I needed this advice today. I texted my man exactly what Alex said, and he reacted immediately. He apologized and admitted he's been very busy and that he loves me. Now he knows what I'll accept and what I won't. Thank you so much Alex!!! You are the best coach in the 🌎 world.
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert Alex love your videos and advice. What do you recommend is the best modus operandi, when a guy who's at a distance (Not in the US) texts you how long should I wait before I reply?
@@LoveMoneySecretsTV you should consult him for every move you make! Who the hell cares! Text whenever you feel like it, or sit there staring at your watch
Because he hadn't asked me out in 6 months, I texted him, "You know what, I like you! You're such an amazing man! I really don't feel I've met a guy like you in a long time; but I'm not in love anymore, I don't feel the butterflies in my stomach. The connection between us is gone." He double texted me promptly, " I understand 100% and am not happy how I've been. The best I can do is pray for your well-being!" Next, he wrote, "I care for you whether we are together or not! I appreciate the time we've had and I will never forget you!" I want to motivate him to call me or ask me out, but don't know what to say.
Hi there! This seems a bit complicated... I hope you can book a coaching session with me so I can know more about what happened and give you the advice you need. www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team
Thank u Alex, great message. I did do the no contact rule for 7 days but I couldn't stop wandering how he would he react if I messaged him. I was watching a funny video clip then I sent it to him. Then after I text him again and said sorry I was meant to send the video to my other friend. And he responded back straight away, I was happy knowing that he didn't ignore me. So I'm back on the no contact rule again.
I did this and it worked! Wow! Immediately he texted me pouring out his heart to me 🥰❤💛💚. He apologized for making me feel this way, said he has been busy. But, he truly care for me, and he asked how can he make things better.
This is what I said. I'm really into you, it's been a long time that I have met an amazing guy like you, but it seems as if you have checked out, your energy has changed. I'm not feeling you. He called me immediately, I did not pick up, then he texted me pouring his heart out to me.
kady Robinson I'm trying what you said. Just became so sick of my now ex man acting distant and low effort. I really hope it works. Thank you I feel empowered either way x
This is just what I needed to hear, this just happened to me with a guy I met on an online dating app he started going distant on me. I will try this technique and see if I get a response back from him. Thank's again Alex for you're wonderful advice and look forward to more of your amazing video's 😊👋
But what if he never replies??? He texts me sometimes, but usually leaves me on “seen”. I asked him for a relationship, not just a fling. He even agreed and said he’d make more time for me and respond more often, but he really doesn’t. He reads my texts and doesn’t respond.... He was nice in the very beginning, he is the one who liked me first. Now I’m the one chasing him! And I hate doing that... being clingy or needy. Please help?
Sounds very much like a narcissist. He just breadcrumbing you and only text sometimes to keep you in the game! He needs your attention, he feeds his ego from that! Don't let him! The only way is ignore him completely! Don't even read his texts for days, even a week or 10 days. Then read them, but still no answer! That will make him WONDER. No information is killing them! Keep him GUESSING, that will make him so eager! When you see him chasing you, don't give in! I made this mistake and straight away he dropped me. Keep him breadcrumbing. Don't complain, just say: i need someone more consistent then you are. He will try to be that to win you over. How long you can do this game? Hopefully after a while he will level up but if he isn't, then you MUST walk away. He can't be the man you need. Tell him this before you leave.
Brilliant! Thank you! There are some good words in here that feel honest and authentic for me to say. I was in a recent text exchange with a man on a dating app that lived across country. And, I didn't feel a connection with him most of the time. I kept searching for good questions to get to know him better and he would respond with short answers that didn't lead any feeling of connection. Saying that I didn't feel a connection with some examples would have been a great solution to opening up the topic. I am 99℅ sure we weren't a match. I can also think of other dating candidates I could have used this with.
