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- Do you have a crush? Are trying to figure out how not to act like an idiot around them? Yeah, we’ve all been there before.
If you’ve been struggling to talk to your crush, or terrified you’re going to do something wrong and embarrass yourself in front of them, then worry not. We’re here to tell you all the things you should avoid doing around your crush!
Disclaimer: This video is for educational purposes and is based on personal opinions. This video is not a substitute for professional advice, but general guidance. We advise you to always listen to your intuition and always do what is right for you.
Writers: Chloe Avenasa
Script Editor: Vanessa Tao
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Naphia
TH-cam Manager: Cindy Cheong
1.) Come on too strong
2.) Fantasize about your future together
3.) Send mixed signals
4 ) Act like you don't care
5.) Pretend to be someone you're not
6.) Act jealous or possessive
7.) Overthink everything.
Damn. 7 out of 8. No wonder I’m single
Oh the last one is gonna be a bitch
Thanks
If anyone acts jelous or possessive you ain't worth my time
2, 3, and 7 for me.
“Don’t overthink everything.”
Me, an anxiety filled overthinker who overthinks literally everything: welp, guess I’m single forever 🥲
Same man...
Let us share the pain
Don't worry, let's just suffer together :']
Same
INFJ-T also overthinking too and I also like someone as well
Yes.
“don’t overthink”
- me overthinking about how im overthinking.
Now I'm overthinking about this comment about overthinking how you are overthinking.
It's not just me after all...🤣
Lol 🤣
*Painfully relatable*
Right?!
"Immature love says: 'I love you because I need you.' Mature love says 'I need you because I love you.' " - Johnny Bravo
Johnny bravo chad
Agree
Says the one with Trump as their pfp
@@psychoweasley5971 so?
Chad don’t have any crushes
I do stuff wrong around everybody, it’s a personality trait
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@@dawlat-i-aliy-i-iran3328
Oh its you, where's OwO?
🤨
Lol
totally
My brave little seal lover, I wish you everlasting happiness and love
"fantasize about your future together"
"Act jealous or possessive"
Damn umm... I've definitely done that with my first love... Not proud of it.
fantasizing is alright, its just don't tell them that
E
same 😭
I only fantasized😹
same i haven;t told them i've fantasize but in my head i have
7 Things You Shouldn't Do Around Your Crush
1. Come on too strongly - 0:21
2. Fantaize about your future together - 0:50
3. Send mixed signals - 1:31
4. Act like you don't care - 1:55
5. Pretend to be someone your're not - 2:23
6. Act jealousy or possessive - 3:00
7. Overthink everything - 3:40
Have a nice day guys❤️
Thanks
Thank U💚
I have actually read somewhere that if you ignore them then they will chase you .
Me hastily looking at this when my crush doesn't even like me
Oof
Same xd
There's always hope
Same lol
Mine calls me his best friend ✋🏽😔
So 7 things you should absolutely do do around your crush
Edit:Jesus christ this is the most likes I have gotten in this amount of time thanks
Uh not really
You should totally do these I never lie totally
Ask them to your room🤭
@@keiron.4612 *DONT*
@@helpy_helper why not haha
Psych2Go: "Don´t act like you don´t care about your crush"
Tsunderes in anime: Ya hear sum?
Lol
It's hard man!!!
Acting like you don’t care will make them chase you more . It’s reverse psychology.
@@silentmaniac3626 That rarely happens man
@Marcel i agree, Some people might think that acting like a tsundere or acting as if you do not care about them is attractive or will make you be jealous and try harder but in reality IT´S SO DAMN ANNOYING Many in reak life guys have confessed that they hate the "Hard to get" thing because that will just make them realize they are wasting they´re precious time. But of course hopeless protagonists in anime love the chase for some reason because they are so freaking dumb.
tsunderes can be cute but for GOD SAKE is so hard to watch them in anime. Just try to act normal, acting that you not care is not attractive or cute or hot. It´s annoying. Just be kind and friendly to them to show them that you do care, that will make your crush like you!
