Why Won’t You Commit to Me? | KARAMO

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  • Vanessa says Trevor is a dependable and attentive partner that won’t give her the title of girlfriend. Trevor considers Vanessa his “bae-friend” and doesn’t want to commit to a woman who already has children. Is Trevor leading Vanessa on or is he just afraid of what commitment might look like?
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ความคิดเห็น • 838

  • @e.l.c.4298
    @e.l.c.4298 ปีที่แล้ว +668

    Don't let a man tell you he doesn't want you more than once. She's given this man so much power over her

    • @Sheya404
      @Sheya404 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Facts

    • @platedbycee8966
      @platedbycee8966 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      THIS!!!

    • @isabellesantos7186
      @isabellesantos7186 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      THAT PART THIS WAS EMBARASSING

    • @SataaCelest
      @SataaCelest ปีที่แล้ว +1

      THISSSSSSSSSSS

    • @luwamalem9537
      @luwamalem9537 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Literally! It's embarrassing at this point. She is going to learn the hard way I guess 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @nallywalter1
    @nallywalter1 ปีที่แล้ว +540

    Girl he won’t commit to you cuz you got 3 kids and he want his own family his own kids. You the friend with benefits . She is not listening .

    • @brittanyhunter3331
      @brittanyhunter3331 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      He was very honest and very clear…

    • @taureanbelle9769
      @taureanbelle9769 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Very honest and clear. I think he was put on the spot and I do not think he chose from the heart. This happens often and some women get mad when they don’t listen to hear. I wish them well though.

    • @oldheads773
      @oldheads773 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Facts

    • @janaelachelle7481
      @janaelachelle7481 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      She wasn't listening at all!!

    • @Leelang931
      @Leelang931 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Not listening at all!! Karamo was gas lighting the issue. Disappointed he didn’t counsel them appropriately

  • @AllaboutMarjorita
    @AllaboutMarjorita ปีที่แล้ว +613

    The moment he would’ve told me he doesn’t want a women with kids. I would’ve friend zoned him immediately. We can be friends but nothing sexual.

    • @taggmein8
      @taggmein8 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Immediately 💯

    • @nynikki7188
      @nynikki7188 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💯🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @Toriab
      @Toriab ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly.

    • @crystalwilliams3694
      @crystalwilliams3694 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Right that would’ve been enough for me to say ok then friends we are

    • @kush7138
      @kush7138 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You friendzoning him won't hurt his feelings considering he's just gonna go after another chick lmao.

  • @checurtis6758
    @checurtis6758 ปีที่แล้ว +822

    As painful as this may be for her, it’s clear he doesn’t want a serious relationship with her.

    • @Cwest1990
      @Cwest1990 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      It’s so obvious and it’s sad.

    • @CALLABERT
      @CALLABERT ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Cwest1990it is not sad she is dodging a bullet more then she knows.

    • @nicolewarren2284
      @nicolewarren2284 ปีที่แล้ว

      Girl let that nigga go he doesn’t want to pay for extra kids

    • @brenda1934
      @brenda1934 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I don't believe he is serious about being in a committed relationship with her. I believe he is still sleeping with the ex.

    • @bigk2198
      @bigk2198 ปีที่แล้ว

      She is average to below average looking, overweight, baby mama, with tattoos. He thinks he can do better. He is only with her for easy sex.

  • @oloveaklove6576
    @oloveaklove6576 ปีที่แล้ว +243

    I don’t understand how do you want to unlock his phone if y’all not in a relationship I’m confused.

    • @MrsDymples76
      @MrsDymples76 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I was highly perplexed

    • @barachel6469
      @barachel6469 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yeah that’s weird af

    • @Phoenixishot
      @Phoenixishot ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That part

    • @LONDONESQUE.
      @LONDONESQUE. ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Exactly! Wasn’t surprised he denied them acces

    • @janaelachelle7481
      @janaelachelle7481 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I was thinking the same thing

  • @justIvy98
    @justIvy98 ปีที่แล้ว +199

    GIRL move on! He can't even verbally express himself! Being indecisive is a huge red flag!

    • @taggmein8
      @taggmein8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Facts 💯

    • @DBrown-vg1fi
      @DBrown-vg1fi ปีที่แล้ว +12

      He was not indecisive tho she was he never changed his mind she did…that’s literally the definition of indecisive

    • @photogenic305
      @photogenic305 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts!! 😢

    • @1cosmicdebris
      @1cosmicdebris ปีที่แล้ว +18

      He seems to be very clear to me. He doesn't want a woman with kids...

