I feel spoiled. Please continue posting consistently. Some of us only have you as a serious Godly TH-camr/friend in our age group that we can relate to. Also we're waiting for part 2 with mama.
I love how relatable your content is and it addresses the contemporary issues people don't want to talk about. Thank you 💕❤ Please do a video on friendships and how to navigate through.
if you fail to prepare, you prepare to fail... May Holy Spirit keep helping us daily as we walk through our path in life... Thank you for this wonderful message, I am indeed blessed
1. Prayer--Align yourself with God's will for your life. What are the qualities you desire in a mate? God is actually interested in our relationships. 2. Prepare to be stretched (emotionally, and mentally) 4:41 The purpose of marriage is to become more like Christ. Being selfless, and patient. 3. Become the person that is suited for the type of relationship you want. 8:06 Know what you need to work on. That may mean you need to go to counseling/therapy. 4. Mentorship: Watch godly relationships. 12:05 (videos, live people/friends.) Knew what type of person you want through watching others. Be in a bible believing church where you can have mentors there (as well as elsewhere if needed) 5. Working with God to become content. 18:25 6. Nurture your friendship 20:12 7. You should understand the purpose of your relationship with your partner vs your relationship with God. Purpose: To look more like Christ. 21:36
So I'm 25 few weeks before I turned 25 God placed it in my heart to pray for my marriage, I was actively searching two months later God told me to stop searching for 6 months and focus on my relationship with him and yoh I'm filled with so much joy and peace and content 1 month later he tells me to start posting Christian content on my channel so trust me I understand when you say we have to be kingdom like in order to sustain the kingdom marriage 🤗
Your right ! a Godly relationship will stretch you. The person that God gives you will push you to grow. Especially that person will help you to grow in christ too.
I really enjoyed your video. I'm currently in my waiting season and I don't feel the rush to be in a relationship yet mainly because I'm building myself in Christ but also because a part of me is scared that it's hard to find a Godly man. Your video really and your relationship in general always encourages me that the wait will eventually be worth it and fruitful. Also I'm really glad to see you walk in a celibacy journey while still in a relationship. It gives me so much hope especially with the way our generation is at the moment.
Hey This video was not all over the place It was perfect This was a sign from God for me to starting preparing during this season Thank you so much 😘❤️
Thank you so much for this. I've learned so much and I want to be intentional about certain things including relationships. I am 17 years old and I've been in a single season knowing that I want a relationship that is God honouring... But being around people who are in relationships sometimes makes me desire what they have, I constantly have to remind myself of what the goal is and the type of person I want to be with. Thanks once again
powerful video beautiful 🙌🏾 thank you for sharing, i am a 16 year old girl and i’ve been desiring a Godly relationship but i see that God is preparing me for that especially by leading me to this video. stay blessed🥰✨ i also admire your accent it’s so pretty!!
Hello! Sister Uzoma! Thank you sooo much, God directed me to listen to this as I NEEDED some answers from Him. May God bless you sooo much ❤ Thank you for sharing your experience, it is helping people 🙏🏼☺️
Everything you said girl🤗I can relate to 💯 from praying about it, to having the good list of God given traits you’ll need, to learning from Godly couples you’ll like to emulate on youtube to attending a bible believing church, to the way a Godly relationship stretches you as a person, and the character traits that the Holy spirit will reveal to you about yourself. All of it, its like you were talking about my life. Thank you for stepping out in faith and sharing your journey, its nice to know that there other young Christians striving for Godly relationships because it can feel like a lonely road sometimes. I pray that God will continue to use you for his glory in kingdom relationships and all round in Jesus name. Amen 🙏🏿 I love your channel 🤗keep soaring
When she said: “prepare to be stretched” my body ached because Wow🙌🏾🥲 at first I didn’t understand what was going on with me but now I understand. Pray for more grace when you reach this stage sisters ❤️
Uzoma!!!! Weldone love, you're filled with GOD's wisdom 👏👏. I'm glad and grateful you're my age group, and your posts are relatable; I pray for God's wisdom and guidance in Jesus Name. I agree with you on the stretched aspect of being in a Godly relationship, and I'll add that for those of us who are single, be active in service (church) because people will test you in doing so. You can improve a lot about yourself while doing so. (I don't know if I communicated my opinion well🙃)
Thank you for this video Uzoma❤️.I am not so hospitable as well and I am working on that and many other things but one thing you said that really resonates with me is become the person that is suited for the type of relationship you want.This is so important as there is a lot of things we have to work on as individuals. A Godly relationship will stretch you especially if you want to fulfil God’s purpose for that relationship. Be ready to unlearn and relearn.
