6 Signs He’s Got a Super Crush on You | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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  • Mat Boggs shares dating advice for women and 6 signs that your love interest has got a MAJOR crush on you ;-)
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  • @matboggs
    @matboggs  ปีที่แล้ว +7

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    • @karelglasner2673
      @karelglasner2673 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Was that you Mat Boggs peacocking B4 that woman? 😂 you've definitely got the moves!

  • @lilchicken93
    @lilchicken93 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3509

    This sounds weird but when I REALLY like a guy I actually have trouble looking at him or being close to him cuz I feel like he'll see everything if he looks into my eyes

    • @aakamyhrs863
      @aakamyhrs863 5 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      Nonya Biz story of my life. I think I drove one away and it hurts.

    • @Makeupandfashion-l2q
      @Makeupandfashion-l2q 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Yeah, me too !

    • @amandacon854
      @amandacon854 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Same

    • @Xtina2525
      @Xtina2525 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      YES exactly!!

    • @nofybn7794
      @nofybn7794 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Same.

  • @Sarah-bk4px
    @Sarah-bk4px 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1524

    When I REALLY like a guy
    1. I avoid eye contact as I feel like if I make eye contact everything will be exposed
    2. I get tongue tied, my mind goes blank I can't answer or ask questions
    3. I get very clumsy

    • @afifah3602
      @afifah3602 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Wtfff it’s crazy how much I can relate to this😭

    • @Thesilentqueen82
      @Thesilentqueen82 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Omg im in this situation right now 😩🙈 it's been a while i feel really awkward and don't know how to act around him because im so scared he gonna know that i really like him 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈

    • @devikathummala5175
      @devikathummala5175 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yo that's completely me

    • @rowenaramsaran6568
      @rowenaramsaran6568 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yeah me too😄🙈🙈🙈

    • @shandell1008
      @shandell1008 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sameee

  • @jackie6091
    @jackie6091 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1727

    That little boy making a human bridge for the girl! My heart!! 💓💓

    • @colby8702
      @colby8702 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      That was very cute.

    • @MsFitVegan
      @MsFitVegan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Jackie Mwanza I legit just wrote the exact same comment lol ❤️😭❤️

    • @a.christian6003
      @a.christian6003 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I've seen that vid before. Japanese siblings I think . cute indeed 😇

    • @rosalee1198
      @rosalee1198 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      That was my first time ever seeing that video.... My hands were on my face the whole time, lol. Omg that was ADORABLE!!!!!

    • @MsRutene
      @MsRutene 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Aw ❤

  • @mariefredriksson1619
    @mariefredriksson1619 4 ปีที่แล้ว +376

    When I got a crush on someone, I look for him when he's not around and play aloof when he's present. weird I know..no wonder I'm still single.

  • @Guchee420
    @Guchee420 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2188

    Single asf but still watchin' these kinds of videos.......lol

    • @Bakerygo
      @Bakerygo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      In a relationship as fuck (11 years) still watching this kind of videos.

    • @mandydl8688
      @mandydl8688 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Bakerygo lol. I wish I was your friend 😂😂😂

    • @LoveLaughLin
      @LoveLaughLin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same😂

    • @redgirlt
      @redgirlt 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol

    • @bethlikesstuff9011
      @bethlikesstuff9011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sammmmeeee

  • @maix139
    @maix139 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1056

    The old me: avoid my crush at all cost...do not talk or look him in the eye or I will not know what to do haha
    The new me: compliment him and make an effort/excuse to be near him (creepy stalker mode) haha

    • @aminahchimpinde9256
      @aminahchimpinde9256 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I am still doing the same

    • @nobodyv9983
      @nobodyv9983 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Thats me but reverse.
      The old me: tried to be with my crush and compliment him all the time. Jokes around with him.
      The new me: Avoids him like the plague can even look straight at him, gets akward around him.
      Whats wrong with me?

    • @yogaflame4128
      @yogaflame4128 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      maikor3 lmao

    • @anglmus
      @anglmus 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Lol I’m still like this, avoid the guy I like, like the plague cause I’m just so awkward and can’t think normally

    • @kenziesekoni5766
      @kenziesekoni5766 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      omg this is me😂😂 i’ve gotten so comfortable

  • @sandrastefani1668
    @sandrastefani1668 3 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    For me, as I get older I just want honesty and no games. One guy I dated was not shy in showing me he was interested. I had said to him you certainly are not subtle and his reply was subtlety can be confusing. I loved that!

  • @Alina-pf3ob
    @Alina-pf3ob 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    WHEN I HAVE A CRUSH:
    1.ALWAYS SMILE AT HIM
    2.STARING WHEN HE IS NOT SEEING
    3.BEING NEAR HIM
    4.SOMETIMES IGNORE OR AVOID HIM.
    5.TOUCHING MY HAIR, NECKLESS.

