Young Homeless Man Shares Real Truth About Sleeping Rough in Cardiff, Wales.
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 ก.พ. 2025
- Andy has been sleeping rough in Cardiff, Wales for the last three weeks. Andy's dad is an alcoholic and he feels safer sleeping outside than at home with family.
When I first saw Andy is was sleeping. As a rule, I never wake anyone up. Andy shares about how he has been walking around at night and desperate for sleep. Sleep deprivation is common for homeless people sleeping rough. A good nights sleep is rare.
Although Andy shares about rough sleeping in the United Kingdom, the challenges of living on the streets homelessness are the same in the United States and Canada. People don't just walk by, they spit on you and call you names. People even with good intentions give an overabundance of food yet refuse to help with money or other basics needs besides Mcdonalds or Burger King meals.
Here's a post I wrote about panhandling and people begging for money: “Giving Money to Homeless People Is Okay byrslf.co/givi...
Andy's story is powerful. He's only 21 years old and he's experiencing more pain and suffering than any young adult should. Sadly, Andy's story is far too common among homeless young adults. Instead of giving a sandwich we all must work together to end homelessness.
Thanks to all of your support, we got Andy inside tonight. He found me a little while after this interview with all of the change he had made from panhandling in his hand and said "I am going to give this to a charity box." Just by helping him get inside tonight it changed everything.
Special thanks to Crisis www.crisis.org.uk
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A homeless friend once shared a story about when he needed a toothbrush. He stood in front of a grocery store displaying a sign asking for money to buy the toothbrush. It wasn’t long before people started to give him food. He gratefully accepted multiple bags of fast food meals as he tried to collect money to buy a toothbrush. He set the bags next to him. Although it was clear he had already been given food, people continued to give him more. He never was able to purchase the toothbrush he needed.
Jeffery is homeless in Toronto, Canada. “You’re cold. You get soaking wet. You never know where you’re going to sleep,” Jeffery said about homelessness. He also went on to say that the one thing you don’t have to worry about is food when you are homeless. th-cam.com/video/0RPnZkL-6H8/w-d-xo.html
People like to give food. Nonprofits have programmed the public the homeless people need food because they know people will donate money for food programs. For those of you having an issue with Andy talking about throwing away Burger King the point Andy is trying to make is he already gets plenty of food - too much food even - yet people still keep giving him food and more food. What would you do with 15 hamburgers?
The public needs to be educated about homelessness and real needs. The simple solution is to ask and listen - then help when you can.
You can never go wrong giving out socks - How to Give Socks to Homeless People. th-cam.com/video/RVHaf4FtsfE/w-d-xo.html
Another option is period products for homeless women. Some cities have organizations set up for this exact purpose.
That is why when someone begs for money I give them what they need. A ride, food, blanks, or toiletries but never money.
As you say, talk and listen is the most important thing. Only then can you help them.
Invisible People help them find a job instead taking videos and post.
No, it's not the "most important" thing. They need REAL help. Don't pester the homeless trying to talk to them because YOU think that's what they want.
I was homeless at the age of 21. Very difficult. I remember just walking. Walking with no destination. I'll never forget it. Now I got my own place. God bless
Nice to know you could get out of the situation David
Homeless people really are tough, much tough than what i thought. God bless you buddy
Me too. In fact it make me almost crazy and almost being a prostitute. But god have another plan, now still trying to get myself in the path
i've never actually been homeless, but i ran away from home when i was a teenager and like u, i just walked and kept on walking with no destination. i was in a dark place.....those years.
Nice to know, god bless you
Homeless people never cry, until they tell you how hard their life is.
I Said yes
Being poor is one of the hardest things there is to go through, (I've been poor) but I can't even imagine being homeless that's worse than being poor .
It breaks my heart. I was there once but not at that age. I wonder how he is now? Almost unbearable to watch. He reminds me of my son... hair and all. So bitterly cold there. I do hope his life turned out for the better.
I was homeless two years till I got off drugs 6 months ago. It’s no life it’s hell
True
The extreme pain this young man is going through is unacceptable.
It breaks my heart to . There has to be a way to help him .
@@marcysere1081 he can get off his butt and work
It is..... It truly is..
This is the result of your beloved capitalism
It's really sad that this young man until 2 months ago was still living on the streets, is this how the UK government treats its young people?...
https : / / www . walesonline . co . uk / news / wales-news / homeless-mans-heartbreaking-message-tory-15739289
Good news, this boy is doing well for himself now, I read last night that he got some help around 18 months ago and is thriving! Big up Andy, he is ok!
oh that's great news... i was scrolling the comments hoping that someone would give an update on him. Good on him for getting out and not getting lost further into this instead. Defo shouldn't have been out there in the first place!
Glad to know Andy is well 👍
Where did h ready to it
@@chloehouse4587 I know the family somewhat, I saw on his family Facebook he doing miles better - big up Andy, a great example that even at the lowest point there is hope 💎
❤ I hope he is well. Only a heartless person wouldn't feel for someone is this horrible predicament
There's a special place in hell for people who abuse the homeless.
