Marriage requires mutual sacrifice

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  • @vikosus
    @vikosus 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5885

    People think it's 50/50, but it's really 100/100.

    • @88classic
      @88classic 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

      50/50 =100%

    • @machaazahisagama3575
      @machaazahisagama3575 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

      Women need this video more than men..We ask for 50/50 for small things women don’t even buy us nothing but always got they hand out

    • @lakeshawilliams9838
      @lakeshawilliams9838 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      That's not what 50/50 means. It means if the man can only bring 70 % then the woman has to pick up the 30% to keep them balanced and vice versa. Respectfully

    • @JasonMixon-p7w
      @JasonMixon-p7w 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Absolutely ❤😊

    • @spooky4223
      @spooky4223 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Absolutely

  • @olatundeolapetan6190
    @olatundeolapetan6190 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5141

    What he was trying to communicate in a nutshell is that Marriage is ALL about sacrifice from both parties involved...

    • @chinwenduchinwe586
      @chinwenduchinwe586 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      Thank you🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @holywifeyacademy
      @holywifeyacademy  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

      Exactly!

    • @amiles7
      @amiles7 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Facts.

    • @bemon6464
      @bemon6464 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      Most women dnt get this in its actuality

    • @Fuz3j
      @Fuz3j 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      That's the dumbest story I've heard with a non linear moral. Moral should be stop being self sacrificial and just communicate better. The left hand doesn't know what the right hand is doing

  • @kelliehu8749
    @kelliehu8749 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2482

    Beautiful. How many marriages would be saved if everyone went into marriage with this perspective.

    • @TA-ht4jo
      @TA-ht4jo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      In this story, only the man benefited from it because he got to use the watch. The wife cut all her hair so she couldn’t use the comb.

    • @MAlan-xm1yf
      @MAlan-xm1yf 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hair grows back & that wasn't the point, ​@@TA-ht4jo

    • @deforestrankin6601
      @deforestrankin6601 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Does the wife benefit from her husband working?

    • @nicholaskinlaw5138
      @nicholaskinlaw5138 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      @@TA-ht4jo immediately the husband does. Will the wife’s hair not grow back?

    • @dorothyvailes3447
      @dorothyvailes3447 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      ​@@TA-ht4jo Her Hair Will Grow Back. You Missed The Point.

  • @ANURIGHTFULKING
    @ANURIGHTFULKING หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    This brought a tear to my heart and eyes. True definition of love... . Alhamdulilah

  • @AmielioW
    @AmielioW 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +364

    Selflessness is one of the greatest weapons a marriage has against divorce.

    • @Ynotmehuhhuh
      @Ynotmehuhhuh หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      But selfishness is the one weapon that helps divorces trump marriages.

    • @danielgrantcoleman
      @danielgrantcoleman หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Against divorce? Man wrong way to look at it. Flip the coin. Thats the best way to make your life. With another human. Also. Money is not where its at.

    • @jahamilton
      @jahamilton หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@moisesmunoz5549 As tough as it might sound she wasn't the one if she threw something like that away. You should be woth someone who appreciated you and stays with you through thick and thin. Ultimately, you should lean on Jesus for he gives us comfort. I wish you the best man, stay strong 💪

    • @DrewGod
      @DrewGod หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@moisesmunoz5549 one Woman did wrong out of 5 billion and You give up ? Imagine letting one bad minute of Your day or week ruin Your whole life, stay Being a good Man, ask Jesus to send You that good Woman, plenty out there

    • @rodneyrobinson1042
      @rodneyrobinson1042 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Truth!

  • @evawild8016
    @evawild8016 หลายเดือนก่อน +396

    “The Gift of the Magi”. A 1905 short story by O Henry.

    • @juliepetri2484
      @juliepetri2484 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I love the way u tell it 😊

    • @nicolesharp7759
      @nicolesharp7759 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Thank you. Give credit where it's due.

    • @tinafrompasadena3192
      @tinafrompasadena3192 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Thank you

    • @poeticlovee
      @poeticlovee หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thank you. I could rmbr the name of it.

    • @zacharynugent9745
      @zacharynugent9745 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yes. It's still so beautiful tho

  • @andrebennett1227
    @andrebennett1227 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +283

    Love isn't about what you can only take but what you can give.

