Cindyrella is such an intelligent young woman. She is such a God fearing individual and she is absolutely focused on her goals in life. She surrounds herself with intelligent genuine people that care about her and she never fails to be the life of the party. I learn something new everytime I watch her videos. Keep doing what you do Cindyrella. God bless ❤
I CAN'T DEAL the BEAUTY is unreal. The INTELLIGENCE is unreal. but for real Nneoma is real "the preference you can have is the preference you pay for" Dudes always want to have wifey qualifications when they DON'T EVEN meet the prerequisites to be entered in the "talking/dating stage" 🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
I don't think that we are OBSESSED with marriage , but rather we EXPECT marriage.How long are we going to be boyfriend and girlfriend for? If we are dating each other then that means that we are getting together to be married one day. Like don't waste my time if you don't see me in your life other than your girlfriend.
LaBelleCongolese women have to think and be more giving and marriage might happen but the process of marriage is so one sided and selfish a lot of times women don’t consider anything for a man just everything they want
Arguing over their kid having a traditional name? HELL NO I deffo need my kids to have a traditional name- I don't want a part of their heritage being wiped away just because some ppl can't pronounce it - if they can learn all these long ass European names, they can learn some traditional African names. We were not put on this earth to please the white man lol Also you girls are all so pretty! keep up the good work :D
I'm surprised they didn't discuss the names BEFORE they got married. I don't remember if she said that was the reason why they're getting divorced? And I'm also surprised that a fellow sister would marry a Nigerian man and not want to have her children have a Nigerian name, I was like is this a real story?? But we have ignorance in all cultures, so it's important to view that as an isolated incidence.
I don't care if I marry a Dominican, white,Moroccan or Indian man- MY CHILDREN WILL KNOW NIGERIAN CULTURE AND HAVE IGBO NAMES. That's not even up for discussion. I can't imagine telling my partner I don't want to give my child a cultural name- with meaning because "it's hard to pronounce"....ARE YOU MAD?? WHERE IS YOUR HEAD?! Tufiakwa
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Ndidi Ezeilo well some of them would have to bare the name of the other partners culture,you can always implement Igbo middle names..just to be fair. no be only you wey dey born' am.
obviously my point was in regards to that woman who didnt want a cultural name for her child AT ALL. That's straight up wrong. And obviously my kid won't only have igbo names. Wherever my husband's culture is, we can incoorporate that as well. But to disreagrd a traditional name because its "hard to pronounce"?? LOL. That woman is full of it.
You can plan what age you get married (and the age of your hubby) all you want but when it's your time, it's your time, I wanted to be engaged at 24, I'm now 26 and very single 🤷🏽♀️ . Still happy and enjoying life though, and I know God has someone very special in store for me
there is hope for African children in this crazy world!!! You girls are carrying the fine dos and donts from your african culture with proudness! I salute your parents for this beautiful work they have done!!!! God bless you all!!!!
Natural Tenacity wisdom comes with age. While some of their views will remain the same many will not. As they learn more and gain more knowledge their outlooks will be different. Be it high expectations or lower. I can't say. That will depend on their life experiences and the wisdom they gain 😘
Curly Q'Tay Did you find any of their views unrealistic or are you saying that you, yourself, had expectations of men that refined with time and getting into who you became as you got older? I think it would be interesting to see if their views change with time and what specifically initiated the change.
Natural Tenacity it's simply my opinion. And as psychology major I believe their views would change and would find it interesting what views do and don't change in 5-7 years. I don't kmow anyone who stay the exact same and has the exact same views from there 20s-30s-40s. But at the end of the day it's just my opinion. Not really looking to debate or argue or have someone think they know my life from a TH-cam comment lol
Curly Q'Tay Oh. No. I wasn't being arguementative. I was legitimately curious on your perspective. I supposed I incorrectly assumed your were a older woman nostalgic on once sharing their views and was going to ask what type of experiences changed them. I'll stop commenting, then. I just like having open ended discussions. I don't troll people. I literally be curious on differences in perspectives.
I agree with not shacking up AT ALL guys get way too comfortable! But living with someone is different. It was after staying with a guy for a week straight I found out he wasn't showering and brushing his teeth everyday.
