Dear Mehran, thank you for giving back my self confidence. A person can feel so low when someone break up with you, but like you said there are so many other possibilities, a person must just wait for the right person to come into your life even if it takes a long time.
You got it Liz. :) You will be fine and all will be great, give it time and explore the world and enjoy life every day and no one thing is the whole of life. Life has lot more to offer han you can imagine, certainly lot more than one relationship ! :) Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age group you belong to dear? Also please share the videos you like along with my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media if you will so others will get to know about what is available. Thanks :) I also have a live talk on Sundays 8.30 AM pacific time on a FB page called " Amazing things in the world " , and usually I answer questions as the end of the 10-15 minute talk, you are welcomed to join us there. Be good to yourself always. with thanks, Mehran
😌IM NOT "WAITING" IM JUST "RELAXING and REPLENISHING"!! THEN, WHEN I'M READY, I'M GOING BACK OUT AND "PARTICIPATE" IN MY LIFE AGAIN, GRABBING SOME "GUSTO", CREATING MY OWN HAPPINESS WHILE MAINTAINING THE "ESSENCE" OF WHO I AM!😍
@@Greeky-y2w ☺️STILL RELAXING, REPLENISHING, 😷DODGING THE "CORONA", 🎉GRABBING GUSTO MOMENTS OF HAPPINESS WHENEVER IT PRESENTS ITSELF, 😇 MY RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD HAS "ENHANCED" ALL-THE-WHILE KNOWING THAT 💪"I AM ENOUGH" NO MATTER WHAT STATE I'M IN AND 🥳 "LIV'IN MY LIFE LIKE IT'S GOLDEN!"☺️
u are saving me Mehran. my boyfriend with whom i lived for 3.5 years has left me few days ago. we had many fights and disagreements, we are very different. i know i have hurt him with my words many times and he has hurt me too...he felt that he needs to leave in order for both of us to be happy. i could have never done this step but he did... it broke my heart and i am completely devastated. but watching ur videos is helping me little by little..thank you
You are welcomed dear. I am glad you find them helpful. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran
Another amazing video. This is exactly how I've felt the last few months. That I'll never find anyone like her again, that was perfect, that it was just my head that needed fixing (which is true!). I am ready now. Ready to commit my life to someone. Not just a few months or years, but for as long as I live. I am at peace with my insecurities. I am me, and I just wish I could give that to my ex. I am finally perfect for her.
be perfect for some one else if she is not appreciating your offer as weather she accepts, comes back or not, you will always be good and qualified for someone who can see and is intelligent enough to want to get to know you, nothing will change or diminish in you by someone's choice of you are not, that ( their choice) does not have any effect on who and how you are so their acceptance or interest in you is irrelevant to your qualities and value. This is how you should think and disqualify whom ever does not take advantage of your offer!
You are welcomed, I am glad you are enjoying the channel and finding the videos helpful Veneer. There are over 1,200 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :) The secret to manage a break-up and to be able to move on to a happy life is to understand how you are put together and why you feel, act and react the way you do in life. Such knowledge is provided on this channel through numerous discussions ( in videos ), or when live streaming and exploring people's questions and concerns after a breakup, from around the world. You will be perfectly fine once you get to know yourself a lot better! :) Hope you have subscribed and clicked on the bell so you will be notified when I go live. Below is my standard E-mail respond which contains some information in regards to my live talks, how to join in when I have a live talk on TH-cam and where to see my site and one on one Skype consultation packages. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know which country you are watching the videos from and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran P.S. How to join the live talks: You can join my live talks on Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone), Always on TH-cam channel: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish or On some days of the week ( Same Time Zone) on my Facebook page: This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk: LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life. With Mehran D (Author) Unlock Your Mind & Move On! Usually on Friday, Saturday and Sunday 11.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 2.30 PM (Atlantic), 12.30 after midnight (India), (but it could be earlier in the day), Right here on this link: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com For Skype consultation: If you would like us to address the certain specific situation you might be faced with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options are suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may choose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.
