For Guys Who Are Nervous Around Women - You'll Regret This
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She either likes you or she doesn't. It's that simple. You don't have to be nervous around someone who is attracted to you as you don't have to prove yourself.
Right
She can be attracted to you at first then once she knows you that can change and visa versa....
So true
@@troymcdaniels-tm1dr the point is is that the more nervous you are, the more likely you are to f*ck it up.
it's never simple with women...and as a man,you always have to prove yourself...you are easily replaced
In a world full of indoor podcasts, hearing the birds and squirrels in the background is nice.
Only be a shoulder to cry on if you're a face to sit on.
Based
A wise man
A man of culture 😆
Right to the point!
Love it. Stealing
We're all gonna make it brahs
😎
I’m not women’s underwear
Hahah@@StrongBodymindandspirit
LFA is one cool dude..very level headed guy who explains the stuff men are frustrated by
Give the energy that you want back. If you're nervous, they are going to be nervous. if you're comfortable, they're going to be comfortable. If you flirt they will flirt.
This guy has no energy or rizz
Got man titties
@@UnseemlyGenie00 tomorrow night i will. Hot blonde night. 😉
@@UnseemlyGenie00 Who?
The Squirrels Getting LFA Live Stream
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Not only did I get very good practical advice from LFA, I also got Kenny Rodgers.
Probably best red pill video ever posted. Women aren’t evil as social media portrays.
@@milkteaalliance1748 Guys cheat too and probably more. It’s a human issue. Marriage is still a bad deal for men though.
@@JonathanSanAnto Women cheat more.
@@milkteaalliance1748 alot of dudes cheat , dont mean im going to see every man as bad .
Women cheat much more than men. Most divorces were from women. Sure, there is a percentage that it was men, but a huge amount of it are women.
@@JonathanSanAnto you’re missing the point. Most guys are gullible when it comes to women and lose more than they gain…
Bro, this is not normal for 90% of guys. You could post a selfie from a Dungeons and Dragons convention and the girls would be showing up. Believe me, it's just you 😂
💯
I would say it is like that for about 30% of men, but it is easy to get into that 30% so I would not worry.
@@BigG6179 nah, much less than 30%. Probably like 5 or 10%.
@@DavidW-ng5zv 3%
@@DavidW-ng5zv Dude, if you are going after the average or slightly above average woman in the country life or suburbs, you do not need to be in the top 10% of guys. You just need to be in shape/dress well, have a path in life and let her know your intentions. I have hinge matches left and right now that I retooled my profile, and talk to women all the time in public.
1000%! Thank you for telling men this. And nice back drop. 🐦⬛🐝🌺🌳
Want a girlfriend? Just look like LFA bro. Want a friends with benefits? Just look like LFA my guy. Want society to treat you well like you’re an actual human being that has intrinsic value? Just be LFA’s twin brother dude etc, etc.
I’ve looked like LFA my entire life and my actions have always determined my results.
@@LFA How tf you know it was always your actions that determined your results? To claim your looks never had anything to do with it is just... delusional.
@@professorak3297damn.. u sound mad..
@@professorak3297 LFA's looks are somewhat genetic, but I see many years in the gym playing a big role, which falls under actions bringing results. Even a simple smile can make an ugly man look more handsome, and that is a very basic action that costs nothing.
@@russellfield5010 let’s be honest here. If LFA hadn’t spent even one single day in the gym he’d still have cleaned up with the ladies. It’s the difference of him being a pretty boy Chad vs a more rugged masculine looking Chad and women go for either type.
I have no problem at all approaching women and talking to them but most of the time the man has to make the first move that's just the way it is.
Facts... the more hoops a woman has you jump through, the less interested in you she actually is. Also... in the end she will punish you for jumping through the hoops that she's asking you to jump through. 🤣 Lots of women want employees, not partners.
Life's Lesson, it's LFA Time. 🇬🇧🤙🇬🇧🤙
The legend is not easily for sale. Anyway cheers bro! 🍺
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HOPE EVERYONE DOING GREAT UP THERE 💪
from another mother
That big brother we all need! So much wisdom in a 10 Minutes Video! Guys, lets take something out of these Words and put it into practice!
I don’t really struggle with talking to women it’s initiating interest that I completely fumble with. And I think that’s mainly because I never see myself as their type or attractive enough for them.
As a woman, I can say she might not know you're her type either until you've talked a bit, and she goes home and hopes she sees you again! And maybe she's not your type either, beyond her looks. Interest will happen on its own with the right ones. Trying to create interest sometimes interferes with your real personality shining through, and that's where your hook is.