Nigerian names are beautiful! That guy should have checked out his lady way before marrying her. Don't marry anyone who doesn't respect your cultural background.
I’m 22, my husband is 24. We were friends for over a year, and by the time we started dating we were already talking about marriage, 6 months into the relationship we went to pre marital counseling, and it was sooo much fun and so eye opening. After 9 months of dating we were married and I would not have had it any other wayyy. And I’m African American, he’s first generation Haitian american, and I wholeheartedly accept his culture and try my best to practice it with him. I love him and all the things that molded him to be the man I decided to love. That’s my share for the day lol you guys are beautiful and I love the different perspectives you guys give on life 💛
caramelized sugar especially when you are self centered and only think about what you want and don’t consider your partner , women tend to do this a lot
I love the fact that you ladies come from a culture that teaches you to be excited about marriage at a young age....i am American and we struggle with that, but I would marry a Nigerian man because the culture is different
All this is in theory. Things are easier said than done & you never know how things will unfold in the future. Nothing is guaranteed to follow what we initially plan. I'm 21 & im no where near ready for marriage. That's a huge milestone that requires maturity which I believe takes bit of time to grow into.
beeutskindeep Exactly. I don't understand why girls feel like they NEED to get married, it seems forced asf. Take time, you might not be ready and who has time for divorce papers.
+lashay williams don't put african american culture onto theirs. that is not the standard. only the west is ok with no marriage within a community. if ur not having kids then fine but still .
African culture is so different than African American culture! I wouldn't dare mention marriage after 6 months! That'll scare these men off lol I guess I understand the title of the video now
Actions are better than talking about it , most black Women aren’t submissive and respectful anymore , if they were men will be for marriage faster but these women still prove the marriage is all about them and not the man
James Parker yea because being submissive doesn’t benefit the women at all 😂 just the man lol, men cant even provide anymore or we can provide for ourselves so why would we do that lol
My dad is Nigerian and my mom is Black American and when they had me my dad picked me an African name my name is Okiemute Okrakene and im super happy because felt like I was raised with both of my cultures like when I was little I got my head shaved because it was my dads culture and feel happy that I got raised with both my mom and dad cultures im happy I got raised with Banga Soup and Fufu and Mcdonalds. And sometimes i feel as though im not African enough and embracing my culture or if im not American enough soo. YEA
nativechy marriage is all about women and it shows, these females aren’t saying what they will do to get a man to want to marry them, they are only saying what he should and shouldn’t do smh
I really loved this topic I complained about the last one because it was too loud and EVERYBODY was talking over eachother this one was a lot of respect and we actually understood what all were saying. I'm Black/African American and your channel I really learn a lot with our cultural differences keep up the good work.
heyyyy I noticed the intro song was one of the songs you and Chinedu *idk if that's how you spell his name* were singing in the video with you, him and Malik 😂
After watching this video, I'm convinced I'm Nigerian bc I completely agree with what they were saying. I'm 21 and I'm dating to potentially marry. 🤷🏽♀️ sorry. We to old to be playing around. I'm not trynna be an old parent either.
I just had to speak for the African American .... I love the African culture so it saddens me to know or hear most black American can be so closed minded. I love my kids having their ancestors names my daughter is Ngozi... I love the food ... man I just really embrace the culture. YOU ladies are right about that being a barrier but it doesn't have to be if both parties are open minded and compromising enough to really love and work together. But overall great video ladies!!
