NYC vs Tokyo: A Japanese-American’s Perspective on Culture Gaps, Identity and Beauty Standards

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  • @aviewer9516
    @aviewer9516 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What a lovely woman - beautiful, articulate and I wish her the best as a fellow Japanese American.

  • @timharu62
    @timharu62 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    It's nice to see Riho enjoy Japan which is harder for a woman as Japan has higher expectations for women to conform than men. It's a testament to her ability to adapt and to overcome the challenges. I am a Japanese American nissei like Riho who grew up in Ohio but unlike Riho, I had the worst experience. I was born in 1962 and America was very different then. I am very happy to see that this generation of Japanese Americans can enjoy living in both the US and Japan.

  • @IsSheRG710
    @IsSheRG710 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Informative interview and liked how she expressed both pros and cons of nyc vs tokyo too

  • @UltimaRedFireEskimo
    @UltimaRedFireEskimo 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    As a fellow New Yorker, I felt similarly when I visited Japan last week. It felt SO safe which is a huuuuuge plus, considering a woman caught on fire on the subways in NYC the week I was gone :( Also, eating out with my friends cost up to $50 easily per meal, compared to Tokyo where eating felt a lot less of a wallet killer. Cleanliness is the last thing, like the amount of human/dog shit I see in the streets of even lower Manhattan is crazy...loved how clean Tokyo is.

  • @infiness
    @infiness 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Such a great interview. Authentic answers from a beautiful human. Thanks for this.

  • @yoriokuda4792
    @yoriokuda4792 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Keep on being who you are. Individuality is important but Japanese conformity is important too at times. Balance is crucial.

  • @MadeNCda
    @MadeNCda 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    What a beautiful young lady. Hope she has a fulfilling life in Japan and achieves her goals. 😊

  • @cee2199
    @cee2199 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Loved this interview. She is so well spoken and articulate. Been to one of her shows too, and she's an amazing artist. 🎉

  • @martian-sunset
    @martian-sunset 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    NYC transplant, now living in Tokyo. Tokyo & Japan 1000%. I can't think of anything better back in NYC and the US overall is moving in a horrible direction.

    • @barondino4628
      @barondino4628 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Japan is in a downward spiral since the 90ies, things are getting worse. Demographic winter will hit them hard, granpas and granmas can't run society.

  • @spang9782
    @spang9782 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    At 14:17 YES! When Japanese tell you to meet at a certain time, subtract a half hour, Early is ON TIME! On time is LATE!!

  • @Greg-om2hb
    @Greg-om2hb 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I admire her ambition, determination, and thoughtfulness, and i wish her well. Especially because I think it might be harder as a Japanese-American to make it in the Japanese entertainment industry, that it would be for a “White” or “Black” (I dislike those terms, but …) American. I think the market wants either “pure Japanese,” or extremely “exotic.”

  • @Chokken97
    @Chokken97 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    She's so on point on her observations of Japan. Glad someone is aware enough to accept it and express it so delicately. I hope Japan can become more "free" without losing the values and respect we all enjoy.

    • @VanillaPeach-y7l
      @VanillaPeach-y7l 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You visited

    • @Chokken97
      @Chokken97 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@VanillaPeach-y7l I guess it's a 9+ year long visit.

    • @Chokken97
      @Chokken97 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@VanillaPeach-y7l not all of them, no.

    • @Chokken97
      @Chokken97 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@VanillaPeach-y7l depends on your preferences but Kyoto has a lot of city and nature things to do. Tokyo is good for a first time visit, but it's very different from the rest of Japan. Hiroshima is less crowded and peaceful is you want a more relaxing visit.

    • @Chokken97
      @Chokken97 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@VanillaPeach-y7l Tokyo is very city, busy, and modernized. The rest of Japan is slower paced, spacious and more traditional.

  • @nasunoyoichi5253
    @nasunoyoichi5253 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    born in nyc as a Japanese American. One time I went into a bodega and the guy asked me what I was, told him Japanese, and he said in broken middle eastern english: ohh Japanese, haiyaa! Now I know he didn't mean it in a racist way, but I almost asked him where he was from, because I wanted to do the same thing to him, but there were 5 other dudes from the middle east behind the counter lol.

  • @grumblekin
    @grumblekin 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    I am also an American Nisei in Japan...and New York is an open sewer. Tokyo is superior and I will never go back to the USA.

    • @smillabutryn7517
      @smillabutryn7517 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Absolutely agree. Tokyo is the best.

  • @rcboatnut
    @rcboatnut 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I get that at her price point in NYC she could afford to not be exposed to the ugly underbelly of the city which is quite a stark difference that what she is in love with there. On the other hand Tokyo's worst area is 1000 times better than even the medium situation in NYC, just my opinion.

  • @Dark_Vader888
    @Dark_Vader888 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Fantastic interview. I am opposite. I hope Japan and the west are always completely different.

  • @ijo1759
    @ijo1759 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Tokyo doesn't need more diversity, end of story.

    • @smillabutryn7517
      @smillabutryn7517 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes. I like it as it is so much... i like it being Japanese!!

