Being 15 and struggling with depression the simplest task like showering could be the hardest, You guys motivate me to take care of myself everyday thank you for that.
Hi. Depression will do that. I'm in my late 30s and have had mh since my teens. I've gone ages without washing in the past, spent days in bed etc. I'm sorry you're going through this!! Depression is an ass!, But you're not alone. 💕💕.
@jessirey4 Hi. 👋. Has she been diagnosed? If she has, is she on medication? It can take a while for them to start working, & what might work for one person, doesn't for another. It's hard to help when someone's in a deep depression because of you're strict it won't help, or if you're too soft it won't help. All you can do is support. Healthy food, fresh air & exercise can help but it's motivating her to do it. It's really hard. I've lay in bed for days on end, just sleeping for most of the day, lethargic, feeling useless. Knowing deep down I need to do the simplest task of washing but just didn't want to, and didn't have the energy. I knew I'd feel great after but just didn't care, I even got big knots from not brushing my hair. It's so hard, I think finding a medication that suits her is the first thing, and it does take a good while to start working. Maybe find a support group for you (parents group) so you'll get help & guidance of what to do? I'm sorry I couldn't help, it's such a hard situation. Sending love. Xxx.
I’m 11 and in foster care. When I was 8 I got my period and I was shamed by the other kids there I remember watching this video when I was 9. You don’t know how much you’ve helped me
I'm so sorry, honey. Please just know that you are an amazing person. When people treat you badly, that is a "them" problem. I'm sorry that you're going through what you are. You must be a very strong person! 😊💜
i’m so sorry girl… please don’t listen to the other kids, your body is normal and amazing and doing what it’s meant to. take care of yourself, much love! 💕
they shouldn’t be complaining about periods when without periods, none of them would exist. there’s no shame in being a woman! im proud of you for looking past the hate and seeking out hygiene
Same I like that a lot of the people in the comments are girls and not like guys being grossed out about girls talking about feminine hygiene and shaming them for it
Im 16 and this literally changed my life!! I struggle with my feminine hygiene for a long time, I was never taught about this and never knew how to take care of myself, seeing your video and Chloe yazeam video just made me happy seeing someone being open about feminine hygiene and wanting to tell others how to take care of them properly. I love youuu! and Chole Yazeam
I grew up with a single dad and had to figure stuff out for myself from when I had my period. my mom treats periods like it's the most disgusting thing on the planet. it was so refreshing to see such a positive attitude towards women's bodies.
i’ve been feeling this sudden urge to take better care of myself. 5 minutes in the video and i’m already shocked that i’ve never really thought about trying to get to know my own body. i instead criticize it. i’m so moved by your acceptance and love. thank you so much for the guidance. you have no idea how thoughtful this is
heres the list/main things she stated for anyone who is too lazy to go back and rewatch. • sit down and look in the mirror to see if you need to clean any build up, clean it with a qtip before going into the shower, be gentle. • go in the shower and do everything in your routine first, save cleaning down there for last. • use a baby wash cloth and baby dove tip to toe wash for down there, open up your legs let the water run through, pump some soap on the baby washcloth clean the outside then clean the inner portion DO NOT CLEAN INSIDE THE ACTUAL HOLE. reapeat this 2-3 times. • use dove deep moisture to clean back there. do it like 3 times with a rag. • rinse down there with water •when you’re done showering pat yourself dry then pat down there. •moisturize your body if you want to moisturize down there use coconut oil, but you should talk to your gyno abt it. if you do use coconut oil make sure to pat it a bit with a little towel. • try to wear cotton underwear most of the time • if you are ovulating use panty liners •drink a lot of water. drink pineapple juice with or without apple cider vinegar and cranberry juice • take probiotics •eat a good amount of fruit •eat a lot of yogurt it has a lot of probiotics. •clean down there with water after you use the bathroom. •make sure you are wiping front to back NEVER BACK TO FRONT •use baby wipes or feminine wipes to clean yourself after taking a dump •if you shave down there just know you dont have to shave it all the way . •avoid products that are not meant specifically for down there •make sure you can change your tampon/pads often because not changing can cause scent. also tampons can give you toxic shoch syndrome • if you are sexually active pee after seggs and get tested regularly •see your gyno •look at your discharge, make sure its not a weird texture or color, if it looks out of the ordinary see your gyno • get to know your body, get to know what’s good for you and what’s not good for you
@@virtualkayla I wouldn’t recommend coconut oil because it can clog your pores. Personally I don’t think coconut oil is the best for you but if it works for you it works for you ❤️
I've always been so embarrassed to actually ask my mom about these things because i like to keep my body problems for me, so this video is just so useful for me i can take better care of my body and still have my privacy,so glad this video exists
Thank you for having a thumbnail about feminine hygiene without holding up a pair of panties while holding your nose. I think that is so misogynistic! Again, thank you!
Do Someone knows what else can we wash down there other then dove baby soap like can we use hand soap like what other thing can we use other then what she had
@@LinaSkywalker-4life Unscented soaps; like ivory and dial, baby soap, sensitive washes and gentle washes. I personally use ivory bar soaps, they’re cheap and do the job. I don’t think using hand soap is good idea tho.
This is embarrassing to say but I'm 26 and I never learned any of this. I couldn't ask my sisters without being slut shamed and I was afraid to talk to my mom. I recently started having sex and I've been really insecure about my hygiene. Thank you for this video. It's very helpful to young girls and women.
You don’t ever have to feel embarrassed on my channel love!! I appreciate having you here so we can all learn and grow together 💕💕 Best of luck to you xoxo
@kuroo's thighs yes girl everyone's area down there is different we come in all shapes and sizes and that's totally normal its nature of being a woman that we are all so diverse but all beautiful in are each of our ways:) mine looks Roast beef but I like it 😂👍
I’m a guy and this popped up on my suggested and just for curiosity watched it. Although I was raised by my mom so I know a lot about this already (mom taught me good about pretty much everything during “those” years) I still cannot believe this stuff isn’t actually taught in like health class or something. So many women have 0 clue how to do certain things and not of their own ignorance but out of just them not being told or informed by multiple sources like said in the video. Not everyone has a female figure in their life, some health classes are completely terrible, etc etc. It’s honestly kinda dangerous to not teach kids/teens how to care of their own body. I had a friend who went into toxic shock for a min because she didn’t know how tampons worked and she left it in for a long time. it was pretty damn scary. The fact that you guys gotta go through so damn much too is absolutely crazy.
@mika's cafe モカ Honestly it’s kinda sad that more guys don’t understand that stuff :/ it’s always guys too who wanna say something weird. I think it comes down the the fact that so many men deal with toxic ideas about masculinity and self care that anything dealing with “self care” is seen as bad or too feminine. Like my dude it ain’t bad to wanna be clean 💀 Like we should all know how our bodies function, how to stay healthy n clean, etc etc. I mean we all learned to brush our teeth, go to the restroom, shower, etc. this should be no different honestly.
thank you for being so respectful and kind about this topic. i’ve met guys who are incredibly rude to people who aren’t aware of things like this. your mom has definitely raised you right and i’m sending her and you a big hug. 🤍
im 14 soon going on 15, and my mother never talked to me about hygiene as i grew up. therefore, i grew up smelling bad due to not taking myself properly / not using the right products until i watched hygiene tip videos. though as for feminine hygiene, my mom never talked to me about that either. the fact that you are so comfortable being open about feminine hygiene truly makes me comfortable aswell. i appreciate you so much for making this video and will definitely take all of your advice into consideration.
samee like i'm 14 years old and seriously don't know how to properly take care of myself, its lowkey really hard bc my mom wont let me buy these products at all.
Your hygiene routine as a child should have taught you the basics. A mother would have been bathing the child until they are old enough to to it independently. Your mum must have bathed you at some point
@@ladydivine8615 I’m sure her mother bathed them but even mines didn’t tell me things like what she’s saying but all mines told me was to just how to clean and to just use soap and water and clean regularly but didn’t get into this detail so I’m thinking that’s what’s the persons talked about
I’m a grown ass woman and never took extra precautions to make myself as healthy and beautiful as possible... I simply had nobody talk to me about it so Thankyou 💓
Hi! I’m 13 and I’m terrified of talking about this stuff to my dad. My mom and dad had a divorce a long time ago, so I didn’t really have a mom to talk about periods and shaving, and just taking care of myself really. I feel like God was helping me and guided me to watch this beautiful and helpful video. I also feel safe and that I can talk to you about anything here. ❤️Thank you so much gorgeous, I hope you have a wonderful day. And to the 1% of people reading this, we love you sis. 💕💋💅🏼 Edit: what do you ladies recommend for body wash and deodorant?