  • @lisasunshine7654
    @lisasunshine7654 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1237

    He tries to impress you with his skills.
    He tries to help you.
    He tries to get close to you.
    He is at a loss for words after he kisses you.
    He wants private time with you.
    He sacrifices for you.
    I can see these signs now looking back. #Iwastoodense 😐

    • @everything5066
      @everything5066 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I love u for this

    • @MrsQuietMusic
      @MrsQuietMusic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I have never experienced any of that. I am 40. My first crush was when I was 17. Never talked with him. I have never had a crush in anyone else.

    • @lilmissdoctor
      @lilmissdoctor 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same girl, same

    • @remalewis6675
      @remalewis6675 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why would u put that there whats the point of watching it if you gonna put list

    • @lorydecker5393
      @lorydecker5393 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lisa Sunshine 7

  • @tonewilhelmsen2425
    @tonewilhelmsen2425 5 ปีที่แล้ว +297

    If I have a crush on a guy, I get shy, stressed and unsecure. Otherwise I would talk to men as I do with women, with no problems.

    • @tonewilhelmsen2425
      @tonewilhelmsen2425 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Eddy Lockhart Thank You so much for Your reply! Really good to know💕. I just have to give it time, and if it is a real man, he can get passed that. I will try to work on the insecure bit. My smile, is good, I think 🙂🙂 (and I smile a lot). I feel better now.

  • @beckyharper6263
    @beckyharper6263 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    The little boy making a bridge for the little girl, melted my heart!♥️

    • @TaraHower
      @TaraHower 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I cried watching that. So pure

  • @PaolaBarrientos
    @PaolaBarrientos 5 ปีที่แล้ว +205

    I dress to impress but then when I see him I get super shy, nervous and keep my distance. 🥺😱

  • @pixielust9385
    @pixielust9385 4 ปีที่แล้ว +426

    You realise that most people watching this probably haven't kissed their crush yet or they wouldn't be here looking for clues if they had lmao

    • @LulluNatic
      @LulluNatic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Reminds me of another is he interested video : if he fixes your bra strap, he is interested. If he offers you presents, he is interested. Oh really Captain Obvious ??! ^^

    • @singlechickprepping5013
      @singlechickprepping5013 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep

    • @samanthathompson9812
      @samanthathompson9812 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly

    • @patriciaholloway
      @patriciaholloway 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yeah, I could pretty much figure if I'm getting kissed he's into me!!!!

    • @mariasosin2259
      @mariasosin2259 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So not true xD

  • @anglmus
    @anglmus 5 ปีที่แล้ว +263

    This is depressing:
    1. No guy has ever done any of these for me
    2. I got my first kiss at 26, that little boy got more game than me!

    • @Makeupandfashion-l2q
      @Makeupandfashion-l2q 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      26 and still haven't gotten my first kiss yet! 😂😂

    • @anglmus
      @anglmus 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lol my first reaction was ”WTF?!?!?!” Wasn’t that great

    • @Dany-nt6dn
      @Dany-nt6dn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm 22 and i haven't gave my first kiss soo, don't feel alone.

    • @nofybn7794
      @nofybn7794 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Jose Lino That isn't what she wants, bud. RESPECT. Perv.

    • @angeliquecherishclaudettep3194
      @angeliquecherishclaudettep3194 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      30 and I never experienced a romantic date ever

  • @InspireVation
    @InspireVation 5 ปีที่แล้ว +309

    when I crush on a guy, I tend to compliment him. When i compliment his looks, it means I am into him. I never compliment a guys look no matter how handsome he is if I am not into him.

    • @sayounara1232
      @sayounara1232 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      SAME OMG LIKE SAME and also I am always sweet and compliment him and his looks

    • @madikat9021
      @madikat9021 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Vee Dinma Yeah straight facts

    • @Mae-rr5ye
      @Mae-rr5ye 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lol I compliment everyone and then get compliment shy around guys I like ugh 😫 it's so annoying haha but good thing I'm a people person

    • @marylynngriffin2876
      @marylynngriffin2876 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      omg. I just told my crush he's handsome. Never did that before. cray. he always gives me and only me these awesome compliments in front of people. So I finally returned it. But not in front of anyone! But the truth is men don't like to be chased!! But a compliment and some giggles is not really chasing.

    • @summerreign9620
      @summerreign9620 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm here wondering when did I type this😭

  • @BusyBrainyBody
    @BusyBrainyBody 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Wait for it- when the lil’ boy made the bridge for the lil’ girl I cried. Still crying. Is this kind of love even possible as adults?!

    • @AntoanetaStancu
      @AntoanetaStancu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Mmm... could be.. if it's possible as kids... why not?

    • @greenefroggy8223
      @greenefroggy8223 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't want to lose hope yet

  • @WanSyazlina
    @WanSyazlina 5 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    I would usually hide from my crush and avoid him. 😅 Does anyone else do this...

    • @rea00000
      @rea00000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Me!!!

