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Think you can run away from your responsibilities? Think again. This is a must-watch for anyone who thinks they can escape their responsibilities. Don't be caught off guard-watch til the end. #childsupport #paternity #responsibility
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100% a fact that the person that pays the highest price of not having two loving parents is the child.
Key being "two loving parents" a parent can be in the home and be abusive or a very bad parent. In which case it is best to be a single parent.
100 % a fact that there are much worse things than not having two loving parents. Such as having 1 or 2 abusive parents.
Maybe not sleeping with obviously irresponsible jerks would be a starting point...
Love your content. However a woman cannot be a father, however good a mother might be, its not the same. From a child brought up in a single mother home.
@@Matipid_Lolo though don't think for a moment that a woman can be a father. It just isn't the same.
Your sister has such a good attitude on everything.... I respect her in so many ways.
It's a very dangerous precedent to have women becoming more comfortable with the idea of being a single parent. How can you expect future men to get better if they aren't being raised by fathers? I understand the need for child support but it may have the same effect as it has in the west where women will start initiating break ups BECAUSE they will be financially subsidized rather than the man ghosting. Men have to do better absolutely, but women need to start requiring more before baring men's children.
everything has downsides as well. no question.
but what about the child? do you even think about its situation? shouldn't the state do something against the guy just running away?
technically he is not really running. he is still there, just betrays his child for the financial support it is entitled to.
I don't understand that you worry about what "bad stuff" women might do next.
That's what a system of alimony does, not child support. As long as the child support amounts are reasonable and shift with the father's income level. The idea of sending a man to prison because he lost his job and can't pay child support, is abhorrent to me. It doesn't help the child get payments.
@@jpjay1584 Women didn't leave their man in generations past because she couldn't survive without him. In America the introduction of the great society where women could leave their man and begin using government to subsidize her being a single mother the single mother rate exploded into what it is today. The Philippines will be no better especially with women like Beauti's sister. Instead of men leaving the home, it'll start becoming the women. Since as mentioned in the video many men are jobless, this doesn't do anything for the child.
Any man that runs away from supporting his child is still a child himself.
What if the woman take the child away from the man, so she can get child support?
This happens a lot in the states.
I think that there should be no child support, unless one parent is physically abusive or they choose to temporarily relinquish their right to shared custody due to work or other circumstances.
If two couples separate, custody should be shared custody, so each parent takes 50% responsibilities of the child.
If one parent can’t financially provide for the kids, then let the parent who can provide get primary custody of the kids.
@@blackups__6554 I understand. I had to go to court and fight to see my son. So I do understand your point.
@@warrenaspeling602 most blacks dont support their child
Your sister is so mature, she also is very pretty like you, it is a sad thing that a child grows up with one parent, a single mum works hard especially in PHP where there is no welfare support, your sister is a credit to your family and a good mum
Here in In Pennsylvania, child support is calculated using a complex equation that considers the number of children, parent income, and average cost of raising a child. The amount of child support a parent pays is based on the following guidelines:
Combined monthly income up to $30,000
The monthly child support schedule is based on the number of children and is as follows:
One child: $3,608 plus 4% of the combined monthly income over $30,000
Two children: $4,250 plus 4%
Three children: $4,951 plus 4.7%
Four children: $5,530 plus 5.3%
Five children: $6,083 plus 5.8%
Six children: $6,613 plus 6.3%
Single parent or not the man should be involved and paying support taken care of his responsibility. Very good 👍 interview have fun
Okay Rubeauti, we are going to explore your true intentions right here and now. Do you support legalization of divorce in The Philippines? *Yes* or *No*
I've asked many Pinay about why they don't want the support; they've told me they were the one who insisted upon no contraception of any type. It's why many expats say they must have the snip but not disclose it. It's part of Utang na loob. They want a child as their retirement plan (like they are to their parents). This creates narcissism and BPD which makes relationships purely transactional and heartless.
Yes. True. Amidst all the “ You , go girl “ ra ra is the naked fact that she has intercourse with a man who doesn’t want a kid but goes ahead anyway without using contraception. It looks as if she wanted to be a mother , regardless
love you ❤ love your videos. Filipino society is getting more and more westernized, I think. That is not a good thing. What is for sure, in most western countries, the government and its bureaucracy cause problems these days.