Just tell him your blooming into a young women and are getting womenly things in your body then ask him to take him to the store and get money and buy men razors (they work the best) then get eos shaving cream, make a sugar wax if u wanna wax, dealing with periods get over night/12 hour pads and the period wipes and shower once or twice a day
It's okay sweetie, I was the same age as you are when my parents divorced and that same year when we moved from Florida back to Arizona is when my first menstrual cycle came. So I know how nerve racking that can be. Oh and I would recommend that you speak to your mother not only about tampons, pads or menstrual products but also about *waxing* instead of shaving. No razor bumps! Waxing is *definitely better* for the long term! Peace, have a great day! 🌻
I'm 25 and this is the first time I'm hearing someone talking about the buildup down there. I thought it wasn't normal all this time. Thank you so much for this video 💕🤗
girl same 😭 im so glad it is normal. i have always been super thorough and it always came back. took antibiotics for yeast infections and utis cause i thought i had an infection. 💀
this is the first video i’ve seen where someone doesn’t speak so vaguely. she is so SPECIFIC, and i just know this is gonna be so helpful to so many women. i wish i saw this video back when i was like 12. figuring everything out on your own sucks.
“So specific” Her- “down there front; down there back; the holes walls, but not the actual hole”..? I really had no idea what she was talking about/referring to sometimes 😅
@@EmmaJohnsonShenanigans fr lol she's not very specific. she should've explained what the actual biological names are for each part and then refer to those parts with those names.
@@virtualkayla Hello. Being a woman isn't any harder than being a man. Both sexes have their own struggles. Try to pick up a girl as a shy guy, or a not very attractive guy, etc. You wouldn't believe what boys/men need to go through.
I’m 19 and my mom passed away when I was 11 so I didn’t had a female figure growing up. This video helped me so much while making me feel at ease and comfortable about my own body. Thank you so much I needed this
Girl I can’t tell you how many hygiene videos I watch 💀, but this was by far one of my favorites🥰. I loved the little talk in beginning because it’s honestly so helpful to a lot of girls including myself and it’s very needed. I personally struggle with depression so taking care of myself can be hard at times so I like that you made it clear that this isn’t something anyone should be bashed for. The reality is you never really know what someone has going on. LOVED the video💖!
Hi love! Your comment makes me so happy to hear. I know the struggles that depression can bring; it’s not only a mental battle, but it can be a physical battle as it causes people to not have the energy to take care of themselves or their spaces. I see you my love, and I am sooo proud of you! Take everyday one day at a time, you belong here. Thank you for watching!! 💜
I don't know if this helps you, but whenever you have enough energy to take care of your body try to visualize the water washing of the negativity, bad thoughts and feelings. I know this isn't immediatly fixing anything, but maybe it helps you a little bit. I wish you all the best and know that there are always people in this world who love you and will be there for you. ❤
When she said “Coffee doesn’t work well with body chemistry…” I was actually sipping on my coffee and i was like “Oooops” but then she said “ DO NOT WORRY i cannot give it up too”. Thank you so much for being human, girl, you give out such positive vibes. I was always shy and stuff about these things but im turning 20 this year and i think it’s time to grow up. We do not have Sex ED and this type of education in here “ ( I don’t know if you guys study things like this), people are pretty against it, but that made us so uninformed. So thank you very much for this type of content. I really wanna just be a girly girl and know what i should do to take care and love myself. I have a person i want to be with and i know if i don’t take care of myself and don’t love myself that there ain’t no way to do that for them, you know. Keep the good work!
Matthew 11:28-29 - "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls." God will give you rest and take away your problems, He will make your bad situations into a beautiful testimony :)
as a girl that got bullied for smelling bad this video made me cry and i feel so safe, this is why i love online people more then people in real life. i feel like people in real life are so fake. this video made me so comfortable and i use the tips and everyone shut up it’s so refreshing that people can stop talking about me
I wish my mom talked to me about this stuff in such a calm manner like you do. Growing up, she screamed at me to wash myself, she was probably shy, but having someone kindly guide me when I was young would have helped me accept myself better.
I completely get what you mean. This topic can be so taboo so many people struggle knowing how to communicate about it. I hope this video was able to help you out in some way. Sending you a bunch of love xoxo 💗💗
I love this comment section because it’s making me realize how little our moms actually taught us and that’s not our fault💕 we are here learning together that’s all that matters. This community of supportive girls who take care of their bodies is elite🥰
Bit of advice, our Blood actually doesn’t have that strong of a smell it’s the chemicals in the pads that create that smell, switch to cloth pads and you’ll see the difference
Here's some info I've learned Be careful when plucking your eyebrows. There is a point where your eyebrow hair will not grow back anymore. It happened to my grandma, it's not fun. If you do take a hot shower or a sauna, try to finish with coo/cold water. This will close your pores back up, but it prevents you from sweating and getting pimples from your sweat. Rinse your face with cool/cold water, and then use lotion. This prevents wrinkles from forming and gives the skin a nice glow. The cool water also shrinks bumps. My grandmother has done this since she was a teen, and her skin is great. Use baby oil to give your skin a nice glow and amazing smooth texture. It's honestly a life changer, and it helps guard against harsh winds. You can use it on your face, but be careful. I use it after rinsing off a face mask and putting tea tree oil on any bumps. Tea tree oil can be used to make bumps smaller, and orange essential oil makes the skin brighter. It helps a ton with dark circles. Carmex is my favorite brand of chapstick. It's just regular drugstore chapstick, but it works soo well, at an amazing cheap price. It can hurt if you have a split lip, and some people don't like the slight tingle feeling, but it works wonders. Brush your hair out when you have conditioner in it. I have very straight, thin hair that like to mat every half an hour, no joke. When I do this I don't have to brush my hair after my shower, and it keeps it from getting too tangled. That's all I remember right now, if I think of anything else I'll try to add it!
A few issues: There’s no such thing as ‘open’ or ‘closed’ pores. Skin isn’t a muscle and can’t contract as such, it’s a myth. Hot and cold water can’t affect your pores, extreme temperature differences will just damage your capillaries. Carmex is also INCREDIBLY drying for your lips. It doesn’t work well at all, it dries your lips out so you need to reapply more for the momentary relief. They contain salicylic acid (used in acne treatments to dry out pimples) and also menthol and camphor which are irritating ingredients that should be avoided in any lip balm.
I use tea tree for my face since I'm acne prone, it legit helps. Before I put it on my face with a cotton pad, I dilute it with water so it won't be too harsh.
Love this skincare routine! Less is truly more. I use Vaseline on my lips before going to sleep and that’s the only time I ever apply lip balm. My lips usually stay non-chapped all day bc I drink a lot of water
True that we’re not taught how to clean ourselves but we aren’t taught anything ; not sex, not to ask for what we need,not how to defend ourselves, not how to BE ourselves. Puberty is when it gets HAARD hard and just gets harder from there. Subbed because women should support women and love how there’s no shame 💜you should talk about other struggles besides hygiene too.
Drying really well down there is actually the secret to avoid any unpleasant odour.It’s something people don’t really talk about and it makes a UGE difference!Im glad you mentioned it.Personally I go hard,I dry for about 2 minutes front and back I put my leg right on the counter top and I make sure it is DRRRRYYYYEEEE.I’m telling you it makes a a crazy difference same with the armpits and feet.It doesn’t matter how much soap or exfoliant or body wash you use if you don’t dry properly you will be smelling bad down there an hour later…
Right!!! It was great. This reminds me of the crazy community and school health classes I’ve taught as well as the perinatal nursing I did. I’m alllll about the visuals! Literally had a stuffed boob on my desk when I was a LS. This whole video was on point. I came expecting some misinformation or bad advice. But she came in so perfectly! Refreshing to see someone doing these type of videos. Her sweet personality shines through.
