Shane Calvin TV people also need to learn that their opinions aren’t facts. People also need to learn that they don’t have to “just state their opinion “ for half an hour.
Not voicing every opinion doesn't make anyone a "liar" though. If we share every opinion that we have, we'll never stop talking. We have to speak with some sense of purpose, so we have to filter our thoughts. That doesn't mean just telling lies...
thats what my friend says "tell me the truth" SOMEof the times itryed tell her the Truth .. she got soooo mad ... ijust dont SAY anything anymore .. like dude
I tend to be someone who speaks my mind. But not everyone appreciates the truth. With maturity you learn when to say something and when not to say something. Plus everyone who has an opinion to share isn't trying to help you. Some are haters.
I really agree its maturity when you learn to do that.Because I use to be like you stated in the beginning.I use to use me being outspoken as an excuse and blame it on other people if they coldnt take it.And then as I got older I learned it wasnt about me being outspoken.I learned its just not okay to just say what ever you want to people without any regard to if they want to hear it or not.
That's also because your opinion is not the truth and that's a very important line to draw. You need to be able to Express what you think without making people feel inadequate and without being rude. That's real maturity 😉
There’s nothing wrong with sharing an opinion. But there are people who are overbearing and give unsolicited advice and say things out of love but the delivery ends up making the person on the receiving end not want to hear the opinion giver
Sharing your opinion has nothing to do with introversion. Being an introvert vs. extrovert is about how your draw energy. Some of the biggest extroverts never give unsolicited opinions - my brother stays the life of the party, but you have to drag opinions out of him. On the flip side, I’m a huge introvert, but I share my opinion all of the time.
some people tend to be overly critical or overbearing and blame it on being "honest" or "frank" or something. i don't like it. i give my opinion (and it's always gonna be honest) when : - it's something nice - i am asked - i know it can be helpful, or it's constructive criticism if it's unpleasant to hear and there's nothing that can be done about it, i don't see the point in just stating something that nobody asked for
I find it funny how ade says there's a time and a place to give advice or whatever but she put Loni and Jeannie on blast about their food smelling bad on live television LMAOOO
There's nothing wrong with being honest and upfront but there's everything wrong with overstepping boundaries and giving unsolicited advice. Just because it's your opinion and you feel a certain way about things doesn't mean it should be said especially when it doesn't concern or affect you.
like tam would say “it’s not what you say, it’s how you say it” so with opinions, you just need to have good judgement to know when to say something. i’m the friend to tell you straight up if you ask.🤷🏾♂️
Yessir amen! I live by that!! question: is this ugly? 2 answers Heck yeah! Take that off! And Well, that doesn't really match the place we're going, or your body type, or figure or something like that..
I’ve learned that everything doesn’t require a response or an opinion. Time to speak and a time not to speak. I’m with Jeannie on that. I would want her to feel comfortable enough to talk to me.
I know some that says everything doesnt require a response but will shade you or to get at u in other ways my jabbing at u , I would rather the person just state their opinion than being what I think is a back stabber.
Not at Adrienne saying "there's time and place" but she straight up on live tv told Jeannie and Loni their foods smell 🙄🙄 *and it was on the same day smh I don't understand wtf was going through her mind.
I did how are they not your close friends when they were w you almost 24/7 during your wedding. Loni was literally holding her dress. Jeannie and Loni have spent the night at her house. Attended their parties. Im not letting just "work friends" come to my house, sleep in my bed and spend the night. But whatever, that’s what Adrienne thinks🤷🏽♀️ but ik if you were to ask adrienne if she thinks the girls are her actual friends in general she'd say yes
I feel that Adrienne just doesn't want a verbal beat down. She has no problem giving judgemental opinions without listening to the other side at the table. One on one to someone's face? Different story.
Love y’all channel so much keep it up I watch y’all everyday during this whole pandemic keep it making my day all day everyday all day long and congrats Jeannie love you girls
I’m with Jeannie 1000%, but for myself lately I’ve been trying to reprogram the way I share my opinion. I honestly have word vomit- I think it and my mouth says it as I’m thinking it. So, I’ve been trying my best to not say anything until someone asks for it... because like Loni, the look is ALWAYS on my face and I find it also doesn’t come out “right” because it’s so blunt and straightforward. Chyyylleeee no more “in yo feelings” interactions over here😂
I think if you have an opinion there is an appropriate way to express it . If they ASK you for it then say it ... but if not then just be quiet . Use your better judgment. If you find yourself in hot water a lot it’s probably because you’re that person that says stuff off key or very rudely .
i feel you. i think once you've spoken your truth, even if it's hard, you have to let the other person make their own decisions. if that means the opposite of what you said, at least you told them when you could
Honestly I believe that society has become so sensitive that no one is able to say an option just because now days every body feels offended by it .so I rather be quite and keep it to my self , unless is some some one that's opened minded .