Spot on. We do this in the USA and it's a nightmare and ineffective. It creates huge costly bureaucracy, has encouraged single parenthood, which made the problem worse. We are reaping the devastation of single parent households now, that don't have the support of the family. Crime, murder, destroyed communities. Give the single parent rights to pursue the Dad on their own, but Federal government should not be getting involved in family matters. Bureaucrats destroy everything they touch.
Finally someone that has real information that I've been wanting to learn
Hey Rubeauti! I just recently moved to The Philippines! I'm a huge fan and I would love to collaborate on some content with you. 🙂❤
I must say, Rubeauti everything about you physically is perfect, your beautiful etc.
I do hope you find or have a man that’s a stepping stone to all your wants,needs and dreams.
A single mother cannot rise a boy to become a man it takes a father. This is the ideal situation realizing not everyone comes from a perfect family. Best of luck.
Thank God for the new law.
US social security pays benefits for children of those receiving social securities. Those on US Veterans disability gets additional benefits for dependents.
I'm glad to hear that Philippines is finally modernizing their laws to make sure that children receive proper financial support. In the past women were abandoned by their partner and left to struggle on their own.
@Rubeauti just a power grab for government financial gain like in the west as will end up being a corrupt broken system exactly like the United States. When boils down to things this will not benefit like you think and hope as will only benefit the government pockets.
@@Rubeauti well if they make kids with jobless guys thats on them to be honest.
@@bartonnink3896 Sleeping with boys who are obviously incapable of responsibility is rather a mystery...then they often say things like how they are proud single moms....proud of what?
@@bartonnink3896 Nah. It takes 2 to make a baby. This isn't immaculate conception. 🤣 They will just do like other countries and establish a minimum child support and put the law on the father. Now it becomes his problem as well. 😉
Child support doesn't work...how can a laborer getting 250p a day pay for his previous f boy activities... keep your legs closed filipinas
Oh well, there goes the traditional values
Your sister is really awesome she will be ok I hope she finds someone who will love her and child also. Thank you for sharing.
In Australia, if the father doesn't pay child support the mother gets a government pension. The government will get the money from the man. He will be stopped at the airport if he tries to leave. They will take the money from his salary and if he doesn't earn anything they tie the debt to him.
@@Rubeauti yes it applies to women too. If the man inherits something they will take it from that too. I knew a deadbeat that came into money and I was like what happened? He said I had a child support debt from 18 years ago.😂
The problem here is that primary custody is given to the women by default and the man has to fight to get custody. I think custody in the western countries should be shared 50/50 between both parents, so no child support is required from either parents.
Both parents should be equally responsible for the child and that’s part of equality.
Child support should be for the child’s needs, but the government is making wealthy men pay $100k a month for child support which is mind blowing to me and they don’t track how that money is being spent.
Rather making a parent pay child support, give the child to parent that can afford the child
This won’t affect those Filipino men living in poverty which is 30% in the Philippines, or men can quit their jobs spend their money on sex and booze and claim they are broke. This law will also do very little for the uneducated single moms over there.
the way the system is in america ( as someone being taken advantage of by it )
I know to be very very careful of any countries with hard CS laws.
paying 1200 a month whilst trying to be around is no joke.
Men should always take care of there responsibilities
No they don't. the environment influences pre existing character traits. Good male role models are really important for both boys and girls.
Marry before you carry.....
if you plan a vacation in spain every year, it's great too, it's just vacation, then back home. germany is the country where you were born and went to school until you are in the 13th grade if you pay close attention in class and plan your future well. abroad, it doesn't matter where you are without a good education, you are always on the lowest threshold of life.
Great topic!
Children are the most important person in a break up and of course both parents should pay.
However, I hope from a good idea it goes down the madness that most western countries have where the dads are seen as a cash cows.
Make the law so based on what the child needs and parents income and only what the child needs not to support the other person’s lifestyle.
1) Children are not more important.
2) The Philippines emulates the west i.e. bound to repeat feminist mistakes.
3) Women routinely exploit the system.
Really luv your channel.. Your sister is so ganda 😍
This is good. Men need to support their kids .