    • @maix139
      @maix139 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That was the old me lol but now I try to get to know him, compliments him a lot, and ask for his help. After he helps me I say "Thank you" to show my appreciation haha :D

    • @WanSyazlina
      @WanSyazlina 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@maix139 yes. Sometimes I'm too nervous to say hi or be friendly towards him because then what if he doesn't like me back. Haha ignorance is bliss 😅

    • @maix139
      @maix139 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@WanSyazlina if he ignores you then he is n asshole that don't deserve you lol you never know until you try 😉

    • @aminahchimpinde9256
      @aminahchimpinde9256 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I do that Syasya you are not alone I run away from him

  • @safiahnd488
    @safiahnd488 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The video summary:
    1) He Tries to impress you with his skills ...
    2) He tried to help you
    3) he tries to get close to you
    4) he might be in a lost of words after you kiss.
    5) he wants Private time with you
    6) he will sacrifice for you
    ❤️

  • @Mira20153
    @Mira20153 5 ปีที่แล้ว +342

    Omg! Your wife and you are so blessed with this little lady! 😍 Bella - you rock! 🐞🐞🐞 Super cute video and helpful tips - thank you, Mat!

  • @gioovannabp
    @gioovannabp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    The way she says Miguel makes my heart warm 💕 hope he is indeed her prince

  • @judygraessle7358
    @judygraessle7358 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Protect his reputation. Ease his burdens. Pray for him. Want to be near him. Want to be a better person. Laughter rather from being joyful and humbled or nervous. Love to hear his stories. Amused by his skills, abilities, mindfulness, knowledge of facts and natural or achieved talents. Amazed by how hard he tries to impress me when he had me at "hello".

  • @ShelleyG1014
    @ShelleyG1014 5 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I love the spin you did on this with children and showing how we start super early!
    I hang on their words when I have a crush on them.

    • @jamesmayo8536
      @jamesmayo8536 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks ,I see.

    • @TaniceS
      @TaniceS 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And how we remain the same as adults.

  • @10fingersmusic23
    @10fingersmusic23 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I agree. I tend to get nervous and scared that when I'm looking at him, he might see me looking back. My fear is that everyone else will see that I like him. I tend to be able to talk to men I just think of as friends. I've been trying to let him know more by my actions how I feel.

  • @open2417
    @open2417 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I’m 48 and have had a crush on my best guy friend since we were in 7th grade together. We are still besties and spend time together regularly. I was married for 14 years and divorced in 2010. He supported and protected me during the marriage and after. My ex was a psycho. Since the divorce we’ve been intimate a number of times and have expressed that we love each other, but haven’t taken the steps to a relationship due to other life obligations and fear of how a relationship could change our friendship for the worse. (I know, sounds crazy. Lol)
    We spend time with each other every weekend with our close friend group. He does ALL the things in this video. 😂 I have a super crush on him, so I avoid eye contact unless he says something to me…my heart just races too much. Lol. When he talks or impresses me I just smile like crazy and try to think of what to say. It’s funny because we have shared and know EVERYTHING about one another. But we still get extremely nervous around each other. Super crunch!❤️

  • @zechariah4663
    @zechariah4663 5 ปีที่แล้ว +254

    Matt, you have outdone yourself again. I love the sweet, funny moments that you captured in the clips. Thank you for your encouragement, still praying and working on myself so very much want to be in a loving sincere lifelong relationship.

    • @zechariah4663
      @zechariah4663 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Eddy Lockhart
      Enjoying my feminity, maintaining healthy boundaries, advancing my career and exploring another career that compliments my 1st career.
      Why do you ask?

    • @zechariah4663
      @zechariah4663 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Eddy Lockhart
      Thanks Eddy!

  • @LyrasRaven
    @LyrasRaven 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Sign i have a crush on you: I’ll always be taking peeks at you if we’re having a group conversation. Like I don’t care what others say, I’m just waiting to hear what your reaction is to whoever is talking.

  • @greenapples9293
    @greenapples9293 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    When I have a crush on someone I make eye contact a lot, and I listen intently to what they say.

    • @lisaward60
      @lisaward60 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too,my crush stares back

    • @hilo5901
      @hilo5901 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes that happened tonight. No words. Only feelings of attraction and desire and longing. God, I want to kiss him so bad! 🙀

  • @miralieshikawa8040
    @miralieshikawa8040 4 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    for me , the less i like a guy the easier it is! i can to from casual to flirty with no problem watsoever. but the more i like him the more i just can't. do. anything. normal.

    • @lialy3071
      @lialy3071 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      fr me too😭😭😢

    • @longdogt6724
      @longdogt6724 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too!🥴

  • @anawonka
    @anawonka 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I become panicky and rush doing things i also sweat alot near crush i get so nervous i smile and grin alot. I smell my best expensive perfume near my crush

  • @footyfan101ful
    @footyfan101ful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The 2 kids on the stairs was soooooo cute!! The pure innocence of kids.