This video is amazing!! Shout out to all the girls who is ashamed of her body because you think you are not sexy, you are not curvy, you are not attractive.. Girl!! you are perfect no matter what skin color, shape you are.. Love yourself first and take care of your body and go out and be confident cause you are amazing as you are..got it?? Self love girls..self love..💜💜
being 13 and wanti g to be more healthy, eat healthier, workout regularly, study and be a good student, skin care routine and of course female hygiene this helped me a lot thank u so much!
I really can’t take care of myself. I don’t know what i’m doing, and it’s making me very sad. The fishy smells that i’m constantly smelling and I feel like my parents really don’t care about me. But you have showed me how to take care of myself. I’m so glad there’s a woman like you out here. Currently going to the store to shop and take care of myself from now on! Thank you!
@@jenniferr3098 every girl and her vjay is different and I am no doctor but I am very sensitive down there and my ph is thrown off very easily, even when I eat too much sugar or starchy foods. Eating healthy, only drinking water and taking a daily feminine prebiotic my period has improved, my pH is consistently balanced and I don't get any yeast or bv infections anymore. I really hope this helps you 🙏❤💕
This is one of the first videos I’ve watched where “ build up “ is mentioned and I LOVE THAT. I also thought I was the only girl who was experiencing it 🖤
This video is a lifesaver! You’re not only helping grown women but you’re helping young girls who are turning into women. Not only that but after having 2 kids my body changed drastically and you put spice back into my shower routine! Thanks boo! I’m teaching my daughter these hygiene tips!!
In my arab household we wash our selves with water every time we go to the bathroom, we have something called a shatafa that is like a small water sprinkler attached to a hose, It”ll be a life changer to anyone who tries it I’m from Kuwait btw
Every time I use the bathroom I always have to use some paper towel and some baby wipes a lot which make a difference for everyone that doesn't know it does make a difference.
@@virtualkayla sis I done everything you said on this video and it actually helped before I was worried and insecure on how I was washing my body because my mum never taught me these important tips but it’s so helpful keep it up and fuck da haters love from London ❤️😩
yes! i have very sensitive skin and bad eczema so this is a must for me! it’s also just a lot more hygienic, my parents think I’m doing too much when i say i have to wash my new clothes but i think it’s just safer for me
@miracle aaliyah 1. The generic product they use to wash stuff in stores isn't good for the skin! 2. SO MANY PEOPLE TRY THAT ON 3. Your detergent that u wash your other clothes with doesn't match that article that isn't matching so the two fragrances will mix (usually not a god combo)
I’m a guy I was just looking up hygiene routines but there are very little ones for men, but i found u-we love helping others and respecting both men and women☺️
Your comment makes me so happy! I hate that there are not many hygiene videos targeted towards men but I am so glad that you were able to find my video! These tips can definitely be applied to all genders; bodies are bodies 💜💜 Thank you so much for watching!! :)
@@virtualkayla Right!!! And yeah these do help a lot, I’ve improved so much from watching a lot of videos that are typically targeted towards women but work for men as well, as a 16 year I feel like I’m on top of my game!😂👍🏽
I am 13 and staying clean and fresh has been A struggle with me for years and I always come back to watch this video and her channel. You and the comments motivate me so much and thank you so much!!
I m 15 years old and this video is actually helping me because I dont really feel comfortable talking to my dad or mom about this. Stuff so thanks Im sixteen now
I swear if someone comes on here and is like "ew how do you know what it smells like" yes we check our scents, it's normal, and we need to check our hygene.
I'm 30 years old... my mom was always too embarrassed to talk to me about things like this. I had my grandma teach me alot about my body but she wasn't use to the modern methods. She was old school, so alot of what I was learning was not accurate. I watched this video just now and learned so much. I love this channel already. Thank you so much for this. I have 2 daughters now and alot of this information will be helpful when the time comes to teach them.
Nobody taught me any of this, I had to figure this kinda stuff out on my own. I’m so glad their are more creators making videos on these kind of topics to help other girls with their feminine hygiene!
I love how girls are supporting girls in this comment section, and there are no negative comments. I’m subscribing to this channel just because I find these tips helpful and I feel safe when all of the girls in the comments are giving each other tips, this is the best 💓💓
Sadly I will be the to admit. I know not the only one to admit this. I have never been taught to love my body. Felt like it was a crime to even love the way I look. Lately I watch this and I feel like my body is talking to me in your voice.... Thank you sweet lady
Yes you are 100% not alone! We have all felt that way! Unfortunately this world has taught us to be ashamed of our bodies. Glad we are all learning together in our journey to self love. Sending you so many hugs xoxo 💜💜
I'm tearing up thinking of 13 year old me getting to watch this. A confident, kind, caring, beautiful young woman being a role model and providing crucial information while emphasizing that it's ok to not know or understand everything yet. So few adults realize the power of saying "You're not alone" or "Let's demonstrate" or "If you can only do X, that's ok it will still be fine", and it just makes my heart soar to know that thousands of little girls have someone reliable and non judgemental to show them how to take care of themselves and start the positive reinforcement of self love early. I can only hope this is setting a trend for more creators like you! And if you are a tween or teen reading this, or even someone older, congratulations on wanting to take care of your body, it's the only one you've got and I'm proud of you for valuing it and learning what you can to keep it safe
I’m so glad she shouted out Chloe Yazmean because she’s one of the best for hygiene, honesty, posivity, spirituality and all around good person and very helpful also she funny and recommends the best perfumes!!
This is such an informative video. I’ve always had an open relationship with my daughter but I totally understand that a lot of mother daughter relationships aren’t so open. Thank you for sharing all of these tips!
Your daughter is so lucky to have you! It is sooo important for mothers to create a relationship to where their daughters feel comfortable talking to them about these things! Thank you for watching!! ☺️💖
I used to not know what it's supposed smell "down there" and didn't know about discharge so I was super insecure about it but once I started to look into things more, I learned so much about the female body and it's so unfortunate it's not taught about in school
I've never had anyone teach me anything about my body, how to love it or how to take care of it. Everything I've learnt is from TH-cam. And I love how u credited Chloe she is amazing. I just came across your channel for the first time and I enjoyed your video.
Thank you so much for your kind words! I really appreciate it! I’m the same way, a lot of what I have learned is from TH-cam. And yes I love Chloe, she’s the best. Thanks for watching love 😘💞
I am 11 and I don’t feel comfortable talking to my mom about hygiene tips for down there, or any of that. I’m a little mature for my age, so I do know some tips and what not to do. So watching this video taught me things that I did not know, and I just feel good watching a channel that accepts every woman. I never did clean down there in my private parts before, so I wanted tips because it did actually smell foul, and I didn’t know if that was normal, or bad. So finally having someone to watch that thoroughly explains this is very helpful to me, because most of these that I watch are not explaining well enough for me. So I thank you so much, because I will be putting these tips into my everyday life, because currently I’m on a journey to freshen up my life, have better hygiene, lose extra fat, get a better mindset, just making my life and body better in general. And since I don’t feel comfortable talking to people about these topics, this video really helps me ❤ so again, I thank you so much!!
I’m going through the same thing! But I’m 14. I don’t feel comfortable talking to my mom or my older sister or anything. I never wanted to even talk about my period. But I wish you the best in your life!💞
I'm 42 yrs old and I just want to thank you on behalf of all of the girls and vagina owners, especially the younger crowd who might be embarrassed to talk to their gyno or who don't have a female figure to teach them these things. You're probably saving thousands of young women from getting UTIs and yeast infections because of this video. That's incredible. And the way you explain it is very relatable and not embarrassing, the wallet visual is perfect, I cannot even say enough good things about this information and about your presentation. I would have loved to have had this information as a kid and even into my 20s. Thank you for doing this. Body health and positivity all the way. You're a literal gift to feminine hygiene knowledge.
I literally felt so embarrassed just recently learning all of this. I always just used the same highly fragranced body wash EVERYWHERE. I love the judgement-free tutorial!
Girl I love how kind and gentle you are speaking about being a woman, it made me appreciate so much more being a woman and treating myself with love and respect. Thank you for this!
The water tip is 🔥 I’ve been doing that for a while now. Do it especially if you have pubic hair because pee will stay on you then transfer to your underwear. A baby wipe is a good alternative too.
