The Nanny Affair Pt. 1 | FULL EPISODE | Dr. Phil

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  • @drphil
    @drphil  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    Part 2 coming this weekend: th-cam.com/video/PSbu157YT9E/w-d-xo.html

    • @michellesayers5346
      @michellesayers5346 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Stop having kids and farming them out to nannies fgs

  • @kymerwin8870
    @kymerwin8870 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +673

    Brilliant! She wants to marry him if he's a completely different person. How about marrying a completely different person?

    • @mary-melissatyree4003
      @mary-melissatyree4003 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

      Good idea.

    • @krisrobinson7999
      @krisrobinson7999 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      This 👆

    • @PrinceKima_12
      @PrinceKima_12 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      Very logical.👍

    • @gloriamaria169
      @gloriamaria169 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

      You’re gonna have to stop being realistic 😂

    • @tomboytwig
      @tomboytwig 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Ha, very good and very true.

  • @kakkay898
    @kakkay898 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +250

    The face of a liar. He's pushing blame to be others and deflecting issues onto others.

  • @Jillsy-c6u
    @Jillsy-c6u 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +152

    I’m 62 and just left my husband of 40 years. He is Brandon’s twin. Run run run! As fast as you can. Brandon is using narcissistic tactics to weasel his way out of his behavior.
    He will not change.
    All he is doing is deflecting, gas lighting, and blame shifting.
    I wish I had left when I first caught him 30 years ago.

    • @alisonpellicciotti375
      @alisonpellicciotti375 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

      Good for you !!🎉❤ Sending positive and healing vibes

    • @DoobieDeb
      @DoobieDeb 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      Good for you

    • @katybenson4172
      @katybenson4172 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      I'm sorry to stayed so long. But now your gone im happy for you

    • @phoebeb.332
      @phoebeb.332 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Glad you’re out!!!!

    • @Daniela-Christianson
      @Daniela-Christianson 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      You are incredibly strong ❤

  • @lexfaulkner
    @lexfaulkner 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +35

    It’s adorable how he gets cornered and he starts hurling insults. What a child.

  • @DylaneyDay
    @DylaneyDay 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +157

    This dude is a straight up narcissist…
    Deflection, word salad, gaslighting, and lying

    • @thelmadickinson6811
      @thelmadickinson6811 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

      The cognitive dissonance he’s applying is real. Best friend sees right through him. And he hates it.

    • @Jillsy-c6u
      @Jillsy-c6u 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yep

    • @carriepriegel6477
      @carriepriegel6477 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@thelmadickinson6811🎯🎯🎯🎯👌👌💗

  • @SouthernBelle888
    @SouthernBelle888 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +169

    Once a cheater always a cheater, they split up then they reconcile and for a few month everything is great, cause they are in their honeymoon stage, and after that the same cycle starts again and it gets worse each time. I'm speaking from experience. It took me 13 years to get out of a cheating, lying and abusive relationship.... and divorce and healing was the best thing that ever happend to me.

    • @virgo7956
      @virgo7956 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Glad you're out and healing❤
      I'm going through it, no contact 2 weeks. I'm reflecting and moving on! It hurts, but I deserve better!! You do too❤

    • @ice-cream-q3x
      @ice-cream-q3x 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Same 🎉

    • @donnamills79
      @donnamills79 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      💯

    • @yellowroseTx47
      @yellowroseTx47 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Sounds to me so far there are too many people with their nose in the marriage business to start with.

  • @melindaengland1964
    @melindaengland1964 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +335

    When you order your Tom Cruise from Temu.

    • @alisonpellicciotti375
      @alisonpellicciotti375 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      😅😅😅 that's great

    • @alyssac240
      @alyssac240 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @LvegasCupcake
      @LvegasCupcake 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      Or one of the Menendez brothers.😂

    • @vanessavano.3121
      @vanessavano.3121 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Best comment

    • @nancycozier4018
      @nancycozier4018 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Omg! 😂😂😂

  • @susanmacdonald107
    @susanmacdonald107 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +38

    If anyone watching this hasn't had the experience of having a narcissist in their life, just watch. The gas lighting, the accusations, the mental abuse, the outright lies, etc are all classic behaviors. Watch and learn.

  • @kymerwin8870
    @kymerwin8870 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +182

    A narcissist doesn't suddenly care about how others feel

    • @marionm5311
      @marionm5311 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Your right. Nor do they live in reality.