  • @Natketty
    @Natketty 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Matt, I am so grateful to your channel! It is so different than most relationship channels that relies on cheap manipulation to get the guy (but usually are very nasty behavior for long term relationships). And I can say your advice about communication even helped me with my relationship with my mom sometimes, about how to ask nicely for a change of behavior. Great content and great channel. Than you so much for all the great advice!

  • @kmsonja
    @kmsonja 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’ve only had one crush, and I’ve had a crush on him for like four years and right now we’re just best friends

  • @michelleparker1858
    @michelleparker1858 5 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    The video was cute from beginning to end, I never thought kids would be this way! It is curious to learn a man actually re-does actions he did when he was a kid to show his girl he likes her :)

  • @GLamoRousCooKie
    @GLamoRousCooKie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I might be crushing on someone right now but it's your little girl that really stole my heart. She's so precious. ❤️

  • @kimberlyclark6326
    @kimberlyclark6326 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I, definitely, have a crush on this guy. He's a CEO at this Company I was doing business with, and he was asked to drive me home, since I had to leave my car at the very near garage for some work. Arriving at my house, there were fireworks going off inside the car. I had to get out...very fast. Whenever I see him, our gaze is just a little bit long...lol. Can hardly wait to see if he's gonna do anything about it.

    • @smilebigiloveyou
      @smilebigiloveyou 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Soooo did he do anything about it?

  • @akilahross4602
    @akilahross4602 5 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    Tomorrow
    I’m telling my crush i like him...wish me luck!

    • @gabrielleeeSK
      @gabrielleeeSK 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      How'd it go?

    • @akilahross4602
      @akilahross4602 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      He let me down gently...the thing is he’s in my friend group and he says he simply sees me as a friend....

    • @gabrielleeeSK
      @gabrielleeeSK 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@akilahross4602 awww Im so sorry. But you can do better than him, he doesn't deserve you ❤

    • @akilahross4602
      @akilahross4602 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Awe thanks! 😘

    • @kaygee2277
      @kaygee2277 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@akilahross4602 check out Mimi Tanner's program "Hard to Get." GEMS!

  • @kaydencemccluskey6814
    @kaydencemccluskey6814 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I usually stare at him a lot and I’m almost always smiling or laughing around him

  • @shakingbirdart
    @shakingbirdart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I have a type of autism, so my romantic centers developed really late. My first and only real crush didn't hit me until 19! I think another thing women do when they're crushing on guys, is to emphasize how masculine the guy is to them. Like, "Oh, it must be so great to be that strong," or "I wish I was tall enough to reach that," or "Wow, your hands are so much bigger than mine!"

  • @Holistretch
    @Holistretch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    😂😂😂 that kid dancing omg! 😍🥰 and the little kids kissing?!! These are some of the most adorable videos I’ve ever seen, ever.

  • @SuperPiedpiper
    @SuperPiedpiper 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    I ignore the heck out of him until he makes the first move :)

    • @jayamilapersson4030
      @jayamilapersson4030 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      WHY?

    • @QueenBee007
      @QueenBee007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      There is nothing as sad as unexpressed love and unreciprocated love.

    • @nakiyacooke8840
      @nakiyacooke8840 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯🤷

    • @chrysichrysi7889
      @chrysichrysi7889 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Omg same!! 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm not chasing or "obsessing" over sh*t anymore. My stance on this now is: "You want me? That's nice. You don't? Then get the f*#$ off of my radar."
      I just want to take my emotional intelligence to rhe next higher level by being able to read/recognize the signs guys send sooner and much better so that I don't always feel like a complete
      idiot.😌😌😁😁😄

    • @mikasa2748
      @mikasa2748 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah I do this too... for five years actually 😏
      Oh... that’s why I’m still single 😐

  • @JJ-yu6og
    @JJ-yu6og 5 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    That boy at 6:54 is THE epitome of what a REAL man does. Take notes, men!👍