X12 That's everyone in a society that allows people to become homeless.
This guy is smarter than he looks. Should be off the streets
@@paulfoss5385 I agreed ! We don't make them homeless , but together we have the responsibility to create a better world and make sure there should be no human beings are being abandoned on the streets .
The rich are going to hell . That's why they are doing their self gratification here on earth . They know where they are going forever .
@@maylai6549 💖
I've never wanted to hug someone more in my life.
@Robert Vaughn he gets about 15 hamburgers. What the fuck does he need 15 hamburgers for? He said it, he need essentials! He's not ungrateful, he's just saying that people would rather feel good buying a burger than give him money so he could buy things he actually needs
@@girlfriendPunky yeah and it's better to eat 2 burgers instead of 15 a day, health and everything taken into consideration.
Robert Vaughn Ahh, the response of a degenerate with low IQ... You’re probably just as bad because judging by the way you responded , you are definitely a chav on some benefits from the government. So, really, you’re worse than someone who is homeless.
@Robert Vaughn I'd rather be him than you. Awful little miserable thing.
@@boobella899 Your words betray you. Try harder to at least appear not to be a shallow thing. Good luck with that.
Parents, please do your job and take care of your children. They deserve to be loved, not this.
Parents don't give a damn anymore 2019. If you are over 18 you are thrown to the street
Wait what? More kids are living with their parents over the age of 18 then ever before.
How about kids grow up and take care of yourself and stop waiting for handouts?
Yoo that’s bullshit ones you get to the age of 18 you have to do it on your own I did it I my own since I was 12. But guess what thank God I'm not afraid of any kind hard work, unfortunately, that wasn't the case with my other 2 sisters 1 brother they don't want to leave my mom's house
All kids that are 0 to 25 need to be cared by parents no matter how old the parents are, decendants matter more because it is almost 2020.
I burst into tears watching this video. I'm ashamed being a human being.
Thank you so much for commenting this ❤ i am also ashamed of being a homo-sapien 💔
we should be me thinks - I sometimes don't know why the "Big Guy upstairs" doesn't just hit the "smite" button on the whole circus. @@aleksandrosz6576
Mental illness is awful.
Im crying. This guy is my age. I want to help him so bad.
Me too!
Amigo. What do know now about the boy?
What about the others?
@@shahindary8408 Hi, u r right . That boy called some people attention , i wanted to know.
Sam Joseph
Rule Britannia
His expression of pain and his crying voice breaks my heart :(
Te llegan al corazón sus palabras
I know
Chloe Lee 😢😢😢
Chloe Lee hmu🥰
Same
A house. A family. A job.
How many of us in the world that have that dont appreciate how lucky we are
Millions but people today look to be offended !! Sad!!
You're so right
This is the result of your beloved capitalism
IsItHardToBeVegan? Don't be an idiot. This is the result of failed government policies
Johan R which are all based on this capitalistic ideology of selfishness, abuse, injustice. In today’s world you are nothing but a simple number to your employer and every human being strives to gather as much money / power as possible and in their crazy run of gathering as much money as possible they leave behind these nasty social marks called homeless people. It is just like in the jungle: some don’t survive due to this extreme selfishness and abuse that there is.
“Thank you for even stopping and even speaking to me” man I really hope this guy has found solace and a home 🙏🏻
This young man has inspired me. I'm going to make up some basic kits. Toothbrush , toothpaste, mouthwash, deodorant, couple pairs of socks, two water bottles some wet wipes. Keep a few in my truck. Just in case. Best of luck to this young man.
Great! Will do as well :)
Elwin Wagemans
Thank you any help is always greatly appreciated.
This is actually a great idea.
A lotta of homeless people are mentally ill. This kid obviously not. Approach with caution
Victoria Evans was thinking the same thing, will definitely be doing the same ..
I live in Cardiff, and I have walked past this man. Not knowing his story and falling into the idea that he must be a drug addict of some sort. This has opened my eyes and as soon as I am back from work travels. I am going to offer him a place to stay and help him get on his feet. He needs the help!
can you update us on this please?
I hope this comment is real
whatsup, anyupdate ???
What is the status of were you able to help him ?
That is wonderful i wanna donate money to him
“We carry a blanket with us because the world is cold” .. We’re just trying to stay warm .. -That one hit me 🙏
And what did you do? What have you done? Have you done something for the last 2 weeks? Did you try make a change in this world? Or did you just get hit and kept walking?
Gramald bruh 😂
@@Gramald okay alien lookin thing
Gramald it just hit him bro calm down
Six Chrystalize thank You Bro Lol
He looks so kind and innocent… 🥺
This young man is only a year older than my son. This breaks my heart. He is only a kid.
Ian MacPherson so sad :(
he is only a year older than me.... I couldn't even FATHOM to go through that..
He’s not a kid. You see your son as a kid because he’s your son. But this is very unfortunate and sad nonetheless.
@@nadermaroun8411 He IS a kid!!!
I toook my son yesterday to check out his dorm at university I am bless !!! Hope this young men finds peace and a place to live..