  • @MikelAntonio-n6y
    @MikelAntonio-n6y หลายเดือนก่อน +134

    Challenges in relationships are a normal part of life, but there’s always a path forward.. My marriage encountered major difficulties, but with proper guidance, my wife and I managed to resolve our issues and deepen our connection. If you’re willing to put in the work and collaborate, solutions are always within reach. Keep hope alive; there are answers out there

    • @MeganGood-n4f
      @MeganGood-n4f หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m facing serious problems in my relationship and can’t stand the thought of losing him. I love and miss my partner greatly and am willing to do whatever it takes to have him back. Any advice or guidance you can provide would be deeply appreciated.

    • @MikelAntonio-n6y
      @MikelAntonio-n6y หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Saying goodbye to someone you cherish is consistently difficult, yet in my case, I received support from a spiritual advisor who kept my marriage intact. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.

    • @MeganGood-n4f
      @MeganGood-n4f หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'll promptly look her up online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that following this path will bring about positive outcomes for me too; I long for her deeply.

    • @MikelAntonio-n6y
      @MikelAntonio-n6y หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes. You definitely should

    • @mariadegan-vernum8686
      @mariadegan-vernum8686 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Wow. Great inspiration for Reflection even as me soon to celebrate R 47th Wedding Anniversary 🌹✝️🌹
      Praise God
      Bless you n yr spouse abundantly ❤

  • @Diligently2U
    @Diligently2U 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +122

    I believe there is clear communication that needs to be had.
    Wife: I need a comb.
    Husband: I can sell my watch if you really need that comb.
    Wife: Or I can cut my hair for money.
    Husband: No don't do that.
    I'lll get you the comb on my next paycheck because I need this watch for work.
    Wife: Ok, I love you

    • @myafreeton9431
      @myafreeton9431 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Exactly 💯

    • @dexterramey8787
      @dexterramey8787 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It was spur of the moment..

    • @MidlifeCharm
      @MidlifeCharm 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes!!! I agree!

    • @winifredohiku1052
      @winifredohiku1052 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is how it be. 👍

    • @J.C.1
      @J.C.1 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😟My mother taught me to never put things off until another day, for something you can do today.
      Tmrw isn't promised to no one. #RipMyQueen👑🕊️🥀

  • @ARMY63WVETAD
    @ARMY63WVETAD 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +168

    When a man and a woman think alike in a relationship. It’s the most beautiful powerful movement. And the relationship is straight winning.

    • @tazboi81
      @tazboi81 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      A beautiful soul tie. My wife and I laugh whenever we finish each other's thoughts.

    • @angelawilson1633
      @angelawilson1633 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    • @ATSW77
      @ATSW77 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤❤❤

    • @heyshonta5759
      @heyshonta5759 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Except it isn’t in this case, one received something useful, while the other did not. Had they just communicated prior to the unselfish acts, everyone would be whole. The woman has lost years of care and time. The man has lost nothing, not even time.

  • @mcbreeze808
    @mcbreeze808 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +329

    20 years ago, I told my wife that selfishness is the poisonous cancer that kills marriages. ⚖

    • @gregoryingram70
      @gregoryingram70 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      It killed mines

    • @babykyzzl
      @babykyzzl 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Also killed mine but I learned the hard way that I can’t do anything to show someone how to be selfless for their own marriage.

    • @ratiodbarber
      @ratiodbarber 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@babykyzzlhow long were u married?

    • @empowered9122
      @empowered9122 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Selfishness brought my covenant marriage to the manifestation of divorce after 19yrs...it was over after 3yrs but I respected covenant until it was literally unbearable.

    • @JP-up3xv
      @JP-up3xv 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Are you still married?

  • @emilyloup1844
    @emilyloup1844 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I haven't heard this story in a loooonnnnggg time. It was a great reminder that life is not all about me. Thank you!

  • @wiseguy6140
    @wiseguy6140 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +163

    This is us shout out to my wife 23yrs and counting❤❤

    • @kerrypinkston9392
      @kerrypinkston9392 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤ God bless the love...
      Many more🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @ChristinaHawkins-gi5rw
      @ChristinaHawkins-gi5rw หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Congrats! We have 17!

    • @ryanscott2118
      @ryanscott2118 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Congrats! 20 for my wife and I. Just read the book “The Man’s guide to Women” by John and Julie Gottman. GREAT BOOK! I’m saying that after my wife gave it to me and I begrudgingly started reading it. 😅. I was certainly missing the mark in a few areas however, since I got about half way through, WORLD OF DIFFERENCE!! Easy fun short read, BIG GAINS!!
      All the Best!

    • @wiseguy6140
      @wiseguy6140 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ryanscott2118 💪🏾💪🏾

  • @godspurpose15
    @godspurpose15 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    Husband and wife in sync with the Holy Spirit guiding them to sacrifice for each other

  • @RoyaltyK
    @RoyaltyK หลายเดือนก่อน +218

    Both parties looking out for each other is a beautiful thing.