  • @lauralogue602
    @lauralogue602 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Okay gents, I currently have a massive crush on a guy from my church. Here's what I've been doing to get his attention or to show my attraction.
    1.) Going around him. Sitting near him during Sunday morning service. Sitting next to him at small group Bible study... whatever I can do to just be near him. I enjoy being around him. He gives me butterflies but also makes me feel safe. I know if I needed something he would be there for me.
    2.) Smiling. This is what I did when I first realized I was attracted to him. I started smiling at him more, and when I mean smiling, I really mean smiling. I can't keep my face from lighting up when I see him. I smile really big and let the corners of my eyes crinkle. I probably blush too.
    3.) Eye contact. Goes along with smiling but it's worth noting in it's own point because the more I've gotten to know him and my initial attraction has grown to a full blown crush, the more I've tried to make and hold eye contact, which, of course, then I eye flirt by looking down and then back up, and probably blush more.
    4.) Peacocking, gussying up, preaning, whatever you want to call it. I've been putting A LOT of effort into my wardrobe, hair and makeup since I realized I was attracted to him. I mean ALOT. I barely wore makeup before, though I enjoy doing it, and never did my nails. Now I redo them every two days and try to look gorgeous if I know he's going to be at an event... or even if he MIGHT be at an event. I've been curling my hair, wearing heals, and carefully matching my accessories. All of these things help me feel more confident and put together, which gives me the courage to flirt with him.
    5.) Nervous body language. This happens mostly during Bible study when he's nearby, but I find myself nervously fidgeting, playing with my pen, my bracelet, my hair, etc. Bouncing my leg, shifting my position, mirroring his movements and position.
    6.) Texting. So I try not to text him too much, but I do text him a funny meme now and then, or ask him a question. When I really want to text him but feel I've already texted him too much for that day or even two days, I'll group text our whole small group.
    7.) Disclosure. When we do talk, besides the usual getting to know you chit chat, I tell him things I'm mildly embarrassed about, like how I'm afraid of heights, and love Sci-Fi.
    8.) Emojis. I try not to use them too much during texting, but I use the little blushing and smiling ones the most to give some kind of indication what my facial expression would be like if we were together in person.
    9.) Complimenting him. I find any excuse to compliment the character traits I admire in him, and express gratitude for any type of service he does for me or one of our friends.
    10.) I have not broken the touch barrier with him, yet, but I feel that's the next step and will do so by resting my hand on his forearm for a couple of secnds. I have unconsciously bumped my foot with his before and touched his fingers when passing an item to him. That wasn't done conciously, though, so I'm not sure it counts. The nervous body language is half subconscious and I counted it so... I guess you guys decide!

  • @mandybrian025
    @mandybrian025 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow! Thanks for this video Matt. One of the best yet. And Bella made the icing on the cake. 😚
    Signs I have a crush on a guy.
    1. I am always checking him out online. Borderline stalkerish. I don't bother if he gets notified that I checked. In fact, I want him to know.
    2. I always find out what he likes and do them. Hair, clothing, whatever.
    3. I am guilty of trying to change myself to fit his "ideal" woman criteria
    4. Always try to get his attention. (Yeah, am one of those) I remember walking back and forth in front of his office building 😄
    5. Always getting his friends to chat about him so they tell him I asked.
    (So, yeah. Am crazy like that)
    😁😁😁

  • @eftsoulpath333
    @eftsoulpath333 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love thinking about him. I feel all warm inside. I feel so grateful. I never thought it would happen to me again

  • @Elismama8214
    @Elismama8214 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    The little boy first kiss 😍😍

  • @Bridgets524
    @Bridgets524 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I keep wanting to reach out all the time, it's hard for me to hold back but i don't want to smother or come across as needy! I keep looking him dead in the eyes, they seem to react to that.
    Your daughter is just adorable!!

  • @thetaraparker
    @thetaraparker 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Isabella is so precious. "He's my faaaaaavorite!"

  • @elissarauch4783
    @elissarauch4783 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When you really like a guy you are supposed to be very supportive in what they are doing for work and encourage them that you will be there for them in their down time.

  • @karrygisborne818
    @karrygisborne818 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Awwww 🥰!! That was the sweetest, loveliest, most innocent intro to a video I have ever seen!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
    Kisses to sweet Bella and good luck with her boys! 😁
    Oh! I forgot the video was yours! Thank you for the advices, but I guess I will follow Bella’s! 😄

  • @cyclingonplants7444
    @cyclingonplants7444 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Oh my goodness - this was just so precious! these clips were awesome! Brought me back to some childhood times when I had a crush on someone 🥰I tend to want to talk to them a lot when I have a crush and look at them going about their life.

  • @donaDsejdiu793
    @donaDsejdiu793 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I had my first crush in primary school.Usually when a girl has a crush on a guy she smiles a lot.

  • @noemigonzalez1264
    @noemigonzalez1264 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pure, Innocent, , generous, loving hearts ..why do human beings need to change again ??
    They made my day every day(retired pediatric nurse) I miss them so much

  • @MyLifebyJuliaIRL
    @MyLifebyJuliaIRL 5 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    those kids were so cute to watch

  • @azado237
    @azado237 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When I'm crushing on someone I'm really fucking shy about it but I will be constantly happy and smiling when he's around and acknowledging me, and trying to talk to him when I can.