I'm an American woman I'm married to an African Nigerian Yoruba man and he's 4 yrs older than me and is the absolute sweetest literally calls me princess lol😜
first of all, lets appreciate the beauty in the panel: melanin is popping everywhere, you are all so beautiful :) Totally enjoyed watching these, and Nneoma and Cindy you too cracked me up so much but you all said made sense x
From experience: my daughter’s father is Nigerian and 14 years older than I. Sometimes being with someone older isn’t ideal. By a certain age some behaviours become adapted and habitual. Age truly doesn’t determine their maturity but only indicates their life experience. The relationship became a bore quickly. He wasn’t as exciting as he claimed to be initially. I am also glad that we lived together so that I can pick up on certain behaviours that I wouldn’t have, had we not lived together. I am not talking about petty things such as toilet seats, dishes in the sink, or hygiene practices. I am referring to what makes me feel whole or fulfilled as a person with another half. He preferred to sit at home and watch tv when i wanted to go out and do something active and unusual. He already experienced that lifestyle with his other partners so at this point and time it is more about what he wants. So imagine that half of me which became almost the whole...Everyday you feel single and lonely because that is your day, day in and day out. But that is not the man he presented to me. You catch more bees or flies with honey right? Experience will later change your perspective about what you want. Take your time with life. Date for experience until you believe that the man in front of you is worth your only true investment in life which is yourself. Xo bellas
I been binge watching these videos for three days now. I love this channel. Can’t believe it took me so long to find these beautiful Nigerian girls. Big up from Jamaica 🇯🇲
Omg, y'all make me so proud of my Nigerian blood!! But I just hate it when people ask me to talk or say something according to mi language, ya know? But you gals are amazing!!
I loved this video, im not Nigerian but its refreshing to see girls like me agree on traditional values when it comes to relationships. I love your channel and I can't wait to see it flourish even more 💚
Hey bby Cindy I love you so much♥️♥️♥️♥️. I love your videos they crack me up 😂😂😂. I also love all of these beautiful African/Nigerian ladies y'all are so beautiful 😍. I'm from Sudan 🇸🇩, but I support all of my African people 🤞🏿. I live in Texas btw. Can you do a video with the girls and the boys together? Because I know that will be so hilarious 😂. Keep up the good work and much love for nnoeme ( I still don't know how to spell her name😂, but I'll learn). Stay safe bby gal😘😘
i'm 17 african american young lady and i agree so much with y'all ig i just need to move to Nigeria when i'm old enough (my great grandma from Nigeria never met her but ik that much)
La Fille i'm also 17 but i am a Nigeria currently in Germany and, i will advice you that moving to Nigeria u hage to be fucking careful cause we've got lot of bad guys there especially in Lagos which i already know that's where you're planning to go😂,
And also, this who marriage pressures/dilemmas affect ALL black women! Caribbeans women go through pressures/dilemmas. I for one would like someone from a similar background to myself.. However, I like men of colour so the game might change for me.. keeping an eye open. The key to some girls success though is not to give in to pressures, and DON'T GET DESPERATE! I've noticed that when black women go against themselves and what they want, they lose out.. There are many horror stories of African women and Caribbean women, who hurry and OVERLOOK bad traits about the man!! And trial of living with the man is not such a bad thing, because when you live separately, its easier to HIDE YOURSELF if you are a shady person-Not trivial things, but things like routines, who you have at each others houses and potential false lifestyle! I've noticed that people hide behind smokescreens a lot, and some of their BS is rather serious. Try to be cautious/investigate if needed!
yess this videos was on point. i have always thought it was stupid to live with someone you date. like what a waste of time. especially if the both of you don't get married.
Mz Gorgeous Bee well how else would you know what that person is like at home, or sharing a home with you. You gotta live with them to know what to expect and feel comfortable with them, if not then most likely when you get married it turns out you disagree on majority of things regarding the way you live and you might get a divorce.
Lashay Williams you pray that God gives you the right one and he will come. If you trust God everything would work out great. There is no need to play marriage. It only causes the man to be less committed to marry his girlfriend.
My dad and his side of the family is from Angola and the DRC I don't have an accent but I absolutely LOVE the way my aunts uncles and grandparents talk. Some people find it annoying but I see it as a unique part of my history and culture.
Cindy do you mind doing a GRWM and OOTD since alot of cookouts, evening parties, and birthday parties are coming up. Im looking for some style inspiration.
The one who said I am young am 22, I got married at 22 I which I had known better. Please wait till you turn 30 don't rush! You all so young and intelligent, keep up the good work young ladies!!
"the preference you can have is the preference you're paying for". SIS, FACTSSS
B L A C K 👌🏾👌🏾👏🏾👏🏾
The best part 👏🏾
Bible!