Just wanna share with u.. i used this same method after him being distant (less to no texts, no more calls, infrequent online on whatsapp n fb). I sent a q long soft reminder basically on: i love u but i feel this is being more distant n i need to know whats going on this distance. Then i start focusing on myself. 4 weeks later received a message from him: ops sorry bz bla bla bla. But i was ready to move on. Continue loving myself etc etc. Lo n behold, received another message. I just read but no reply. Still to this day. Tday i got a message : ppl shine when they r treated differently n correctly. I just read but no replies. But i tell u, keep on loving yourself when a guy pulls away.. dont trip into their silly games 😒
Hi Alex! I just want to say you are AMAZING, and your advices are on point 👌 Thank you so much for enabling others to access help through these videos of yours 😘
Hello Alex..thanks for this video.. I really love my guy but he is distant to me.. he won't send message or text unless I do it first..but now I realize that I don't need to do that anymore. I pulled away.
Aw Alex that so nice of you. Proper advice my dear. It necessary some time for some men to distance in a relation. I like that it a sign that they are perfect and mature nice one. Keep advicing Ladies to know more about the attitude of most men. Correct advice.
I would like to know what to do when a man is NOT letting you be alone? I am an extrem introvert and don't want to meet or communicate every day. I don't think he understands that...
"You are an smazing man, spending time with you is wonderful., but, I can't give you the best of me if I don't have some me time to recharge and take care myself.
alex i am shocked. so we're supposed to say i don't feel the same attraction anymore? 😳i dont think i can actually do that. also is there a 4th of july discount for your coaching sessions? that would be so amazing!
My man just broke up with me via text. The reason? He fell out of love. He ghosted me for the past 3 months then came with this today. I don't know what to do. I love him and I know his intentions were pure. He introduced me to his family and friends as the woman he wanted to marry.
Nat Elegance Designs nope , she needs to see a clear picture even if it hurts so bad and move one . Thing that she loves him does not change the fact that the guy does not want her . At lest he told her , there are those who could string it along for many years . So actually she should be great full, she had a closure .
Hi there! I know Coach Alex would love to help you with this but he would need to know a little more about what you're going through in order to help you out with this. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with him using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team
Will this work if he's not invested in you though? I get the impression it only works if the man is fully invested in you as your boyfriend or something. Ive curious because the guy im dating now has gone quiet and has pulled away. Not sure whether this would make him walk for good and make him feel to give up as he's already said he gave up on the idea of us being together before
Hi Steph, I know how difficult this is to deal with and I'm sorry to hear this. I have a video on this channel that talks about what to do when he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. I think this video will help you a lot and I hope you find the time to check it out! th-cam.com/video/W9L1ttDl1Vg/w-d-xo.html
I need this advice to gain my c0nfidence bc0z of wat happened t0 0ur relati0nship. My husbnd left us and he didnt even c0ntct us even my kids. Im desperately l0nging t0 see him. but I ch0se t0 be quiet😭
I am confused he act distant or ignoring me.. I broke up with him and after two days i apologised to him. He dont talk to anyone he just seen all my messages and never reply and also did that to others too.. Please help🙆🏼♀️we are in long distance
because he has cheated so many times and I texted asking him if he met someone he told me to f off :.( because ever time he gets distance that is exactly what he was doing well I walked I can never trust him again ever!
Just reply: I m sorry. I hope you'll find love soon. It will awaken his instincts as he feels you are slipping through his fingers! He will want to win your attention back! Don't let him! If he feels you are easy, you won't be a challenge for him anymore and he will loose interest. You must keep him interested by not giving him what he wants, only breadcrumbing (like they do). The longer you do it, the more he will want you.
Arisha Khandoker Don’t waste your time on him trust me i was same in your situation once , he was love of my life but he also was killing me inside its like I died many death with him. Once i got courage to let him go life is finally at peace . You wil be okay far better than the situation you are in right now. The ones who truly loves you will not hurt you or cause you any pain and The one does not worth your love. 🤗
Anything changes since? If he didn't start chasing you after this info sinked in, then he was really not interested. But usually it takes time to sink in. He might have been reacting from his ego or testing the waters if you really meant it or just tried to make him react.