Its been this way in tue USA for decades.
But the parent who has custody of the kids has to apply for child support to get it
And of course there are moms who have a handfull of kids just to get an easy paycheck while the dads are struggling to pay support in order to stay out of jail for not paying.
Here in the USA child support enforcement can suspend your drivers license, business license ,take your tax refunds if you get more than $5,000USD behind in support.
ok. this is going to be a long comment. first, i love the behind the scene videos. those are your more interesting videos in my opinion and i like them because it helps me get to know the energy and culture more of the country and people.
it's funny though, before i discovered behind the scenes, i was just going through your videos and watched your first live with your friend and sister. i thought being shy and possibly a little depressed and reserved makes for a boring video haha but you sister had a really interesting energy about her and i was thinking you needed to include her in more videos and especially do some videos when it's just you and her....and here they are. i was happy to see that. i think she's more of a 1 on one type of person rather than more people.
but listening to her story was very amazing and i really respect her a lot to not accept child support even though the less money could be harder hurdle. to sacrifice the money to do what she knows is right for herself and the child is pretty amazing because a lot of people would take the money and then there is a chance it opens the doors for the guy to come in to the lives again. that right there tells a lot about a person. i don't think she should feel guilty of any "burdon" on the sister or the parents though. i can tell everyone supports this situation and that child is being loved and i don't think anyone would want the situation any other way and because of that, it's not a burdon
not only was i impressed by some of those questions, but i was more impressed by how they were answered so openly and honestly. some of those questions were tough to be open about when someone is so reserved and private and just being open to all those questions tells a lot about a person too. it's not easy
i don't know if this was in this video or another one but when she was talking about not having a job for years, i totally felt that internal struggle on many levels. and saying she doesn't want to have kids anymore because of her past experience. that stuff almost made me cry. that all stemmed from depression that grew stronger over time which got progressively worse. that is so tough to watch when it's coming from good people inside.
you two are pretty awesome people on the inside and i think that is a testament to your parents and how you were raised. really good energy that comes from both of you. personally aside from the new behind the scenes, i think you and your sister need to create more videos together and she needs to continue to force herself outside her comfort zone. this is still a part of a healing journey for her. we shouldn't do just what we want. we should always do what we actually NEED and we have to force ourselves.
anyway, i was watching your videos recently but never subscribed but today i subscribed. it's a really good channel and i also like the creativity that goes in to it sometimes. i am watching the videos on youtube right now because i plan on visiting the country soon with my filipino friend from the state who is actually building a house there right now for his vacation home for his family and i want to know everything about the culture and people more than what i learned from my friend and his own family in the states
Wow thank you so much Aaron. I'll let her know about these positive comments for her ❤️
Does the praise ( out of sight out of mind). When it comes to women with kids. With so many people being poor or no jobs. There would be less kids if there were a legal abolition.
Great law in USA 🇺🇸 child support is heavily enforced if the single parent enforcees by communicating with local authority I applaud 👏 as a Filipino American age 57 who wants to marry a Filipina with NO KIDS, never married, loyal, no driking, no smoking, in good health like me. I been working in usa 35 years very hard and my goal
is to find Filipina wife who is not promiscuous, has not had many partners 🙏 very informative video thank you or salamat po
I do love the positive attitude of your sister, move on and if family is there for you, please don't involve the gov't. for they will just ruin everything else. they don't know what is your real situation and they go on assumption and similarities. continue to be strong and live on. my first question is, is the father involve with the child and if so, let be, he will spend money on his child, it when you force people to do things, is when they get stubborn, hesitate, angry, and all the other negative characters that we portray as humans.
Gud am, ask lang po aq ang file ko is vawc pgdating sa fiscal ko. Ginawang child abuse lang 7610 pero pina request ko na sa ammend to complain in VAWC. at pwde po ba dw na humingi na or mag request ako ng child support habang ongoing ang kaso. Acknowledge nya po sa live birth ang anak ko pero dini deny nya at ng rerequest p ng DNA anu po dapat gawin ko for favor sa side ko po? Tagal na kc almost 3 yrs. na itong kaso. Salamat sa mg aadvise & GodBless
Tpus n po kme mediation ndi kame ng kaayus
Marry before carry
The child support law in PH absolutely needs to change ! It’s totally irresponsible that the pinoys don’t have to pay !
ive dated single moms almost all my life , its good to see these mommas boys take responiblity
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This is going to be a complete disaster for the Philippines, as it has been in most western countries.