  • @sara.cbc92
    @sara.cbc92 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    She looks so pretty

  • @tliew5710
    @tliew5710 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I like her ❤New Yorker . She definitely 👍 expresses the true

  • @dw7647
    @dw7647 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    She should also check out Bangkok.

  • @user-ll3yp3ex2s
    @user-ll3yp3ex2s 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I think as soon as Mexican Brazilian ppl see her they always ask her to marry

  • @rainzerdesu
    @rainzerdesu 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I wonder how Tokyo would feel or have developed economically if not for the long running recession and weak yen. Like would Tokyo still feel as good if everything was NYC expensive (basically if Japan wasn't pressured to devalue their currency in the 90s for the investors of US and Europe).

  • @rafae5902
    @rafae5902 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Come on
    There's no way NY is better than Tokyo

  • @etherdog
    @etherdog 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Riho needs to find a good writer that can make her a star and icon of what a strong, assertive Japanese-American can achieve.

  • @yuttarihula
    @yuttarihula 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Rihoちゃんの魅力が満載なインタビューですね❤これからも楽しみながらがんばってください💕

  • @Asakusa771
    @Asakusa771 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Age conscious society (over the hill). Like Downward Spiral.

  • @RomeoDomínica
    @RomeoDomínica 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks for the analysis! Just a quick off-topic question: My OKX wallet holds some USDT, and I have the seed phrase. (alarm fetch churn bridge exercise tape speak race clerk couch crater letter). How should I go about transferring them to Binance?

  • @amirb2684
    @amirb2684 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    She’s so beautiful!!!

  • @tkyap2524
    @tkyap2524 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    In America its individualism. In Japan, you conform.

  • @simonyang-pe3ux
    @simonyang-pe3ux 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I understand that Japan is a conservative society and hold the different beauty standards. but what i wanna say is that i encourage Japanese people to open them up further ,focus more on individual stuffs instead of consuming too much time to think of others' opinions and i hope they can express themselves freely, that will be more effective to boost people to people exchanges and communications.

    • @wdtrick
      @wdtrick 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I understand what you mean. But if I opened me up further in Japan, maybe people around me would be like, this guy is too intimate, isn't he? Strictly speaking, whether or not other people accept somebody opens him/her up depends on each individual's personality, character and how widely a person open up, so it's difficult to talk in a black-and-white way, but like Riho said in the interview, there is a strong social norm sort of thing in Japanese society, which makes people hesitate to open up themselves, for sure.
      BTW, I'm a Japanese who was born in, grew up, and live in Japan, and practicing English right now, so I'm sorry if my comment doesn't make sense.

    • @simonyang-pe3ux
      @simonyang-pe3ux 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @wdtrick Okay, cool
      i guess that's part of Japanese traditional culture. listen, bro, i'm not judging Japanese or the way how they live ,please dont get me wrong.
      Just do whatever you like without being afraid of being judged by others.

    • @wdtrick
      @wdtrick 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @ I agree with you. Following is my personal story. I quit the job last March and I was staying in Canada on a working holiday visa and now I'm traveling all over the world. In Japan, it is said that making a "gap year" in the middle of a career is seen a quite negative thing, which could be a kind of like a defect in a career, but I don't care. You know, I only live once. I try not to care about how other people see me.
      Thank you for your thoughtful comment.

    • @simonyang-pe3ux
      @simonyang-pe3ux 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@wdtrick 👍wish u all the best

    • @Greg-om2hb
      @Greg-om2hb 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Not gonna happen. To Americans it seems easy to decide to just be yourself. But the Japanese culture defines one’s self image as being part of the group.

  • @somescorpio1798
    @somescorpio1798 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    In Japan she would be viewed as not-Japanese.

  • @simonyang-pe3ux
    @simonyang-pe3ux 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    So have u ever been discriminated or treated unfairly in NYC because of your Japanese bloodline or your Japanese appearance let's say.

  • @davidmun1601
    @davidmun1601 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I can understand her not liking people speaking to her in Chinese. Often, people do that to make fun

  • @yunusaminbari3060
    @yunusaminbari3060 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    She is very open minded, I hope Japan will be able to learn from her instead of boxing her to be like everyone else.

    • @VanillaPeach-y7l
      @VanillaPeach-y7l 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Open minded as in

    • @yunusaminbari3060
      @yunusaminbari3060 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ She is willing to acknowledge and explore different ideas and cultures even though she is from NY.

    • @VanillaPeach-y7l
      @VanillaPeach-y7l 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@yunusaminbari3060
      Example

  • @offensivesword4628
    @offensivesword4628 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    As an american, I don't feel america is fully free. I felt more free in latin america and europe.

    • @CIeaner23
      @CIeaner23 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      You are out of your f ing mind…

    • @HKstroller
      @HKstroller 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @CIeaner23
      Like Jim Jeffreys said, you’re definite not as free as Holland.

    • @furost_nova
      @furost_nova 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Indeed. In the land of the free, america's politics often are contradictory and reversed.

    • @smillabutryn7517
      @smillabutryn7517 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You are right.