I can't believe there are people who actually spat at him. Monsters.
I found em all and put them to sleep 👣
@@lazarbeamniko7117 Not a bad idea... After all.
It disgusts me
@@sajamily2404 I killed em dw ☠
I'd spit at him
The pain on his face makes me cry
maaaaaaaan, i couldn't stop crying. it fucking hurts
Bawhcs L. Dont fall for it the marks on his face are from crack and spice
😭😭😭😭
This world isn’t fair this poor man
Its the game he plays its all put on his family dont want him in there houses because he steals off them for drugs all the time
i started crying when he said he embarrassed to carry a blanket in the streets
I have pains in my stomach from hearing him talk, I feel so bad
Same
I ve read penis, lol
Me too 😔
I learned something from this video. I never realized that homeless people don't just need food. They need money to buy other things they need.
wrong if a true homless owns things they are gone in a min homless have nowhere to secure what they own it will be stolen mony is only good for drugs alcohol mcdonalds tru homless get there shoes stolen let lone tooth brush
Sounds like he needs a job tho.. if he’s already living on the streets, work somewhere for a week and stay positive, folks will help him!
@@joemom1012 you know that you can keep something small as a toothbrush at all times on you, right? it's not like shoes...
I had a lot harder time sympathizing with him when he started complaining about people giving him food, ngl.
Duhhhh
This is one of the toughest interviews I've watched. We have to be better to each other on this planet
Point blank! Hats off to ya!
Yea man.. couldnt agree more
I totally agree with you Eddie. I live alone and have often thought about taking in a homeless individual like this young man but I’m too afraid.
I’m crying, poor him. God bless him! Someone help him please
true, I wish I talked to him, he can stay at my home anytime
The moment he started to cry it made me realize how blessed we are typing here comments on TH-cam while laying on our bed or couch and having a roof over ur head and food to eat anytime.
How can a human hurt another human who's already in much pain?...
People don't have hearts
Every matter has an antimatter so for every good person in the world there would also be a bad person with no morals
evil
Because they feel superior when they do it :(((( but if hurts them people than they're already experiencing
I really wanna catch someone spit on a homeless person.this poor guy is not even sure if he wants to live and people are spitting at him it infuriated me.
I can hear the pain in his voice. And I can see the pain in his face.
😥
Very sad.😞
They can bring it on when they see their next smack fix.
This young man is going through extreme pain as homeless. We have to help him immediatly.
@Elena Timofte the Government all Governments are to blame, society's to blame
@@tauempire1793 If it wasn't for the government, we would all be homeless
@@gilgameshashur4554 Yes that is true but they are to blame for homelessness as well if you come to places like the UK and even many places in the US there is so much rundown areas with people who have no homes so yh it's the governments fault
ur a few years too late homie
@@DJMetro69 oof
Thank you so much for sharing this. We have given fast food to the homeless who held a sign saying they were hungry. We didn’t realize that that wasn’t what they truly needed. Thanks for making us more aware.
If someone is desperately hungry they will appreciate anything.
Choice is nice but not a necessity.
If they have a sign for food, that’s fine. Andy isn’t asking/displaying for food.
Blind obedience. That's why your existence and your friends are stupid.
@@miamitten1123Well he's an able bodied young man. Put your old address down and get a job.
@@Silverado1234People are idiots
Never judge a man until you've walked in his shoes.... Very sad, I hope Andy has found some help...
True ,and it can happen to us ,we'll never know.
That’s really true
@@ArtbyArnel8291 he committed suicide and he got robbed and beaten up and he was starving in the cold and after that he comitted suicide. Someone in the comments told us and sent us the link
@@poweredbrain5948 he committed suicide
@@mumtas4469 where's the link
Years ago when was homeless, the hardest part of that experience was the total lack of eye contact.
Wow........
I will remember that.....
H Daniel Noble Bit of a challenge when the face is on the end of my boot.
I find it hard to make eye contact with anyone. The eyes are windows to the soul.
@@jasonhand7334 People trust people far less if they can't look someone in the eye.
Eye contact not only makes you more trustable but respectable as well.
Go find some help or practice eye contact. I recommend The Charisma Matrix on youtube my dude, all the lessons I never got from my dead father growing up and living in a broken home, that channel has helped me a lot.
Please, youtube "charisma matrix eye contact".
For me it was the unnecessary comments people would make as they walked by.
I wish I could give him a hug. I can feel his pain.
You won't get story everytime . You see any1 just help if your heart says
Yah man same
Me too
@Matricx700 yeah true they don't need hug these people, they need bath. They stink
I feel his pain too. That is why I'm asking...can you help me find Andy and bring him home to me?
I posted this on my Facebook page.
This man is so honest about his scenario!
I just wonder how that this young man is doing today
Its the first i've seen someome cried in this channel. He dont deserve this. God bless him.
he's an abusive lying drug user, don't waste your tears on him.
@@philhorsell2412 Do you know him
Do you help him
Phil Horsell If you have nothing good to say, keep quiet
@@philhorsell2412 You don't know him Have never met him never helped him
He doesn't sleep at National Car Parks as you have
Phil Horsell you’re so ignorant its sad
Hearing this guy really broke my heart as he didn’t choose this life.