Everyone agrees that
Never ask a woman her age
Never ask a man his salary and
Never ask psych2go it's work ethic
Consistent as always
Yes
Nah I'm asking there age lol
@Not RickRoll 👇 j I see you to much.
@Not RickRoll 👇 j I got rickrolled- BY SOAP
@@asri3l_dreemurr he tryna rick roll us
Planning on asking my crush to homecoming on Friday- I’m terrified he won’t like me back because it’ll ruin our friendship, and potentially make things really awkward because we sit next to each other in a long class, so wish me luck!
Goodluck!
good luck !! ^_^
Remember, the worst thing that can happen is he says no, you won't have to worry about him getting upset at you or spitting at you or whatever it may be, just a simple no thank you. If/When you do end up telling him your feelings, that huge weight would be lifted off your chest, and there is the possibility that he may like you too, so you would only lose in this by not doing anything at all, and if that's the case, then you can imagine just how great it's going to be, keep your chin up
i’m leaving a reply here so whenever someone else replies by friday, i can see what happened. Good luck though!
Don't be afraid about it ruining your friendship, that's not what should happen if they do appreciate your friendship, just don't isolate them just cuz they don't reciprocate
i over think a lot (i have a lot of anxiety) but i’m honestly really proud of myself because i’ve been really brave with my crush recently.
That’s great! Good luck ❤️
In reality why are you insecure about meeting your crush? Their still a person just treat her like Any other person treat her as your friend or best friend If their ok with it you can transcend to the higher relationship just stay calm act like your with your friend
Say the casual
"Hows your day?"
Say
"Whats your favorite color?"
Say
"I hope you have a good day :D"
Have a happy feeling when your around them show them your happy side :D dont be anxious just remember their just a person you admire And when the time is right you can tell them how you feel if you get rejected Dont think too much about it Just move on
Aww great job!
sameeee
So helpful I am so embarrassed to talk to him bc he is always by his friends who are my ENEMIES.
Good luck
Maybe try to embrace them, you may not get along with them now- but, if you get to know them better you could find something you like about them! Heck, he may even like you back for doing stuff like that!
its so weird how...
when I was younger, I thought it was embarrassing being all flustered around my crush, but as I got older, I sort of realized they liked me because they thought it was cute or something.
but who knows
One of the greatest burdens laid upon the male’s shoulders in a lot of heterosexual relationships is being conditioned into hiding almost & possibly sometimes all hints of sadness or depression out of fear that we will be seen as week
UPDATE:I have come to realize & accept that I am bisexual & am now in a loving relationship with an awesome boyfriend but my comment of course still stands for many heterosexual males
I’ve been open about my depression and anxiety with my crush and she’s been very supportive, society’s moving past that norm.
@@heccingcommie4942 Ah how humanity has come so far from being so simple minded & sometimes outright barbaric to a more civilized kinder species
@@panchoandthemule I’ll admit a large portion of our species is certainly still corrupted by the mindset of that old bunch of cave dwelling Homo Sapiens that were our ancestors but we certainly still came very far in terms of civility
@@JOKER_GAMING735 the way you talk if sophisticated, very intellectual
@@blatantmotivation8939 I certainly do my best for the power of convincing has a strong connection to one’s choice of words
"don't pretend to be someone you're not"
But, I'm a cosplayer. It's literally what I do
2. "Fantasize about your future together"
Me fantasazing abt him liking me back:
Lol I do that too.