One thing I am learning as a single is that you need to build your own faith system to be successfully married to a man of faith or you'd be lagging behind.
I’ve realised by watching videos like this that God always gives us a relationship when we are happy being single because if like you said getting married or being in a relationship is a do or die matter it will make you dependent on it and not dependent on God and you will find yourself idolizing a relationship God is good he knows best!!
Thank you so much for sharing! This video resonated with me a whole lot. I'm in the space of thinking what the purpose of relationship/marriage is, and this blessed me. Keep up the good work and God bless you!!
My sisi eko you are literally an answered prayer. I asked God to give me a resource that will help me grow as a young Christian lady and then I stumbled upon your channel. Keep being an inspiration. Much love ❤
Amen. This video was very informative and I learned over the past few weeks I have to work on patience and my attitude. I can get snappy and I've been praying and asking God to help me, help me.
Hey Uzoma, always love your content🤩! This was a timely word🥰. Please remember to share the resource on praying in tongues. Would also love to hear your perspective on the same. Should Christians pray in tongues out loud in church or in their secret place? Is praying in tongues and spesking in tongues one and the same thing or are they different? Referencing my questions from 1 Corinthians 14.
Hi uzoma, thank you for taking out time to do this video as it was very helpful. Could you please recommend books that you have read and have helped you in your relationship and spiritual journey. You mentioned reading books. Thank you
Can you make a video on long distance relationships and how to maintain Godly standards while keeping it interesting. The world's version of Keeping things interesting includes, nudes pictures, steamy vid calls, sultry photos etc. But as Christians we must do things the God's way, hence the request for the video God bless😊
Yesterday , I blocked someone who was my ideal but God said to me by few acts that it was not for me ... I'm sad but i don't worry because i'm peace right now
Hi Uzoma... I just found your channel this year and I must say you and your channel have been a big blessing. I have a question: I tend to make being on a relationship an idol. Even when I'm not in one, I can spend hours of my day fantasizing about it,who it'll be,my wedding,my marraige. So I decided to stop praying for my future relationship/husband( or i just do in passing nonchalantly), not listening to love songs, watching romantic videos as well as trying to learn more about myself and what my purpose is. But then everytime I hear "pray for your spouse" and I feel like I should but then I don't want to get to a place where I start obsessing over it again😩. What's the question again🙈...oh,any advice?
Hey! thank you for your question, and thank you for watching. So this is a valid concern, I would say definitely sitting with God and trying to find the root of the issue. Trying to figure out what it is in you that causes the desire to go overboard. So is it a loneliness issue, abandonment or like a different need showing up as obsessing over a relationship? Also is it is it obsessing over this or is it a need for seciurity, or love or safety that God can give? I think that a great starting point is realising that relationships arent bad, they are a gift from God but sometimes an unfulfilled need may cause you to try to overcompensate using something else i.e obsessing over a relationship, to fulfill the need.
I feel spoiled. Please continue posting consistently. Some of us only have you as a serious Godly TH-camr/friend in our age group that we can relate to. Also we're waiting for part 2 with mama.
😂i will by God's grace. Thanks for watching love! You guys should continue begging her o
i dont know if i she will answer me again😂
I second that..
I love how relatable your content is and it addresses the contemporary issues people don't want to talk about. Thank you 💕❤
Please do a video on friendships and how to navigate through.
"if you are looking for a kingdom marriage, you have to become a kingdom woman or man" many people actually need to hear this.
“God loves you so much that he wouldn’t allow you to be comfortable & remain in mediocrity” that gave me a new perspective.
if you fail to prepare, you prepare to fail... May Holy Spirit keep helping us daily as we walk through our path in life... Thank you for this wonderful message, I am indeed blessed
amen!!
Hi Uzoma
I love your channel and all you do!
I'm 17 and God has used you a great deal to shape my thoughts and opinions in life.
God bless you!!
hey love! thank you for sticking around, glory to God for the beauty that He is creating in your life, i'm so honoured to be a part of it
1. Prayer--Align yourself with God's will for your life. What are the qualities you desire in a mate? God is actually interested in our relationships.
