My Mom is gone now, but back when I had my kids, she said "I raised my kids, I am not going to raise yours." I completely respected that and figured out daycare.
Agree. Most of these grandparent cases on the show start out with: "we let them move in to give them some help" and then the parent going all crazy acting like they suddenly have no obligations at all an can get a free pass. Sure you can help out, thats what families do, but you definitely need to things as unambiguous from the start.
My mom and dad and brother’s in laws provided child care and Nanny supervision for years after my SIL and brother’s parental leave were over. My folks took one full day and one day with Nanny. The in laws did the same. My bro and wife alternated a WFH day. Basically, my nephew was never alone with Nanny until he went to preK. The arrangement saved $$ and let everyone bond and breathe easy.
She just wanted to live there for free. She's a free loader for sure. She'll never know when she might need her mother assisted again. Grandma will take the boys, grandma says get a motel room. Grandma knows what kind of a person her daughter is. Trifling for sure, a liar, & just a user. She needs Jesus.
As a person who was raised by my grandparents shout out to Judge Vonda for having the grandmother’s back and telling these women the truth about their negligence.
Same I was raised by my grandparents. Shame on her for being so disrespectful to her mom. She’s lucky she’s still around . I left home at 19 cause my grandparents got sick and they passed away 2months before my daughter was born . I would do anything to have them back and around my kids .
All the faces she's making just shows her ignorance and disrespectful to her mother. She's lucky her mom is there to begin with. She thinks things should be given to her and she doesn't have to worry for anything. Sad!
And yet she was the one who wanted grandbabies. I believe the mom when she said that because there's a lot of mothers who pressure their daughters into having children. She just didn't realize how much it would cost having children and now she's flipping. You can't get blood from a stone. If I were the mom I'd start doing receipts for her hair braiding and then that way she can prove how much she's making. She could take it back to court to get a revision. It's odd that the grandma was able to do that without a lick of proof other than her word. Presumably the mom does her taxes every year and all she would have to do is provide them to prove her income. What it says on paper is what it's supposed to go by. If the taxes says she doesn't make any money then that's what it is. If I were the mom I'd stop doing any favors for the grandma. No more "church stuff", cleaning up for her, making dinner. Grandma wants to be paid child support? Fine. That makes her the effective parent and responsible for cleaning up after the kids and herself. The mom doesn't have to do jack crap in the house anymore. That would give her more time to look for a job and take her and her kids out of such a toxic environment. I just hate that smug look grandma had while she screwed her own daughter over.
Okay I just heard the trifling line. My soul left my body again. Had to pause the video for a good 2 minutes to get that laugh out because the look on the daughter's face says it all!!!
daughter a deadbeat ,she got the $$$ and wont take care of her kids or pay her mom back ...and she leeching..she got the $ rent free 3 ys making $3000 a month plus ...gtfo.. she found thma new mom to freeh03
Fr I moved back in with my mom after having my own place for a year and they tried to raise the rent to 1,600 not finna do that. Anything my momma ask for I do she don't ask me for money she want to to save to be able to leave but she don't watch my babies unless she come home and be like give me my baby cuz she love them but yea ain't no way she doing all that
I'm not sure that's what happened here. I think that the mom got screwed in her divorce and then the pandemic hit and she lost her main job. She's now braiding hair and honestly she's probably not lying about only making $80/head. The actual amount she makes is probably somewhere in between the $4800 and the $1200/month that they say. More like $2500/month. I would've based the calculations on that. If I were the mom I'd tell her mom that I'm no longer doing any favors for her and she can clean up her own house. Yes, it's your job to clean up after yourself and your kids. Nowhere does it say that you have to clean up after your mother. Nowhere does it say that you have to do "church stuff" for them. If the grandma wants it to be a straight transactional relationship I'd do that. I'd tell her that I'm moving out and that she can pay for everything and all she will get is the $700/month. No favors. No making supper. No cleaning up. Child support is meant to pay for the rearing of children. That means picking up after them. I'd never pick up another thing in that house that isn't mine. In fact, I'd square out a bedroom and say that's my space and I'll clean my own dishes, like a roommate. Because that's what the mom just made her into. A roommate who pays rent. I've seen the kind of culture that comes from being in church groups. Mothers expecting their children to be baby-makers. It sounds like that's what happened here. Grandma wanted grandbabies to spoil. She pressured her daughter into doing it and after going through hell is forcing the daughter to pay her when she knows her daughter doesn't have it. Her daughter will never be able to move out paying $700/month in child support. If I were the mom I'd move out with the kids. There are cheap apartments that you can get in rural towns for that amount of money. She can braid hair out of it and whatever she makes above the $700/month she can use to rear her children. Insurance isn't that hard to get. If you're on a low income you can apply for Medicare so that the kids are covered for insurance. She can apply to the state for benefits due to the loss of her job from COVID. It may seem like she was taking advantage of her mother but the fact is that when a husband takes a wife to the cleaners in the divorce you have nothing left. Sadly it happens a lot in many states because women virtually have no rights. Losing your main job makes it hard to give any money at all if you have to pay for things like gas and bills and such. I believe it that she didn't have the $400/month. And Judge Vonda just made it infinitely worse. The people who will suffer because of this will be the kids because that much animosity is not good for children. It's sad when situations like this happen.
Jessica you need to grow up! She is living with her mom. Not paying rent, not paying for anything. It's not the grandmother's responsibility to do all of this. She is taking advantage of her!
She wasn't. She's in a difficult spot. Didn't you hear her? Her husband took her to the cleaners in the divorce. And then she lost her job in the pandemic. We don't know what her financial situation was like before that and what she was paying for. The grandmother is getting the tail end of the event and assuming that it's always like that. What gets me is that if she's divorced and raising the kids, why isn't the mom getting money for child support from the dad? Where's he in this picture? It feels like we're only getting half the story here.
@@jessicaarmstrong5035but we don’t know if the mom’s story is legit either. And the judge doesn’t care. What she cares about is mom isn’t doing anything for the kids that are hers. It’s not your parents responsibility to raise your children.
I’m shocked at how ungrateful these kids are. My parents watch my sisters kid (they babysit while she’s at work) and my sister bought all the stuff needed to set up a nursery at their house, every Friday they do family dinner (more often than that but Friday is specifically pizza dinner) and she’s super appreciative to my parents for their support since she’s a single mom. How are these kids not appreciative of the help their parents are offering?