    • @neisci
      @neisci ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I don't think he's indecisive, he said what he wanted and has been moving accordingly. She's the one who keeps hoping he'll change his mind. Sometimes we have only ourselves to blame; should he leave her? Of course but he won't because she fulfills certain parts of his life so he keeps her around. As an adult, we need to take charge of our lives that's why she should kick him to the curb. Is he being selfish? Of course, but she could be self too and put herself and her children first before this man.

  • @dayYdream2k
    @dayYdream2k ปีที่แล้ว +98

    This makes me so sad that a woman so beautiful is hanging on to someone who doesn't want her.

  • @Sdlewis89
    @Sdlewis89 ปีที่แล้ว +587

    He didn’t send mixed messages , he literally told her what it was ! She agreed to it , she caught feelings and want to change the narrative . That’s manipulative. Him making her his gf was so forced 😭
    He doesn’t want her… he only asked that because although he doesn’t want a relationship, he’s attached to her…

    • @dbafutu
      @dbafutu ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Okay, I thought that I was the only one who heard that too. He seems to be very clear about what he’s looking for and unfortunately, it’s not her. She needs to move on to greener pastures.

    • @capturedmemories4917
      @capturedmemories4917 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank You!

    • @reginaflemming4390
      @reginaflemming4390 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Miss Lady run!🏃‍♀️I know this is too late to say, but I wish that you never slept with him especially if you 2 decided from the gate that there was not going to be a relationship bcz it only make it so hard to break away.

    • @EtheVirgo
      @EtheVirgo ปีที่แล้ว +16

      And that’s exactly why people have to learn to let people go after a certain amount of time of no commitment, because you can’t wait around for people to change

    • @beryl804
      @beryl804 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      She thought he would change his mind, people don't change

  • @layitonthickstyles
    @layitonthickstyles ปีที่แล้ว +95

    THIS IS WHY YOU DON'T ALLOW MEN TO MEET YOUR KIDS IF YOU DONT WANT A RELATIONSHIP. SMH

    • @FreshBandz811
      @FreshBandz811 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A relationship 😂 😂 uh. Woman. The best con artist on the planet. Yall give 🍑 to anyone who smile at u.

  • @Datpmf112
    @Datpmf112 ปีที่แล้ว +760

    Girl he don’t want you … move on

    • @melissawebster2445
      @melissawebster2445 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Thank you

    • @jamesgibson3716
      @jamesgibson3716 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      She's sprung. Why is the question..

    • @m.c9190
      @m.c9190 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      BINGO!

    • @SweetesSugar
      @SweetesSugar ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Period !!

    • @Mortis33-o4b
      @Mortis33-o4b ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Don’t think he doesn’t want her but she has a few kids…just my opinion but he seems kinda cool.

  • @ItsUrGirlAR
    @ItsUrGirlAR ปีที่แล้ว +271

    He wants his freedom to continue to explore his options and if someone else comes 99% closer to what he wants that's where he's gonna go. Period!!

    • @carolinamota1536
      @carolinamota1536 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly!

    • @Kendallslovejoy
      @Kendallslovejoy ปีที่แล้ว +8

      But she knew that and she chose to catch feelings. I don’t think he did nothing wrong.

    • @leafrazer8440
      @leafrazer8440 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Your comment is right on! He's waiting for that women who's single with no kids! That is what he really wants deep down inside his heart.

    • @JasmineCrump
      @JasmineCrump ปีที่แล้ว

      🎯🎯🎯

    • @paolaree8004
      @paolaree8004 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nothing wrong with that

  • @amandajones9415
    @amandajones9415 ปีที่แล้ว +205

    She is wasting her time. She can’t say he’s wasting her time. He clearly said he doesn’t want someone with kids. Two years and still no commitment. He’s not playing games he’s single, and she’s allowing him to move how it pleases. A man knows what he wants within three months. As a woman we need to learn to walk away in the beginning

  • @JustDonnta
    @JustDonnta ปีที่แล้ว +123

    He said he don’t wanna date anyone kids. The conversation should’ve ended there. This was weird.

    • @LifeofDestinyB
      @LifeofDestinyB ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They be thinking they can change them Man mine after the starting “dating” anyway and sleep with them😂 it never works but somehow women don’t seem to get that

    • @nampijjanazifah6358
      @nampijjanazifah6358 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Why he did continue to go there.

    • @Kiara6896
      @Kiara6896 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@nampijjanazifah6358because she was good enough to have sex with but not a relationship. Crazy to me. He set a boundary but continued to engage but she should’ve went ahead and cut him off.

    • @shenisenicole103
      @shenisenicole103 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes

    • @paolaree8004
      @paolaree8004 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nampijjanazifah6358because men will sleep with anything willing

  • @SweetestNya
    @SweetestNya ปีที่แล้ว +276

    Move on baby, you can’t make no man want you. ❤ She looks so sad like she be crying for him when she’s alone. That is not happiness and his perspective on women with children will not change. And that’s ok. He seems like a nice guy so I understand both sides.