In the UK it has only made more women ending up as single parents as it is now financially beneficial for them to live without the father of the child. They can also go out and have sex with however they want without taking responsibility for their actions and without them having to worry, regarding the consequence.
I have no problem with the concept that both parties should take responsibility for their actions, but in the Philippines are they in a position to financially do that, I do not think so.
Child support is a right ..after my divorce in the west. My ex wife abandoned her children..7 years of court action, financial audits ..I’ve had two court orders amounting over $60,000. As a man I’ve been treated like a second class citizen in the UK courts but I’m nothing but dogged in my children’s rights. My ex got a huge divorce from me ..and decided she had a “life”. I will premise I left ..and the kids decided to go with myself full time…write into that what you will. I’m now in the phil’s ..with one son amd the other studying at university in the south. My ex still owes $15,000. Peoples need to take the responsibilities of a children seriously!
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Will the parent with the kids living with them have to start the process and paternity has to be proven
Realize that when you seek child support you also give up control.
It seems odd that a law would apply retroactively to people who have already had the children and left. I am not saying the abandonment is right. Also, how do they manage to prove if the child is indeed from that man? And what do you do when a man was assured that a women was on birth control and in fact she dileberatly was not in order to motivate a marriage?
Your sister is cute. In a way she is a not like me quiet and shy. I would love to get to know her.
Get Support For ur Child ...
Let the family.. start.. over again .. and not make mom or dad live. In sin with other partner's.
Yeah it's not as simple as it being made out to be. Especially if the child was born out of wedlock. Naturally some type of paternity would have to be established. DNA because if not then there's going to be a lot of spiteful women out there that's going to wrongfully accuse a man to get that child support for revenge.
Back in 2019 when I was at the United States consulate office there in Cebu I remember these three Filipino women was trying to get the United States consulate office to acknowledge that the one child that each had was from Americans. They mentioned the men by name. So when the consulate office ask them about do they have established paternity such as a blood test or DNA all three of those women immediately came up with all kinds of excuses. They just kept saying but it's his child but it's their child. Oddly enough the children didn't even look mixed. It's easy for me to notice that since I have seen many mixed children. At that time I believe the women was attempting to get dual citizenship and get that social security number for the kids which once again didn't Even resemble mixed kids. All three of those kids were dark Morena. The reason why I mentioned this is because hopefully one of the criterias of the child support would be there has to be established paternity for children born out of wedlock. Because if not then I'm sure a lot of these embassies around here are going to be full of people trying to get their hands on some kind of documentation so that way they can go after the foreigner that they fooled around with and has that perceived big money income and at the same time protect their local Filipino boyfriend Even though there's a good 99% chance the child was the Filipino boyfriends all along.
Government forced child support is never a good idea. Short answer; ban social media. The Philippines culture jumped forward to emulating the west's debauchery by 75 years in the last decade because of social media
Single motherhood is an issue because women believe it's perfectly acceptable. Then, women there complain about the low quality of men. YOU RAISED THEM. you want high quality men? Mate with high quality men, and value raising kids in a family.
A little bit of a shock to see your Sister say like My Father and Sister when providing support for a child that is not theirs. I do not know the entire situation but I do pray your sister knows to take personal responsibility above all else.
that's pretty bold of you to judge people so subjectively that way and to insist that she follow your etiquette when you obviously don't have the whole story and don't even have the intuition to know a little bit of the story. do you always go around telling people what they need to do?
@@anwiii55 Personal Responsibility is Above All Else in every situation in life. And Learning from Mistakes is part of that. The statement is a prayer for reflection and Guidance to learn from the past Nothing more.
An Observation: The Sister is Laughing when she Indicates She will not chase the Father for Child Support.
How Exactly is that Funny? 🤔 There is no reason to be laughing Why is she Laughing She is not in fact laughing she is giving a statement of "I WILL NOT. END OF THE TOPIC."