B L A C K yass!!! facts!! 🤗
B L A C K yeeeess!!! Best quote I've heard in 2017 thus far 👏🏾👏🏾💯
Cindyrella is such an intelligent young woman. She is such a God fearing individual and she is absolutely focused on her goals in life. She surrounds herself with intelligent genuine people that care about her and she never fails to be the life of the party. I learn something new everytime I watch her videos. Keep doing what you do Cindyrella. God bless ❤
Lonnae Exsiluste wow. Did you just want to make me cry today??? 😭😭😭 thank you so much, boo! Much love!! 💕💕💕💕
Lonnae Exsiluste aq
Lonnae Exsiluste I KNOW! I aspire to be like her 🙌🏾😫😍
I CAN'T DEAL the BEAUTY is unreal. The INTELLIGENCE is unreal. but for real Nneoma is real "the preference you can have is the preference you pay for" Dudes always want to have wifey qualifications when they DON'T EVEN meet the prerequisites to be entered in the "talking/dating stage" 🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
hi
I love nneoma and cindy's personalities so much😂😂 y'all always crack me up
Aly Oki me too! I need me a friend like nneoma and cyndy in my life 🤗😂
Aly Oki yaaaaaaaassssss
You guys make me so proud of my culture -sincerely, a Congolese girl🇨🇩
Victoria Shembo ayeeeee me too!
Ayyee!!! Congo gang gang✊🏿
YYAAASSSSS🇨🇩🇨🇩🇨🇩
Victoria Shembo 🇨🇩🇨🇩🇨🇩🇨🇩 THAT 243 WHATSSSS UP!
🇨🇩me too
I don't think that we are OBSESSED with marriage , but rather we EXPECT marriage.How long are we going to be boyfriend and girlfriend for? If we are dating each other then that means that we are getting together to be married one day. Like don't waste my time if you don't see me in your life other than your girlfriend.
LaBelleCongolese Amen shaaaa. Speak it now, don't be chopping my time for waste!!!
LaBelleCongolese women have to think and be more giving and marriage might happen but the process of marriage is so one sided and selfish a lot of times women don’t consider anything for a man just everything they want
James Parker You’re right. That’s why I broke-up with my ex-gf.
Amen!
I agree ! time is precious not made for wasting
Arguing over their kid having a traditional name? HELL NO I deffo need my kids to have a traditional name- I don't want a part of their heritage being wiped away just because some ppl can't pronounce it - if they can learn all these long ass European names, they can learn some traditional African names. We were not put on this earth to please the white man lol
Also you girls are all so pretty! keep up the good work :D
taejindda95 Amen!!!
taejindda95 Exactly!
taejindda95 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽Same! I used to want to give English names because it's annoying for me living in the diaspora but now I'm adamant! (Im Nigerian)
taejindda95 I'm AA and I was like f that all my kids having Igbo first middle and last names tf?!
I'm surprised they didn't discuss the names BEFORE they got married. I don't remember if she said that was the reason why they're getting divorced? And I'm also surprised that a fellow sister would marry a Nigerian man and not want to have her children have a Nigerian name, I was like is this a real story?? But we have ignorance in all cultures, so it's important to view that as an isolated incidence.
"Kill me with enjoyment" 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@@joannacs1044 that's the Nigerian girl in her!🤣
😭😭😭😭
🤣🤣🤣 I died!💀
Cindy ain't playing with these videos!👏🏾👏🏾😫
Tia Washington the consistency is amazzzing
Yesssss!!
Yes
I don't care if I marry a Dominican, white,Moroccan or Indian man- MY CHILDREN WILL KNOW NIGERIAN CULTURE AND HAVE IGBO NAMES. That's not even up for discussion. I can't imagine telling my partner I don't want to give my child a cultural name- with meaning because "it's hard to pronounce"....ARE YOU MAD?? WHERE IS YOUR HEAD?! Tufiakwa
Ndidi Ezeilo well some of them would have to bare the name of the other partners culture,you can always implement Igbo middle names..just to be fair. no be only you wey dey born' am.
obviously my point was in regards to that woman who didnt want a cultural name for her child AT ALL. That's straight up wrong. And obviously my kid won't only have igbo names. Wherever my husband's culture is, we can incoorporate that as well. But to disreagrd a traditional name because its "hard to pronounce"?? LOL. That woman is full of it.