    • @ItsUrGirlAR
      @ItsUrGirlAR ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Facts, at this point she's holding on to a dream 💯 Never let a man tell you or show you twice that he doesn't want you.

    • @barbaracarley3601
      @barbaracarley3601 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      YES!!!!!

    • @d.cooley1819
      @d.cooley1819 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Exactly. He’s a good guy and doesn’t want to hurt any feelings. It seemed very forced.

    • @d.cooley1819
      @d.cooley1819 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      And him not opening his phone shows that he’s dating other people. Girl please move on. That man was put on the spot to be your boyfriend.

    • @leafrazer8440
      @leafrazer8440 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I totally agree. He's struggling to tell her how he really feels, his body language says a lot.

  • @Mortis33-o4b
    @Mortis33-o4b ปีที่แล้ว +262

    He is being totally honest about wanting his own family, most men are that way.

    • @datkiddjophat4290
      @datkiddjophat4290 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yup like me. I’m single no kids and I want a woman with no kids also. It’s to much being with a woman with kids

    • @sarahsam3603
      @sarahsam3603 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@datkiddjophat4290 Not to invalidate him but he already has 2 kids

    • @datkiddjophat4290
      @datkiddjophat4290 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sarahsam3603 ooo

    • @honeyblunt4201
      @honeyblunt4201 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sarahsam3603 Right, He doesn't want to date a woman with kids. Plus she's a whole red flag 🚩it's not her business what's in his phone.

    • @misssugah2355
      @misssugah2355 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes and many of these guys create single baby mamas

  • @keoshawillis1567
    @keoshawillis1567 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    When someone shows you who they are, Believe them🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @ReinaCtheSpicyQueen
    @ReinaCtheSpicyQueen ปีที่แล้ว +34

    This is why you don’t give your body, time and effort to just anyone!

  • @agadonk
    @agadonk ปีที่แล้ว +85

    Never twist a man's arm. He's not going to want to look like the bad guy on TV to a desperate woman. She needs a therapist for why she wants someone who doesn't choose her and then a life coach to move forward in power, love.

    • @Hollygdorsey1
      @Hollygdorsey1 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Exactly ! He saved face for the sake of his image. No one wants to be a bad guy.

  • @shimmergangfitness5880
    @shimmergangfitness5880 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I literally just left a situation like this . Baby girl he doesn't want to commit to you , leave .

  • @gelleh.5456
    @gelleh.5456 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    He doesn’t have fear ….he just doesn’t want her…

  • @Siythawr4ith
    @Siythawr4ith ปีที่แล้ว +85

    He needs to find his own woman and make his own family.

  • @blulicious2
    @blulicious2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Men are not stupid. They will pursue and commit to the woman they want.
    He did not want this woman. She thought playing the role of cool friend would make him elevate and deepen their relationship.
    Cut your losses and move on. It's not that he does not want a relationship; he just doesn't want one WITH HER.

  • @finnthehuman7159
    @finnthehuman7159 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Not Karamo pressuring that man at the end to ask her to be his girlfriend 💀 this ain't it

  • @celestecruthird7842
    @celestecruthird7842 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    He Wants His Own Seeds! Nothing Wrong With That!😏

    • @ShayMiW
      @ShayMiW ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It's not but why pursue or entertain a woman with children knowing you don't wanna make the obligation to take care of someone else's kids

    • @robertmiles1132
      @robertmiles1132 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@ShayMiWbut he never said that he never came from the stance i dont want to support the kids he said he doesnt want the other people in his unit as in baby daddies

    • @ShayMiW
      @ShayMiW ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @robertmiles1132 the first part of my question still stands either way. Why pursue or entertain a woman with children?

    • @toxinfreev
      @toxinfreev 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ShayMiWbecause some men are just predatory and take advantage of women they know are desperate. He's not man enough to go after what he really wants because he has nothing to offer them (childless women).

  • @taaay
    @taaay ปีที่แล้ว +39

    He hesitated so much girl RUN you deserve a man that can express how he feel voluntarily

    • @DBrown-vg1fi
      @DBrown-vg1fi ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes he’s deserving of a woman with no kids

    • @wandumazgabu7252
      @wandumazgabu7252 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He doesn’t want her!

    • @taaay
      @taaay ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@wandumazgabu7252 like not one but and she just so desperate and missing the whole self love thing

  • @shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647
    @shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Us as women ask for a man to be upfront about what they want. But when they do we still try to fit something in our minds to think otherwise. He not only states he doesn’t want a RELATIONSHIP, he shows it sis 🥴

  • @lindawilliams141
    @lindawilliams141 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    She's trying to force him to be on a relationship. It's not going to last. The feelings he expressed today, are still there.

