1. Talking abbaut the ex 2. Know your limits don’t get drunk 3. Don’t let your mum cut your hair 4. Put your phone away 5. Pay for your and her things (her thing only for the riches guys under us) 6. Not offering to pay on the date 7. Bad social media presence (terrible selfies, weird pics, creepy stuff) 8. Personal hygiene and grooming (every day shower/ only every second when your really work all the day) 9. Talking only abbaut you (ask her questions) 10. Dirty unorganised car keep your car only clean when you don’t have a Ferrari
@@youngrosh6056 well actually it's not just about Alex, it's overall this "I want to be a better man mindset" that kind of stands out and can give you clues about whether the guy watching Alex or other personal development youtubers / reading self-help books. Personally spotted quite a few
True. We are on a higher level, we moved on. But let the girl come to the conclusion, never explain stuff about yourself to a girl, comes across as weak and defensive.
@@pflaffik I mean if you explain it right, you aren't coming across as weak and defensive, you're showing her that you've thought things through, that shit means something to you. As a girl with no social media, if I found a guy who doesn't have it, I'd be curious why, because it's just the norm now. People are constantly confused by my lack of social media, and while I actually wouldn't pry because it's a touchy subject for me sometimes, I would find it really interesting if a dude explained to me in a chill way about why he doesn't have social media.
Archived like 10 post on IG just now😅. Not gonna talk about myself a lot around a girl again. Not gonna use my phone around the girl again. ❤️You saved me bruh. 😘
Awesome this channel actually changed the way I thought about continuing doing TH-cam, Before I was just uploading anything but now I want to try harder.
"They're not gonna go out with guy who is creepy, doesn't have any social media" well damn I felt that one lol I guess I'm creepy for not having social media then
Tell them “Social media is for grandparents sharing grandchild pics noone want to see”. Thats all, dont explain why you dont have social media (never explain anything to girls), let her come to the conclusion on her own; that you already moved on to tomorrows big thing.
Number 11, confidence. I think a lot of us guys are either over confident, or really shy and doubt ourselves. A lot of us (including me) need to learn to be quietly confident and find that balance. Looks can only get you so far as guy, and in the end personality and confidence are dealbreakers.
Very valid point Bill, and most of us think in those lines. What Alex and alpha m does isnt very ethical, they want ugly guys to think they are doing something wrong, and then alpha m will convince them to dress like idiots, and selling them stuff to look like an old dude who got stuck in style decades ago and wear 1980ies boots.
Hey Alex, I’m an 18 year old and I watch all of your videos. Your videos are the best ones out there. All your styling tips and suggestions are amazing but most of the time I feel like I know this and that one and I’m good with Girls too. It’s just a request to give these videos a level up so that those who know more than basic about girls, fashion, texting will be able to take a step further. Thanks ❤️
#2 absolutely. I quit drinking 10 years ago. Then boom my dating life has been outstanding. I tell guys all the time. Dont drink more than 1 drink. Youll have a huge advantage over other men. I was already confident, and never needed alcohol for courage. So alcohol made me arrogant. Today my true confidence shines. Ultimate top dog everywhere i go. Great advice. Yes dont talk too much period. Respond to her conversation.
My mom cut my hair till I was 17, but it was always “yea we’ll do it tomorrow, I’ll do it this weekend, maybe later” let’s just say I had medium long hair most my life. Started going to a great clips a while ago, but just about every time they cut too short or far off from the style you wanted 😄 during the very limited quarantine in Idaho, tried cutting my own hair (tried fades) not great but I did it a few times and rocked it still.
Ty bro .... Only because of u i propose my crush nd now we are in relationship .... I follow all ur routin, skin care, exercise, hair routine... U are great .... Hope u cross 3-5 million subscriber ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
These are great for accessory tips, but if you really want some hard reality advice that worked for me. 1.) Don’t be awkward/nervous. (Super hard to do) especially if you don’t talk to girls often. 2.) Most women want you to hold backbone of conversation so always have more things/interesting/ backup topics to talk about. 3.) Hygiene and appearance nobody wants to date someone unattractive. 4.) Don’t get too attached and know that women have more options than a male with dating, so don’t be surprised if they don’t put full effort into a date. This is a bummer. 5.) Women want to be taken care of in life so obviously they want a guy to have some sort of spending money for a future. Don’t ever tell them how much you make until they’re hooked on you! Sadly such is life...6.)Workout and have hobbies that are more than video games or watching movies. 7.) Don’t tell them if you have too weird of friends. Sometimes they can make you look bad. 8.) Try not to have a piece of crap car. If you can’t afford a good one make sure it’s cleaned and as best presentable as it can be. Nobody wants to ride around in a a pile of junk. 9.) Be open minded and don’t talk about money, politics, or religion unless it’s super necessary. 10.) Be a caring dude who will listen and make her laugh, but don’t let yourself be taken advantage of. Don’t get obsessive and look out for yourself! Wish you the best of luck and take care! 👍🏻
Alex theirs something about your channel that I love some much like your videos and your tips make I can just tell that you really live to what you say and coming from someone like you thanks man
Been watching you for a while, improved my dressing, grooming, workout, body posture and self confidence, done every single thing. Still unloved and unattractive 💔 The thing is, if you're ugly, you're ugly.