    • @truestkiss3699
      @truestkiss3699 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Exactly. She can grow hair out now that she has a comb and he has a new watch that he needed.

    • @CMeri-sl6bt
      @CMeri-sl6bt หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Imo...only the man benefited. She lost her hair/glory. He got a brand new watch. She has a comb she can't use.

    • @vysevee1992
      @vysevee1992 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@CMeri-sl6bt its people like you who should not date or make children. Its about being selfless not about what they have materialistic wise 🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @Martin-mt3wz
      @Martin-mt3wz หลายเดือนก่อน

      When you are willing to give up everything you have for someone. That's true love . That's the dedication needed for a marriage to make it. Both parties are willing to die for each other. I wouldn't think twice on my end

  • @katjohnson4454
    @katjohnson4454 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +364

    Lack of communication is what destroys a lot of marriages.

    • @yaohkhanandaout3292
      @yaohkhanandaout3292 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nah, black people bying into European ways of life is the detriment of our race.

    • @sharonadams2858
      @sharonadams2858 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      That part 😢

    • @fadekesalami6061
      @fadekesalami6061 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      💯

    • @jhonatanalvarez05
      @jhonatanalvarez05 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Most times only from one side.

    • @Mr.Bathelus832
      @Mr.Bathelus832 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That’s part of it

  • @kayjones6576
    @kayjones6576 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +232

    His wife didn't want him to suffer or give up something that he needs. It was their different communication that brought things back together and shows how caring they were to each other. ❤❤

    • @jeanettesdaughter
      @jeanettesdaughter 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      But somewhere in there was a miscommunication! Obviously.

    • @chrissy334
      @chrissy334 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@jeanettesdaughterexactly! 🤣🤣 wife came up too short. Hubby thought about himself FIRST

    • @tricethomas9653
      @tricethomas9653 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      In turn they both got what they wanted... they were thinking about each other

    • @deforestrankin6601
      @deforestrankin6601 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@chrissy334 By selling the watch that he need for work?

    • @cheyb2257
      @cheyb2257 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​she's the one who really sacrificed

  • @enidclarke6258
    @enidclarke6258 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +99

    Both making sacrifice for each other.. trust and true love ❤❤

    • @Walkingsoul-qd9cj
      @Walkingsoul-qd9cj หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      horrible story tho… now he has a watch and she’s bald…

  • @meld3315
    @meld3315 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Beautiful to have someone who loves you like that!!❤ So blessed!

  • @victoriaw8695
    @victoriaw8695 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +427

    Marriage is a partnership that works, and never should be a competition which never works.

    • @Bestg3180
      @Bestg3180 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Well said. I said that in my past relationships. So easy but so hard.

    • @YahanonYahudah
      @YahanonYahudah 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Marriage is NOT a partnership. A partnership means there are two heads. There can be only one head and one help meet. So Marriage is both man and woman playing their roles.

    • @TaurusAlphaRuledByVenus6978
      @TaurusAlphaRuledByVenus6978 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      👏🏽🎯📍💥

    • @greedg.i.l.m6593
      @greedg.i.l.m6593 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's not a partnership, and that's why you're NOT MARRIED 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @dlisa9735
      @dlisa9735 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@YahanonYahudah👍🏽

  • @mrgroosumthasandman8046
    @mrgroosumthasandman8046 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

    I love my wife! She's a woman who will make sure everybody has before her. And I'm a man who does the same.
    Together❤unstoppable.

    • @natasharobinson5739
      @natasharobinson5739 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Look at your profile- That’s Amazingly Funny & Beautiful Metaphor for The Good Wife and Husband 🌹🌈❤️👍🏽

  • @Lisa_Joyous42
    @Lisa_Joyous42 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    They thought of each other. That's true partnership. It didn't feel like a sacrifice for either of them. Their love was worth it❤❤.

  • @anyboii
    @anyboii 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He gave everything (100%) and she gave everything (100%). This is a very great way of explaining how to treat your partner.

  • @ragaskorbett
    @ragaskorbett 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +198

    That’s the kind of wife that men who are living righteous are looking for.

    • @KangwithoutaKangdom
      @KangwithoutaKangdom 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      And most of them are not loving righteous at all, look at who he's freaking talking to.

    • @CaseyFellman
      @CaseyFellman 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I don't need a woman like that, I need a woman that loves God above all else. I'll let the most high handle my worries. I know right from wrong, I'm keen to it, but knowledge doesn't start with a woman or someone else's or myself. It starts at the word of God and it ends there.