That's me, 24/7
SAME
1. Don't come off too strong
2. Don't fantasize about your future together and tell them about it
3. Don't send mixed signals
4. Don't act like you don't care
5. Don't pretend to be someone you're not
6. Don't act jealous or possessive
7. Don't overthink everything
I'm devil
@@lukascisar6740 ok
known her for 4 years. she does a lot of previously stated things of "signs that they like you" but I dont wanna ruin our friendship
itll be fine, just give it time. if its meant to be maybe itll just happen, or maybe shell make the first move instead, you dont have to ruin your friendship, itll all work out in the end
This may be easier said than done, but you should ask her out. Don't listen to Birb above. If it's meant to be, that doesn't mean it will happen. If you let nature take its course and not ask her out, she may never make her move because she also is too scared to ask you out. Eventually, you guys would separate and never see each other again. Then you would be thinking, "what if" the rest of your life. If you ask this girl out and she says no, would it ruin the friendship? Depends on how you two handle it, but the reward is very high if you do ask her out, especially after knowing her for 4 years. I may sound corny, but it's my 2 cents. Remember, it's sometimes good to take risks in life. You can do it Joshua.
Eh, I’d just mention it and see what happens. Maybe don’t cite the vid though, might make you seem a bit weird.
@@williamwontiam3166 I mean yeah
Same. Mine has given somewhat mixed signals, I think I’d probably have a chance if I asked her out but I don’t want to risk ruining our friendship because hanging out with her and our other friends has been one of the best things for my mental health in recent months.
I confessed to someone, they said yes, then they said no, and I moved on with my day. Odd how something that seemed so important at first didn’t feel heavy when it didn’t work out. Needless to say, my perception of relationships did change, and no longer seemed important. I actually came out better than I went in, starting focusing on self improvement for my own good, and indulged in some of my hobbies more.
Hey Bunsenn, great job on being honest with your feelings and realizing it no longer feels heavy when it didn't work out. That's growth, acceptance, and self-improvement. Keep it up! :)
I confessefed to someone more than a year ago. They said no. I'm not able to move on and stuck in endless little hopes
their voice is so soothing
Yes
Indeed
Yes
I definitely over think everything. Practically every day. It's hard to get out of the habit too. I guess it doesn't matter much anymore since they're dating someone now, but I still overanalyze everything... I feel like there's something seriously wrong with me.
Nothing wrong with you,you just put too much effort into that one person you begin to wonder if u did a wrong thing,is it wrong to care for other?i dont think so.But you need to focus on your life too,that way you wont overthinking
No, there’s nothing to be ashamed of. It happens. You just have to let go of knowing what people are thinking of you, because you have no control over that. What you can control is what you’re thinking and feeling. And if you do think you made mistakes, accept them as a possibility but never shame them. Just simply learn from them and move on.
On the first crush that I did eventually get into the dating phase with, I overthought so much that I developed a crippling fear of her. I kept avoiding her out of shear reflex, all while dealing with a growing dread as I knew I shouldn't have been doing this. You don't know the wave of relief I felt when she finally broke things off.
“Don’t overthink everything”: me in theater class analyzing how she acted during my performance compared to others to find out if it meant anything
some times reading the comments, seeing guys with something missing in their lives, trying to fill the void with love off a girl and getting depressed, gets me down man, fun times guys,, build yourvnetwork with others who really understand, fun boys fun
Bros before... uh, females who are attractive.
Love and find yourself before loving others
"Just be yourself"
Me: *becomes myself*
Everyone in my life: "Aight Imma head out"
fr :')
I definitely was jealous that he was around girls at camp... then I realized with my supportive friends that I'm just overthinking and that I don't own him. He has his free will and I'm going to respect that. I felt at ease and stated talking to him normally again.😁
Her: **lists up to number 6**
"Wow, I should be good!"
Also her: "And number 7, don't over think everything..."
Me:"Oh..."
This channel helps people way more than school counseling every has.