Actually, he did. If you read the video description, he CHOSE to be homeless.
@Henry Bury It is. But sometimes it's better with the devil you know, rather than the devil you don't. Meaning, he has a choice to go home to his parent's house where he will be sheltered and fed, but chooses not to and live in a far worse situation where nobody will help him. Still, I hope he manages to turn his life around!
How do you know what the truth is why he's sat there? Bless him, but he chose to be there!
@@JynxedKoma yeah it was either stay at home with an abusive alcoholic father or be homeless, what would you choose then? its not like he had a perfect life and thought, yeah let's just throw it all away to be homeless
@@nickycotton6137 really? are you that dumb?
The last words exchanged "thank you very much for talking" "thank you very much for stopping" made me burst out crying and I don't know why.
It made me cry too,knowing that of all the the things he's going through he still able to say thank you and appreciate everything around him,such a good person he is.
You wouldn't believe how many people just walk by without even glancing. I was on my way home from work one day. Got off the bus and headed towards queen street station, and there was a homeless man huddled up in the corner. I didn't have any money to give him, but I had cigarettes and I had time. I gave him some cigarettes and sat down with him for a chat. I couldn't believe how many people walk past in their own little world, or laughing amongst their friends when somebody is literally at their feet struggling. How many hundreds of them have a 50 pence piece in their pocket, and they won't even give that. It genuinely is unbelievable.
I haven't seen him for a long time now. I often wonder how he's doing. I didn't catch his name, sadly.
Me too😭😭😭
Because you're a chicken
He is a decent guy and he deserves so much better. If i lived in Wales i would take him in straight away ! Don't give up hope !!
Young men are abandoned by society too easily.
AllGuts NoGlory 90% of homeless are men. If it was 90% women, there would be an uproar. But we'll never know because that will never happen.
+Billy W - sooooooo TRUE my friend-!!!
Weak men. Like the cameraman says, "Stay strong!"
Yeah and women always say men have the easiest life's
I would say all men. Equal rights is a good thing, its a shame it isnt equal though.
How people can be nasty like spit that beautiful and honest guy
Some people have no hearts, I guess.
@@thomashadleigh2575 Not some people but everybody...
@@urosnestorov9546 Thats not true it may seem that way at times...theres ALOT of good people out there tho...
@@blueforest2927 Im not being negative or something but there are lots of BAD people too....
@John Smith Ahahahaha why would i speak for myself,there is a lot of bad people all around the world.People just became violent and abusive,i hate today's society!
When I was 18 years old I was living on the streets of London going through the same issues problems as you. I woke up one day and said enough. I walked straight into an army recruitment centre in the Strand London and said I want to join the army. This was the biggest and most important decision of my life. In the army you get fed, housed and paid a kings ransom. That was 26 years ago. Since then I have left the army, been to university, got a masters degree and now I work for a top global company as a consultant. I earn a fantastic salary that I never thought was possible. I have no regrets about making that decision 26 years ago. Today you need to go to 8th Floor, Southgate House, 84 Wood Street and ask about joining the Army. A big decision that will change your life for the better.
Id agree.Unfortunately and as I'm sure your aware the Army isn't the same thing it was 26 years ago. Most of the recruitment process these days is done over the phone. You need to have an Email address and a working smartphone to download an app before you even talk to a serving soldier face to face. If however he rocked up at an office and told them the situation its just luck of the draw if there is an actual serving recruitment team there that can help him through the process. Not just a MOD contracted civvie in a 'be the best tracksuit' who only knows how to play dvds and what one certain unit did during 1984 to 2002. During peace times it would be trickier as the MOD doesn't pump as much into recruiting . Also remember its not for everyone and no matter how completely useless some of your blokes have been, it does take a certain type of person to even see it as a possibility.
Barney Geddes agreed
it is we who put one foot before the other who go forward ...sitting beggars make me puke...
The military is a good option if its your only option, but then you are a servant of the military industrial complex. The modern miltaries (and in Britain's case, their old empire) of the west throw their weight around the world for PROFIT/POWER/RESOURCES at the expense of innocent communities. No blood for oil, minerals, and strategic lands. Please don't join the military. If you are American, consider joining Americorps, a domestic community service program that trains/pays young people.
ok boomer
the way you capture the essence and emotion of these people is such a gift..
I HAVE NEVER SEEN A SAD GUY MORE THAN HIM...HE IS IN PAIN...GENERALLY MEN'S DON'T CRY BUT THEY CRY ONLY IF THEY ARE IN DEEP PAIN 😰
Ankit Srivastava makes me cry poor guy
WHERE CAN I FIND HIM
@@Kam-tm2hm at queen street, centre of cardiff...
Kamas Nicholes 👆👆
The most hardest interview ever watched in my entire life... Man.. I wish I could help him.
I feel so bad for this boy! This actually made me cry! I wish someone in his country would help him! 😢
What county is he from?