@@randomguyscott i was giving everything that i wanted, but i was always supper thankful for my mom and grandma, I don’t know how other children who are in the same boat as me aren’t , Maybe it’s because my mom would take things away when i was little
@@maddiek7497 that may be the reason plus you maybe saw that they how hard they had to work for it thus you being grateful. (At least that was it for me)
@@randomguyscott That is my deal. My parents worked HARD, HARD, HARD for us kids. We were not rich. Not a lotta cash.. I would never have dreamt of taking advantage of my parent’s generosity. She knows her Mom is a wonderful grandma. I would have insisted that Mom take the money. I would pay for soccer, football, food. I would save that running the street money and treat Mom to spa day or maybe pat for her and a pal to spend three days in a hotel by a swimming pool and a good book. I would be up making breakfast, cleaning house. To this day, if my parents need something and we kids hear about, we go right out and get it. Don’t treat the twins’ grandmother in a disrespectful manner. Those kids love her to death. Treat her with every amount of love and respect you can muster. That way your boys learn how you treat family. Come on, now! That daughter knows better!
As a woman who was raised by a single mother and a grandpa who was basically my father I appreciate how Judge Vonda was very considerate to the grandmother, having her back and telling these women the truth about the negligence to the children!!
Y’all I am hooked on these cases! Judge Vonda B. needs more daily episodes and needs to be picked up by a network because she is beyond entertaining! And she does it with such class!
I totally understand this grandma . I have my grandbabies 50 hours a week. Ages 5 years and 10 months with one on the way . I make .55 cents an hour watching these babies. Caregiver burn out is real!!! This grandma is tired and done her job raising her kids !
Why do you enable your family? Another one for you to help raise? I don't know if you are doing this voluntary or not. I hope you want to because otherwise you are being used.
At least u got something. I worked a full time job & a part time job. On my 2 days off I babysat my grandkids. At first my daughter was appreciative. After doing it for years she took me for granted & no longer showed appreciation. She would not let me do anything with them like a grandma would. I was just the baby sitter & had to sit at her house all day. One day I wanted to take to the movies. She said no. Final straw. I quit. A few days later I called to ask to take them to the movies. She said stay away from me & my family. We haven’t talked in years. My poor grand babies lost their g-ma that day.
Judge this old 70 year old white disabled vet absolutely loves you and the honesty and the attitude and the way you handle business. What a wonderful judge and person you are! I wish every judge would be required to sit under you for at least 3 years to learn how to do things right!
@@ericrivera8410 that doesn’t mean that’s how she was raised. People change every single day, based on people around you. You can raised with parents always there, taught you manners, and in the end you can be the opposite of how you were raised.
When Judge Vonda asked her how much she made a month braiding hair and she hemmed and hawed and danced around the truth, Judge Vonda asks her "Do I look like I was born yesterday!" I just about peed myself laughing so hard!!!
From someone who lost their mother as a child, I wish I had a mom that helped me and loved my children like this grandma. Heartbreaking how they are taken for granted.
@@npatillo63 but she lives there for free and the money she makes braiding hair is not taxed . I’m almost certain that she makes more from the braiding than she reported as well . So everything she makes is just spent on her.
@@npatillo63 it wasn't a lot of $ considering EVERYTHING the grandma was doing for them including insurance when they weren't even Her kids. Trifling bottom feeders make me sick 🤢....
This is a prime example of the state of today’s society. Adults are focused on feelings and not duty. Those kids deserve better. I applaud the grandmother for stepping up.
My husband babysits for our grandchildren whenever needed. He’s retired and I take days off to give him a break. I know my daughters appreciate it and go out of there way to show it.
Facts because that’s grandma and not their mama it sounds like she running and gunning the streets while mamma got the boys getting them right because now that the boyfriend came into play it sounds like she spends most of the time with dude and not her kids
@@TruthTeller-si9wp It's amazing to me that the 'boyfriend' doesn't become a factor until she realizes that she has to pay child support. Because it's amazing that she says that's the reason why we're up here at all. Your mom has been on a fixed income and allows you to live in her house for over 3 years, and you want to come with this weak sauce about the boyfriend? What have you been doing with yourself this entire time to make yourself better for the children and yourself? You've been living off your mom and you're mad because she's sick and tired of it. She shouldn't be spending all of her money on your kids and you. She should be spending it on living the rest of whatever life God has given her. Man this case made me mad...
Had same issue when my daughter left her husband and twins with us. Then he was lazy and i was the only person working due to husband being disabled and we were trying to get on disability, and taking care of my own child and mother in law. As soon as I said I'm getting food stamps and adding them to my plan, he all the sudden ups and moves out. While we were moving later on, found he had placed a camera in our bathroom. No clue who he was watching. Cringe
Thank you Judge for taking care of grandma. I appreciate you so much. My husband and I paid for everything, the girls are grown and doing very well for themselves. They are always thanking us for loving them and taking care of them. The girl's mom hasn't changed, the girls are in their late twenties, and can see their mom for what she is. Papa and I continue to support them emotional and with whatever else they need to be outstanding. citizens. They are able to hold their own but we are always here for them. We love our beautiful girls.
She said don’t say nothing to me and she’s taking care of your kids AND that’s your mother 😂 the nerve. 750 for 2 kids ain’t bad at all. You actually got lucky ma’am
And then she makes the comment that she's going to casually leave her kids with the grandma. Those are your kids. You're the one that laid down a had them. They're your responsibility. And for you to make the statement that I want to try to find me. You've had three years to find you. If you're that lost, you need a GPS or a microchip.
Where I stay I see ppl your the court system n lie tho just cause of a break up or w.e to bring the kids in it then also ppl don’t have places to go to live just cause off their income but I would tell my mine to choose one sport to do since we in this situation
My mom kept my 2 daughters for a year. I gave her all my good stamps so they can eat and gave her money the best I can. After a year came she didn't want them to go lol. But she understood I'm their mother I gotta provide them no matter how hard it gets.
They aren't obligated due to western individualism. But anywhere else the family actually matters. Extended family has duties, just as much as family. It makes the west look miserly that we pay people to care for our kids, rather than actually being there for our family and helping out over familial duties.
Judges like judge Vonda are how judges should be. She’s so reasonable and she listens to the actual problem and resolves it even if it’s just for the moment. I love her!
Love Judge Vonda. She is so patient and fair. I can't stop watching this. I just wish parents were better people and loved their children and didn't treat them like a burden. Their children are not unaware and will remember the treatment. There will be scars.
What's low is the fact that you're living with your mother and she's been raising your children for 3 years and you're not even willing to help her out financially that's low! This type of behavior is so disgusting to me.🤢🤮
I feel like this would've been resolved better if Judge Vonda had just ordered her to pay the $400/month. The grandmother said that was what she asked for so why not? $400/month is a lot more manageable than $700/month. If the grandma said that $400/month was enough to raise the kids that means she's done a budget somewhere to determine that. I'd also like to know where the dad is in all this? If I were the mom I'd say okay I'll pay the $700/month. But now I'm going to sue the dad for child support. He may have taken her to the cleaners in the divorce but child support is an entirely different matter. The pandemic killed a lot of people's budgets. I think it's sad that a mother is so greedy that she would do this to her own daughter.