Another Observation: Talking about Child Support. The sister says with a laughing Voice says "Especially my Father and My Sister" Indicating she Expects them to support. Why Must they have to suffer her Burdens 🤔
The Questions above are slightly Philosophical and not meant to be answered. They are Observations.
A good family Helps and her family is Helping despite the Burdens one member has placed on them. These people are not bad and only God knows what led to the situation.
That is why I offered a Prayer for Reflection and Guidance to learn from the past.
Certain Women who read Comments like yours will pick you up as an Easy Mark and take you for all your willing to Give. Spoiler Alert (NOTHING WILL CHANGE) Bye Mark. err.. I mean Aaron Webb
@@urbanws1234 you are assuming way to much. i agree though that life is about learning from our experiences which will make us better people. however there was nothing philosphical about your questions because they were based on obvious observations and assumtions. your trying to put pieces of a puzzle together in the wrong places that don't fit. you assume the kid is a burdon for people. you assume she is not taking support from the father seriously and in a joking mannor without much thought. that wasn't a prayer for reflection when you are being subjective. that is literally being intrusive and judgemental and looking down on people because you have a different way you are seeing things. and then you bring up "prayer" for reflection to insinuate you know what god's will is for her. there is A LOT more going on here than what the obvious is. what people struggle with sometimes when they listen is to recognize all the underlying stuff. they only see the surfacy stuff. they fail to see the journey a person was on and is on and plans to be on. they have a hard time understanding what their body movements say or what their tone of voice says and in this instance what a laughter means. they have trouble reading people beyond the actual surface of a person. this is what you struggle with. you have trouble reading people. it's not me that would be the mark. it would be the person who struggles reading people. what makes me a mark and will ALWAYS make me a mark is that i love and care about people extremely and always want to help them. a lot of people take advantage of people like that but for me, i would rather be this way and get hurt or taken advantage of than not be myself in helping others. that's a choice. not a mark. i understand perfectly well what the pros and cons of my personal choices are. you seem to think i am clueless. i am actually not. it's why i was able to call you on your bullshit because i can read you too.. you actually believe what you are saying because that's all you know....the surface. it seems like a person who talks about reflection should be able to see the deeper levels of things.... AND the fact that it's not up to us to judge and worse yet, tell people what to do under our own moral code or religious code and to assume she didn't reflect on any of what you said is ignorant and probably not true....
What's with the pillows?
I think receiving child support would be a huge help to single moms and maybe force men to stop having kids out of wedlock. That wasn't available here for single dads when my son was a kid. My son's mom left us when my son was 16 months old and I raised him by myself. Drugs and alcohol were more important to her than our son,and she left with another guy too. I hope you have a beautiful day, take care, and God bless you Rubeauti. 🙏
She said the woman usually leaves the man
This is just my opinion....a man who refuses to support his children through their childhood is not really a man. He is a coward.
at least his family should help supporting the child if he has no money. (but I don't know the Philippines, so I'm not sure if that is common)
It’s not Ok, being raised in a single parent household is suboptimal. I’m all for making the best of a bad situation, but this is a bad situation.
Nice this is a REDPILL.. I'll let this pass if DNA test is done first before the child support.. Question is.. What if the female left the child to A man (single father).. will the man get child support from that woman..?
I think making people take responsibility for having children is a good thing. I just wonder how a low income person can actually pay child support when confronted. It takes two for the horizontal tango not being the Childs fault. I feel the Philippines needs to educate people more on using contraceptives making them affordable to help prevent unwanted pregnancies or STD's. It is always easy sit back and point fingers at others mistakes when they are not perfect themselves.
Or, here’s a novel concept. All children born out of wedlock become property of the State. Do you think that would halt illegitimacy in its tracks? 😊
I disagree with your sister. I am a single father with a son. His mother abandoned him when he was five. She still has to pay every month a sum that my son can use once he turns 18. I don't want the money for myself but it can help my son's studies. It doesn't matter where the money comes from, in the end. here, if the other parent doesn't pay, the government will pay and then they will chase the parent, so I don't need to..
if you have a child then the new law is good
What’s the penalty if they still don’t give support or how will they if the person isn’t working
You could have gently asked the crucial question “ Why didn’t you use contraception “
ask her if she DID get support, how much would she deem FAIR??
