Living with Williams Syndrome, Anxiety, and OCD

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  • Sofia is diagnosed with Williams syndrome, anxiety, and OCD. She has struggled throughout her life to create relationships with people her own age. The thing that Sofia wants most in the world is a true friendship.
    Connect with Sofia at / theteamsofia
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  • @SpecialBooksbySpecialKids
    @SpecialBooksbySpecialKids  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1204

    Anybody who wants to be Sofia's friend can connect with her at instagram.com/theteamsofia/ ! Sofia also requested that I ask everybody what you think her top three Taylor Swift songs are? She's really interested in hearing if you can guess correctly!

    • @saeclem
      @saeclem 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      1. Shake It Off
      2. You Need To Calm Down
      3. ME!
      My top 3 are:
      1. Delicate
      2. The Last Great American Dynasty
      3. Style

    • @aprylrittenhouse4562
      @aprylrittenhouse4562 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Look what you made me do. Shake it off andstate of grace

    • @suttonclark4423
      @suttonclark4423 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      1 Ronan
      2 Never grow up
      3 22

    • @PlaceboFXMakeup
      @PlaceboFXMakeup 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I’m gonna guess:
      1. Mean
      2. Shake It Off
      3. Love Story

    • @Milkgiih
      @Milkgiih 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      1. Blank Space
      2. Red
      3. 22
      ? ☺️☺️

  • @abigaillabar8877
    @abigaillabar8877 ปีที่แล้ว +1308

    Sofia, if you are reading this, I just want you to know: I wish I had a friend like you.

    • @sarasweightlossjourney1432
      @sarasweightlossjourney1432 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Same thing I was thinking

    • @GoBirdz13
      @GoBirdz13 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Yep, you'd be hard pressed to find a more loyal or caring friend than this sweet soul. Sofia is the type to watch you instead of watching the movie to make sure you're having a good time. One in a zillion.

    • @inactiveuser555
      @inactiveuser555 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      There’s a holy GOD in Heaven, Who created you and I for His glory, but our sins have separated us from Him. the wages of sin is DEATH, but the FREE Gift of GOD is eternal life in CHRIST the LORD. in love, CHRIST died for our sins and was raised to life for our justification. repent, stop living in sin, and believe in the Gospel.

    • @anonymousinc6330
      @anonymousinc6330 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Took the words right out of my mouth.

    • @b3n3d1ct10n
      @b3n3d1ct10n ปีที่แล้ว +15

      What a wonderful person Sofia is…..so much wisdom at a tender age!,

  • @TheGalacticCannibal
    @TheGalacticCannibal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6070

    Her emotional intelligence is so developed, and her ability to express herself is really special. I hope she finds the right people who can appreciate what she has to offer.

    • @lindalopez3916
      @lindalopez3916 2 ปีที่แล้ว +191

      Many people with William’s have high emotional intelligence. My daughter Andrea has William’s and she can connect with others so well. Andrea can tell when someone is sad or anxious and tries to reach out to help. She is so kind and people love her immediately. Many William’s kids are. I’m thankful each and every day that God has entrusted me to care for her. She is a blessing to everyone that knows and loves her!
      Sophia is extremely articulate and expresses herself so well. I wish her all the best…

    • @whitedaisies9355
      @whitedaisies9355 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@lindalopez3916 andrea sounds like a gem❤️❤️❤️ Not every girl is that mature and giving!

    • @lovethyself94
      @lovethyself94 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      🙏🙏🙏

    • @lovethyself94
      @lovethyself94 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@lindalopez3916 Is your child an Empath?

    • @orome9793
      @orome9793 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@lindalopez3916 That's really interesting. I never knew that.

  • @kickingfatality
    @kickingfatality 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +277

    If a 56 year old crusty broken 30 year artillery veteran can have a hero...I just found mine in Sofia. She's incredibly Intelligent, compassionate, articulate , Empathetic and just a pure beautiful soul. Dont ever ever change Sofia. Don't you ever let this world dim your light.

    • @girlygirlhippy
      @girlygirlhippy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      🤍✌️🌸

    • @haydenhilton
      @haydenhilton 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I’m sorry but I laughed out loud when I read that you described yourself as “crusty”😂 I totally agree though, Sofia is awesome. Thank you for your service!

    • @nomadicbydesign363
      @nomadicbydesign363 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Wow. You've become such a stunningly beautiful, emotionally intelligent, and articulate young woman. I struggled with social anxiety, ADHD, OCD and depression most of my life, that was until I started daily yoga and meditation in my 50s. I rarely have an episode now. I hope you learn what works for you to tame it, too. I know you will. It helps to learn to love yourself, and then it no longer matters what others think of you. You must be your own warrior and #1 fan. This channel shows just how many others you have, too. Wishing you love and light always, beautiful soul.

    • @lindamaewetzel
      @lindamaewetzel 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are a sweet soul❤❤❤❤❤

    • @andrewstallings5942
      @andrewstallings5942 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So beautiful ❤

  • @francismcguire6884
    @francismcguire6884 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +125

    I’m 73 years old and I’ve learned more from this spectacular person in 25 minutes than from many people I’ve known for over 25 years.
    Thank you, Sophie

  • @ThisIsJessPaul
    @ThisIsJessPaul ปีที่แล้ว +1262

    She seems like the easiest person to be friends with: better at communicating than most people I know.