  • @indigorose1270
    @indigorose1270 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    They have good chemistry. But when another woman enters their relationship with no kids he will leave her. She is nothing more than a Miss. Right now!

  • @dayYdream2k
    @dayYdream2k ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I completely understand not wanting to date a woman with kids. I was the same way. My husband had no kids when I met him and we started our own family.

    • @shanny0971
      @shanny0971 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Me too. I did not want a man with kids.

  • @peacefreedom4930
    @peacefreedom4930 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    I’m confused. He literally doesn’t want a serious relationship with this woman. That doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with her. But she’s not what he’s looking for. Still she’s giving him access to her heart, mind, body, and family. She has put herself and her children on the discount rack and is down that he won’t pick them. This is the exact opposite of what makes a man choose you for a serious commitment. This shows a lack of value in yourself. A woman that values herself would never behave this way. If you don’t value yourself why would a man. He can literally get everything he wants or needs from you without much effort because you are laying down as a sacrifice on his alter like he’s a God. She’s actually lucky that he isn’t a bad person. He’s taking what she’s offering. But there are men out here who would use her low self esteem to use and abuse her. He has no obligation to show her his phone. Why demand that?
    She doesn’t need to see his phone to know she should move on. If a man values you, you’ll know it. When he wants the benefits without the responsibilities you’ll be confused. This man wants the benefits.

    • @emmebee1168
      @emmebee1168 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Facts.

    • @BrokeTruckerGyal
      @BrokeTruckerGyal ปีที่แล้ว +2

      God bless you and your strong mind cz sisters like the one in this video scare me.

  • @quishafoster4602
    @quishafoster4602 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Never let a man tell your more than once that he doesn't want you . Move on lady and find your person for you.

  • @brieet9376
    @brieet9376 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    definitely need an updated video with them because i feel like he committed due to being on the spot in front of an audience..

  • @mbasamaqekeza
    @mbasamaqekeza ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Men know who they want to commit to and even spoil. You can never force a man to see your value. If it's not you then it's not you unfortunately 💔 - Keep it moving.

  • @jamesgibson3716
    @jamesgibson3716 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    If you fear commitment, you need to be alone!!!!!!!!!!

  • @ohjazzydiva
    @ohjazzydiva ปีที่แล้ว +31

    He’s not sending mixed messages. He clearly communicated his expectations and she caught feelings. Why would she want to deal with someone who has not only told her but the world that he doesn’t want a ready made family. She should move on. She’s so in love, she’s going to continue this toxic journey. He’s as faithful as his options. This won’t end well. As soon as he meets a woman that he likes with no kids… he’s out.

  • @7Tiffany
    @7Tiffany ปีที่แล้ว +18

    He's just not that into you girl.

  • @TheRealEvvonne
    @TheRealEvvonne ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I never dated men who made it clear (like he did) that they don’t want a relationship with a woman with kids. I have ONE so it was never an issue but she has THREE and some men, understandably, don’t want all that responsibility . And why did she stick around after he told her he was thinking of making someone ELSE his girlfriend? Sad. This was very manipulative of her and him asking her on stage wasn’t genuine. He was put on the spot and I wouldn’t want to be asked like that. Smh

  • @mixed_colombian_mocha2403
    @mixed_colombian_mocha2403 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Women, start LISTENING when a man tells you about himself from the beginning so you don’t make the mistake to look like a fool. Move on, the man for you is out there ❤

  • @85southtarotqueen12
    @85southtarotqueen12 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    If he can't except my kids , he can't have my heart cause they are my heart.

    • @wandumazgabu7252
      @wandumazgabu7252 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That’s your problem… lol.

    • @Arron413
      @Arron413 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You should have stayed in a relationship with your baby daddies. He isn't obligated to love your kids by other men and love you. You sound crazy.

    • @ritajit4730
      @ritajit4730 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "Lady Dee Tarot" is correct- always put your children 1st.

    • @nick_fury6120
      @nick_fury6120 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Arron413 yup fr

    • @crazymusicgrlcheesecake
      @crazymusicgrlcheesecake ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@Arron413 her baby daddy is probably abusive. Yall would be sitting up here blaming her for staying with him. She has standards and not everyone is going to kiss your behind

  • @kaylaroxann4151
    @kaylaroxann4151 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    He needs to leave & stop dragging her alone then

    • @gelleh.5456
      @gelleh.5456 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She needs to stop giving him access ….

    • @DBrown-vg1fi
      @DBrown-vg1fi ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gelleh.5456 Period!

