THE MOST HATED COUPLE ON TIK TOK JUST GOT WORSE! (Matt & Abby)

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ความคิดเห็น • 394

  • @ImmortalBeloved101
    @ImmortalBeloved101 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1020

    The worst part is that Matt ignored her after she had to have an emergency c section! And then, in a later clip, he said that she "cheated birth by having one"..... like wtf?! I've had 2 c sections and both times I didn't want one, both times were scary, both made me feel like not a "real woman". Like screw Matt

    • @brookeswapp5871
      @brookeswapp5871 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

      @ImmortalBeloved101 don't ever feel like you aren't a real woman because you had c-sections. It's a major, major surgery that is so scary. Recovery from it is hard as well, don't think less of yourself. You did it twice that's amazing! Hoping you had better support than what Matt gave his wife.

    • @ImmortalBeloved101
      @ImmortalBeloved101 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      @brookeswapp5871 Luckily, I was very supported. ❤️❤️

    • @brookeswapp5871
      @brookeswapp5871 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@ImmortalBeloved101 that's so good to hear 🩷

    • @ANYHOO0
      @ANYHOO0 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      If men gave birth this wouldn't even be a discussion.

    • @anu83
      @anu83 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      yes and c section is not a big thing.

  • @squishmittenAO3
    @squishmittenAO3 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +854

    “I impregnated my wife, but boohoo, my life has to change now we have babies!” 🙄

    • @AuntBee42
      @AuntBee42 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      he decided to have a baby and be a jerk.

  • @celinay
    @celinay 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +858

    "I didnt talk to you for 2 days because my life was gonna change so much." Your wife just got home from GIVING BIRTH, still stitched up and barely even starting to heal as her body adjusts from giving birth to YOUR baby, needed your support the most in those moments and you went silent because all you could think about was yourself???? Grow tf up matt, your behavior is horrendous.

    • @DominosAndHearts
      @DominosAndHearts 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      This exactly! He seems to miss that it literally takes two to create a baby 😅

    • @tackycardia
      @tackycardia 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      I’m baffled that he apparently didn’t consider any of that for 9 whole months!

    • @chrisybxxx
      @chrisybxxx 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This is straight up rage bait

    • @Cminorputitincminor
      @Cminorputitincminor 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      100%! Men are allowed to feel and are allowed to be depressed after birth BUT you do NOT GIVE YOUR POSTPARTUM WIFE THE SILENT TREATMENT BECAUSE OF THAT.
      What he could’ve done was freaking communicated. “Hey, I’m just feeling a little weird after the birth so I’m sorry I seem off. I’m not mad with you and I’m here for you and we’ll get through this together.” That would’ve been better. Silent treatment is emotionally abusive, idc what anyone says.

    • @libbypyle8136
      @libbypyle8136 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Cminorputitincminor THIS!

  • @catbuthuman
    @catbuthuman 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +624

    Part of me thinks they do this kinda stuff as rage bait. They know whatever new scandal they’re in will get them attention, even if it’s negative.

  • @bubas420
    @bubas420 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +255

    It’s not that men can’t talk ab their mental health because it IS important. But to tell your wife that recently gave birth to one of your kids “it wasn’t enough” with out actually talking to your partner? And does he think his wife didn’t give up a lot too?

    • @80sbrunnette
      @80sbrunnette 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      And for him to bring up his mental health problem right AFTER she gave birth?! Like he could have brought it up anytime before or time after 🙄

    • @bubas420
      @bubas420 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@80sbrunnette right? Like im not saying his feelings aren’t valid but his wife JUST gave birth

  • @carriesmith3421
    @carriesmith3421 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +276

    I’m not a psychologist but, these two stopped growing when they met. They are not growing up together. They are growing up apart but still acting like they were when they met, what I mean is their dynamics never changed from when they began their relationship. The things he says to her and about their relationship are despicable. Yeah he is dreaming of his exit from this trapped relationship.

    • @asvir9110
      @asvir9110 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      That’s exactly what I see!

    • @emjayee
      @emjayee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Exactly this. I've been with my husband since we were 13 and you legitimately need counseling to be able to healthily grow together, without enmeshment, and with the intention to continue to move forward and have a dynamic relationship. It's not easy, it takes a lot of work, and they are not doing it.

    • @carriesmith3421
      @carriesmith3421 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@emjayee so glad you get my point.

  • @maryisazombie
    @maryisazombie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +412

    I stopped watching shortly after she gave birth. I didn’t really vibe with how Matt was treating her, but she also was perpetuating some harmful expectations for postpartum women (not letting her body recover and stuff). It may have worked for her, but putting that out there and promoting that kind of stuff can make women feel awful if they don’t get back down to size right away, if they can’t run a 5k, etc. I wish she had used her platform a bit differently. Now, after seeing a lot of what they’ve put out, it makes me glad I stopped watching. They have some takes I definitely don’t agree with now and they’ve associated with some questionable people.