What a mess ..
so your gonna force a guy that dont want a kid to pay for it?,,ya no,,u have the kid you take care of the kid,, its on you,,your better off with out any help from the guy, you push the $$ thing on him he can take you to court and take the kid from you,, just something to think about
Do the fathers not want to have a part in their child's life?😬
Hey Rubeauti
Don't get preggars..problem solved.
She, the woman/babae sitting at your right seem nervous. I my opinion.
In the U S its not a choice to pay child support. It is court mandated. If you bring a child into this world you owe them support for 18 years.
As a man you do owe child support, BUT that doesn't mean the women will ever see a dime of money. I've heard stories of expat's that fled to the PI from the US and other countries and went off-grid. There are over 7,000 islands in the PI where they can hide. Good luck trying to find someone who doesn't want to be found.
Nobody cares.
@@GabrielEddy I think the man cares if he gets caught up in a court case that requires him to pay child support. Here in California the courts are very aggressive and will come after you if you owe child support. They can make your life pretty damn miserable.
@@danielhackney7806 As a man living in the U.S., my advice is simple: stop living where you are being routinely exploited by the government.
Who is the older sister? 🤔
@@Rubeauti
Ah...Ok 😁
Yeah...She does, somewhat. 😏
Great Topic Rubeauti. The Philippines seem to look out for the children. I have loved the interview you did with your sister. It’s fantastic. Have a good night. Jerry
No more getting girls pregnant and running, this should slow down the chick boys. 😅😅😅
This concept is new to me. I have never heard a male friend/ relative say he wanted to impregnate a girl.
Interesting listens to you do this interview and clearly not get the answers you wanted. Be careful of your own agenda.
this whole topic is concerning. The Traditional Filipina is going away an this is not good.
I have studied this topic for sometime and seems most Asian countries have similar child support laws however they are rarely enforced. This is truly an epidemic, and from the mini single moms I have talked to it is rare the father has a care in the world about his own children. The Asian man to me in general is a sad pathetic irresponsible excuse of a man that runs away, abandoning his own blood even if the mom was going to go to court and try to enforce the Wawa to get support, it is really a waste of time because it is so ingrained and even will have a threatening or violent reaction from the man. This is all very destructive in the whole culture Society, and especially for young males growing up with no father, which I know all too well. Then you have the overseas worker the mom that leaves her kids with a sister or her parents, and the child is growing up without any real parent at all, not the same. That is way too typical. Then you have the mom that alienates the father and even if he wants to be part of their life she is playing games to make it nearly impossible and make it a very uncomfortable situation for him to be the dad.. this all effects so much of different cultures it is definitely a global epidemic. Dads are a very crucial role in the child's development, so sad to see🙏😘🙏
Truth. I've discovered extreme levels of narcissism and BPD too. Of course, these types look for walking ATM's and empaths for supply. The parents (both sides) often lack the sense of bonding with unconditional love and often let ya-ya's and relatives raise their future 401K plan. It's purely about "Utang na loob", conditional love, a Stockholm Syndrome type of attachment. Children owe the parents and must send money home, etc. The 4% trust in others (see Our World in Data) is another contributor. I've seen extreme entitlement, passive-aggressive communication, etc. It's why I don't like the PH and caution others.
What excuse does the mother have for making a baby with no husband...most single mums are never married....
Did you just generalize all Asian men as being “sad pathetic irresponsible excuse for men” who abandon responsibility? Delete this cringe post.
Its about time they enacted child support laws. If people don't want to pay support there's a simple solution, keep it in your pants. Great video 👍
It is obvious you are a simp for life. We all know child support makes women even more irresponsible regarding the men they willfully choose to father their children.
@@jackblack5833 There could be irresponsibility on both sides but that doesn't mean that either one of the parents should not accept their financial responsibility for a child. It shouldn't be forced on other family members or the general public.
@@larrye2679 I agree the families should not be responsible for a woman's or a man's irresponsible behavior or poor choices. Your comment was directed at the men only ignoring the other guilty party.
@@jackblack5833 I didn't mean it was directly only at men. Unless it is a case of rape the responsibility for a child should fall on both parents. However, statistics show that overwhelmingly the guy shirks his responsibility, that needs to change.
