How to start over after a MAJOR Divorce or Breakup | 5 Steps

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  • @classicoc1917
    @classicoc1917 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Hey Ash, I really enjoyed your video today, I've been watching you 4+ years now, a 12 year marriage is a major chapter in your life, and going home for introspection, recovery, and dealing with C19 all at the same time are further added chapters in your life, you found love again in the UK and it ran it course, just another chapter in your life, now your in Spain, very cool, enjoy life to the fullest and be resilient and be strong!
    Love your spirit, laughter, and your ever present smile! Take care, OC 🤗🇺🇸

    • @dianebaker5243
      @dianebaker5243 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agree 😊

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks O.C. Haha you just wrote my book. haha AND have all my chapters don to a T. A true fan. :) Thanks so much for following along in all these chapters. I promise there are more to come. -Ash

  • @Daydreameruk
    @Daydreameruk ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m very proud of you, VERY. It wasn’t just a break up and divorce. It was a whole heap more. And you rebuilt yourself. Phenomenal. Can’t believe that was 3 years ago, then I watched at least 3-5 years before that split. Seems I’ve been watching you forever!!
    You keep being you, because you are amazing. 💐

  • @JohnandCaraRetiredTravellers
    @JohnandCaraRetiredTravellers ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ashley you are an inspiration! We’ve been following you for I think it’s been over 7 years and we are so proud of you! We have many chapters in our lives hopefully we learn from the good and the bad, you are doing the hard healing work successfully!!
    Thanks for sharing this journey with us! ~Cara ❤

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Awe Cara I have loved having you bother here through the journey. :)
      -Ash

  • @jayinla310
    @jayinla310 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am really impressed with how you are moving on. You show no animosity toward your ex and that is the best way to heal and focus on building a new life.

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you. I can not hold animosity. Life is too short and I really don't have time for it. :)

  • @soxrox2574
    @soxrox2574 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    On this channel you have been very open on what is going on with yourself. You have talked about the ups and downs of relationships, jobs, visa issues and other things. Through these you have shown strength and personal growth. I wish you nothing but the best 😊

  • @Fantabbydozy2608
    @Fantabbydozy2608 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really admire your whole attitude. You’re the most resilient and positive person, even if you didn’t always feel like it. I’m always impressed with your outlook. You being a naturally joyful person really does come through the screen, you always make me smile!

  • @freeplace5243
    @freeplace5243 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    When you go through what you have been through and like you come out better equipped to have successful life it is a big win, sometimes destiny pushes us into change to succeed. Sounds corny but I believe that. Ash, all the best!

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  ปีที่แล้ว

      I love that!! Not corny at all haha Thank you! -Ash

  • @pamelawatson2366
    @pamelawatson2366 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh Ashley I have been following you throughout all the ups and downs and you have been fantastic. Yes the stuffing was knocked out of you but you were always authentic and loving. You deserve a bright and fulfilling future. ❤❤

  • @WordsPictures997
    @WordsPictures997 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ashley you are ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL ... both inside and out ❤
    It's always been such a pleasure watching you. You truly are a gift and I'm so glad to have had the chance to witness your light come back.
    Thank you so much for sharing!

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's so kind of you to say. Thank you so much. It means more than you know. -Ash

  • @Lee-bt2cy
    @Lee-bt2cy ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I remember that video you made in Paris. When you'd kind of made your mind up about going to Barcelona & learning Spanish & I thought what a positive move, just to throw yourself into something of interest to build around. And to see you now talking about feeling happy, content & enjoying life again is a really good thing for me to hear, and a really good thing for you in regards finding your feet. You've come a long way. 🙂 I'm happy for you.

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SO TRUE LEE! Its crazy how life can change so quickly. That video was only back in June and so much has happened between then and now. I am so grateful I have this opportunity to be here and it would not have been possible with out the experiences I have had. :) Its awesome!

    • @Lee-bt2cy
      @Lee-bt2cy ปีที่แล้ว

      @@WingingItWithAsh waw. June. That's crazy. Seems like ages ago. Ha. That's not what I meant to say. Doesn't seem long ago, but then it kind of does in regards where it seemed like you were. That's what I meant. Anxiety.