    • @wandumazgabu7252
      @wandumazgabu7252 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She needs to let him go… he already told her what’s up… so don’t blame the guy

    • @tylerwavy8324
      @tylerwavy8324 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He didn’t drag her along he told her wassup and now she caught feeling and now he somehow is being accused of dragging her along when he’s been real

  • @godfavored5
    @godfavored5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    He’s a good guy, he just fear’s a relationship. At least he’s honest!

    • @angelacarlisle1708
      @angelacarlisle1708 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hes not been honest with the girl..hes led her on

  • @angeldiannah8306
    @angeldiannah8306 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    I don’t think he sent her mixed messages if from the the start he told her he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with a woman with kids. If you are just in a sexual relationship with someone there is no need to introduce that person to your kids. That was her fault! He didn’t mislead her. She wanted him so bad she kept looking at the possibility of a relationship despite the fact he already told her he didn’t want a relationship. If I didn’t have kids I wouldn’t want to date someone with kids either. I agree with him! She needs to just move on and find someone who wants and accepts her and her kids

    • @truthhurts7045
      @truthhurts7045 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      All of this

    • @Vdub481
      @Vdub481 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      U nailed it yup

    • @starloced
      @starloced ปีที่แล้ว +2

      how can you say he didn’t send mixed messages when he mentions not wanting to be with a women with kids then proceeds to have a relationship with said women? that’s a mixed message.

    • @AlexusMusic
      @AlexusMusic ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@starloced what relationship ? Sex ? Oh okay 🥴

    • @richards22
      @richards22 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He sent mixed messages by spending everyday with her, having fun with her on a daily basis that doesn't involve sex. He sent mixed messages by getting involved with her kids. . And prolonging it for yearssss.
      She said that they both agreed to be friends with benefits at first but then she caught feelings.... If he was a real man and he knew he didn't want a relationship with a woman with kids the minute he saw her catching feelings he should've jumped ship... But he didn't. .. instead he rallied on her said feelings, grew a closer bond with her and her kids.
      If that ain't sending mixed messages then I don't know what is.

  • @beryl804
    @beryl804 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    He's a nice guy, so true from the beginning. He's not for you. There was alot of pressure, he didn't want to disappoint you on tv

  • @lasavinegivens1756
    @lasavinegivens1756 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This man doesn't want her. He meant that "a woman without children is a plus to him". Although Karamo called him out for leading her own for his selfish benefit, he then agree to give their relationship a try for camera purposes only. He was placed on the spot. She needs to protect her heart and her children from the damage he will cause trying to convince him to stay. Show your children you have dignity as their mother.

  • @jeremieanderson6614
    @jeremieanderson6614 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    He did not send mixed messages, he told her whats up. He doesn't want to get involved with a woman with kids, wants his own. Its his choice, so move on.

  • @shantwhite1981
    @shantwhite1981 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    In the words of the late great Maya Angelou:
    "When someone shows you who they
    are, believe them the first time. People
    know themselves much better than
    you do. That's why it's important to
    stop expecting them to be something
    other than who they are!"
    And that's all I've got to say....

  • @anitaf2145
    @anitaf2145 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    If they get into a relationship all he will do is cheat he clearly doesn't want her and has told her in so many different ways. I hope she moves on and finds someone to accept her and her children.

  • @layitonthickstyles
    @layitonthickstyles ปีที่แล้ว +7

    HE STILL NOT GOING TO STOP MESSING WITH HER, AND SHE'S GOING TO KEEP DEALING WITH HIM.

  • @ebonykersey3811
    @ebonykersey3811 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    He can feel the way he feels

  • @bxgirl2930
    @bxgirl2930 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    She is probably a good catch so he actually DON'T WANT HER BUT HE DON'T WANT ANYONE ELSE TO HAVE HER SMH

  • @msjohari3218
    @msjohari3218 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I absolutely agree with his honesty and understand..You can't do nothing but respect that..I am at a point in my life where I don't want to date someone with kids..or either smaller children.. Coming out a relationship after 7years myself and dated my ex who has 3 children I developed a undeniable bond with what I call our children even though I didn't birth them..My one and only daughter is 28 and when we broke up it was extremely hard on the children..So I'm still and always will be apart of there lives.. But I really can't take that mentally nor emotionally dating someone else with children..So I agree with him It's a personal choice and nothing wrong with not wanting to date someone with children or small children..

  • @empress561vt
    @empress561vt ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I went threw this. Now I’m married to a man with no children and He loves my son like his own. The ex…. Yet has been able to find happiness with one woman and 8 years later still single regrets not sticking by my side seeing how good life has been for me and my husband over the 5 years (we are social media friends and he DM me recently). My husband and I are now planning a second baby happily married. Let men like this go lady so the right man can come into your life and rock your world ❤ like mine - good luck!!!

  • @janaelachelle7481
    @janaelachelle7481 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You can tell he felt put on the spot. He doesn't want to be with her but she was looking so sad & desperate he caved in. She's a good looking girl she can find someone who truly wants her.

