☕️ Does this ever happen to you? Feeling Torn by Wanting to Be in Two Places at Once

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  • @askthespiritguides
    @askthespiritguides  18 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

    ➡ JOIN THE SPIRIT CIRCLE. We'd loved to have you! 😇
    th-cam.com/channels/hZQ-fUtSBM2KRDJvANfKUQ.htmljoin

  • @Jugivadi
    @Jugivadi 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +8

    My darling wife of 47 years passed two years ago. She was a holiday celebration unto herself. My daughter has picked up the holiday torch. I still don't have the heart for it. Talk about torn. My daughter is committed to her in-laws this year. I'm really relieved that pressure is off. So I'll be happily lonely this year. Blessings to you all. ❤

    • @dorothywalters7448
      @dorothywalters7448 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      Prayers of peace for your weekend holiday!

    • @askthespiritguides
      @askthespiritguides  ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Aww .. that is so sweet how you refer to your darling wife. I am sorry for you loss.

  • @RobertaDunn-f5l
    @RobertaDunn-f5l 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +11

    Be in gratitude for today. Are you okay for today. Do you have what you need. Dwell not in the fear of what might happen. Live your life. Know you are safe in this moment. Shine your light and hold the balance. Love, light, peace and abundance to all. Shine on.

  • @maryhart637
    @maryhart637 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +12

    Been married 52 years in a complicated and difficult relationship. I am torn today as I am with my husband and am wishing that I was with my kids. When I was leaving (I live in an apartment in my daughter's home with her family) my granddaughter hugged me and said "I don't want you to go" which kinda broke my heart. I also left my 2 elderly pups and I miss them enormously! It is a bittersweet longing to want to be in 2 places at the same time💔 Happy Thanksgiving🌾🦃🦃

    • @janeebarrett2463
      @janeebarrett2463 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

      @MaryHart637
      I'm sorry for your tender hurting heart.

    • @askthespiritguides
      @askthespiritguides  2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Happy Thanksgiving! I'm sending love and hugs to your family and your pups.

  • @chrisjohnson383
    @chrisjohnson383 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    Going to be with two of my daughters and two of my grandchildren. Very blessed

  • @darlatiesling6224
    @darlatiesling6224 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +7

    Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!
    Karen, I’m from Wisconsin and you saying “oh my gosh” is like being home again!
    We are still Packer fans!
    Our family is spread out all over the county, watching the packer games brings us together!😂

    • @taraflanagan5882
      @taraflanagan5882 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Go Pyackers!

    • @askthespiritguides
      @askthespiritguides  2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Happy Thanksgiving to you as well!

  • @rsteele9897
    @rsteele9897 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +8

    You’re adorable! So cheerful!

  • @ShirleyWilliams-w1q
    @ShirleyWilliams-w1q 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +6

    To reflect upon your sadness; you did inner child work the other day. It is good you are nurturing yourself, Karen.❤

  • @archeanna1425
    @archeanna1425 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    About the 'click' - there's a geology instructor at WSU named Nick Zenter who has a remarkable site on TH-cam where he has been teaching anyone who wants to tune in about geology of Washington state and, of course, nearby areas from California to Alaska and lots about British Columbia. Earthquakes, volcanoes, millions of years of rocks doing what rocks do, chunks of the earth's crust moving vast distances. It's so interesting.
    He's originally from Wisconsin and he has the charming habit of 'clinking' a toast to all his viewers at the end of each session. It's so charming, it's adorable and I think it's part of the reason why he has a loyal and engaged audience, where people generously offer all kinds of useful information.
    Now that I've seen how much this habit connects people, I'm going to look for ways to include it in my life.
    Re: Thanksgiving - Canada does it a month earlier.

  • @bonniegodson2192
    @bonniegodson2192 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    I work night shift and when I get up let’s say you look better. I enjoy watching you.