2. Prepare to be stretched (emotionally, and mentally) 4:41
The purpose of marriage is to become more like Christ. Being selfless, and patient.
3. Become the person that is suited for the type of relationship you want. 8:06
Know what you need to work on. That may mean you need to go to counseling/therapy.
4. Mentorship: Watch godly relationships. 12:05 (videos, live people/friends.) Knew what type of person you want through watching others. Be in a bible believing church where you can have mentors there (as well as elsewhere if needed)
5. Working with God to become content. 18:25
6. Nurture your friendship 20:12
7. You should understand the purpose of your relationship with your partner vs your relationship with God. Purpose: To look more like Christ. 21:36
So I'm 25 few weeks before I turned 25 God placed it in my heart to pray for my marriage, I was actively searching two months later God told me to stop searching for 6 months and focus on my relationship with him and yoh I'm filled with so much joy and peace and content 1 month later he tells me to start posting Christian content on my channel so trust me I understand when you say we have to be kingdom like in order to sustain the kingdom marriage 🤗
i totally get this feeling!
Girllllll same here
Your right ! a Godly relationship will stretch you. The person that God gives you will push you to grow. Especially that person will help you to grow in christ too.
Uzoma. You're right. The patience and selfishness. You may think you're patient and selfless until you're in kingdom marriage or relationship.
exactly!
I really enjoyed your video. I'm currently in my waiting season and I don't feel the rush to be in a relationship yet mainly because I'm building myself in Christ but also because a part of me is scared that it's hard to find a Godly man. Your video really and your relationship in general always encourages me that the wait will eventually be worth it and fruitful. Also I'm really glad to see you walk in a celibacy journey while still in a relationship. It gives me so much hope especially with the way our generation is at the moment.
i love this for you girl! Glory to God for this, he is helping us!
Hey
This video was not all over the place
It was perfect
This was a sign from God for me to starting preparing during this season
Thank you so much 😘❤️
aww thank you for this sweet comment!glory to God !!
Uzoma, the Holy Spirit is literally speaking through you. Thank you and God bless you for this!!!
glory to Jesus!
Thank you for this word of knowledge girlfriend ❤i love what you do..i'm 27 and I'm learning from your teachin...God bless you richly.
I did not want the video to end🥺. Thank you so much Uzoma❤. You are definitely a blessing to this generation.
glory to Jesus!!
Thank you so much for this. I've learned so much and I want to be intentional about certain things including relationships. I am 17 years old and I've been in a single season knowing that I want a relationship that is God honouring... But being around people who are in relationships sometimes makes me desire what they have, I constantly have to remind myself of what the goal is and the type of person I want to be with. Thanks once again
Uzoma the Holyspirit sent you to me sha ❤
Anything worth doing is worth doing well...whaooo that's deep🔥🤗✨
So many great points! The part about learning to be hospitable…I felt that in my soul 😭 God bless you for this video 🤎
mehnnn, God help us oo, amen!
powerful video beautiful 🙌🏾 thank you for sharing, i am a 16 year old girl and i’ve been desiring a Godly relationship but i see that God is preparing me for that especially by leading me to this video. stay blessed🥰✨ i also admire your accent it’s so pretty!!
aw thats amazing! may He guide and keep you loving Him :)
Wow, "There's a certain way you have to be for you to have certain things in life. " That hit the right spot in my soul ❤❤❤
Hello! Sister Uzoma! Thank you sooo much, God directed me to listen to this as I NEEDED some answers from Him. May God bless you sooo much ❤
Thank you for sharing your experience, it is helping people 🙏🏼☺️
Everything you said girl🤗I can relate to 💯 from praying about it, to having the good list of God given traits you’ll need, to learning from Godly couples you’ll like to emulate on youtube to attending a bible believing church, to the way a Godly relationship stretches you as a person, and the character traits that the Holy spirit will reveal to you about yourself. All of it, its like you were talking about my life. Thank you for stepping out in faith and sharing your journey, its nice to know that there other young Christians striving for Godly relationships because it can feel like a lonely road sometimes. I pray that God will continue to use you for his glory in kingdom relationships and all round in Jesus name. Amen 🙏🏿
I love your channel 🤗keep soaring
Become the type of person who is suitable for the relationship you are praying for... Sis😅😅😅😅 that hit me very hard
I’ve seen a lot of rubbish and now I know the rubbish I don’t want to see”🔥😂❤️I love eetttt!