Omg I’m a 13 year old girl and I literally learned so much from this video! Me and my mother don’t really have a close relationship so I don’t have anyone to talk to about this stuff and this helped SO MUCH. Thank you so much 🥰.
@@bye1546 Don’t be afraid! It’s a part of your body and it’s normal to be confused and overwhelmed with how to care for it. Over time, you will learn what fits your body’s needs and what is most comfortable for you. Watching videos like this is always helpful!
I truly respect the fact that this was so detailed and so educational. I feel like I got most of it down, but you def shared some gems for the veterans lmao. Also, this is very helpful for those without experienced female influences in their life; like girls who’ve only grew up w their dads, other members of family, or even grew up in foster care. Thank you for this!
on top of the fact that shes pretty, she’s respectful, she’s educated, and she is an icon💅🏽
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Being 15 and struggling with depression the simplest task like showering could be the hardest, You guys motivate me to take care of myself everyday thank you for that.
i know how u feel i haven’t had the motivation to take a shower for two weeks but im going to today and i believe u can do it too!
Hi. Depression will do that. I'm in my late 30s and have had mh since my teens. I've gone ages without washing in the past, spent days in bed etc.
I'm sorry you're going through this!! Depression is an ass!, But you're not alone. 💕💕.
love stay strong💗
I’m sorry to hear you are all going through that. I hope everyone is well. My teenage daughter is suffering as well, how can I help her?
@jessirey4 Hi. 👋. Has she been diagnosed? If she has, is she on medication? It can take a while for them to start working, & what might work for one person, doesn't for another.
It's hard to help when someone's in a deep depression because of you're strict it won't help, or if you're too soft it won't help. All you can do is support. Healthy food, fresh air & exercise can help but it's motivating her to do it.
It's really hard. I've lay in bed for days on end, just sleeping for most of the day, lethargic, feeling useless. Knowing deep down I need to do the simplest task of washing but just didn't want to, and didn't have the energy.
I knew I'd feel great after but just didn't care, I even got big knots from not brushing my hair.
It's so hard, I think finding a medication that suits her is the first thing, and it does take a good while to start working. Maybe find a support group for you (parents group) so you'll get help & guidance of what to do?
I'm sorry I couldn't help, it's such a hard situation.
Sending love. Xxx.
“if we don’t love each other who gon love us ?” say it louder. 💅🏻
It’s that girls supporting girls type love! 💞
Yasssss 💯💯💯
facts
NO ONEEE
God will love us
I’m 11 and in foster care. When I was 8 I got my period and I was shamed by the other kids there I remember watching this video when I was 9. You don’t know how much you’ve helped me
I'm so sorry, honey. Please just know that you are an amazing person. When people treat you badly, that is a "them" problem. I'm sorry that you're going through what you are. You must be a very strong person! 😊💜
@@colleenriordan9734 thank you so much you really made my day. Hope you are well
i’m so sorry girl… please don’t listen to the other kids, your body is normal and amazing and doing what it’s meant to. take care of yourself, much love! 💕
they shouldn’t be complaining about periods when without periods, none of them would exist. there’s no shame in being a woman! im proud of you for looking past the hate and seeking out hygiene
@@colleenriordan9734 yesss!!!!!
She caught my attention right
away at “don’t bash other woman especially for the approval of other men.” I Subscribed right away!
right!! i did the same😩
Glad to have you here❤️
i did the exact same!
literally same, she's so sweet i just had to
Me too subscribed right away ❤️
Why are people offended by this? I found it helpful
Thank you so much, I appreciate you 🥺💓
@@virtualkayla please ignore the hate. I loved the video ❤️
Probably the incels who think that natural stuff about the human body is weird
😂
It helped me so much
this is the safest ive ever felt while watching a video
Wow omg that makes me SO happy!! Thank you 🥺🥰
Same I like that a lot of the people in the comments are girls and not like guys being grossed out about girls talking about feminine hygiene and shaming them for it
I mean if I scroll down far enough I'll probably find a guy like that but um.... no 💗
Riggght I’m like ok girl 💕🦋 so good
So true.
Im 16 and this literally changed my life!! I struggle with my feminine hygiene for a long time, I was never taught about this and never knew how to take care of myself, seeing your video and Chloe yazeam video just made me happy seeing someone being open about feminine hygiene and wanting to tell others how to take care of them properly. I love youuu! and Chole Yazeam
I loveeeee Chloe yazmean
Yes I love Chloe
Seriously, this lady and Chloe, oh yes! Great to learn from!!
Imagine disliking a video that helps young girls🙄
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FR
Men moment
Preach
It does help me :)
I grew up with a single dad and had to figure stuff out for myself from when I had my period. my mom treats periods like it's the most disgusting thing on the planet. it was so refreshing to see such a positive attitude towards women's bodies.
I feel you my family is incredibly conservative and they aren't open to talking about basic problems of being a girl
why did she think of it that way? it’s completely natural
I know what you mean my mum died and I am now left alone and am a 10 yr old
@@J3na.xxxwl4hc I’m so sorry, you’re a very strong and beautiful girl, you’ve got this! ❤️❤️❤️
Update:I have a stop mum now
She looks like she smells HEAVENLY. Girlll you are GLOWIN'
frrr
I thought same thing!
You’re so sweet! Thank you boo❤️😘
Facts 💯
lol fr
i’ve been feeling this sudden urge to take better care of myself. 5 minutes in the video and i’m already shocked that i’ve never really thought about trying to get to know my own body. i instead criticize it. i’m so moved by your acceptance and love. thank you so much for the guidance. you have no idea how thoughtful this is
yess! I agree
Not only was she givin us tips; sis was preaching😭‼️
I appreciate you boo!! 🥺💗🥰
I love this video 💗💗 smmmm this is the best video ever of hygiene tips thank uu mll
heres the list/main things she stated for anyone who is too lazy to go back and rewatch.
• sit down and look in the mirror to see if you need to clean any build up, clean it with a qtip before going into the shower, be gentle.
• go in the shower and do everything in your routine first, save cleaning down there for last.
• use a baby wash cloth and baby dove tip to toe wash for down there, open up your legs let the water run through, pump some soap on the baby washcloth clean the outside then clean the inner portion DO NOT CLEAN INSIDE THE ACTUAL HOLE. reapeat this 2-3 times.
• use dove deep moisture to clean back there. do it like 3 times with a rag.
• rinse down there with water
•when you’re done showering pat yourself dry then pat down there.
•moisturize your body if you want to moisturize down there use coconut oil, but you should talk to your gyno abt it. if you do use coconut oil make sure to pat it a bit with a little towel.
• try to wear cotton underwear most of the time
• if you are ovulating use panty liners
•drink a lot of water. drink pineapple juice with or without apple cider vinegar and cranberry juice
• take probiotics
•eat a good amount of fruit
•eat a lot of yogurt it has a lot of probiotics.
•clean down there with water after you use the bathroom.
•make sure you are wiping front to back NEVER BACK TO FRONT
•use baby wipes or feminine wipes to clean yourself after taking a dump
•if you shave down there just know you dont have to shave it all the way .
•avoid products that are not meant specifically for down there
•make sure you can change your tampon/pads often because not changing can cause scent. also tampons can give you toxic shoch syndrome
• if you are sexually active pee after seggs and get tested regularly
•see your gyno
•look at your discharge, make sure its not a weird texture or color, if it looks out of the ordinary see your gyno
• get to know your body, get to know what’s good for you and what’s not good for you
Omg you are literally the best!! Thank you for doing this for everyone!! 💜🙌🏼
@@virtualkayla ahhh no problem i j thought people with short attention spans like me would want a list
@@virtualkayla
I wouldn’t recommend coconut oil because it can clog your pores. Personally I don’t think coconut oil is the best for you but if it works for you it works for you ❤️
But I don’t wanna look at it
@@Belo9606 not being mean but... You just close your pores with cold water first. I think..
Peeing after sex is something that not all sexually active women knows. Thanks for including that.