    • @BrandonTimmons-km4hi
      @BrandonTimmons-km4hi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@CaseyFellman If she loves God, then she knows the husband is the head.

    • @msbronzegoddess3166
      @msbronzegoddess3166 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@BrandonTimmons-km4hiYou people 😂. I can't smh.

    • @michiganrico2802
      @michiganrico2802 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@KangwithoutaKangdom u don’t know most

  • @stefaniemccoy7377
    @stefaniemccoy7377 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1480

    The original story is called, The Gift of the Maji by Ol Henry. He also wrote the Ransom of Red Chief. Great stories. Very old.

    • @holywifeyacademy
      @holywifeyacademy  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      @@stefaniemccoy7377 thank you... I'm definitely going to find them!

    • @dollhouseq1530
      @dollhouseq1530 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      I always loved this story ❤

    • @NigelWood117
      @NigelWood117 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      I always loved that story.

    • @kimberlicooper8969
      @kimberlicooper8969 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amazon 😀 just ordered hard cover 😀​@@holywifeyacademy

    • @edwintrone54
      @edwintrone54 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Thank you!. I always remembered this story just forgot the name. Me being 35 and recapping this from 7th, 8th grade is a breath of fresh air. This is true marriage shit

  • @tyjohnson1550
    @tyjohnson1550 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Exactly! Been saying this for years! Two people putting each other 1st as the priority both will always get everything they need and more!💯👏🏽

  • @shaylaburr6501
    @shaylaburr6501 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This put tears in my eyes...

  • @KaliMahalo
    @KaliMahalo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I came here to say this .. Gift of the Magi! Loved that story! O Henry was an amazing writer!

    • @MrPrelaw
      @MrPrelaw 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I came to the comments looking for someone to say “this is the Gift of the Magi, by O Henry!” Nailed it. Thank you. I still have hope… a lot of people don’t read. They just scroll on their phones😂

  • @melgood8
    @melgood8 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    Exactly a “ MUTUAL” respect. Not just one person expecting another to do for them.

    • @TA-ht4jo
      @TA-ht4jo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      In this story, only the man benefited from it because he got to use the watch. The wife cut all her hair so she couldn’t use the comb.

    • @myafreeton9431
      @myafreeton9431 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@TA-ht4joexactly 💯

    • @montyholmon8885
      @montyholmon8885 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Her hair will grow back, she'll get to use the comb🙄... if her hair was down to the ground, that means she doesn't use perm. So it'll grow....unlike others. 😂😂😂

    • @Gilmore-p8t
      @Gilmore-p8t 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Point missed by so many .. it isn’t about the gain or loss… it’s about the ability to recognize the need or desire of your other 1/2 and be willing to sacrifice for them …
      It’s not about the damn hair/comb or watch… damn.. r we really doomed as a people like this ?

  • @qjones5246
    @qjones5246 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    That’s exactly how it suppose to be. You look out for your mate and they look out for you! Acts of unselfishness! Straight up! 🙏🏽

    • @KuttyJoe
      @KuttyJoe 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's actually selfishness. It says that you would not do for your spouse if your spouse would not do it for you. Selflessness is when you say, I will do for you regardless of what you do for me.

    • @wannabecar8733
      @wannabecar8733 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jesus is the Son of G-d. He died on the cross and rose from the dead on the third day. He is sitting at the right hand of G-d.

  • @mudlinka
    @mudlinka หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Marriage isn’t about compromise,as you are often told. It’s about cooperation. Working together. Giving, as opposed to giving up. Age 52 married 29.

  • @riri9134
    @riri9134 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I love that both willing to sacrifice for each other beautiful relationship beautiful understanding for each other’s needs!

  • @christinanavarre8389
    @christinanavarre8389 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    Old, old,old story. That was a lesson....I was taught...to always be giving, when someone you love or loves you.. is in need. Your life will be the better for it. I'm 67, best lesson to learn young.❤

    • @seantrice4269
      @seantrice4269 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm 52 in age and I totally agree with you me and my wife are the same it's a team an partnership indeed.

    • @KuttyJoe
      @KuttyJoe 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your comment is different, and better than the one expressed in the video. You're describing selflessness. The video describes a person that will only do for someone else if that other person does something equal for him, which is selfishness.

  • @dougmorton4947
    @dougmorton4947 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Being SUBMISSIVE to each other ❤❤❤

  • @rosalynnartis2404
    @rosalynnartis2404 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +133

    EXACTLY!! How has the conversation changed so drastically. It went from people saying what they will give and are willing to do for their spouse, to what they want or deserve from their spouse.