    • @ms3gt111
      @ms3gt111 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Sadly, that likely intimidates most people she comes into contact with. We are emotional creatures, but it's hard to be vulnerable without risking yourself being abused.

    • @-iceraptor-
      @-iceraptor- ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yea fs

    • @timlandrum824
      @timlandrum824 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yup

    • @PryncessPookie
      @PryncessPookie ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Ok so you can def tell she's different but shes rlly pretty sweet and cute i would like to be her friend

    • @BLUNTS
      @BLUNTS ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Unfortunately the vast majority of people treat us like we are annoying and a problem (i live with this condition)

  • @assassino1480
    @assassino1480 2 ปีที่แล้ว +809

    I love how no-nonsense and direct she is about telling people she loves them.

    • @sagemybrain6740
      @sagemybrain6740 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      We are in dire need of more people like that

    • @asa9528
      @asa9528 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      We should all be this.

  • @jamesfowler1955
    @jamesfowler1955 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +153

    She has what most people fear, (Honesty), that gives her power that she can't understand.

  • @BriBri897
    @BriBri897 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I want the world to have more people like Sofia. Honest, vulnerable, self-reflective and kind. She's amazing.

  • @rainstreet78
    @rainstreet78 2 ปีที่แล้ว +782

    Sofia: your name means "wisdom" and this is fitting because you are VERY wise. Thank you for sharing your story!

    • @johnidis
      @johnidis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I concur, as a native greek myself Sofia (Σοφία) literally means wisdom. Also yes, she is wise beyond her years, intelligent (emotionally too) and beautiful!

    • @catwalkernyc
      @catwalkernyc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I agree📝🤍 she’s so truly truly wise and loving it’s got me crying happy tears. I’ve been really sad- but the fact that she exists in the world- that gives me hope for our future.

    • @a.december8078
      @a.december8078 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Very well said…

  • @salty_texan
    @salty_texan ปีที่แล้ว +779

    One of the most pure and genuinely beautiful personalities I've ever seen.

    • @jeffdevc6422
      @jeffdevc6422 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don’t be sarcastic, she’s already disabled

    • @mandyadler2152
      @mandyadler2152 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@jeffdevc6422 what the heck r u talking about, they are leaving a nice comment

    • @OttrPopAnimations
      @OttrPopAnimations ปีที่แล้ว +5

      same

    • @eddyrashid7853
      @eddyrashid7853 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yeah same actually, it's remarkable. Seems to me more people could try to be this honest. She's pure life.

  • @luisblue2004
    @luisblue2004 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    I can't believe it's hard for her to make friends? What kind of people would not wanna have a person like Sofia as their friend!!! She's the sweetest person I've ever seen! She's the definition of a "good friend"

  • @sovereignyashub3878
    @sovereignyashub3878 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    “Sophia” is the primordial and gnostic word for “Wisdom”; and she definitely embodies her name. She is remarkably articulate and self-aware, thank you for this vulnerable interaction. Blessings of increase and prosperity for Sophia and her family ✨🤲🏿

  • @TheNunududu
    @TheNunududu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1240

    I feel like Sofia is a future person. Her level of emotional intelligence, compassion and vulnerability is what humanity is struggling so hard to reach.

    • @rachelleanna3
      @rachelleanna3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Yes, well said.

    • @fefemyluv
      @fefemyluv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Bingo.

    • @ohellsbellso07
      @ohellsbellso07 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Oh my goodness 100% this!

    • @robforrest9083
      @robforrest9083 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I also have adhd and had little to no friends. I discovered that family is so much more important. Remember friends come and go but family is forever and you had a great one. You seem like very fun and happy girl. Anyone would be lucky to be your friend.

    • @lulumoon6942
      @lulumoon6942 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      👍👍👍👍👍

  • @timovesterinen3611
    @timovesterinen3611 ปีที่แล้ว +500

    "Williams syndrome is caused by the loss (deletion ) of genetic material from a specific region of chromosome 7" Looking at her I'm convinced that human wickedness lives in that material, which she lacks. Such a beautiful and good person! 🥰

    • @theodoresande6051
      @theodoresande6051 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      7q11.23 is the Thanatos region, the final endowment of man’s soul after his exile from paradise.

    • @kwameadams1140
      @kwameadams1140 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@theodoresande6051 Goosbumps

    • @1982rebell
      @1982rebell ปีที่แล้ว +7

      diese Theorie gefällt mir sehr gut!😏❤
      und ich habe das Gefühl dass du Recht haben könntest!😉

    • @deniseheidelmeier4950
      @deniseheidelmeier4950 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Great insight, Timo

    • @kate4biglittlevoices
      @kate4biglittlevoices ปีที่แล้ว +10

      What a beautiful way to describe this

  • @Drone453
    @Drone453 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    I don't think I'd have ever guessed she had disabilities from hearing her talk had I not been told. Quite the opposite. She's incredibly articulate, sincere, and insightful. Much more so than the typical person.

  • @marioalleyne8559
    @marioalleyne8559 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    This young lady is incredible! She is by far wise well beyond her years it’s mind blowing.

  • @mikewarren5322
    @mikewarren5322 ปีที่แล้ว +259

    I’m 51 year old man and I wish i was half the person she is. Courage , strength. Beyond words. Incredible.