@@maximillianmus4611 Britian
@@grahaml334 He is traumatized from his father's addiction. He needs compassion in order to gain the tools to cope.
@@grahaml334 according to who? Manhood is not objective every country has its own definition. If a man is a fully developed male the he's not one since people don't stop developing till age 25. What's your defintion of manhood
UK
I would seriously love to donate money to this dude , never has a video made me cry 😢
There are hundreds of thousands of Andy's in the world. Find one local to you and give what you can.
same :(
Who live in Cardiff Wales,go find him and help him! PLEASE!!!!😭😭😭
@MeadhbhNi spot on.
@MeadhbhNi facts
I do. I havent seen this guy yet. Maybe he left.
UK ??
@@romanhp142 yes, wales.
Can someone just take him home? He needs a family that will care for him. I cried just by watching this. My heart goes out to this young man.
Why don't you? Housing isn't free
I am scared what will happen to him. He seems too emotional and weak right now. Maybe be he has anxiety and malnutrition. His face shows injury maybe he was attacked by gangs. Don't know what he will do.
You wouldn't be able to get job seekers allowance in that situation, you need to be actively seeking work to qualify but how can you apply for jobs when you don't have a phone number, address, etc
Pumpkingilmour hes not lying, i think he is uninformed about these things ur talking about.
He looks so torn down and broken like he wants to cry.. poor guy.. i think he needs a mama... someone to hug and love him and bring him in.
sup mama? goo goo gaa gaa. lmao
same
Oh, boy! This guy is younger than my son. The way he talks simply broke my heart and led me to tears. I do believe him and I hope he' s just given an opportunity in life.
When he said "I'm at that stage where I dont know if I want to live or die." I felt it way too much.
That's actually a normal thought for when you don't have much to lose you keep asking yourself is all that hassle worth my answer is yes it's worth the hassle
"Have a nice house, have a nice job, and have a family."
I'm 25 years old, and my mom and dad were extreme alcoholics my whole life. From 9 years old I've lived in motels ridden with bed bugs, and slum apartments.
I'm in my own place now and have been for 3 years.
What he wished for hits home for me so hard because he's suffering just like I did. I did everything I could to get away from my father when I lived with him, including sleeping in parks or going wherever I could just to be free of it all. I wish I could speak to him and let him know that one day things will get better. He needs a good friend and someone to lift him up. I hope from the bottom of my soul he finds reprieve. If there is a god, I pray they show him mercy.
If there wasn't a GOD you wouldn't of made it out of what you where going through it's time to give you're life to JESUS and give him a chance!
@@soldierforyeshua1 I'm not here to argue about religious beliefs, I just wanted to share my feelings for this hurting soul. Please don't make it about religion.
I was raised in a Christian family. I was devout, even considered becoming an evangelical like yourself, but I can't deny my reality. There is no reason for me to draw the conclusion that there is a god, or even that there is not a god. All I know is that I know nothing.
@@user-xj2td9sd7w that's the problem its not becoming a pastor ect it's about have a relationship with JESUS by faith most of these church's and pastor's are not of GOD! The Kenneth copeland the Paula white the benny Hines ect they are all sold out for money you need to come out of the corrupt church system! And get a personal relationship with JESUS right in you're own home or basement ect and ask him to lead you by his Holy Spirit and everything else will fall into place!
Total respect for overcoming such hardship, beating the odds and making something of your life. People who have been lucky enough to have been brought up in a loving, stable family don’t have any idea what it takes to find the strength inside to raise yourself. All the best for success and happiness in every aspect of your life.
I have a feeling this conversation stopped him from wanting to die, and gave him hope to see a brighter future.
Hopefully 🙏🏾.. because bad situations tend to repeat themselves
@tac0cat hes trolling im pretty sure
@galexio Give me the proof!
@@siddharthkumaryadav8565 what did he say??
I'm the same age as Andy and watching this made me realize that this could've been me instead of him. Also that I need to appreciate the life I have and take nothing for granted. My heart breaks for Andy, even more so because he is a peer. I hope Andy has found peace in his life by now, up to a certain extent at least and I'm praying for youngsters like him because everyone deserves a good life ❤️
Imma say this loud and clear if you can’t take care of yourself or a child don’t have one! There’s people having kids and treating them so bad. His parents failed him. Imagine wanting to be so far from your dad that you would rather be homeless. It’s sad. Really sad. I feel so bad for him
Yes, I agree and say it thousand times
I do agree towards a certain extent. He is an adult now. The parents are going with societal rules of being financially stabled at age 18. The fact that the legal age for becoming an adult (18) is perfound. The fact that this is not considered as child neglect because of the legal age makes America the worst state of all. (Actually America is the worst state of all besides the legal age for becoming an adult)
Edit :I just realized this took place in Europe. Both America and eruope have similarities and differences.
r/HolUp
This happened in UK btw
His father probably beats him, so how can he accept such abuse from a drunken father?
Everytime he said “thank you for stopping” my heart ached. Hope he’s in a better situation now.