    • @nikkiseashores82
      @nikkiseashores82 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Nope, they think they are perfect so they never change.

    • @inesnaglic472
      @inesnaglic472 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Nope, never😞

    • @ruthhansberry6361
      @ruthhansberry6361 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Excellent 👌 point.

    • @efficircus
      @efficircus 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Unless he/she has something in mind to destroy the other person eventually

  • @KattelinaLace
    @KattelinaLace 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +142

    Dudes a HUGE LIAR. Get rid of him.

    • @lisasirois3151
      @lisasirois3151 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      He's not going to change! Run!!

  • @bobbriggs9748
    @bobbriggs9748 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +90

    This guy is a crime waiting to happen. Run girl, take the kids and run

    • @lynnwilliams8295
      @lynnwilliams8295 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Right! I was looking at him thinking “yep we are going to see his trial in Court TV one day

    • @fromcrimetocrimepodcast1155
      @fromcrimetocrimepodcast1155 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      EXACTLY!!

  • @Maiden_to_mother
    @Maiden_to_mother 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +169

    Um… the ONLY advice that should be given to this “couple” is to SPLIT UP FOR GOOD. To accept him back is the weakest thing that this woman can do. She’s afraid to be alone, and she hasn’t met anyone better, so she’s willing to settle for a guy like that. She needs to get herself her own VERY good doctor.

    • @andreajones886
      @andreajones886 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      🎯💯

    • @AL-bv7jt
      @AL-bv7jt 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      He knows what to say to manipulate her while tearing her down. He won’t let her go easily. He knows he can cheat and do whatever he wants. He doesn’t want her to leave because he doesn’t want to pay child support and alimony and not have any control over her. I don’t know how old this show is but I hope she got some self esteem and got away from him safely.

    • @katiedorey858
      @katiedorey858 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I was also thinking that HE couldn’t find anyone to be with him so that’s why he came back, he’s a creep and it’s likely that other people won’t tolerate his behaviour and his wife is too weak to hold him accountable

    • @BiHu-ce9fx
      @BiHu-ce9fx 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      💯💯agreed

    • @ice-cream-q3x
      @ice-cream-q3x 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Love your comment, EXACTLY CORRECT 🎉

  • @laurenb6160
    @laurenb6160 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +125

    I could not be friends with someone with such little self respect and dignity. To heartbreaking.

    • @francesgray3096
      @francesgray3096 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

      I’ll be there for my best friend no matter what 🙏🏼

    • @hussainaishaya-audu1844
      @hussainaishaya-audu1844 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      I agree. I would not allow myself to be a part of that drama.

    • @Onyx_Primal646
      @Onyx_Primal646 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      Then you're not a friend worth having. People have ow points, some lower than others. You can distance yourself from drama but still show that person love.

    • @ceilconstante640
      @ceilconstante640 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      THAT's what Narscissts do! They steal the self respect and dignity of the person who is manipulated by them and have them second guessing themselves. That's when they need a real trusted friend the most.

    • @Shellygrrl2573
      @Shellygrrl2573 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      @laurenb6160 forget what the commenter down below talking mess about you not being a friend worth having. continuing to be friends with someone who gets their life threatened and cheated on with teenage girls and is a predator and I DO believe he made a pass at her friend, says that commenter likes drama and toxic mess. Her friend was her biggest advocate and even went to Court to speak on her behalf to get her away from this cheating crazy person. As for any other smart woman we won't be doing that. We prefer peace and we would be friends with our friend again AFTER she dumps the trash.🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @DeviIInADress
    @DeviIInADress 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +167

    The era when middle class families could afford a nanny 😒

    • @PrinceKima_12
      @PrinceKima_12 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Good point!

    • @notsorry3631
      @notsorry3631 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

      The era when there was still a middle class 😶

    • @Amy-zs8tx
      @Amy-zs8tx 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Thanks to Obama/Biden! 🙄

    • @shonna4545
      @shonna4545 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Right?!
      This was a way back! I can tell by the chunky hilights. 😅
      Edit: hilights in the ladies' hair, that is....lol

    • @rogertaylor7433
      @rogertaylor7433 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@@shonna4545.... chunky highlights ???

  • @lolybird77
    @lolybird77 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +30

    5 minutes in and I already know his defensive deflecting attitude shows that he is not changed.