My brother did the same. My mom asked for $400 and he moved in with his wife and 3 kids. Never paid her a dime. Lights and water were off for 2 whole weeks.
@@jessicaarmstrong5035 she put off paying anything for 3 years until her mother had to take her to court to pay towards the care of her own kids! She's lucky she doesn't have to pay for all 3 years they've been there. Grandma is still out a ton of her own money, like almost $25k since she was supposed to pay $400 a month plus $275 a month for the insurance. How can you possibly call her greedy?
This the type of grandma you hope your mom doesn’t see after church because you know that once they start a conversation you’re gonna be there another hour listening to her tell everybody’s business 😂
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The daughter tried to expose the mom for breaking up with the same guy thinking it made her look better. But in reality, it made her look WORSE. And by the way she scoffed about paying $754 a month for two school aged children shows how trifling she really is.
@@kimmyj4661 Unless it's a salon, no one is paying 3-4 hundred. Grams def inflated that number. It's about half that much. And depending on length, she's doing two clients AT MOST. Because braiding is exhausting AF. It hurts your hands and your back. Especially if you're standing because it takes hours to do.
I was upset with my mom when I first become homeless because she left me to stay in a tent but now I thank her because she gave me initiative to get out of it faster
Judge hit the nail on the head when she said , "You would would agree that 3 years is no long temporary right?" She STFU, quickly and started stuttering. Pay your MOMMA!!
She is going to have a problem leaving the house and living her own life too. Because not only you got a deal with your living expenses, you got to deal with paying $754 a month. Maybe that'll stop her from allowing her friends to switch so she can braid their hair while they do her nails. She can actually charge all the people that she braids hair and get paid.
That only pays for daycare, still have to pay rent, food, car, diapers, clothes etc. I love my kids... They're are expensive but they are worth every penny and more... But a 1000 dollar in this economy isn't much
Shit I couldn’t count on my parents to even watch my son, I would be so grateful to have a mama that would help me like that! The faces the grandmas making as her daughter talks🤣
@@brooksroth345 never said My parents were useless and never said I expect them to take care of my child, all I said is wish they cared enough to offer a helping hand
No, I've seen enough of these disrespectful daughters to know that you don't have to be an enabler, they take advantage of these grandmother's love towards their grandbabies wellbeing and do what the hell they want to do as grownups, period.
Had to look up trifflin😂 I’m going to remember that one. This white old lady is going to use that one of these days and they are going to look at me and wonder what I just called them 😂 😂😂
I'm sitting here crying crocodile tears cause my Mom is gone, and happen to come across this video, the lady is ungrateful and she has the nerve to tell her Mom at the end “don't say nothing to me” 😢I wish I had my Mom back for just a few minutes to tell her one more time I love her. RIP Mom love you always. Thanks, I stand corrected, crocodile tears was not the correct way to say what I was trying to say.
This is how family does! Guilt trip you with obligation by blood I don't have kids So when siblings need money or somewhere to stay they come straight to me. "You don't have kids" that's all I ever hear, And family points them in my direction. 3 years rent free? She should have 3 Years rent saved for her own place!
Believe you me I was soooo glad after I had kids that family stopped coming up with s#$t for me to pay for.. At 23 I had a M.S. from a big Midwestern University and I was kicking it. My sweet girl who turns 30 this month made me happy in more ways than one!!! BTW been married 30+ years. Hubby also a good excuse for holding on to my coins.
I'm just now seeing this and I am appalled. I lived with my grandmother after my divorce with my two kids. I paid my grandmother, willingly I might add, what she asked for in rent which was $400.00 a month. Even back in the year 1996, can't live anywhere for that amount. I was also responsible for me and my children's needs such as food, toiletries, clothing all that good stuff. I was also asked to clean up after ourselves which I did but also cleaned the entire house, her house, mostly on my own. I even had a curfew, age 28, while living in her house. I NEVER, NOT ONCE begrudged giving her that money. I never not once begrudged her rules, she gave me a place to live when I had no place to go. I lived there for eight years until she said it was time for me to go, and I went. I ended going back to live with her in 2009 because she could no longer live alone and I took care of her until she passed in 2012 and she taught me some very valuable lessons about money and responsibility over the time I lived with her. I miss her still here in 2022. People don't realize what they have until they/its are gone. I hope these two figure it out before its too late. God bless.
Reminds me of my sister. She uses the excuse of them being grandparents. Had to have a good talk with them to make sure they don't let her take advantage of their kindness. She puts them in sports and has my dad pay for the expensive equipment everytime. Put your foot down, you can be supportive but don't be the 24/hr support, you have to live your life as well.
That's too bad that it had to come to that, but the truth of the matter is, grandma is not responsible for raising her grandchildren, especially being on a fixed income. Daughter is all the way wrong.
Well not only that, those are her daughter's kids. Your mama has done the job of raising you. It's time for her to enjoy the rest of her life. It's for her to be a grandma not a second mama
@@shuggscomedytv508 she could have sent those kids to foster care too. She could have called CPS on her daughter. I don't think her daughter understands the magnitude that her mother could have gone on this. Because basically what she's done at this point is abandon the kids. Or she's about to. What happens if Grandma passes away? Who are you going to dump your kids off then? While you're trying to find yourself....man please...
Love it. The mother should pay something to HER Mother if she is paying for everything. And she does hair to get nails done and eyelashes done is for her benefit only. Nothing there for the Twins.
I was so blessed that as a single mom my parents helped me raise my two children. I always knew they were safe and cared for. And now that I have my first grandbaby, I do the same to help my daughter. And my parents are still here helping her too. I won the parent lottery!!!
This makes no sense! No parent should have these many excuses when it comes to something you made I’m happy the children have a loving grandmother. I love this Judge such a wonderful lady she doesn’t entertain irresponsible people Justice for the children ❤️
I have helped all 3 of my children with their children. It's not on a regular basis, it's usually if they're really stuck, in school holidays etc. I'm lucky that I am in a position that I don't have to ask them for money, but they always supply me with snacks and stuff for meals for the children when I baby sit. Basically they have never taken me for granted. I feel so sorry for the grandparent here, her daughter doesn't realise how lucky she is. Treasure your parents, they are doing everything they can to help.
She don't want the responsibility of raising her own kids. Don't breed them if you don't want to feed or take care of them. $754 for twin boys...she still got over!