If a guy is distance to me and he text little and he is not investing me. I would think by myself :" Next and thank you so much because now i know you are not the right guy for me". If a guy is distance out of the blue...than he is not the one for me. Investing should be 100 and 100 on the same level. We womans must have selfrespect. If guy is not texting or give you breadcrumming respond than before. Than i would say:" there is the door and goodbye". We as woman must be high value. I would not even text the guy that way. 🌈
NEVER EVER TEXT A MAN WHO IS DISTANT. MAKE HIM COME TO YOU.
But what if he is just feminine man
then dont be with that kind of man@@MiaMatia
I needed this advice today. I texted my man exactly what Alex said, and he reacted immediately. He apologized and admitted he's been very busy and that he loves me. Now he knows what I'll accept and what I won't. Thank you so much Alex!!! You are the best coach in the 🌎 world.
Thanks for sharing!!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert Alex love your videos and advice. What do you recommend is the best modus operandi, when a guy who's at a distance (Not in the US) texts you how long should I wait before I reply?
@@LoveMoneySecretsTV l
Really???wow i need to try this.
@@LoveMoneySecretsTV you should consult him for every move you make!
Who the hell cares! Text whenever you feel like it, or sit there staring at your watch
Whenever I see your intro, I automatically feel positive & I know I will have the reassurance & the positivity in my life
I’ve done this before without even trying I sincerely meant it and it worked !
hahahahah wish luck for us
I haven't even used the advice yet but I am excited. It made me feel so empowered just imagining the response
Because he hadn't asked me out in 6 months, I texted him, "You know what, I like you! You're such an amazing man! I really don't feel I've met a guy like you in a long time; but I'm not in love anymore, I don't feel the butterflies in my stomach. The connection between us is gone." He double texted me promptly, " I understand 100% and am not happy how I've been. The best I can do is pray for your well-being!" Next, he wrote, "I care for you whether we are together or not! I appreciate the time we've had and I will never forget you!" I want to motivate him to call me or ask me out, but don't know what to say.
Hi there! This seems a bit complicated... I hope you can book a coaching session with me so I can know more about what happened and give you the advice you need.
www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
-FRE Team
When a husband is distant,
I love listening to your advice.
Encouraging.
Omg...! Yes it's about reverse policy🙌One of your best video Alex..👍Thank you for your guidance and support. You are doing a great job 🙏
Great advice! That’s true you really only remember what comes after “but...”
Thank u Alex, great message. I did do the no contact rule for 7 days but I couldn't stop wandering how he would he react if I messaged him. I was watching a funny video clip then I sent it to him. Then after I text him again and said sorry I was meant to send the video to my other friend. And he responded back straight away, I was happy knowing that he didn't ignore me. So I'm back on the no contact rule again.
I did this and it worked! Wow! Immediately he texted me pouring out his heart to me 🥰❤💛💚. He apologized for making me feel this way, said he has been busy. But, he truly care for me, and he asked how can he make things better.
This is what I said. I'm really into you, it's been a long time that I have met an amazing guy like you, but it seems as if you have checked out, your energy has changed. I'm not feeling you. He called me immediately, I did not pick up, then he texted me pouring his heart out to me.
kady Robinson I'm trying what you said. Just became so sick of my now ex man acting distant and low effort. I really hope it works. Thank you I feel empowered either way x
You know what I like you are such an amazing person but I no longer feel those butterflies anymore and the connection between us
I don’t think all men will respond well to rejection. You don’t have to say that at all you just step back and stop throwing yourself on him
Exactly! It's too harsh...
Damn Alex! Ain't you hottest coach ever ?!
Sure he is😂💯
Just now I realized he is soo cute
Perfect dimple, I can't imagine when he is in his early 20s🙃😉🤣😇
I agree
I know, he is so handsome too😉 I like the way he talks and explains, its so sweet, and girls,look at his his arms😍
This is just what I needed to hear, this just happened to me with a guy I met on an online
dating app he started going distant on me. I will try this technique and see if I get a response back from him. Thank's again Alex for you're wonderful advice and look forward to more of your amazing video's 😊👋
Thanks for sharing!!