Thats exactly how I felt..... oh I lost her so this is it ill never find another as good or as great.. I still feel this way.. Still havent met another just been working out and hanging out with friends and working. I still watch your videos and they are still great. Just sucks being single lol.. I wanna WIN and I felt as if I lost but i still hope i can rise up and win.. I always tell myself RISE UP and make something great out of myself.. but not much changes.. lol good video hello again mehran glad to see you keeping up with your videos
MON3YonPC You ever lost , and if you get a nice girlfriend that is not a win either. You are a winner any ways for you are here in this world with the rest of us. So just enjoy and row your boat and it will get to some where nice to your liking sooner or later, it will, it has to :)
Your message today was a super anti suicide remedy. When a person sees no options at all , suicide comes knocking on there door. Please speak to the person who feels a big part of the finality and (no options) part you speak of here, but add this. The person has worked and loved from age 19 to 60 years old to be the best blessing he can for his family. He makes a covenant with his young wife to do life together. They agree to make a home and family together. They are in AGREEMENT and make a public and legal confession to do this until death parts them. At age 60 the man finds his wife hates him. Please speak to the life time of loving (investment) the man also sees washed away. He knows he can’t live forever. He knows he’s to old to start over again with this idea. Life is a timed stay. To his amazement the wife wants MORE and just leaves him at 60 years old. I can understand a deal going bad. What about a deal agreed upon that takes , “and took” all your earthy time away. He has no strength to go back to the shore , rest, and swim the SAME distance only in another direction. 10‘s of thousands of men have had this happen and its happening everyday.
I am impressed looks like you have watched a few of the videos already and remember their contents which you used in your message above, Impressive! :) Yes unfortunately such things happen a lot these days and women leave men when they are old and just about to want to relax and have a strong and warm and solid relationship based on love and having shared many years of their lives together. The whole concept of "what did I get in this world", " Is that all I worth" are too often considered by women when they do not seem to be satisfied with the kind of luxury or financial comfort that they had hoped for when they got married or got into a serious relationship. The ones who change ship when they are in their 50's and 60's will never be happy as they will be always interested to get more, and they will keep changing horses until it is too late and they realize that they have build nothing and all they have done is change horses! :) Hopefully people will choose carefully and try to build a life and not use a lifetime! Be good to yourself always, Mehran
Glad you enjoy them and find them helpful Andy. join us at the weekly live stream (free) on Saturdays at 1 PM Vancouver time. You can ask your questions based on your situations after break up, or just listen / watch the answer to other people's questions from around the world. We have live stream on Saturdays at 1 PM Vancouver time and again at 9 PM Vancouver time. Let me know your age and which country you are watching the videos from.
+butterfflyess You trust as long as that person is worthy of your trust and is trustable , loving, loyal and compatible and then when not, you stop the trust and move on forward to discover other opportunities worthy of your trust and that is why that situation, the disappointment, the lack of happiness not need to be or considered to be final. :)
I appreciate all your videos so much. May i ask you how I can deal with an ex who keeps playing around with me. One minute he tells me that he misses me, and loves me... the nexxt he is angry at me and hates me. I wont lie about our relationship, and the reason why we broke up is because we have bad interactions. He feels that i always yell at him and kick him out of the house while i feel like he dont give me enough attention and he's always the one to start a fight to push me to do the things that i do. Its a very unhealthy relationship, but i care and love him very much. I appreciate the good things about him and is satisfy with who he is. I just hate when he believes that he is the best thing i will ever have. Of course he is because he means a lot to me but i dont appreciate him putting it out like that. We are both very stubborn, and bad... tell me how i can get over him? How can i pull myself away like he did and be as careless as he can be of our relationship? I want to set myeself free from this misery. It hurts me and im in pain. I need help.
Zong Vang Call me on Skype , we will talk. I can't write long letters as I am doing it every day many time :)) so I simply don't want to write any more ! :) my Skype is : md.trading1 The problem is not you and the problem is not him ! you both have Egos bigger than necessary and taking everything personally as if it is the way to confirm your superiority and worth to yourselves ! Or you feel it is diminishing your worth and respect if the other one is making a comment derogatory or otherwise. Both always in pursuit of defending your characters, worth, ......