It really sounds like she didnt want to due to her husband. But wifely duties and all that jazz. And growing up in a religious house hold, you do feel obligated. Now she's divorced, she's rebelling from the life she was brainwashed into. The problem is she's including the children in the rebellion. Also, why is the dad not paying child support? Both parents should be doing that.
Unlike so many defendants in these judge shows the daughter actually kept her trap shut after the judge admonished her. They kept cutting back to show her face, you could see how hard it was for her to keep silent. I just laughed every time seeing her fidgeting in her seat, make faces. It looked like she was practically jumping out of her skin.
Trifling daughter. Blames the church for her getting married. Blames the mother for her having kids. Lives rent free with baby sitting and nanny care without contributing. However, the mother raised this entitled woman.
The problem is that I don't think grandma was telling the truth about how much she was making. People who braid hair out of their houses instead of salons make a lot less than a salon because no one's going to go to someone who isn't trained. It's probably closer to $2000/month that the mom is making. And honestly if grandma is receiving child support that makes her responsible for the kids. If I were the mom, I'd stop doing things for grandma going forward. Grandma wants to take care of the kids, let her. I don't like this whole, "You pay child support but you have to pick up after your mom and do all her errands." Grandma wants a transactional relationship, I'd say fine. And every time that she wants her to do something for her I'd say "Okay how much are you going to pay me for that?"
We only get one Mother that i know of, i thank God for my Mother and i make sure to give her the upmost respect, appreciation and love that she so much deserves! Love you so much Mom!!!❤❤❤
My Mom is gone now, but back when I had my kids, she said "I raised my kids, I am not going to raise yours." I completely respected that and figured out daycare.
My mom told us the same thing.
Agree. Most of these grandparent cases on the show start out with: "we let them move in to give them some help" and then the parent going all crazy acting like they suddenly have no obligations at all an can get a free pass.
Sure you can help out, thats what families do, but you definitely need to things as unambiguous from the start.
I would love to take care of my grandkids more.
My mom said “bring me my grandbabies because you never know what can happen in a daycare”
My mom and dad and brother’s in laws provided child care and Nanny supervision for years after my SIL and brother’s parental leave were over. My folks took one full day and one day with Nanny. The in laws did the same. My bro and wife alternated a WFH day. Basically, my nephew was never alone with Nanny until he went to preK. The arrangement saved $$ and let everyone bond and breathe easy.
She would have been better off just paying the $400 a month her mother asked for 😂😂😂
She just wanted to live there for free.
She's a free loader for sure.
She'll never know when she might need her mother assisted again.
Grandma will take the boys, grandma says get a motel room.
Grandma knows what kind of a person her daughter is.
Trifling for sure, a liar, & just a user.
She needs Jesus.
Yes, but she’d taken a shovel and was determined to dig herself a deep hole to jump into.
Vonda said, “double it and give it to the next.” 😂
Same thing I said 😂
+ the health insurance
As a person who was raised by my grandparents shout out to Judge Vonda for having the grandmother’s back and telling these women the truth about their negligence.
When I was a little kid I was mostly raised by my grandmother
Same I was raised by my grandparents. Shame on her for being so disrespectful to her mom. She’s lucky she’s still around . I left home at 19 cause my grandparents got sick and they passed away 2months before my daughter was born . I would do anything to have them back and around my kids .
Amen right is right and wrong is wrong and it's a shame that some women are so neglectful 🤨❤️🖤💚 ps some men are too,do better people do better
All the faces she's making just shows her ignorance and disrespectful to her mother. She's lucky her mom is there to begin with. She thinks things should be given to her and she doesn't have to worry for anything. Sad!
“I ain’t s’posed to do a dern thing, I ain’t had no twins.” Such a great line
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 i hollered!!!
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And yet she was the one who wanted grandbabies. I believe the mom when she said that because there's a lot of mothers who pressure their daughters into having children. She just didn't realize how much it would cost having children and now she's flipping. You can't get blood from a stone. If I were the mom I'd start doing receipts for her hair braiding and then that way she can prove how much she's making. She could take it back to court to get a revision. It's odd that the grandma was able to do that without a lick of proof other than her word. Presumably the mom does her taxes every year and all she would have to do is provide them to prove her income. What it says on paper is what it's supposed to go by. If the taxes says she doesn't make any money then that's what it is. If I were the mom I'd stop doing any favors for the grandma. No more "church stuff", cleaning up for her, making dinner. Grandma wants to be paid child support? Fine. That makes her the effective parent and responsible for cleaning up after the kids and herself. The mom doesn't have to do jack crap in the house anymore. That would give her more time to look for a job and take her and her kids out of such a toxic environment. I just hate that smug look grandma had while she screwed her own daughter over.
@@jessicaarmstrong5035 you know that these are skits, and not real?
@@Oxzilion of course. That's why I said this can't be real.
My soul left the Earth when grandma said "my daughter is trifflin"
Mine actually left with the first statement that she said. I'm still laughing and I ain't even too deep into the video yet 🤣🤣🤣
Okay I just heard the trifling line. My soul left my body again. Had to pause the video for a good 2 minutes to get that laugh out because the look on the daughter's face says it all!!!
I hollered.😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
She knows her child ‼️
“I hate for the kids to go without because they mama is trifling” I had to get up off the floor with that one.
OMG i just commented about that too😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
daughter a deadbeat ,she got the $$$ and wont take care of her kids or pay her mom back ...and she leeching..she got the $ rent free 3 ys making $3000 a month plus ...gtfo.. she found thma new mom to freeh03
I had to look up trifle
😂😂😂
Girl saaaaame hahaha I seriously screamed!
“She lives here. She SLEEPS someplace else!” Died and went to heaven.
Agree 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂 sent me over the moon
Yea Grandma was not leaving anything out lol!
I was like “Wow mom!”😭😭😭😭😭
Lmaooo
I ❤ judge vonda she is fair and always on point.
Adults living with their parents have no business being ungrateful to their parents who are helping them out.
True, I know the experience of ungrateful children 😢
Fr I moved back in with my mom after having my own place for a year and they tried to raise the rent to 1,600 not finna do that. Anything my momma ask for I do she don't ask me for money she want to to save to be able to leave but she don't watch my babies unless she come home and be like give me my baby cuz she love them but yea ain't no way she doing all that
How old are you?
