My pastor counseled my ex before we divorced after twenty one years of marriage and he told her she had abandonment issues. He also told her it was time to let go of being afraid to let go of bad influences and family. She wouldn’t listen and allow him to counsel her. She ran right back to what was familiar. If they don’t confront what causes them pain they will always run.
@ Unfortunate but the divorce was going to happen wether I wanted it or not. Also I have to take responsibility for not seeing the red flags that were always there.
Wow. The timing of me seeing this video couldnt be more perfect, I was with a narcissist for 4 years, and when we stopped seeing each other, i found the love of my life, and because i was trauma bonded, i ended up ruining things but i realized my mistake and did all i could to make sure i got her back
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have her back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not
I feel your pain , after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thought it was, but it worked wonders for me
Ladies take note of the heading." Too strong the narcissist runs.too real the narcissist devalues you" understand people the sole intention is to destroy! I wish each and every one of you positivity peace and love ♥️
Anyone who 1) drinks 2) smokes 3) is addicted to their smartphone/social media 4) doesn't discuss their childhood and the healing they've done -- all red flags that I run from immediately.
“Pink ugly couch” tickled me, because you were so uncomfortable with the encounter that no detail was missed lol. I’m glad you had that breakthrough though.
Facts he came back after discarding our kids and me of 9 months no contact after a 10-year relationship I guess the grass wasn't greener on the other side he came back I really wanted to believe that he missed his kids... Lucky for me I had done tremendous amount of work on myself and healing.. so although it barely scratched the surface his attempt at hurting me and gaining supply ... It backfired and he ended up in jail he ended up exposed to his current supply instant karma
OMG!!! This is everything I’ve been going through! He keeps blaming me for everything no matter what he did to me. I did everything I could to show him my love, loyalty and dedication to him and he still discarded me when he thought I said I was tired of him. I feel so abandoned and hurt because I never turned my back on him even though I had so many times I could have! It really hurts!!!
He 🏃♀️ ran,didn't even pack his own crap. 13 years and ghost. He devalued me with the silent treatment. Now i know. I always knew it wasn't me. After what he has done i don't care how much his little inner child is hurting, thats her problem now
14 years and two kids in my ran to his new supply and her two kids like we wasn't even married with our own kids unbelievable does and spend time doesn't support financially just ghosted 👿🏃🏽♂️❤️🩹🙌🏽
Thank you for this!!! This channel is golden. Hope you get more views. It’s so necessary that we have more men send especially more blk men see others like you face their fears, take accountability and pursue change.
This is really triggering to know I'm going through this now 23 year's marriage and a child he ran off with a homewreaker that knew he had a family and married
Mine did the same thing he never stopped seeing me .. 9 months no contact he came back I had a weak moment .. but that weak moment showed me how hard I've come in my healing and how strong I am he ended up and going jail he exposed himself with his new supply
I just experience this i didn't see it coming she pulled away she even went as far trying to convince me I didn't want the relationship I had to walk away.
He told me he had a childhood gilrfriend with my name. I found it weird, creepy. He knows more of my family than I do and he’s a few years older. Now I’m on POP-UP mode beware. Plan and support in place.
Masterchief, 😂did you really have to say the little ugly pink couch😂😂? That little lady with that ugly pink couch helped bring forth something beautiful. We need to find an ugly pink couch for codependence. I am prior Navy EN3 but you definitely remind me of someone in the goat-locker. 😂 smh
😂😂😂😂😂. I’m telling you, every time I walked in her office, I hated seeing that lil ugly couch 😂😂. She did help me for sure!!! Right, I’m sure I do remind you of MANY of them 😂😂. I appreciate the laugh too. I needed this ❤️🙏🏾💪🏾💯💯💯
I pray you continue to accept the identy God created you for. Jesus won the victory when He died for the worlds sins so we can be forgiven. The devil wants people focused on their past, trapping them in shame and victimhood which then shapes a life in a false identify. Jesus came to restore our identy and give us eternal life.