  • @rebeccaashton5390
    @rebeccaashton5390 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    Good morning Karen. So enjoy your chats ☮️💙

  • @miriamcedillo4431
    @miriamcedillo4431 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    Karen with the 'calm cockatoo' hairstyle....No I'm not posting mine.🤯

  • @deborahburton2683
    @deborahburton2683 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    Good morning sunshine. What a breath of fresh air to see you on this morning. I have felt torn before. It is a dumper feeling. I hope you enjoy your time with your sister. You will be back home with your better half before you know it. Enjoy ❤❤❤

  • @Scorpio_reborn
    @Scorpio_reborn 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    I always felt OBLIGATED to be at my father's for the holidays and really just always wanted to be with my Mom or my grandparents. Holidays are so hard and I'm so grateful for you, I feel like I'm sitting next to a new best friend 🧡

  • @debatthebeach433
    @debatthebeach433 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    My cats are divorced apparently and I find myself going between the front and back of the house to spend time with each kitty. 🐈🐈‍⬛

  • @anniekat67
    @anniekat67 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    I also live a flight away from most of my family. I often want to be in more than one place at a time. Have a Happy Thanksgiving everyone! 🦃☮️

  • @sandi4158
    @sandi4158 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    I felt torn sometimes at holidays when my parents and siblings were alive, but I'm not ready to be on the other side! So now I'm not torn and the bonus is I know they're all with me. They just pranked me the other day to prove it. Long story. Happy Thanksgiving everyone!

  • @janeebarrett2463
    @janeebarrett2463 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +5

    Click!!!! Good morning!
    Happy Harvest and Thanks. . .My favorite special day. I say Happy Harvest in respect to our Indigenous sisters and brothers.
    And here YOU are!

  • @kristentodd-o2p
    @kristentodd-o2p 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you for being here:)

  • @paulasangco7323
    @paulasangco7323 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    Happy Harvest 💖🙏

  • @bird.love.creations
    @bird.love.creations 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Karen, I wonder if "visiting" your younger selves yesterday brought some of this back into your energies? (For those reading the comments, check out previous video,😉). Hugs to you Karen. ☕ "Click"☕
    So sweet how you speak about your hubby.

    • @kamelak6456
      @kamelak6456 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Makes sense

  • @teresahopemiller1008
    @teresahopemiller1008 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Yeah, When Curt was alive, anytime any chance of being together. I did a lot of trouble managing my time all the more. He wanted my undivided attention all the time. Yet If i took the time to want to organize the house or pay attention to it. He was where are you, Teresa? If i had to go out, and he was home. So even though I had this time management issue worse than now. I still miss that lovely, wonderful stinker. I miss teasing him about being a guy. (Burps and Farts) LOL Pardon me not bad manners just good food. A British thing. He lived there for 6 years as a boy. He was always serious but still was allowing himself to be silly and with me. No one else shares silliness with me.OMG I miss that dear guy. He was awesome. If you love the Beatles, there was a connection to him. he Tuned Pianos for 50 years. I miss his company and his thinking brain. those brain cells were always moving. We always had good conversation. he rarely read but knew a lot. he would get Information from documentaries and conversations. he ha*ed to read braille. He never saw in this life but he was very insightful foresight. He worked with me on that. I am more hindsight for some annoying reason. I am glad he is safe, and God is with him. He didnt have to face what we are going through right now. I think he knew we were going to face this. I was almost convinced because of reproductive rights. Oh well. yes indeed.

  • @kamelak6456
    @kamelak6456 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    You’re pretty Karen and fun as well. I keep watching

  • @theresarivest567
    @theresarivest567 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am not geographically close to my family members. And the family is shrinking. My husband and I are usually alone on the holidays. I would be happy to be in any place with family.

  • @dorothywalters7448
    @dorothywalters7448 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I call it heart strings that is our love connection. Some are stronger than others, and I use electronics of all kinds to keep in touch. My siblings that are close do a monthly meal to keep close, and thats nice!!! I don't feel lonely, I'm blessed!!!