I always tell my friends the truth. Even if it hurts. I love them too much to let them be out here lookin like clowns and I hope they would do the same.
I wanna be Jeannie’s friend so damn bad! Love her views on most things! If we’re friends you should feel comfortable to tell me anything🤷🏾♀️ doesn’t mean I have to follow what u said.
MAPULE VELLY Mampuru thank you so much cuz i keep seeing everyone talk about it but i had no idea where this happened lol! thought it might’ve happened on her insta and i missed it or something
I am the most honest person. From experience I know that a lot of people get so angry when you have no filter. Especially my friends. They always get mad and then we end up being friends again. I know im coming off as bragging but I literally am honest.
If I didn't ask you, don't say nothing !! Periodttttt!! Edit: This goes to friends too unless it's so toxic or it will have a massive negative impact on my life
I miss the show being just the 4 of them :( I feel like they have such good chemistry, they're so open and no filter with each other, they connect so well, and they get really funny. I feel like adding a 5th person threw that off a little.
Charlize Ceballos that’s a very fair point, Amanda defo adds a new perspective and is able to discuss things in a lot of depth & is very intelligent when it comes to important issues - however, in terms of the chemistry & vibe of the show, I personally preferred it when it was the 4 of them. But that’s just me 😊
ooo wow actually what ade said about how there is a certain vulnerability to telling how you feel, i've never heard it phrased that way and THAT IS SO TRUE. i am someone who speaks my mind i am like Jeannie, but i also feeeel that vulnerability i think actually that is a difference between close friends vs regular. i mean exclusding the people that feel comfortable telling everyone what they think, there is actually a beautiful vulnerability in telling someone you trust an opinion.
I've made the mistake of putting too much of my friends opinion on a high value and it ended up being toxic because it was unsolicited and blunt to the point where it wasn't just advice it was them being very insensitive and judgmental.
The worst is having a friend that can't handle the truth constantly soliciting opinions just to get mad when people tell them the truth.#itsasetup...#dontfallforit #not fair...🤷🏾🙄
I feel when someone asks to vent or open up good or bad you shouldn’t go adding your 2 cents but if you want my advise I’ll give it to you but don’t be mad when it’s something you don’t want to hear. I feel opinions should be given only when invited into the conversation and once you state your opinions they either take it or leave it don’t keep reiterating what you had said months and weeks later
I like people to be honest to each other. If good friends always speak the truth. (About clothing or makeup we can look at the mirror and see how it looks, so even someone give you a bad comment it shouldn’t bother you)
As to a topic, I think sometimes silence has meaning too so, clarify yourself As to a friend, when I ask go for it, if I don't, please don't As to a stranger, just don't !
Adrienne is like tamera. She's sensitive. She can't take it. She starts getting upset too quickly or she'll get emotional and cry. Jeannie takes it pretty well and with loni it depends.
My close friends I expect 100% honesty, no matter what. That being said, if we arent super close, when I dont ask for your opinion, I'm not looking for it.
I accept people for who they are n I rather have their opinion in my face then to everybody else without them hearing my opinion in return from their opinion
My thing is, I believe in giving your opinion when your asked or if it’s necessary/important. Not everything needs a reply or needs your personal input.
I feel like if you actually feel like your opinion is needed and it may help someone or it’s actually useful to the situation then okay. But some people only share there “opinion” to bring people down or purposely use it for negative reasons and then when someone calls them out on it there only argument is “it’s my opinion” or “I’m entitled to my own opinion”
I give my opinion if it involves me. If I have to look,smell,eat,or hear something then give my opinion. If someone asks me for my opinion I give it. If I can’t say it nicely I ask for sure if they want it but I warn them that it’s brutally honest & a blunt response but I try not to hurt their feelings even if it’s hard to hear. I also always say “U don’t have to take my advice but this is what I’d do”. But the people who ask keep coming back so I guess I give good advice.