I'm not sure that's what happened here. I think that the mom got screwed in her divorce and then the pandemic hit and she lost her main job. She's now braiding hair and honestly she's probably not lying about only making $80/head. The actual amount she makes is probably somewhere in between the $4800 and the $1200/month that they say. More like $2500/month. I would've based the calculations on that. If I were the mom I'd tell her mom that I'm no longer doing any favors for her and she can clean up her own house. Yes, it's your job to clean up after yourself and your kids. Nowhere does it say that you have to clean up after your mother. Nowhere does it say that you have to do "church stuff" for them. If the grandma wants it to be a straight transactional relationship I'd do that. I'd tell her that I'm moving out and that she can pay for everything and all she will get is the $700/month. No favors. No making supper. No cleaning up. Child support is meant to pay for the rearing of children. That means picking up after them. I'd never pick up another thing in that house that isn't mine. In fact, I'd square out a bedroom and say that's my space and I'll clean my own dishes, like a roommate. Because that's what the mom just made her into. A roommate who pays rent. I've seen the kind of culture that comes from being in church groups. Mothers expecting their children to be baby-makers. It sounds like that's what happened here. Grandma wanted grandbabies to spoil. She pressured her daughter into doing it and after going through hell is forcing the daughter to pay her when she knows her daughter doesn't have it. Her daughter will never be able to move out paying $700/month in child support. If I were the mom I'd move out with the kids. There are cheap apartments that you can get in rural towns for that amount of money. She can braid hair out of it and whatever she makes above the $700/month she can use to rear her children. Insurance isn't that hard to get. If you're on a low income you can apply for Medicare so that the kids are covered for insurance. She can apply to the state for benefits due to the loss of her job from COVID. It may seem like she was taking advantage of her mother but the fact is that when a husband takes a wife to the cleaners in the divorce you have nothing left. Sadly it happens a lot in many states because women virtually have no rights. Losing your main job makes it hard to give any money at all if you have to pay for things like gas and bills and such. I believe it that she didn't have the $400/month. And Judge Vonda just made it infinitely worse. The people who will suffer because of this will be the kids because that much animosity is not good for children. It's sad when situations like this happen.
Jessica you need to grow up! She is living with her mom. Not paying rent, not paying for anything. It's not the grandmother's responsibility to do all of this. She is taking advantage of her!
Imagine being mad that you’re being held financially responsible for your own children.
She wasn't. She's in a difficult spot. Didn't you hear her? Her husband took her to the cleaners in the divorce. And then she lost her job in the pandemic. We don't know what her financial situation was like before that and what she was paying for. The grandmother is getting the tail end of the event and assuming that it's always like that. What gets me is that if she's divorced and raising the kids, why isn't the mom getting money for child support from the dad? Where's he in this picture? It feels like we're only getting half the story here.
@@jessicaarmstrong5035 That was my first thought. I took both of them for a grain of salt.
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@@jessicaarmstrong5035 For whatever reason the mother has to say, the grandmother are not responsible for their grandchildren, right?
@@jessicaarmstrong5035but we don’t know if the mom’s story is legit either. And the judge doesn’t care. What she cares about is mom isn’t doing anything for the kids that are hers. It’s not your parents responsibility to raise your children.
I’m shocked at how ungrateful these kids are. My parents watch my sisters kid (they babysit while she’s at work) and my sister bought all the stuff needed to set up a nursery at their house, every Friday they do family dinner (more often than that but Friday is specifically pizza dinner) and she’s super appreciative to my parents for their support since she’s a single mom. How are these kids not appreciative of the help their parents are offering?
W baby mama
It's called being a silver spoon kid/ spoiled kid....... they were raised feeling entitled to everything
@@randomguyscott i was giving everything that i wanted, but i was always supper thankful for my mom and grandma, I don’t know how other children who are in the same boat as me aren’t , Maybe it’s because my mom would take things away when i was little
@@maddiek7497 that may be the reason plus you maybe saw that they how hard they had to work for it thus you being grateful. (At least that was it for me)
@@randomguyscott That is my deal. My parents worked HARD, HARD, HARD for us kids. We were not rich. Not a lotta cash.. I would never have dreamt of taking advantage of my parent’s generosity. She knows her Mom is a wonderful grandma. I would have insisted that Mom take the money. I would pay for soccer, football, food. I would save that running the street money and treat Mom to spa day or maybe pat for her and a pal to spend three days in a hotel by a swimming pool and a good book. I would be up making breakfast, cleaning house. To this day, if my parents need something and we kids hear about, we go right out and get it.
Don’t treat the twins’ grandmother in a disrespectful manner. Those kids love her to death. Treat her with every amount of love and respect you can muster. That way your boys learn how you treat family. Come on, now! That daughter knows better!
As a woman who was raised by a single mother and a grandpa who was basically my father I appreciate how Judge Vonda was very considerate to the grandmother, having her back and telling these women the truth about the negligence to the children!!
Y’all I am hooked on these cases! Judge Vonda B. needs more daily episodes and needs to be picked up by a network because she is beyond entertaining! And she does it with such class!
right! i have my post notifications on and i always click right on i love her i wish she was on tv
And when she drinks her 🫖/☕ I truly lol
Right?
These dramatizations are comedy gold.
YES!!!!!
Wow. That grandma is incredible, got to love her care for her grandsons
I totally understand this grandma . I have my grandbabies 50 hours a week. Ages 5 years and 10 months with one on the way . I make .55 cents an hour watching these babies. Caregiver burn out is real!!! This grandma is tired and done her job raising her kids !
.55 an hour?? From who
Why do you enable your family? Another one for you to help raise? I don't know if you are doing this voluntary or not. I hope you want to because otherwise you are being used.
At least u got something. I worked a full time job & a part time job. On my 2 days off I babysat my grandkids. At first my daughter was appreciative. After doing it for years she took me for granted & no longer showed appreciation. She would not let me do anything with them like a grandma would. I was just the baby sitter & had to sit at her house all day. One day I wanted to take to the movies. She said no. Final straw. I quit. A few days later I called to ask to take them to the movies. She said stay away from me & my family. We haven’t talked in years. My poor grand babies lost their g-ma that day.
@@valeriesrtaskey9208 sorry to hear that. God will provide! When the kids grow up they will remember and appreciate the good you did for them!❤️
@@celineshields394 thank you. You made me cry
Judge this old 70 year old white disabled vet absolutely loves you and the honesty and the attitude and the way you handle business. What a wonderful judge and person you are! I wish every judge would be required to sit under you for at least 3 years to learn how to do things right!
The mother is right about the daughter. She is trifling.
Thank you!!! Because she's home doesn't mean she entitled to be a full time babysitter. She's should be grateful she has a mom who cares.
Thw mother raised that trifling daughter
@@ericrivera8410 that doesn’t mean that’s how she was raised. People change every single day, based on people around you. You can raised with parents always there, taught you manners, and in the end you can be the opposite of how you were raised.