  • @CC-gq7sx
    @CC-gq7sx ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great for this video to share what it can feel like on the other side after a divorce or breakup. Hearing the good and bad sides will be helpful who are contemplating separation, or find themselves involved in one. Appreciate the bravery to share your experience and thoughts. Nice having these videos once in awhile to view. Good luck moving forward!

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you C C. No one ever plans to go through those type of things but when they do happen its nice to know others understand and what helped.
      I like making content that can speak to peoples hearts. Thank you for also enjoying it. -Ash

  • @RobertRod818
    @RobertRod818 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you, this video is just on time.
    I'm going through a separation just right now. I have been depressed for the last few months. I'm getting better, but at my worst my life didn't matter.
    Thank you again, your words of encouragement are so helpful.

  • @anapalmaprince2833
    @anapalmaprince2833 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing this inspirational video Ash ✨I can't tell you how many times I've started over lol and every time I like the progress ive made and the new spot I land until the next start over session ( hope this makes sense). Keep on shining ✨😍✨🎉

  • @themissdior1235
    @themissdior1235 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ash you have come so far and succeeded . Im so glad you are now happy within yourself. You are living best my friend:)

  • @lukeamsterdam
    @lukeamsterdam ปีที่แล้ว +1

    fantastic ❤ you're so generous, resilient and an inspiration. and funny too. i always watch with a big smile on my face 😅

  • @Priyasisland
    @Priyasisland ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing. Been watching you since you announced your break up and made your new channel. Keep going, and keep being positive as alway. Best of luck!

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  ปีที่แล้ว

      What a time to join in on my adventure. Thanks Priya! -Ash

  • @andrewfitzgerald2327
    @andrewfitzgerald2327 ปีที่แล้ว

    Don't look back Ashley look forward, there is nothing you can do about the past. Learn from things good or bad trust some but always look after yourself first. You are an intelligent young woman with the world at your feet.

  • @junebelcourt-suhaka1434
    @junebelcourt-suhaka1434 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video, thanks for sharing! I have watched you on the Way Away and then Winging it With Ash! You are doing a great job and am enjoying everything you share😃

  • @ynys_mon6928
    @ynys_mon6928 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bless you Ash. Wishing you all the best for the future.

  • @michellelaw7394
    @michellelaw7394 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dearest Ashley, you are so brave and love you positivity. Support you as always

  • @AndyKing1963
    @AndyKing1963 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    great advice Ash, many of the things you mentioned rang true for me. As ever, wishing you all the best

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks so much! I hope it helps those who need to hear it. -Ash

  • @Mel.H_
    @Mel.H_ ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Happy Saturday Ash! ❤🎉

  • @krystlynnemuscutt9552
    @krystlynnemuscutt9552 ปีที่แล้ว

    We love you Ash and you have done so much and have been so strong!❤

  • @annewilliams8116
    @annewilliams8116 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are an incredible person, so positive👍😊 All the best Ash

  • @ajf9041
    @ajf9041 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ash you are such an inspiration! You have been through a lot and yet you handle yourself so gracefully. ❤️ Starting over IS hard I’m no stranger! Look where you are now though, God has led you to exactly where you should be. Spain looks amazing and I love your videos of fun things you do there as a local! 💕

  • @superturka
    @superturka ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My dear Ashly, this universe is not being fair to you..

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I would rather live a life where I take chances and grown than a life where I am stagnant and always do the same things. :) To me its worth it. -Ash

  • @renee2712
    @renee2712 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I admire you so much! I wish I was half as fearless as you. ❤

  • @RCTrailblazr
    @RCTrailblazr ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video!
    Thank you for sharing. Your advice is very appreciated:)encouraging.
    Take care.

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      GOOD! Encouraging was exactly what I was going for. -Ash

  • @DeanSinger
    @DeanSinger ปีที่แล้ว +2

    the good chapters will come back - yes you've certainly gone through lot of 'downs' !

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ups and Downs Dean. Despite the downs I have so so many ups. :) I have a whole TH-cam channel to prove it...PLUS MORE! -Ash

    • @DeanSinger
      @DeanSinger ปีที่แล้ว

      @@WingingItWithAsh 2 good channels - what I'm saying is you have risen above the ashes(pun not meant) - why your parents called you Ashley - that bit a joke! No, you have brushed the bad times away very well !