Did it work??
I have watched and read a lot from many coaches and I have to say you are my favorite 💖
He’s tall , handsome & well dressed too.
That is so funny. „You know what? Im not in love with you now“. That is basically how you feel though if they are being assholes
I don't believe in those techniques anymore. When I love a guy I tell him &that's it ❤❤❤ I don't play games it doesnt work.
But what if he never replies??? He texts me sometimes, but usually leaves me on “seen”. I asked him for a relationship, not just a fling. He even agreed and said he’d make more time for me and respond more often, but he really doesn’t. He reads my texts and doesn’t respond.... He was nice in the very beginning, he is the one who liked me first. Now I’m the one chasing him! And I hate doing that... being clingy or needy. Please help?
Sounds very much like a narcissist.
He just breadcrumbing you and only text sometimes to keep you in the game! He needs your attention, he feeds his ego from that! Don't let him! The only way is ignore him completely! Don't even read his texts for days, even a week or 10 days. Then read them, but still no answer! That will make him WONDER. No information is killing them! Keep him GUESSING, that will make him so eager! When you see him chasing you, don't give in! I made this mistake and straight away he dropped me. Keep him breadcrumbing. Don't complain, just say: i need someone more consistent then you are. He will try to be that to win you over.
How long you can do this game? Hopefully after a while he will level up but if he isn't, then you MUST walk away. He can't be the man you need. Tell him this before you leave.
Brilliant! Thank you! There are some good words in here that feel honest and authentic for me to say. I was in a recent text exchange with a man on a dating app that lived across country. And, I didn't feel a connection with him most of the time. I kept searching for good questions to get to know him better and he would respond with short answers that didn't lead any feeling of connection. Saying that I didn't feel a connection with some examples would have been a great solution to opening up the topic. I am 99℅ sure we weren't a match. I can also think of other dating candidates I could have used this with.
Thank you much Alex.
I'm definitely trying these.
Love from Nigeria 💗
You're so welcome!
This is the best advice! Ty Alex!
Ooh God gonna try it.Thanks Alex
Help me more Alex... I feel exhosted now
I just used this advice let's wait for the results
I just did too , no reply for 2 days .. weird lol
Going to two months now no respond and i started dating someone new life goes on and on.
Just wanna share with u.. i used this same method after him being distant (less to no texts, no more calls, infrequent online on whatsapp n fb). I sent a q long soft reminder basically on: i love u but i feel this is being more distant n i need to know whats going on this distance. Then i start focusing on myself. 4 weeks later received a message from him: ops sorry bz bla bla bla. But i was ready to move on. Continue loving myself etc etc. Lo n behold, received another message. I just read but no reply. Still to this day. Tday i got a message : ppl shine when they r treated differently n correctly. I just read but no replies. But i tell u, keep on loving yourself when a guy pulls away.. dont trip into their silly games 😒
Hi alex watching from Philippines it's really inspired me thank you and keep safe always GOD bless you
Thanks for watching!
Thanks Alex ... always makes sense xx
Ooh what a great idea...such a simple word with such big meaning.
Merci.
You are so welcome!
Thank you, we need to hear this 😊
Thanks for listening
I really needed this, thanks
Best advice, Alex
Ok I'll try this..play
Hi Alex!
I just want to say you are AMAZING, and your advices are on point 👌
Thank you so much for enabling others to access help through these videos of yours 😘
You're so welcome!
Loved ❤️ amazing advice 👍😂
Thank you!!
I love these videos it definitely inspires me for the content on my channel 💯💕 Thnx Alex
You're so welcome!
That's a nice shirt on you Alex!
Thank you!
Thanku we really needed this
Thank you for your support!
But... butterflies don’t resist so much in my stomach. Only butternut could !
Thanks for this Alex..
My pleasure!
Excellent words.Love from Pakistan.
Shout out to " Pakistan", thank you for being here!