It’s Great you add THE ALMIGHTY GOD IN YOUR MESSAGES…….,,,THERES A PHYSICAL HEALING AND A SPIRITUAL HEALING ❤️🩹 there’s demonic confidence and Godly confidence
My pastor counseled my ex before we divorced after twenty one years of marriage and he told her she had abandonment issues. He also told her it was time to let go of being afraid to let go of bad influences and family. She wouldn’t listen and allow him to counsel her. She ran right back to what was familiar. If they don’t confront what causes them pain they will always run.
@@Payday-ky7mb you are absolutely correct. It’s really sad too. Wow, even the pastor told her and she didn’t listen, geez!!!
@ Unfortunate but the divorce was going to happen wether I wanted it or not. Also I have to take responsibility for not seeing the red flags that were always there.
Oooh, facts 🎉
oull see them from a mile away going forward
@Payday-ky7mb 😢 same. He's currently walking away from our 36 year marriage. Refuses to even consider trying any type of counseling with me
Im SO Glad to be free of narcs. They are too much of a headcase for me to continue to waste my time with them. They will never take accountability.
@@Indigenious.Kopper.Goddess you are right. Therapy is definitely needed. I know you feel much better now.
Leon you the Realest I have heard in a long time! Appreciate you
Wow. The timing of me seeing this video couldnt be more perfect, I was with a narcissist for 4 years, and when we stopped seeing each other, i found the love of my life, and because i was trauma bonded, i ended up ruining things but i realized my mistake and did all i could to make sure i got her back
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have her back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not
I feel your pain , after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thought it was, but it worked wonders for me
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/ her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Ladies take note of the heading." Too strong the narcissist runs.too real the narcissist devalues you" understand people the sole intention is to destroy! I wish each and every one of you positivity peace and love ♥️
@@charisse234 thank you for that
Anyone who 1) drinks 2) smokes 3) is addicted to their smartphone/social media 4) doesn't discuss their childhood and the healing they've done -- all red flags that I run from immediately.
my ex would say ''its in the past'' - that was it
Ouch, facts 🎉
Oh no! I didn’t think about my phone!? I overcame everything else. Oh crap. Lol
Her "pink little ugly couch" did you the world of good 😂
😂😂😂😂
I Haven’t Came Across Better Videos Of Explanation Then Yours I Be Looking For Your Videos Everyday
Thank you. I really appreciate your words, you keep me motivated. ❤️💪🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾💯
Thank u for the raw gut wrenching TRUTH 💔
“Pink ugly couch” tickled me, because you were so uncomfortable with the encounter that no detail was missed lol. I’m glad you had that breakthrough though.
I really hope you're not hurting no more 🤗♥️
No, I’m good Honey. I appreciate that
Facts he came back after discarding our kids and me of 9 months no contact after a 10-year relationship I guess the grass wasn't greener on the other side he came back I really wanted to believe that he missed his kids... Lucky for me I had done tremendous amount of work on myself and healing.. so although it barely scratched the surface his attempt at hurting me and gaining supply ... It backfired and he ended up in jail he ended up exposed to his current supply instant karma
Now you become strong man, respect!
This WAS A WORD! Thanks Leon
OMG!!! This is everything I’ve been going through! He keeps blaming me for everything no matter what he did to me. I did everything I could to show him my love, loyalty and dedication to him and he still discarded me when he thought I said I was tired of him. I feel so abandoned and hurt because I never turned my back on him even though I had so many times I could have! It really hurts!!!
Dam i feel like i was to Strong & Real before i realized who he really was...
You are
Thanks, Leon, your kindness here and vulnerability are heartfelt. Keep staying strong in the Light !
He 🏃♀️ ran,didn't even pack his own crap. 13 years and ghost. He devalued me with the silent treatment. Now i know. I always knew it wasn't me. After what he has done i don't care how much his little inner child is hurting, thats her problem now
14 years and two kids in my ran to his new supply and her two kids like we wasn't even married with our own kids unbelievable does and spend time doesn't support financially just ghosted 👿🏃🏽♂️❤️🩹🙌🏽
Play Jhene Aiko Imma have to call that man on you 🙌🏽 also lie lie lie stole trying to run my credit just the devils grandson 👿
Thank you Leon keep up the good work keep going I love you brother God has big plans for you
Thanks Leon for all the help with our healing BLESSINGS to you
You can run from everyone in the world but you can never outrun yourself.