    • @p0pos309
      @p0pos309 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      And never will
      I'd really like an update on this

  • @jackieb.2642
    @jackieb.2642 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +99

    Why the heck would this woman want to get back together with a predator? Like he literally hooked up with a teenager who was the nanny!

    • @eleonora6980
      @eleonora6980 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      18 is legal age. But it sure sounds like rape.

    • @jackieb.2642
      @jackieb.2642 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      @@eleonora6980 Yeah but we don’t know if this happened while the nanny was underage or not though. Still though it’s huge red flag

    • @eleonora6980
      @eleonora6980 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @jackieb.2642 that's true. We don't know or if the other nanny's were

    • @eleonora6980
      @eleonora6980 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @jackieb.2642 i see you edited your comment to remove "child" and just have "predator". I completely agree now haha. He is definitely a predator!

    • @jackieb.2642
      @jackieb.2642 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @ And it matters to you that I edited my comment why? I mean no offense but you don’t need to put down others or try to rub their mistakes in their face to make yourself feel better

  • @christinespiers-wy9kr
    @christinespiers-wy9kr 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +131

    My husband and I have been married for 55 years. We are very blessed!

    • @melissadelude4292
      @melissadelude4292 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

      Congratulations?

    • @TheAirplanewoman
      @TheAirplanewoman 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      That is awesome. What’s your secret for making it work?

    • @meredithcoleman446
      @meredithcoleman446 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      ♥♥♥

    • @kymerwin8870
      @kymerwin8870 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

      What in the world does that have to do with this situation at all? Are you drunk?

    • @DeviIInADress
      @DeviIInADress 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

      @@kymerwin8870she’s been with the same man for 55 years, ofc she’s drunk 😂

  • @brookealicia92
    @brookealicia92 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    As someone that has friends who constantly complain about their significant other, it really drives you crazy.

  • @Hedron-Design
    @Hedron-Design 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +68

    All other things to the side, this guy has the creepiest smirk I have seen in a long time. Probably since the Dahmer documentaries. My opinion.

    • @minacerra
      @minacerra 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Agreed

    • @Mel-r8q
      @Mel-r8q 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      He reminds me a lot of a young Jack Nicholson (in this case, maybe The Shining). Even his voice and the famous "Kubrick Stare"

    • @deannalumia1707
      @deannalumia1707 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I agree!

  • @karmelasoprano13
    @karmelasoprano13 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +95

    Best case scenario, he's a serial cheater, worst case he's a grapist! Why would anyone want to stay with that 🤮

    • @aimee6580
      @aimee6580 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Lose, lose situation. He constantly deflected. The fact the nanny was very young gave me the creeps!

    • @katybenson4172
      @katybenson4172 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Because she is scared to support herself. Sometimes you stay because you think you need them

    • @Naturefan354
      @Naturefan354 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@katybenson4172"ScArEd To SuPpOrT hErSeLf"?? If they divorced then she would literally be in the same boat because she would receive alimony and child support so I don't buy that excuse

    • @loralieisa
      @loralieisa 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@aimee6580 He drugged her and took it from there. Why would she want such a creep?

    • @loralieisa
      @loralieisa 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Naturefan354 Her parents pay them between $3000.00 to $6000.00 a month because he does not support his family. He is a looser that she should lose.

  • @Nikki-so4yc
    @Nikki-so4yc 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +42

    "he's very convincable and believing" dear gosh she's not the brightest and he knows that and is taking advantage of her kindness and good heart. So sad

    • @Momz0r
      @Momz0r 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I actually said convincable out loud and had a giggle! 😂

    • @lucyw.7597
      @lucyw.7597 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I ran out of sympathy very quickly. She is bringing up her children to see his behaviour as perfectly acceptable. That is on her.

  • @buzzzzzz69
    @buzzzzzz69 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +39

    No matter how many times you try to give this creep the benefit of the doubt he just screws it up by opening his mouth.
    Would love to see where they ended up 20yrs later....

    • @kittyatroyal1565
      @kittyatroyal1565 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      We never find out the outcome!

  • @Jennifer-jn2qw
    @Jennifer-jn2qw 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +89

    He's what I call a "smooth talker". I've warned my daughters to watch out for that type, along with the charmers. Those are some no good is ever going to come from this type of men...

    • @LisaDonnelly-w1b
      @LisaDonnelly-w1b 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      I call him a narcissist with a too high opinion of himself!

