Experienced family law attorney here (PA & NJ). Handled hundreds of protection from abuse cases. In my opinion, it is best to vet very carefully before entering into a relationship with anyone. If you get any red flag vibes that the person you are dating is either violent or has a history of lying about being the victim of domestic violence, run! Part of the problem in domestic violence cases (in most jurisdictions) is the low burden of proof (preponderance of the evidence).
Why didn't this video show up before my first hearing..... I spent so long making a testimony under 10 minutes and was only given 3 before I was cut off. STICK TO YOUR POINT, DIS-CREDIT THE PLAINTIFF, MAKE IT CLEAR YOU DON'T WANT TO SEE OR HARM THEM
Not sure if you are too busy to reply to comments but I hope you see this first thank you for these videos they are sooo helpful. Basically I have an hearing for an order of protection against me and the abuse allegations and statements are fabricated some flat out lies. I have no history of any kind in my background of abuse however my wife was actually arrested on battery charges against me over two years ago. I am not sure if I want to use it if I don’t have to because we have a custody hearing in January and she has agreed to visitation as a courtesy until then but I know if I pull this card I won’t be able to see my son for another month and that’s if I get custody then I am confident about that hearing though because I will have an attorney and character witnesses on my behalf. So basically just not sure if I should play long game or short game
I have to thank TH-cam and amazing lawyers like yourself that make videos to help people that want to deal with these certain smaller cases on their own. You are a very intelligent lawyer, as I’ve grown older I realized certain people were made for certain disciplines. You’re young and beautiful and wickedly smart so being a lawyer is great!!!
Hey! Hope you had a nice and relaxing time over the weekend. I had one quick question probably many other viewers have had too. When I bring exhibit evidence to court, I think it is common sense to bring three separate copies of each in their own binder, correct? Was wondering if you could shed some light on that. Thank you!
I am the respondent I have been telling my family about the abuse my mom and brother have been doing to me my whole life they both sexually assaulted me I am willing to take a lie detector test my brother has filed a restraining order on me even though one of the messages I sent them which I know they are going to use clearly says just leave me alone let me go my own direction I will not contact you and now they are getting a restraining order I admit I was angry however no threats were made and on the injunction paper I got they are trying to make it seem like threats were made but I just told the truth about the abuse they did and said I’d be willing to take a lie detector test how do I fight this they do have messages where as I don’t have proof but am willing to take a lie detector test and don’t think they will
The other side has an attorney but I’m representing myself according to my knowledge of the incident all with my evidences is there anyway to not win the case ??
In CA, say, “I’d like to make a motion pursuant to CCP 170.6.” By doing so, you’re saying (in a polite way) that you believe that the judge cannot fairly decide the case. leginfo.legislature.ca.gov/faces/codes_displaySection.xhtml?sectionNum=170.6.&lawCode=CCP
@@8472zoya I can’t give Pennsylvania-specific advice, but for CA, I would type something like “judge disqualification California,” so a similar search might help you.
I hope you realize that actual victims like me, who are up against these monsters who CLAIM to be innocent who are not, watch videos about what their legal team does to to help them get out of crap they actually created. These videos only help victims see how perpetrators create a gas lighted storyline based on denial and manipulation. Congrats, you lost.
You're an idiot, this is for people who are falsely accused which happens way more often than a legitimate reason for an order to be filed. Maybe look in the mirror and think why do so many of you make up lies? If you all weren't such liars then yeah maybe it would be a little easier for you, ever thought about that or did I just blow your little peanut sized brain?
This could be said for both sides. The information she’s providing is impartial and extremely helpful, especially for those that cannot afford to be represented.
So basically anyone can get a restraining order against anyone by simply lying.... and in order to have a chance even if you've done nothing your better off admitting to some of the bullshit!? Ya ummm no fuck that..
@veronicatbartonesq way terrifying! Not only that I tried making a report the sheriff's office cause my vehicle was stolen and they told me it's a civil matter and I said I don't see how and would still like to fill out a report and they threatened me saying they would arrest me if I even filled out my name wrong! All because my ex has family that are also cops... IVE NEVER EVEN HAVE CALLED THE COPS BEFORE FOR ANYTHING.... this last and just do mean LAST TIME my ex called the cops on me I was sleeping! Time before that she called the cops said I broke her phone and they arrested me 2 weeks later but they dropped it before I even went to the arraignment I had no lawyer nothing it's because she's still using the same phone... I don't know what to do or where to turn... and she hauled with the kids and I haven't heard MMB seen them yet... she filed for injunction of protection it was denied but of course have to go to court date 45days later!!! On dec3rd the kids and my ex have lived at my home for 9yrs rent free now talking about back child support... they are trying to destroy me and all because we got into a argument and I made her leave? I've never hit a women hell my ex probably beat me up!
Experienced family law attorney here (PA & NJ). Handled hundreds of protection from abuse cases. In my opinion, it is best to vet very carefully before entering into a relationship with anyone. If you get any red flag vibes that the person you are dating is either violent or has a history of lying about being the victim of domestic violence, run! Part of the problem in domestic violence cases (in most jurisdictions) is the low burden of proof (preponderance of the evidence).
Wish I read this before I had a child to someone that plays victim
@@stuartbeaumont3936same here
100 %.