Yesss omg it’s extremely critical!! 😭
Is ok to pee after intercourse to avoid infection etc
Definitely a must!
also peeing after masturbation!!!! i feel like that ones a little less known :)
@@ericanicholson9761 wait why
I've always been so embarrassed to actually ask my mom about these things because i like to keep my body problems for me, so this video is just so useful for me i can take better care of my body and still have my privacy,so glad this video exists
Me to
NO FR
If she has a daughter i feel so lucky for her like i need a mom like her 😩
Omg yes
Omg you are so kind 🥺🥺❤️
same .
RIGHT
I wish she was like my mom:(
the fact that shes so respectful and makes sure that everything she says isnt insensitive or rude in any way makes me so happy. 100% respect 😎
ILYSM💜
Lol extra bacteria
@@myrthasmascary4086 huh
@@myrthasmascary4086 just say that you don't know hygiene
Same pfp lol
Thank you for having a thumbnail about feminine hygiene without holding up a pair of panties while holding your nose. I think that is so misogynistic! Again, thank you!
Omg funny that you say that because I have always felt the same way,, it always kind of threw me off when I would see it 😕
Or with fish all over the thumbnail… like for real 🙄
I literally just saw a video with that thumbnail. I think the channel was Anaya something
@dani gz yes, omg i saw her video and i was so upset with the thumbnail
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Thank you!
I’m 14 and too embarrassed to ask the older women around me so im watching these kinds of videos you don’t know how much you’ve helped me
omg random but pfp twinnsss
@@fishyy0_3 yeyyyyyy
Do Someone knows what else can we wash down there other then dove baby soap like can we use hand soap like what other thing can we use other then what she had
@@LinaSkywalker-4life Unscented soaps; like ivory and dial, baby soap, sensitive washes and gentle washes. I personally use ivory bar soaps, they’re cheap and do the job. I don’t think using hand soap is good idea tho.
@@1ladykay oh ok thank youu
i’m 13 and this really helped me , i felt safe & i never knew where to actually clean down there.
That’s amazing ♥️ good job taking care of yourself
You are so safe here!! So happy you found my channel love 💜
Same it always made me feel scared and I was doing something wrong but this video makes me feel better
Same I always put a lot of body washes , and bar soaps that I’m not supposed to use down there
exactly ‼️
this video was so helpful
This is embarrassing to say but I'm 26 and I never learned any of this. I couldn't ask my sisters without being slut shamed and I was afraid to talk to my mom. I recently started having sex and I've been really insecure about my hygiene. Thank you for this video. It's very helpful to young girls and women.
You don’t ever have to feel embarrassed on my channel love!! I appreciate having you here so we can all learn and grow together 💕💕 Best of luck to you xoxo
we were all here to support you if you ever have a question I'm glad to answer 😊
@kuroo's thighs there’s nothing to be embarrassed around here girl ask
@kuroo's thighs yes it is normal! everyone is different
@kuroo's thighs yes girl everyone's area down there is different we come in all shapes and sizes and that's totally normal its nature of being a woman that we are all so diverse but all beautiful in are each of our ways:) mine looks Roast beef but I like it 😂👍
I’m a guy and this popped up on my suggested and just for curiosity watched it.
Although I was raised by my mom so I know a lot about this already (mom taught me good about pretty much everything during “those” years) I still cannot believe this stuff isn’t actually taught in like health class or something.
So many women have 0 clue how to do certain things and not of their own ignorance but out of just them not being told or informed by multiple sources like said in the video. Not everyone has a female figure in their life, some health classes are completely terrible, etc etc.
It’s honestly kinda dangerous to not teach kids/teens how to care of their own body. I had a friend who went into toxic shock for a min because she didn’t know how tampons worked and she left it in for a long time. it was pretty damn scary.
The fact that you guys gotta go through so damn much too is absolutely crazy.
@mika's cafe モカ
Honestly it’s kinda sad that more guys don’t understand that stuff :/
it’s always guys too who wanna say something weird.
I think it comes down the the fact that so many men deal with toxic ideas about masculinity and self care that anything dealing with “self care” is seen as bad or too feminine. Like my dude it ain’t bad to wanna be clean 💀
Like we should all know how our bodies function, how to stay healthy n clean, etc etc. I mean we all learned to brush our teeth, go to the restroom, shower, etc. this should be no different honestly.
❤️
we need more guys like you in the world
thank you for being so respectful and kind about this topic. i’ve met guys who are incredibly rude to people who aren’t aware of things like this. your mom has definitely raised you right and i’m sending her and you a big hug. 🤍
Men like you are 🤌🏽🥰
im 14 soon going on 15, and my mother never talked to me about hygiene as i grew up. therefore, i grew up smelling bad due to not taking myself properly / not using the right products until i watched hygiene tip videos. though as for feminine hygiene, my mom never talked to me about that either. the fact that you are so comfortable being open about feminine hygiene truly makes me comfortable aswell. i appreciate you so much for making this video and will definitely take all of your advice into consideration.
samee like i'm 14 years old and seriously don't know how to properly take care of myself, its lowkey really hard bc my mom wont let me buy these products at all.
My mom didn’t teach me but I taught myself some stuff I do already that she said but. Some is also new
@@HanNah-xz3ij you really only need a wash cloth bar soap, if u shave a razor+conditioner, and vaseline or normal lotion when u get out
Your hygiene routine as a child should have taught you the basics. A mother would have been bathing the child until they are old enough to to it independently. Your mum must have bathed you at some point
@@ladydivine8615 I’m sure her mother bathed them but even mines didn’t tell me things like what she’s saying but all mines told me was to just how to clean and to just use soap and water and clean regularly but didn’t get into this detail so I’m thinking that’s what’s the persons talked about
This comment section is like a safe place for women and I love that for us
Hehehe love you!!! 💓💓
I’m a grown ass woman and never took extra precautions to make myself as healthy and beautiful as possible... I simply had nobody talk to me about it so Thankyou 💓
We have all been there! So glad you found my video so we can all help each other out. Thank you for watching, sending you all the love 💕😊
Hi i want to ask you about something please
Same, my older sisters sucked lol. So I’m learning
Hi! I’m 13 and I’m terrified of talking about this stuff to my dad. My mom and dad had a divorce a long time ago, so I didn’t really have a mom to talk about periods and shaving, and just taking care of myself really. I feel like God was helping me and guided me to watch this beautiful and helpful video. I also feel safe and that I can talk to you about anything here. ❤️Thank you so much gorgeous, I hope you have a wonderful day. And to the 1% of people reading this, we love you sis. 💕💋💅🏼
Edit: what do you ladies recommend for body wash and deodorant?
Just tell him your blooming into a young women and are getting womenly things in your body then ask him to take him to the store and get money and buy men razors (they work the best) then get eos shaving cream, make a sugar wax if u wanna wax, dealing with periods get over night/12 hour pads and the period wipes and shower once or twice a day
💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
I read it an am so proud of you for doing it. You’re a goddess! Hugs 🤗
"God was helping me and guided me."
It's okay sweetie, I was the same age as you are when my parents divorced and that same year when we moved from Florida back to Arizona is when my first menstrual cycle came. So I know how nerve racking that can be. Oh and I would recommend that you speak to your mother not only about tampons, pads or menstrual products but also about *waxing* instead of shaving. No razor bumps! Waxing is *definitely better* for the long term! Peace, have a great day! 🌻
I'm 25 and this is the first time I'm hearing someone talking about the buildup down there. I thought it wasn't normal all this time. Thank you so much for this video 💕🤗
girl same 😭 im so glad it is normal. i have always been super thorough and it always came back. took antibiotics for yeast infections and utis cause i thought i had an infection. 💀
this is the first video i’ve seen where someone doesn’t speak so vaguely. she is so SPECIFIC, and i just know this is gonna be so helpful to so many women. i wish i saw this video back when i was like 12. figuring everything out on your own sucks.
I feel you!! I was so lost as a kid so I knew once I grew up I wanted to make a video like this for younger me!! ❤️ Thank you for watching loveeee😘
“So specific”
Her- “down there front; down there back; the holes walls, but not the actual hole”..?
I really had no idea what she was talking about/referring to sometimes 😅
@@EmmaJohnsonShenanigans fr lol she's not very specific. she should've explained what the actual biological names are for each part and then refer to those parts with those names.