Yes their loss people always say I'm pretty, smart, compassionate and kind. Plus, was very happy when with him. His loss or his jealousy who knows. : )
Hiiiii sirI am watching your from last 6 months Your work is magnum opusIt helped me a lot But still i linger towards my ex And oftenally i see her in my dreams which makes me more uncomfortable and betryal i never stalked after she dumpedStill i linger How to stop it And after my breakup i am losing my interest towards girls and now its reached summit Am i becoming misogyny?Is it nornalPlease suggest me
I have accepted the break up and wished my ex husband that separated a month ago giving me 2 days notice after 15 years together. I told him all I care about is his happiness and know nothing lasts forever I won't bother him because it's his choice. My therapist says it's obvious he loves you but under tremendous work stress and is suffering from depression. Could this be true. He had to choose what he could handle and I was telling him to quit his work kind of pressuring him. Because he worked long hours at work and home since Company was in Taiwan their daytime was our nighttime and he had to talk at night and work with bosses. He was miserable and said he hated it. So then he left me and looks depressed now.
Hi I'm in a very bad situation. I broke up with my ex 6 months ago through extremely difficult circumstances. I've move half way across the world to run away from everything. I've tried getting with other women but I'm now impotent or suffering ED. Struggling to cope with feeling like I'm not able to get through what has happened and what I have lost. She had a little boy who I loved dearly and we had got a dog who I miss terribly as well!! Just don't see a point going on!!
Hello Coran, we never see the point when it is so fresh but we will later on and when we do we will be perfectly ok with life. Hang in there we all have gone through similar stuff in life and we all survived and became even happier than ever, wiser, stronger and happier than we ever thought possible. If you want to talk to me that is always possible. For Skype consultation: If you would like us to address certain specific situation you might be facing with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options is suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may chose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.
I dated a guy for 5 months . He walked away once but after reaching out to him within a month we got back together. After a month in a half he stopped calling me or texting me. just to find out he had blocked my number. I was heart broken because I saw no signs that he would do this. we didn't fight and as a matter a fact when I went to look for him he said it wasn't anything I did that he still had feelings for me but due to his religious reasons he couldn't be with me but to give him a couple of days and he would let me know what he decided. he didn't contact me and he still has me blocked. I am so hurt and cry everyday. i still can't get over how mean and hurtful he went out. what do you suggest I do?
the devastation, everything in my life seems connected to my breakup. I am having a terrible time getting out of this bomb crater. i feel so isolated, cant sleep cant get out of bed. I am even afraid to go out.
Murray, 1- don't allow the tether connecting you to your memory, to keep you from advancing into the "now". 2- Be aware that you are what you will do and not what you have done. 3- Focus that you can get out of bed and the need for the old order does not mean that you can not build and create a new order in your life and for that, you do not need your ex. 4- Nothing has been taken away from you as a human being, only the though, the image you had of the way things used to be is changed but that does not mean that how things were, was good. 5- This is your opportunity to re-discover your abilities and re-build your life on your own, independent from the ex or how used to be as for how things used to be is never and no longer alive, real, actual, it is just memory. 6- Murray, you can do it provided you prefer a good life over what you are experiencing now! 7- Many have been where you are and they pushed through and re-discovered their capabilities and did re-build their lives and move on. 8- Get in gear and push forward Murray, everyone else has and you can too. Yes, You Can.
My problem is I feel I lost my best friend. The memories and fun that was had. I’m in mourning and it hurts! Do I think that I will find someone else? Yes! But I’m hurting because she and I had so much fun and connection.