    • @Jennifer-jn2qw
      @Jennifer-jn2qw 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @LisaDonnelly-w1b exactly. He thinks so highly of himself he thinks he can talk his way around anything. Unfortunately he has a stupid wife who fills his ego and helps fuel his opinion of himself and his narrative he created in his head.

    • @AL-bv7jt
      @AL-bv7jt 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Yes, a smooth talking narcissist. If he does have “a very good doctor”, he’s just using what he learns from them to manipulate his wife. When his wife says “we’re destined to be together”, that sounds like it might be something he’s put in her ear. She needs to take a look around and ask herself why other women (numerous nannies and her best friend) don’t like being around when he’s there. Beyond that she has to ask herself why she wants to be with a serial cheater, groomer, rapist and abuser. No amount of smooth talking could make this man worth it to me. She has to get her own therapist and build her ego enough to realize that being alone is not as scary as being with this sort of man.

    • @Jennifer-jn2qw
      @Jennifer-jn2qw 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@AL-bv7jt you are absolutely right! People like that aren't quite wired right, so they mimic what they perceive as the correct emotion at that moment. He is mimicing normal behavior because he himself doesn't have real emotions. It's dangerous.

    • @kittyatroyal1565
      @kittyatroyal1565 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Liar and a cheat!

  • @Irod567
    @Irod567 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    When he started attacking his wife and her best friend, his true colors started showing. His mask slipped, and his wife would be a fool to believe that he's changed.

  • @thelmadickinson6811
    @thelmadickinson6811 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    He turns every situation from looking at him to look at someone else. He’s not taking ownership of anything. He. Has. Not. Changed.

  • @ChristySmith-m7v
    @ChristySmith-m7v 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    He's the type that will kill her! His abuse will creep back in and get worse! He won't change, look at his patterns! Hes immature & selfish and he needs to grow up! He said he wants the "American Dream" and thats what he is living now! He would say & fake act anything & everything to get out of having to live in his dad's barn which is just like guys up here that live in their dads basement! I had a physically violent & mental & emotional abusive ex-husband that still hasnt changed for 30 years! In our marriage he got the married teenage nanny pregnant & got our family home into forclosure! His alcohol & pot consumption & bad behavior has never changed!

  • @texastreat8721
    @texastreat8721 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    Lady love your children enough to get out away from this liar and cheater!

  • @Jillsy-c6u
    @Jillsy-c6u 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +28

    I gave mine a chance after similar circumstances 27 years ago. I wish I hadn’t. He said he changed but all he did is learn to hide it even better. 40 years of marriage this year and I’m finally getting a divorce because I caught him again.

    • @Daniela-Christianson
      @Daniela-Christianson 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I'm so sorry you went through this

    • @loralieisa
      @loralieisa 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I am glad you are getting yourself out of a nasty situation. The same happened to me after a 15 year relationship. He cheated once before we married and I made the mistake of taking him back. I did try to dump him but his persistence worked to my my detriment. He cheated again and made sure to say that If I hung on tight he would come crawling back. He got me to use my charge card to buy alot of furniture , new ACs, stereo equipment before I knew he was cheating. I called movers while he was at work and took everything I bought with a few extra items to make up for the interest I would pay. We had no kids which made it easier becase I didn't need to deal with him.

    • @estherrodriguez3782
      @estherrodriguez3782 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I'm sorry 🫂

    • @meganmullins9877
      @meganmullins9877 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Sorry but you will be so much happier loving and respecting yourself ❤

    • @SofiValMor
      @SofiValMor 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I'm so sorry, Jill. You deserve better. Get everything you can from him in the divorce and go live your life.
      He chose everyday to waste your time and your youth because he only cares about himself. Treat him with the same level of concern now that it's over and get yourself a good settlement. No feeling sorry for him.

  • @AotearoaAnge
    @AotearoaAnge 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +35

    He’s so childish and petty, lying so easily, what a drop kick.

  • @shasta1730
    @shasta1730 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    He sees a female counselor? Good lord

  • @lanalou77
    @lanalou77 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Drug abuse, adultery, teen nanny’s! Who is taking care of these poor kids? They shouldn’t be married or have kids! Ugh

  • @sandragreed4098
    @sandragreed4098 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    BRING ON the NANNIES! I’d love to hear their version of events!