@@dotgood8431 So true. I can say without a doubt as a man that looks is the very first thing we notice in women. It gets our attention but it’s not enough to keep it. I’m not sure how it is for women though.
@BlueBEAZY45 I'm older and know there are beautiful people everywhere and throughout time. In my eyes, there's no one better looking than the one I want to spend more time with. Anyway, rumor is that Brad Pitt smells bad and isn't very nice. You seem nice, you'll find her. Just realize she might be slow, but like he said, she'll try to be around you.
@@dotgood8431 Thank you. Those are kind words. Now I just need to stop being attracted to women who are already taken lol
Here's the problem with approaching todays women, they have plenty of men to choose from. Whether it be from dating apps, social media, or just from being out in public at a bar or a nice restaurant. She will compare you to the numerous amount of other guys that have approached her or she is currently talking to. So it puts an enormous amount of pressure on a guy to live up to her expectations that you have to stick out more than the others that have already approached her before you did. That's the issue most guys are having, including myself.
Wouldn’t that make it easier?
Exactly...theres always someone that u cant see that is in competition with u
it's not too hard to be better than average.you have to create a full identity chick's love it
Great setting, great content. LFA, you are the best!
In another video he mentioned that boys/young men inherit their self esteem from their fathers. So fatherless men start out with no self esteem, get bad reactions from women, and it creates a spiral effect that you have to find a way out of. It's only been about the past 5 years or so i've been getting good public reactions, got some good reactions from female acquantances, but just out in public, most of my life, bad reactions. Made me feel bad, made them react worse, and just got worse and worse.
Sounds familiar, 46 years of no interest. Thanks dad. 😂
I like how you’re starting to have a variety of background
Thank you for the video LFA. I really enjoy the advice! ❤👍🏿🙏🏿
Know when to hold and when to fold brother. That’s 💯
If she likes you, you'll know it. Just go with it
Can you do a short video on the names of your other TH-cam channels? I have stumbled across them once and can’t seem to find them. I would love to watch the older content you have put out. Especially the fitness channel that you have.
Love this channel. Woman basics 101 they will not be held accountable for anything
I only get nervous when they look up my criminal record
@@Lord_Meeks Don't stress, women love criminals.
I recommend L-Theanine against nervousness
My boy saw a cute girl at Safeway while he was waiting in line. They’ve been together almost 5 years. Close mouths don’t get fed. I’m working on that too.
Just what I needed to hear honestly
Gold advice my brother. Thank you!
Love and respect from Manchester England LFA .
LFA Chad just casually loving life. I know you guys are doing just as well with the ladies. They cant get enough of you and just show up where you are because LFA isnt there. Just keep being your non chalant self. Your body count will soon rival John Anthony Lifestyles and your rolodex(boomer word) will be like LFAs.
lol
For me if I like a chick or dude I’ll let them know, just be confident you can always tell if someone is into you or not, for me body language is everything you can talk to someone without saying a word, if the chemistry is there you won’t have to question it, if you getting mixed signals just test the waters if it’s mutual cool if not on to the next one. My advice is always look good smell good and have good hygiene.
Not everybody has your looks bro. This will only work for a select few men.
The mindset you have will kill you brother
I go about my day assuming zero women are checking me out, maybe that's one of my many 'issues'.
could be the case bro stay strong hit the gym
They're most likely not checking you out. If a woman likes you she will go out of her way to make sure you know it.
@@namelessfiend6493 follow LFA or Rich to learn the game 🪲
@@namelessfiend6493this is not always true bro, I speak from experience. Lotta the time you can’t tell.
4:29 This is Professor Chad LFA elegance in explaining 'You mean you are being stalked at the gym after a woman in a chat saw your selfie at the gym, finds the gum & just rolls in for like the first time ever..' Yuuuuupppppp... as you know this is the new normal: GOLD insight...
It's not an LFA video without ambient noise and engine revs.
W outro music!!! W video!!!!
There’s a very valid reason why men get nervous when approaching and talking to vvomen (I speak from personal experience).
As a man when you’re interacting with a vvoman you have a romantic interest in, you’re observing her body language. If that body language from said vvoman, is hostile, combative, dismissive eg.dirty looks, the silent treatment etc, you’re going to get nervous because you know the interaction is going bad.
Don’t be a free agent in life, let the B.lackpill guide you.
Great video
Do your 3 a day fellas, talk to at least 3 women per day. Then it becomes easier overtime.. you become it...
I'm pretty much just a slightly above average dude and kind of introverted, but after years of dating, I'm not intimidated by women at all anymore. Don't care how pretty they are, they are generally far more nervous than you are.