@Yousif Omar shit. really unfortunate but appreciate you letting me know. Rest In Peace :/
@Yousif Omar give source
@A Godartti oh wow I don't know why I assumed he was being honest. Ya'll are right, shouldn't trust anything without a source.
I'd be so happy to know he is safe.
imagine having a father so bad that you would rather be homeless than live with him... all prayers to this guy 🙏🏻🙏🏿🙏🏾🙏🏽🙏🏼🙏. hope he makes it through this tough period.
this is really heartbreaking story, and i think this young guy is nice person. he is deserved to be given a chance since he is only 21, if i was living in LA, i would like to find and help him.
He’s in Cardiff uk
@@SKATESPOTSWORLDWIDE that a joke. Easily.
Please keep us updated on Andy if possible
Nancy Smith-Paz, YAAAS, he deserves better & was so greatful to be given the time to conversate, would ❤to 😊👂 hear an update 👍 as well!
Sadly Andy past away on the 20th of July 2018. Forever in our hearts!.. RIP Andy.
^this guy is lying^
Jason Murphy Did he really?
Jason Murphy not true just seen him in town at the place in the video
I began crying seeing this, almost like I know him. You can tell he’s a good man. And he’s so beautiful.
Damn. This guy is spitting out some reality. I've seen many of these videos, but this one stands out. It's sad he is blessed with the ability to see the truth, but he can't change it. Maybe a sign with drawn on what he needs could help a little. Next time I'll see a homeless person I'll ask what he needs/wants.
Vinc Vinc Me too,
me too
Yup
Compliment thief, ikr? being kind and empathetic to people in a bad situation is "virtue signaling" and therefore must be avoided at all costs.
If you say so. Then you're virtue signaling with your sarcasm. What you should do is carry out the act of shutting up.
this video made me cry so much, how could anyone spit at such a innocent person there are monsters out there, i seriously wish i could help him and hug this man, im crying my eyes out man... i hope hes better now :(
The part that did it for me and made me a blubbering mess was when he said he held off carrying a blanket for two weeks because he was embarrassed, but now he doesn't care ... if I had 3 wishes Id wish for him the life he deserves.a happy one full of warmth and love..
Amen LORD give him his hearts desire
I’m shocked. I’m only one year younger than him. His story make me appreciate that I have a home. I really hope he’ll have a bright future one day
I believe he will. You should have seen the smile on his face when he left to go get inside for the night.
Invisible People you Mark are one of the few that people really trust on the streets. You were there, suffering like him but now you have returned to help. You're amazing!
No good hoping do something about it the next person you walk by give them whatever money you can afford
@@InvisiblePeople Hi 👋 Do you have update or contact with Andy? There are people like me and many others who would like to help him 🥺 Can you provide contacts when you interview people? Thank you 🙏
He has only been on the streets two weeks, has no one and is suicidal. Give the poor guy a break, you wouldn't be saying that if it were you.
My heart goes out to this young man.
My heart breaks for this guy....he seems like a good honest person ..just in a bad situation out with his control...I hope he's in a better situation today ...
What a gorgeous man and full of gifts. Angels of God, help him. We need to help the homeless, our society must change. The Royal family needs to stop being funded and the money should all go to the poor and those in need!
I became homeless after 911 when I lost my job. I moved to the West coast and started a technology company called Electron Mechanical Corporation.
I survived by recycling cans and bottles making up to $70.00 a day.
Hustle or die. Never give up!
NEVER
That's awesome to hear, Great job!
Yes. I did the can thing too. Copper whatever. Then day labor until I got hired full time. Got to stick with it and push push push forward.
How can you start a Company, being homeless? People with money have a hard time starting and keeping a business... so tell how that happened...
cool name for a company
This lad made me cry. I hope he's okay now. I wish he's happy now
This video broke my heart, I hope Andy's doing a lot better now with help and support.
Our government need to invest a lot more into helping young people who are living on the streets!
I don’t understand how people can be so rude and unhelpful to those who are less fortunate
Then I want to ask you, how many homeless did you help? Give me a a number
because fear and anxiety are needed to make people work the shit jobs they can get
@@aboomination897 That sounds like a conspiracy theory and a good one
this man is able to work, wants to work and is looking for work yet is given no work. why? because we live in a predatory society. i hope the people who refused him suffer horrific fates
@ It's not a predatory society, it's just society. There's no such thing as a perfect one and people have the right to choose not to care about something. Sounds harsh, but at least there is free will there. I choose to help people if I can afford to. But a world where you don't have the choice but to, wouldn't be a free one.
Can't stop crying after listening to him. I hope this kid is ok. There is so much pain in this world. What have we become :(
@c B get out of your fancy bubble freak..
@c B clearly a robot with no emotions or family
@c B dude...
@c B you must be having a laugh or just evil
If there is a rich person watching this video, reach out and help this guy. He deserve life.
@Derrick Klone you idiot they didn’t say not one time anything about money. A “rich person” could give them opportunity. Use your brain.
@mr abc that dude Derrick is a clown man. People like him always twisting someone’s words to what THEY wanna hear.
This broke my heart. I hope this young man gets help and finds happiness.