  • @dinahconnell6947
    @dinahconnell6947 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +30

    That young man is very very very very very very immature and she should not marry him again for her own sanity😮

  • @ginnyleedays
    @ginnyleedays 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +35

    If he had an Affair with a teenage nanny why isn’t he in jail?

    • @lisaseubert5531
      @lisaseubert5531 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      She was 18

    • @ginnyleedays
      @ginnyleedays 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @ Thanks for clarifying, because after I heard the wife watched the husband put pills in her mouth, I assumed when Dr Phil said teenage girl, that she was under 18 would be more believable on why she allowed it, but that was not the case.

    • @teehee83
      @teehee83 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Because he is a white Male and a smooth talker…probably talked his way out the charges or knew the police. 😊

    • @colleencrole7969
      @colleencrole7969 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      The husband is an idiot and the wife is not far behind. He is a liar for sure and he thinks he is really so clever.

    • @texastreat8721
      @texastreat8721 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@teehee83that was pretty racist!

  • @kymerwin8870
    @kymerwin8870 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +35

    He just wants to gain her trust again so he can start lying and cheating again.

    • @thelmadickinson6811
      @thelmadickinson6811 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He’s love bombing because he needs supply and he has no other to get what he needs so he’s settling for her. Until someone else comes along.

  • @ericameyerchandelieralves
    @ericameyerchandelieralves 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    This dude has an answer for everything. Even the little comments and little diggs he throws out there is telling. 😮

  • @Melissa-d9y2j
    @Melissa-d9y2j 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    He is a jerk and she is an idiot by thinking he has changed.

  • @lackerbitandersson6241
    @lackerbitandersson6241 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    His aggressive nature is disgusting. You don't hit, scream or swear at your woman no matter what. She should be very worried - and I think she is 💗

  • @mmaggiehartt
    @mmaggiehartt 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +41

    What more does this lady need to leave this man? Even if he ONLY put a drug in a teenagers mouth I’d be gone for good. Doesn’t matter how much therapy how how much he’s “changed.” That along with everything else is insane. He needs to be locked up.

    • @Rhaenys888
      @Rhaenys888 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Her and her friend there are both on those same drugs every adult up there is a mess and I feel so sorry for those children!

    • @thelmadickinson6811
      @thelmadickinson6811 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He uses gaslighting and cognitive dissonance to confuse his victims. He’s a narcissist. He. Has. Not. Changed. He is hoovering and love bombing his wife. The best friend sees though it and Dr. Phil has questioned him in such a way that his mask is falling and he’s revealing his unchanged true self to his wife.

  • @christinespiers-wy9kr
    @christinespiers-wy9kr 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +63

    Praying for the children🙏

  • @whttigr100
    @whttigr100 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    I'm disgusted to know this man is a fire fighter.

  • @lisayetsega
    @lisayetsega 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    A changed man😂😂😂

  • @MarianneSuny-c2o
    @MarianneSuny-c2o 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    The wife should stop dragging everybody into her problems and emotionally draining her friend and family onlt to go back

    • @hoganmisses7448
      @hoganmisses7448 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I had a friend just like her. She kicked her husband out and wanted a break, she cheated on him multiple times and tried justifying it by saying he abandoned her...then once she found out he moved on with someone else after a year she went bolistic and wanted him back. This is after she ran this man into the mud like crazy, even calling the kids school and removing him as an emergency contact etc. she would also always criticize my husband for no reason at all I assume because she was very unhappy. I drew boundaries multiple times and she wouldn't be respectful. One day I just decided to block her on everything. How could I expect her to be a friend when she betrays her own kids and husband. Take this tip, if someone is always unloading their emotional baggage onto you, they are Not your friend.

  • @kellyvan9722
    @kellyvan9722 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +32

    Narcissistic blame shifting gaslighting causing confusion

  • @lisasaunders6167
    @lisasaunders6167 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Brandon is a manchild. Messing with a teenage nanny is a deal breaker. She needs to run. My husband cheated on me with a crackwhore and i took my kids dogs furniture and moved into a apartment.

  • @sarahlaborde4912
    @sarahlaborde4912 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Just by the way this guy talks to her friend would be enough to make me RUN. Woah, what a mean spirit... only thing he cares about is having the last lash.

  • @ellenhood1356
    @ellenhood1356 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    She needs to leave him. He needs to go😡

  • @annalouisehorn
    @annalouisehorn 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    He’s not changed. He will go back to cheating once she takes him back.

