ASMR Request 🏆Reaching Your Goals

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  • NOTE: If you've been waiting for a video where I just prattle on for almost an hour, this on'es for you, too. :)
    I've had several people ask me to do a video on working toward goals. We'll discuss that, as well as several of the common excuses we all use when thinking about the things we want to achieve.

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  • @TheMaristocracy
    @TheMaristocracy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    As a 21 year old, your videos mean the world to me. Never change. Keep posting. We love you.

  • @PageHallock
    @PageHallock 6 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Eww who said you're too old to make ASMR videos? It baffles me that young people have such limited views of the world and life. PLEASE keep at it, Mary!

    • @rosieposie9564
      @rosieposie9564 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, that really makes absolutely no sense. Why on earth should ASMR only be for younger people? People of all ages can benefit from and have ASMR and so people of all ages should make these videos. I listen to ASMR videos made by people of all ages and they are all great.

  • @vanillab7796
    @vanillab7796 6 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I can't do my homework because you just uploaded a video... #anothervalidexcuse 💕

  • @GraceAskew
    @GraceAskew 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This is one of the most inspiring and insightful TH-cam talks I’ve ever heard. So relatable and straight-forward. KEEP UP the amazing work. And yes to a budgeting video!! Cheers from TN sister~ 💕💕

  • @PrimASMR
    @PrimASMR 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    💐 Loving this video! You are a huge inspiration and an incredible person!

  • @darleneklonk9128
    @darleneklonk9128 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What beautiful advice! I wish you were my neighbor! You are a wonderful woman and very wise. I'm a retired nurse and mother of 6 children. I'm 64...and believe me..it seems like yesterday that I was 44....

  • @alonememe
    @alonememe 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Usually your videos are just fun or relaxing for me, and that is why I'm watching them, but from time to time you're coming up with something like today's and I'm speechless... Your words are very powerful and very eyes opening, you touch some topics in the way, that I and other people need to hear them. Thank you so much for this.
    BTW: video about budgeting - yes, please :)

  • @FigburyWitchASMR
    @FigburyWitchASMR 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mary, thank you. The diversity of your content blows me away. I’m headed into the next step of my life and I can see myself watching this regularly. Love your way 💜

  • @kellygirl8327
    @kellygirl8327 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great advice Mary! I think so many people would benefit from these types of videos from you! I live by a strict budget and have for such a long time! I paid for my own education and vehicle! I’m proud of myself and I’m proud of my children for starting to do the same! I’m proud of you Mary! Please do a video or many on budgeting and working on being debt free! 👍

  • @MsCiachi
    @MsCiachi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I wish I knew you in real life 😭 would be a blessing!

  • @toniblanche683
    @toniblanche683 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Please do a budget video. I am definitely struggling with my budget atm my income literally got cut in half. Currently looking for a second job but I could use help with budgeting now on a loooowww income.lol
    Also I went to college as an adult I worked two jobs. It was hard but I did it. Sadly I'm not working in the field I went to school for.

    • @Memorare87
      @Memorare87 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Toni Miller I second this! This is a timely video because I'm also desperately searching for good budgeting tips. Tingles with flyby recently made a great video on the topic but I would also love to hear your take, Mary! :D

  • @50hellkat2
    @50hellkat2 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is an excellent video. Very straightforward, tried and true advice that is easy to understand. This is a video that has a lot in it and should be saved and played from time to time by everyone. Its on my playlist for my drive to work. Thanks for sharing.

  • @heavensoto4409
    @heavensoto4409 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can’t believe how little views this has. This video could benefit so many people!!! Such a great job ❤️

  • @marianasofiamartinspereira6232
    @marianasofiamartinspereira6232 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can't believe young people comment that! I am 22 years old and I absolutely love your videos! You are so awesome and one of the most honest, kindest people I have ever met (even though I haven't met you personally). Your videos are good for my soul, like a good cleanse after a hard day 😊

  • @Sportdiva7
    @Sportdiva7 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have to comment again! Lol I love you Mary! You are so smart and so kind hearted. I’m glad you pulled away from “friends” who didn’t support your decision for college. You’re going to meet an awesome man one of these days because you are so kick ass. You have the coolest style with a positive mindset. It’s so true that life is short and you just have to go for it! It’s kind of scary but it’s always very exhilarating at the same time because of the nerves you have when you take risks to reach goals. Life is beautiful!

  • @jenniferr-f3157
    @jenniferr-f3157 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m almost the same age as you and I really appreciate these videos. I appreciate learning from other people’s lives when they’re genuinely trying to help improve mine. Please keep them coming.

