celibacy as a GenZ christian man, singles handling sexual desires, where to find celibate men |pt.2
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ก.ย. 2024
- Hey love!
Today is a continuation of our conversation talking about the hardships, responsibilities and realities of celibacy, and much more!
Watch part 1 here!
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I liked what Daniel said about changing the narrative of the woman being the more spiritual and praying one in the family got me snapping my fingers. This is what I’ve been saying for the longest time. Most men tend to look for a woman who can pray or will pray for them but are they willing or ready to prophesy, pray and speak spirit-filled words into the life of their partner?. God help us all.
As a matter of fact, the man is supposed to lead in all aspects including the spiritual aspect. As men, we have to understand that we must first have a solid spiritual level before we even look for partners because we're going to be in control of the ship(the family) and we need of course we need a helper. If the leader isn't more spiritual, the ship will sink!
I agree with you @Funto
This part blew my mind…… There are Godly men out there changing this narrative and it’s so beautiful to see 😍
I made my celibacy decision in jss3 after a social studies class when we were thought abstinence. The teacher explained the spiritual implications of having multiple sex partners and since the, God has been helping me to keep myself till now. Its over 15 years now and God is still faithful
God bless that teacher of yours ♥️
@@preciousj2369Amen 🙏
Uzoma's boyfriend hits on points that get me snapping my fingers !
okayyy but the way Brandy just looks at Olumide while he's talkinggg🥰
What I wanted to type 😩😩😩😩🥺🥺🥺it's so sweet
Like girl is so much in love 🙏
I'm holding on and everything is sincerely fighting against my convictions but I'm not dismayed! Thank you guys. This is so refreshing.
Thank you for this. As a man, I've had similar experiences and societal expectations. And I can relate to the temptations that come once you are in a committed Christian relationship. We fall but we rise. I've been wrestling with the idea of being a priest and leading both I and my potential partner in Christ. It definitely comes with more responsibility, in that I am responsible if I lead a daughter of God astray. Can we have the guys talk about how they prepared for that?
hi Barima! what a great question this is, i’ll look into seeing how we can get some answers, thanks for watching ❤️
@@UzomaIroche Looking forward to it. I have been subscribed for a while. And I really believe your channel is a great ministry. Praying God continues to bless it. 😊
Why do you want to be a priest😩😅
The same question I was having with my friends a few days back. Finding a man who has decided to be celibate and not just for you but a choice they made is hard yooooo but I know they exist. I am patiently waiting for my person😊
I’m waiting on my man too🙏🏾
@@noelmagne7657 let's keep waiting sis. God will surely send the right person our way. I'm 💯 confident
@@lynn_WaliA08 amen ooo
@@lynn_WaliA08 Changing your circle might help. These behaviors have social circles. As long as you are in the wrong one you'll keep seeing just the behavior of that circle.
@@JoshuaRotimi the circle of friends I have is not the issue, they are actually very decent God centred individuals. My issue is finding that person who has made a decision to stay celibate. Even in church not so many people can say they are waiting. Yes they might tick all the boxes and then this factor disqualifies them
This is an awesome show guys
I have been battling this celibacy issue lately, I almost felt like I will just give up sometime like or force issues someday to get a guy to get married to. I've been meeting 'church guys' who do not have chills asking for s3x and its been kinda tough. I decided to equip myself and build myself in Christ for now but in my heart I felt I wasn't gonna get a man who can abstain. Watching these men here confidently talking about it. Like my hope is rekindled. Like thank you so much
Imma wait and come back to testify someday
Much love from Kenya💌💝
Wakenya hamkosi anywhere😂
But that's good of you, wish you the best and God's strength cause it's definitely not easy
Congrats to you. We await your testimony soon!
Thank you so much for sharing this, especially in a time where the talks around celibacy is always avoided and sexual purity is seen as less important.
I love the transparency and honesty. May God continually bless you'll ❤️
Saw this video as a recommendation and super grateful :) Love how Uzoma/Daniel mentioned the talk in the church towards singles that it will "just come" or that "they have to figure something out for God to bless them/there is something wrong" and how that can be hurtful, but rather more sensitive ways to address and work through that season directly with the Lord and let him do a beautiful sanctifying work through that single season that continues into a Godly relationship/marriage. Also loved the honest dialogue regarding men and their walks regarding purity! Overall, so good bringing practical points to spiritual truths!
First off, I’m so happy i clicked this video. I saw it on my recommended videos list and honestly I’m so happy i watched this video it was as if the Holy Spirit drew me into watching this. You all dropped so many gems that are very helpful for young ladies like me who desire purity and a man of God . Thanks for this video hun, you’re blessed 💗
‘Discernment is key’ 👌🏻 I Love This🙏🏻🔥
It's so beautiful and refreshing!
God bless you Uzoma, these things need to be addressed, waiting is hard, there isn't any other way to paint it, and it's easy to feel like something is actually wrong with you, especially if you've never been in a proper relationship before.. but yeah it's only right to remember that God is not a tyrant! This was much needed.. go girlie!