    • @askthespiritguides
      @askthespiritguides  ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I love that .. "heart strings"

  • @maurettehanson3655
    @maurettehanson3655 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Actually, I would love to know when you came into your spirituality and where that journey took you. Happy a very blessed day tomorrow with family. Safe journey back home!

    • @maurettehanson3655
      @maurettehanson3655 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Karen, do you recommend a specific type of dowsing rod and where from? Thank you!

    • @askthespiritguides
      @askthespiritguides  2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Here is the Amazon link to the dowsing rods I use th-cam.com/users/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqa0tlOXgzMkVTaDJoOGRHdHZQWmR5WTNDakdrQXxBQ3Jtc0tsX2ZaNWVwY29fME5HMXlRdTl3cEJPTWRpdlpzZHNGbkpZMm1VMVhtSXo5SzFQWTBlbmhaU0ZMdmZpNldYUVB2R3lDTENfSmZvRUpLVEtzUVBrVlZxUWZzWDJwNllJVXBFOE9LVUJ6bzdEbmNyQTRhYw&q=https%3A%2F%2Famzn.to%2F3C2h2cF&v=8NP8-2q4IUI

    • @askthespiritguides
      @askthespiritguides  2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      And here is the link for the velcro covers: th-cam.com/users/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqblJzV3RpSUxqTTBrVHd3dXo4c3hpQ2tJa1huZ3xBQ3Jtc0trWWU4Qkhka3FRbk5SVnp5UnNQNThxdkFEUnktTnpnX0FyMGx2V3V2T0N2aGQtMnVXRDJ2U1JHUFZFQnNSVF9JaTA2SmJwRXNVY1FVeWJxY215d2daYWZ5NktvSDdLVS14aTVyS2gxQ3NTbkM1UnozZw&q=https%3A%2F%2Famzn.to%2F3Yqd2Ke&v=8NP8-2q4IUI

    • @askthespiritguides
      @askthespiritguides  2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you! I'll share about my journey in a future video!

    • @maurettehanson3655
      @maurettehanson3655 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @askthespiritguides thank you! There are so many to choose from! At least I know yours are well made

  • @LindaMoore-cz9hk
    @LindaMoore-cz9hk 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    I'm forever trying to divide myself between here and there.

  • @DebbieDooo
    @DebbieDooo 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    “Click”. Good morning and Happy Thanksgiving. Still not sure about Blue Sky. Going to wait it out a little longer.

    • @askthespiritguides
      @askthespiritguides  2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours!

  • @lindag3650
    @lindag3650 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Being in the light & bringing the light, YES. Got stopped by five men straight out of “The Handsmaid Tale”. Fraid I didn’t handle it very well, but at least the interaction was short, just as soon as I figured out we got started on the wrong foot. It may be bc I didn’t listen to your light this morning. Will try & do better next time.

    • @askthespiritguides
      @askthespiritguides  ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Oh my .. I am sorry for that experience.

  • @mariav6198
    @mariav6198 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I’ve felt the same way growing up. My parents didn’t talk to me and my sisters about their divorce. They told us we were moving when we would see my dad, and that was that! Different times. That need to be in both places was familiar.

  • @JaniceSyndergaard
    @JaniceSyndergaard 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Gmornin! Just marinating the Angus rump roast now. Gonna pop it in the crockpot with cabbage & mixed veggies later. Have a great day! Blessings🙏🙏& Light✨🌟✨🌟✨

  • @PeggyHanford
    @PeggyHanford 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Definitely feel that way when I'm traveling. I want to go somewhere but then when I'm there I want to be at home, missing my animals and husband. I think it's part of being human and I feel lucky to experience this ... having a home/family you love so much you never want to be away too long. Happy Thanksgiving to all!

    • @askthespiritguides
      @askthespiritguides  2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours!

  • @janeebarrett2463
    @janeebarrett2463 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Yes, my sisters both have great husbands. . .I know marriage can be challenging, I feel like they so take their husbands for granted and sometimes are totally mean to them. Now that I really can't get behind.
    I have always been isolated because of my soul contract I guess i see what a gift it is to have a husband who's also your friend.
    Good for you two. I Love that.