I agree with Jeannie. Please tell me!!! Because that person may see something that you don't see. Whether it's me or the other person that needs to be correct, etc. I will honestly think about what the person said keep it in the back of my mind. I'm all about improvement.
At the end of the day we are all human and we know it’s not WHAT you say it’s HOW you say it that makes the person on the other end retrieve your message in a more understanding way.
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with sharing your opinion HOWEVER there are definitely boundaries when you should share your opinion. I feel like usually when people share their opinion they never take into consideration the persons feeling when they are about to share their opinion. I also hate unsolicited advice
I’m thin and I’m always asked if I’m pregnant - just a fat stomach and my twins are 18 lol. It doesn’t really hurt anymore. Who’s asking is usually not thin lol
I used to always get asked if I was pregnant because my posture sucks from a car wreck. I was normally always skinny. Now that I’m 34 weeks along, I’ve gotten asked maybe a handful of times😂
If i was famous i rather keep it to myself but if i see a wrong in the situation I'm gonna say what i need to say. But that's how ppl get cancelled. Cause some celebs that never done a wrong thing in public then state an ignorant opinion for the first time ppl are gonna forgive them just this once. But if i don't want to accept something i won't, so i rather be rich than famous
I feel like if your obviously pregnant and you know your belly is big I don't understand why that's so offensive...but hey different strokes...I feel like people wake up offended and we all need to start taking appraisal of what stems from our own insecurities versus what the person actually said...
People shouldn’t speak their opinion all the time but at the same time not being able to speak your mind at all especially in a friendship is unhealthy too. There has to be a balance.
it's how you approach me with your opinion/Facts. I would say the mood and the timing is right. don't tell me when it's too late. Usually I would ask for it your opinion, if it really mattered and I wanted your take. But if I'm blind to something, and you see something I may not, absolutely pull me back and help me see the big picture.
I agree with Jeannie for the most part but there are some people who are also just toxic haters that only think the worst of a person and say things when they don’t even know you well personally. They are usually simply so off and have no basis to even think or imply anything when it comes to you as they have no idea what they talking about. These people can change the general perception about you and just make my blood boil. So if you don’t know a person well enough, just don’t concern yourself by their personality, intents or anything else about them on a personal level as it’s not your place given you probably don’t know what you talking about. However, if I’m friends with someone and they do know me personally to offer constructive feedback, I appreciate the truth being told directly to me. I want to know the truth, doesn’t hurt my feelings or anything. It’s happened before where I can be a bit much and I absolutely valued and want direct feedback.
I was a preschool teacher, & if we don’t say anything kids definitely will, I had a kid as a mom who was overweight with a big belly if there was a baby in there and she laughed it off and said no.
I’m thinking of setting up a TH-cam channel and everyone was positive about it but my sister came out with “I think you will embarrass your self and it could flop”...it’s just so unnecessary! I get it there a risk it could flop or I get hate but my sister is always so pessimistic, I feel her opinions are never helpful!
What if you have a friend who is telling you personal things about another one of her friends? How do you get out of that situation when you think your friend is wrong?
People dont understand the difference between "People dont wanna hear the truth" VS your opinion isnt necessary in EVERY situation
Shane Calvin TV Thank you. It's difference between being giving a honest opinion vs being straight up rude.
Shane Calvin TV yes. We don’t have to react to everything. Correct.
Shane Calvin TV exactly. You don’t have to share what you’re thinking all the time. Tact is important.
Completely AGREE!!! 2 diff things
Shane Calvin TV people also need to learn that their opinions aren’t facts. People also need to learn that they don’t have to “just state their opinion “ for half an hour.
Congrats to Jeannie and Jeezy’s Engagement 💍🤍🍸.
I agree with Jeannie. I’d rather to be hurt with the truth than happy with a lie.
p. Yes me too ... some people don’t like
p. Most definitely
Not voicing every opinion doesn't make anyone a "liar" though. If we share every opinion that we have, we'll never stop talking. We have to speak with some sense of purpose, so we have to filter our thoughts. That doesn't mean just telling lies...
Jeannie is the one who usually knows what she's talking about.
thats what my friend says "tell me the truth"
SOMEof the times itryed tell her the Truth .. she got soooo mad ...
ijust dont SAY anything anymore .. like dude
I tend to be someone who speaks my mind. But not everyone appreciates the truth. With maturity you learn when to say something and when not to say something. Plus everyone who has an opinion to share isn't trying to help you. Some are haters.
This!