  • @brieyszn
    @brieyszn ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Dealt with a guy like this. Girl save yourself the Effn trouble and just move on. It will have you stressed & depressed eventually.. he don’t know what he wants and him enjoying you without a title is enough for him. He doesn’t see the need to commit because he’s scared and why would he feels “ why would I ?”. Move on girl. Plenty of men out here 💯✨

    • @shimmergangfitness5880
      @shimmergangfitness5880 ปีที่แล้ว

      ‼️‼️

    • @DBrown-vg1fi
      @DBrown-vg1fi ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He wants to commit not to her tho she has 3 kids that’s a lot

    • @brieyszn
      @brieyszn ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@DBrown-vg1fi if it’s a lot why string her along period? If that’s not what you signed up for or signing up for why entertain it. That’s dumb and immature. He needs to grow up

    • @DBrown-vg1fi
      @DBrown-vg1fi ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@brieyszn she was giving it away for free responsibility needs to be taken any man would seize the opportunity

    • @brieyszn
      @brieyszn ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DBrown-vg1fi that’s a loser move && quite frankly that’s bum behavior don’t waste my time if you ain’t gone be honest and upfront.

  • @realmnthrwknives
    @realmnthrwknives ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Eventually she needs to woman up and leave him alone. He is very obviously not going to commit to her and I hate that it seems like he's just saying what she wants to hear/what will keep her in arms length. He has shown her numerous times he does not want to be with her. He is not innocent either and needs to man up and be straight up with her. They need to be friends. These situationships are painful and need to be let go.

  • @PRETTYESHIA504
    @PRETTYESHIA504 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Basically he doesn't want a woman with kids. I don't blame him. She caught feeling and now she wants him to commit.

    • @dashawnalong6144
      @dashawnalong6144 ปีที่แล้ว

      @eshia janell nobody forced him to stay at the end of the day man wasn't complaining when they date women that has children I heard a man said a lot of stuff before about women having children but at the end of the day they did not sign up for that they did not make a person say when a woman has children they wasn't even saying nothing about it when they date someone that has sugar or not having children I don't get it I don't understand why he's complaining you know what I'm saying it got me lost right now like why you said that complaining about a woman that has children I don't understand

  • @bxgirl2930
    @bxgirl2930 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    He is just not THAT INTO HER and he has probably told her and showed her but she refuses to accept it and he keeps stringing her along because she is his fall back girl for whenever things don't work out with other girls he can always come right back to her smh some dudes use the YOU HAVE KIDS LOL as a excuse because they just don't wanna tell them the truth

    • @death24314
      @death24314 ปีที่แล้ว

      Orrrrr.... he hear me out...he just doesn't want to be with a woman with kids lol

  • @lifewithnicole2717
    @lifewithnicole2717 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I felt him too. I literally feel like I get therapy sessions out of all of these episodes I’ve been binge watching for a week now. Just writing down every advice on my note pad just like you 😂❤

  • @ariesgirl.
    @ariesgirl. ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'm not even upset with him. Sis, he told you that he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you from the beginning. I understand you caught feelings but that didn't change the original agreement he had with you. You should NEVER want to be with a man who feels like that way about dating a woman with kids. At this point you're not even putting your kids first to understand he will not treat them like his own bc he wants to start his own family. Let that man go! He's not the one for you and your kids.

  • @musicbykg
    @musicbykg 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    When he said "It's a plus" I would have checked out completely. Especially that he already has a relationship with my kids. If I can't protect my heart, let me protect theirs.

  • @VAATAUSILI4139
    @VAATAUSILI4139 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I just love, how KAMARO helps this Young Man. KAMAROS really helps lots of people, amazing.

  • @lovelythoughts8855
    @lovelythoughts8855 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    🗣THATS YOUR BOYFRIENDDDDDDD😂😂😂😂😂 I love karamo

  • @SweetesSugar
    @SweetesSugar ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This girl obviously in love and she's not thinking because she's in love of course but he's telling you who he is and what he want clear as day come on girl open your eyes 💯

  • @BefreewithZEE
    @BefreewithZEE ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I don’t like how she cuts him off.
    You both in the beginning stated you didn’t want anything more then friendship.
    He was open and honest you SHOULD NEVER GUILT someone into being with you. Been there done that and I realized my heartbreak was something I caused for myself and did not ply victim I just ate the situation up and moved on and learned to listen to peoples intentions etc and respect it.

  • @eleicesiag9066
    @eleicesiag9066 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He did not do anything wrong. He was honest and told her what he wanted and she continued to stay around hoping that one day he would choose her. she hurt her own feelings smh

  • @chrysanthe1297
    @chrysanthe1297 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As a woman with 1 teenager it’s hard out here for me. Gurl he don’t want an already made family. Cut your loss and move on.