@@JasmineNorman2007 like just saying vulva, urethra, or butthole coulda helped
@@JasmineNorman2007 pls--
No one asked you
I just love people who are educated and are not immature about this stuff
Awww yay that makes me so happy! Thank you so much for watching love 💓💓💓
U should really go to schools around the world and educate girls on this. Cuz I didn't even know these things and I should. So thank you.
yes we really need to be better educated in schools 😩🤍
Yes!
My thoughts exactly
Yess!
She's so respectful, non judgemental and understanding .. sending all the love ❤️❤️❤️
Using that wallet as a makeshift diagram is the smartest shit I've seen in a while. Why was that so accurate. Wow.
Haha well I’m so glad it was helpful!!! 🥰
ong that shocked me
@@virtualkayla Hello. Being a woman isn't any harder than being a man. Both sexes have their own struggles. Try to pick up a girl as a shy guy, or a not very attractive guy, etc. You wouldn't believe what boys/men need to go through.
@@Fermion911 and you still chose to make it about men… lmao this is for WOMEN
@@Fermion911 WHY the need to comment that under a FEMALE hygiene video?
I’m 19 and my mom passed away when I was 11 so I didn’t had a female figure growing up. This video helped me so much while making me feel at ease and comfortable about my own body. Thank you so much I needed this
I can relate love...my mom passed away when I was 5...so I feel you girl
By the way I am also 19
❤️❤️🥰❤❤
Sorry for your loss ❤
Mine srill alive but the same thing as you
Girl I can’t tell you how many hygiene videos I watch 💀, but this was by far one of my favorites🥰. I loved the little talk in beginning because it’s honestly so helpful to a lot of girls including myself and it’s very needed. I personally struggle with depression so taking care of myself can be hard at times so I like that you made it clear that this isn’t something anyone should be bashed for. The reality is you never really know what someone has going on. LOVED the video💖!
Hi love! Your comment makes me so happy to hear. I know the struggles that depression can bring; it’s not only a mental battle, but it can be a physical battle as it causes people to not have the energy to take care of themselves or their spaces. I see you my love, and I am sooo proud of you! Take everyday one day at a time, you belong here. Thank you for watching!! 💜
hahah ım obsessed hygiene videos too ı dont know why
I don't know if this helps you, but whenever you have enough energy to take care of your body try to visualize the water washing of the negativity, bad thoughts and feelings. I know this isn't immediatly fixing anything, but maybe it helps you a little bit. I wish you all the best and know that there are always people in this world who love you and will be there for you. ❤
Period! This is the best by far!
I am 16 and have never had anyone teach me this, thank you so much I literally can't express how grateful I am for this
Same
Samesame
same
same😃
Does someone know what else can we clean with downstairs other then dove like can we use normal soap (hand soap)
Girl I learned so much, I’m 19 and it’s kinda embarrassing 😭
Dw, it’s not embarrassing at alll
I’m 18! We can learn together
Better late than never
i can’t like your comment it’s at 333
@@treehugger9466 it’s 343 now 😔
im 14 and my mother never tought me stuff so thank you for teaching all of us women how to clean ourselves
Soooo glad it could be helpful love 🥰😍
Likewise, mom never told me when I was 14 too and I thought we were pretty close lol.
When she said “Coffee doesn’t work well with body chemistry…” I was actually sipping on my coffee and i was like “Oooops” but then she said “ DO NOT WORRY i cannot give it up too”. Thank you so much for being human, girl, you give out such positive vibes. I was always shy and stuff about these things but im turning 20 this year and i think it’s time to grow up. We do not have Sex ED and this type of education in here “ ( I don’t know if you guys study things like this), people are pretty against it, but that made us so uninformed. So thank you very much for this type of content. I really wanna just be a girly girl and know what i should do to take care and love myself. I have a person i want to be with and i know if i don’t take care of myself and don’t love myself that there ain’t no way to do that for them, you know. Keep the good work!
Me too I'm turning 20 so I'm trying to see what hygiene stuff I need to buy
Matthew 11:28-29 - "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls." God will give you rest and take away your problems, He will make your bad situations into a beautiful testimony :)
“stick to the granny panties” yassss 💞
We gotta!! 😩💓
ALL I wear is granny panties lol they are just so comfortable!!!
My sisters make fun of me for wearing them lol
I don't like the lines though like when I'm wearing tight pants
Pain 😻
Never knew how much my vagina and my wallet have in common....
🤣🤣 (p.s. we have super similar last names!)
I like the open conversation! Girl gang 💖
🤣🤣🤣🤣right?! I loved how descriptive that was
Me: 👀👀👀
😂
i grew up with a dad and 3 brothers so this helps a lot
I’m so glad this was helpful for you love!! 😘💓
me too i have no sisters 😭
I'm in the exact same situation
Me too but my mum is a bit of a tomboy so I learn how to be girly online
LOL same I have 3 brothers
as a girl that got bullied for smelling bad this video made me cry and i feel so safe, this is why i love online people more then people in real life. i feel like people in real life are so fake. this video made me so comfortable and i use the tips and everyone shut up it’s so refreshing that people can stop talking about me
Her voice made my stay and she seems kind
Love you!!! 💕
ur helping so many young girls u don’t even know, wish i had this when i was like 12-14. thank you
omg hi sam
thank you so much love, your words mean everything to me!! 🥺❤️ i appreciate you!!
Me too
I wish my mom talked to me about this stuff in such a calm manner like you do. Growing up, she screamed at me to wash myself, she was probably shy, but having someone kindly guide me when I was young would have helped me accept myself better.
I completely get what you mean. This topic can be so taboo so many people struggle knowing how to communicate about it. I hope this video was able to help you out in some way. Sending you a bunch of love xoxo 💗💗
I love this comment section because it’s making me realize how little our moms actually taught us and that’s not our fault💕 we are here learning together that’s all that matters. This community of supportive girls who take care of their bodies is elite🥰
I know! I almost wanna cry!😭😭😭
Bit of advice, our Blood actually doesn’t have that strong of a smell it’s the chemicals in the pads that create that smell, switch to cloth pads and you’ll see the difference
There’s iron in my pads?
Girl yes!!! I switched to pads that had no added fragrances and 100% cotton. I forgot the brand but i noticed a HUGE difference when i switched!!
Not any difference. Still smells of normal blood
Yes! I switched to chemical-free pads and I was SHOCKED that I had no smell.
@@DopestArista are there any brands you recommend? i wanna give it a try too lmao
Here's some info I've learned
Be careful when plucking your eyebrows. There is a point where your eyebrow hair will not grow back anymore. It happened to my grandma, it's not fun.
If you do take a hot shower or a sauna, try to finish with coo/cold water. This will close your pores back up, but it prevents you from sweating and getting pimples from your sweat.
Rinse your face with cool/cold water, and then use lotion. This prevents wrinkles from forming and gives the skin a nice glow. The cool water also shrinks bumps. My grandmother has done this since she was a teen, and her skin is great.
Use baby oil to give your skin a nice glow and amazing smooth texture. It's honestly a life changer, and it helps guard against harsh winds. You can use it on your face, but be careful. I use it after rinsing off a face mask and putting tea tree oil on any bumps.
Tea tree oil can be used to make bumps smaller, and orange essential oil makes the skin brighter. It helps a ton with dark circles.
Carmex is my favorite brand of chapstick. It's just regular drugstore chapstick, but it works soo well, at an amazing cheap price. It can hurt if you have a split lip, and some people don't like the slight tingle feeling, but it works wonders.
Brush your hair out when you have conditioner in it. I have very straight, thin hair that like to mat every half an hour, no joke. When I do this I don't have to brush my hair after my shower, and it keeps it from getting too tangled.
That's all I remember right now, if I think of anything else I'll try to add it!
Thanks you; I can't wait to try the orange essential oil.
A few issues: There’s no such thing as ‘open’ or ‘closed’ pores. Skin isn’t a muscle and can’t contract as such, it’s a myth. Hot and cold water can’t affect your pores, extreme temperature differences will just damage your capillaries.
Carmex is also INCREDIBLY drying for your lips. It doesn’t work well at all, it dries your lips out so you need to reapply more for the momentary relief. They contain salicylic acid (used in acne treatments to dry out pimples) and also menthol and camphor which are irritating ingredients that should be avoided in any lip balm.