How true
When Judge Vonda asked her how much she made a month braiding hair and she hemmed and hawed and danced around the truth, Judge Vonda asks her "Do I look like I was born yesterday!" I just about peed myself laughing so hard!!!
Grandma is a real powerhouse and is righteous! God bless her. These boys will remember her w
With love!
Respect to the grandmother for doing all this when she doesn’t have to and for dealing with her daughter disrespecting her like that.
From someone who lost their mother as a child, I wish I had a mom that helped me and loved my children like this grandma. Heartbreaking how they are taken for granted.
Thank God for good grandmas! She doesn’t have to but she’s always willing & will make it happen ❤️
My 1st grandchild a girl is 9months old,dont have much but buy milk ,nappies food every month,I'd give her the world if I could
@@jenniferburnett2165 Exactly.
AMEN
correct
She did a piss poor job of raising her daughter
My main thing with this judge, she is SO respectful!!! ❤Love it!!! 😊
Her reaction to having to pay 754 a month tells how little she actually does.
It’s kinda a lot considering how much she makes but I get what you mean
I thought she made all that money doin hair tho 🤔
@@npatillo63 but she lives there for free and the money she makes braiding hair is not taxed . I’m almost certain that she makes more from the braiding than she reported as well . So everything she makes is just spent on her.
@@amygarrison3664 I thought you knew how to spell? "tho"?
@@npatillo63 it wasn't a lot of $ considering EVERYTHING the grandma was doing for them including insurance when they weren't even Her kids. Trifling bottom feeders make me sick 🤢....
I'm the grandma I'm not supposed to do a duuuurn thing. 🤣🤣🤣 3:44
I love Ethel ❤❤❤
PRE DIED B4 MY DAWTA IS TRIFFLIN...BWAHAHAHA
This is a prime example of the state of today’s society. Adults are focused on feelings and not duty. Those kids deserve better. I applaud the grandmother for stepping up.
My husband babysits for our grandchildren whenever needed. He’s retired and I take days off to give him a break. I know my daughters appreciate it and go out of there way to show it.
This lady is the pure definition of a mooch. She's just mad because her mom told her she needed to get off her behind and live her own life.
Facts because that’s grandma and not their mama it sounds like she running and gunning the streets while mamma got the boys getting them right because now that the boyfriend came into play it sounds like she spends most of the time with dude and not her kids
@@TruthTeller-si9wp It's amazing to me that the 'boyfriend' doesn't become a factor until she realizes that she has to pay child support. Because it's amazing that she says that's the reason why we're up here at all. Your mom has been on a fixed income and allows you to live in her house for over 3 years, and you want to come with this weak sauce about the boyfriend? What have you been doing with yourself this entire time to make yourself better for the children and yourself? You've been living off your mom and you're mad because she's sick and tired of it. She shouldn't be spending all of her money on your kids and you. She should be spending it on living the rest of whatever life God has given her. Man this case made me mad...
@@shioriryukaze it made me mad as well she has no excuse not to do for her kids
Had same issue when my daughter left her husband and twins with us. Then he was lazy and i was the only person working due to husband being disabled and we were trying to get on disability, and taking care of my own child and mother in law. As soon as I said I'm getting food stamps and adding them to my plan, he all the sudden ups and moves out. While we were moving later on, found he had placed a camera in our bathroom. No clue who he was watching. Cringe
@@Alimira.quinn327 that's against the law you know?
Thank you Judge for taking care of grandma. I appreciate you so much. My husband and I paid for everything, the girls are grown and doing very well for themselves. They are always thanking us for loving them and taking care of them. The girl's mom hasn't changed, the girls are in their late twenties, and can see their mom for what she is. Papa and I continue to support them emotional and with whatever else they need to be outstanding. citizens. They are able to hold their own but we are always here for them. We love our beautiful girls.
She said don’t say nothing to me and she’s taking care of your kids AND that’s your mother 😂 the nerve. 750 for 2 kids ain’t bad at all. You actually got lucky ma’am
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$754 lol.
It really isn’t bad at all. She needs to cut it out
And then she makes the comment that she's going to casually leave her kids with the grandma. Those are your kids. You're the one that laid down a had them. They're your responsibility. And for you to make the statement that I want to try to find me. You've had three years to find you. If you're that lost, you need a GPS or a microchip.
Where I stay I see ppl your the court system n lie tho just cause of a break up or w.e to bring the kids in it then also ppl don’t have places to go to live just cause off their income but I would tell my mine to choose one sport to do since we in this situation
$750 for 2 kids that’s ain’t shit in this economy
My mom kept my 2 daughters for a year. I gave her all my good stamps so they can eat and gave her money the best I can. After a year came she didn't want them to go lol. But she understood I'm their mother I gotta provide them no matter how hard it gets.
Grandparents aren't obligated to do anything. We do for our grandchildren because we love them
We're your kids left with there grandparents
All the time
They aren't obligated due to western individualism. But anywhere else the family actually matters. Extended family has duties, just as much as family. It makes the west look miserly that we pay people to care for our kids, rather than actually being there for our family and helping out over familial duties.
Thank-you Judge Vonda❤For too long grandparents have been raising multiple generations without parental support. Thank-you for giving us a voice 💜
Judges like judge Vonda are how judges should be. She’s so reasonable and she listens to the actual problem and resolves it even if it’s just for the moment. I love her!
My parents passed and my grandparents care for me and my brother. Thanks and Blessing to all grandparents out there. ❤
The mom's facial expressions when the daughter was talking 😂
Those birthmarks on Mom's face were distracting!
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So funny
Love her momma
Love Judge Vonda. She is so patient and fair. I can't stop watching this. I just wish parents were better people and loved their children and didn't treat them like a burden. Their children are not unaware and will remember the treatment. There will be scars.
Not "my daughter is triflin." 😂😂😂😂
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These are great to watch- it's nice seeing the system work the way it's supposed to and in the best interest of the children.
What's low is the fact that you're living with your mother and she's been raising your children for 3 years and you're not even willing to help her out financially that's low! This type of behavior is so disgusting to me.🤢🤮
Don't forget she has an entitled and ungrateful attitude to the women who is keeping her and her kids off the street.
@@Naturefan354 Right! I just don't understand it!
I feel like this would've been resolved better if Judge Vonda had just ordered her to pay the $400/month. The grandmother said that was what she asked for so why not? $400/month is a lot more manageable than $700/month. If the grandma said that $400/month was enough to raise the kids that means she's done a budget somewhere to determine that. I'd also like to know where the dad is in all this? If I were the mom I'd say okay I'll pay the $700/month. But now I'm going to sue the dad for child support. He may have taken her to the cleaners in the divorce but child support is an entirely different matter. The pandemic killed a lot of people's budgets. I think it's sad that a mother is so greedy that she would do this to her own daughter.