Joe T ☺️speak
Facts
I really agree its maturity when you learn to do that.Because I use to be like you stated in the beginning.I use to use me being outspoken as an excuse and blame it on other people if they coldnt take it.And then as I got older I learned it wasnt about me being outspoken.I learned its just not okay to just say what ever you want to people without any regard to if they want to hear it or not.
That's also because your opinion is not the truth and that's a very important line to draw. You need to be able to Express what you think without making people feel inadequate and without being rude. That's real maturity 😉
There’s nothing wrong with sharing an opinion. But there are people who are overbearing and give unsolicited advice and say things out of love but the delivery ends up making the person on the receiving end not want to hear the opinion giver
I agree
Like Tam always says - it's not what you say, it's HOW you say it!
Rule #1: dont share your political oppinions..save ur opinion for the vote box.
Oops sorry. Didnt mean to write that under your comment.
applepen pineapplepen if someone asks you ...share it but i don’t randomly start talking about politics lmao.
In Tamera own words “ITS NOT WHAT YOU SAY, ITS HOW YOU SAY IT” be honest with me but also be considerate
As an introvert I only share my opinion if someone asks
Im an introvert i share my opinion when im passionate about something regardless
Jaime Garcia me too
As an introvert I only speak when spoken to.
Being a introvert, doesn’t mean that your anti social
Sharing your opinion has nothing to do with introversion. Being an introvert vs. extrovert is about how your draw energy. Some of the biggest extroverts never give unsolicited opinions - my brother stays the life of the party, but you have to drag opinions out of him. On the flip side, I’m a huge introvert, but I share my opinion all of the time.
some people tend to be overly critical or overbearing and blame it on being "honest" or "frank" or something. i don't like it.
i give my opinion (and it's always gonna be honest) when :
- it's something nice
- i am asked
- i know it can be helpful, or it's constructive criticism
if it's unpleasant to hear and there's nothing that can be done about it, i don't see the point in just stating something that nobody asked for
Same
Exactly!!
THIS! All of this!
Good point
agreed
Adrienne looks so good here, I think this is one of her most flattering looks 😍
I find it funny how ade says there's a time and a place to give advice or whatever but she put Loni and Jeannie on blast about their food smelling bad on live television LMAOOO
Lmaooo
hands down the shadiest segment on this show
@@AprilCMango Hands down!!!
That was my first thought when she said that in this segment lmao
Maybe the producers put her up to it and thought it would be a good segment.They set her up because she probably was complaining about it.lol
There's nothing wrong with being honest and upfront but there's everything wrong with overstepping boundaries and giving unsolicited advice. Just because it's your opinion and you feel a certain way about things doesn't mean it should be said especially when it doesn't concern or affect you.
You better say it again!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
A lot of people don't know the difference.
amen
like tam would say “it’s not what you say, it’s how you say it” so with opinions, you just need to have good judgement to know when to say something. i’m the friend to tell you straight up if you ask.🤷🏾♂️
Yessir amen! I live by that!! question: is this ugly?
2 answers
Heck yeah! Take that off!
And
Well, that doesn't really match the place we're going, or your body type, or figure or something like that..
I’ve learned that everything doesn’t require a response or an opinion. Time to speak and a time not to speak. I’m with Jeannie on that. I would want her to feel comfortable enough to talk to me.
I know some that says everything doesnt require a response but will shade you or to get at u in other ways my jabbing at u , I would rather the person just state their opinion than being what I think is a back stabber.
A Parks Right! Nowadays it’s rare to find someone that you can confide in or just give their honest opinion.
Not all comments are welcome. Learn to keep some to yourself.
Lol
Well Damn😐😐😂😂
I really like Jeannie’s perspectives...
Me too! She reminds me of me
yes she’s very deep and introspective.
Congrats to Jeanie and Jeezy's engagement:)
Not at Adrienne saying "there's time and place" but she straight up on live tv told Jeannie and Loni their foods smell 🙄🙄
*and it was on the same day smh I don't understand wtf was going through her mind.
RubyRim ikr that was so awkward
what episode was it?
@@sarahe910 something about food smells
Am I the only one who keeps thinking about how Adrienne didn’t include the others as close friends it kinda rubbed me the wrong way
They only hang out/talk when they're working so it does make sense
I did how are they not your close friends when they were w you almost 24/7 during your wedding. Loni was literally holding her dress. Jeannie and Loni have spent the night at her house. Attended their parties. Im not letting just "work friends" come to my house, sleep in my bed and spend the night. But whatever, that’s what Adrienne thinks🤷🏽♀️ but ik if you were to ask adrienne if she thinks the girls are her actual friends in general she'd say yes
Well she does have a life outside of this. She has her own set of close friends.