    • @mo_reels
      @mo_reels 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's what you get from the story?

    • @kingtez9494
      @kingtez9494 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@mo_reelsI mean since she is comparing it to real lifes drastic increase in divorces and broken families cuz of failed relationships that makes sense that's what she got

    • @vaunb2003
      @vaunb2003 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Very well put ms lady . Ion know how the mf up there got confused about your statement . like wtf did you just read bro??

    • @rosalynnartis2404
      @rosalynnartis2404 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mo_reels 🤦🏽‍♀️🤣. I'd love to hear what you got from it.

    • @rosalynnartis2404
      @rosalynnartis2404 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@vaunb2003 Thank you... Idk either.

  • @pepsijot
    @pepsijot หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great O. Henry story! I fell in love with O. Henrys stories in elementary school and it started with this story.

  • @fernandofernandezespinoza7109
    @fernandofernandezespinoza7109 หลายเดือนก่อน +154

    “The gift of the Magi” read it in class in the 90’s. This story truly stuck with me.

    • @rwanaanderson4841
      @rwanaanderson4841 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same

    • @ArielJones-jj6dk
      @ArielJones-jj6dk หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Me too! It’s beautiful ❤️

    • @cametriaw974
      @cametriaw974 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I knew i remembered it from childhood, but couldn’t think of the title! Thanks!

    • @Ziggyhere57
      @Ziggyhere57 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I just read that in job corp now

    • @andywhite5768
      @andywhite5768 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      O'Henry. I wonder if he's still read in our public schools.

  • @tonibarb
    @tonibarb 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Relationships like this are rare. If you're in one, cherish it.

  • @michaelconner1771
    @michaelconner1771 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    He needed the watch to work. That takes precedent. His unselfish wife understood this. He's proven himself an unselfish husband, too. True soul mates of each other.

  • @mrhowell8872
    @mrhowell8872 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The beauty of sacrificing in strong love.

  • @KhaMuh-c5f
    @KhaMuh-c5f หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    Thats honestly a beautiful story. They are perfect for one another.

  • @edwardclarkson-ph1kl
    @edwardclarkson-ph1kl หลายเดือนก่อน +1683

    Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

    • @albertshinskiy
      @albertshinskiy หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back

    • @edwardclarkson-ph1kl
      @edwardclarkson-ph1kl หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

    • @albertshinskiy
      @albertshinskiy หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @edwardclarkson-ph1kl
      @edwardclarkson-ph1kl หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

    • @nathalykey
      @nathalykey หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi Edward, I went through a very difficult heart break and also considered sonething like that, I'm very glad I didn't. I later realised that person was actually not good for me but I did need healing and found the Holy Spirit, He healed me and brought me a beautiful man who is now my husband. If you need a "spiritual healer" to bring someone back, that spirit is not from God and doesn't have the best for you. I recommend the book Spirit blessing, you can bless yours and her Spirit and if you two are meant to be together it will happen, many stories of marriages restored like that. And if it isn't the best for you your heart will be restated and you'll be able to move on and find the right person and the great life that God planned for you to have ❤ praying God's comfort over you

  • @tylynn256
    @tylynn256 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    This was beautiful. Actions looked different, but were the same sacrifice.

  • @Big..Rank..52
    @Big..Rank..52 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You supposed to know somebody got your back!! Woman got to Good for love!!we still ready to go to work for them # times change

  • @kwadwog8168
    @kwadwog8168 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    This is why you tell the other person what you are up to. No need tunning into a burning building to save each other when one of you is already outside.

    • @sirsleepy2472
      @sirsleepy2472 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Okay, I understand and agree that communication is important but that’s not the point he is trying to make.

    • @vysevee1992
      @vysevee1992 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@kwadwog8168 sometimes you dont need to communicate to show your thinking of your significant other. The spontaneous consideration is also fulfilling for people as well. We all like to be surprised with love sometimes. Communication is very important but its also important to let your partner know they are on your mind without it being spoke on 💯

    • @samsecada8404
      @samsecada8404 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Bruh ? Really ? That's all you got from that story ?

    • @edddier6484
      @edddier6484 หลายเดือนก่อน

      you lack emotional intelligence ...

  • @Benet1nOnly
    @Benet1nOnly หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    That's how marriage is supposed to work.❤

  • @omohjaneajayi9495
    @omohjaneajayi9495 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Wow! Talk about mutual love and respect!