I use tea tree for my face since I'm acne prone, it legit helps. Before I put it on my face with a cotton pad, I dilute it with water so it won't be too harsh.
Love this skincare routine! Less is truly more. I use Vaseline on my lips before going to sleep and that’s the only time I ever apply lip balm. My lips usually stay non-chapped all day bc I drink a lot of water
@@GwenythD yes that’s a good point, if you don’t dilute pure TTO it can burn ur skin
“She is God-made, so she is perfect.” - yes, yes, yes! 🙌🏼❤️ one more time for everybody in the back.
Amen! 😋💖🙌🏼 Thank you so much for watching!
AMEN
@@virtualkayla AMEN
Such a mommy energy. From us girls that didnt grow up with a supportive or nurturing Maternal figure in our lives, thank you girl ❤
True that we’re not taught how to clean ourselves but we aren’t taught anything ; not sex, not to ask for what we need,not how to defend ourselves, not how to BE ourselves. Puberty is when it gets HAARD hard and just gets harder from there. Subbed because women should support women and love how there’s no shame 💜you should talk about other struggles besides hygiene too.
Awww I would definitely love to incorporate more girl talks on my channel!! 💜💕 Thank you for watching babe!!
Wdym harder from there you’re making me worried 😟 😢???
We are also expected to know
thank you for being the big sister i’ve always needed but never had
I love that,, thank you for being here love 💖
Same here
@Jonny Quest Barbie Doll Nyjahi oh..ummmh..thank you , ill keep it in mind
Who else immediately subscribed? She seems like such a nice person
omg stop 🥺🥺 you’re SO sweet,, thank you so much love 💓💓
Me :)
Yess as soon as she started talking!!🤩
Meeeeee lol
I subscribed right away ❤️🥰
Drying really well down there is actually the secret to avoid any unpleasant odour.It’s something people don’t really talk about and it makes a UGE difference!Im glad you mentioned it.Personally I go hard,I dry for about 2 minutes front and back I put my leg right on the counter top and I make sure it is DRRRRYYYYEEEE.I’m telling you it makes a a crazy difference same with the armpits and feet.It doesn’t matter how much soap or exfoliant or body wash you use if you don’t dry properly you will be smelling bad down there an hour later…
The wallet analogy is smart‼️
Thank you!! 🥰
As a nurse the wallet made me giggle 😄 it was an adorable demonstration....
Heheheh 🥰 (AND SHOUT OUT TO YOU SIS!! HEALTH CARE HEROES!!! 🙌🏼💗)))
Right!!! It was great. This reminds me of the crazy community and school health classes I’ve taught as well as the perinatal nursing I did. I’m alllll about the visuals! Literally had a stuffed boob on my desk when I was a LS. This whole video was on point. I came expecting some misinformation or bad advice. But she came in so perfectly! Refreshing to see someone doing these type of videos. Her sweet personality shines through.
This video is amazing!! Shout out to all the girls who is ashamed of her body because you think you are not sexy, you are not curvy, you are not attractive.. Girl!! you are perfect no matter what skin color, shape you are.. Love yourself first and take care of your body and go out and be confident cause you are amazing as you are..got it?? Self love girls..self love..💜💜
AMEN!!! Girls empowering girls is key! 💞💞 Thank you so much for you lovely comment!
That's even in the bible... Love your neighbor as you love yourself..... Just FYI
U can also use a disposable white cloth to dry lady parts and separate cloth to dry butt u can try carefree breath pantiliners they are breathable
being 13 and wanti g to be more healthy, eat healthier, workout regularly, study and be a good student, skin care routine and of course female hygiene this helped me a lot thank u so much!
I really can’t take care of myself. I don’t know what i’m doing, and it’s making me very sad. The fishy smells that i’m constantly smelling and I feel like my parents really don’t care about me. But you have showed me how to take care of myself. I’m so glad there’s a woman like you out here. Currently going to the store to shop and take care of myself from now on! Thank you!
Fishy can be bacterial infection, which virgins get all the time. Eat healthy and drink water as much as u can. And take a feminine probiotic
@@deannailer4297 THANK YOU SO MUCH :) lol sorry for the caps but you don't know how relieved i felt after reading this
@@flaneur5943 awwww of course! I hope things start to get better now 🥰🥰🥰
@@deannailer4297 does doing what you suggested help long term and to get rid of the bacterial infection or just temporarily?
@@jenniferr3098 every girl and her vjay is different and I am no doctor but I am very sensitive down there and my ph is thrown off very easily, even when I eat too much sugar or starchy foods. Eating healthy, only drinking water and taking a daily feminine prebiotic my period has improved, my pH is consistently balanced and I don't get any yeast or bv infections anymore. I really hope this helps you 🙏❤💕
My mother recently passed away and I never learned how to be a woman and this really helped me thank you
Im so sorry may God bless ur and ur family and friends sweet souls
I’m so sorry to hear that love. You are so loved and I’m always here for you. So glad this video could be of some guidance for you ❤️
This is one of the first videos I’ve watched where “ build up “ is mentioned and I LOVE THAT. I also thought I was the only girl who was experiencing it 🖤
I'm so glad that I was able to touch base on that subject matter! Thank you so much for watching
I love how she's so open, and how she's helping girls and others who never got this stuff taught.
you'd be such a good mom
That makes me so happy,, thank you 🥺💕
Asuka
This video is a lifesaver! You’re not only helping grown women but you’re helping young girls who are turning into women. Not only that but after having 2 kids my body changed drastically and you put spice back into my shower routine! Thanks boo! I’m teaching my daughter these hygiene tips!!
In my arab household we wash our selves with water every time we go to the bathroom, we have something called a shatafa that is like a small water sprinkler attached to a hose, It”ll be a life changer to anyone who tries it
I’m from Kuwait btw
Thanks for the tip:0
Syrian here. My family also uses a water sprinkler lool
Iranian here, my grandmother taught us this growing up too!
Every time I use the bathroom I always have to use some paper towel and some baby wipes a lot which make a difference for everyone that doesn't know it does make a difference.
Ya it’s called a bidet we use one too :)
Being raised by a very awkward masculine single father, thank you so fricken much!!!!!!!!
So glad you found my channel!! Lots of love xoxo
She’s the only one who helpeddd ! The other TH-camrs aren’t detailed at all😭‼️💜
Omg thank you SO much! I tried to go as in depth as possible because I know the struggle 😩💓
You need to watch chole yazmine
@@virtualkayla sis I done everything you said on this video and it actually helped before I was worried and insecure on how I was washing my body because my mum never taught me these important tips but it’s so helpful keep it up and fuck da haters love from London ❤️😩
And one more thing
Don’t ever wear clothes that you’ve just bought without washing them!
Yup, you have great common sense. Everytime I buy new clothes, even if it's a new safety vest, I wash them first.
yes! i have very sensitive skin and bad eczema so this is a must for me! it’s also just a lot more hygienic, my parents think I’m doing too much when i say i have to wash my new clothes but i think it’s just safer for me
Great tip!!
@miracle aaliyah 1. The generic product they use to wash stuff in stores isn't good for the skin!
2. SO MANY PEOPLE TRY THAT ON
3. Your detergent that u wash your other clothes with doesn't match that article that isn't matching so the two fragrances will mix (usually not a god combo)
@miracle aaliyah because it might be dirty and the germs can get on your skin
I’m a guy I was just looking up hygiene routines but there are very little ones for men, but i found u-we love helping others and respecting both men and women☺️
Your comment makes me so happy! I hate that there are not many hygiene videos targeted towards men but I am so glad that you were able to find my video! These tips can definitely be applied to all genders; bodies are bodies 💜💜 Thank you so much for watching!! :)
@@virtualkayla Right!!! And yeah these do help a lot, I’ve improved so much from watching a lot of videos that are typically targeted towards women but work for men as well, as a 16 year I feel like I’m on top of my game!😂👍🏽
Try blogs! I saw like a bunch when I was browsing
I am 13 and staying clean and fresh has been A struggle with me for years and I always come back to watch this video and her channel. You and the comments motivate me so much and thank you so much!!
THIS is what young girls should be learning along with sex education at school. Young boys should have their equivalent on hygiene.