  • @corinabizzell6299
    @corinabizzell6299 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    The clips are adorable and so good. Thank you

  • @shinylittlepeople
    @shinylittlepeople 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When I have a crush on a guy I make extra food for him and drop it off to his house. I give him compliments, I smile a lot and I get really excited and interested in the things he is doing in his life. I also offer my help but I notice that they like to offer help too so I let them have that one because it feels good to have him WANT to do things for me. I actually kissed my crush today for the first time. We have been hanging out and texting a lot. He says stuff like "We need more hugs" and "I love our hugs" So when we spent some time together today and we were hugging goodbye we locked eyes and I went in for one. His kids were in the house so we left it at that. and he whispered "we need more of those" :)

    • @BlueCherryNice
      @BlueCherryNice 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ahhh thats so cute! ❤ I hope it will all work out for you ^^

    • @vickief.6680
      @vickief.6680 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sounds so very sweet! Good luck!

  • @kingaderzsi7535
    @kingaderzsi7535 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Omg! Best video ever 😂😂😂😍😍😍 Now I am sure, he has a crush on me . I always knew it

  • @rebeccaBGroup
    @rebeccaBGroup 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Cutest video of yours I've ever seen. Fabulous job Mat, and team. I laughed a lot. You should get a medal on this one, or at least a gold star. I've been watching your videos for about 3 years, and recommending them to my friends.

  • @katerynayegorova5088
    @katerynayegorova5088 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    AWESOME VIDEO! So cute, funny and at the same time informative! Thanks, Matt!

  • @cathrynalst1577
    @cathrynalst1577 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I avoid him like a plague, l dont even make eye contact. l have resigned to the fact that l will die single.

  • @isabelmejia2431
    @isabelmejia2431 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Lol that lil man got swaaaaaaag! ! Check out those dance moves :D

    • @topofmindwithterri
      @topofmindwithterri 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I haven't laughed so hard as I did watching the kid with the dance moves! Thankfully everyone at work thinks I'm crazy anyway. LOL

  • @marissasharp9892
    @marissasharp9892 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Omg, the clips of the kids were just too cute! 😂 The two kids on the stairs that laughed and scrambled away when Mom came out, LOLOL!!! 😂 I’m 41, and my mom would probably STILL give a guy that look, LOL! 🤣 The little boy describing his first kiss, LOLOL! 😂 Matt proved my point! You guys act all macho and confident, but you’re sweet little boys inside that just want to impress us with your awesome dance moves, LOL! 😂 Loved this! ❤

  • @maryreynolds6451
    @maryreynolds6451 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    When I have a crush on a guy I laugh and smile alot with him. I look at him half the time out of the corner of my eyes. And I lean in close to talk to him. And I pay extra attention to getting him to talk about his interests.

  • @nurarich4945
    @nurarich4945 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    A guy I have a crush on told me I have a positive energy .

  • @SuperTexgirl
    @SuperTexgirl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    When I see someone that i like, I get so nervous that I look away and can't speak. You would think that at 49 yrs. of age this would of stopped already! lol

  • @devaactivation2004
    @devaactivation2004 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Wow, just realized no one has ever really liked me before...

    • @deered1149
      @deered1149 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      D Manson awwwh

    • @ramenyoun501
      @ramenyoun501 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Honestly same.

    • @pixielust9385
      @pixielust9385 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nah, don't tKs these videos too seriously.. I don't act like any of the supposed 'signs' all over TH-cam when I like someone, everybody is different and has different ways of expressing emotion, its highly unlikely that NOBODY has ever had a crush on you! ❤️

    • @lottiesmith3643
      @lottiesmith3643 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

    • @jayamilapersson4030
      @jayamilapersson4030 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They probably was just too shy.

  • @DaniaDraws
    @DaniaDraws 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I LOVE THIS VIDEO!!!💛 MATHEW BOGGS YOUR VIDEOS ARE AMAZING!🌟I am currently in love with someone very very very special to my heart,that's why I need your videos to make sure everything is PERFECT!✨We are together but I still forget everything when I look in his eyes and I find myself ❤️(1)speechless😍I even plan things in my head to talk about but when I see him nothing is important anymore!All I care about is him & ❤️(2) I am still very shy with him.❤️(3)He ends up talking more than I do and all I can say in the conversation is "YES"and he asks me "is your favorite word yes?" and I tell him "Yes"🤣I can also tell you one sign,I have been with someone before for 6 years but I was never feeling that I want to get married but now I only know him for 4 months and❤️(4) if he want to marry me I would say "Yes" with no hesitation!
    P.S:I numbered the signs that I have so that you wouldn't search!

  • @imalimabean6686
    @imalimabean6686 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I will avoid him sometimes at first because i don't want him to know how infatuated i am. I realize how counterproductive it is to be so self conscious. It likely gives him the idea i am NOT interested. I am not sure how to overcome this nervous shyness

    • @patriciaholloway
      @patriciaholloway 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      May I suggest practicing on guys you don't have crushes on? Could be a guy at a cafe or store or gym.... doesn't matter. Start with being able to converse freely...ask a question. Give a compliment. Smile and look them in the eyes. Start with these things until you get more comfortable. If you know any of your crush's interests, hobbies or their work or car they drive, you can use that as a convo starter.
      Good luck!