I’m from Cardiff. That was hard to watch. Embarrassed to hear him saying that people were spitting at him.
Do you have any update on him at all?
Is there any update for him
No I’ve not seen him and Cardiff’s small enough that you tend to see the same faces on the street. This video was a couple of years old by the looks of it so I’m hoping he’s managed to get back on his feet since then.
Luiz Bezerra shut up Lewis, you mug.
@@kayak9306 Luiz is right go to Brazil and we gonna see what real problem is and this fella has no money for nothing but does has some tattoos tho, sorry but yes "first world problem". All the helps that's every where in Europe for homeless but they need to be souber or even harder work for minimum wage as well.
poor child, wish you the best Andy hope you can turn your life around
Child? He's 31 years old. It's probably time for him to grow up just a little.
RaffleisRight 21*
@@nathanielchambers1931 either way, 21 isn't a child. It's time to grow up.
@Henry Tudor nobody is "judging" him. He is unemployed with nowhere to live at the age of 21. He should probably rethink his life. It's time to grow up and be an adult. If he can't do that for himself I am sorry. He isn't a child.
Rethink what ? His alcoholic father ? His adversity ? You need more help then this kid does, and I’m not talking financially.
I am literally sitting here in tears, sobbing uncontrollably because I've been through this. I've just discovered this channel tonight. The majority of people leaving comments are expressing compassion, caring, concern, love, and sympathy. But in some of these videos the comments are incredibly insensitive, cruel, and judgmental. Please, anyone who feels the need to judge (whether the person is a drug addict, alcoholic, or not) ... please don't. Don't make jokes. This is horrific... not funny or something to laugh at. This really can happen to anyone. It happened to me, and I'm just an eye blink away from being right back in it. Everyone these days is one or two paychecks away. This is going to stay with me, in my soul, for the rest of my life, and it will do the same to this lovely, young, sensitive man. It's profoundly destructive, and one of the worst forms of violence anyone could possibly endure. Please pray for him. He is more of a man than most men who will watch this. He is courageous. God bless us all.
Wow, GOD bless you you're a wonderful human being and we need more people like you in this world. I agree he's more man than most men who watch this video will ever be.
You're 100% right. Even millionaires have ended up becoming homeless. No one is immune from becoming homeless, it can happen to anyone regardless of age, race or wealth.
The vast majority of people are far more than two weeks from losing their homes. More often than not being homeless is a symptom of a much bigger problem than just money. I noticed that drugs and alcoholism is rampant with the homeless and those problems often started before they ended up on the streets.
You could give most homeless people a house tomorrow and they will be kicked out of it soon enough.
@@sarahlara92 sarah this guy is a con . i know him . dont fall for his bullshit
Cooledit 5000 I’m heartbroken myself because although I’ve never gone through this, it happened to my ex boyfriend. He was a recovering heroin addict who had been homeless for years but has been clean on methadone for 7 years now. He found someone willing to take him in and help rehabilitate him - had the chance of a lifetime. This is while I was dating him. But he developed a major Xanax addiction in the process which became out of control. He was thrown out from where he lived because he trashed the place and was wrongly accusing his roommate of taking and hiding his pills because he blacked out and lost track of how many he took. He was arrested and released but I have no clue where he is or what became of him. I have no clue if he’s even alive anymore. He hasn’t been active on Facebook since and no longer has a phone since he left it where he was living. The lack of closure has completely turned my life upside down with worry. It’s so hard to go on and even function at work not knowing what became of him or if he’s safe or even alive. I’ve never been through such torturous heartache like this
I have watched A LOT of these clips and this is the first person I truly feel sorry for. He is homeless through no fault of his own and is trying to make the best of a bad situation.
Never, ever give up.
That is too easy to say when you are doing just fine.
I'm a 21-year-old ginger kid as well but living in the States. I've been fortunate enough to have a loving home and good opportunities. Seeing someone that looks just like me in a situation like this absolutely breaks my heart, but has also changed my perspective and given the motivation to keep trying my hardest at everything I do. I hope to some day give back what I earn to those less fortunate.
Thank you so much for your videos. They really do a lot of good.
Please let's help Andy. This guy deserves a chance. Andy if you read my comment just I admire your strength. Please keep positive. Much love from Canada. ♡ Blessings to you my friend!!!
This is the most heartbreaking thing I've ever seen. Four years ago. I really hope this guy is okay now.
same here. updates requested!
Made me cry. Hes at the end of his teather. Poor kid. I feel for him.
I hope he has something now :(
☹️☹️
Always the best people gettin the worst :(
@@mr.niceguy7764 Not always but more often yes because they can be used because they do not focus on themselves
@@Conceptcreator He seems to be a nice guy with a big heart and emotions. Only because his father is a stupid piece of sh...
Concept Creator ok
This is one of the most heartbreaking things I've ever watched
My heart breaks seeing this . I pray he finds help. I know there is still good caring people out there.