  • @lilyy709
    @lilyy709 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +443

    She has the talent of becoming a poet. Her words are like poetries, genuine, touching, and very precise.

    • @BigLeagueTrout
      @BigLeagueTrout 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      agreed, much love

    • @macswan7322
      @macswan7322 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      considerably articulate

  • @Saysomething164
    @Saysomething164 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    Her ability to express herself is absolutely amazing. She’s very emotional like myself and it seems she understands more about emotions than a lot of people. It’s nice to know someone out There is as emotional as myself. This girl deserves so many good things. The world today is just so evil. I really hope that she finds really good friends and people that except her.

  • @MW-ty6zk
    @MW-ty6zk 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    I love Sofia's personality! She's real and down to earth.
    I would love having friends like Sofia. She's beautiful inside and out. And people could learn so much from her, especially on how to be a better person themselves.

  • @clareplayskeys
    @clareplayskeys 2 ปีที่แล้ว +494

    Sofia should have a podcast. She’s sooo wise and has such a great voice to listen to!

    • @y04a
      @y04a 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I hope she does one day! I'd listen too :)

    • @alexschuster1618
      @alexschuster1618 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Definitely.

    • @stephaniehaubert8022
      @stephaniehaubert8022 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      yes she sould

  • @gaslight.mp3
    @gaslight.mp3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +736

    shes literally the most genuine person I've ever seen, I hope one day she'll find a friendship equally as genuine.

    • @lieslringhofer162
      @lieslringhofer162 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I want to be her friend 🥺 I have anxiety and depression and would love to not feel that loneliness when she does too 💞

    • @jumpinjohnnyruss
      @jumpinjohnnyruss ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I think many people are threatened by purely genuine people because they think it could shine a light on their own disingenuousness. Vulnerability is kind of baked into the notion of genuine interaction.

  • @robertwhite3752
    @robertwhite3752 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Sophia you are proof that God is pure love. What a blessing to the world you are. I wish all the world loved like you do, and thank you so much for sharing some of your life with us. Your friend from Greentown Ohio, Robby.

  • @bevk7320
    @bevk7320 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    You are a beautiful well-spoken young lady. My special needs son watched your video and now says he has more confidence. The whole world is yours girl!! Go for everything you can dream!

  • @sarahpanda3252
    @sarahpanda3252 2 ปีที่แล้ว +779

    I deeply appreciate this girls' existence in this world.

    • @lulumoon6942
      @lulumoon6942 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Agreed, I worry about a future without differences. ❤️

    • @lupearacelycastrohidalgo6330
      @lupearacelycastrohidalgo6330 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yeeess she's made of light, I learned a lot from her and I'm just at the min 3 of the video

    • @QueenNoTeetha151
      @QueenNoTeetha151 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same. I would have loved to hear about her favorite things like tv shows, hobbies etc. She's so interesting.

    • @lulumoon6942
      @lulumoon6942 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@QueenNoTeetha151 I don't do Instagram, but I thought I heard reference to her seeking friends there? Likely a link here on the details area of the video.

    • @davidpressley3451
      @davidpressley3451 ปีที่แล้ว

      People like her just feels the world with the positivity it so desperately needs

  • @tipp8076
    @tipp8076 ปีที่แล้ว +287

    She’s awesome! Unfortunately she may be too emotionally advanced compared to her peers. I hope her friendships thrive in her adulthood. She’s very mature 🙂

    • @mattlawson714
      @mattlawson714 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I agree, being emotionally overdeveloped, can be as difficult as being emotionally underdeveloped. People with special needs often experience the world in a very different way that I find incredibly beautiful. I know 35 year old women who were not born with any type of syndrome that don’t come close to this young woman’s level of emotional intelligence.

  • @MM-km1vl
    @MM-km1vl 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Wow. i wish i was part of this family.
    i grew up in a household where emotions are frowned upon. no one appreciates each other and no one talks about feelings EVER.
    Sofia is a true inspiration!
    I love their vibe. I wish i could be Sofias friend :D

  • @coolnegative
    @coolnegative 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    What an absolutely beautiful family. And as far as I'm concerned, she is far outpaced many in her age group. Her emotional intelligence, her presence of mind, and eloquent, perhaps even poetic way of describing and answering the questions is amazing. Sofia, if you should read this, you are beautiful both inside AND out. Anyone who has an opportunity to be your friend is truly blessed.

  • @jessebradham7838
    @jessebradham7838 2 ปีที่แล้ว +244

    Wow when she said “I just need a true friendship, and I need to be loved.” That’s the most pure definition as to why we’re on this earth in the first place.

    • @metalmike1976
      @metalmike1976 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      a thumbs up simply does not show my appreciation enough.

    • @ahskincare3150
      @ahskincare3150 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      God gives me perfect love.❤️✝️❤️🥙

    • @extrashotofespresso_
      @extrashotofespresso_ 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ahskincare3150chile please

  • @Carmen-.-
    @Carmen-.- ปีที่แล้ว +340

    She possesses genuine beauty and intelligence beyond her years.

  • @desireeerkman2614
    @desireeerkman2614 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    She has a Beautiful Soul. The world is a better place with people like her in it. Such an amazing intellect and contagious kindness. May God bless her.

  • @hanswurst579
    @hanswurst579 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Very well spoken, articulate, honest...I´m proud of you, keep on going!