    • @Iamliterallythatgirl
      @Iamliterallythatgirl 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Saying women are loose after giving birth for rage bait and money and views is some type of evil lol

    • @rachelesser6898
      @rachelesser6898 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I mean yes I understand where you are coming from but there does have to be some stuff accountability with stuff like that, if you aren't secure enough with yourself to not break down when you see someone else looking better than you or doing more than you then you probably shouldn't be on social media and that's a sign to you that you need to take time to work on the way you perceive and feel about yourself. Or if you aren't in a place mentally/emotionally to realize that your life doesn't need to look like other peoples lives and maybe even shouldn't then you also probably shouldn't be on social media.

    • @Kennarose
      @Kennarose 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@rachelesser6898i get what your saying but that wasn’t the full point of the original persons comment, just by promoting this to a large audience makes woman think they need to do this in the future, or normalizes/desensitizes people to that idea, it doesn’t have much to do with mental fragility, it also could make men treat woman bad in the future if they see this and their partner etc doesn’t I’ve up to it.

    • @funnylilnarutogal2
      @funnylilnarutogal2 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Matt and Abby are children cosplaying as adults.

    • @RA-yg7ss
      @RA-yg7ss หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is ridiculous! How is it “harmful” ? There is nothing wrong with being different.some people are smarter, prettier, richer, more successful, more athletic etc than others, nothing wrong with that. When I had my child I didn’t have to do anything to loose the weight instantly. My abs were peaking through again after 2 weeks. I could do hiit workouts and sprints pretty quickly after. Although I’m an athlete, very healthy and active and have strong genetics. Why should my experience be diminished or not inspire similar women that are capable of the same???

  • @CoralLawson
    @CoralLawson 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +306

    The going out to eat while leaving your toddlers alone in a room is giving madeline machan

    • @pc.102
      @pc.102 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I LITERALLY had the same thought!

    • @graceyoung4205
      @graceyoung4205 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      And Madeleine McCann's parents could actually see the apartment from where they were ☠️

  • @emmagardiner8890
    @emmagardiner8890 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +136

    They deleted over 300million views from their channel as of last week so I’m not surprised you couldn’t find the original clips of some of this mess

    • @withcharmtospare
      @withcharmtospare 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Y’a the are ruuuuunnning from public shaming lmao

  • @theliltibby
    @theliltibby 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +95

    Men saying they want kids and a family just to turn around and say “I realized all my dreams have to be put aside for my child and I couldn’t deal” is WILD

  • @verahvd
    @verahvd 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +134

    The term post partum depression shouldn’t be used for men, unless they have given birth ofc. Yes, you can definetly have an emotional crisis or depresive period due to the nee addition to the family, but it’s not the same as how giving birth messes with your hormons.

    • @georgia9500
      @georgia9500 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      glad to see this comment!

  • @lissafinn4235
    @lissafinn4235 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +115

    “We decided as a family that we’re skipping Father’s Day” = Matt is a whiny prick who acts like a child when it comes to his birthday.

    • @smfreij
      @smfreij หลายเดือนก่อน

      King baby!

  • @elisa-beary
    @elisa-beary 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +157

    I do feel for Abby a bit because she’s said she rly doesn’t like the social media but basically Matt keeps pushing for it. She’s the one who decided not to have the kids in the content anymore which I’ll always give her props for. I wonder if her being with only him just has her so used to his behavior, lack of emotional & parental support even though HE DOESNT WORK that it’s become her normal even though we see it & are in shock.
    Now the cruise ship thing is just wild, you’re rich bring a nanny. Otherwise you have two SUPER young kids, you’re at a stage where you have to expect fam vacays to be chaotic & not a romantic getaway. She RLY posted the initial post like it was a cruise ship parenting hack!!! Wild.

    • @alyssariceYT
      @alyssariceYT 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      The other thing about the cruise ship is even if the kids club reservations werent available then, the ship has babysitters you can hire to STAY IN THE ROOM with them.

    • @Lolee56
      @Lolee56 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@alyssariceYTthis made me realize why these people want more kids and I’m sitting here tapping out after two. Because I don’t ditch my kids to go on vacation every other week

  • @sarahkenny3053
    @sarahkenny3053 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    I’ve 2 boys ( 21 & 19 ), and 3 girls (23, 17 & 12). If any of mine treated their partners like these do (Matt in particular, he’s a literal spoilt man child), I’d be ashamed, embarrassed and livid.
    I’d feel I’d failed them as a parent by not giving them the life skills and emotional maturity to deal with life in general 🙄🤦‍♀️

    • @hibaaqahmed9099
      @hibaaqahmed9099 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You sound like you’re going to be an amazing mother in law 🩵

  • @birdo88
    @birdo88 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +226

    Matt gives major Chris Watts vibes I’m sorry

    • @darkandstormymama
      @darkandstormymama 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      Literally. I'm not being funny...I get major insecurities and willingness to go scorched earth from him too

    • @kitkatattack20
      @kitkatattack20 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Omg i didn't want to say it but

    • @CM38110
      @CM38110 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Omg. That's what it is. He's always been off to me. I couldn't place it and my feelings were solidified by the fact that she got pregnant again so quickly. It just gives me the ick that that happened with the ways we've seen him treat her.