Yes but she is no longer that version of her and is now changed so you need to see her as she is now and not as you remember the other version of her and thinking that she is still the same person and that is why it does not make sense to you and can not or do not want to move on since you can not believe how she is ( from your memory ) is capable of leaving you while, in fact, the girl that you are missing is not the girl who has left you! See her as she is now and then disqualify her as this is not what you always liked and prefer so then what is there to miss, she is not your type as she is today. Watch this and many other videos on this channel to get you moving and understanding your psyche and why you feel the way you do and how to move on. th-cam.com/video/PC262p7zzew/w-d-xo.html Brett, you will be fine, there are over 1,200 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :) Hope you have subscribed and clicked on the bell so you will be notified when I go live. Below is my standard E-mail respond which contains some information in regards to my live talks, how to join in when I have a live talk on TH-cam and where to see my site and one on one Skype consultation packages. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know which country you are watching the videos from and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran P.S. How to join the live talks: You can join my live talks on Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone), Always on TH-cam channel: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish or On some days of the week ( Same Time Zone) on my Facebook page: This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk: LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life. With Mehran D (Author) Unlock Your Mind & Move On! Usually on Friday, Saturday and Sunday 11.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 2.30 PM (Atlantic), 12.30 after midnight (India), (but it could be earlier in the day), Right here on this link: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com For Skype consultation: If you would like us to address the certain specific situation you might be faced with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options are suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may choose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.
I am glad you are enjoying the channel and finding the videos helpful Internetgirl! :). There are over 1,200 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :) The secret to manage a break-up and to be able to move on to a happy life is to understand how you are put together and why you feel, act and react the way you do in life. Such knowledge is provided on this channel through numerous discussions ( in videos ), or when live streaming and exploring people's questions and concerns after a breakup, from around the world. You will be perfectly fine once you get to know yourself a lot better! :) Hope you have subscribed and clicked on the bell so you will be notified when I go live. Below is my standard E-mail respond which contains some information in regards to my live talks, how to join in when I have a live talk on TH-cam and where to see my site and one on one Skype consultation packages. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know which country you are watching the videos from and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran P.S. How to join the live talks: You can join my live talks on Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone), Always on TH-cam channel: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish or On some days of the week ( Same Time Zone) on my Facebook page: This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk: LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life. With Mehran D (Author) Unlock Your Mind & Move On! Usually on Friday, Saturday and Sunday 12.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 3.30 PM (Atlantic), 1.30 after midnight (India), (but it could be earlier in the day), Right here on this link: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com For Skype consultation: If you would like us to address the certain specific situation you might be faced with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options are suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may choose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.
Dear Mehran, thank you for giving back my self confidence. A person can feel so low when someone break up with you, but like you said there are so many other possibilities, a person must just wait for the right person to come into your life even if it takes a long time.
You got it Liz. :) You will be fine and all will be great, give it time and explore the world and enjoy life every day and no one thing is the whole of life. Life has lot more to offer han you can imagine, certainly lot more than one relationship ! :) Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age group you belong to dear? Also please share the videos you like along with my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media if you will so others will get to know about what is available. Thanks :) I also have a live talk on Sundays 8.30 AM pacific time on a FB page called " Amazing things in the world " , and usually I answer questions as the end of the 10-15 minute talk, you are welcomed to join us there. Be good to yourself always. with thanks, Mehran
😌IM NOT "WAITING" IM JUST "RELAXING and REPLENISHING"!! THEN, WHEN I'M READY, I'M GOING BACK OUT AND "PARTICIPATE" IN MY LIFE AGAIN, GRABBING SOME "GUSTO", CREATING MY OWN HAPPINESS WHILE MAINTAINING THE "ESSENCE" OF WHO I AM!😍
@@marvanewborn2287 Any update Marva ?
@@Greeky-y2w ☺️STILL RELAXING, REPLENISHING, 😷DODGING THE "CORONA", 🎉GRABBING GUSTO MOMENTS OF HAPPINESS WHENEVER IT PRESENTS ITSELF, 😇 MY RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD HAS "ENHANCED" ALL-THE-WHILE KNOWING THAT 💪"I AM ENOUGH" NO MATTER WHAT STATE I'M IN AND 🥳 "LIV'IN MY LIFE LIKE IT'S GOLDEN!"☺️
u are saving me Mehran. my boyfriend with whom i lived for 3.5 years has left me few days ago. we had many fights and disagreements, we are very different. i know i have hurt him with my words many times and he has hurt me too...he felt that he needs to leave in order for both of us to be happy. i could have never done this step but he did... it broke my heart and i am completely devastated. but watching ur videos is helping me little by little..thank you
You are welcomed dear. I am glad you find them helpful. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran
Another amazing video. This is exactly how I've felt the last few months. That I'll never find anyone like her again, that was perfect, that it was just my head that needed fixing (which is true!). I am ready now. Ready to commit my life to someone. Not just a few months or years, but for as long as I live. I am at peace with my insecurities. I am me, and I just wish I could give that to my ex. I am finally perfect for her.