Hey Alex! Nice Video. I have one idea - At the end of every video you could give us a glance of your outfit! It would be really helpful cuz you have great outfits in every single video
So forte was great for me in the beginning. It kept it styled all day and kept the volume. Lately the volume has been bad making my hairstyle look flat mid way through the day. Although i like how my hair feels with forte because it keeps it nice and smooth. I live in Chicago so it’s cold and windy a lot. Could that be the reason why my hair ends up losing volume? I’m also college student and I’m outside a decent amount of time walking on campus from class to class.
I would say introduce yourself to all of them in a polite way, maybe spark a conversation towards the whole group. And then focus more of your attention on the actual girl you like.
@@danielnasr1231 Np! And nah I'm not that good with girls tbh, but I have been doing somewhat better with them recently. I watch a lot of dating topics/coaches on here so that's why I have a better understanding of female nature and how they operate. And yes I would say it's mostly experience in dating, the more you try and understand female nature the better off you'll be!
Great video! I can't wait to see the live stream. I will say that when using forte is that it does pull and tuck your hair. Would be nice to know how to avoid that.
Number 3 is bullshit. My mom has been doing professional hair cutting for 20+ years. If your mom is not a professional, it’s different. But my mom is a professional.
Now my question is, what do women do to impress us? Why do we have to be the ones trying all the time? Some of them are really not that special, most are all looks and that's it.
I respect your work and all the things you like to tell us about fashion and girls,and how to be bad boy and all that cool thing that can impress girls.But do u even have a girlfriend??????
I love the jacket it's soft to wear i think. I guess it's from Zara. Am i correct Bro. @Alex? Thank you for the helpful & informative video of yours. 🙌❤
Don't forget to follow me at instagram.com/alexcosta :)
Have a GREAT weekend! 😎
-AC
Where dou u get that jacket from that's dope
Alex Costa always 🔥video
Alex Costa always 🔥video
Alex Costa always 🔥video
sandeep sahu yup that jacket is 🔥🔥🔥
11. If you treat someone like a celebrity don't be surprised if they treat you like a FAN .
True, i had a coworker who was almost 30 and virgin, he kept referring to girls as Godessed and high flying stuff, while they were around.
@@pflaffik simp alert
Should I treat her as if she's less important than me?
Anonymous Person yes u r the most important person to yrself
Doesn't that contradict number 9?
Turn off:
1. High speed ride
2. Disrespectful to others, waiters
3. Complaining all time
Really goof
1. Talking abbaut the ex
2. Know your limits don’t get drunk
3. Don’t let your mum cut your hair
4. Put your phone away
5. Pay for your and her things (her thing only for the riches guys under us)
6. Not offering to pay on the date
7. Bad social media presence (terrible selfies, weird pics, creepy stuff)
8. Personal hygiene and grooming (every day shower/ only every second when your really work all the day)
9. Talking only abbaut you (ask her questions)
10. Dirty unorganised car keep your car only clean when you don’t have a Ferrari
My mom owns a salon. Your boy here gets those free cuts. Can’t stop won’t stop
@@calebdowling8651 same here✌🏼
@@calebdowling8651 lucky!
Oh thanks. I didn't watch the whole video so this really helps.
I wonder if girls ever watch Alex and be like “oh so that's how that dude has been improving"
YoungRoss lmao that was good
@@AaronnRamirez thanks my dude
Hi I'm that girl
@@keentosin so how many dudes you know are watching Alex?
@@youngrosh6056 well actually it's not just about Alex, it's overall this "I want to be a better man mindset" that kind of stands out and can give you clues about whether the guy watching Alex or other personal development youtubers / reading self-help books. Personally spotted quite a few
This guy has helped too much for getting a better life style and better conversations with the girl, thanks .
Alex: dont look at your phone
Alex's frnd: looking at her phn while he is sitting there just sipping from the glass😂
Haha yeah I saw that, so girls can do it but not us guys lol
Who recognized Alex's hair? It's longer than his hair for Grammy.
