world revolves around her very common today with Modern American women. And a very good reason not to marry them.
Danica shows her masculine energy far more than her feminine energy. I love her talking to R and just listening without interrupting over and over.
Exactly. Most men won’t want to be with another dude even if they have the box.
She comes across as a dude with 80085 and that simply isn't appealing for a LTR.
Yep. Other than her beauty she has been groomed as a man. What a shame.
It's like she and Bruce Jenner traded places and she just ate two boxes of Wheaties.
She drives race cars....
...personally I DON'T want another "boss!" I want to come home to a peaceful home; and NOT have to "challenge" a women. I don't want another job.
I see why Rodgers is no longer with her…
Who?
@@matthewschwartz6607Rodgers
It’s funny, she’s the woman Rich tells us to avoid and this video tells why
Because she is pretty and entitled.
The struggle should be outside the home, not inside the home. The relationship doesn't get stronger from arguing, it happens from getting through those struggles outside of the house. Keyword, outside
Women don't get that though 🙄
@@Melissa.712they don't care to see a man's perspective. They listen to the sisterhood and spark up bs disagreements inside the home. Danica is an undercover efinist
@@jwill9877 exactly. Why would we care about men preferences?!
@@SilviaLampa I didn't say preference
@@jwill9877 Same. Red pill pigs deserve no empathy
She's been divorced twice. I can see why, lol
She curse like a sailor. No thx
I can see why. I wonder if she commenced the divorces both time cos she changed her man into a beta, if he was not a beta already.
So much effort to pushback, rather than accepting the word from a top guy. She's providing an example right here in this video of what men don't want while insisting they should want it
Which is also why, by definition ,she’s post wall and single. It’s always that type who cannot see themselves as others do. It’s becoming extremely prevalent in western culture.
We do not care what you guys want or do not want ❤
@@SilviaLampa That's why its cheaper to rent than to own today. All part of the greater agenda.
@@1949coupe modern women don't understand that successful men just want peace.
It is not difficult.
@@unggoytrader then buy a cat and die alone (and in peace). As you guys always say ❤️
1. She's about 5'1" but gives off significant masculine energy.
2. She knows subconsciously that she is the originator of her relationship problems but can't seem to grasp why - and she never, ever will.
She comes across as a man trapped in a woman's body.
@@Steve-mk6rqNo, Just A Very Mislead, Confused Woman.
@@Steve-mk6rqThat's Why Women Must Submit To A Man So He Can Guide Her So She Won't Be Mislead & Confused.
She looks like ronda rhousey very masculine
@James Sonatore There's not a lot of voltage in her cranium. The bulb is dim indeed.
I challenge me. That's why I'm constantly improving myself. I don't need someone to challenge me. I need someone to be my peace when the challenges wear me down.
This is the way!
"i want a woman that challenges meeeeee!" Lol hard pass. We want them to be easy going. Not "challenging."😂 Someone who is pleasant. Not arguing all the time for no reason. Us men are not complicated.
Translation. You are weak.Strong men absolutely appreciate women who correct them and call them out if they do wrong. Women are not robots and do not exist to make you happy
@@SilviaLampa What does your husband say?
@@jackdeniston59 About what??
@@SilviaLampa Nonsense. Those things do not equate AT ALL.
@@SilviaLampa Uhh, actually no...he's NOT "weak". THIS is the reason MOST of ya'll modern women end up filling for divorce (ESPECIALLY if you have a college degree!!!) - you broads think that equal opportunity means we're "equal". We are not. Strong men DON'T need you to make us happy.
Strong men ABSOLUTELY want to come home to a spouse who is not: argumentative, contentious and pleasant to be around. Further, get THIS through your brain REAL quick: feminine women don't make it their business to correct their man (ESPECIALLY with a sharp tongue!!!). Asking a question bout a subject that needs further examination (correction?) is the best way to NOT have the warrior come out on you. If he gets "quiet" when you "correct" him, one or maybe two things are happening in his brain/heart - he's thinking of a reason why (figuratively?!?!?!) he shouldn't chop your head off and/or pulling away from you emotionally. Consider this: the last time you "corrected" a man what was his response? Did he respond harder than you spoke? MOST men match energy for energy. You might want to consider yours the next time you think you need to correct a man.
He dealt with @zzholes at the office. Why would he want to come home to one?!?!?!?