be perfect for some one else if she is not appreciating your offer as weather she accepts, comes back or not, you will always be good and qualified for someone who can see and is intelligent enough to want to get to know you, nothing will change or diminish in you by someone's choice of you are not, that ( their choice) does not have any effect on who and how you are so their acceptance or interest in you is irrelevant to your qualities and value. This is how you should think and disqualify whom ever does not take advantage of your offer!
Mehran, thank you for your many videos. I miss my ex so much but I know times will heal my heart.
Phu Pham This is for certain. Will try to make a new video about why and what we miss after a breakup.
Hello Mehran .I cannot thank you enough for what you do and how much you've helped me .Watching your videos is just healthy ! Thank you man !
You are welcomed, I am glad you are enjoying the channel and finding the videos helpful Veneer.
There are over 1,200 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :)
The secret to manage a break-up and to be able to move on to a happy life is to understand how you are put together and why you feel, act and react the way you do in life.
Such knowledge is provided on this channel through numerous discussions ( in videos ), or when live streaming and exploring people's questions and concerns after a breakup, from around the world.
You will be perfectly fine once you get to know yourself a lot better! :)
Hope you have subscribed and clicked on the bell so you will be notified when I go live.
Below is my standard E-mail respond which contains some information in regards to my live talks, how to join in when I have a live talk on TH-cam and where to see my site and one on one Skype consultation packages.
Please feel free to visit and like my FB page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know which country you are watching the videos from and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran
P.S.
How to join the live talks:
You can join my live talks on Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone), Always on TH-cam channel:
th-cam.com/users/MD007ish
or
On some days of the week ( Same Time Zone) on my Facebook page:
This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk:
LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life.
With Mehran D (Author)
Unlock Your Mind & Move On!
Usually on Friday, Saturday and Sunday 11.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 2.30 PM (Atlantic),
12.30 after midnight (India), (but it could be earlier in the day), Right here on this link:
th-cam.com/users/MD007ish
www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com
For Skype consultation:
If you would like us to address the certain specific situation you might be faced with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options are suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may choose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.
Thats exactly how I felt..... oh I lost her so this is it ill never find another as good or as great.. I still feel this way.. Still havent met another just been working out and hanging out with friends and working. I still watch your videos and they are still great. Just sucks being single lol.. I wanna WIN and I felt as if I lost but i still hope i can rise up and win.. I always tell myself RISE UP and make something great out of myself.. but not much changes.. lol good video hello again mehran glad to see you keeping up with your videos
MON3YonPC You ever lost , and if you get a nice girlfriend that is not a win either. You are a winner any ways for you are here in this world with the rest of us. So just enjoy and row your boat and it will get to some where nice to your liking sooner or later, it will, it has to :)
Mehran Dadbeh lol sooner or later... maybe when im 55 haha
MON3YonPC Lol, surely sooner . ;)
lol.. I hope
Thanks Mr Mehran! You helping me a lot...
Your message today was a super anti suicide remedy. When a person sees no options at all , suicide comes knocking on there door. Please speak to the person who feels a big part of the finality and (no options) part you speak of here, but add this. The person has worked and loved from age 19 to 60 years old to be the best blessing he can for his family. He makes a covenant with his young wife to do life together. They agree to make a home and family together. They are in AGREEMENT and make a public and legal confession to do this until death parts them. At age 60 the man finds his wife hates him. Please speak to the life time of loving (investment) the man also sees washed away. He knows he can’t live forever. He knows he’s to old to start over again with this idea. Life is a timed stay. To his amazement the wife wants MORE and just leaves him at 60 years old. I can understand a deal going bad. What about a deal agreed upon that takes , “and took” all your earthy time away. He has no strength to go back to the shore , rest, and swim the SAME distance only in another direction. 10‘s of thousands of men have had this happen and its happening everyday.