    • @withcharmtospare
      @withcharmtospare 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thank you!!! He doesn’t want this life…what happens if when he starts to tour

    • @justjess-nu4mk
      @justjess-nu4mk 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I second that

  • @amigdalies
    @amigdalies 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +132

    no like i have never been able to understand his gripes about fathers day / his birthday because?? i actually thought that was kinda cool that they could have like a double holiday?? he's so weird 😭

    • @thezedna76
      @thezedna76 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Matt and I (unfortunately) share a birthday, June 18th. My dad told me one year when the fathers day was on my birthday 'I cant celebrate my day without yours', meaning YOU CANNOT BE A FATHER WITHOUT THE CHILDEN! Maybe I have a different perspective being a woman, but seriously bro

    • @lililolli792
      @lililolli792 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      I mean I get it in the sense my birthday is close to Christmas, and a lot of the time growing up people would celebrate just Christmas or give me a gift and say it's for both.
      HOWEVER, I think its significantly harder to do that with a minor holiday like father's day. I don't know what people typically do for father's day, but generally for my family it's a nice dinner and some quality time. Even of he didn't want to do both on the same day, do one on the Saturday and the other on the Sunday & you get a weekend of being celebrated.

    • @melissapetzer3560
      @melissapetzer3560 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      As an adult. Hell yes. 2-for-1 holiday. You dont have to have people over twice. You dont have to buy snacks twice. Like is he 5?

    • @kelseykconnerarts
      @kelseykconnerarts 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      My dads birthday often falls onto Father’s Day and he’s never once complained? Like that’s so wild to me

    • @Amieeapple
      @Amieeapple 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Not only that, but she still got him a cake and they had family over! What more does he want??? TWO CAKES?? Did he have to change a diaper and that’s why he’s mad??

  • @christalcavanaugh
    @christalcavanaugh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Them being high school sweethearts and married in college makes so much sense. I feel like they (he) haven’t grown up really since then. You know how sometimes you hang out with your friends from when you were younger and you act like a kid or young adult again? I think it’s like that. He acts so much like a big kid like he never grew up

  • @thejammiestjam
    @thejammiestjam 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    I think there is a fine line between talking openly about things like post-partum (to raise awareness) and marriage struggles (to share tips on navigating tough issues or even to normalize that all marriages take some work), vs over-sharing and airing allllllllllll of your life. It's like living your life vs monetizing your life.

  • @Lynsey17
    @Lynsey17 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    I don't think them FaceTimeing the baby monitors is proof of anything. I watch my siblings' kids all the time & they still check the monitors themselves throughout dinner or whatever else they're doing (many monitors connect to phone apps).
    I do still think the way they presented the situation very much implies the kids were alone. The entire point of the post was to explain how they handled dinner with 2 young kids - if family members were in the room with them, they would have said so in the first post.

  • @AnAngryPomeranianUnderYourBed
    @AnAngryPomeranianUnderYourBed 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    "Why are Matt's knees so ashy?" That TOOK ME OUT 😭 Why is there always that ONE PERSON 💀

  • @ealuesytain
    @ealuesytain 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +187

    Some men get mad as if they didn’t stop their wives from using birth control, as if they didn’t refuse to wear a condom 💀
    As a christian, religion is wild.

    • @melissamullen4673
      @melissamullen4673 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Exactly, I don’t think men grasp that consent to sex is not consent to pregnancy…

    • @certified_mandy
      @certified_mandy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Right!! A dude i know doesn’t like his lady being on birth control but he also doesn’t want to use a condom. Like what my man?? YOU aren’t even the one on the birth control chill. M e n really just want to get women pregnant and leave

  • @stephanieann6622
    @stephanieann6622 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +95

    Its very clear abby is stuck into the feelings she had when they were in highschool and hes not happy hes in a relationship with kids when he wants to be focusing on his music. Shes so enamored by him and thinks theyre so In love that she cannot see how nasty he is and how he mistreats her.

    • @withcharmtospare
      @withcharmtospare 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Dude, you wouldn’t believe how much religion is forcing them to start in this moment. There is part of them that probably thinks the longer we do this I will eventually fall in love with this life when the reality is hella different.

    • @AshR24
      @AshR24 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He's obsessed with his music like it's good 😂 It's giving being a teenager in high school and some dude would sit and make you listen to his poor rendition of wonderwall.

    • @stephanieann6622
      @stephanieann6622 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@withcharmtospare I'm still a bit confused on the religion part. What religion are they apart of?

  • @beanspuppets3180
    @beanspuppets3180 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    I am so exhausted with how crap pregnant women and women who've recently given birth are by both their partners and society as a whole. No one treats it as the life-threatening situation it actually is and the toll it takes. I honestly don't care what he has to say. I can't imagine the trauma/experience of giving birth and being IGNORED and then told that me that the kids I put my life in danger for and myself are a 'burden' to him because he can't sing as much.