12:40🔥
When she said: “prepare to be stretched” my body ached because Wow🙌🏾🥲 at first I didn’t understand what was going on with me but now I understand. Pray for more grace when you reach this stage sisters ❤️
Facts facts facts facts!!!! Thank you for sharing. We need you
Thanks for watching!
Uzoma!!!! Weldone love, you're filled with GOD's wisdom 👏👏. I'm glad and grateful you're my age group, and your posts are relatable; I pray for God's wisdom and guidance in Jesus Name. I agree with you on the stretched aspect of being in a Godly relationship, and I'll add that for those of us who are single, be active in service (church) because people will test you in doing so. You can improve a lot about yourself while doing so. (I don't know if I communicated my opinion well🙃)
Wow. I'm beginning to fall in love with your channel
join the family!
Word Uzoma. ❤
Everything and more.
Thank you for this video Uzoma❤️.I am not so hospitable as well and I am working on that and many other things but one thing you said that really resonates with me is become the person that is suited for the type of relationship you want.This is so important as there is a lot of things we have to work on as individuals. A Godly relationship will stretch you especially if you want to fulfil God’s purpose for that relationship. Be ready to unlearn and relearn.
yesss exactly! God will help us.
One thing I am learning as a single is that you need to build your own faith system to be successfully married to a man of faith or you'd be lagging behind.
This is sooooo gooddddd! Thank you Uzoma! Precious precious words!
glory to Jesus!! Thank you for watching :)
I’ve realised by watching videos like this that God always gives us a relationship when we are happy being single because if like you said getting married or being in a relationship is a do or die matter it will make you dependent on it and not dependent on God and you will find yourself idolizing a relationship God is good he knows best!!
exactly! i used to always hear this but i only believed when i saw it in my own life
I always feel the peace of God in your videos 🥹❤️. Love from 🇿🇦🇿🇦❤️
Thank you Uzoma... Everything was shot on..I thank God I got to find your channel 3 years ago...May God strengthen you and continue to use you...
aw woww, thanks for rocking with me, thanks for watching girl!
I always look forward to your videos 🥹
aw this means so much!!
Hi Uzoma, you’re such a blessing! I’m honestly glad that I found you and I also tap into your Grace.
God bless you, Sister❤
Okayy, just found this channel I don’t think I’m going back
Thank you so much Ma for this
God Bless You😊😊
Aww, you're actually saying so many blessed things. Thank you 🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much for sharing! This video resonated with me a whole lot. I'm in the space of thinking what the purpose of relationship/marriage is, and this blessed me. Keep up the good work and God bless you!!
glory to God! God bless you :)
Hii Uzoma,I haven't watched the video yet but I'm dropping this comment based on the other beautiful comments I'm seeing
Welldone!
aww🥰
Thank you for this video Uzoma
Yes in today's world I can be in a Godly relationship.
My sisi eko you are literally an answered prayer. I asked God to give me a resource that will help me grow as a young Christian lady and then I stumbled upon your channel. Keep being an inspiration.
Much love ❤
glory to Jesuss, welcome to the family girl !
Great video, amazing wisdom! Keep the content coming !!
thanks for watching!
This is really well needed. Thank you Uzoma🤗
Amen. This video was very informative and I learned over the past few weeks I have to work on patience and my attitude. I can get snappy and I've been praying and asking God to help me, help me.
we're all in this together!
Dear Uzo, God bless you for sharing this ❤, I felt so moved by your spoken words.
Already loving this channel🎉🎉🎉. Hi Uzoma nice meeting you!!!!
Really love this video❤️❤️❤️
The wisdom 🤩🤩🤩! God bless you for sharing
Amen 🙌Thank you girl. You inspire me ❤
Sooooooo sooo good!!
You're so relatable, thank you for this video 💕
Thanks uzoma...this video is exactly on time, God bless you 🤗
Hey,thank you for the video.🙏🏾✨
You have pretty eyes by the way, very beautiful☺️
thanks love!
Uzoma I bless the day I came across your channel ❤
Thank you... Thank you 🙏
This is so good!!!👏👏
It’s amazing to know and discover I am on the right path 😊
glory to God!
Really enjoyed watching this.
This video came at the right time.. thanks alott 🤗
I love honesty 😂❤
You’re a gem!