  • @jojobee42
    @jojobee42 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    There's something really "off" about him. It's pretty scary how unable he is to understand his own behavior. That's normally how psychopaths etc are.. If she ever goes missing we know what happened to her.

  • @stephm5877
    @stephm5877 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    Everything's "in the past" with a narcissist.

    • @janclose3560
      @janclose3560 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Yes everything except your faults which are mild in comparison

  • @nataliescott2261
    @nataliescott2261 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    Completely believe the nanny his eyes tell the truth almost a smug look. She knows he did this why stay you have kids how long before he turns on the kids

  • @Amanda-el9dx
    @Amanda-el9dx 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    He’s a dangerous, malignant narcissist. Red flag city 🚩

  • @beverlyluther-n3y
    @beverlyluther-n3y 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +47

    why in the world would any wife/mother in this day and age, hire a young nanny. Hello!! Hire a good older lady who is retired who could be like a grad mother influence. Wise up honey!

    • @EM-KeepingtheFaith
      @EM-KeepingtheFaith 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      I'm a woman in her mid fifties and I COMPLETELY AGREE! Working women, don't be so nieve and reckless. It's not fair to put a young, gorgeous woman who is practically living in your home in front of your husband in the place where his guard is completely down. And no, I in no way am excusing a father/husband cheating in this scenario. However, putting wise safeguards into your home takes temptations off the table. Roles reverse, if you have good-looking male lodger who deeply listens to a wife, satisfies her emotionsally, and also makes her laugh, it has a similar effect that having an 18 Yr old girl with a low cut top can have on a bloke! Let's be smart people.

    • @Amanda-hc3rf
      @Amanda-hc3rf 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      Why would any women stay married to a man she couldn't trust around another women? Don't blame the young nanny who just wants to do her job.

    • @hikikomori5
      @hikikomori5 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Maria Shriver

    • @gabesmom29
      @gabesmom29 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      She mentioned she had had shoulder surgery.

    • @Daniela-Christianson
      @Daniela-Christianson 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      The bad thing is, I remember a case here where the 53 year-old woman was caught severely beating the couple's son. It's hard to trust ANYone in your home that isn't family.

  • @sl1102
    @sl1102 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    I love when the people call out the show for doctoring up scenes like him doing push ups. It’s so funny.

    • @DarkMoonGeneral
      @DarkMoonGeneral 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Its called a dramatzion.. to show thats what he does.

  • @saritadale3428
    @saritadale3428 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Dear girl, run for your life!!

  • @somenygaard
    @somenygaard 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +49

    She should have hired her mother as a nanny.

    • @sophiaswanberg4742
      @sophiaswanberg4742 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      No she shouldn't have married that man!

    • @somenygaard
      @somenygaard 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @ that would have been prior to the Nanny hiring. Yes, bad choice for a husband.

    • @debIGASnz
      @debIGASnz 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      She should be able to trust her husband

    • @jeannietimberger2556
      @jeannietimberger2556 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      What makes you think her mother wants to cook clean and babysit all day? Tf 🤦

    • @somenygaard
      @somenygaard 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @ I know sarcasm is hard to spot in written text, should have been a little more obvious. My point was she likely made a bad decision when she chose to hire an 18 year old nanny who, I’m guessing, was probably quite attractive. Hiring a nanny that looked more like her mother would have been a better option.

  • @Onyx_Primal646
    @Onyx_Primal646 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    This guy is the definition of predator.

  • @deborahsimmons2414
    @deborahsimmons2414 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    He definitely has an m.o. with those pain killers. Yeah, the stripes he has are rarely changed. He’s extremely defensive, unapologetic at the crucial moment on this show…nah, he has not changed, period. What he has done to an 18 year old hired as a “Nanny”, drugging her with pain killers is a criminal offense! He’s not owning up to that at all, bottom line he has NOT hanged. Put this piece of trash to the curb permanently. He’s just trying to recoup his reputation, nothing more. He shows no signs of love for his wife, doesn’t even try to hold her hand. She needs to be re-sensitized to feelings of real love. I fear she has on a coat of armor for protection from all the abuse she has had to live through and doesn’t realize or remember what it’s like to have have a man sincerely love her for her. It would be so beautiful for her to heal from all the wrong and really appreciate herself and go on to live a really love filled life. I hope that happens for her and the wonderful children who deserve that kind of life also.