I'll wait...🤔🤔🤔
I somehow felt extremely uncomfortable throughout the interview, I kept feeling Danica was challenging even in silence and somehow was not accepting to anything Rich was mentioning, the vibes, the expressions, the air - nothing was feminine about her. I saw her other interviews and she is generally like that, Rich was very polite and kept his calm.
Yes Rich is diplomatic and handled the interview very well. I mean that's how you gotta treat these type of women; be indifferent to their emotions and their negative reactions.
I agree. It's masculine all over.
I agree, a total liberal lost soul.
She had the reputation for being a be-otch when she was driving.She was noted for having a hot temper.I don't think she was very well liked by the other driver's.
She became the man she wants....
She pretends she's listening, but it goes in one ear and straight out the other. No surprise that she is middle-aged and single.
Exactly they always want to argue and challenge 🙄 she's the type to be in a relationship were everything is going smoothly and she tries to find a way for it to not be smooth by starting a fight over something stupid.
@@Melissa.712 reason why her Racing career wasn't so successful. Wrong career choice. I thought she died.
Well Said
You can’t tell her nothing 😂
Spot on!!!!
I like her, she a boss and doesn't hide. Would never date her but we need single ladies who will go in the next draft
Danica is a tiny little girl. She had to pump iron twice as much as the men to have the strength to operate a steering wheel in those long races. She didn't Champion the Racing circuit. Just got attention for being a girl in a men's dominated sport.
Lol bro. Awesome comment 👍👍👍👍
Well said... She's a fighter not a lover 🤣🤣🤣
@@davidpaxton6402
And apparently not very good at either.
You will never find an atheist or a feminist in a foxhole.
Stop kidding yourself. Every possessor of a vagina is a few missed meals away from submitting to a man.
King Solomon, the wisest man to have ever lived, said that it is better to sleep on the corner of a rooftop than to live with a contentious woman, as he also said it is better to get lost in the desert and it is to marry a contentious woman. Amos 4:3 has a good line about women who try/do wear the pants in the household, a term that was common then, looooooong before obese women ended up with that term
And King Solomon ended up an expert in female nature. He had 700 wives and 300 concubines! He knew how hypergamy worked.
Amen
Ahh Solomon, whose very existence was the result of King David committing adultery.
The point of being in a relationship is companionship……..a person who you enjoy their company………without unnecessary drama
I so agree with you, Richard . No man wants a challenging woman. We want to relax, wind down, and make love.
Stay alone then..we do not exist to be your inflatable dolls
And eat a sandwich
Unfortunately, ‘Getting’ it as a modern woman requires humility. Which goes against everything we’ve ever been told. I honestly feel bad for Danica. She’s completely blinded by the lies and becomes her own worst enemy.
I would feel sorry for them, but they've crapped on us gleefully, or sat back and quietly let us be crapped on for so long that i don't feel sorry for them. 🤷
Makes me wonder how she was brought up, did a father do this to her by treating her as the son he never had..etc... or did she learn it from a weak father who let his wife run over him in front of her.
When I was younger and newly married I would tolerate a certain amount of conflict while trying to condition my wife and come to a consensus for living. Now that I’m at retirement I just want to live a peaceable life. The old life paradigm supported this approach since a couple would grow old together and by the time they reached retirement age the conflicts would be long ago resolved and both would know and accept each other however, divorce has changed that. Now that my wife has left me and I am living a peaceable lifestyle on my own I am loath to change that by inviting another woman into my life.
Yep!
Why can’t they understand that we just want peace and simplicity!
Helpmeets are....RARE
Instead of helpmates their headaches
I want zero contention from any women I'm with. Ive got enough contention and bullshit to deal with in my career path, i don't need to face that crap when I'm at home.
Yep. A woman is supposed to be a compliment to a man's life... Not complication. They don't get it.
Too many women today consider being called a "baddie" a compliment....it's not 🙄
They act like baddies but want to be treated like ladies
Rich Cooper, this is gold. I can see why Danica is single. Wait until she hits the wall. I'm not talking racing, didn't she already do that.
At 42, she's gone through the wall. Genetics and make-up can hide a lot, but kids and family are not in her future. I can see why she's single again. The caliber of guys she seeks have other options.....that are younger, more peaceful and feminine if they are looking for a LTR GF or wife to start a family with.