  • @kendramaculagh9295
    @kendramaculagh9295 ปีที่แล้ว +529

    This kid is so cool. Being a teenager sucks and I think her tendency toward genuine connection will be more appreciated as she gets older.

    • @user-yu1ec8dz6t
      @user-yu1ec8dz6t 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      О чем Вы говорите?!Все подростками были!Это отстойно!???

    • @kowismo
      @kowismo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I bet she would make a wonderful psychotherapist

    • @lienbijs1205
      @lienbijs1205 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Why being a teenager sucks? My teenage daughters feel like they have the time of their life but maybe it depends where you live?

    • @salmeleons
      @salmeleons 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@lienbijs1205 well for a lot of people since theyre going through puberty n stuff and all those hormones its hwen theyre most self conscious and it can be really hard for a lot of people

    • @lienbijs1205
      @lienbijs1205 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@salmeleons Honestly I don't recognize that. I remember my teenage time like a great time full of freedom and the only responsibility was school. I see that also now in my teenage daughters. They start to get an own personality indeed, getting sometimes extreme in their opinions but that is not troublesome. I also don't know any teenagers around me having puberty problems so that makes me think that environment, culture and other external factors does matter.

  • @lundier
    @lundier 2 ปีที่แล้ว +315

    Sofia, I have a 2 year old daughter with Williams. If she turns out to be half the person you are I will be so proud. You are so well spoken, and so in touch with your feelings. I loved hearing your story.

    • @courtneyr214
      @courtneyr214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Thank you for sharing that. I’m my young twenties my best friends daughter had Williams Syndrome. She passed away at 6 years old (nothing related to WS) and I always feel a little spark of happiness when I hear about other children who have it. Which to some may sound a little strange but these children with WS are an absolute blessing in life. ❤️

    • @andrebrown8969
      @andrebrown8969 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My son has it too, also with autism, he is non verbal. I have to pretty much have to do most things for him. There is a wide spectrum with Williams.

    • @GTAMan21
      @GTAMan21 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      "Half the person" more like double or so as those with Williams syndrome are really sweet and cute. I wish the best for her! May she live a long and healthy life (As healthy as a Williams syndrome life can be, and better)
      Greetings from Hungary

  • @kaylanicholson1712
    @kaylanicholson1712 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Disability or not that girl is truly smart. at least she’s open and honest about herself. People need to stop hating on people with disabilities. Everybody deserves to be treated equally in this world.

  • @siannalyons
    @siannalyons 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Sofia is incredibly wise and just lovely in every way! I can’t imagine anyone NOT wanting to be her friend. 🙏💕✨

  • @aprilh2107
    @aprilh2107 ปีที่แล้ว +384

    If I were her sister and she spoke to me so honestly and loving, she'd have me crying every day.

    • @extrashotofespresso_
      @extrashotofespresso_ 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Same. She is so passionate and obviously really loves her family. It is super sweet.

    • @SERGIO-cr6uy
      @SERGIO-cr6uy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You'd be imune to it after a while. That won't make you a bad person, just that you got used to it.

  • @ViksterWoop
    @ViksterWoop 2 ปีที่แล้ว +631

    Sofia's way of communicating is inspiring. She's so good at expressing herself

    • @sun1996
      @sun1996 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agree!

    • @caitthecat
      @caitthecat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      That's fairly common with Williams syndrome. They tend to be linguistically and musically gifted.

  • @amyshea9871
    @amyshea9871 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Sofia says "love is contagious" Its so true. Her loving spirit just shines thru.

  • @sare2007
    @sare2007 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    She is so gorgeous with a heart of gold. Love hearing her talk and would be friends with her in a heart beat 🙏✨️

  • @bepowerification
    @bepowerification ปีที่แล้ว +325

    Its hard for her to make friends? What the heck. She is one of the most loveable people in this world.

    • @inactiveuser555
      @inactiveuser555 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      There’s a holy GOD in Heaven, Who created you and I for His glory, but our sins have separated us from Him. the wages of sin is DEATH, but the FREE Gift of GOD is eternal life in CHRIST the LORD. in love, CHRIST died for our sins and was raised to life for our justification. repent, stop living in sin, and believe in the Gospel.

    • @pillpopper2664
      @pillpopper2664 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@inactiveuser555 we are saved through the grace of God not through work based salvation.

    • @disdonc6.klasse549
      @disdonc6.klasse549 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      It's the dumbness of our society and our way of life nowadays that makes it difficult for her to find friends. She is too good and too "normal" for our world nowadays unfortunately.

    • @serg_printcafe
      @serg_printcafe ปีที่แล้ว +1

      17:05

    • @pinkleprechaun52
      @pinkleprechaun52 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      yeah but kids her age don't care about that. when I was her age I only care about hanging out with who is popular not who is good to me

  • @blcawood
    @blcawood 2 ปีที่แล้ว +606

    I can’t imagine anyone NOT wanting to be your friend, Sofia. You are a very intuitive, eloquent, well-spoken, smart, funny, sweet, charismatic, and gorgeous young woman! You will do great things in your life!

    • @Obinsfnubf447
      @Obinsfnubf447 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      But her behavior is "awkward". Other people probably don't want to be seen with her. I honestly wouldn't have a problem with that. She's very kind and intelligent.