  • @debfox
    @debfox 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    The first step is accountability and he’s not even doing that!

  • @joannturner1453
    @joannturner1453 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    He hasn't changed, he's gotten more sneaky, crafty." Two wrongs don't make a right but what if she goes out and have "fun?"

  • @Meag0944
    @Meag0944 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    Omg the looks he gives her friend when shes talking is kinda scary 😮

    • @thelmadickinson6811
      @thelmadickinson6811 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Because she has his number and he doesn’t like it.

  • @liv8388
    @liv8388 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +37

    He definitely still wants to sleep with the wife’s best friend

  • @hazzaplayz808
    @hazzaplayz808 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    Brandon should've had a lie detector....

  • @neoAREAXIS
    @neoAREAXIS 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    When is DR Phil do a 'where are they now?

  • @heidimackay1902
    @heidimackay1902 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    When they were doing the interviews at the beginning of the show, I could see it by the smirk on his face that he would definitely do it again. Js

  • @phoebeb.332
    @phoebeb.332 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Imagine staying with someone who says that stuff to your best friend?

  • @chrizzliebear9803
    @chrizzliebear9803 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Heidi is 1000% on point with her feelings on this dude. My ex husband acted the exact same way when I discovered his cheating. And as a victim of a narcissistic partner, I will say, go with your gut. If you have that nagging feeling, do some research.

  • @lilyhernandez4759
    @lilyhernandez4759 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Every time he talks about the affair he starts smiling. He’s not sorry. I hope the wife can gather the strength to leave.

  • @anitagoodman4657
    @anitagoodman4657 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Just because other people may engage in the same types of behavior does not make it OK or justifiable for you to do the same

  • @myopinion59
    @myopinion59 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    That wife is so gullible. He is a BIG FAT LIAR. Get it now?

    • @lievelootgieter9866
      @lievelootgieter9866 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Looks likke narcistic victim behavior

    • @lievelootgieter9866
      @lievelootgieter9866 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It is the atraction of the lovebommming with a low selfestime

  • @AronVanBenThuysen
    @AronVanBenThuysen 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I don't know about once and always. I cheated when I was in my late teens and twenties. I was a coward and selfish. I eventually realized that if I don't want to hurt anyone, then just don't do it. Easier said than done, of course, but we Always have a choice. I never cheated again. I hope I continue making the right choice.

    • @laurajanedavis8757
      @laurajanedavis8757 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You were young though and learning life as you go about living it,at least you realised you didn't want to be that person and gained knowledge an understanding from that mistake an it's helped you become who you are today,and you can also help someone else goin through or thinking of goin through with cheating as you no from experience.we make mistakes all throughout our lifetime I think they main thing is that you always learn from each mistake and hopefully the older ypu get the more an more time passes between mistakes

  • @gulkhan8437
    @gulkhan8437 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Everyone needs a best friend like that

  • @mandyg943
    @mandyg943 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    Ugh. Narcissist. Run girl RUN.

  • @Miss_Murder1669
    @Miss_Murder1669 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Constant deflecting to Heidi. "Did you guys call me names? Yes. There has been name calling from everyone"

  • @sheree6542
    @sheree6542 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    HE HAS NOT CHANGED !!! I DON'T BELIEVE HE WILL CHANGE, THIS TRULY LOOKS LIKE HIS PERSONALITY. 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 YOU WILL BE SORRY 🙏 😢😢😢❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @MariaProvenzano-i5f
    @MariaProvenzano-i5f 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Poor kids😮 these people are just nuts!!! All of them should just move on for the sake of the children 🙄 😒 0

  • @aventurasimbolos1725
    @aventurasimbolos1725 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I don't like anyone in this triangle.

  • @wendytaylor2101
    @wendytaylor2101 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Why is the wife still with this jerk 😂

  • @deannalumia1707
    @deannalumia1707 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    He is most definitely not changed and I don't think he will ever change.
    This smirking person is very active in getting his way.
    He is a very vocal manipulator; he makes sure he'll live his life HIS way.
    He lies, defends, deflects, gaslights, blame shifts, threats, cheats, twists everything around, turns people against each other, is extremely mean and vicious, insults, barks and bites.
    And then he'll lie, deflect and defend some more and more and more in a complete word salad.
    Damn, he even is horrible to his 5-year-old stepdaughter (same-old sad story, as always).
    Just the 5 nannies...yeah right, I'm positive that there were, no: ARE many more women. I am sure that he tries to seduce every woman (under a certain age) he comes in contact with. With, or without drug facilitated sexual assault.
    There is also this dangerous vibe he is carrying.
    He could kill, if his wife tells him that she's moving out of state, or something like that.
    Amy's friend Heidi is a very good friend. She is golden!
    I hope Amy will follow her well advice to stay away from butt-face.
    Amy, protect yourself and your children, RUN!