  • @LayneHelen
    @LayneHelen 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I barely survived my PPD after my son and that's why I'm a one and done mom. If I had a partner like Matt I don't think my son would have a mom. Like with how my hormones were I thought my son's life would be exponentially better without me and I got very close to that becoming a reality. If my partner at the time ghosted me in our own home for two days after having our baby I don't know what I would've felt. Poor Abby and her Stockholm syndrome, I just hope she stays safe ❤

  • @hannahkendrick1983
    @hannahkendrick1983 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +119

    Men don’t get PPD. Please don’t say that. Do they get stressed and worried and sad? Yes. But that is NOT what PPD is.

    • @shelbyratliff6219
      @shelbyratliff6219 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      one quick google search says this isn't correct

    • @weirdanimationz2430
      @weirdanimationz2430 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@shelbyratliff6219 literally I looked up if men can get ppd and it say yes...

  • @sappholily
    @sappholily 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    mmm i don't like how matt blames the story post on abby. usually, couples take the blame together by saying something like "WE posted a story". they don't feel like a cohesive couple

  • @karilandrum
    @karilandrum 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I don’t agree with the take that men can go through postpartum depression. Postpartum is specifically linked to the hormones from giving birth, which a man cannot do. They can absolutely have depression after a major life change, but postpartum and depression itself are not the same.

  • @Ktspitfire007
    @Ktspitfire007 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    So postpartum depression is different then regular depression, its due fto the hormones dumping out of your body. Soooo men can be depressed after the baby is born but its not the same

  • @charlotteck7398
    @charlotteck7398 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Even if they are on a monitor it will take them a good few minutes to get to the room like what if the child stops breathing or something they are too far away to actually do anything

    • @tarredion
      @tarredion 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yes! Idk how they thought that was gonna fly under the radar. Monitors purpose are literally to monitor a child from the next room or at most in the same house … not from hundreds of meters away (and many winding corridors, people and locked doors between)

  • @Emmawellthick
    @Emmawellthick 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    “Divorce is never an option” …until he decides it is.

  • @superherocrap
    @superherocrap 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    My mom's birthday every now and then falls on Father's day, and she always talks about how her mom would put a ribbon on her head to say "happy father's day" to my grandpa hahah she has never mentioned it being something she or my grandpa resented or anything like that. Neither has done my dad. Like we would just celebrate both things, her birthday and father's day. And if you are the only person who is being celebrated what does it matter? It is not like you have to celebrate your birthday and a made-up holiday for something unrelated with someone else. Like, do you want two different gifts and each to be specific to the holiday??? is giving narcissism and greedy, and is funny and makes me mad at the same time lol

    • @superherocrap
      @superherocrap 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      My mom just told me that sometimes they wouldn't spend the day together because of my dad's job, so the next day they would go to this particular place where a lot of Mariachi's hang out so he would pay for them to play songs for her, and the photographers would try to get them to take pictures (yk the grind lol) and my parents didn't want pictures so they would joke about how they were married to other people so pictures was a strong no
      And idk, I needed to share this because I think is more goals than whatever Matt & Abby are doing lmao

    • @KelpieRider
      @KelpieRider 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@superherocrap genuinely an adorable celebration! I'm glad you had such a good time

  • @alisonb1942
    @alisonb1942 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    posting a room tour which essentially shows exactly where your kids are and the whole layout of the rooms AND then publicly implying that they're in the room alone is CRAZY like you gave everyone the perfect opportunity to break in

  • @makaylacarpenter9745
    @makaylacarpenter9745 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    Lol I have only watched upto almost 5min but me and my husband got married at 19 and had our first baby at 17 - typically stories like that don't end well but I feel so blessed to be with this man, now 27 and 26, definitely soul mates. But I am also very aware that looking back I wouldn't recommend that people have kids that young and get married that young because this is not often the reality. Interested to see how this one turns out

    • @AngelikaOles
      @AngelikaOles  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Omg so cute 🥰 glad it worked out for you guys x

    • @makaylacarpenter9745
      @makaylacarpenter9745 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @AngelikaOles thank you! love the realness you bring to these subjects - great video 😊

    • @lililolli792
      @lililolli792 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      my grandparents met at 13 and got married at 18 and had a long 60+ years together. I wish the same for you and your husband as well ❤

    • @makaylacarpenter9745
      @makaylacarpenter9745 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @lililolli792 awwh I love that 💕 thank you ♥️♥️

    • @asvir9110
      @asvir9110 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We got married at 19 as well and have been married for 17 years and going strong. Did things backwards but through many hardships we came out stronger than ever. Now we got teenage boys and are blessed beyond measure. Would never recommend anybody getting married so young but at times it does work. Like my beautiful grandmother used to tell us “honey, it is you and your husband against the world. Nobody else cares.” Don’t let anybody get between you and your spouse!
      Sadly these two are letting the whole world into their marriage. It won’t last.