    • @songsalon7868
      @songsalon7868 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      GREAT THINGS IN LIFE
      YAAAS SOPHIA

    • @disdonc6012
      @disdonc6012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@Obinsfnubf447 What behavior do you mean exactly? I didn't see anything completely awkward in this video.

    • @andyc6542
      @andyc6542 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Her wisdom and intelligence is possibly what makes it hard for her to be accepted by people her own age.
      She is beyond her years in the way she communicates and how she comes across - I think the average boy or girl her age are, by the fact they are teenagers growing into adolescence, obnoxious (not saying all are!)
      Hope that the older she becomes, the more accepted she becomes - the kids who ignore her now will hopefully mature and reach her level of emotional intelligence in a few years.

    • @adambryan5299
      @adambryan5299 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Obinsfnubf447 That's just insecure people. People who feel uncomfortable by other people's emotions or personalities, when they have done nothing wrong, are 9 times out of 10, insecure with themselves. The word you use "Awkward" is your opinion, and while you may have not meant harm by using it, how would you feel if you read on here that someone thought you were awkward and that's why they don't like you. She said she was going to read these comments, so I kinda think that was an unnecessary statement to make dude.

  • @coolcarenvy
    @coolcarenvy 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    She is so articulate and sweet. Good people in the world will gravitate towards her in life.

  • @tessahatchett
    @tessahatchett 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Sofia's love for others is so beautiful. Being a teen is rough, but I know she will find people one day that truly appreciate her warmth and depth. ❤

  • @tillytallyyy
    @tillytallyyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +224

    “I know what love is because you taught me how to love.”
    WOW. That hit me like a brick wall. That’s exactly it. We know love because of how others show us love.

    • @lemurlover7975
      @lemurlover7975 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Maybe that is why I struggle to know what love is, not having a loving sister? But I had TV sisters and TV moms and dads and characters in books to teach me love. And Jesus and the angels. So you can still have a way to learn love even if your whole family abused you ever since you were born. And now they don't because I escaped and disowned them. But I wonder what it's like to experience love in a relationship you're in with a live group of people that is like a family rather than reading about it in a book or seeing it played out on a screen?

    • @pattykochenower4222
      @pattykochenower4222 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️

  • @Birdmanondaweb
    @Birdmanondaweb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +266

    She's extremely intelligent, especially emotionally intelligent. She has a lot of wisdom of how to deal with what's going on in her mind. I still have trouble and I'm 30. She's doing better than me and she's a teenager. Go Sofia!

    • @mariasalinas3248
      @mariasalinas3248 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Nick Zengineer, indeed she is! Like you I still have trouble, at times, and I'm already 69! I'm so impressed and touched with the way she explains and expresses her feelings and thoughts.

    • @MagnoliaPantherWoman
      @MagnoliaPantherWoman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same, and I'm 48.

    • @BeverleyMiller_
      @BeverleyMiller_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@4everflow seriously, are you that self absorbed?

  • @Drone453
    @Drone453 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I truly can't comprehend how anyone could struggle to be friends with her. I'd love to have a discussion with her. It feels like it would be so easy. However, I've also got ADHD so maybe I'm just on the same wavelength.

  • @gracehlatshwayo2789
    @gracehlatshwayo2789 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She's so intelligent and she's made my day. Let's be kind to one another it costs nothing ❤❤

  • @nahdeeyuh1548
    @nahdeeyuh1548 2 ปีที่แล้ว +294

    "i need to be loved " it broke my heart. she is so honest and open and vulnerable. so beautiful. you will find true friendship and you have your family who truly loves you! we love you!

  • @moniquechatman584
    @moniquechatman584 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +282

    Her sister is equally amazing! I love how she looks at her sister in the eye.She's so compassionate and gentle with her sister.

  • @Tom-tk3du
    @Tom-tk3du 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    There’s nothing wrong with her at all. She’s quite special. ❤

    • @pwqshiiv.
      @pwqshiiv. 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i hope this comment doesn't mean to dismiss that she has mental health disorders

  • @johnnysanchez4456
    @johnnysanchez4456 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love this Guy and his videos! Sofia is super intelligent and well spoken! Bullies are missing out on all the beautiful light Dfua carries!

  • @glizzy6666
    @glizzy6666 2 ปีที่แล้ว +253

    This girl has a LOT of wisdom and intelligence, especially being so young. She will do well in life and I wish her the best.

  • @tugumelaulance9214
    @tugumelaulance9214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    Sofia has a high level emotional intelligence, she's honest and really a genuine person. She's really special and the most important thing is that she's loved for that.

  • @BHALT0S
    @BHALT0S 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Seems to me that gaining the friendship of someone who has this Williams Syndrome, you will be gaining a friend for life, and that in itself is worth more than everything else in the universe.