He recorded this video before Grammy.
IQ level : ERROR
He got a haircut in that video man hahahah
Alex, I’m on my 3rd date with my crush. It’s honestly the best feeling ever. Thanks again.
My crush is ghosting me :(
@@T0Z0U then she’s not the one. Let her go, and know your worth. Sending you good vibes brother
@@xlook4wardx Thx. I will try.
@@T0Z0U Mine too. Its been a year and im still not over her.
@@T0Z0U I don't have a crush 🙃
My biggest mistake with girls : trying to talk with them
😂
🤣
🤣🤣🤣😂
🤓🤗
Same. 🤦🏿♂️
I don’t do social media at all. And girls tend to like that difference from other guys my age
True. We are on a higher level, we moved on. But let the girl come to the conclusion, never explain stuff about yourself to a girl, comes across as weak and defensive.
@@pflaffik I mean if you explain it right, you aren't coming across as weak and defensive, you're showing her that you've thought things through, that shit means something to you. As a girl with no social media, if I found a guy who doesn't have it, I'd be curious why, because it's just the norm now. People are constantly confused by my lack of social media, and while I actually wouldn't pry because it's a touchy subject for me sometimes, I would find it really interesting if a dude explained to me in a chill way about why he doesn't have social media.
Goals for 2020:
Getting heart from Alex Costa❤️
I hope he sees your comment dude 🙌
you got it
That was fast
My biggest turn off is when Alex Costa doesn't like my comment 😭😍🤗🤗
Ujwal Lol 🤣 you too funny man best comedian on the universe
@@omarbojang9174 haha😂😂😅
Archived like 10 post on IG just now😅.
Not gonna talk about myself a lot around a girl again.
Not gonna use my phone around the girl again.
❤️You saved me bruh. 😘
I’m 18 and ain’t frank in 10 years. I’m not for young people drinking but honestly it helped me get over it after 3 years of being hooked on it
That flickering light in the back was throwing me off the whole vid
that denim jacket is fire 🔥
Kenny I want one, you know where I can get one like that?
Zara guys 👌🏼
Aaron Ramirez no sadly not but i want one too
Is that a denim jacket?
Kenny can’t find this jacket on Zara, anyone have a link?
Heyyyy alex I love your videos and I am developed AF , love from 🇮🇳 India dude
Awesome this channel actually changed the way I thought about continuing doing TH-cam, Before I was just uploading anything but now I want to try harder.
"They're not gonna go out with guy who is creepy, doesn't have any social media" well damn I felt that one lol I guess I'm creepy for not having social media then
Tell them “Social media is for grandparents sharing grandchild pics noone want to see”. Thats all, dont explain why you dont have social media (never explain anything to girls), let her come to the conclusion on her own; that you already moved on to tomorrows big thing.
Number 11, confidence. I think a lot of us guys are either over confident, or really shy and doubt ourselves. A lot of us (including me) need to learn to be quietly confident and find that balance. Looks can only get you so far as guy, and in the end personality and confidence are dealbreakers.
I tapped so fast on this! It’s perfect timing for me
I insulted a girl by telling her she's beautiful.
You were being a worshipper, thats bad. Maybe you even tried to explain it to her, thats even worse.
@@pflaffik Should he have called her hideous instead?
You're lucky she didn't put u under harrasment charges
I wonder if girls ever watch Alex and be like “oh so that's how that dude has been improving"
@@averelldeacy687 cringe copying others comments
Alex the type of Costa to start putting minute long commercials
Wait...this isn't TMF,wrong place dude😂!
@@kushagarakanojia r/woosh
Bro your hair looks fire man
ALEX. EXTREMELY IMPORTANT AND IRRELEVANT QUESTION. WHAT ESPRESSO MACHINE DO YOU USE? 😂
Everybody: Awesome jacket, where can I get it from?
Me : Awesome face, where can I get it from?
True 😢
Nice question billionaire 😏
Same here, its all about the genes anyway
Bill Gates parents
Very valid point Bill, and most of us think in those lines. What Alex and alpha m does isnt very ethical, they want ugly guys to think they are doing something wrong, and then alpha m will convince them to dress like idiots, and selling them stuff to look like an old dude who got stuck in style decades ago and wear 1980ies boots.