Thank you so much. Your tips just helped me win a case with a lying narcissist. 🎉
were you a respondent? how was it?
you are amazing save innocent people being wrongly accused thank g from Australia oos
This was soo helpful 💗💛
You’re awesome, thank you SO much . I just filed one to be able to see my kid.
Why didn't this video show up before my first hearing..... I spent so long making a testimony under 10 minutes and was only given 3 before I was cut off.
STICK TO YOUR POINT, DIS-CREDIT THE PLAINTIFF, MAKE IT CLEAR YOU DON'T WANT TO SEE OR HARM THEM
Can the defendant not show up to court and have the lawyer take care of it all?
Not sure if you are too busy to reply to comments but I hope you see this first thank you for these videos they are sooo helpful. Basically I have an hearing for an order of protection against me and the abuse allegations and statements are fabricated some flat out lies. I have no history of any kind in my background of abuse however my wife was actually arrested on battery charges against me over two years ago. I am not sure if I want to use it if I don’t have to because we have a custody hearing in January and she has agreed to visitation as a courtesy until then but I know if I pull this card I won’t be able to see my son for another month and that’s if I get custody then I am confident about that hearing though because I will have an attorney and character witnesses on my behalf. So basically just not sure if I should play long game or short game
I have to thank TH-cam and amazing lawyers like yourself that make videos to help people that want to deal with these certain smaller cases on their own. You are a very intelligent lawyer, as I’ve grown older I realized certain people were made for certain disciplines. You’re young and beautiful and wickedly smart so being a lawyer is great!!!
I’m happy to help! (And thank you so much; I’m framing this comment)
@@veronicatbartonesq you’ve made my day so much less stressful, I’m glad I could return the favor and make yours 🌹
Hey! Hope you had a nice and relaxing time over the weekend. I had one quick question probably many other viewers have had too. When I bring exhibit evidence to court, I think it is common sense to bring three separate copies of each in their own binder, correct? Was wondering if you could shed some light on that. Thank you!
I am the respondent I have been telling my family about the abuse my mom and brother have been doing to me my whole life they both sexually assaulted me I am willing to take a lie detector test my brother has filed a restraining order on me even though one of the messages I sent them which I know they are going to use clearly says just leave me alone let me go my own direction I will not contact you and now they are getting a restraining order I admit I was angry however no threats were made and on the injunction paper I got they are trying to make it seem like threats were made but I just told the truth about the abuse they did and said I’d be willing to take a lie detector test how do I fight this they do have messages where as I don’t have proof but am willing to take a lie detector test and don’t think they will
Do I have to speak or my attorney will speak for me ?
The other side has an attorney but I’m representing myself according to my knowledge of the incident all with my evidences is there anyway to not win the case ??
How did it go?
How did it go
Thanks
What if the other side knows the judge?
In CA, say, “I’d like to make a motion pursuant to CCP 170.6.” By doing so, you’re saying (in a polite way) that you believe that the judge cannot fairly decide the case. leginfo.legislature.ca.gov/faces/codes_displaySection.xhtml?sectionNum=170.6.&lawCode=CCP
@@veronicatbartonesq where would I look for that law in Pennsylvania please? I cannot afford representation either
@@8472zoya I can’t give Pennsylvania-specific advice, but for CA, I would type something like “judge disqualification California,” so a similar search might help you.
@@veronicatbartonesq thank you for advice.
👍🏽👍🏽
I hope you realize that actual victims like me, who are up against these monsters who CLAIM to be innocent who are not, watch videos about what their legal team does to to help them get out of crap they actually created. These videos only help victims see how perpetrators create a gas lighted storyline based on denial and manipulation. Congrats, you lost.
You're an idiot, this is for people who are falsely accused which happens way more often than a legitimate reason for an order to be filed. Maybe look in the mirror and think why do so many of you make up lies? If you all weren't such liars then yeah maybe it would be a little easier for you, ever thought about that or did I just blow your little peanut sized brain?
This could be said for both sides. The information she’s providing is impartial and extremely helpful, especially for those that cannot afford to be represented.
Are you sure you're not the one gaslighting?
As someone who is abusing the OP system right now to try and steal my home and I give a pile of evidence to prove it, Shut up.
So basically anyone can get a restraining order against anyone by simply lying.... and in order to have a chance even if you've done nothing your better off admitting to some of the bullshit!? Ya ummm no fuck that..
Worse yet, you can actually be convicted of a crime based on the word of one person with no other evidence. It’s pretty terrifying.
@veronicatbartonesq way terrifying! Not only that I tried making a report the sheriff's office cause my vehicle was stolen and they told me it's a civil matter and I said I don't see how and would still like to fill out a report and they threatened me saying they would arrest me if I even filled out my name wrong! All because my ex has family that are also cops... IVE NEVER EVEN HAVE CALLED THE COPS BEFORE FOR ANYTHING.... this last and just do mean LAST TIME my ex called the cops on me I was sleeping! Time before that she called the cops said I broke her phone and they arrested me 2 weeks later but they dropped it before I even went to the arraignment I had no lawyer nothing it's because she's still using the same phone... I don't know what to do or where to turn... and she hauled with the kids and I haven't heard MMB seen them yet... she filed for injunction of protection it was denied but of course have to go to court date 45days later!!! On dec3rd the kids and my ex have lived at my home for 9yrs rent free now talking about back child support... they are trying to destroy me and all because we got into a argument and I made her leave? I've never hit a women hell my ex probably beat me up!