  • @lizc9326
    @lizc9326 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Sophia - you are everything that is right with planet earth. You are incredibly emotionally intelligent and articulate, and as you grow older, I know others will start to really see you for the unique and truly incredibly eloquent and caring and beautiful girl that you are. Some kids your age not have the emotional intelligence themselves yet to really see other people - many adults I know haven't even attained the level of self awareness you seem to possess!
    You are an incredible and unique addition to this world, and I know that the older you get, the more people you will meet who will see what we all see in this interview. Any human on the planet would be incredibly lucky to have a friend like you. You are so genuine and caring and remarkably bright. Thank you for sharing your story!
    Keep shining sweet girl ❤

  • @ross3353
    @ross3353 2 ปีที่แล้ว +660

    I’ve been in school with Sofia since 3rd grade, she’s an incredibly sweet individual and I’m so proud of her for speaking about this in such a mature way. Truly a very intelligent, funny and sweet person, and I learned a lot from this interview.
    Love you Sofia!!! You inspire me to overcome my own anxiety and move forward with confidence about myself.
    ❤️ -Rose

    • @mercedes523
      @mercedes523 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Love ur comment! It sounds like you’re as sweet as she is.

    • @scity3301
      @scity3301 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Thats pretty cool

    • @MickeyDJ1
      @MickeyDJ1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Very nice to read your comment Rose, but know that I'm super envious you get to know Sophia, and possibly be her friend. ☺️❤️

    • @songsalon7868
      @songsalon7868 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Good Friend Rose
      You've got a Great friend in Sophia.
      Good Friend

    • @stephensmith6812
      @stephensmith6812 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I went to high school with her, was wondering why she looked so familiar, can attest to everything Ross said

  • @VintageMamiMena
    @VintageMamiMena 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +329

    Who wouldn’t want to be her friend? She’s so genuine & that’s extremely hard to find in a friend nowadays. She’s super mature! She’s not normal, she’s better than that because full grown adults don’t have the intellect & emotional capacity that she does. I would LOVE to have her as a friend ❤

    • @Monika-kh5zi
      @Monika-kh5zi 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I agree!

    • @weetzybat
      @weetzybat 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Me too

    • @khakis69
      @khakis69 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Teenage girls are brutal

    • @keeperofthesacred9335
      @keeperofthesacred9335 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I agree too!! ❤️

    • @jessicagomez7714
      @jessicagomez7714 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Teenagers suck. Not all but as an age group, teens suck

  • @karu9591
    @karu9591 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    How lovely human being is Sofia. She is just wonderful ❤

  • @thehauntedhive
    @thehauntedhive 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Her first 2ords about her mom, as a mom myself, brought me to tears. She has such a beautiful, pure soul. And she is SO incredibly articulate and well spoken - she truly hs a gift with the art of storytelling

  • @jonesba2004
    @jonesba2004 2 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    I can’t imagine anyone NOT being her friend!! She’s so positive and intelligent and warm. Sofia, if you read this, I think you are a gorgeous person who deserves all the goodness that the world can offer.

    • @daniburke9452
      @daniburke9452 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I knew a girl with Williams syndrome the sad thing is from my understanding they see no evil in this world and don't realize people can be extremely mean and can do bad things. They are always happy

    • @tomjjackson21
      @tomjjackson21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@daniburke9452 yeah, I was under the impression Williams Syndrome was a 24/7 oxytocin rush, and that they were literally the epitome of love and happiness. I would of never suspected someone with Williams Syndrome was capable of anxiety and depression. I genuinely believed it was a medical impossibility given the nature of the condition.

    • @GTAMan21
      @GTAMan21 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Williams syndrome being a 24/7 oxytocin rush myth is debunked. Just look up the video where a boy with Williams syndrome became frustrated at a videogame. That is uploaded here on TH-cam

  • @NiquiGirl
    @NiquiGirl ปีที่แล้ว +251

    I wish I had a friend like Sophia. She is clearly soulfully rewarding. She's obviously got so much important perspective to share.

    • @morten.hekkvang
      @morten.hekkvang ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I feel exactly the same way ❤

    • @onerian8178
      @onerian8178 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      me too. its hard to find genuine kind people

  • @yesNo-pr4nc
    @yesNo-pr4nc 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    My dear, you are not called "Sofia" for no reason.
    Keep shining light on these dark times through your beautiful wisdom.
    Thank you! ❤

  • @hunterchristian8372
    @hunterchristian8372 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Omg I would literally give anything to have a friend like Sophia. She is so perfect!

  • @kzelmer
    @kzelmer ปีที่แล้ว +129

    The way she communicates is outstanding, obviously way better than the average teenager. Amazing

    • @biancalaura7741
      @biancalaura7741 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Because those with this syndrome have very well developed social and communication skills!

  • @xMattOxi
    @xMattOxi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +280

    She is a legend, “wise beyond her years” doesn’t even cut it. When people have to pick at others it’s usually because they don’t feel good about themselves, you keep being you!

  • @lotfibouhedjeur
    @lotfibouhedjeur 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    OMG! Look at her all grown-up! And she's so in touch with her emotions she puts the rest of us to shame. Sophia, it's on my bucket list to meet you in person and be your friend. You're the most genuine person I know.

  • @johnnysanchez4456
    @johnnysanchez4456 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Many people don't know, many people lik Sofia are Angels in disguise! Dont miss out on this beautiful light! one of the best and important videos ever!

  • @MeeblesSporella
    @MeeblesSporella 2 ปีที่แล้ว +318

    Sofia is beautiful, funny, sweet, compassionate and everything in between. Keep being you!

  • @CapableCaptain-ahoy
    @CapableCaptain-ahoy ปีที่แล้ว +258

    I can't imagine anyone not wanting to connect with her. Hearing her speak about her emotions, I can't help but understand exactly what it is she is speaking into. I've for many years taken issue with how the people I've known seem to have no interest in reaching out or connecting in a deeper more genuine way. Hang in there Sofia, it's not you, it's the rest of the world that has a problem.