She’s 5’0 and still able to height-max, if you know what I mean. Many guys will tolerate bullsit from a petite unfat woman even if older.
"Until she hits the wall"??? Bro, she hit multiple walls.
@@LagoonBishopNo bro. No man will accept disrespect.
It's truly painful to hear her speak. Her grating voice is bad enough but her thoughts & how she articulates them is just mind-numbing.
It’s a very elitist I’m superior attitude
I see y she’s single now
Yep 😂😂
My first thought. 😂
I'm shocked! Shocked!
Well, maybe not *that* shocked.
@@starguy2718 😅
😆🤣 exactly 💯
I think I understand what Danica is saying. Neither party in the relationship should be a doormat. Having said that, most modern men are not experiencing women who are doormats. They are experiencing highly disagreeable women in most of their romantic encounters. Men do not want anything like that. Most guys have plenty of women in their lives that will give them push back: mothers, sisters, daughters, former spouses, modern men have their pick of women that will give them push back in relationships if that is what is actually needed. What men want is agreeableness. None of the women I just mentioned tend to be agreeable. They are usually the first ones to challenge a man if they don’t like something or anything that he is doing with his life. Guys do not want or need that from a romantic partner.
Once she said F### INSTANT MASCULINE ENERGY
Danica just explained to the planet why she’s 41, single and childless
Maybe she is happy being CHILDFREE
@@SilviaLampab.s. if she was happy, why did she freeze her eggs. You women need to stop lying to yourself.
@@SilviaLampa nice cope!
@@khanhcao3123damn 🎉
I couldn't listen to her for more than 5 seconds! I can't stand these masculine antagonistic women
Danica showing the matrix programming is strong in her. Hope she gets a red pill of her own. Men and women are not only different, but on many things they are opposite. No man desires a disagreeable woman.
even the bible says that...
I considered dating an older woman who seemed attracted to me - stunning, well groomed, intelligent...but after so many years of being in the legal profession, the masculine edge of her was so evident, I knew it would become an issue quickly. And one false move on my part would become a nightmare. You have to know when to hold em' know when to fold em'...
Great advice from Kenny Rogers there! 👍
Fuck ‘em and that’s it. They’re not relationship material
My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years and we never once had a fight, we have the occasional disagreement and that is it. She is a compliment to my life and she knows I appreciate her contributions and she definitely appreciates mine.
What’s the secret
@@musicandpoetry_8 Look at his profile picture. If he had a face like mine he wouldn't have been able to comment in the first place.
"Nobody needs anybody". Yep, that's exactly the mindset I'm looking for in a wife.
Feminist statement. That's the other interpretation for " I don't need no man, "
It's also just plain wrong, doesn't she need the guys running power plants, and water facilities and the guys that built her house? Her entire lifestyle is built on the grueling work of a distinct class of men she's never even met. She does need them but she's never had a time in her life without these things.
Why this obsession with having dependent wives
@@SilviaLampa An extreme reaction to the opposite
@SilviaLampa why this obsession with being independent of men?
Why in the hell would I want a woman "challenging" me at home when I fight for what I accomplish all day making a living. Let a fool deal with her.
Love between two partners is stable, calm, peaceful, respect, loyalty,… It is not constant chaos, drama, competition, manipulation, triangulation, gaslighting,…
Truth right there.
I want absolutely zero challenge from my women! NONE! Challenge me one time and you’re fkin done!
Danica is good looking but she’s masculine and doesn’t really get what men want.
She’s 41 and still single with no kids.
Successful guys don't want to argue with women.
Just real men don't want to argue with a woman. The woman must be in HIS frame. That's it.
I recently had a realization about this one thing -
You often see people complaining that many modern women turned themselves into the men they want - headstrong & argumentative, successful (OF), often bad bitches with lots and lots of sexual experience. And people criticize this - "how are they so stupid to not see this will not work?".
But than take a look at some guys. How many of them are agreeable, niceguy people pleasers?
I know everybody tells men to not be that, but I have never seen it mentioned that it is exactly the same as what women are doing. You show exactly those characteristics you are looking for in a partner, without the understanding they want something completely different.
For one I think this is superinteresting and also that it can very clearly illustrate to women, that guys really want nicegirls. That is the only reason guys are "niceguys". Because they genuinly believe that is how you can be a best partner to somebody.