You have to remember this show started in like 2013. I'm sure she's had friends since childhood, and growing up that just simply may be closer.
Lmao why are you so worried about it😂 are you close friends with your coworkers?
Anyone else feel like at the end of the day, you don't really know who Adrienne truly is?
Does she even know at this point? Lol she's been an actress too long.
Cause she fake.
Can't believe one thing she says..
She doesn't know
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Yes.
I especially love loni’s makeup today!!
Also, I like how Loni always gets the conversations back on track to the question asked.
I died when Loni did the impression of Tam 😂😂😂😂 I'm dead
I feel that Adrienne just doesn't want a verbal beat down. She has no problem giving judgemental opinions without listening to the other side at the table. One on one to someone's face? Different story.
I don't like unsolicited advice so I never give it. Unless you ask, I'm keeping my opinions to myself.
just to be on the safe side, don't give unsolicited advice unless you really KNOW the person
Right.. See, unsolicited info is different as well. You gotta know that person and be sure its for them!
"And I just dont want to hear nothin!" Lmaooo this segment was funny.
Adrianne actually let others talk this segment...wow
I'm like Jeannie. PLEASE tell me the FULL truth! 😍
Love y’all channel so much keep it up I watch y’all everyday during this whole pandemic keep it making my day all day everyday all day long and congrats Jeannie love you girls
I’m with Jeannie 1000%, but for myself lately I’ve been trying to reprogram the way I share my opinion. I honestly have word vomit- I think it and my mouth says it as I’m thinking it. So, I’ve been trying my best to not say anything until someone asks for it... because like Loni, the look is ALWAYS on my face and I find it also doesn’t come out “right” because it’s so blunt and straightforward. Chyyylleeee no more “in yo feelings” interactions over here😂
Congratulations Jeanie!
I’m really happy for you. You deserve the best and you sure do have the best now because it shows on how you radiate now. 🥰🥰
I think if you have an opinion there is an appropriate way to express it . If they ASK you for it then say it ... but if not then just be quiet . Use your better judgment. If you find yourself in hot water a lot it’s probably because you’re that person that says stuff off key or very rudely .
I tried really hard to warn a coworker about the playboy in the office but she didn’t listen and yup she got burned. Some people are just dumb.
i feel you. i think once you've spoken your truth, even if it's hard, you have to let the other person make their own decisions. if that means the opposite of what you said, at least you told them when you could
Honestly I believe that society has become so sensitive that no one is able to say an option just because now days every body feels offended by it .so I rather be quite and keep it to my self , unless is some some one that's opened minded .
Straight up, like congratulations Jeanie I'm happy that you're in a good place in the midst of broken families shattered apart 👍
Back when I could feel love amongst the ladies, and they were all expressing themselves freely. Gone are the days
I agree we should not always share our opinion, there are boundaries. Like telling someone who they should date or not.
I always tell my friends the truth. Even if it hurts. I love them too much to let them be out here lookin like clowns and I hope they would do the same.
I wanna be Jeannie’s friend so damn bad! Love her views on most things! If we’re friends you should feel comfortable to tell me anything🤷🏾♀️ doesn’t mean I have to follow what u said.
Anyone else notice Adrienne's face when Jeanie said "we keep it real we're close friends" ? 🙈
She kept that facial expression throughout the clip, I don't think she was feeling this topic.
MAPULE VELLY Mampuru where and when?
MAPULE VELLY Mampuru thank you so much cuz i keep seeing everyone talk about it but i had no idea where this happened lol! thought it might’ve happened on her insta and i missed it or something
I don't give it unless asked. But I wear my opinions on my face anyway 😂
Adrienne think she so tough but she the most sensitive defensive always gotta prove otherwise type of person
I only share my opinion when asked. But I also understand how it’s good to be open and honest without feeling hesitant to open up about how you feel.
I prefer the truth at all times and evens though certain things might hurt , it helps me reflect and do some deep thinking
I am the most honest person. From experience I know that a lot of people get so angry when you have no filter. Especially my friends. They always get mad and then we end up being friends again. I know im coming off as bragging but I literally am honest.
If I didn't ask you, don't say nothing !! Periodttttt!!