The best on the internet for correcting yourself for the loved one♥️
Hey Alex, I’m an 18 year old and I watch all of your videos. Your videos are the best ones out there. All your styling tips and suggestions are amazing but most of the time I feel like I know this and that one and I’m good with Girls too. It’s just a request to give these videos a level up so that those who know more than basic about girls, fashion, texting will be able to take a step further. Thanks ❤️
Forte clay is the miracle product
Alex can you make a video on people with chubby face, exercises for that and hairstyle
Talk to your doc, you probably got too much estrogen. Losing weight in general reduces estrogen and causes less facial fatty tissue.
Me: about to be ghosted
Alex: not today my friend
Thanks my guy
jake epstein he came in clutch for that one lol
I like ur channel. I'm subbed.
#2 absolutely. I quit drinking 10 years ago. Then boom my dating life has been outstanding. I tell guys all the time. Dont drink more than 1 drink. Youll have a huge advantage over other men. I was already confident, and never needed alcohol for courage. So alcohol made me arrogant. Today my true confidence shines. Ultimate top dog everywhere i go. Great advice. Yes dont talk too much period. Respond to her conversation.
Seeing Alex's videos I realised Grooming and paying attention to oneself is of utmost importance for any guy
If it wasn’t for Alex we all would not have girlfriends lol I have learned so much from you bro🤟🤟👌
totally appreciate your advise man 🔥its just couldn't be more specifics
I was 13 when I start watching your videos, I'm 16 now and it help a lot 😍💙🙏from Austin
My mom cut my hair till I was 17, but it was always “yea we’ll do it tomorrow, I’ll do it this weekend, maybe later” let’s just say I had medium long hair most my life. Started going to a great clips a while ago, but just about every time they cut too short or far off from the style you wanted 😄 during the very limited quarantine in Idaho, tried cutting my own hair (tried fades) not great but I did it a few times and rocked it still.
Ty bro .... Only because of u i propose my crush nd now we are in relationship .... I follow all ur routin, skin care, exercise, hair routine... U are great .... Hope u cross 3-5 million subscriber ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Top tips Alex 👍
I got so many compliments on my outfit today thanks Alex for your advice😊
Clothing tips are ok, just dont listen to alpha m.
You're doing a great job young man. Keep up the good work. Even us older guys like your content.
These are great for accessory tips, but if you really want some hard reality advice that worked for me. 1.) Don’t be awkward/nervous. (Super hard to do) especially if you don’t talk to girls often. 2.) Most women want you to hold backbone of conversation so always have more things/interesting/ backup topics to talk about. 3.) Hygiene and appearance nobody wants to date someone unattractive. 4.) Don’t get too attached and know that women have more options than a male with dating, so don’t be surprised if they don’t put full effort into a date. This is a bummer. 5.) Women want to be taken care of in life so obviously they want a guy to have some sort of spending money for a future. Don’t ever tell them how much you make until they’re hooked on you! Sadly such is life...6.)Workout and have hobbies that are more than video games or watching movies. 7.) Don’t tell them if you have too weird of friends. Sometimes they can make you look bad. 8.) Try not to have a piece of crap car. If you can’t afford a good one make sure it’s cleaned and as best presentable as it can be. Nobody wants to ride around in a a pile of junk. 9.) Be open minded and don’t talk about money, politics, or religion unless it’s super necessary. 10.) Be a caring dude who will listen and make her laugh, but don’t let yourself be taken advantage of. Don’t get obsessive and look out for yourself! Wish you the best of luck and take care! 👍🏻
Alex my man I just told my mom I’ve got an elder brother and it’s you ❤️
Alex please make a playlist of lookbooks, they are amazing and deserve a seperate playlist. Thanks :)
Love the positive energy on this channel bro!
respected Alex Costa, thanks for such an amazing information.
May God bless you forever.
Peace 🔥
Alex theirs something about your channel that I love some much like your videos and your tips make I can just tell that you really live to what you say and coming from someone like you thanks man
The Forte series works great for me. It took me a little bit to figure out how it works for my hair but once I did, I always enjoyed styling my hair 😎
Your jacket is on fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥 noti squad heart ❤️ please make a video on skinny guys fashion..... Pls
Make your self look lagere, by layering. Exsample Hoddie jacket
Alex costa : know your alcohol limit
Myself: watching this video with a glass of wine
Can anyone tell me where I can get that jacket ?
I want it too
In one of his replies he said it was from Zara.
Love your videos man they’ve helped me so much to improve my style
Hi Alex, I would love to see more workout videos, I love your videos, keep killing it 💪💪🔥🔥
The best thing is to be yourself, nothing else matters.
Thanks Alex for this social work for guys
Costa, right before I watched this video, an ad played for ur Forte series texture clay🤙💪💪
Hey man! I love your work! For the next vid, you should do something for students.