Facts
I will do whatever I want, just being myself. If my crush doesn't like me back - well, he's not for me :)
Well it's not problem at all, but this video help what do you do to show your best
someone who wants to talk abt our crushes and share experiences lol
Lol uhh I can tell you a short summary of what's happening with me at the moment. So I worked at this one job at the beginning of the year and so was this girl. I work there for atleast 6 months and she works for atleast 5. Over the course of 5 month of her and me working there, this girl has developed feelings and would share every details of me to her friends when she gets off for work. During those 5 months, our coworkers, a group of 6 people usually would go bowling every 2 weeks and she would come join us. She a very shy person but she actually came when we asked her to. The first time she came was because we asked her to,, and the rest of the 8 or 7 times, was because of maybe me. Anyways, It wasn't untill the day of August 7th where she told me she has to move to Colorado, a state in the US, for college. And during that night of bowling and coming back home at 3am, she confessed and said that she wanted to say that she had like me ever since we met and she would get mad and regret if she doesn't say anything and that she's been feeling this way for 5 months. It was strange because I started developing feelings around the same time she did. Even when we're bowling, the sole reason of me going every late night bowling was to see her and be with her for as long as I can. Anyways fast forward to the last dayt was August 13th before she actually moves to Colorado, I told her that we meeting, going on last minute dates, hugging and kissing (lol) and starting something like relationship might not work. Long distance relationship is hard to keep up. I told her that I felt sad about it. And she said she understand that too. So yeah ....she moved and about the start of September, I wanted to risk the long relationship situation and hence forth, I asked her to be my gf but she said she doesn't want to do long distance. I knew that would be her answer so I didn't expect much but still feels like a rejection in a way lol. Oh well, but currently after telling her that, we've been talking here and there and much less than before she moved. Maybe because of college or maybe something else but ya know how it is. Lol. But yes that is my situation and my summer crush. Aha.
@@mikeYXiong Damn that sucks. Hope you feel better though!
@@Who-kq7od oh I feel good aha, I've just been doing stuff to get my mind off. Thanks for the positive word :)
@@mikeYXiong That's good! Take care
@@fabianaalessia2532 I would like to aha
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100% soothing narrator
100% cute chibi marshmallows
100% psych2go deserve a 10 million subscribers 😍✨✨
Aww thank you :)
0:22 - Come on too strong
0:51 - Fantasise about your future together
1:34 - Send mixed signals
1:56 - Act like you dont care
2:25 - Pretend to be someone you're not 3:00 - Act jealous or possesive
3:44 - Overthink everything
I do them bevause I have been diagnosed with relationship ocd. Me and him are working out things finally, (hopefully)! :) I'm in love with him In a situationship rather having a crush on him too.
@@odessawales i hope things go well and everything gets better, best wishes !!
I like the supressed pain in the "yeah we've all been there"
Okay,every art style they use and draw is so cute and adorable!
Number 1 thing you should do before approaching your crush:
Smell good! I mean, make sure your breath does not stink and have a nice smelling perfume.
Number 7 is pretty much my entire mind. When I'm interested in someone I tend to review the interactions with her to figure out how it went. I think it's because I'm a programmer and analyse things for a living. Also, I think, because I still want to try to make progress, but can't do so without her there, I start running over every detail and trying to prepare for the next encounter.
Thank you for teaching me this❤️❤️❤️
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@Not RickRoll 👇 j Totally now 😂🙏🏽
A few of these were in fact my high school regrets back when I was an unstable teenager in the process of waking up to the real world.
But those regrets have helped, in a good way, to shape the way I am today and I don't regret that one bit.
That’s a great mindset!
Overthinking is literally the only thing stopping me from embarrassing myself or hurting somebody with my words. Obviously they can take it the wrong way in any situation and as a over thinker I don’t want that to ever happen.
I do not have a crush, but I'm actually seouriusly in love with my best friend. I don't want tk describe it as a crush though, cause it's not. It's more than that. I literally cobfessed and got friend zoned, now I'm trying to move on, but it's quite hard. However, i'll move on like I moved on with everything bad happened to me. I'm overstressed with some things that are happening to me in this period of my life, so I decided to take a social break for some time.
I also like my friend, she doesn’t know yet but I think she might like me a little bit. How did you confess?
stay strong big guy
@@Ghostly.... well actually, he said something really strange like "would you ever date one of your friends?" so I literally asked him if he liked me, and he didn't answer. Instead, he asked me back, so that's pretty much what happened lol
@@panchoandthemule lol I know, thank you, I started laughing casually and now everyone's looking at me lol
A social break and time for yourself is a great decision. Sometimes we need to find and love ourselves before approaching others
its really hard to not try to be someone when your depressed your crush is like your Highest chance of hope in life where that hope can make your life better but the feeling of being worthless or hopeless and criticizing yourself its almost impossible to not try to be someone else you're not because you hate your life, you don't want to die but you would rather have a different life where you're always happy.