@@larrye2679 Alternatively, the procreative gatekeepers (women) could actually get married prior to opening their little legs.
It is called Dead Beat Law.
Anyone notice the modesty with the pillows?
STOP BULLYING YOUR SISTER, RUBEAUTI, IS THIS YOUR LITTLE SISTER? I CAN SEE HOW MUCH YOU CARE AND DO FOR HER!
HOWEVER, YOU DO IT UNCONDITIONALLY WITH LOVE ❤️ AND RESPECT!
RESPECT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT OF THESE TERMS!
Your sister is a very mature woman I know that she has made many mistakes in her past but it seems like she is really very serious about taking care of her life including her son. What are the adoption laws in the Philippines? I know if I was dating or marrying a beautiful Filipina with a child I would want to adopt her child as my own. To make a better more loving family. I do like you videos they are very informative, the only thing that would help you make them better is if you were more relaxed and fun giving the information. It just seems like you are a little nervous and stiff. Don’t get me wrong I think that you are absolutely beautiful and nice but it comes off as a little mechanical instead of relaxed. I get your sister’s nervousness after all she’s putting all of her business out there on the air for everyone to judge. I wouldn’t judge her because I believe everyone makes rash decisions when they are young she’s very beautiful just like you and you are all helping her get better in life. 🌹🌹🌹🌹
How you know that she has made many mistakes?
@@woutergijs5246 because she said she did
I think it's so sad When men think they can just make babies and if there will be no repercussion I have a very strong with a young lady in Manila she has been supporting her family because her father walked out on her mother unless your mother with 4 children even a new born and he pays nothing help them 0% of the time I payed child support for 18 years and Iam proud to say I did my part shame on these men that make babies and don't care
Do you really think that men are obsessed making babies?
Hello Rubeauti, I believe that if the man helps create a child, it is his responsibility to help with the raising of the child even if it is only with financial support for his child.
Money is not natural. Procreation is natural
“…even if it is only financial support…”
You relegate men to wallets. What if he does not want to participate in the child’s upbringing? Some men do not want to be involved.
If you, or any man, do not want to be involved with the children that they have fathered, they should keep it in their pants or put on protection.
@@lazylarrylee2421 Thus says the moralizing jingo
No, I don't think that you have to go without sex, I just believe that you are responsible for what comes from it. I started having sex as a teenager, and I never left an ex without her knowing how to get in touch with me. I was, and still, am willing to be responsible for my actions. I guess you are not.
The child does not FEAR the mother. The child Fears the Father. A Fatherless home is a broken home
So FEAR is a part of family life???
@@woutergijs5246 - IT BETTER BE OR THE CHILD WILL TAKE CONTROL
Foreigners should still avoid Filipina single mothers. Other mens children are a liability no matter what the nationality is
No such thing as child support there they don't support this in court good luck next time keep your legs closed
So funny watching you two interact. Brutal at times, loving at times, and everything in between. Sounds like you have a strong family to help out so I’m sure the boy will be fine. Just make sure he has male role models.
The fact the Government has decided to chase the Mother as well as the Father is good, but l forsee real issues with it in the Philippines. People that don't wish to pay, may in fact commit a much worse crime than child abandonment to avoid paying. There have been many instances here in Australia where the paying parent gets so frustrated and defeated by the Family Courts and Child Support, that whole families have died as a result of murder/suicide. It's a sad fact, but something to consider.
A child benefits when raised by a responsible and loving father and mother together. I have interviewed many violent criminals in prisons, including murderers of one or more victims. In every single case these criminals had horrible childhoods including abuse, violence, broken homes, one or more parents who are drug addicts and so forth.
If you talk about numbers/ statistics, you are obliged to look at the other side:
How many people outside prison have you interviewed ?
Who needs Daddy in the house when you have Big Daddy government chasing down men for a few nickels and dimes? See: the black community in the U.S.
Child support for your children or her children? Love you sweetheart 😘
cringe post.
It really gets you thinking, Jeffrey. How are these government thugs going to establish paternity? This is a very slippery slope.