  • @moonbearx
    @moonbearx 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    Oh my god an Angelika video about someone I've never heard of we're so back

  • @zetanolan216
    @zetanolan216 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    Oh she just knows im getting ready for work

    • @ealuesytain
      @ealuesytain 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I’m getting ready for bed 😭 where do you work 💀

    • @hyacinthmoon6289
      @hyacinthmoon6289 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@ealuesytaingetting ready for bed?! It’s 4:35 where I’m at! Some kids aren’t even home from school yet! Where do you live? I’m guessing not in America 😆

    • @ealuesytain
      @ealuesytain 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@hyacinthmoon6289 no😂 i live in the uk like angelica. It’s 23:23 here so 11:11pm 😂

    • @hyacinthmoon6289
      @hyacinthmoon6289 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@ealuesytain 😆 okay that does make a lot more sense. I’m just over here in Texas. It’s now 4:50 in the morning

    • @zetanolan216
      @zetanolan216 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@ealuesytain New Zealand, we’re usually a day ahead of most countries as well🤪

  • @perfectlyimperfect_8528
    @perfectlyimperfect_8528 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    My husband & I have been trying, hoping and wishing for a child for years now...
    we've experienced many many heart breaks and let downs, too many to count to be honest...
    My husband heard this... My birthday being the same day as my first father's day W MY FIRST SON AND my wife is pregnant w our second child!!?! He said that would have been the best day ever for him!! And to be celebrating that great day w his own father & father in law... What more could a man ask for?!?!
    That's what my husband said. When he heard Abby say mire or less "I combined the two holidays... I'm sorry... I failed you"....
    The look on my husbands face... Failed me?!?! No, you gave me one amazing son, you are currently pregnant w our second, its my first father's day and my birthday.... Again, that would be the best fckn day ever!!!
    Damn I love my husband, he has literally saved me in more ways then I could ever explain... I fall in love w him over & over more & more each and every day.... I know I'm fckn lucky.. My heart truly hurts for Abby...
    It's like Matt doesnt have any real problems in life so he has to create some...
    Smh, he's not a man in my opinion, he's a little baby boy who needs to grow up and realize just how fckn lucky he truly is.
    Fck he makes me so mad. He gives me the ick

  • @mandyt9812
    @mandyt9812 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Omg I’ve been dying to talk to someone about the lives of Mormon wives…JENNA NEEDS TO RUN!!!! Dakota is terrifying at times and it’s heartbreaking they’re not able to see that, I hope their loved ones can help make them genuinely see it cause there’s got to be even worse situations off camera too

  • @IsachSaturn
    @IsachSaturn 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +95

    Them facetimeing the monitors make me think of the Madeleine McCann case tbh..
    Edit: oops thats what I get for commenting before the video is over 😅 glad im not the only one tho!!

    • @ealuesytain
      @ealuesytain 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I would say, where would the kidnapper go if they’re in the middle of the ocean. However, other stuff could happen to your child that isn’t just kidnapping…

    • @christalcavanaugh
      @christalcavanaugh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Yes, everyone is saying that, but it’s for a reason. The fact people are commenting it before hearing someone else say it speaks volumes

    • @oljag13
      @oljag13 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That was the first thing I thought of when I heard about what they did

    • @sofiastj
      @sofiastj หลายเดือนก่อน

      I immediately thought of that too!

  • @alien_liwil
    @alien_liwil 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +87

    Another case of: Shouldn't have children and y'all need a divorce

  • @bjorkirl
    @bjorkirl 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    im sorry the excuse of postpartum depression is so pathetic for men. they didn't even do shit

  • @ASMRyouKidding
    @ASMRyouKidding หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Also if "divorce is not an option" that alone tells me she will follow him blindly no matter how toxic or awful things get. And this man does not deserve the loyalty lol

  • @honeylovesbee1223
    @honeylovesbee1223 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Instead of resssuring his wife as she's having breakdown about not having aftercare post-partum he's just going "Hmm-hmm, yeah, okay, sure..." what the yell?!😭😭

  • @Amieeapple
    @Amieeapple 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Homie over here like “grrrr my pop career is over” as if she didnt just lose a good chance at a ton of careers at the same time too 🙄 homie you had nine months to realize this and get tf over it. 🚩

  • @ellenshort7742
    @ellenshort7742 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I hadn’t even thought about her posting it live as influencers where people could be seeing that on the cruise ship

  • @reincarnnated
    @reincarnnated 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    I used to watch this couple so much, but now after everything I'm so glad I stopped watching them long ago.

    • @nixxxxxxie
      @nixxxxxxie หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same. I watched them before they moved to Hawaii. I used to find him a bit creepy because he seemed a bit sex obsessed, but I didn't focus too much on it because they saved themselves for marriage, so maybe he just didn't know how to act yet? I stopped watching when they had their first because I don't like it when people are over reliant on their kids for content. All the stuff thats been coming out recently makes me so happy I stopped.