She’s right about everything. Good advice.
I’ve never clicked so fast in my life.
yup
ay, that number 7 is straight up impossible, but thanks for the video, your voice is probably the most relaxing sound in human history.
Happy birthday Amanda!!! Your voice makes me feel so much calmer❤️❤️
Dude i cant stress this enough but,, YOUR CHANNEL IS AWESOME! you upload regularly and thats awesome!!!!
I really love this channel. Thank you for all your videos. They’ve helped me so much.
Thank you for watching!
Even though I’m not pursuing for the right one at the moment, I’m gonna watch this video just so I’ll remember it for the future. Hopefully by then, I won’t be too too shy of a person to talk to my love interest, once I do ent up meeting the right one in the future haha. Thanks for these videos about love Psych2Go! Also, I think the overthinking part might be something I sometimes do. Even if it’s not with the crushes I’ve had, I tend to overthink about some things. Usually, I listen to some calming music if I was stressed, or overthinking stuff
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Thanks for sharing your method of dealing with overthinking!
@@Psych2go You’re welcome! I’ve been really fond of hearing ambiances, as well as calming music, like jazz music. So even then, I think I’ll always be able to relax if I overthink things in life
You guys need to make more of these crush-related vids so I can relate, panic, and converse with the comment section.
psych2go you guys are on fire... two videos in the same week !!!. I don't know about anyone else but these were required by me quite a lot. So thank you so so much for this :)
my crush is one of my only friends and i think she indeed does like me (yes, she already told me) but i dont think neither of us are actually looking for a relationship yet, overral were still pretty young
I'm an indian and my family still believes in superstitions and according to them you can't marry a girl different from your own caste. This system hit me hard when I thought about it and I had to leave my crush cuz she was from different caste. Cuz I don't want to be bf - gf and then at last get separated and be sad throughout our life, thanks for reading this till now❤️
@@panchoandthemule Yeah nowadays this caste system is getting lesser and lesser popular. People are moving in the right direction by not believing this caste system.
thank you so much. that last clip of the little guy walking around in circles overthinking every detail and interaction looked EXACTLY like me. When he responded late I used to rethink my entire life choices and even tried to test him to see if he was really interested in conversation with me. It didn’t feel right or natural after i gave in and sent the first text, knowing he probably didn’t think about it all, was a little confused, or maybe felt like I was giving mixed signals (I always text first, wether it’s a good morning text or a what are you up to text-before we jump into conversations).
I used to get so caught up creating stories in my head that I forgot to put my feet in ground and be in the present as my own person.
what I'm getting from this is be comfortable, normal and be yourself at the moment, yes you can improve to be something you wanna be but you can't act a certain way you're not, you have to practice being that person for so long that it comes naturally to you .
I do 2 and 7 sometimes but honestly that’s less than what I was expecting 😂
Me being Asexual: Yeah this video is not actually for me...but...
I'll watch it!😁✌
You might be Aromantic bc asexuals can still love ppl
@@ivythealiencat thats what i was about to say!
are u even asexual lmao
Hmmm, probably romantic asexual.
I can't tell whether I'm ace/demi or anxious-avoidant
You always have the perfect timing. But this video really helped. Thanks :)
Here's something that I've learned that is kinda similar to number 7, any time that I would think and think and think, I'd mess up in some way (and my worst fear is public embarrassment so you can imagine how cruddy I feel when I mess up) so I learned to just relax and go with the flow.
Remember, it's just a bad day, not a bad life. Keep smiling everyone :)
Me without a crush: *eh, I'll watch this anyway*
Could you do a video on crushes to avoid, except the types of people who’s crushing on you?