My ex challenged me more than any other person I have ever met. It was superfucking annoying and pointless, I am very grateful she is gone and hope to never meet another one like that.
06:38 “I have supercars that break down all the time” 😂😂😂👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻
You can just see it in her face. She wasn’t listening…she was just looking for a point to argue. The type of person who’d be counseling their therapist lol.
She’s having a lot of trouble realizing she has been lied to and that feminism is the reason most men have left the plantation and don’t want anything to do with modern women. She has drunk the cool aid and she can’t go back. . She can only watch as men avoid her.
She’s done. She’s been done for years. She traded her future for a few dollars
This really goes to show the stark difference in how men and women think. What some men might see as opening up and showing emotion to better connect, women see as beta weakness. Many of us former nice guy men thought the way to please a woman is to say yes to her, but that’s a guaranteed way to make her look at you like a weak beta and cheat or leave. Women can be quite vicious.
Women don’t think they feel
Born in the 1950’s and taught the way to win a woman meant putting your coat over a mud puddle for for her to cross. Today, I wouldn’t take it off and she can find her own way home. Lesson learned after repeated failures. The ‘Unplugged Alpha’ confirmed a lot of emotional, financial and physical beatings I did to myself over decades with five women that took everything they could and moved on. Now my dog is my best friend and we live in peace and I wouldn’t trade him for another headache
I’ve personally never liked a disagreeable or challenging woman.
No one does. They were not like that, until the 70’s. They were actually taught to believe that arguments and drama are “natural” in relationships.
A single man and a marred man are two different Beast..
I’m not sure if I’m correct but I wanted a women who’d support me, so I could be even more successful than I am. (A soft place to fall).
I realized that isn’t going to happen for me so I go at it mostly alone.
I’m okay with that, as that’s my reality.
Exactly. It is not going to happen because women are human beings with ideas,opinions and flaws. We do not exist to please you or to be soft for you. This is why you guys are dying for loneliness and suicide. If you do not respect women (AT ANY AGE) this is precisely what is going to happen
You got this soldier!
@@SilviaLampa how old are you? Im guessing early 30's?
@@unggoytrader so?
@@SilviaLampa are you single or married? Im guessing single.
Women have been pushed so far to masculinity that even her being respectful and trying to be feminine still holds strong feminism tropes that are completely inaccurate and men simply don’t want. Bless this generation of women and chances in relationships 🥲
Well said. The lack of self awareness and inability to change is how the population of middle age single women is growing so fast.
We know why she’s single
He speaks facts!
It's fascinating that Danica kept asking "What's the point of a relationship?".
That is a very good question. Since men are the gatekeepers of relationships, she needs to learn to ask and answer that question through the prism of MEN.
That means the question should really be, "What's the point of a relationship for men?".
That leads back to the question "Do men want 'challenging' women?". Challenging = competition. Men are meant to compete with men; men and women were never meant to compete with each other. Therefore, the answer is NO. Heterosexual men aren't looking to have relationships with other men, which is what Danica is between the ears.
Danica seems incapable of understanding this simple concept because she's so far into her masculine energy and continues to fail to see the consequences of choosing to put herself into a competitive male dominated profession. She's the epitome of modern "feminism", which is a misnomer because it teaches women that it's cool to act like men, and there's no consequences for it. While they may have that right, again, it comes with a lot of consequences, and modern females like her seem to have buyer's remorse in accepting responsibility for their choices. If one is looking for an accurate definition of "toxic masculinity", that definition should be women trying to act like men. Men acting like men isn't "toxic".
The vibe I get from the video is that none of this has even begun to sink in for her either; the light is on, but nobody is home. The wall remains undefeated.
You are so Interesting to me because of how deeply you understand the truths about females vs males. Everything you say is so spot on. As female, some of the content is offending but admittedly it’s because you have women figure out and nailed down perfectly with how bitchy we can be, demanding plus the fact we turn men into beta, weak men and are oblivious to the fact we made them this way because they only try to please us, try to make us happy, then we find them unattractive, unknowingly because of our own actions being the cause. I guess what’s interesting is how in the world, have you figured these things out so intricate, to the point of even helping women understand WHY they see their spouse/boyfriend as beta, when most of us can’t see this when it’s two feet in front of our face? What resources?