Agreed! ‼️
I m 15 years old and this video is actually helping me because I dont really feel comfortable talking to my dad or mom about this. Stuff so thanks
Im sixteen now
SAME OMG im also 15 , this helped me so much
Thank you so much for watching!! So glad it could be helpful in some way. Sending you all the love xoxo 😘🥰
@@erin-xf5hu omg it makes me very uncomfortable about talking about this lile I feel like they dont need to know every thing about down there
@@virtualkayla thank you so much. Much love from me
@@shrisemontgomery6094 ikrrrr😭✋🏽
I swear if someone comes on here and is like "ew how do you know what it smells like" yes we check our scents, it's normal, and we need to check our hygene.
Yessss!! 🙌🏼‼️
I'm 30 years old... my mom was always too embarrassed to talk to me about things like this. I had my grandma teach me alot about my body but she wasn't use to the modern methods. She was old school, so alot of what I was learning was not accurate. I watched this video just now and learned so much. I love this channel already. Thank you so much for this. I have 2 daughters now and alot of this information will be helpful when the time comes to teach them.
Nobody taught me any of this, I had to figure this kinda stuff out on my own. I’m so glad their are more creators making videos on these kind of topics to help other girls with their feminine hygiene!
So glad that you are here love! 💕💜
@@virtualkayla we love channels that hype up other girls 😊
I love how girls are supporting girls in this comment section, and there are no negative comments. I’m subscribing to this channel just because I find these tips helpful and I feel safe when all of the girls in the comments are giving each other tips, this is the best 💓💓
😍
“she is so dope she is God made she is perfect” i love you 😭🤣🤍
Sis I love you MORE! 😭💘
AMEN
i find hygiene and taking care of the body so therapeutic. these tips will stick with me for sure! 😌
I love the positivity that’s going on in the comments. It makes me feel so much better about being a female
Eeee I love that!!! 🥺💞
Sadly I will be the to admit. I know not the only one to admit this. I have never been taught to love my body. Felt like it was a crime to even love the way I look. Lately I watch this and I feel like my body is talking to me in your voice.... Thank you sweet lady
Yes you are 100% not alone! We have all felt that way! Unfortunately this world has taught us to be ashamed of our bodies. Glad we are all learning together in our journey to self love. Sending you so many hugs xoxo 💜💜
I'm tearing up thinking of 13 year old me getting to watch this. A confident, kind, caring, beautiful young woman being a role model and providing crucial information while emphasizing that it's ok to not know or understand everything yet. So few adults realize the power of saying "You're not alone" or "Let's demonstrate" or "If you can only do X, that's ok it will still be fine", and it just makes my heart soar to know that thousands of little girls have someone reliable and non judgemental to show them how to take care of themselves and start the positive reinforcement of self love early. I can only hope this is setting a trend for more creators like you! And if you are a tween or teen reading this, or even someone older, congratulations on wanting to take care of your body, it's the only one you've got and I'm proud of you for valuing it and learning what you can to keep it safe
I’m so glad she shouted out Chloe Yazmean because she’s one of the best for hygiene, honesty, posivity, spirituality and all around good person and very helpful also she funny and recommends the best perfumes!!
This is such an informative video.
I’ve always had an open relationship with my daughter but I totally understand that a lot of mother daughter relationships aren’t so open. Thank you for sharing all of these tips!
Your daughter is so lucky to have you! It is sooo important for mothers to create a relationship to where their daughters feel comfortable talking to them about these things! Thank you for watching!! ☺️💖
I used to not know what it's supposed smell "down there" and didn't know about discharge so I was super insecure about it but once I started to look into things more, I learned so much about the female body and it's so unfortunate it's not taught about in school
Exactly
@@maabelhamrouni3301 girls should be taught this in school because it's already hard for us to like our bodies so they should teach about it
I go to an all girls school and they teach it x
@@mia-annax4314 that's great, wish our school did
literally.
I've never had anyone teach me anything about my body, how to love it or how to take care of it. Everything I've learnt is from TH-cam. And I love how u credited Chloe she is amazing. I just came across your channel for the first time and I enjoyed your video.
Thank you so much for your kind words! I really appreciate it! I’m the same way, a lot of what I have learned is from TH-cam. And yes I love Chloe, she’s the best. Thanks for watching love 😘💞
I am 11 and I don’t feel comfortable talking to my mom about hygiene tips for down there, or any of that. I’m a little mature for my age, so I do know some tips and what not to do. So watching this video taught me things that I did not know, and I just feel good watching a channel that accepts every woman. I never did clean down there in my private parts before, so I wanted tips because it did actually smell foul, and I didn’t know if that was normal, or bad. So finally having someone to watch that thoroughly explains this is very helpful to me, because most of these that I watch are not explaining well enough for me. So I thank you so much, because I will be putting these tips into my everyday life, because currently I’m on a journey to freshen up my life, have better hygiene, lose extra fat, get a better mindset, just making my life and body better in general. And since I don’t feel comfortable talking to people about these topics, this video really helps me ❤ so again, I thank you so much!!
I’m going through the same thing! But I’m 14. I don’t feel comfortable talking to my mom or my older sister or anything. I never wanted to even talk about my period. But I wish you the best in your life!💞
FR
Girl me too
I love how you demonstrated how to look in the mirror with a wallet and stuff. Creative AND helpful 😂❤️
Awww YAY!! I’m so glad it was helpful to you 😍😭
I'm 42 yrs old and I just want to thank you on behalf of all of the girls and vagina owners, especially the younger crowd who might be embarrassed to talk to their gyno or who don't have a female figure to teach them these things.
You're probably saving thousands of young women from getting UTIs and yeast infections because of this video. That's incredible. And the way you explain it is very relatable and not embarrassing, the wallet visual is perfect, I cannot even say enough good things about this information and about your presentation. I would have loved to have had this information as a kid and even into my 20s.
Thank you for doing this. Body health and positivity all the way. You're a literal gift to feminine hygiene knowledge.
“Being a woman is hard” no truer statement do you know how expensive it is!
Exactly
Fereals
@@stephanied6711 aye my name is Stephanie, too lol
That's only from woman's point of view.
Try to pay for dates with girls, for cars, fuel, etc., then you will see :]
@@Fermion911 all you pay for is the dates bc women also have the expense of having a car and fuel etc
she makes me feel so safe and comfortable 😭😭 so glad I found this channel !
As a 14 year old teenager, this video is everything I needed!! Thanks❤️
Hey twin number lol
Thank you so much for watching love 🥰💕
I literally felt so embarrassed just recently learning all of this. I always just used the same highly fragranced body wash EVERYWHERE. I love the judgement-free tutorial!
don’t feel embarrassed!! i’m 18 and i’m just now searching for this kind of guidance. we’re all in this together 🥰🖤
i’m literally 15 and i feel as though i should have learned this earlier so thanks
Girl I’m 19 almost 20 and I’m learning so much! Wish I knew this stuff earlier
me too girl! i am so happy i came across this video it will definitely help me alot
Baby I’m 20 and I’m still learning everyday!! Life didn’t come with an instruction guide!! We’re all learning still ❤️❤️
Girl I love how kind and gentle you are speaking about being a woman, it made me appreciate so much more being a woman and treating myself with love and respect. Thank you for this!
The water tip is 🔥 I’ve been doing that for a while now. Do it especially if you have pubic hair because pee will stay on you then transfer to your underwear. A baby wipe is a good alternative too.
My mom never taught me how to take care of myself and keep myself clean. This video was so helpful❤️
Same 😭😭
Same
Omg I’m a 13 year old girl and I literally learned so much from this video! Me and my mother don’t really have a close relationship so I don’t have anyone to talk to about this stuff and this helped SO MUCH. Thank you so much 🥰.
I cant take this seriously with ur pfp 😭😭
ur pfp has me dead
Im also the same age! But I’m very scared about even touch down there
@@bye1546 Don’t be afraid! It’s a part of your body and it’s normal to be confused and overwhelmed with how to care for it. Over time, you will learn what fits your body’s needs and what is most comfortable for you. Watching videos like this is always helpful!
I truly respect the fact that this was so detailed and so educational. I feel like I got most of it down, but you def shared some gems for the veterans lmao. Also, this is very helpful for those without experienced female influences in their life; like girls who’ve only grew up w their dads, other members of family, or even grew up in foster care. Thank you for this!