Tufiakwa! lmfaooo
but what if your partner what’s your kids to have cultural names from their culture
They Always Have Such An Amazing Color Coordination Going On😍😭
Go ahead baby
"And it makes the relationship a little more headass" brooo I died 💀💀😂😂
I'm jamaican but i swear I must have been Nigerian in my past life lol i live for these vids
Shae Same 😂😂😂😂
Shae Same here!
Same here 😂
Shae same here🙋
Same!
You can plan what age you get married (and the age of your hubby) all you want but when it's your time, it's your time, I wanted to be engaged at 24, I'm now 26 and very single 🤷🏽♀️ . Still happy and enjoying life though, and I know God has someone very special in store for me
When you like the Video before even Watching 😊😂 already know this finna be good ❤
CeeDoll 😭😭😭 that's love!!! ❤️
Great
there is hope for African children in this crazy world!!! You girls are carrying the fine dos and donts from your african culture with proudness! I salute your parents for this beautiful work they have done!!!! God bless you all!!!!
"20 dollars, I'm not even asking for 30 million" I'm weak 😂 and I love your videos ❤
hi
All of you are so pretty. What's the secret?
Ayo B melanin😊👅🍫
You're right ❤️
Mickie V bruh then what happened to me
Ayo B Nigerian baes
hellohi123ist I'm Nigerian too🇳🇬
"be my daddy" 😂😂 Nneoma is so funny lol
I remember being this age and thinking I had a clue. Would love for these girls to make another video in 5-7 years and compare the two lol
Curly Q'Tay In what sense? What is the difference. Is it learning to comprise expectations or giving up on the expectations all together?
Natural Tenacity wisdom comes with age. While some of their views will remain the same many will not. As they learn more and gain more knowledge their outlooks will be different. Be it high expectations or lower. I can't say. That will depend on their life experiences and the wisdom they gain 😘
Curly Q'Tay Did you find any of their views unrealistic or are you saying that you, yourself, had expectations of men that refined with time and getting into who you became as you got older?
I think it would be interesting to see if their views change with time and what specifically initiated the change.
Natural Tenacity it's simply my opinion. And as psychology major I believe their views would change and would find it interesting what views do and don't change in 5-7 years. I don't kmow anyone who stay the exact same and has the exact same views from there 20s-30s-40s. But at the end of the day it's just my opinion. Not really looking to debate or argue or have someone think they know my life from a TH-cam comment lol
Curly Q'Tay Oh. No. I wasn't being arguementative. I was legitimately curious on your perspective. I supposed I incorrectly assumed your were a older woman nostalgic on once sharing their views and was going to ask what type of experiences changed them.
I'll stop commenting, then. I just like having open ended discussions.
I don't troll people. I literally be curious on differences in perspectives.
I agree with not shacking up AT ALL guys get way too comfortable! But living with someone is different. It was after staying with a guy for a week straight I found out he wasn't showering and brushing his teeth everyday.
DisneyStarsTube 😫😫
DisneyStarsTube chaiiii🙆🏾😂
Chidi C. Yeesss he never had bad breath or body odor so I didn't know but the fact still
Grossed me out
🤦♀️
Bro when she mentioned 10 year age difference my face dropped
YOU'VE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME OOOOOO
Nigerian names are beautiful! That guy should have checked out his lady way before marrying her. Don't marry anyone who doesn't respect your cultural background.
Every time Africans speak on relationship standards my Jamaican self be nodding in agreement.
I'm so in love with all this melanin! It amazes me how African women and Black women differ though! Learn something new everyday.
I’m 22, my husband is 24. We were friends for over a year, and by the time we started dating we were already talking about marriage, 6 months into the relationship we went to pre marital counseling, and it was sooo much fun and so eye opening. After 9 months of dating we were married and I would not have had it any other wayyy.
And I’m African American, he’s first generation Haitian american, and I wholeheartedly accept his culture and try my best to practice it with him. I love him and all the things that molded him to be the man I decided to love.
That’s my share for the day lol you guys are beautiful and I love the different perspectives you guys give on life 💛
lmao!!! yall all saying 28. i said 25 when i was 19. im 28 in october and single still in nyc soooo it doesn't always go as planned girls!
caramelized sugar especially when you are self centered and only think about what you want and don’t consider your partner , women tend to do this a lot
the color coordination sisss 🙌🏾
Watching y'all switch up accents was life..!!