I have to say, usually only individuals who’s been hurt profoundly within a relationship or in whatever circumstance, becomes knowledgeable and more wise to whatever has impacted one’s life deeply as in hurt. You were strengthened profoundly because of though beyond measure. Super interesting content and I just ordered your book for my son. 🙏.
I disagree and feel I’m being honest with some things as well but mostly admit everything you’ve figured out about women is the truth.
It's always with great pleasure to follow you Rich in your in-depth analysis of human relationship dynamics. Salam from Morocco.
Salaam from Spain :)
Salami from the deli.
Hows the dating in Morocco. I mean u guys practice Islam so marriage is definitely practiced right
You should not have a problem with women. They are beautiful and down to earth for most.
@@KD400_ sadly, a lot of Moroccan girls are infected with feminism and staying in the hoe phase.
When a woman you’re on a date with says men want a challenge from women
Is this a red flag?
She’s so masculine she could knock Thor out of his frame
What do you mean by masculine? Do you think it means being abusive, degrading, difficult or aggressive? If so men shouldn’t even be that way. Or what about hard working, stoic, brave when it matters and kind. We need to change the word to what it used to be.
She is very disagreeable isn't she?
I bet she is single.
She acquired wealth from her multiple divorces
I don`t want a woman telling me how to solve my problems just like they don`t want me telling them how to insert a tampon...
Some things we do alone...
Well spoken.
Her masculine energy is so strong…No sane man will want to date her!!!
The polarity of masculine and feminine energy is off balance. Think of the yin and Yang symbol, it’s 80/20 not 50/50. Without polarity there’s no attraction. This women has a masculine heart, passionate, ambitious, disagreeable, she can’t polarize with an alpha male. Like putting the two positive sides together on a magnet create repulsion, the alchemy of attraction is no different.
This.
Men can have a feminine quality to them but it has to be the minimum.
Not 50/50
Argh! My now ex-wife tried to constantly and consistently "betasize me by a thousand concessions" during our entire marriage (late January 2007 - late October 2013). And, admittedly, I did venture into beta male simp territory in a desperate and futile attempt to save my deteriorating marriage. Guess what? She divorced me anyways. I am very angry at myself for allowing myself to stoop so low. But I learnt my lesson... no matter what, never simp and never become beta.
I personally don’t think men should cry in front of women.
There are occasions where I think it is acceptable, such as at a funeral for the man's mom or dad, or his child or close friend.
He is right about no challenging women on serious relationships. As much as I tried to let this past relationship woman know I hated being challenged on even my field. She ignored pretty much everything about it, I just ended up leaving her, it doesn't work
You always speak truthfully and your commentary was phenomenally awesome
What man ever said, "She's got a smoking hot body, she's faithful, she cooks like a Chef. She loves and respects me, but I still had to break up with her because she just didn't challenge me. "
Yes, especially since challenge is code for “nag”.
Aaron Rodgers dodged a bullet, when he walked away from Danica!
They're both head cases
Great conversation. I love the long version. You are the best!
Rich is very articulate, knows how to diffuse any arguments with a smile, and never splits the difference. Great speaker!
Dope Collab!!!!
At 4:20. She is disagreeing with Rich on agreeableness. Danica is combative and pushes back on the truth. I see this every day with women. Those women remain single over the long run.
Not all women but lots nowadays, yes. I think the good ones are snapped up early in high school.
The contrast in energy from these two is so huge😂 calm nd collected on one side nd " tryna be open minded on the other " lol
Great topic! Cheers!
Men want PEACE. Modern Women want Drama/Chaos. That's exciting!
But the one thing they love more than a hero is to see a hero fail, fall, die trying. In spite of everything you've done for them, eventually they will hate you. Why bother? 😞
The term is "self-sacrifice". Men learn early the value in supporting each other. (Sports, military, etc.) Women (and definitely Danica) are always trying to be "independently" powerful. These women are terrible partners as they only serve themselves. They challenge men to exert their individual dominance - not to work as a team. Avoid them at all costs.
And men who cry aren't weak. They are human...ones who often care more about others than they do themselves. Being an honorable and self-sacrificing man is often a lonely and painful road. A few tears are nothing to be ashamed of. Men must be proud of their strength, honor,...and their heart.
Danica should try reading the Bible instead of all these other books she mentioned.
Rich the lady that cuts my hair makes about $250k a year. She just bought a house in Italy. 2nd home and paid cash. It cost $325k. She owns a home worth about $500k paid for here in Orlando. A decent hair cutter, if they want to work, can make well into 6 figures.