    • @Richardo004
      @Richardo004 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Her quoting celebrities the whole time is frkn hilarious, shes so dramatic lol. I think she should be in a "normal" class cause she really doesnt seem like she has an disability. Bullying always happens. In every class and school unfortunately.

    • @scottpreston5074
      @scottpreston5074 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Richardo004 Her cognitive abilities seem OK. I'm curious about this syndrome.

    • @jamiecurran3544
      @jamiecurran3544 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I completely agree it is other people, Sophia's awesome!😊✌️

  • @floydestelle6242
    @floydestelle6242 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have a grand daughter with disabilities, she is wonderful too! This girl is a beautiful soul.

  • @shmelie
    @shmelie 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    her way of being able to vocalize herself and her thoughts is so amazing to me im autistic and i feel i never get to be so really able to make my words so direct and able

  • @imtiredofyall4843
    @imtiredofyall4843 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    How could anyone not want to be her friend like her empathy is so so contagious

    • @kdenice3338
      @kdenice3338 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      she’s genuinely such a beautiful person inside & out, making friends is hard too. figuring out how to introduce yourself, feeling comfortable with those ppl, it’s all very hard when you struggle with anxiety and lonliness. So proud of Sofia 🫶🏻💕

    • @kathleenlarkin9517
      @kathleenlarkin9517 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      In love with her omg I’d do anything to be around her

    • @EnjoySackLunch
      @EnjoySackLunch ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kathleenlarkin9517 relax. Jesus

  • @phyllisking977
    @phyllisking977 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    My birth mother had William’s Syndrome and everyone I ever spoke to regarding her told me she was a pure angel. She died before my 3rd birthday. This video has helped me to understand and appreciate what a precious sweet soul gave birth to me

  • @LoverofSunflowernBees
    @LoverofSunflowernBees 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Chris I think a lot of us are really comfortable with this back and forth communication style you have, when we have ADHD, ADD or Inattentive ADD and OCD or Anxiety.

  • @saveyourselves5923
    @saveyourselves5923 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Sophia seems like the kind of person I could get along very well with. I bet she's a good listener. I too have social anxiety, made worse by my own disability, which came on very suddenly. I know how it feels to feel rejected by people you thought were your friends, because you're not like them. Sophia, you're a beautiful lady ❤

  • @silentnight3970
    @silentnight3970 2 ปีที่แล้ว +394

    Nothing wrong with Sofia's brain or personality, OMG, she is a joy to see and hear. Great fam too incl the cat.

    • @crystalortega2156
      @crystalortega2156 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      U say what I always tell people about my daughter. She’s PHYSICALLY disabled! Not MENTALLY disabled!!! People always think disabilities come with mental problems.

    • @silentnight3970
      @silentnight3970 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@crystalortega2156 Oh I know. Some people make incorrect assumptions based on looks without really giving differently abled individuals a chance.

  • @-chloe-8728
    @-chloe-8728 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    the way she expresses herself is so beautiful and poised. and her emotional intelligence is more advanced than 95% of grown adults. she’s a star. those “friends” who didn’t want to hang out with her were missing out.

  • @atlasnetwork7855
    @atlasnetwork7855 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    One of the most intelligent people i've ever seen on youtube. She's a very likeable person. There's some depth to what she says, like some actual wisdom, which is incredible at that age.

  • @Live4Yashua
    @Live4Yashua หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This wonderful person made my cry how beautiful she is I have two special Adult kids. I have a daughter with Down Syndrome she is 32. I also have an Autistic son of 24. They are wonderful people kind and gentle they are my angels 😍🥰

  • @katiebrownlee603
    @katiebrownlee603 2 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    “My sisters, my mom, my dad will always be true friends to me because they’re my family. I will leave them someday, but I’ll always come back to them because I know they want me back. They always want me back and it’s true love and that’s how it’s gonna stay.” Your words hit deep - I think I’ve found my definition for family and friendship.

  • @CassieJ4
    @CassieJ4 ปีที่แล้ว +385

    She is EXTREMELY well spoken. You can just tell that she's such a genuine person. And she honestly seems like she'd be such a fun person to be around, so I don't know why anyone wouldn't want to be friends with her. She seems like she'd have some REALLY good conversation. Probably laugh a lot and she's got great taste in music. Sophia, I'd be your friend. Honest to God. And my 17 year old daughter said she'd be your friend too. We'd invite you over to hang out or go to the mall or a Taylor Swift concert. I bet we'd have a blast! The people that don't want to be your friend aren't deserving enough to have a friend as cool as you!! And the people that are only kind to you because you're disabled, I bet they'd change their minds if they spent more time with you. I don't even like saying "disabled", I'd rather say "differently-abled". But, anyhooziewoozen (did that word make you laugh? 😂) You're such a kind, funny, spunky, genuine person and literally ANYONE would be lucky to call you a true friend!♡♡♡

    • @jennamartin-payne1653
      @jennamartin-payne1653 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I guess some people are differently abled but I am disabled and in my case I prefer to use that word because I don't have any special abilities! x

    • @wendeemoore2013
      @wendeemoore2013 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Spot On Cassie!