Hello Alex..thanks for this video.. I really love my guy but he is distant to me.. he won't send message or text unless I do it first..but now I realize that I don't need to do that anymore. I pulled away.
same here
Nice advice ❤️
Hahaha.. But , now is a positive word. Thank you.
Welcome!
Thanks again for your advice fr Philippines 👍🙏❤️
Hi Alex thanks you so much I'm watching ur vedio💃
So meaningful advice
But if telling him you don’t feel the connection with him won’t trust push him away
First comment ☺.. Thank you Alex for your advices
You got it!
Aw Alex that so nice of you. Proper advice my dear. It necessary some time for some men to distance in a relation. I like that it a sign that they are perfect and mature nice one. Keep advicing Ladies to know more about the attitude of most men. Correct advice.
Thanks for sharing!!
Merci Alex
I love your enthusiastic warm energy 🙂
😊 thank you
Thank you so much 🥰
It really worked 😂😂
I'm always happy to help Ragini!
I would like to know what to do when a man is NOT letting you be alone? I am an extrem introvert and don't want to meet or communicate every day. I don't think he understands that...
"You are an smazing man, spending time with you is wonderful., but, I can't give you the best of me if I don't have some me time to recharge and take care myself.
Itsme Sia tell him you need space bc that is how you recharge, that it has nothing to do with him 😂
Oh my word, this is my issue 😪...I need an answer too asap..
Itsme Sia A man who likes you wants to talk or see you everyday. If you don’t like him, let him go.
How about married couples. What kind of texts one can send in such a relationship to bring him closer
Thanxxx
Thanks Alex
You are truly welcome.
What do I reply if anything to the text you recommended? I sent “ I thought you were a man 😊. Anyways was nice meeting you had fun take care “
Hi! I'm not sure if I understand this question, are you asking me about what to do if he responds to the message you sent him?
Alex il y aura aussi la même vidéo en français
What to do after being needy?
What are some steps I can take, to stop guys from bread crumbing me. Or what can I say to him? Thank you ❤️
Great.
I feel like European men are way different than American men in their romantic approach.
alex i am shocked. so we're supposed to say i don't feel the same attraction anymore? 😳i dont think i can actually do that. also is there a 4th of july discount for your coaching sessions? that would be so amazing!
It takes two to have a connection.
Hi sir
What if you have been dating for 17 months and he starts pulling back
Look at the ather videos ... Alex explainds it
17 months is too long. He's not going to marry you, unless you're still in highschool.
Bonne a petite.
So how many times do I do this for him to respond how I want.
Can't download the ebook 😭😭
My man just broke up with me via text. The reason? He fell out of love. He ghosted me for the past 3 months then came with this today. I don't know what to do. I love him and I know his intentions were pure. He introduced me to his family and friends as the woman he wanted to marry.
Just except it , he does NOT want you !!
@@ivy3839 you ain't sugar coating anything 🙈
Nat Elegance Designs nope , she needs to see a clear picture even if it hurts so bad and move one . Thing that she loves him does not change the fact that the guy does not want her . At lest he told her , there are those who could string it along for many years . So actually she should be great full, she had a closure .
Set him free if you love him.
@@natelegancecarnival ivy is 💯 RIGHT
Perfect thanks
Indeed
Revealing🙌🏻
Not all men are the same. What you're saying isn't the same for everyone
Besos desde 🇺🇸 CaliBaja 🇲🇽
Thank you for being here.
what if he is in punishment mode now because his ego suffer?and he dont like to give up?
Alex,what if the guy takes these words as a breakup and not as a reason to step up?