Also the way Cindy shouted "shower me" killed me..
I saw the Igbo in her.. Igbo kwenu!!
Nneoma is bae lol
Kadiesha Thomas 😘😘😘
VivaLaNneoma
VivaLaNneoma
Hu
"kill me with enjoyment" 😂😂😂💀💀
Hi baby
I love the fact that you ladies come from a culture that teaches you to be excited about marriage at a young age....i am American and we struggle with that, but I would marry a Nigerian man because the culture is different
Tegan Foster hopefully a good one
All this is in theory. Things are easier said than done & you never know how things will unfold in the future. Nothing is guaranteed to follow what we initially plan. I'm 21 & im no where near ready for marriage. That's a huge milestone that requires maturity which I believe takes bit of time to grow into.
beeutskindeep Exactly. I don't understand why girls feel like they NEED to get married, it seems forced asf. Take time, you might not be ready and who has time for divorce papers.
+lashay williams don't put african american culture onto theirs. that is not the standard. only the west is ok with no marriage within a community. if ur not having kids then fine but still .
beeutskindeep start praying now for your future family and husband
loool!!! i love you for that comment!!!!
African culture is so different than African American culture! I wouldn't dare mention marriage after 6 months! That'll scare these men off lol I guess I understand the title of the video now
Right!! African American women are totally different from African women. I never understood it until watching this video.
Actions are better than talking about it , most black Women aren’t submissive and respectful anymore , if they were men will be for marriage faster but these women still prove the marriage is all about them and not the man
James Parker shut up
Ash Has emotional lol
James Parker yea because being submissive doesn’t benefit the women at all 😂 just the man lol, men cant even provide anymore or we can provide for ourselves so why would we do that lol
My dad is Nigerian and my mom is Black American and when they had me my dad picked me an African name my name is Okiemute Okrakene and im super happy because felt like I was raised with both of my cultures like when I was little I got my head shaved because it was my dads culture and feel happy that I got raised with both my mom and dad cultures im happy I got raised with Banga Soup and Fufu and Mcdonalds. And sometimes i feel as though im not African enough and embracing my culture or if im not American enough soo. YEA
McDonald's is not black culture soul food is, come on now sis lol
She said American
megasexyhotbabe its American culture lol
Ash Has black american though
girllll, with this consistency, by the grace of God, you will reach 50K subbies before the end of July!! ❤️🙏🏾
+Relicious E AMEN!!!!
And this was like a year ago. Wow.
I loved this but I wish you added guys for their perspective! I want to hear arguments hahaha 😈 lmao me and Nneoma think the same bruh 💯
nativechy hey girl heyyyy! Lol
nativechy marriage is all about women and it shows, these females aren’t saying what they will do to get a man to want to marry them, they are only saying what he should and shouldn’t do smh
"The preference you can have is the preference you are paying for " AMEN !!!!!!!!!!!!
"but Don't fall in love with potential...." THAT IS STICKING WITH ME!
Love without potential never last?
You are cute baby ❤️
honestly the age difference isn't a problem for me, it's mental age that is more important. My parents are just a couple months apart!
I appreciate the color coordination 🤗👌👌
Plessse make a video about being a virgin in college or how guys feel about dating virgins allat good stuff lol
yessssssssssssss!
Danielle Williams Yas omg
Danielle Williams frrrrrr!!!!
yes! this isn't talked about enough!
if you are a virgin, stay one!! trust me, its soo worth it:)
"be my daddy" 😂😂😂😂😂 this was hilarious
You girls should do a video on relationships, celibacy, abstinence
I really loved this topic I complained about the last one because it was too loud and EVERYBODY was talking over eachother this one was a lot of respect and we actually understood what all were saying. I'm Black/African American and your channel I really learn a lot with our cultural differences keep up the good work.
Okayyy Cindyyy, i'm loving how these vids keep coming👏🏽
Chichi's hair! 😍😍😍
thank you love!
Weave that's not her real hair
OMG I was so disappointed when the video ended 😔..great video Cindy
Igbo babes never carry last!