My brother did the same. My mom asked for $400 and he moved in with his wife and 3 kids. Never paid her a dime. Lights and water were off for 2 whole weeks.
@@jessicaarmstrong5035 she put off paying anything for 3 years until her mother had to take her to court to pay towards the care of her own kids! She's lucky she doesn't have to pay for all 3 years they've been there. Grandma is still out a ton of her own money, like almost $25k since she was supposed to pay $400 a month plus $275 a month for the insurance. How can you possibly call her greedy?
There's no love like grandma may Big momma bless all Big mommas through out the universe
I love how she has the best interest of the children.
That is Trifling to put your Mum through all that when you have a job and side income. Great job for Judge V
The mother looking surprised like “Oh My Goodness, No Way!!” Like she an angel. This episode was hilarious 😂😂😂😂
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Scared my kids and dogs when she said…
“Just cuz they mama TRIFFLIN’!” 😂😂
This the type of grandma you hope your mom doesn’t see after church because you know that once they start a conversation you’re gonna be there another hour listening to her tell everybody’s business 😂
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I still love grandma😭😭😭
Lol true! But gotta love them!!! I thank God that my grandmother is still alive at 94 🙏🏾🙌🏾
I felt that comment so deep!!!😂😂😂
Yes this is my mother, one day I’m over her house drifting asleep, and she has the audacity to keep talking lol 😂
God bless a good grandma. I miss mine every day!
I'm obsessed with your show & I binged watched your shows over 2 days! YOUR ARE THE BOMB! BTW YOUR ACCESSORIES, GLASSES & HAIR STYLES ARE EVERYTHING💯💯💯🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🤍🤍🤍
Me to
I did too, and was upset when it was over. Happy for a new video!
@siera foster Thank you!😘😘
The daughter tried to expose the mom for breaking up with the same guy thinking it made her look better. But in reality, it made her look WORSE. And by the way she scoffed about paying $754 a month for two school aged children shows how trifling she really is.
Wasn't the same guy,is was her boyfriend's father
Where is the kids father????
Then she braiding hair charging 300-400 and working. She can definitely help out.
I some what agree but some of what granny said was fishy no way you can braid 3 to 4 heads of singles in one day
@@kimmyj4661 Unless it's a salon, no one is paying 3-4 hundred. Grams def inflated that number. It's about half that much. And depending on length, she's doing two clients AT MOST. Because braiding is exhausting AF. It hurts your hands and your back. Especially if you're standing because it takes hours to do.
This show has become one of my favorite things to listen to while I work. Judge Vonda is iconic and so fair!
Mom is RIGHT! her daughter is TRIFLING! & UNGRATEFUL! she got an eye-opener after this case though!🤨
She is the part of what's wrong with Black Children today, she lucky that her boys are not Out Thugging around and CARJACKING people
When Nana was explaining the braiding, we saw why having a black female judge is key!
I was upset with my mom when I first become homeless because she left me to stay in a tent but now I thank her because she gave me initiative to get out of it faster
That’s traumatizing. I’m glad things are better
I would have told her, 'the kids can stay but you can't'.....
Lawd I am happy u r ok
We’re u an adult, also did u have a child?
Thank goodness for grandma because those kids would be on their own if she wasn't around.
Judge hit the nail on the head when she said , "You would would agree that 3 years is no long temporary right?" She STFU, quickly and started stuttering.
Pay your MOMMA!!
Wow I love this grandmother so much... 💜💜
I ❤ grandma's reactions when the daughters talking
It's not like you can raise two kids on $754 a month . She's lucky
She is going to have a problem leaving the house and living her own life too. Because not only you got a deal with your living expenses, you got to deal with paying $754 a month. Maybe that'll stop her from allowing her friends to switch so she can braid their hair while they do her nails. She can actually charge all the people that she braids hair and get paid.
oh shut up
That's just rent not car, food, traveling, clothes, utilities etc
Tell my poor mom who got only $100 month to raise 1 child
That only pays for daycare, still have to pay rent, food, car, diapers, clothes etc. I love my kids... They're are expensive but they are worth every penny and more... But a 1000 dollar in this economy isn't much
God bless this grandma I have walk-in your shoes she will continue using you because she knows you won't let the grandkids go without ✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️
Shit I couldn’t count on my parents to even watch my son, I would be so grateful to have a mama that would help me like that! The faces the grandmas making as her daughter talks🤣
Me too. My Mom helped my Sister and she never helped my Mom. But still this woman is Ridiculous
Your comment despariages your parents. You should not expect your parents to take care of your children.
@@brooksroth345 never said My parents were useless and never said I expect them to take care of my child, all I said is wish they cared enough to offer a helping hand
I was raised by my grandma but I’m like you my parents ain’t even built like that.
That look " do you have any other questions" says it all in a nut shell🤣
These actors are great as always. Keep the episodes coming Judge Vonda.
Will do. Thank you!❤️
Not the shade Lmaoo why would you think they are actors
@@keytho1002 because it was in the description in one of her videos
@@keytho1002 Because they actually are. These are reenactments based on real court cases.
@@keytho1002 it is pretty clear!
Mother is an enabler. The daughter doesn't want to be responsible anymore. Facts!💯
No, I've seen enough of these disrespectful daughters to know that you don't have to be an enabler, they take advantage of these grandmother's love towards their grandbabies wellbeing and do what the hell they want to do as grownups, period.
Love the grandma's gestures! Funny Funny!
Had to look up trifflin😂 I’m going to remember that one. This white old lady is going to use that one of these days and they are going to look at me and wonder what I just called them 😂 😂😂
When granny said “they’re mama is trifling “ the woman was to stunned to speak
I'm sitting here crying crocodile tears cause my Mom is gone, and happen to come across this video, the lady is ungrateful and she has the nerve to tell her Mom at the end “don't say nothing to me” 😢I wish I had my Mom back for just a few minutes to tell her one more time I love her. RIP Mom love you always.
Thanks, I stand corrected, crocodile tears was not the correct way to say what I was trying to say.
Do you know what 'crocodile tears' means?
Crocodile tears mean the opposite of what I think you mean.
This is how family does! Guilt trip you with obligation by blood
I don't have kids
So when siblings need money or somewhere to stay they come straight to me. "You don't have kids" that's all I ever hear, And family points them in my direction.
3 years rent free? She should have 3 Years rent saved for her own place!
THAT PART! Where is the savings from 3years?!??
Believe you me I was soooo glad after I had kids that family stopped coming up with s#$t for me to pay for.. At 23 I had a M.S. from a big Midwestern University and I was kicking it. My sweet girl who turns 30 this month made me happy in more ways than one!!! BTW been married 30+ years. Hubby also a good excuse for holding on to my coins.