Getting a good haircut is super true, good barbers aren’t even that expensive and having good hair is something super noticeable!
Make us pls a video about 2020 clothing fashion . You are always the best
Love your content like always . Keep going bro and have a great weekend to you too 😊
*_Can I get a hearth, Alex?_* 🥺
Been watching you for a while, improved my dressing, grooming, workout, body posture and self confidence, done every single thing. Still unloved and unattractive 💔
The thing is, if you're ugly, you're ugly.
Dancc Man its the mindset man, you’ll have to Think you’re a premium bloke
@@beukie1699 I'll try
Your are amazing.I always follow you and obey your words and your tips will help to impress many girls.
I'm going for a date tomorrow Alex costa just gave me tips which helped me a lot I'll try it tomorrow 💯🖤
Like the way you present yourself man!
This is the only channel I'm subscribed to.
Have a great weekend AC
Peace ✌️.
I cannot wait for more of you products to come out man, keep up the great content 😊❤️
Your one of my biggest inspirations, Alex🙏🏻 Keep up the great work bro!!
When your mom professional hairdresser🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hey Alex! Nice Video. I have one idea - At the end of every video you could give us a glance of your outfit! It would be really helpful cuz you have great outfits in every single video
Oooh the rule number 1, that's why they turn off at somepoint easily. Now I know. Thanks man
So forte was great for me in the beginning. It kept it styled all day and kept the volume. Lately the volume has been bad making my hairstyle look flat mid way through the day. Although i like how my hair feels with forte because it keeps it nice and smooth. I live in Chicago so it’s cold and windy a lot. Could that be the reason why my hair ends up losing volume? I’m also college student and I’m outside a decent amount of time walking on campus from class to class.
Alex brining quality content once again!!!👊
I wish I also had a friend like Robert. Alex you are lucky 🙌
Love you man.Please make a video about the benefit of green tea for hair please.
That jacket tshirt combo looks so good! But I know if I got the exact same outfit I'd look ridiculous.
How to approach a girl when she's with her friends?
I would say introduce yourself to all of them in a polite way, maybe spark a conversation towards the whole group. And then focus more of your attention on the actual girl you like.
@@Lindblum_Castle thx man, you seem like your good with girls. Do you think that it's all about experience in dating?
@@danielnasr1231 Np! And nah I'm not that good with girls tbh, but I have been doing somewhat better with them recently. I watch a lot of dating topics/coaches on here so that's why I have a better understanding of female nature and how they operate. And yes I would say it's mostly experience in dating, the more you try and understand female nature the better off you'll be!
By foot
Daniel firstly approach the group, and then the girl
Hey Alex can you give us some tips for a valentine date and maybe some style inspirations?
me: i don't need a girlfriend
alex: you can do it men!
Xd
Love your videos Alex!! Always good content!
Thanks for all the content Alex, you really are the best!!
Could you make a video on teenage hair loss reasons and solution plz?
What’s the music you used?? It’s really good!!
Paying for her things is actually a nice guy move bruh I've had a very bad experience they'll think you are acting nice and lose your respect
Even though I haven't watched the video yet, I know that this video is gonna be awesome.
Great video! I can't wait to see the live stream. I will say that when using forte is that it does pull and tuck your hair. Would be nice to know how to avoid that.
IAM searching for the summary guy!
And I know u 2 do it!
Becoz we are lazy guys
Number 3 is bullshit. My mom has been doing professional hair cutting for 20+ years. If your mom is not a professional, it’s different. But my mom is a professional.
That jacket he's wearing looks awesome, anyone know what it is?
It's a lightwash Trucker Jacket
Zara
Lovin the forte clay Alex! Great product!
Now my question is, what do women do to impress us? Why do we have to be the ones trying all the time? Some of them are really not that special, most are all looks and that's it.
Thank you so much for the clay, it has helped me so much!
I respect your work and all the things you like to tell us about fashion and girls,and how to be bad boy and all that cool thing that can impress girls.But do u even have a girlfriend??????
Well, I'm 17 and my dad still cuts my hair . Not complaining , he does a really great job!
Night King then that’s good
I love the jacket it's soft to wear i think. I guess it's from Zara. Am i correct Bro. @Alex? Thank you for the helpful & informative video of yours. 🙌❤
Best advice by alex cost ❤️ we love ypu
Notification SQUAD!!!💜💙💚💛🧡❤️
@@Saths75 yes bro
Thanks @Alex for the ❤️
Thanks for the tips man!
Biggest turn off: Not being able to take a joke; have some humor and enjoy the moment.
That would be useful if we wanted to date bots. Thanks, i will not keep that in mind.