My favorite video so far. ❤
when i'm around a pretty girl i'm literally hoding back my tears and wanna cry. how tf do i overcome this
I'm not. The girls that I try talking to are nervous. Idk why.
Maybe, your flys down. 😅
No woman who catches the eye.....is EVER available.
Know when to walk away and know when to run.
A odd thought that always helped me around beautiful women is as follows. We are all born with nipples. But certain chromosomes in the embryo develop at a particular stage that define the sex of the baby. That is why men have nipples. Is because we are so close to being females and you were actually almost born a female. With this in mind, it helps me remember, men are not that much different than women. We are actually quite the same minus one chromosome. They are not gods no matter how much god like they appear.
It's August the grass has gotta be cut unless you'd rather be interrupted by varments
2:00+ "you've got your testosterone & your balls" (rolls eyes) rolfmao
This guy just needs some sunglasses and he looks just like Lfa 😮 😅 the way I got over it was pulling my best conversation mode to work eventually because I talked to enough girls the looks did not matter and I was more relaxed
3:18 The not even mid summer horny young squirrel squeaking back ground while you speak is a genius move ;) ROFLMAO hahahahah kidding hahahahahah but for real that is a happy squirrel
Chew even brother. My jaw is off from compensating for years
9:10 Yes if we return your attention we will give you was much as you want as long as were are smiling women are very generous to men who like them & who give them attention & their time
6:38 Yes most of the time every single day you assume you'll see them again but we never do or you get to know them & are not their type until finally people who see you everyday who like you gossip about you or pursue you usually both one effecting the other
0:50 You are a very balanced self balancing dude Professor Chad I think you will always enjoy your edge as it solves most probs ;D
1:00 + YAH the humidity is our gateway to the real super non stop climate nightmares this winter all fog rain pollution weird slush snows as heavy as lead
Are you using a diff camera than usual?
Im the opposite, im so un afraid to talk to women that i say too much and it scares them away 😂 (ive got some loose screws)
Pure value. Thanks followed you on Instagram
We both have 2 left.I get my last 2 removed soon.
YOU HAVE TO BE AN ALPHA... WOMEN BREAK RULES FOR ALPHAS THAT THEY WONT FOR BETAS....
What I realized is that making a move is really just fundementals.. you have to battle the fact that she leaves you on seen, she does not pick up the phone or even call you back all this in the early stages even if she showed interest before. There could be 1000 things for it, most guys would assume oh she doesnt like me or shes got another guy, but she could be super insecure, on her period or testing you to see if you are going to make the effort. I know it kinda sucks because I myself was often defending the belief that you need to be a respectful person and then expect respect back, at least in measure of a mature normal person. Unfortunately female nature especially when intimate relationships or dating is involved do not operate in that way. They may not keep their word, they may just disappear, they may cancel on you at the last moment. Something us guys would just take for granted from a mature person. But taking everything as a sign of disinterest would basically make you single forever, unless you are in the top 1% of men for which every woman longs for (hypergamy pyramid).
So yeah persistance, patience and perseverance pays off. If she doesn't return your call in 3 days shoot her a text is everything aright are you okay. If she doesn't respond I'd call one more time in a week or two and then she is a write off.
Naw man....these loser women out here have exactly ONE time to play a game like that and then they're gone for good. Stop encouraging others to accept bad behavior.
Like your comment but I personally wouldn't follow up as much. Even if you 'succeed', under what terms? "I called you till you relented and now your stuck with me". I'd rather start over with a different girl that doesn't need so much enticement.
@@bearclaw5115 Assuming she would eventually not act this way anymore once you break the barrier and pop the cherry. But I realized compared to my friends that I was always too proud, but women don't care they have tons of options so they might be respectful and keep their word in one time period but do the opposite next month and it must not bother you as masculine energy is unperturbed and if you show you are butthurt she will be turned off. You basically are replacing the role of her father. Would her father be butthurt if she qcted that way towards him? Probably not. I guess it's just that you should not get hung up on one girl but until she shows full respect and love to you just date others aswell.
I am saying that because in my 8 year dating span it has always come to a point where she wouldn't return a call or a message and it just needed a little tactical push forward and then we would continue. If I didn't do it she wouldn't too. They just have too many options to be forced to make an effort to you, but they do it once they get invested in you.
Well hello there 😏
If you gentlemen are scared just remember this..
Women are on average 5'7 and weight 140 pounds. She wakes up with onion breath, takes a shit and checks social media. In all probability, she's also scared of spiders. So why are you scared of her?