    • @reincarnnated
      @reincarnnated หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@nixxxxxxie Exactly! I felt so uncomfortable with how he would act around her sometimes. It was just overall so weird, and I'm glad that I stopped watching. I felt like they were starting to use their child for money which is just gross, and when I found out she was pregnant again just made me feel uncomfortable. Like, it's their lives but she was already going through so much with post-pregnancy that piling on another kid would make it worse on her body and mental health. I definitely feel like he's sex obsessed especially since they had another kid weeks after the first.

    • @nixxxxxxie
      @nixxxxxxie หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@reincarnnated I totally agree. I wasn't watching their content when she got pregnant the second time, but I know you're supposed to wait at least a year. Didn't she also have complications with a hernia or something the first time? And I always hated the way he'd talk about their sex life. He'd make jokes about how "they just did it" or how they're going to, and she always got so uncomfortable and would tell him not to say that on camera. The thing that upset me was that he wouldn't edit it out. He used to be the one that edited most of the videos(idk about now), so he could've taken it out if he wanted.

    • @nixxxxxxie
      @nixxxxxxie หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@reincarnnated also I never hear anyone talk about it, but Abby wanted to move to st loudis to be back with their families when they had the babies. They kept it a secret which one they'll move to for a while, and I thought oh of course they'll move near family. Most people in the comments thought so, too. Nope. And then at the last minute Matt threw Utah in there as a serious option because he had a really fun time there. I was so shocked she wasn't angrier.

  • @jenniferchadwick111
    @jenniferchadwick111 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    What gets me is the most modern day cruise ships have babysitting services that you can pay for so that Mom and Dad can go to dinner and the kids are entertained. Over a certain age is included like kids clubs. But toddlers they have a nursery.

  • @professordekarios
    @professordekarios 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    even if it's true that someone else was with their kids, they should not be posting that online when people KNOW where they are. my parents raised me to never post about a trip until we got back home, i can't imagine being an iNfLuEnCeR and thinking it's okay to post about where your kids are and make it seem like they're alone

  • @whyaretheredemonnoises3188
    @whyaretheredemonnoises3188 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    also crazy that they (mainly abby) dont want to post their kids but theyll post embarrassing content of themselves that is gonna haunt those kids just as much

  • @stoneyJutsu
    @stoneyJutsu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    These are the type of people who were ok for thier little family/ couple vids that would pop up and then it just blew up to annoying ,cringe, toxic, couple who should seek therapy and take a major break. The sad part is they never will because its thier only source of bread and butter.

  • @Cosmxnautic
    @Cosmxnautic 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    oooh im so early its a crime. i feel these this couple commonly does ragebait for engagement which is the style of content i just can't get behind. it works for sure but it's definitely annoying

  • @critically.panned
    @critically.panned 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +138

    You forfeit things like nice dinners when you have kids. Don’t want your life to change, don’t have kids. Edit: not sure how this devolved into ableism lmao

    • @brookeswapp5871
      @brookeswapp5871 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      Or plan ahead and get someone to watch your kids. They have the resources.

    • @carriesmith3421
      @carriesmith3421 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      You don’t have to, you can bring your baby. It’s called having a family.
      Nobodies dreams need to stop because something happens, he is putting up excuses for not doing things so he can blame his wife, then children later. He imo is looking for his escape. Grow tf up. But, they can’t because they met in what 8th grade. In my experience, when you first date someone those dynamics stay the same unless both partners are willing to change for themselves, then for the other person. My husband and I have been thru hell and he always hugged me and told me whatever happens we will get through it. He used to be the bread winner, now I am. Change is possible. But, I strongly feel you need to be your own independent person, taking care of and paying for yourself, and knowing who you are before you marry. It’s not always going to be roses, that’s why they say in sickness and in health.

    • @critically.panned
      @critically.panned 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@carriesmith3421 you’re going to bring a baby to a nice restaurant???

    • @christalcavanaugh
      @christalcavanaugh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@critically.pannedyeah some people do. Some babies will sleep through a whole movie or dinner or flight. I was that baby. Not everyone is in the same situation but that doesn’t mean no one can ever have a nice dinner out when they have a baby

    • @critically.panned
      @critically.panned 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@christalcavanaugh the only time I’ve ever been around babies at nice restaurants they’ve screeched, cried, grabbed things, and were generally horrendous to be around in a quiet setting where people are trying to enjoy their expensive meal. Maybe you can bring a baby to a place like this, but you’re a dick if you do. And to be clear, I’m not talking about Applebee’s or Olive Garden, rather an upscale dining experience.

  • @Eirwyn
    @Eirwyn 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Stop. That mug is so cute

  • @endlesslykelly
    @endlesslykelly 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Commenting before watching, but I really hope you mention Abby's history of lying! Usually about inconsequential things, like the main one I remember she said she had been breastfeeding for 27 months when their oldest kid was only like 22 months at the time. Girl, how? And most of her lies are conveniently at the start of her GRWMs that include undisclosed ads!
    (Commenting this on like every video I watch about them because this needs to spread and barely anyone mentions this!)