  • @LulitaInPita
    @LulitaInPita 5 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    3 things:
    1. Bella is gorgeous 😍
    2. Please don't tell me that she does pageants please, because she looks like she's about to attend one...
    3. How do I friendzone someone that I'm not interested in but I don't want to hurt him?

    • @jeniwatkins3297
      @jeniwatkins3297 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lulita agreed

    • @jeniwatkins3297
      @jeniwatkins3297 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Eddy Lockhart bullshit. Boys maybe! Men can be friends with women just fine. It depends on them and the woman. Virtually all my friends are men. I don't get along with many women because I'm a tom-boy, not girly, hate drama and like to do stuff the guys do. Thanks to growing up with older brothers I'm one of the guys. I'm straight BTW and am fairly attractive. I've done some modeling. I've been this way for nearly a half century now and my straight, manly, guy friends love that I am this way! I can be wing man, give them an alternative viewpoint or set them up. I can also help them chop wood and work on the truck. My bast friend of many years is a guy!
      I'd like to add that one of my friends I'd love to nail, but he's friend zoned me. Lol

    • @therosalinashow5961
      @therosalinashow5961 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jeniwatkins3297 OMG you just described me I'm also the same I grew up with only brothers and I'm also a tomboy

    • @carolinechase614
      @carolinechase614 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jeniwatkins3297 he probably friend zoned you cause you arent the kind of Girl he likes...maybe more fem than manly

    • @jeniwatkins3297
      @jeniwatkins3297 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@carolinechase614 he friendzoned me Because we've been friends too long and he feels awkward about it going further.

  • @1Skorpia
    @1Skorpia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I got teary eyed at the boybridge🥺😭 notice people laughed ,then awwed then👏👏👏👏🙌🙌🙌👏👏👏😁 PLEASE MAKE MORE VIDS LIKE THIS!

  • @Andrea-sl8wd
    @Andrea-sl8wd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She is absolutely adorable and yeah, you are in trouble Pop!
    The last one was my fave... ur dance moves ain't too shabby.

  • @mariar3136
    @mariar3136 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When I have a crush:
    I try to make conversation and use humor to break my tension and feel comfortable. If I get nervous I due to physical space I clam up and stop talking, naturally I talk a heavy amount. I tend to want to talk about ideas to see if we have a mental connection.

  • @21dahlgaardcarrie
    @21dahlgaardcarrie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    😂😂😂 omg, your daughter is so adorable!!! Love this video. Too funny. 😊💞

  • @bronx1940
    @bronx1940 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was on the verge of tears before...Nella hair is adorable ..kids kissing so cute and that last boy is a keeper..and the bbn it ty hat got the kiss his mind went all klaplooooyyy

  • @basillewis9663
    @basillewis9663 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Brooooo, y are u exposing us?!?
    As I guy tho one thing to say here... some of these are true, but I personally do some of these things to friends who I don't have a crush on.

  • @santiagoscho
    @santiagoscho 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Women dont want the guy to notice so either over or under doing, like awkward moments. If they dress up suddenly to look more feminine or attractive, like do make over. When they talk to you for hours & hours, a woman cant stand talking with a man she's not interested in. When her eyes shine brightly when she sees you. When she shares her deepest thoughts about the world, even her vulnerable side.

  • @ritag.bowman5723
    @ritag.bowman5723 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Loved this! Yes, you're in trouble when it comes to your daughter! She's adorable!

  • @ZimskiForever
    @ZimskiForever 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video is so adorably dreamy! Well, when I have a crush on a guy I just ignore him. Or I get a little (or a lot) giggly and silly. Overly chatty about absolutely nothing. This is actually progress from when I was 6 when things never would have progressed beyond ignoring him!

  • @jannatnoor8216
    @jannatnoor8216 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Wow!!! .. That's funny, cute and awesome..!!!
    I'm expecting you to make videos about long-distance relationships..

  • @audrablue515
    @audrablue515 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    OMG that last dance number with Mat had me in hysterics lol Keep up the good work Mat, you da bomb!

  • @begumsakin9686
    @begumsakin9686 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This was a very fun video to watch ! Thank you , it popped up out of nowhere and made my day :D
    for me , when I have a crush I’m literally so excited around that person that sometimes I fall quiet , I cannot talk if face to face , I feel super shy .. so shy that when I talk I feel like I’m being very stupid for some reason :D it is as if I cannot really focus on what I’m saying , like giving a public speech ! I try not to show any weird signs , I try to keep contact , try to catch his eyes if I’m not shaking from excitement anymore at the moment .. I don’t know 😂 that video made me smile a lot , thank you for making this .

  • @yanamelanina2902
    @yanamelanina2902 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Aaaaaw must be the cutest video on relationships I’ve seen 😂🥰❤️❤️❤️

  • @jeniwatkins3297
    @jeniwatkins3297 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Bella is too stinkin cute!! 😊 You're in so much trouble in about 10 years. Lol. You will break a lot of hearts one day!
    Great video 👍

  • @bettinafuller1450
    @bettinafuller1450 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So sweet, I love the use of the little children to show his examples of behavior.