  • @paint_freckles
    @paint_freckles 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I had a nasty divorce in my 20s went back to grad school and got my masters degree so I would be independent. Bought a house. Got a federal job. Met my current husband and wanted to start a family. Bam...started having horrible pain and exhaustion. Worked 3 more years in that condition without a diagnosis. Had to quit working and now in 2015 had to have hysterectomy for severe endometriosis. Then diagnosed with sjogrens syndrome and lupus. My marriage is struggling and I am financially dependent again. I'm a patient at john Hopkins. I never had children and now with my health and age adopting is out. I still get up every day try to accomplish even one thing. I have been stretching as much as I can and walking half a mile every day I can. If I walk 5 days this month I might be able to walk 6 days next month. I try to remember there are people who can't walk at all. My mom says the only failure is when you give up. If you have your health or a job or a child or a healthy marriage or a good friend don't take one thing for granted. Everyone of my friends disappeared when I got sick. It's been 10 years and I'm not giving up!!

  • @meisje122
    @meisje122 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Pls make a video on budgeting!!!

  • @dianab.9044
    @dianab.9044 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mary, you can be proud of who you are and where you have gotten today, I couldn't believe you would care about what pessimistic people say, you are amazing and inteligent and no one can tell you squat about what you can become or do. Keep being Mary because Mary is perfect

  • @karenc1528
    @karenc1528 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Belated air hug and huge congratulations for reaching your goal! I've seen this before but always fell asleep!! That's amazing and such an achievement!!

  • @YourCharmingStory
    @YourCharmingStory 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like how you got off track with your real experiences and examples.

  • @Sean360Lennox
    @Sean360Lennox 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Perfect time to release this thank you for uploading... I'd love to see Harvest opinion on this.. Bravo

  • @Bernardt_Art
    @Bernardt_Art ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Mary. I am listening to your video to keep on track with my goal right now.

  • @lanasmith-coles4956
    @lanasmith-coles4956 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mary I think your attitude and inner strength are wonderful. I love you are so self sufficient and happy x

  • @erindelosa5572
    @erindelosa5572 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video was needed for me! I’m starting a freelance business before my second child arrives this summer. I so badly want to quit my current job to stay home and work....I keep telling myself “how am I going to be successful? I can’t possibly be like everyone else” but your advice has inspired me ♥️ thank you, Mary!

  • @madelinewarner1124
    @madelinewarner1124 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please never stop making videos!! You are awesome and have really helped me with my anxiety :)

  • @Sunflower-bu6zp
    @Sunflower-bu6zp 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love all of your asmr so much💖💞

  • @YourCharmingStory
    @YourCharmingStory 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have tried watching the younger gals in their videos and I can’t stand how they all try to be so seductive. It makes me crazy. They are focused on how pretty they know they are. You are authentic. I think it’s funny how you fluctuate your accent. I especially enjoy your library video in the plumb short. I seriously listened to that one every night for 2 months. This goal video has been encouraging to me tonight because you’re reminding me of what I’ve learned over the past 5 years, some of which I’ve forgotten. By the way, I think you look especially pretty tonight

    • @rosieposie9564
      @rosieposie9564 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      OMG, I thought I was the only one who gets annoyed by those girls who are trying to make ASMR about youth, seduction and sex...very shallow, backwards and annoying.

  • @didithurt
    @didithurt 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Needed this video. I have a new baby girl and I have so many goals to better myself for her. Better health, better budgeting, better time management. Thank you for this.

  • @Andrea-cy9pn
    @Andrea-cy9pn 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the vid!! My parents didn't let me work when i was younger but i would have certanly apreciatte it. I could have save up money and do things that i wanted. I still have some of those dreams and i think about them.. I am saving money. I just hate that it never seems to be enough.
    Iwish i could talk to my mum the way u talk to us...

  • @x0lollipopdisease
    @x0lollipopdisease 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this video!! I would LOVE for you to create a budget/money related video like this one 😀 you're the best!

  • @kimberly6815
    @kimberly6815 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is exactly what I needed to hear. I'm proud of you and thank you for this great video!

  • @Sportdiva7
    @Sportdiva7 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I paid for my Bachelor’s and took a long time to pay off my loans as well. I took the longest time to go back to school for nursing because of money and being single, but last August I just quit my job and went to school with taking out the little bit of federal loans I could get. I’m so happy I took the leap because it’s not as scary now although money is tight. Lol

  • @AshlynGerman
    @AshlynGerman 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    cool video! I think this will be really helpful!

    • @topnotchturnip5831
      @topnotchturnip5831 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      ashlyn I always start laughing every time I see your pfp.

  • @inthetearoom
    @inthetearoom 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are such an inspiration to me always! Talk about you to my bf all the time as if you were one of my friends :P. This video really reminded me of my goal I had admitted to myself but then talked myself out of...of drasrically changing my career moving back to italu and becoming a chef and resteraunteur..but it's something so big it scares me..but this made think of maybe thinking it's possible again

  • @matthewwilson6889
    @matthewwilson6889 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video has really motivated me, thank you for helping me through a rough time!