Average women are 5'3
She could ruin my reputation or even have me murdered by other men.
Because she knows she has an endless amount of options when it comes to men to choose from, we dont! There's always going to be men in line who want to get with her. So then she will compare you with those other men, and you have to be on top of your game to be at the top of her list. Sh*t sucks but our list is way shorter than theirs.
@@ryanchristensen1799 hypergamy is a feeling. It's perceived value. Women hate getting rejected. All you have to do is carry yourself like you're better than her and walk away if necessary. Then you will be on her mind. You become the forbidden fruit. Women want what they can't have. Women focus on what's not there
Yeah well what about incontrollable blushing when i’m being nervous? That just doesn’t show anyone i’m confident and as far as i know all i should be is confident. This might sound ridicilous but i’m not scared to talk to women but i’m scared i’ll blush and look like a little bitch in front of everyone and the girl. I would really appreciate some advice on this🙏
All women play a game cat and mouse, Tom and Jerry. Be you and comfortable with you that’s game now and since the beginning.
Should've just pulled the other two wisdoms, too. You don't need em and can't see em
I've been working almost exclusivly whit women all my life. I just can't cont the number of times that I've heard "look at his facebook " while speeking between themselve's about a guy at the office 😂😅 but he's rigth its a normal thing to speek to them.
The issue is that manosphere guys argue from the perspective of chasing down females who don't like them. Those females make them go through hoops or reject them aggressively. It's a complete circus.
I have shown direct interest in guys first, but I can understand why women don't. Most guys associate difficulty with value. Even if there is no value there, the fact that it's difficult is enough for them to value it. Otherwise, they'll think you're "easy" &/or play you just for trying. Granted females can be this way as well, but I didn't expect that from males since they complain about how "hard" dating is, lack of options, & *allegedly* don't like passive women. Truth is, some people love blocking their own blessings.
Anyhow, learned from my mistake. I started pursuing only men who are attracted to direct women. Not males who claim they're into that based on what the general population of men are into. I don't trust that. It's less headaches. Less misunderstandings. Less broken eggshells. Absolute bliss. A gem.
Do you think men would still pursue dating and relationships if it wasn't for their sex drive?
Nowadays, definitely no
Wherever i go attractive women disappear. If i go to a gym, the attractive women will start to leave.
I'm almost 6 ft 1, good facial bone structure, built muscle, shaved head, light blue eyes.
I haven't had a date and make out in over 4 yrs, last time i got laid was 5 yrs ago. Im 34 yrs old and i no longer have the energy or time to chase after women who play hard to get to the end of the world.
I was joking don't take. It personal
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Kinda friendly game 😂
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Remember to take them off before you invite a girl over!
It is not hard guys when the light goes on. You just need to figure it out like every other guy. We cannot give you a cookie cutter stratgey guide. Go out there and make a lot of mistakes. You will learn what questions to ask, how fast to move with the dating stages, and learn how to flirt. I can absoltuely say this, if you are monotone with texting and show you have 0 interest in her personality and body...boom it's over.
The crazy women/men who say/do crazy sh*t make the news or social meme's, they don't represent the majority of people. Most people are reasonable, if you approach them in a kind & calm manner and not like a predator you will eventually find someone you'll click with, don't give up.
I don’t know what that squeaking noise is in the background but boy that sure is annoying.
Man ur handsome
They are pack animals, and there’s usually men in those groups of girls, so you have to approach the whole group or instantly decide which might be available
Bro, what is a “looks maxxers”?
A person who does everything possible to be more attractive
Sometimes taking it too the extreme
This guy looks like Duke Nukem
Man, some of the comments here.. some of you guys need to get out of your own heads.
True but nothing they are saying is wrong lol thats whats hard about the black pill. It takes real effort and winning a war to break free
U should of ask for Is housium best filling ever other then God love u all have no idea when u get it it like getting off but all over ur body not even a girl in the world is that good
I mean they ain't nothing special so why should a man be nervous around them 😂
I think you'll find something special, keep looking.
LFA takes man dumps. Completely plugs the toilet.
So funny that regular Joe's look to this Ripped Chad for advice
Get fit, git gud
"hey guys...the girls just come to my gym...so just be relaxed and it'll happen for you, too"
literally just this last month, the girl I've actually been dating that I'm nervous around, and she is as well, we can't lock it in...there's been some kissing, but nothing further, and it always feels so awkward...meanwhile, the 3 other girls from the last 2 months who've only been one night stands (one technically 3-time I guess) I literally picked up at the club and beach with just full confidence in my approach because I didn't give a fuck
What happened to your teeth bro why did they have to get pulled?