  • @cryptolife77
    @cryptolife77 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fair play, for moving to spain and starting afresh, your beautiful, lovely personality so dont worry, you gonna find love again.

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  ปีที่แล้ว

      haha Thank you. I really do hope so. Even though I have had heartbreaks in the past I truly desire to be in love again.

  • @dianebaker5243
    @dianebaker5243 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing 👍 🥰

  • @TravelAdventureswithEricB
    @TravelAdventureswithEricB ปีที่แล้ว

    Ash you are an amazing and strong person.

  • @tonys1636
    @tonys1636 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Therapy? what's that, as someone well into their 70's only ever been told to get a grip and pull one's self together. Mental Health was never talked about let alone see a Therapist. Yes, my divorce was hard but became a lot less stressful once we both ditched the Lawyers, they were just interested in making money and causing stress and arguments as more paid hours for them. The Court was happy with both the settlement and the arrangements for the 4 under 16 still at home Children we had both agreed.

  • @gwynethglas-brown9171
    @gwynethglas-brown9171 ปีที่แล้ว

    You come so far Ashley 💕travel always been your passion you could see that in all your older videos, have such a lovely Family that help you through 💕Hope your parents are doing well ?
    Are they going to be visiting you in Barcelona at some point 😊?.
    Hows your Spanish course going ? Have a Good Week 🥰

  • @tomassanesson902
    @tomassanesson902 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are so awesome 👍❤❤❤

  • @rinku1160
    @rinku1160 ปีที่แล้ว

    Many Assamese people (Assam) marriage in mother Kamakhya temple

  • @maxwelledisonsmum
    @maxwelledisonsmum ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Where were you when I got divorced 20 years ago Ashley? I could’ve use this advice. 😜It’s all good now though.😊

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hahah, Alive but with out so much wisdom lol I wonder what 17 year old ash would have told you. haha I had no idea what was ahead of me at that age.haha -Ash

  • @lindalewis7295
    @lindalewis7295 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love to know the financial side of your travels does youtube fund all your travels, or do you have to use savings ?

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  ปีที่แล้ว

      YES both. TH-cam has good months and bad months. I do side projects and I am currently looking for a remote position to help compensate.

  • @MrDavfit
    @MrDavfit ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How anyone can go through life without a gym is beyond me ,but their easy to spot

  • @diegolisboadesouza8792
    @diegolisboadesouza8792 ปีที่แล้ว

    Linda mais vídeos 💟💟💟💟

  • @chrisdc1689
    @chrisdc1689 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ash you're a hawtie so I wouldn't worry or be sad about finding your dream mate soon.

  • @Rula2020
    @Rula2020 ปีที่แล้ว

    Instead of thinking that you were married for 12 years, think of you had a friend for all this time that you spent it doing cool things together with. You still have the whole life ahead of you and that the true love is still ahead. Enjoy this carefee time before you have kids ;) then the real family life starts lol

    • @jj-if6it
      @jj-if6it ปีที่แล้ว +1

      it's not helpful to make assumptions about kids

    • @Rula2020
      @Rula2020 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jj-if6it well having kids is part of growing up and becoming an adult. I feel that is pretty good assumption when you start a family

    • @jj-if6it
      @jj-if6it ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Rula2020 no my point is some people can't/won't start a family. So don't assume she will because she already feels the concerned about that

    • @Rula2020
      @Rula2020 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jj-if6it yeah I see what you are saying. I was just wish her the best from my point of view. But valid point, someone else could feel different about it

  • @brumsgrub8633
    @brumsgrub8633 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why would you care that people know your divorced. Who cares what others think.

    • @WingingItWithAsh
      @WingingItWithAsh  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      AGH its something I have been plagued with my who life. I try not to care but I still do. :)

  • @HoneymoonAlways
    @HoneymoonAlways ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wooow! 💜 though I am not divorced, I have gone through some big life changes in the past few years and I relate so much to many of the things you shared here! I think this video is gonna help a lot of people 🫶💜💜 - Michelle

  • @duanewhitacre5995
    @duanewhitacre5995 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ❤🙏💛🫂