Like, how to tell if someone who likes you is actually toxic, or expressing it in a toxic way.
Don’t overthink things. A piece of advice that’s often easier said than done, but this applies to so many aspects in life.
Watching this because no crush: ✗
Watching this to give friends an advice: ✓
WOW
Lol
u r the first comment omg
Wow!
@@Psych2go HIII
@@Psych2go I love your videosss
Your drawing style is so cute! :)
Stuff to not do around your crush:
*give them up*
*let them down*
*turn around*
*desert them*
Yeah I embarrass myself all the time infront of her but I think she still kinda likes me lol
If she likes u even after u embarrass urself, marry her
@@user-ux1qi1dp8n chill I’m only 14 😂
But yeah I should make a move silly me
Psy and Lily are so cute together :D
ALSO CRUMB CAT AT 3:44 SPOTTED
Been binging videos all weekend and I just need to get this out somewhere to gather my thoughts TvT
So I started liking this guy who’s been in my classes for a year now, but I never noticed him until this year. Despite never making the first move usually, I was able to start speaking to him more.
This Friday past he found out I like him but was completely cool about it when I texted him about it. However, I’m still worried it's going to be awkward in class when I see him T.T
On an unrelated note watching all these videos again has helped me relax with the narrator's voice! Thank you for calming and informative uploads :D
Edit: Wording
well I'm glad we had a channel like y'all in the public, I actually got heart broken 😆😆😢😢😢and suffered depression 😧😧😧
@@panchoandthemule ???
"hiding the way you feel is one thing, but to ignore, criticize, or disrespect someone just because you can't deal with your feelings for them is completely unacceptable"
tsunderes: *and i took that personally*
IK THIS IS NOT THE POINT OF THE VIDEO BUT DID ANYONE SAW CRUMB AT 3:49
I did ✋🏼
@@Loto_Macaroni YESSIR
Ur videos help me a lot! Thanks!!
Cant wait to see him!!☺️
This is exactly the video I needed. Thanks :)
Time stamps:
1: Come on too strong
2: Fantasise about your future together
3: Send mixed signals
4: Act like you don’t care
5: Pretend to be someone you’re not
6: Act jealous or possessive
7: Overthink everything
Hope you don’t show any of these signs! If you do, make sure to try fix it. You got this! I believe in you!
I don't do any of these things but yeesh they sound like something I do
You should add the time stamps.
missing the genshin impact references 💔
Not every vid has references sadly but there are some with them
EW 🤮🤮🤮 HELL NO STFU
Great video! But I have anxiety, overthinking is the only way for me
I for sure need to watch this
Your voice is so calming. Amazing Voice ❤️
Thank you you don’t know how much this helps I also saw that I was doing some of these things before so ima make sure I don’t do it again
Amanda’s voice is so calming
Thank you for this, it was very informative.
all i want to say is I Love You and keep making these videos. thanks💚
Ok, first off, can we just appreciate the ART STYLE??
Some of these are easier said than done (or not done), but every single one is true.
Thank you so much Psych2go for making this video. No.6 and No.7 is the problem with me but I'm looking forward to fix myself.
I am really embarrassed of everything i did infront of my crush. But i didn't know why i keep on doing these things, even after hours of self persuation...why means why..hella why
On the first note I love this channel,
On the second I'm worried about 3 and 4 like I can't even make eye contact much or walk beside her.
Thank you!
yup, I did all the list to a single person, no need to explain the friendship broke.
I've really been anticipating to have a crush recently and now that i do, i might have been a little bit too much in love with the idea... i only want both to be well tho so i'm using that passion to be brave and straightforward instead of too clingy too soon!!
Thanks, this helped a lot.
The video we didn't deserve but the one which we needed .
maybe one of the reasons why my crush didn't like me back was I was stalking him alot in games and i often get jealous when he plays with a certain person :\
Definitely relate, definitely know better now ☺️
Your Voice is just relaxing
I loveddd dis artstyleee so muchhh
Number 7 has been AN INSANE PROBLEM FOR ME