    • @gabrielphilp3232
      @gabrielphilp3232 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Well said, I agree 100%

    • @jeff6708
      @jeff6708 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      shes genuine because she doesnt know how not to be, that makes her very vulnerable

  • @rytterl
    @rytterl 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What a wonderful young lady!
    Happy she has a sister who loves her as much as she does. Nothing can replace a best friend, and you can tell they are.

  • @lifepath_7
    @lifepath_7 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    She is one of the most normal teenagers I've ever seen! She's so awesome!

  • @7ennifer
    @7ennifer ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I think this girl might be more highly evolved than the rest of us. What a lovely, sincere, beautiful shining light of a person.

    • @jennesty3900
      @jennesty3900 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @7ennifer loveee the name 💚💚💚

  • @beccalynn4445
    @beccalynn4445 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    She made me cry. She’s so expressive and deep with the way she explains herself. She’s so beautiful

    • @Micahz94
      @Micahz94 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      me too

    • @nala6846
      @nala6846 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      totally! she's the epitome of a genuineness

  • @megandrynan6080
    @megandrynan6080 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    She seems super wise and expresses herself better than many people her age who do not have disabilities.

    • @adhc8560
      @adhc8560 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She expresses herself better than lots of people 2 or 3 times her age who cannot formulate a simple sentence! Such a smart and sweet girl. 🧡❤

  • @catog9991
    @catog9991 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So pure and the self reflection Sofia show is just amazing. I'm genuinely impressed, she shows way more self reflection than i ever would, and how she answers so quickly tells me that this is something she probably reflected on before or maybe she just have a quicker mind than me. Either way, this interview was indeed a really good interview, just like Sofia intended.

  • @marinna.realtor
    @marinna.realtor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    She needs to be a motivational speaker. I can totally see her doing this one day. What a beautiful person inside and out.

    • @skeetsmcgrew3282
      @skeetsmcgrew3282 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yo thats a great idea. Im a little confused as to how exactly her issues affect her? Like she doesnt appear to have any cognitive issues? I tried to do some research but it appears William's sydrome has a ton of variation in how it affects people. But speaking appears to be her strong suit for sure, and from what I understand thats common.

    • @sumbi8858
      @sumbi8858 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Marinna Coburn, I TOTALLY agree with you! You couldn't have said it any better. I hope she has seen your comment, because you are right on spot!

    • @Mia-es1rp
      @Mia-es1rp ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes !! So articulate

    • @annelien3432
      @annelien3432 ปีที่แล้ว

      You can bet that she has a lot of difficulty with everything requiring mathematical, logical thinking, but I'm deeply impressed aswell by how articulate she is.

  • @SkiThePocketBully
    @SkiThePocketBully 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She’s gorgeous inside and out…Thank you Sofia ❤

  • @fire4efect
    @fire4efect หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    First off, you are an amazing man with a deep and wide heart. I only wish the world had more of you! I have been watching your videos for a while now and they are so emotional, but beautiful. People come in all ways, shapes, and sizes. What society often sees as a disability is misplaced. As in this video, I am struggling to see the special needs of this beautiful woman. She is articulate, funny, poignant, loving, aware...i could go on. I think, sometimes we are too quick to judge and not be open to others. God bless her and you. Keep shining a bright light in this otherwise dark world.

  • @eggbun1856
    @eggbun1856 2 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    DAMN Sofia's emotional intelligence is off the freaking charts!!! wow I feel like she would be a fantastic therapist or social worker or teacher

  • @doclee8755
    @doclee8755 2 ปีที่แล้ว +253

    I hope Sofia hears this: the WORLD needs a friend like you. If just one in ten people had a friend like you, Sofia, the world would be a much better place. Your interview really touched me emotionally because of your love of life. You embody the very reason humanity MUST be kind and considerate to one another. This world is a better place simply because you are in it. I wish I had more friends like you. You bring out a smile in every soul that is blessed to come across your amazing existence.

  • @bernadettehildebrand3703
    @bernadettehildebrand3703 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sofia you are an amazingly smart speaker, I could listen to you for hours. You were so brave to do this interview and I admire that. My grandson has William's Syndrome and he is just full of love but struggles with ADHD. He's only five years old but I love him so much. Although we live far apart I watch lots of videos his mom and dad send and I feel closer to him.Thank you for enlightening me with your wisdom.

  • @WhitneyGilmer-fq8ez
    @WhitneyGilmer-fq8ez 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Gorgeous, emotionally intelligent, well spoken young woman! Her voice makes a change & I hope she knows that & hones that power to share her happiness! ❤

  • @olivep3485
    @olivep3485 2 ปีที่แล้ว +209

    Hearing her talk about yearning for friendship makes my chest just.. Tighten. I want so badly to hug her.

  • @waitahawhat
    @waitahawhat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    "Don't let the people who don't accept you get into your personal life."
    Those are words to live by, girl! ❤️ Thank you. I really needed that.

  • @46FreddieMercury91
    @46FreddieMercury91 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Shes wonderful. Anyone worthy of her friendship will see her radiant beauty

  • @dmari718
    @dmari718 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She is one of the articulate and genuinely loving heart I have ever seen❤ May God bless, protect, and share her beautiful soul to inspire and remind us we are all human and deserve love. Sending my love and support Sophia!