The girl with the braids needs a channel! LMAO
Linzy Keeke I have one lol. VivaLaNneoma! Cindy put it in the bio!
VivaLaNneoma u are so pretty lol
Layla Smith thank you honey love!
You are right
heyyyy I noticed the intro song was one of the songs you and Chinedu *idk if that's how you spell his name* were singing in the video with you, him and Malik 😂
WavyDeJ ayeee good ear! 🤗
Nneoma is so cute 😍😍
xoAngelicaF which one lmaooo
After watching this video, I'm convinced I'm Nigerian bc I completely agree with what they were saying. I'm 21 and I'm dating to potentially marry. 🤷🏽♀️ sorry. We to old to be playing around. I'm not trynna be an old parent either.
I just had to speak for the African American .... I love the African culture so it saddens me to know or hear most black American can be so closed minded.
I love my kids having their ancestors names my daughter is Ngozi... I love the food ... man I just really embrace the culture. YOU ladies are right about that being a barrier but it doesn't have to be if both parties are open minded and compromising enough to really love and work together. But overall great video ladies!!
I'm only 14 and now I know what to expect when I'm older, thxxxxxxx.... #Jamaican
I'm an American woman I'm married to an African Nigerian Yoruba man and he's 4 yrs older than me and is the absolute sweetest literally calls me princess lol😜
Felisha B good for you
Bruh Nneoma be having me deeeaaadddddd!!! She be speaking facts though! Straight facts, no chaser.
Personally, getting married at 22 is too young for me. I’ll rather focus on my career and start thinking about marriage after I’m 28.
How can someone not love Cindy?! Ugh love you girl. Your video really do make my day. 💕
first of all, lets appreciate the beauty in the panel: melanin is popping everywhere, you are all so beautiful :)
Totally enjoyed watching these, and Nneoma and Cindy you too cracked me up so much but you all said made sense x
“The preference you can have is the preference you are paying for.” Best Quote Ever. I can't to watch the part 2. I was so upset when it was over.
From experience: my daughter’s father is Nigerian and 14 years older than I. Sometimes being with someone older isn’t ideal. By a certain age some behaviours become adapted and habitual. Age truly doesn’t determine their maturity but only indicates their life experience. The relationship became a bore quickly. He wasn’t as exciting as he claimed to be initially. I am also glad that we lived together so that I can pick up on certain behaviours that I wouldn’t have, had we not lived together. I am not talking about petty things such as toilet seats, dishes in the sink, or hygiene practices. I am referring to what makes me feel whole or fulfilled as a person with another half. He preferred to sit at home and watch tv when i wanted to go out and do something active and unusual. He already experienced that lifestyle with his other partners so at this point and time it is more about what he wants. So imagine that half of me which became almost the whole...Everyday you feel single and lonely because that is your day, day in and day out. But that is not the man he presented to me. You catch more bees or flies with honey right? Experience will later change your perspective about what you want. Take your time with life. Date for experience until you believe that the man in front of you is worth your only true investment in life which is yourself. Xo bellas
I been binge watching these videos for three days now. I love this channel. Can’t believe it took me so long to find these beautiful Nigerian girls. Big up from Jamaica 🇯🇲
Yesss! 👏🏽👏🏽Nneoma "the preference you have is the preference you pay for" had to explain this to my nigga just a few days ago
28 is too late for me also and I want my husband to be 3-5 years older me but but by 28 I need about 2-3 babies
thats what everyone says till they get to 28
I love how you ladies respect your selfs so much.. y'all are raised very well!
I am not even Nigerian but obsessed with her videos 🖤
Glad you said it girl, " Do NOT fall in love with potential!!!!"
Girl on the bottom right is so fire 😍
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Nneoma is stunning!
Ahhh 😂😭 tell me why I was just listening to fall by davido before clicking on your video
It makes the relationship more headass 😂😭
Omg another video!!!! I seriously loved this one. We need part 2
Omg, y'all make me so proud of my Nigerian blood!! But I just hate it when people ask me to talk or say something according to mi language, ya know? But you gals are amazing!!