I am impressed looks like you have watched a few of the videos already and remember their contents which you used in your message above, Impressive! :) Yes unfortunately such things happen a lot these days and women leave men when they are old and just about to want to relax and have a strong and warm and solid relationship based on love and having shared many years of their lives together. The whole concept of "what did I get in this world", " Is that all I worth" are too often considered by women when they do not seem to be satisfied with the kind of luxury or financial comfort that they had hoped for when they got married or got into a serious relationship. The ones who change ship when they are in their 50's and 60's will never be happy as they will be always interested to get more, and they will keep changing horses until it is too late and they realize that they have build nothing and all they have done is change horses! :) Hopefully people will choose carefully and try to build a life and not use a lifetime! Be good to yourself always, Mehran
Thank you so much
You are welcomed Roy.
but I don't want another life, I don't want another person, I love this person I love my life, I was content and do not want to change my life?
Shelley Marchbank how are you doing now
That's the root of unhappiness, the inability accept reality as is
After few years u will laugh thinking about this
I love your videos man....so simple and helpful.
Glad you enjoy them and find them helpful Andy. join us at the weekly live stream (free) on Saturdays at 1 PM Vancouver time. You can ask your questions based on your situations after break up, or just listen / watch the answer to other people's questions from around the world. We have live stream on Saturdays at 1 PM Vancouver time and again at 9 PM Vancouver time. Let me know your age and which country you are watching the videos from.
@@MehranDadbeh im aged 60 and from Scotland. Thank you
You make it final because you trust that person. If you get into a serious relationship you have to open to your heart and trust it is forever...
+butterfflyess You trust as long as that person is worthy of your trust and is trustable , loving, loyal and compatible and then when not, you stop the trust and move on forward to discover other opportunities worthy of your trust and that is why that situation, the disappointment, the lack of happiness not need to be or considered to be final. :)
I appreciate all your videos so much. May i ask you how I can deal with an ex who keeps playing around with me. One minute he tells me that he misses me, and loves me... the nexxt he is angry at me and hates me. I wont lie about our relationship, and the reason why we broke up is because we have bad interactions. He feels that i always yell at him and kick him out of the house while i feel like he dont give me enough attention and he's always the one to start a fight to push me to do the things that i do. Its a very unhealthy relationship, but i care and love him very much. I appreciate the good things about him and is satisfy with who he is. I just hate when he believes that he is the best thing i will ever have. Of course he is because he means a lot to me but i dont appreciate him putting it out like that. We are both very stubborn, and bad... tell me how i can get over him? How can i pull myself away like he did and be as careless as he can be of our relationship? I want to set myeself free from this misery. It hurts me and im in pain. I need help.
Zong Vang Call me on Skype , we will talk. I can't write long letters as I am doing it every day many time :)) so I simply don't want to write any more ! :) my Skype is : md.trading1
The problem is not you and the problem is not him ! you both have Egos bigger than necessary and taking everything personally as if it is the way to confirm your superiority and worth to yourselves ! Or you feel it is diminishing your worth and respect if the other one is making a comment derogatory or otherwise. Both always in pursuit of defending your characters, worth, ......
Yes their loss people always say I'm pretty, smart, compassionate and kind. Plus, was very happy when with him. His loss or his jealousy who knows. : )
Hiiiii sirI am watching your from last 6 months Your work is magnum opusIt helped me a lot But still i linger towards my ex And oftenally i see her in my dreams which makes me more uncomfortable and betryal i never stalked after she dumpedStill i linger How to stop it And after my breakup i am losing my interest towards girls and now its reached summit Am i becoming misogyny?Is it nornalPlease suggest me
I have accepted the break up and wished my ex husband that separated a month ago giving me 2 days notice after 15 years together. I told him all I care about is his happiness and know nothing lasts forever I won't bother him because it's his choice. My therapist says it's obvious he loves you but under tremendous work stress and is suffering from depression. Could this be true. He had to choose what he could handle and I was telling him to quit his work kind of pressuring him. Because he worked long hours at work and home since Company was in Taiwan their daytime was our nighttime and he had to talk at night and work with bosses. He was miserable and said he hated it. So then he left me and looks depressed now.