Hi there! I know Coach Alex would love to help you with this but he would need to know a little more about what you're going through in order to help you out with this. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with him using this link:
www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
-FRE Team
Will this work if he's not invested in you though? I get the impression it only works if the man is fully invested in you as your boyfriend or something. Ive curious because the guy im dating now has gone quiet and has pulled away. Not sure whether this would make him walk for good and make him feel to give up as he's already said he gave up on the idea of us being together before
Hi Steph,
I know how difficult this is to deal with and I'm sorry to hear this. I have a video on this channel that talks about what to do when he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. I think this video will help you a lot and I hope you find the time to check it out!
th-cam.com/video/W9L1ttDl1Vg/w-d-xo.html
I can't see the link
I cant see the link that you mention below.. Can u please provide
I need this advice to gain my c0nfidence bc0z of wat happened t0 0ur relati0nship. My husbnd left us and he didnt even c0ntct us even my kids. Im desperately l0nging t0 see him. but I ch0se t0 be quiet😭
Sorry to message n intrupt your privacy but just for concern I m asking did he contact you?
Get a divorce, alimony, and child support. He is a piece of trash to abandon his family.
where is the link
I am confused he act distant or ignoring me.. I broke up with him and after two days i apologised to him. He dont talk to anyone he just seen all my messages and never reply and also did that to others too.. Please help🙆🏼♀️we are in long distance
Alex, sexy accent ! What about long distance relationships ?!
Long distance is a ridiculous waste
Dont be needy
Hahahaha you are too much Alex. Thanks
My pleasure!
Can't find the link
How can I book coaching session from you
Here is my link to arrange a private coaching session; www.thefrenchrelationshipexpert.com/private-coaching-2-2/
❤
Am in love with guy. But he is distance, I really love him, how can I get him.?
He doesn't want to be gotten by you. Respect him.
Could this buildup be any longer
because he has cheated so many times and I texted asking him if he met someone he told me to f off :.( because ever time he gets distance that is exactly what he was doing well I walked I can never trust him again ever!
Girl LEAVE!
Stop being a pest. This guy is abusing you because he's sick of you forcing yourself on him. He already said no. Respect him.
Does this work on an ex that is no lo ger messaging and talking to other women?
OMG what would you want with an ex who doesn't want you? Have some self respect.
Prob. He will has his ego bruised and won't like that
You should do contests/drawings for free sessions...even just 30 minute sessions.
♥️
What if you text and he doesn’t reply? Or what if he replies and says ok...shall we respond or just leave it for him to call?
Yes I need this answer
Just reply: I m sorry. I hope you'll find love soon.
It will awaken his instincts as he feels you are slipping through his fingers! He will want to win your attention back! Don't let him! If he feels you are easy, you won't be a challenge for him anymore and he will loose interest. You must keep him interested by not giving him what he wants, only breadcrumbing (like they do). The longer you do it, the more he will want you.
Stop forcing yourself on someone who doesn't want you. That's called being a pest. Respect the fact that he has said no.
Hi Alex will it work even if he is now already with someone else 😢
Omg have some self respect. Why would you want someone who's being slobbered on by someone else? DAMN!
Tetx him bye and he will say hello :)
Alex I want to died 😭...
My bf hurt me lots pls help me... plsssssssss
Arisha Khandoker
Don’t waste your time on him trust me i was same in your situation once , he was love of my life but he also was killing me inside its like I died many death with him. Once i got courage to let him go life is finally at peace . You wil be okay far better than the situation you are in right now. The ones who truly loves you will not hurt you or cause you any pain and The one does not worth your love. 🤗
Find a better man instead of settling for abuse.
Trust me you will find someone better than that trust me
Well I sent him the text and he said we’d always be friends but I need to look for the guy of my dreams. I don’t think it worked.
Anything changes since?
If he didn't start chasing you after this info sinked in, then he was really not interested. But usually it takes time to sink in. He might have been reacting from his ego or testing the waters if you really meant it or just tried to make him react.
If a guy is distance to me and he text little and he is not investing me. I would think by myself :" Next and thank you so much because now i know you are not the right guy for me". If a guy is distance out of the blue...than he is not the one for me. Investing should be 100 and 100 on the same level. We womans must have selfrespect. If guy is not texting or give you breadcrumming respond than before. Than i would say:" there is the door and goodbye". We as woman must be high value. I would not even text the guy that way. 🌈