  • @nataliescott2261
    @nataliescott2261 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Just dump him get custody of kids let him be miserable, cheat all alone. If she’s stupid enough to stay let her go

  • @dannicranwell4904
    @dannicranwell4904 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Cheater will always cheat, for the wife run away as far as you can he could hurt you and your children god forbid . That man is a control freak and a narcissist .

  • @npqlmaplq
    @npqlmaplq 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    This guy is a real DH

  • @inesdiana2535
    @inesdiana2535 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Narcissist 101

  • @brianborstein8456
    @brianborstein8456 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    If this guy is as innocent as he says he is, then why would he want to be with a woman who is "conspiring" against him?

  • @sandragreed4098
    @sandragreed4098 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ‘Very convincible’ and ‘very believing’? I think she means ‘very convincing’ and ‘very believable’🤣

  • @Millencyne800
    @Millencyne800 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Both the ex wife and ex husband are stuttering and circling around their answers. Big flag they aren’t giving the full answer

  • @conniemalloy8494
    @conniemalloy8494 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Brandon probably cheated on her the whole time

  • @lisayetsega
    @lisayetsega 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    What is wrong with this woman. How blind is she about her husband. Woman run for your life.

    • @gillmiller3702
      @gillmiller3702 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Read up on coersive controll

    • @laurajanedavis8757
      @laurajanedavis8757 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I think an I could very well be wrong,she was a popular an pretty as young girl an had alot of attention,an I think it's knocked her self esteem an confidence as it would alot of females but I think its hit abit harder for her coz she'll be more in her head questioning herself an doubting herself,imagine being someone who gets lots of attention could probably of dated any boy she wanted,who then gets with a man who she probably believed was her Prince charming coz he probably was completely different in the beginning til he got her,married her,got her pregnant,and somewhere along the line after feelin like he'd got her an she was hooked under his spell,he let his real self be seen by her,she's probably questioning why isn't she good enough for him to treat her good,he must be cheating coz she isn't pretty enough,or satisfying his needs,then he turns his charm on an off leaving her holding onto the person she thought she married,he's probably made he feel worthless an that she'll get no one else,men like him can cause real horrific trauma to a woman,some never get back to who they were before an some have to have years of therapy,an the few who soon as they get out find themselves again.hes what she's nos,he's her safe person/place as bad as he is,she's probably trauma bonded

  • @arferret
    @arferret 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Why is the best friend living in the same house. She seems way too enmeshed in the situation. She should just keep her distance and continue being a supportive friend to her friend rather than giving ultimatums.

    • @tinman8805
      @tinman8805 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      A true friend supports you period. Not just when they do what you want them to

  • @liandijonker6012
    @liandijonker6012 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Cheaters never change. Period.

  • @pamelamugo9627
    @pamelamugo9627 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Narcissists are worse than demons 😈 😢😢😢

  • @christinespiers-wy9kr
    @christinespiers-wy9kr 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    How horrible!

  • @leoniea138
    @leoniea138 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    The friend has just taken over the household

  • @juliesquirrel
    @juliesquirrel 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    This guy is ice cold. Run

  • @Ilene-pz8fp
    @Ilene-pz8fp 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Ginger needs to get out of their marriage.

  • @misslornamae
    @misslornamae 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    This guy really showed his true colours with the nasty low blow comments to the friend. He's totally made numerous passes at her

    • @deannalumia1707
      @deannalumia1707 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      And you can tell he still wants her.

  • @MericaKennedy-p8g
    @MericaKennedy-p8g 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Conditional friendship is not a friendship. How dare her, won’t be her friend if he is in her life. One supports their friends, even if you don’t like their decisions.

  • @katb3233
    @katb3233 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Classic sociopath. My aunt was one. Overmedicating me n stealing my whole college fund then asking how im doing to the rest of my family

  • @annakuusela520
    @annakuusela520 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    when a man like that cheats with babysitters, he's always a cheater