One thing I’ve learnt is that while in the waiting room for anything, like anything at all, while making a prayer of request over and over again, and it seems God isn’t responding like u want, you change the direction of communication with God
Instead of prayer of request, turn it into a thanksgiving. I so much believe that if at a point in life, some things aren’t working out they way we want, I believe God is preparing for us something better. So what we should do it turn that request into a thanksgiving, pray about it once or twice, Let him be aware of it and then carry on with thanksgiving, Just wake up every morning and say, “God I thank bcus of this, I’m grateful because this is working out for my good” and stuff like that. Just thought to share ❤🥰😍
This is very true.
At the end of the day, seasons come and go! ONLY GOD REMAINS!!!!🔥🔥🔥
Thank you Oyin💞
Guys i really appreciate your honesty it's so rare to see someone as honest
God still has sons!!!!! Waiting for mine😂
I love the transparency! Well done guys 👏🏻
thanks love!
Not the partners featuring, love it!!😍💃🏽
You knoww🥰🥰🎉🎉
I don't usually comment but this got me cos I just got outta a ship that almost recked me. I didn't notice, I was needed cos of my body, I refused giving it and it went south. I just summoned the courage to leave. I'm willing to walk with God strongly henceforth.
Y'all are doing well...topics like these have long been neglected...I am on my journey and I can clearly see the sincerity in all you spoke about...I began speaking with my pairs about this...and I definitely learnt alot from watching this video and will talk about this in my meetings
A friend shared this video to me and I don't regret coming to watch it. I have subribed and hoping to see more videos on sensitive topics like this. God bless your union. I have been encouraged🙏
All I can say is ‘oh my gosh!!’ This is the most insightful,truthful, like it’s everything and more. You have no idea!! Thank you sooooo much please Uzoma you mentioned the work and mindset shift you need to have for a Christian relationship. Please can you talk more on that?
All the wisdom the men in this video spoke today gave me so much hope that indeed God has sons. Please do more faith based videos like this you’re really changing lives❤
Loving part 2 already ❤❤❤
yayyy, thanks for watching Favour!💓💓
Well spoken, beloved children of God. I truly love this video ❤️❤️❤️
Genuinely loved this video so much, definetely renewed my mind from some of the negative thoughts I've been having. Great to hear from christian men who are actually abstaining/have abstained! Gives us hope that there's more men out there doing this. Their perspective is appreciated✨
yesss I love this doe our Generation Honoring Father's will this is a huge blessing! ahhh I am so excited and a few minutes in!
Love love this! God bless you for sharing
Very true during waiting times, or Trying times pray fast get closer to him make him your best friend isaiah 41:10 says do not be afraid, for I am with you, in all things believe his is with you in every season he is there trust in him and hold on tight to his word, and see how he will perform his miracle for you ❤❤
amen!
You do so well! I can see a girl greatly helped by God.♥️
🥺🥺🥺crying! thank you love ❤️
Oh mine!..it’s so nice to finally know there are people who think like you!..
I love your channel already!
And I guess I’m stucked ☺️
By the way you all look gorgeous 😉🙃
Wow, this so nice. Hearing men talk about celibacy is so great.. Thank you guys you're doing a great job here may God bless you ❤...thumbs up 👍👍👏👏
"Are you your spec's spec 🤔hits me differently. I got emotional from the clip" 31:00", everything said there was meant for me. Thank you so much. This was quite insightful.
I love this channel ! More of Christian lifestyle topics !!
I Love This. God Bless You People of God🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
‘Even our bodies are waiting for us to fail’ I love this Brother Daniel. Tell us again.
This is really good for our generation. God Bless You All🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
This is so good! The part about praying men.....whoosh!!!!!!!!
THIS WAS SO REAL
There’s everything to love about this video! ❤
Kudos, Uzoma. These topics are important for this generation.
Thank you so much for this I was really struggling, I took the decision to be celibate but all my friends and people that I hang out with make it seem like an abnormal thing to do I even lie to them because the discrimination is just too much, and mind you my friends are christians and music ministers in the house of God, one of them an ordained pastor. They always talk of how everyone is doing it and how it affects performance in marriage etc how your husband or wife will find someone better at it that people should do it before marriage to acquire the skill and now this was really starting to get to me and your video comes as an answer from God. I even met a great guy he was everything except on this part of celibacy now it all makes sense,🙏🙏 thank you so much.
wowww, good on your for standing you ground, this is why it’s so important to read the word and understand it for yourself, may God strengthen you and change the hearts of your friends that they may see His will perfectly and follow through with it in Jesus name!
This was Truly beautiful, I’m so blessed to have come across this.
This video is just a prove that GOD STILL HAS SONS THAT ARE WILLING TO DIE TO SELF AND JUST OBEY HIS WILL. Thank you so much for this video!
thanks for watching Adenike!
Exactly! Everyone is doing it doesn’t make it right or mean you should do it. 13:52
Deep words!!!