Hey Uzoma, always love your content🤩! This was a timely word🥰. Please remember to share the resource on praying in tongues. Would also love to hear your perspective on the same. Should Christians pray in tongues out loud in church or in their secret place? Is praying in tongues and spesking in tongues one and the same thing or are they different? Referencing my questions from 1 Corinthians 14.
check the description box love!
Thank you for this!
Well said lady!
love this video!!!
You where the one i was looking for
I just find your channel
You gots me hook on your channel ❤
Yay! Welcome🥰
Heyyy Uzoma.Thank you so much for your video. It is very fulfilling. Love youuuu❤️
thanks girl!!
Thank you
Thank you
Thank you..
It feels like this video was made for me..Thank you for sharing..
thank God for this!
Hey Uzoma, thank you for sharing!!
God bless you abundantly ❤
Thankkk youu so much. This has helped me alot🙏
This is really good and helpful.. thank you very much
thanks for watching!
Hey. Your passion and care about your faith is lovely. May I ask if you know much about Catholic Christianity?
Your facial expression in the thumbnail sent me abeg😂😂😂ok now let me watch
🤣
I loved this. Has a very clean look and feel to it as well🤍🤍
This was really good .thank you for sharing.can you share some of said TH-cam channels you’d recommend
Podcast and materials generally .thank you
Hi Iroche, I enjoyed your video.. Please could you give us suggestions on podcast to listen to?
I just subscribe to your channel because we have same value
Beautiful
Amen to your prayers 🙏This video is so nice ❤
thanks for watching!
@@UzomaIroche my pleasure ❤️
7:23 WORD
Hi uzoma, thank you for taking out time to do this video as it was very helpful. Could you please recommend books that you have read and have helped you in your relationship and spiritual journey. You mentioned reading books.
Thank you
You and me forever - Lisa and Francis Chan
Not yet married - marshall segal
Ready to wed - Dr Greg & Erin Smalley
Can you make a video on long distance relationships and how to maintain Godly standards while keeping it interesting.
The world's version of Keeping things interesting includes, nudes pictures, steamy vid calls, sultry photos etc.
But as Christians we must do things the God's way, hence the request for the video
God bless😊
hmm, ill think about this, thanks for the suggestion!
From 🇿🇦 with 🤍🫂✨
thank you for watching
Thank you so much and I love you ❤
Thank you for this
God bless you
Relationship is about being like Christ. Now that's WISDOM.
Thank you.
Yesterday , I blocked someone who was my ideal but God said to me by few acts that it was not for me ... I'm sad but i don't worry because i'm peace right now
thank God! He will sustain you as you have made the right choice.
Hi Uzoma
Thanks for this insight, God bless your knowledge. How can I have a personal talk with you🙈 it's urgent 🙏
Heyyyyy, can you recommend good books on relationships and marriage?? Would love to update my reading list
You and me forever - Lisa and Francis Chan
Not yet married - marshall segal
Ready to wed - Dr Greg & Erin Smalley
Dating intelligently - Laju Iren
I actually thought Daniel was already a pastor 😅
Fr!!
🤣🤣🤣not yet
Hi Uzoma... I just found your channel this year and I must say you and your channel have been a big blessing.
I have a question: I tend to make being on a relationship an idol. Even when I'm not in one, I can spend hours of my day fantasizing about it,who it'll be,my wedding,my marraige. So I decided to stop praying for my future relationship/husband( or i just do in passing nonchalantly), not listening to love songs, watching romantic videos as well as trying to learn more about myself and what my purpose is. But then everytime I hear "pray for your spouse" and I feel like I should but then I don't want to get to a place where I start obsessing over it again😩. What's the question again🙈...oh,any advice?
Hey! thank you for your question, and thank you for watching. So this is a valid concern, I would say definitely sitting with God and trying to find the root of the issue. Trying to figure out what it is in you that causes the desire to go overboard. So is it a loneliness issue, abandonment or like a different need showing up as obsessing over a relationship? Also is it is it obsessing over this or is it a need for seciurity, or love or safety that God can give? I think that a great starting point is realising that relationships arent bad, they are a gift from God but sometimes an unfulfilled need may cause you to try to overcompensate using something else i.e obsessing over a relationship, to fulfill the need.
Amen
❤❤❤
Do you pray before you post your videos?
most times, yes!
Thank you❤
Amen