Edit: This goes to friends too unless it's so toxic or it will have a massive negative impact on my life
Bahaha
I only SHARE what I feel needs to be shared!!👌🏽
Wow, Adrienne looks like a barbie in this!!
4 of them remind me of the POWERPUFF GIRLS.... Tamera is Bubble 😂😂
Sometimes your opinion isn’t always needed tbh lol
I miss the show being just the 4 of them :( I feel like they have such good chemistry, they're so open and no filter with each other, they connect so well, and they get really funny. I feel like adding a 5th person threw that off a little.
Charlize Ceballos that’s a very fair point, Amanda defo adds a new perspective and is able to discuss things in a lot of depth & is very intelligent when it comes to important issues - however, in terms of the chemistry & vibe of the show, I personally preferred it when it was the 4 of them. But that’s just me 😊
ooo wow actually what ade said about how there is a certain vulnerability to telling how you feel, i've never heard it phrased that way and THAT IS SO TRUE. i am someone who speaks my mind i am like Jeannie, but i also feeeel that vulnerability i think actually that is a difference between close friends vs regular. i mean exclusding the people that feel comfortable telling everyone what they think, there is actually a beautiful vulnerability in telling someone you trust an opinion.
I've made the mistake of putting too much of my friends opinion on a high value and it ended up being toxic because it was unsolicited and blunt to the point where it wasn't just advice it was them being very insensitive and judgmental.
It’s all situational, I suppose 🤷🏽♀️
Capricorn gang! We can dish it out and we can take it! Get you a Capricorn friend we bomb out here 💁🏼♀️
Truee😂 i find myself seriously giving my opinion to my friends all the time. I just want us to be able to talk about stuff.
Loni "and I just don't want to hear nothing" 😂
The worst is having a friend that can't handle the truth constantly soliciting opinions just to get mad when people tell them the truth.#itsasetup...#dontfallforit #not fair...🤷🏾🙄
They friendship really shined here ♥️
I feel when someone asks to vent or open up good or bad you shouldn’t go adding your 2 cents but if you want my advise I’ll give it to you but don’t be mad when it’s something you don’t want to hear.
I feel opinions should be given only when invited into the conversation and once you state your opinions they either take it or leave it don’t keep reiterating what you had said months and weeks later
I looooooove Tamera’s dress! I need it in my life 🥰🥰
I like people to be honest to each other. If good friends always speak the truth. (About clothing or makeup we can look at the mirror and see how it looks, so even someone give you a bad comment it shouldn’t bother you)
Adrienne needs to lighten up and take a joke😒
Adrienne, listen up!
Tamera looks bomb!!! I love those earrings!
I just have to say this....Loni I love u n ur facial expressions 😂😂😂
As to a topic, I think sometimes silence has meaning too so, clarify yourself
As to a friend, when I ask go for it, if I don't, please don't
As to a stranger, just don't !
Adrienne is like tamera. She's sensitive. She can't take it. She starts getting upset too quickly or she'll get emotional and cry. Jeannie takes it pretty well and with loni it depends.
My close friends I expect 100% honesty, no matter what. That being said, if we arent super close, when I dont ask for your opinion, I'm not looking for it.
Yes Tamera, I agree with the whole pregnancy thing.
I accept people for who they are n I rather have their opinion in my face then to everybody else without them hearing my opinion in return from their opinion
My thing is, I believe in giving your opinion when your asked or if it’s necessary/important. Not everything needs a reply or needs your personal input.
I feel like if you actually feel like your opinion is needed and it may help someone or it’s actually useful to the situation then okay. But some people only share there “opinion” to bring people down or purposely use it for negative reasons and then when someone calls them out on it there only argument is “it’s my opinion” or “I’m entitled to my own opinion”
I give my opinion if it involves me. If I have to look,smell,eat,or hear something then give my opinion. If someone asks me for my opinion I give it. If I can’t say it nicely I ask for sure if they want it but I warn them that it’s brutally honest & a blunt response but I try not to hurt their feelings even if it’s hard to hear. I also always say “U don’t have to take my advice but this is what I’d do”. But the people who ask keep coming back so I guess I give good advice.
I agree with Jeannie. Please tell me!!! Because that person may see something that you don't see. Whether it's me or the other person that needs to be correct, etc. I will honestly think about what the person said keep it in the back of my mind. I'm all about improvement.