I loved this video, im not Nigerian but its refreshing to see girls like me agree on traditional values when it comes to relationships. I love your channel and I can't wait to see it flourish even more 💚
I want y'all to do a video on how you feel about black women being kind of ugly to their own kind and other races please
Aaliyah Ware same
J Ford very very true
ChiChi Appio nope we're not black but africans
The dark Americans are black
black barbie lol what????
I love the wisdom, strength, and confidence of you and your friends, Cindy.
i love nneomas vibe...so much swag 2 her and she looks like mami water..
Loooool man said mami water 😂😂
man i love black women all in one room at the same TIME!
Black queens! Keep slaying girls
I've seen Amarachi at so many parties she's so pretty😍
It's good to hear black women talk about getting married.
Bruh Nneoma be speaking facts😭👏🏾👏🏾
Simple Beauty yessss.
Correct
Hey bby Cindy I love you so much♥️♥️♥️♥️. I love your videos they crack me up 😂😂😂. I also love all of these beautiful African/Nigerian ladies y'all are so beautiful 😍. I'm from Sudan 🇸🇩, but I support all of my African people 🤞🏿. I live in Texas btw. Can you do a video with the girls and the boys together? Because I know that will be so hilarious 😂. Keep up the good work and much love for nnoeme ( I still don't know how to spell her name😂, but I'll learn). Stay safe bby gal😘😘
i'm 17 african american young lady and i agree so much with y'all ig i just need to move to Nigeria when i'm old enough (my great grandma from Nigeria never met her but ik that much)
La Fille i'm also 17 but i am a Nigeria currently in Germany and, i will advice you that moving to Nigeria u hage to be fucking careful cause we've got lot of bad guys there especially in Lagos which i already know that's where you're planning to go😂,
And also, this who marriage pressures/dilemmas affect ALL black women! Caribbeans women go through pressures/dilemmas. I for one would like someone from a similar background to myself.. However, I like men of colour so the game might change for me.. keeping an eye open. The key to some girls success though is not to give in to pressures, and DON'T GET DESPERATE! I've noticed that when black women go against themselves and what they want, they lose out.. There are many horror stories of African women and Caribbean women, who hurry and OVERLOOK bad traits about the man!! And trial of living with the man is not such a bad thing, because when you live separately, its easier to HIDE YOURSELF if you are a shady person-Not trivial things, but things like routines, who you have at each others houses and potential false lifestyle! I've noticed that people hide behind smokescreens a lot, and some of their BS is rather serious. Try to be cautious/investigate if needed!
Cindyrella looks beautiful! Thanks for such consistent video uploads, and I love the videos that you do with your friends!!
just dropping videos back to back to back 😩
You and chi chi are pretty 😍😩
I really like nneoma's comments . very true 👐 nice vid cindy
You ladies really do set my standards high every video.
yess this videos was on point. i have always thought it was stupid to live with someone you date. like what a waste of time. especially if the both of you don't get married.
Mz Gorgeous Bee well how else would you know what that person is like at home, or sharing a home with you. You gotta live with them to know what to expect and feel comfortable with them, if not then most likely when you get married it turns out you disagree on majority of things regarding the way you live and you might get a divorce.
Lashay Williams you pray that God gives you the right one and he will come. If you trust God everything would work out great. There is no need to play marriage. It only causes the man to be less committed to marry his girlfriend.
Omg I wish I had friends like y'all who went to my school!! there's like no nigerians bruh
I just love Nneoma...she is a whole mood😂🙌🏽❤❤
". Let's get diabetes huh" yasssssss Cindy 😍😍😍😍
I agree marrying someone similar to your father has got to be awesome 🙌🏾
My dad and his side of the family is from Angola and the DRC I don't have an accent but I absolutely LOVE the way my aunts uncles and grandparents talk. Some people find it annoying but I see it as a unique part of my history and culture.
I cannot wait to see where I come from so I can celebrate and indulge in my culture. Y'all are lit!
Cindy do you mind doing a GRWM and OOTD since alot of cookouts, evening parties, and birthday parties are coming up. Im looking for some style inspiration.
The one who said I am young am 22, I got married at 22 I which I had known better. Please wait till you turn 30 don't rush! You all so young and intelligent, keep up the good work young ladies!!