    • @melodymay4888
      @melodymay4888 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I feel like there is a difference between lying and just not remembering things correctly. I don’t think it’s fair to accuse her of lying when she might just be misremembering or misspeaking especially when it’s things about pregnancy when your brain might not be it’s 100%.

    • @endlesslykelly
      @endlesslykelly 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@melodymay4888 I mean, I think you'd remember how old your first child is. And that's not the only lie. That was just one that stuck in my head because I was so confused by it. And there is still the problem of undisclosed ads. Can't blame those on pregnancy/new motherhood.

  • @maddyteaster841
    @maddyteaster841 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    20:00 I'm literally sitting at my desk going "MADELINE MCCANN" over and over again, that's terrifying

  • @annaelizabzth
    @annaelizabzth 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My first thought was being absolutely horrified because someone could have kidnapped their sons and held them for ransom, knowing they’re influencers and have some serious money.

  • @lucysimons653
    @lucysimons653 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I don't know if it's true, but people have said that Madeline and her siblings were also given something so they'd sleep. Makes it even worse.
    If you don't want the responsibility of children, don't have them?

    • @abigailxmary
      @abigailxmary 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      they were but people don't mention it bc the parents are doctors, as if that makes it okay...

  • @stacuee
    @stacuee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    these do not feel like conversations we should be present for. he talks like any other pod-caster/interviewer when he should be talking to her on a more personal level like she is when she talks about feeling overlooked. ugh I hate it

  • @katiegabberdeen
    @katiegabberdeen 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Oh boohoo fathers day and his birthday lands beside his birthday. Mothers day ALWAYS lands beside my birthday and i never complain having both on the same day or days apart.

  • @KimDaniells-y4w
    @KimDaniells-y4w 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Royal Caribbean cruise ship just got hit by a rouge wave. People, chairs, everything not bolted down, went crashing down. If those poor babies were left alone when that happened, how scary for them!
    But, you know, dinner plans more important.

  • @ASMRyouKidding
    @ASMRyouKidding หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was in a 14yr relationship with My bf since I was 12yrs old and even though it turned abusive, I clung on for so long because I loved that we met so young and I also didn't know any better even when I grew up. Now I realise I should have left a long time ago! This is all I think of when I watch this. I don't mean he's abusive, just that this guy is selfish. Actually, ignoring her for 2 days after she just gave birth could actually be a part of mental abuse. Punishing her like that for no reason is gross!

  • @celiabowen9880
    @celiabowen9880 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I’ve had them blocked since they got pregnant again, they’re just a lot

  • @sadiem8154
    @sadiem8154 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    if my partner ignored me for 2 days after giving birth it would actually traumatize me. I would never get over that!!! I wouldn't be able to trust them ever

  • @Thetinyoneiguess
    @Thetinyoneiguess 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Girl your eyes are so pretty

  • @melissapetzer3560
    @melissapetzer3560 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I know this is a harsh thing to say. However, some people should not have kids. Like you don’t have to have kids. You could just get married and be married. And do fun cruise things.

  • @madisonjefferson9
    @madisonjefferson9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    If you’re a married man with children I feel like your birthday shouldn’t be that big of a deal. Not like you shouldn’t care or celebrate at all, but your kids birthday become a bigger deal and sometimes you have to work on your bday as an adult

  • @jimkyfication
    @jimkyfication วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love all these silent and judging moments from you throughout this video 😂 because those described exactly how I felt about things that have been said by this couple

  • @artstudentlife
    @artstudentlife 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    ANGELIKA
    THE MUG!!
    Where did you get that cute mug!!
    Sorry that sounds so aggressive

  • @AshesOddities
    @AshesOddities 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    PLEASE do an entire episode going off on the Mormon wives husbands! Omg

  • @certified_mandy
    @certified_mandy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    8:59 i would NOT be nice if my partner ever said that to me wtf

  • @teresamaganabravo7485
    @teresamaganabravo7485 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    "That would be my 13th reason"😂😂😂

  • @unichan5
    @unichan5 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The first time I heard about those sleep tents I really wanted one as well 😂
    Back to the topic of the vid, I’m glad that I’m not on TT so don’t have to suffer through this barrage of bad marriages. If you see yourself in Abby, please leave. That type of relationship isn’t good for anyone, especially the kids.

  • @VictoriaLopez-ef3vg
    @VictoriaLopez-ef3vg 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    All I can think about is how these kids are going to grow up and know all this stuff, like their dad not being happy when they were born or how they were possibly abandoned on a cruise. It would really mess with them when they’re older

  • @Disturbd_76
    @Disturbd_76 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How cringe all of it and as for leaving the kids even with a monitor: as a parent, HELL NO! You never leave them unattended especially on a huge boat in the ocean!

  • @AuntBee42
    @AuntBee42 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    the silent treatment is classified as abuse.