Marriage is about something greater than yourself. If both are looking merely for what they can get out of it, the relationship becomes transactional, and destined to fail when they no longer receive it. It's not just about feelings.
No marriage is about yourself, your partner and the kids. That’s it. If there are kids the parents must be happy or the kids won’t be. Unless you are talking about the biblical kind. If you are then we must go WAY back to where men are head of the house because of all the crap they deal with at work. However, I think that ship has sailed my friend. Feminism is live and well in church today.
@@sylon7717 I agree that the husband and wife must put their relationship first. If it becomes all about the kids, what do they have when the kids leave? I also believe marriage works best when the man has the final say in family decisions, while also respecting his wife's judgment and expertise where applicable. I sympathize with trying to find a woman with traditional values in this day and age. I found mine in church thirty years ago.
@@jontallman Very well said!! Your generation was pretty awesome 👍. Great music and cars! I am in a younger generation so it’s not as easy finding a good partner. Although, I have no issue living alone and can take care of myself quite well, whilst still helping the community when I can. Though I will give marriage & Family an honest effort, giving my absolute best. However, if things aren’t good I would leave/separate once the kids are 18. Wishing you all the best. 🙏
@@sylon7717 Much appreciated. Keep looking but never lower your standards.
Please do more of these, very interesting talk! Don’t know why men are hating her, you don’t have to date her if you don’t want to.
Whenever a girl would tell me what to do I would always tell her nope not going to do that and you better never ever tell me what to do again .. then about a week later I would end it .. peace of mind is everything .. besides that being single doesn't mean you're lonely and being in a relationship is not how you grow .. being single and knowing yourself is how you grow
The irony of this whole interview is how she proves him right by being disagreeable at almost every point😂
Wowser. The more she spoke, the more she exposed that even though she claims she's NOT a fembot (feminist), she absolutely is a modern woman that has been socialized by it (feminism). She talks like a dude. She is VERY easy on the eyes, but her framing is VERY rigid. 😔😔😔
Tragically masculine...💔💔💔
And every time you go somewhere she is going to want to drive. If by chance she lets you drive, you know she will tell you how you suck at it!
She doesn't seem to get it....
They never do, its like talking to a brick wall 🧱
So this woman likes fighting men. How lovely! Just who I’d want to be the mother of my kids!
Impressive you got her on, cool chick.
" better to live on the corner of a roof top than deal with a quarrelsome woman" god
Youre telling her what men want, she says its not right. Says it all right there.
She is too masculine.
"Astounding this conversation is post operation warp speed" Yoda
agreed, i deal with enough confrontation in worklife and sociallife
dont need them in personal and family lives
No, we don't want" a girl to contest with every now and then" ! That's why Aaron Rodgers hit it and quit it !
Try dating a narcissist, she won’t only challenge you and wear you down, she will completely destroy your self worth and sanity if you let them.
Edit: She will pick a king and then do everything in her power to dethrone him.
Rich was being too nice 😂. I can tell he lowkey wanted to go off on Dana in this moment lol.
Well that wouldn't be very masculine, would it? I suspect he rarely interacts with people who disagree with him.
@@tgm2474 You`re new then. Rich interacts with disagreers weekly. He`s just a good dude and went easy on her lol.
@@cringemaxxing28 I watch the clips the algorithm pushes. But, if you can recommend a good video where he engages a competent challenger, I'm all ears.
@@cringemaxxing28 He isn’t trying to help women. He wants to help men.
And this interview helps men see how masculine this woman is
I found this exchange really awkward for Rich. I think its because Danica isn't your typical woman, yet at the same time she doesn't want to sound too masculine.
Great discussion
Perfect example of they type of woman men don't want
he wants a woman who brings peace calmness kindness stability ...she seems to be unable or unwilling to process that because it kind of puts her in not the best light perhaps?
Wow, she sounds like a handful. Good luck to her man (if she has one). She is exactly the type of woman that Rich is speaking about.
The point of a relationship is we need each other. You can't go through life alone, we need relationships, healthy ones in fact. Not fighting and arguing about everything. She's so backwards 😂
"I don't want a confrontational woman in my life" , "Right. It's a fine line" says the confrontational woman.
lol Yes, and are wants to be the one to define the line.