  • @ms.krueger2660
    @ms.krueger2660 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love this.
    It should be this way.
    I have been married 36 years and I can proudly say this is how me and my husband are. He thinks of my well being and I think of his.
    Both is us think about our 3 grown sons and help them if they need it.
    This story sums up a great marriage!!💜🙏

  • @ladonnalambert9232
    @ladonnalambert9232 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Sacrifice without communication is a wasted effort!

    • @myafreeton9431
      @myafreeton9431 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Precisely 💯

    • @goodnesswami1599
      @goodnesswami1599 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Not in this case

    • @ShantinaDavis
      @ShantinaDavis หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Now she is walking around bald headed with a new comb.

    • @patricewilliams2998
      @patricewilliams2998 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@ShantinaDavis hair grows back 😂 not a lost at all because he still needs the watch for work.

    • @edwardjoanis4506
      @edwardjoanis4506 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂​@@ShantinaDavis

  • @stylzeswift9705
    @stylzeswift9705 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Now that's what is called genuine true love...A rarity in many relationships today.....caring and sharing...

    • @ondreacounts2556
      @ondreacounts2556 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No that's your typical marriage...a total lack of communication & not letting your spouse know what you are doing!

  • @LatonyaHall-j3e
    @LatonyaHall-j3e 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    OH WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This was a great GREAT story. I get the message.

  • @kenphillips399
    @kenphillips399 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Literally made me cry a little. Actual tears.

  • @spazzologist
    @spazzologist หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I thought she was gonna be ungrateful and did it to spite him. This is truly wholesome❤️

    • @wannabecar8733
      @wannabecar8733 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jesus is the Son of G-d. He died on the cross and rose from the dead on the third day. He is sitting at the right hand of G-d.

  • @dweaver5602
    @dweaver5602 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    THIS is what I've looked for... THIS is what I saw in my parents. TRUE LOVE!

  • @blizzard7495
    @blizzard7495 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I had to read The Gift of the Magi in grade school. Definitely a sweet story

  • @MugishaPacific-p2t
    @MugishaPacific-p2t 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wow that's total respect🎉😢❤

  • @CorprateModern-fp8lo
    @CorprateModern-fp8lo หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    They both knew what they needed and what they had to give.

  • @4hinson777
    @4hinson777 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    That should be REQUIRED READING for every school age youth. Great life lesson in human relationships. 💯👍🏼
    ** The Gift Of The Maji by Ol Henry **

    • @kerrypinkston9392
      @kerrypinkston9392 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes I agree ...
      Just maybe it would have helped ppl understand love & MUTUAL RESPECT

  • @ElizabethHome153
    @ElizabethHome153 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I love this message, it show you how much they unselfish love each other. I've seen this done many times when i was growing up with my parents. This was before cell phone, they used to buy same exactly things when they get off work.

  • @donaldmcknight22
    @donaldmcknight22 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Now this is the MATCHING ENERGY that I like 💯🙏🏾

  • @reggiewright175
    @reggiewright175 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    That is such a wonderful story on so many levels. It explains how love really works.

  • @carnelanderson1732
    @carnelanderson1732 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    TRUE LOVE LOOKS OUT FOR EACH OTHER HEART ❤️

  • @ms.education4365
    @ms.education4365 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    The Gift of the Maji

  • @maralynlatouche
    @maralynlatouche หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    In single but this had me in tears the love and sacrifice in this story is beyond amazing

  • @TheKaluha88
    @TheKaluha88 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    That’s love and respect. Now that’s how a marriage supposed to be. That’s beautiful

  • @ChrissyAnn85
    @ChrissyAnn85 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    Nick saying wow wow wow is hilarious. The words are just going in one ear and out the other 😂😂😂😂

    • @quinnterry2834
      @quinnterry2834 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂

    • @brideofchrist8295
      @brideofchrist8295 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@quinnterry2834😅😅😅😅😅

    • @richmondOwei
      @richmondOwei 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😅😅😅😅😅😅 that's funny tho

    • @MzLove480
      @MzLove480 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I promise😂😂😂

    • @thegodhonesttruth1584
      @thegodhonesttruth1584 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Obviously. Nick is gonna keep on being his raggedy self.😂

  • @pameladjackson9088
    @pameladjackson9088 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    What a great story ... Thanks for sharing.Thats love

  • @arnoldandujar4893
    @arnoldandujar4893 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m crying 😢
    That’s true love regardless of if was scripted!