  • @x333Dariex333
    @x333Dariex333 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    secret lives of mormon wives had something in it, i watched all of it in one setting
    so interesting and i see a lot of similarities in matt&abby and Zac& Jen which is oof

  • @jaliyahabroad
    @jaliyahabroad 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I INSTANTLY thought about Madeline! Smh, how could you ever do this after knowing about this case

  • @tiredbethycatalyst3954
    @tiredbethycatalyst3954 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    When my birthday is on Father’s Day, my dad and I just fake beef with each other about who should really be celebrated. I was a server the last time Father’s Day and my b-day was the same day, and i definitely carried that beef to some of the random fathers in the restaurant. Went well, the wives enjoyed, made great tips😂

  • @mikaelascott283
    @mikaelascott283 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey! Non-Mormon here that got married at 20! I was also a sophomore in college. Sometimes you just know…I’m 28 now and he’s still my best friend.

  • @savannahwatts6123
    @savannahwatts6123 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    “I don’t know when you stop trying and just are”😂

  • @ealuesytain
    @ealuesytain 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I remember when they made fun of baby names and it upset a creator i follow and she’s so so sweet so it broke my heart seeing her cry.
    I think we all giggle at “crazy” names but need to remember that ppl laughed at some of our names bc they weren’t common back then but are now. Same way that the names of our parents and grandparents just wouldn’t be used as much now.

  • @kimmyball4961
    @kimmyball4961 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Not only everything you said but also what if they started choking for some reason or there was a medical emergency?? They may be to far away to help!!

  • @colleenherrera
    @colleenherrera 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    please PLEASE do a video on The Secret Lives of Mormon Wivesss

    • @gabsmariew
      @gabsmariew 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      PLEASE YES I NEED MORE PEOPLE TO TALK ABOUT IT

  • @zz9154
    @zz9154 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    This is crazy my dad is from the exact same day, and he is also a narcissist and I did grow up with daddy issues

  • @PopsiclePeople
    @PopsiclePeople 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Her divorce lawyer is going to LOVE these videos. No I’m not kidding.

  • @xilia05
    @xilia05 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    the frog mug is really cute🥺

  • @rafasanmartin3963
    @rafasanmartin3963 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    the secret lives of mormon wives was crazyyy but it got me hooked, u should do a video with your thoughts on it!

  • @AuntBee42
    @AuntBee42 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    there was a couple who got engaged and then got Married finals week. finals week of their senior year of college.
    they had a long catholic wedding on the most stressful week of college.

  • @mealwurm
    @mealwurm 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh my GOD i saw someone do like a satire video about the cruise ship scenario and i thought they were just saying influencers in general are wild i didnt know it was a real thing that happened 😭

  • @MsFolkGirl
    @MsFolkGirl 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Cruise ships (and also theme parks) have babysitters that you can book if you want a night out! I don't understand how anyone can be okay with leaving their toddlers unsupervised for an extended period of time....

  • @mariahjonesbest239
    @mariahjonesbest239 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    When I first started coming across their content I thought they were cute but weren’t going to last since they were so young. I came across more content, and thought to myself “idk these people, just because that kind of relationship wasn’t possible for me doesn’t mean their marriage won’t work. They’ve managed to grow together all this time.” THEN they had kids… opinion completely reverted back to they’re not going to last lol They don’t seem to be compatible as a couple, Matt lacks empathy and Abby is a people pleaser. They’re codependent and enabling of one another. This will only work if they both change or neither change, but it’s more likely that only one of them will. I would suggest they go to therapy and stop talking about their issues publicly until they’ve actually managed to resolve them.

  • @Soozelove
    @Soozelove 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    When I feel not so good, I just remember there are white straight men in this world that are convinced they will make it big in music, and I feel so much better about myself.

  • @jodilynn9514
    @jodilynn9514 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    😂😂😂 it’s the blinking for me!
    OMG MY BIRTHDAY IS JUNE 18th!! And my wedding anniversary is also on birthday! Sooo we always get one cake that says “Happy birthday, anniversary, Father’s Day”
    I can’t stand people who think they should get praise for being nice. People SHOULD be nice!! They remind me of the people that film themselves do charity work. 🤦🏼‍♀️ I wonder when they are gonna tell her.

  • @francescad299
    @francescad299 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I always think it’s so crazy tying yourself to someone for the rest of your life before you’ve even let your brain fully develop

  • @victoriastargle2929
    @victoriastargle2929 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Being married to matt would be a hazard to my health

  • @scoutz0rs
    @scoutz0rs 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Leaving your kids alone on the room while eating dinner? Okay Madeleine McCann.

  • @terryblevins2516
    @terryblevins2516 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Channels like theirs are so not my thing.. I find both of them very immature... I could careless about that couple.... Its childish to me....

  • @skummelhummel
    @skummelhummel 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    (I know this is totally unrelated, but I love your frog mug! Very cute!)

  • @Leylagioiosa
    @Leylagioiosa 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Cartier bracelet

    • @haz.fellie
      @haz.fellie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      iykyk

  • @kktypescript2137
    @kktypescript2137 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Matt and Abby are the definition of “some thoughts should be kept in your head” 🙄

  • @samsungasonglol
    @samsungasonglol หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love it when you're so fired up 😂 I'm sorry, but it's entertaining