  • @lovepeace7878
    @lovepeace7878 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    ❤ this video! Thanks for reminding us of how we are treated when we are valued! Your daughter is beautiful! You will have your hands full with boys chasing after both of your daughters when they grow up. :)

  • @kaitlynb4171
    @kaitlynb4171 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When I like someone, as I do right now, I try to look at them when they aren’t looking at me, show them that I’m available by walking past them alone, smile when we get within a certain distance. But a lot of times I try to avoid looking his direction because I don’t want to put myself out there if I’m the only one feeling it and I can’t take body language cues and actually believe them fully without verbal confirmation that he’s into me too. Maybe I’ll burst the bubble soon though, I am literally going out of my mind crazy right now 🙃

  • @sea2sky
    @sea2sky 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I guess it depends on initial interactions. To some of my crushes, I have been really nice, helpful, shy and sweet. Others I have been sarcastic, somewhat mean teasing...the final results are the same. I am usually too shy to make any further moves and I remain single due to my lack of maturity....and the journey goes on. Maybe next time XD

  • @luanntexascitizen4345
    @luanntexascitizen4345 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When I have a crush, I give a slow wink and smile. They get flustered every time.

  • @sarastarski
    @sarastarski 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Excellent video 👌🏻 I laughed so much!
    You put lots of effort into it and your daughter is very cute and is a real Bella! With a Dad like you she won’t have have a problem to choose the right man for her 😊

  • @blackbeardsdaughter2613
    @blackbeardsdaughter2613 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    MY GOSH THIS IS PRECIOUS!!! My first crush was at age 5 in kindergarten. Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.
    When I like a guy, yep, I get clumsy. But I laugh it off to make the moment real. It can actually be a lot of good-hearted fun. Women can be too serious at times which I believe turns men off. I don't mean to say that they should be dumbells but they should make the man feel at ease and loved (even when we ladies are running into walls or dropping silverware due to nervousness). Mat, this was your best presentation yet!!!
    PS: My crush in the 3rd Grade gave me a special blue pencil before summer break. I still have it. Oh the memories!!!
    Hints that I have a crush?
    1) I ask him what he has a passion for (work, hobbies, pets, etc.)
    2) I ask him nicely if I can help him with ANYTHING.
    3) I tell him how happy I am that he helps me or protects me.
    4) I tell him how funny he is and laugh at all of his comedy.
    5) I simply grab his hand/arm. :)

  • @puffsleeveskindagirl
    @puffsleeveskindagirl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I actually have done all of that as I noticed him doing those things as well...if is mutual you two just become a 'force' that people around you don't matter as much and they eventually notice and ask if you two are a couple. :)

  • @LoveJoyPeacePatienceKindness
    @LoveJoyPeacePatienceKindness 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    1. Think about him a lot, he
    can tell when I sometimes text him a random question
    2. Get happy when he calls, he can tell I'm excited, I get giddy & talkative 🤪

  • @ChooChoogirlelle
    @ChooChoogirlelle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Why can’t it be that easy, Bella?😂🤣😂Thanks Sweetie

  • @soulsurfer5531
    @soulsurfer5531 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My parents worked in the same office in different departments. My dad had such a huge crush on my mom that he used to walk by her office to check her out. They were married until the day my father died.

  • @pest53
    @pest53 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Stuttering when I first see him unexpectedly.....and saying weird stuff when he KNOWS I'm very rational and verbal - he senses my embarrassment / discomfort and slightly smiles. It's kinda funny - because I'm 70!!!!!!!!!!!1

  • @MariaDear
    @MariaDear 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When I have a super crush on a guy...
    1. I look for him whenever I think he might be around. If I see him and we make eye contact I quickly look away and my heart starts pounding. At this point I mentally scream at myself "act natural!!"
    2. I start putting more effort into my appearance when I think I might see him.
    3. Also there is a lot of truth in the idea women play with their hair more when they are around a man they find attractive. I do this for sure.

  • @inesramos1301
    @inesramos1301 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I get sooo shy when I look eye to eye with him, I swear, it's like, omg stop looking at my let me blush a little

  • @laylapanahi4166
    @laylapanahi4166 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    When my crush usually sits in a chair, he slouches and lies down some in his chair and crosses his arms. Recently, without even realizing it, I started doing it. But it’s actually really comfortable because your relaxing and lying down, and when your crossing your arms, your keeping yourself warm. Thanks crush!

  • @hajiimpressions8113
    @hajiimpressions8113 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I gaze softly and sweetly into his eyes when he talks to me, even if it's just a brief comment from him, like the cute remark at the coffee maker. He's much more bold, looking right at me for long periods of time, but this doesn't make me nervous because he is confident in us, and I don't have to worry about anything.