  • @vysevee1992
    @vysevee1992 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    shouldnt even be just marraige, it should be before marriage as well. To me thats just real love for someone. Paperwork doesnt make it any different. Its so hard to find someone that matches this type of love anymore 💯

  • @Luv2shop1111
    @Luv2shop1111 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Beautiful story of love & sacrifice ☀️

    • @kerrypinkston9392
      @kerrypinkston9392 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not a sacrifice when it's ❤❤❤ only an exchange & understanding

  • @Moewut
    @Moewut 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Another one that should go viral 👑👑👑

  • @chrisburkhart2351
    @chrisburkhart2351 หลายเดือนก่อน

    There is so much truth in this short story. The secret to making mutual sacrifice work in a marriage is to not keep track of your sacrifices.

  • @s.w.3476
    @s.w.3476 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Deeeeeep. Nuri, it doesn't gets any better!!!!! Well spoken.!

  • @ElMorroPerez
    @ElMorroPerez หลายเดือนก่อน +114

    That man is speak to a wall. Nick will never understand...😂😂😂
    Great message sir

    • @ekpezayakem3222
      @ekpezayakem3222 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😂😂😂😂😂 mehn u read his soul

    • @peaceloveunity3794
      @peaceloveunity3794 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Nick has a kind soul/big heart. Either y'all some clowns or haters.

    • @MerryChrisMas25
      @MerryChrisMas25 หลายเดือนก่อน

      99% of you goofs wouldn't even be alive with Nicks career 😂 tryna compare a multimillionaire teenager to yo ass 😂

    • @Am-mm6iz
      @Am-mm6iz หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Came straight to the comments to see if that was nick I saw because that man is old 😂

    • @ElMorroPerez
      @ElMorroPerez หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@peaceloveunity3794 😆 🤣

  • @Kurdisssss
    @Kurdisssss หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    You can tell just by how Nick Cannon was responding he didn't give a fuck

    • @painistrueforyouandforme
      @painistrueforyouandforme หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂😂😂

    • @Kurdisssss
      @Kurdisssss หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@painistrueforyouandforme he really didn't lmao

    • @painistrueforyouandforme
      @painistrueforyouandforme หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Kurdisssss bro was in his head like “ that aint my marriage “ 😂

    • @Kurdisssss
      @Kurdisssss หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@painistrueforyouandforme lmao right

  • @carolynrivera738
    @carolynrivera738 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was told the story when I was a little girl. It has always stuck with me.

  • @lisajames4755
    @lisajames4755 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I got chills watching this

  • @JadaMoats
    @JadaMoats หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    The kind of respect that people should have 4 each other when wed

  • @queenofweaves916
    @queenofweaves916 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I love this analogy!

  • @RhondaR4
    @RhondaR4 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This always gives me chills. That's true, real love.❤

  • @desireerainey2362
    @desireerainey2362 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Omg I read that story in 1974..4th grade never forgot it ❤❤

  • @lorisaffier6927
    @lorisaffier6927 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I saw this movie when I was a child. Those mutual gifts were done for their exchange of Christmas gifts.
    I've never forgotten .

  • @violet5610
    @violet5610 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    The gift of the Magi has always been my favorite Christmas story

    • @jeffd1986
      @jeffd1986 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same here.

    • @violet5610
      @violet5610 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jeffd1986 it's crazy to me how many people don't know it. It's such a beautiful story.

    • @jeffd1986
      @jeffd1986 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@violet5610 No one reads the classics anymore.

    • @violet5610
      @violet5610 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@jeffd1986 that's sad.

  • @mikep4791
    @mikep4791 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I got tears rolling! This is how it's supposed to be. But as time passes, society gets further and further away from this and its all about me, me, me, and what I want. We need to get back to how shit used to be. When women and men had self respect and respect for others. I love this story!

  • @DocRice403
    @DocRice403 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    😢... hits hard with what I'm going through right now... doing for each other in our own ways!

    • @kerrypinkston9392
      @kerrypinkston9392 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤❤❤ don't stop continuously believing that it's best to be for EACH OTHER

  • @gustashine18
    @gustashine18 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Moral of the story, neither needed what they thought they needed

    • @holywifeyacademy
      @holywifeyacademy  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      The beauty is that they recognized it, even if it was after the fact. Some people never come to this realization.