  • @uwutireddd8783
    @uwutireddd8783 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was so surprised when you said Animal Behavior! That is what I want to major in, in college. I currently am in a program at my highschool with animals and love it! Im going to be a senior soon and I worry a lot about making it into college. So thank you for this video, I really want to reach my goals!😊
    Also I would love to hear more about what you learned while there. It sounds like you loved it~

    • @uwutireddd8783
      @uwutireddd8783 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s been a year and i’m now a college freshman in Animal Behavior. I came back to this video to reflect a little bit. It’s kind of funny how much I had worried about school when it all worked out in the end...
      Still would love to hear more about what you did with the major etc. If it isn’t too much ☺️

  • @sully2932
    @sully2932 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yay, I’ve really been wanting this video and it’s at a great time too! 😁

  • @YourCharmingStory
    @YourCharmingStory 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen to this video momma

  • @cathylee5840
    @cathylee5840 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sorry I missed your videos I agree your an inspiration and a awesome person your very creative on all your videos love ya mary !!!💖🌷🐈🔥

  • @KK-xd4ok
    @KK-xd4ok 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you I needed this 💕💕💕

  • @emiliadeil
    @emiliadeil 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this video. I've been subscribed to you since you had around 20k subscribers, although I rarely post comments. I'm more of an observer. I love hearing about your life experiences, opinions, and what you have to say about things in general. I think you're an awesome person and it really reflects in your videos! Thanks for sharing your personality and creativity with the world!

  • @WhisperVoyeur
    @WhisperVoyeur 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    wish u was my mama 😉😍😍

    • @SouthernASMRSounds
      @SouthernASMRSounds  6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Are you sure? I make my kids do chores every day, and I yell a lot. :)

  • @hayleyjane8464
    @hayleyjane8464 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this so much Mary! Thank you

  • @ife25usckid
    @ife25usckid 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was so amazing ! Thank you

  • @Saps127
    @Saps127 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for these videos as it helps me so much right now. Literally today I got a letter from apartment office tellers that landlord will not renew our lease and we have to vacate in 60 days.
    Asked for a copy of that lease and noticed my signatures and initals are not mine and I never did an electronic signature yet it says that and also the signature looks similar to the manager of the office. Trying so hard to find my original lease copy and cant find it.
    Just had to vent. I mean I lived here for 9 years. Never late on rent, never was a disturbance except I complain about major issues such as almost getting attacked by dogs that arent on a leash. Sorry I am ranting....just shocked I would have never thought I'd get a nonrenewal letter for no reason.

  • @CamdenMcInnis
    @CamdenMcInnis 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Listening while at work. Great video Pretty Southern lady

  • @madisontuten9292
    @madisontuten9292 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just in time for bed ;)
    ... Eeeeven thought I'm going to bed at 1:00 in the morning

  • @BebeSarah
    @BebeSarah 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    So very wise! Thank you!

  • @babycakesluvsyuhxxx
    @babycakesluvsyuhxxx 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed this. Thank you 💛

  • @eatdonutz1
    @eatdonutz1 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your such a beautiful soul ❤️love this 💕needed it !

  • @kimrojas8712
    @kimrojas8712 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this. i relate a lot to you!!

  • @sherribo-berry8112
    @sherribo-berry8112 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    what do you do at the gym? what is your workout?

  • @tarabradley2066
    @tarabradley2066 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this SO much.

  • @thenativewoman
    @thenativewoman 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this. I needed it. 😀😁

  • @50hellkat2
    @50hellkat2 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Let’s discuss you being close to 100,000 subscribers. Oh yas Queen.

  • @alexis2301
    @alexis2301 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lovely video :)

  • @gaul4923
    @gaul4923 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are a good woman.

  • @deeseeses4716
    @deeseeses4716 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you. X

  • @roflmeowkittehs
    @roflmeowkittehs 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😸

  • @bonzie508
    @bonzie508 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey everyone! If you're interested in studying success more in depth make sure to pick up the book "Think and Grow Rich". It's a totally life changing book

  • @megreads824
    @megreads824 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'd listen to you prattle for 10 hours ;).

  • @roberta1703
    @roberta1703 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you ❤

  • @fluffedstuffed4233
    @fluffedstuffed4233 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    😴

  • @alyssamarie8612
    @alyssamarie8612 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ohhh I’m early✅

  • @jamesmark782
    @jamesmark782 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not to worry. Father Time will catch up with the younger people and they probably won't have a fraction of your wisdom to share.

    • @SouthernASMRSounds
      @SouthernASMRSounds  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      As they say, "There's no fool like an old fool". Not everyone grows wise with age. I'm grateful for the lessons I've learned throughout the years.

  • @katemoonkate
    @katemoonkate 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    you have a nice voice but it does not seem like ASMR to me. will come back to see your tips in the daytime!

  • @denisthemenace1272
    @denisthemenace1272 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mary can you please make another sandwich making video please?