4:07 Loni nailed that impression of Tam 😂😂
I’m dead. I can just imagine Tamera sitting down and saying, “God told me to use discernment,” because that reminds me of my aunt lol.
Man, those old uploads made me realise how much I miss Jeannie being in the middle
I feel like Jeannie complimented Adrienne towards the end bc she sensed Adrienne in her feelings. She's a good friend.
At the end of the day we are all human and we know it’s not WHAT you say it’s HOW you say it that makes the person on the other end retrieve your message in a more understanding way.
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with sharing your opinion HOWEVER there are definitely boundaries when you should share your opinion. I feel like usually when people share their opinion they never take into consideration the persons feeling when they are about to share their opinion.
I also hate unsolicited advice
read the room girl have the wisdom to know when to share. I feel certain ppl feel entitled to always sharing what they when sometimes, nobody asked??
I’m thin and I’m always asked if I’m pregnant - just a fat stomach and my twins are 18 lol. It doesn’t really hurt anymore. Who’s asking is usually not thin lol
I used to always get asked if I was pregnant because my posture sucks from a car wreck. I was normally always skinny. Now that I’m 34 weeks along, I’ve gotten asked maybe a handful of times😂
No, be quiet sometimes!
Share your opinion only when needed, and only share that opinion once.
NOPE, I'm that guy that will tell a woman's boyfriend she may be pregnant by someone else!!! 😈
Emanual Carr lmaoooo
@@emanualcarr7408 And how would you know?
If i was famous i rather keep it to myself but if i see a wrong in the situation I'm gonna say what i need to say. But that's how ppl get cancelled. Cause some celebs that never done a wrong thing in public then state an ignorant opinion for the first time ppl are gonna forgive them just this once. But if i don't want to accept something i won't, so i rather be rich than famous
You have to know who your talking to...knowing that person well enough to be brutally honest
Loni looks so pretty!!! 🤩
Adrienne doesnt consider Loni, Jeannie, and Tam as friends tho👏👏👏
If you have nothing nice to say don't say it at all is what I've preached to siblings so
No because they point fingers so clarifying the truth is at times necessary. Not saying anything is detramental at times.
Maybe they asked if she was having twins since she’s a twin?
I feel like if your obviously pregnant and you know your belly is big I don't understand why that's so offensive...but hey different strokes...I feel like people wake up offended and we all need to start taking appraisal of what stems from our own insecurities versus what the person actually said...
I can relate to Adrienne.
People shouldn’t speak their opinion all the time but at the same time not being able to speak your mind at all especially in a friendship is unhealthy too. There has to be a balance.
it's how you approach me with your opinion/Facts. I would say the mood and the timing is right. don't tell me when it's too late. Usually I would ask for it your opinion, if it really mattered and I wanted your take. But if I'm blind to something, and you see something I may not, absolutely pull me back and help me see the big picture.
I agree with Jeannie for the most part but there are some people who are also just toxic haters that only think the worst of a person and say things when they don’t even know you well personally. They are usually simply so off and have no basis to even think or imply anything when it comes to you as they have no idea what they talking about. These people can change the general perception about you and just make my blood boil. So if you don’t know a person well enough, just don’t concern yourself by their personality, intents or anything else about them on a personal level as it’s not your place given you probably don’t know what you talking about. However, if I’m friends with someone and they do know me personally to offer constructive feedback, I appreciate the truth being told directly to me. I want to know the truth, doesn’t hurt my feelings or anything. It’s happened before where I can be a bit much and I absolutely valued and want direct feedback.
I was a preschool teacher, & if we don’t say anything kids definitely will, I had a kid as a mom who was overweight with a big belly if there was a baby in there and she laughed it off and said no.
Always depends on the person and relationship you have. I love that about my best friend, buy if we ain't close...keep it to yourself.
there's a time and a place and how Tamera always says it's not what you say, it's how you say is when it comes to opinions
2:44 reminds me of that Missy Elliot song
That’s what she was referencing
I’m thinking of setting up a TH-cam channel and everyone was positive about it but my sister came out with “I think you will embarrass your self and it could flop”...it’s just so unnecessary! I get it there a risk it could flop or I get hate but my sister is always so pessimistic, I feel her opinions are never helpful!
Sam S Yes, Do it! I’d subscribe 🌝
What if you have a friend who is telling you personal things about another one of her friends? How do you get out of that situation when you think your friend is wrong?
I used to talk a lot, but I just do it if someone ask me, but if is someone that I really care, I would say it