    • @bigfuturenick
      @bigfuturenick 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@holywifeyacademyTop tier insight

    • @Willesden_Rab1_TV
      @Willesden_Rab1_TV 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      well the man said he needed the watch for work - she needed the comb cos her hair is long .im just wondering how much did that comb cost $600 or more for a comb😂

    • @trudy-annclarke3617
      @trudy-annclarke3617 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I was thinking that they could've communicated more clearly, like giving a timeline on when he thinks he could buy her a comb and how much it would cost to fix his watch and ask her how much would the comb cost. Does that make sense?😊

    • @Willesden_Rab1_TV
      @Willesden_Rab1_TV 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@trudy-annclarke3617 😂

  • @kafid7301
    @kafid7301 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This is a great story. The short story was the first of it's kind

    • @lauraboudreaux6581
      @lauraboudreaux6581 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No, it wasn't. There was a movie way back in the 70's or 80's with same storyline.😂

    • @blackmamba...814
      @blackmamba...814 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@lauraboudreaux6581girl... please ... he meant short stories in general which were waaaaaayyyyy before television let alone movies

  • @Timetravel755
    @Timetravel755 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That just made me cry. I wish people still had some of those morals 😢

  • @MsuccessfulM
    @MsuccessfulM หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I can’t wait to find my special someone. ❤❤

    • @Blackcougar22
      @Blackcougar22 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Probably not within the US.

  • @jaliljackson1474
    @jaliljackson1474 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This is beautiful 🙏🏽

  • @kamonmack9262
    @kamonmack9262 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Wow so she cut off all her hair for nothin.....😂😂😂😂.....im jus messin.....message received

    • @aaclar
      @aaclar หลายเดือนก่อน

      I know I need help I was like bruh still got a watch and she just got a tight fade lol

  • @jaymonz8274
    @jaymonz8274 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Beautiful… people need to learn this not reels from fake internet models and coaches.

  • @samujnks8912
    @samujnks8912 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

    Communication should have been before the fact!!

    • @holywifeyacademy
      @holywifeyacademy  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      @@samujnks8912 Yes, but this is a story based in ancient Mali.... the main point is that they were both willing to sacrifice for the other 💕

    • @jonathanmornes3914
      @jonathanmornes3914 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I get it but like he said, communication could solve it all both sacrifice and now both are broke

    • @DontTestMeAtall
      @DontTestMeAtall 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You know it's okay for a human being to think self preservation first and then weigh it all and change their minds right? You both are missing the fact that even though they self preserved first, they decided to 'SACRIFICE' for each other afterwards

    • @jonathanmornes3914
      @jonathanmornes3914 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @DontTestMeAtall Nobody is missing the point. Wouldn't u want a brain surgeon who had experience in his field or someone who was just willing to sacrifice their time to learn. Both are commendable, but u would want the person with the experience

    • @goonern4644
      @goonern4644 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@jonathanmornes3914 Having short hair and no watch does not mean you're broke. This entire message was wasted on you. Jeez 😂

  • @ms.t4674
    @ms.t4674 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Beautiful. ❤❤❤

    • @holywifeyacademy
      @holywifeyacademy  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ms.t4674 Very beautiful story ❤️

  • @pminner1
    @pminner1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    He jacked the story up, but the principal is still there.

    • @MadeByGod1973
      @MadeByGod1973 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Please share the right story. I'm curious.

    • @msrochellef6983
      @msrochellef6983 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      His story is based on The Gift of the Magi. In that story, the couple is poor, but the husband has a beautiful gold watch that is a cherished heirloom and the wife has beautiful long hair that people envy. They want to give each other a special gift for Christmas. He secretly sells his watch to buy her combs for her long hair and she secretly sells her hair to buy him a beautiful gold chain for his watch.

    • @msrochellef6983
      @msrochellef6983 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​​@@MadeByGod1973 I shared the story above for you 😊

    • @regi3724
      @regi3724 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      We got his point

    • @LAPD-ej7uo
      @LAPD-ej7uo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@msrochellef6983😅

  • @mcclain13180
    @mcclain13180 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is a beautiful story and absolutely the way marriage should be. I am so grateful for my wife and my amazing family so grateful to have such an amazing woman by my side

  • @nuritspa9632
    @nuritspa9632 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Absolutely ❤

  • @phoenixpower8532
    @phoenixpower8532 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Nick looks drained smh

    • @octaviakf
      @octaviakf 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No he don’t he’s cooling

    • @phoenixpower8532
      @phoenixpower8532 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@octaviakf what you his spokesperson? I’m giving my opinion on what I’m observing , chill out …

    • @Bestg3180
      @Bestg3180 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@phoenixpower8532I agree with you. Chillen but the eyes are the gateway to the soul. You can see the pain.

    • @AnthonyWheatley_
      @AnthonyWheatley_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      All them babies he popping out

    • @ellyond.lucciano
      @ellyond.lucciano 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He has lupus. Dumb

  • @coretaclark3104
    @coretaclark3104 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    SHOULD'VE Said YES IN The BEGINNING

  • @TwistedRootsMelody
    @TwistedRootsMelody หลายเดือนก่อน

    O'Henry was always one of my favorite storytellers ❤