Jesus, out of all of this channels hundreds of videos, this one broke me.
really eye opening
As somebody who is homeless for 2 years after getting out of serving our military. I can tell you for a fact that all of these problems that you all are commenting on or absolutely true. What do you think homeless people do stupid stuff in the streets to get arrested we do it on purpose because if we know we go to jail we can have three free meals a warm place to sleep in a free shower where we won't be sleeping outside. Why do you think a lot of homeless people do that stupid stuff in the middle of the winter? So they at least have a warm place to sleep. I did stuff like that when I was homeless cuz I had no choice because you go days without eating when I was homeless you all I had people pee on me. I had somebody like my sleeping bag on fire when I was in the middle of the night when I was sleeping food dumped on me. I've been cussed out had stuff thrown at me from outside of car windows. He spit on me dump drinks on me. People do horrible things to you when you're homeless. And I wasn't doing anything bad. I've never done drugs in my life. I'm an ex Army veteran. I drink on special occasions for birthdays and on New Years. That's it. But I was just homeless I wasn't doing any bad. I was just outside. And people would just constantly stay the same thing that they would say to this young man. Get a job. Stop doing drugs. You're a junkie. You're a bum. You're worthless. I'm a human being I was just struggling.
And at the top of it all, people consider the homeless to be parasites of society. "Just get a job and stop being homeless!" they say.
I know a guy who as a manager of a retail store and was fired after the boss discovered he was homeless. Plenty of jobs and employers require you to have a rooftop, much because a lot of people think being homeless is the same as being an addict, the society's scourge.
I'm sorry for you struggle💔
Anyone who went through basic training should never be homeless
You are a soldier. Maybe others won’t agree with me, but in my opinion you are a soldier and people should learn from people like you. Whatever homeless people wish for, we have that, but we think it is for free or something, man, you guys are absolute soldiersz
God give you lots of love sir. Please take care. I hope things get better for you in life
I've watched a couple of invisible people's videos and this was , so far, the hardest to watch
I NEVER cry from videos. I've watched dozens of this guy's videos. This is the one that made me break down. I really hope this young man is doing better today.
„I do not want a mc donalds“ hit me so hard and i never thought that sentence could affect me this much
Why lol
i fully agree mate
Selfish knob turning down food
@Jonathan Healey you obviously haven’t had a bacon egg muffin combo have you lol
@@jamesibz he is not saying he rather have Taco Bell or something. He is just saying 4 people has already give him bags of food from McDonald’s that day and he doesn’t need anymore. How can you not understand that.
Wow my heart goes out to this young man. I hope he will find housing and a job. Thank you Mark for uplifting him. Take care. ☺
He has such potential he just needs a chance.
He commited suicide
@@jjjj-x9g Is that info reliable? How did you find out?
@@jjjj-x9g it's not true unless you can prove it
@@rajaharrag667 it's a lie he's a little troll,not saying he's a priest but he certainly ain't committed suicide outskirts of cardiff like ely and Grangetown are no joke but Andy is a product of his environment and trying his best
Sir, you are an absolute hero. i've been in your position. And have nothing but total respect for you. I'm glad that you told us about the real needs of those who've been there.
He needs to learn that beggars can't be choosers..
I’m ten years older than this guy, this is heart breaking.
Rhys McCleary well 12 now since it was 2 years ago
😳😳
Iestyn Owen are you stupid? The guy in the video ages too, and dont say “just a joke” because this video is a serious issue
@@iestynowen3996 lol
About 35 years ago I also was going thru hard times. I was walking the streets asking for jobs in their yards cleaning up or gardening. An old woman had me mow her lawn and some garden work plus she gave me some money and two sandwich's. I bought window cleaning supplies, bucket and squeegee 18 inch with pole. Lucky I had been in Asia as I learned how to bath in the river with a bar of soap and my with cloths on. As a child my first job was working at McDonald's while there they taught me how to wash windows with no water marks. In New Orleans I asked a guy at a plant nursery for work to buy food. At the end of the day he offered me a job and told me I could sleep in his shed.
Good :)
If I ever see this guy in cardiff (I live there) I wll be sure to give him all I can
Hope so mate 😖
Please update on him
Hi Dylan,,,,if you ever come across andy, please keep my name and let me know and I'll send you some money to give to him please please please
It's like this in Swansea too, the Welsh government should be hung.
Hey it's like 4 months since you commented. Have you seen him anywhere? I'm just curious.
He has such a sweet demeanor! Sweet boy! I have a son…my heart goes out to this boy!
"You'd never believe how judgemental they really are."
I've been on Facebook. I've seen the horrors of the peoples petty opinion.
Yes. I do believe how judgemental they could be...
@@Aethelbeorn same with twitter
It breaks my heart to hear him say that...makes me cry...I hope he's well...I will pray for him.
😢🙏🏼
This is the first time i have ever commented on a youtube video,and that is because this is the most powerful,moving and sad thought provoking video i have seen on youtube.Your style and compassion can only come from someone who understands.Thank you.
Sean Tomtom I'm glad you chose to speak up and comment. Welcome to our community. We're happy you're here.
Respect
I don't think you watch that many to youtube videos
The truly wishes of a homeless.
This guy was so honest, I appreciate that.