Let's not forget that your sister voluntarily left her boyfriend. She is the one that left and now the government will act like "HE" abandoned her. Child support is a good concept but when the government gets involved they always screw it up. One of the reasons men are leaving America to find a lady in the Philippines is because the Laws in America turn men into slaves. They take money from men not based upon what is needed for the child, but the maximum amount they can TAKE from the men. Now America is faced with a severe decline in marriages and the number of children being born. For the first time in history America has a declining population. These things start out good and turn into a monster nobody wants.
Yes I really feel for the young men in the RP. Most jobs are like his. Construction jobs that pay next to nothing. He works all day and it is not enough to support a family so she leaves him. This depresses the young man and he turns to alcohol and then it's downhill from there. This is a horrible cycle that affects many millions of families in the RP. Just consider that the young girl can work in a less desirous occupation and make much more money than he ever could. This is one of the main reasons why Filipinas gravitate towards the foreigners. If their men made an adequate living they would probably keep within their own cultural grouping much more.
@@Rubeauti Yes
Such a serious conversation . I would love to give your sister a reason to relax and smile !
Simp
They passed the new law because the government is no longer able to support the single moms in the Philippines, and need the men to finally step up to take care of their own families. Crazy how so many men in a country of God fearing people don't actually take care of their own responsibilities.
The state was able to support in the past?
@@woutergijs5246 I guess only mothers love Filipino children. The fathers don't, and the state doesn't.
There is no welfare in the Philippines so your wrong about that the government don't help them
Maybe they're not really god-fearing. What they say and what they do are totally different.
The government.. needs too. Really do thair... JOB.. and put.. a NEW LAW.. Divorce.. for only.. 300.00 dollors Philippines 🇵🇭 money..
Is she in the situation to be a single mom or not? I think its almost pointless if this is just a theoretical discussion. A father should support his child at least, but better even the family is intact.
I am 40 in the states. This is why I don't have children. I refuse to let whom ever is supposed to be my partner threaten me with childsupport like I am being extorted. One of the biggest problems in the west.
5:36 Very true & most women use the poor kids as pawns or bargaining chips! The thing that burns me up the most is that the women get the child support that's supposed to be for the kids & use it to spoil their new lover. I have personally heard women talk about this, laugh & make fun of their ex husband, saying things like, if he only knew where his money is really going.
Good topic to discuss about child support in the Philippines 🇵🇭 keep up the good work rubeauti 😎💪🏾
I feel like a child when it comes to learning about the Philippines. I have so much to learn. Thanks for your informative video. 😊
I'm starting to really like your sister the more I see and hear from her. She is a very bright and she knows she can handle what ever life throws at her. You can tell she is an excellent mother. Sometimes relationships break up and they cannot be fixed but when a child is born it is the responsibility of the two people who brought the child into this world and that parent child relationship should never end. I'm very glad that that the Philippines will have laws that help children and maybe even convince the absent parent to be in their child's life.
Not responsible enough to take contraceptives. It’s that Asian fatalism. Bahala na
Government involvement in the family is always a terrible idea. Once they get in, they will never leave👎🏾 If you have a child with an irresponsible person, you need to take responsibility for your actions. I like the way your sister thinks. She is taking responsibility for her actions and not blaming anyone else for her decisions. Child support systematically incentivizes single parenthood, and destroys families
To quote you, "If you have a child with an irresponsible person, you need to take responsibility for your actions.". Why does only one person need to take responsibility for their actions? 🤷🏾 Why not both of them?
So true..
@@Matipid_Lolo Why should I, an uninvolved third party have to pay a prosecutor to go after some dead beat? Or does the Phillipino prosecutors work for free? All the gov't would do is socialize other peoples poor decisions and as Rei 12 Figures said they would also foster single parent hood by forcing support payments. Know who you are getting involved with, don't depend on the community to bail you out of your stupid mistakes.
@@slowhand1382000 If the mother decided to abandon the child like the father did. Then the state has the burden of raising the child from BOTH their mistakes, correct? Which is more costly paying the prosecutor to enforce child support or raising an abandoned child for 18 years?
When nobody takes responsibility the child becomes abandoned. The government is trying to avoid that and make it viable for the single parent by making BOTH parents responsible. Do you think something is wrong with BOTH parents being held responsible?
An astute observation.
A correction, Ru. Psychopaths are born, not made.
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