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Hi I'm in a very bad situation. I broke up with my ex 6 months ago through extremely difficult circumstances. I've move half way across the world to run away from everything. I've tried getting with other women but I'm now impotent or suffering ED. Struggling to cope with feeling like I'm not able to get through what has happened and what I have lost. She had a little boy who I loved dearly and we had got a dog who I miss terribly as well!! Just don't see a point going on!!
Hello Coran, we never see the point when it is so fresh but we will later on and when we do we will be perfectly ok with life. Hang in there we all have gone through similar stuff in life and we all survived and became even happier than ever, wiser, stronger and happier than we ever thought possible. If you want to talk to me that is always possible.
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I dated a guy for 5 months . He walked away once but after reaching out to him within a month we got back together. After a month in a half he stopped calling me or texting me. just to find out he had blocked my number. I was heart broken because I saw no signs that he would do this. we didn't fight and as a matter a fact when I went to look for him he said it wasn't anything I did that he still had feelings for me but due to his religious reasons he couldn't be with me but to give him a couple of days and he would let me know what he decided. he didn't contact me and he still has me blocked. I am so hurt and cry everyday. i still can't get over how mean and hurtful he went out. what do you suggest I do?
the devastation, everything in my life seems connected to my breakup. I am having a terrible time getting out of this bomb crater. i feel so isolated, cant sleep cant get out of bed. I am even afraid to go out.
Murray, 1- don't allow the tether connecting you to your memory, to keep you from advancing into the "now". 2- Be aware that you are what you will do and not what you have done. 3- Focus that you can get out of bed and the need for the old order does not mean that you can not build and create a new order in your life and for that, you do not need your ex. 4- Nothing has been taken away from you as a human being, only the though, the image you had of the way things used to be is changed but that does not mean that how things were, was good. 5- This is your opportunity to re-discover your abilities and re-build your life on your own, independent from the ex or how used to be as for how things used to be is never and no longer alive, real, actual, it is just memory. 6- Murray, you can do it provided you prefer a good life over what you are experiencing now! 7- Many have been where you are and they pushed through and re-discovered their capabilities and did re-build their lives and move on. 8- Get in gear and push forward Murray, everyone else has and you can too. Yes, You Can.
My problem is I feel I lost my best friend. The memories and fun that was had. I’m in mourning and it hurts! Do I think that I will find someone else? Yes! But I’m hurting because she and I had so much fun and connection.
Yes but she is no longer that version of her and is now changed so you need to see her as she is now and not as you remember the other version of her and thinking that she is still the same person and that is why it does not make sense to you and can not or do not want to move on since you can not believe how she is ( from your memory ) is capable of leaving you while, in fact, the girl that you are missing is not the girl who has left you! See her as she is now and then disqualify her as this is not what you always liked and prefer so then what is there to miss, she is not your type as she is today. Watch this and many other videos on this channel to get you moving and understanding your psyche and why you feel the way you do and how to move on. th-cam.com/video/PC262p7zzew/w-d-xo.html
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There are thousands of schools of thought.........this isn't the one I'd adopt.
That was profound.
I am glad you are enjoying the channel and finding the videos helpful Internetgirl! :).
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The secret to manage a break-up and to be able to move on to a happy life is to understand how you are put together and why you feel, act and react the way you do in life.
Such knowledge is provided on this channel through numerous discussions ( in videos ), or when live streaming and exploring people's questions and concerns after a breakup, from around the world.
You will be perfectly fine once you get to know yourself a lot better! :)
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i have made it....a final.
"One-itis"...... Stop thinking in that idea. Think in terms of "abundance"....there are more out there like it.
What he's saying is don't fall for anything or anyone......easier said than done. This guy mustn't have ever been in love with anything.