  • @reesypeace9758
    @reesypeace9758 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Once he say he don't want to be with a woman that has kids... why even have your kids around him
    He might enjoy her but doesn't want to settle down and make a family with a woman that already has children... I don't think there is anything wrong with that if it's really how he feels... he can't waste time that she doesn't give him
    But then there are certain types of manipulators that will hold something over your head that isn't in your power to control... she can't change the fact that she has kids... but it will fk with her head... almost make her obsess over proving her worth "despite" having children... nothing wrong with having children... you just have to date someone who doesn't have an issue with it...

  • @jeand7122
    @jeand7122 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love how he always comment and up lifts his guest 😊

  • @mellyc1095
    @mellyc1095 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Some people are really delusional 🙄

  • @kimdean1079
    @kimdean1079 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He's told her clearly that he didn't want a relationship with her before they went on the show. Believe his words. She didn't need Karamo to tell her anything. If he can't willingly and emphatically call her girlfriend, move on from him. I don't want to twist a man's arm to be boyfriend.

  • @Myztic71
    @Myztic71 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He doesn't want her. He's told her 6 million ways from Sunday (as my dear late grandmother would say) that he's not interested in anything more than what they have, in words and actions. To bring him on the show to "force" him into committing won't work - he just didn't want to look like a heel on national TV and embarrass her further. I don't think he's wrong for saying that he doesn't want a serious relationship with a woman who already has children, that's his preference. She just needs to accept that she isn't the one for him and vice versa.

  • @jllj9231
    @jllj9231 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As women today we r too quick to open our legs and then cry wolf when we know what it is!!! U wanted friends with benefits. U were irresponsible with ur body and with the lives of ur children. Now u want someone to admit what u knew they were doing all along... end of!!! And, its not over. She gonna continue in her foolishness despite or maybe in spite of his ridiculousness.

  • @leafrazer8440
    @leafrazer8440 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    it's so sad to see a man struggle to come right out and tell a woman he doesn't want a serious relationship with her. My heart goes out to him because he afraid to hurt her. The only thing he can't give her mix messages, just move on and be with the woman you really want to be with.

    • @antwainbrown4602
      @antwainbrown4602 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He told her from the start she ain't listening though

    • @leafrazer8440
      @leafrazer8440 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're right.

  • @tammys5417
    @tammys5417 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Let’s do an update on this couple in 6 mos. What y’all think?
    I’m always rooting for love, but more so healthy relationships.

    • @Weda40
      @Weda40 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Try 3 months
      They won't be together

  • @theunicornhasspoken9715
    @theunicornhasspoken9715 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He keeping it a Bean! Good bad or indifferent! You have to listen not just hear! God bless yall! 💜🦄

  • @Nia62899
    @Nia62899 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    RUN she need to RUN. He do not want her, he gone continue to do him 😂

  • @lashondadavis751
    @lashondadavis751 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I kinda feel like he was put on the spot with asking her to be his girl

    • @myrasmith174
      @myrasmith174 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He definitely was and didn't want to hurt her feelings on national TV like that..

  • @brandilowe1916
    @brandilowe1916 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i like this young woman a lot. she is very chill and very real.

  • @green4daspleen97
    @green4daspleen97 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Karamo is so weird for thinking he did the right thing for these people... Someone needs to fire this man

  • @ashidasmith4224
    @ashidasmith4224 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Girl move on he ain't want u like that..he just don't want u feel bad on the show.

  • @courtneylesure5952
    @courtneylesure5952 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    He’s most definitely sending mixed signals. Yes, he told her from the start that he didn’t want a relationship with a woman who has kids. At the same time both of them admitted that he’s doing for the kids and that the kids have a relationship with him. She’s so beautiful, she deserves more! I don’t think he’s a bad guy, I just don’t think he’s ready to commit to her and her children. Move on mama!

  • @Simply3ddy
    @Simply3ddy ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Never let a man tell u more than once that he doesn't want u...

  • @nytenurse7728
    @nytenurse7728 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He doesn't want a woman with kids! That's his prerogative. He wants to create his own family & he has the right to want WTF he wants!

  • @DiorpradaGucci
    @DiorpradaGucci ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I need a follow up on this, cause ain’t no way they still together 😂

  • @Probity100
    @Probity100 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hands up if anyone else feels he gave her a girlfriend title only because he was on Karamo Show. DUH woman, your emotionally unavailable man is having his free cookie and milk, why would he want to buy the ‘cow’? That man has a LOT to hide and he is lining up his next gullible victim. The problem with many women they can’t be content to be alone and always want to be saddled up to a man or title. Even when it hurts the kids or they ring more kids to tie a man down.
    NO human has ever died from being single & celibate.