Judge Vonda, how you keep your cool with these cases amaze me! “That’s none of my business either, but let me tell you what is my business…”.
I'd like to see this show more often. At least once every week. Love this show ❤
I'm just now seeing this and I am appalled. I lived with my grandmother after my divorce with my two kids. I paid my grandmother, willingly I might add, what she asked for in rent which was $400.00 a month. Even back in the year 1996, can't live anywhere for that amount. I was also responsible for me and my children's needs such as food, toiletries, clothing all that good stuff. I was also asked to clean up after ourselves which I did but also cleaned the entire house, her house, mostly on my own. I even had a curfew, age 28, while living in her house.
I NEVER, NOT ONCE begrudged giving her that money. I never not once begrudged her rules, she gave me a place to live when I had no place to go. I lived there for eight years until she said it was time for me to go, and I went. I ended going back to live with her in 2009 because she could no longer live alone and I took care of her until she passed in 2012 and she taught me some very valuable lessons about money and responsibility over the time I lived with her. I miss her still here in 2022.
People don't realize what they have until they/its are gone. I hope these two figure it out before its too late. God bless.
I love how at the end she’s so sassy with the “ do you have any other questions “ 😂 love ig
God bless Grandma....how sweet she is. Amazing how many deadbeat, worthless parents there are. I love this judge.
She needs to be on Tv!!!
" do i look like i was born yesterday?" love that
Hey Judge Vonda B love your content one of my favorite channels and I love the way you check the bs at the door every time 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Reminds me of my sister. She uses the excuse of them being grandparents. Had to have a good talk with them to make sure they don't let her take advantage of their kindness. She puts them in sports and has my dad pay for the expensive equipment everytime. Put your foot down, you can be supportive but don't be the 24/hr support, you have to live your life as well.
They should let us see their responses after court!!!!! 😂 😂
Love seeing all the different hairstyles the judge has
That's too bad that it had to come to that, but the truth of the matter is, grandma is not responsible for raising her grandchildren, especially being on a fixed income. Daughter is all the way wrong.
Well not only that, those are her daughter's kids. Your mama has done the job of raising you. It's time for her to enjoy the rest of her life. It's for her to be a grandma not a second mama
@@shioriryukaze Right
I agree she is the mvp frfr thank God she not an addict and the kids had to see it she a freedom junkie
@@shuggscomedytv508 she could have sent those kids to foster care too. She could have called CPS on her daughter. I don't think her daughter understands the magnitude that her mother could have gone on this. Because basically what she's done at this point is abandon the kids. Or she's about to. What happens if Grandma passes away? Who are you going to dump your kids off then? While you're trying to find yourself....man please...
Wow! I’m glad my mother and I had a good relationship!
I binge watching all these videos..Her daughter has a lot of nerve putting this responsibility on her mom..
This judge is great. I came across this channel about an hour ago and I am going to binge watch it all night.
Love it. The mother should pay something to HER Mother if she is paying for everything. And she does hair to get nails done and eyelashes done is for her benefit only. Nothing there for the Twins.
I was so blessed that as a single mom my parents helped me raise my two children. I always knew they were safe and cared for. And now that I have my first grandbaby, I do the same to help my daughter. And my parents are still here helping her too. I won the parent lottery!!!
This makes no sense! No parent should have these many excuses when it comes to something you made I’m happy the children have a loving grandmother. I love this Judge such a wonderful lady she doesn’t entertain irresponsible people Justice for the children ❤️
I have helped all 3 of my children with their children. It's not on a regular basis, it's usually if they're really stuck, in school holidays etc. I'm lucky that I am in a position that I don't have to ask them for money, but they always supply me with snacks and stuff for meals for the children when I baby sit. Basically they have never taken me for granted. I feel so sorry for the grandparent here, her daughter doesn't realise how lucky she is. Treasure your parents, they are doing everything they can to help.
She don't want the responsibility of raising her own kids. Don't breed them if you don't want to feed or take care of them. $754 for twin boys...she still got over!
It really sounds like she didnt want to due to her husband. But wifely duties and all that jazz. And growing up in a religious house hold, you do feel obligated. Now she's divorced, she's rebelling from the life she was brainwashed into. The problem is she's including the children in the rebellion. Also, why is the dad not paying child support? Both parents should be doing that.
Unlike so many defendants in these judge shows the daughter actually kept her trap shut after the judge admonished her. They kept cutting back to show her face, you could see how hard it was for her to keep silent. I just laughed every time seeing her fidgeting in her seat, make faces. It looked like she was practically jumping out of her skin.
Trifling daughter. Blames the church for her getting married. Blames the mother for her having kids. Lives rent free with baby sitting and nanny care without contributing.
However, the mother raised this entitled woman.
So they kinda feel obligated, to correct the mistakes they made with their own child....
It never ceases to amaze me how shocked these people are when they are ordered to pay money to help take care of THEIR children lmfaooo
In Maryland they can take up to 60% of your pay for child support. So I don't want to hear someone crying about paying a 25 % of their monthly salary.
The problem is that I don't think grandma was telling the truth about how much she was making. People who braid hair out of their houses instead of salons make a lot less than a salon because no one's going to go to someone who isn't trained. It's probably closer to $2000/month that the mom is making. And honestly if grandma is receiving child support that makes her responsible for the kids. If I were the mom, I'd stop doing things for grandma going forward. Grandma wants to take care of the kids, let her. I don't like this whole, "You pay child support but you have to pick up after your mom and do all her errands." Grandma wants a transactional relationship, I'd say fine. And every time that she wants her to do something for her I'd say "Okay how much are you going to pay me for that?"
I live in Connecticut. Idk what percentage of a person’s paycheck has to go towards their child support, but damn 60% in Maryland is crazy 😳
So many horrible people and yet amazing people as well. Gives me hope for the future.
I guess the daughter better call Tyrone 😂😂😂
Tyrone block his number😅😅😅😅😅
@@kevinknox1239 😆
We only get one Mother that i know of, i thank God for my Mother and i make sure to give her the upmost respect, appreciation and love that she so much deserves! Love you so much Mom!!!❤❤❤
I love you Judge Vonda B. I’m OBSESSED with your show! Also, you’re absolutely gorgeous!
I love your shows. Wish I was a judge so I could help people like you ❤️❤️
It's always a pleasure watching you work ma'am.😊
I would give anything to have a mother like her! Very supportive! I’ll adopt her mother!
The daughters face was something to see. Priceless
Not her mad at her momma cause she don’t take care of her own kids🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