Thank you for this!!! This channel is golden. Hope you get more views. It’s so necessary that we have more men send especially more blk men see others like you face their fears, take accountability and pursue change.
You have the biggest heart buddy
Thank you
For clearing my headspace
Thank you Leon
I juss wanna love on him past his pain .. but he runs when I get too “emotional”
Thank you for sharing your heart with us. I appreciate you Leon
This is really triggering to know I'm going through this now 23 year's marriage and a child he ran off with a homewreaker that knew he had a family and married
Mine did the same thing he never stopped seeing me .. 9 months no contact he came back I had a weak moment .. but that weak moment showed me how hard I've come in my healing and how strong I am he ended up and going jail he exposed himself with his new supply
It’s the accountability for me !
God bless you🙏🏽 brother for being transparent❤
Thank you🙏 my narcisit just run befoure Christmas…
Thank you bro
Thank you for your helpful teaching videos. 👍🏼
Thank you for this. God bless you.
Inner child is screaming!!! Some men have mommy issues some women have both! Recidivism in both men and women if we go through it we will grow ❤❤❤❤❤
The healing of the inner child 2025…..
Right!! This is true
LEON! How you out here calling the ladys couch ugly 🤣
A pretty pink one is what it really was 😂
😂😂😂 Why you gotta insult the couch fuh? What it fo to you😂 😂😂
Lol leon hates that dam couch
Merry Christmas Leon I truly am thankful 2yr s maybe 3 you’ve helped me more than you no x
Excellent
I just experience this i didn't see it coming she pulled away she even went as far trying to convince me I didn't want the relationship I had to walk away.
Total true❤
Thank you Leon, Happy New Year 🎉. God bless you brother 🙏🏾
🙌🏽🎯💯🔥
Wow.. That’s deep🖤
Great commentary 👌
Praise God for the therapist with the pink, ugly couch.
I figured he was broken and wouldn't face it when it was too easy for him to walk over simple fixes. I'm a therapist but not his.
Well all need to come to Jesus to get fixed
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❤ it's true 😂
He told me he had a childhood gilrfriend with my name. I found it weird, creepy. He knows more of my family than I do and he’s a few years older. Now I’m on POP-UP mode beware. Plan and support in place.
Hmm❤
Masterchief, 😂did you really have to say the little ugly pink couch😂😂? That little lady with that ugly pink couch helped bring forth something beautiful. We need to find an ugly pink couch for codependence. I am prior Navy EN3 but you definitely remind me of someone in the goat-locker. 😂 smh
😂😂😂😂😂. I’m telling you, every time I walked in her office, I hated seeing that lil ugly couch 😂😂. She did help me for sure!!! Right, I’m sure I do remind you of MANY of them 😂😂. I appreciate the laugh too. I needed this ❤️🙏🏾💪🏾💯💯💯
What made you go to therapy?
I pray you continue to accept the identy God created you for. Jesus won the victory when He died for the worlds sins so we can be forgiven. The devil wants people focused on their past, trapping them in shame and victimhood which then shapes a life in a false identify. Jesus came to restore our identy and give us eternal life.
@@dianepolk9878 thank you for this. I will continue for sure. Love this process, Diane❤️🙏🏾
No one cares what Elon Musk and Taylor Swift are doing. Let me and them be. For real man like whatever.
It’s Great you add THE ALMIGHTY GOD IN YOUR MESSAGES…….,,,THERES A PHYSICAL HEALING AND A SPIRITUAL HEALING ❤️🩹 there’s demonic confidence and Godly confidence
Thank 🫵 well said, Mr. Walker.🫶🦋😊👁️👀⚖️
Thanks Leon❤