  • @lexipie25
    @lexipie25 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Never let a man tell you he doesn’t want you more than once. He doesn’t want you. A man who wants you will make every effort to have you

  • @thcxgold
    @thcxgold ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Eeehemmm! “ You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make it drink.”

  • @jamesgibson3716
    @jamesgibson3716 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Dudes like this are pathetic. Clearly he's wasting her time. As a man I can say that this has become a norm in today's society.

    • @gelleh.5456
      @gelleh.5456 ปีที่แล้ว

      How is he pathetic?

    • @jeneandavis5219
      @jeneandavis5219 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes James Gibson and it’s so sad. Society is so messed up I don’t understand why many men do everything like a boyfriend but have such a hard time giving women the title of a girlfriend. What’s the big deal of being someone boyfriend if you are playing that role anyway. Why waste someone’s time if you are not serious.

    • @antwainbrown4602
      @antwainbrown4602 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nope he told her what it was from the start she is the one who doesn't get it and isn't listening

  • @cynthiawilliams1015
    @cynthiawilliams1015 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    They both knew what it was from the very beginning so I won't say that he is wrong for anything nor is he stringing her on. She needs to move on. He really doesn't owe her an apology, just my opinion!

  • @absynthe7904
    @absynthe7904 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    He’s still trash, but it seems like she pushed him to be in a relationship with her. She introduced him to her kids & purposely put him in their lives so she could “change his mind” & it backfired. She needs to be single for a while & so does he.

  • @india4332
    @india4332 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These Prime and Walmart grocery ads every 2 minutes are killin me omfg

  • @Hannah-be6ql
    @Hannah-be6ql ปีที่แล้ว

    Girl you’re begging 😂😂 STAND UP!!! He don’t want youuuu !!

  • @thomasinasykes
    @thomasinasykes 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is an example of how you tell somebody you don't want them without telling them that you don't want them....... Giiiirl he's just not that into You!!!

  • @DravenForrest
    @DravenForrest ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That’s your boyfrieeennndddd 😂😂😂

  • @kanyram1711
    @kanyram1711 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We need a updat on this couple in the next 6 months

  • @sharonharper6255
    @sharonharper6255 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He has a right to want to date someone with no kids if he wants too...and not be made to feel bad about it.

  • @keekeelove2803
    @keekeelove2803 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this show I’m glad I can catch up on the shows I missed I love his understanding and he always know what to say without hurting anyone

  • @justlola11
    @justlola11 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    If you're giving a person everything without a commitment, why would they need to commit to you?
    Why buy milk when you have a cow and you can get it for free?
    I was dealing with a man for over 10 years. He wanted a relationship in the beginning and I didn't. I had just got out a bad relationship, and was afraid of getting hurt again. So eventually I fell in love, maybe it was lust, or both. Anyways when I came to him, and told him that I wanted to be with him, he didn't want to commit. Well we were doing everything without a commitment so why would he? I had him around my children, family, and some friends. I did learned a valuable lesson, and I won't make that same mistake again. Till this day, I still love him, but I had to move on. LADIES! HEAL YOURSELF FIRST BEFORE DEALING WITH SOMEONE AGAIN. THEN YOU'LL THINK LOGICALLY INSTEAD OF MOVING OFF YOUR EMOTIONS AND TRAUMA.

    • @DBrown-vg1fi
      @DBrown-vg1fi ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I appreciate this message so much…it’s so many people In these comments trying to make her look like the victim when she’s literally giving the milk away free of charge and then forcing commitment on him instead of walking away. When they heal they will understand exactly what you are saying

    • @justlola11
      @justlola11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@DBrown-vg1fi it's easy to blame someone else, instead of taking accountability. He was honest in the beginning, but she fell in love. Hopefully it works
      He finally gave her the title she was looking for lol

    • @justlola11
      @justlola11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@DBrown-vg1fi Thank you btw

    • @DBrown-vg1fi
      @DBrown-vg1fi ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@justlola11 It’s nice to see someone who went thru it see it from a healed perspective instead of just blaming others, seeing what you could have learned from it and how to improve yourself moving forward

    • @justlola11
      @justlola11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@DBrown-vg1fi awww thank you.
      You just made my day🥺

  • @Lovelylayd40
    @Lovelylayd40 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What is wrong with some women ! Stop begging a man to be with you . He being honest HE DOESN'T WANT TO BE WITH A WOMAN WITH KIDS! What part don't you understand !!! He has a right to plan out his life !!! Girl pick up your feelings and move on !!!!!

  • @kukuakukua
    @kukuakukua ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's had to love a person who doesn't feel the same for you but sister girl, as hard as it is, the best you can do for you is move on. There is that guy out there for you