God bless you all for this❤
thanks for watching🥰
Subscribed ❤
I’m so glad God brought me across your channel today
Uziiii, Please!! Not "all of you that go on Zoom with your bonnet 😂😂
You guys really touched on the very important things, so many relatable things 😅, God bless you ❤
Self discipline and self control ❤
I love this video so much, I was blessed by watching it. But I have a question and I feel most videos on celibacy hasn’t really touched deep on this question. My question is this, how do we handle sexual urges while on the celibacy journey, a lot of people will say I’m a celibate I’ve been on the journey for 3 years and counting but behinds close door they are addicts to masturbation, they are addicted in watching video from inappropriate sites. So how do you fight this urges because they will definitely come .
1. Know your triggers
2. Set boundaries
3. Have an accountability partner/community
4. Let your mind be filled with thoughts that are on Kingdom building.
This is so insightful honestly
I watched this entire video and I learned so much ! Very helpful
I wanted to be the first one here 😭😭🤣🤣
you snooze you lose dear
The most important thing to do while waiting is focus on hearing God clearly… God loves us, the Holy Spirit is always available to talk to you and direct you. If you can hear him, you would know the purpose of the wait. Hearing the holy spirit will take you through everything in life. Be content with only God, all things will follow.
I believe they exist and I will wait on God to find him 😊
Love from kenya 🇰🇪 thank you for this.
Conversations worth having 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤
thanks guys for this powerful message ❤
Eiiiii this is amazing
I love the topic / area of Concentration
You guys be preaching! You dont even know!
Congratulations on 6k+ subscribers!!!!🎉🎉🎉
My people>>>> this video is so good
😍😍😍😍😍
Amazing video. Thanks so much for this guys, God bless you ❤️
thanks for watching Naomi ❤️
Love you guys, I always learn so much.❤
Lovely video ♥️
I want to ask a question that is a bit out of context, is it possible to marry a man who is a Christian and doesn't drink alcohol? It seems like it's really rare
Yess it's really possible. It used to be a prayer request of mine and God granted me, my current boyfriend who doesn't drink at all. Yes it's very possible no matter how rare it may seem ❤️
Yes it very possible committed man God fear romantic and dedicated just pray n believe
I am a Christian guy - I don’t drink, smoke or womanize.
It takes the grace of God by the way.
Yess. It may seem impossible but like they said,God still has sons!!
Great video. I enjoyed watching.
I instantly subscribed at the end lol loved every bit of this video❤
awww welcome to the family Stella!
I really enjoyed this, God bless you🎉🎉❤
This is so encouraging 💯💯
Oh my goodness!!! Is that Daniel Obadun?????😮😮😮😮😮. From Tricol! Wow! Nice seeing you, from afar. Woah! Shout-out 🙌🏾🙌🏾. From Ebun Adedayo (if you would remember me)
Don’t get me wrong celibacy hard oh but it’s Gods will and in other to be in agreement with Him you must submit and obey. Lovely video ❤❤
I loved this so much
17:55 Word!! well said
Thanks for sharing 💕💕
thanks for watching Kay!
so relatable, well done guys❤️
Thanks a lot for this ❤️❤️
In case he is in this comment section…… or he is scrolling through……. “Let’s serve God together”.
I love this video so much
Love this ❤❤
Great video.
New subscriber🎉❤
Wait don't tell me you are DATING Daniel??
Woowwwww
I just watched one of your past videos
Here for this!!! 😆😆😆
thanks Arin❤️❤️
I can across your channel yesterday and I loved your content. thank you ❤️❤️
God bless you all.
Love this
thanks for watching Bukola❤️
Am waiting for God's son❤❤❤
Please make a video on how to pray for a partner
First one here
go Princesss🎉🎉🎉
Uzoma, which color is your braiding hair?
Omo!!!!!!!! Guys in church are worse, let’s not even start, arghhhhhh
I hear you! One thing I did was not to limit God to meeting my person in church and I actually didn't meet him in church. I feel like we should be more open coz God is still really authentic and creative in writing love stories 😍
@@teeshhh2951 WORD. GOD IS THE CREATIVE HIMSELF
They’re a lot of them but where are they? That was funny
😂😂
I still believe God writes the best love stories and He will write mine.
😂😂no cap. I’ve met two evil men in church.
Although God has many sons, you just have to be discerning.
Daniel🔥🔥
I don subscribe o😂, really enjoyed this convo
thanks girlll🥰
I stand hiaaaa henceforth 👌👌
Love love your videos
Would really like for you to talk about the Bible's view being God's view too on feminism because I find that the bible doesn't actually support gender equality, so, I'd like to know what yours and Brandy's take is on that
Thank you
Genuinely it does; but the thing is, you don't look at the Hible with the English you're reading... you'll have to go to the original language it was written and do a lot of study to really understand.
Big Ups to King James and others, but there were some lapses in translation.
Hope this helps sort of.
Will do that. It did help, thank you.
God still has sons!
Y'all mean abstinence. Celibacy means a vow to never have sex or get married like Christian monks
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You all spoke well .. But please I don't think it's ideal for matured people in a relationship that will definitely lead to marriage to address themselves as boyfriend and girlfriend ..
Please fiancé and fiancée is better . boyfriend or girlfriend sounds so worldly and childish .. And the meaning of boyfriend or girlfriend in dictionary is " sex mate "
Abstinence not celibacy because you guys want to get married and Have children one day.
Just here to fan girllll🥲❤ moreeee pleasee