  • @HoneyBeeBuz
    @HoneyBeeBuz 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Cooking here get ready for The Big Day tomorrow
    I hate to be away from hubby, yesterday 31 years married 2 + years dating however I can do it if my two sons their wives and my two grandson are involved
    Plus now going to stay 3 days every other week with my 84 year old mom, we lost my dad a year ago to cancer, and my unmarried sister moved in with her however we all go stay and spend time with her !
    We are very blessed 🥰
    You will be home before you know it enjoy your family those memories will be important too 🥰❤️♥️ Much Love Debbie

  • @PatriciaFloch-q5d
    @PatriciaFloch-q5d 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Torn, yes. Right now!! It's way too long of a story to type out, but yes.....I find that as wonderful as holidays are they can be very stressful in terms of being with and/or separate from family members..... Ugh!! And my cat (Birdie) misses me too, when I'm gone....and likewise!

  • @marcholmquist3089
    @marcholmquist3089 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    😎 GOOOD MORNING coffe time

  • @asMagBoonFL
    @asMagBoonFL 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I hadn’t thought of it until you mentioned after your parents divorce, crying at night. My parents were divorced and I missed my dad and cried myself to sleep most nights until I was in middle school. My dad was in the picture and I saw him once or twice a week but I still missed him.

  • @carolwilder2497
    @carolwilder2497 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    As a kid holidays were always about my parents arguing and being verbally abusive. My sibs were always walking on eggshells. I didn’t get to enjoy the holidays until I had my own family.

  • @janetblanc7658
    @janetblanc7658 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Karen, you are describing my two granddaughters' experience,who are torn between their separated parents. I know they are sad and I cant help much. It makes me unhappy.😢

  • @evelynjimenez4424
    @evelynjimenez4424 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    My Hubby and I are definitely each other's twin flame match..it's said you can have many soul mates but only one twin flame! These past two years his career has been having us apart for mi ths at a ti.e and we ha e been miserable apart! He's never been a mushy guy until recently and he txt me 4-5 times a day and calls me at least 4 times a day! At breakfast on break at lunch end of his work day walking to his truck. Before dinner! After dinner and before bed!!! It's amazing sweet and loving and gentle! I love how we've grown with each other!

  • @skatscat1954
    @skatscat1954 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    The separation I always hated,,, separation from my dog! Like even a day! We both had separation anxiety!!!

  • @chrisjohnson383
    @chrisjohnson383 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    You are missing him. 😊

  • @anniem9687
    @anniem9687 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I love blue sky

  • @ginnypaul2149
    @ginnypaul2149 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I feel exactly the same way about my hubby. We are twin flames for sure. Such a long story. Ill get into it later. Have a great Thanksgiving!

  • @bigsixxraven
    @bigsixxraven 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    (clink) Good Morning!

  • @danaaganovic5045
    @danaaganovic5045 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Hi, I found you on bluesky 🥰

  • @janeebarrett2463
    @janeebarrett2463 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Oh Karen. . . . Love at first sight.

  • @PatriciaFloch-q5d
    @PatriciaFloch-q5d 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Ok, I just found you on Blue Sky.....Cool !!!

  • @Patrish-gd3ht
    @Patrish-gd3ht 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks for your holiday reflections. You are so so so lucky to have found your person when you were in college! Regarding your experience of feeling torn when you were a kid. Was your sister not with you? My kids always had each other in situations like this.

    • @askthespiritguides
      @askthespiritguides  2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      My sister and brothers were always with me however they are quite a bit older

  • @debbiekirchner2513
    @debbiekirchner2513 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    My parents were separated for 5 years when my kids were little. It was so hard. I went through a divorce and they got back together. I understand what my kids felt and still feel. They are adults. I stopped pulling my kids at holidays, long ago. That may or may not have been the best option for me, but I hope it was for them.

  • @chrisjohnson383
    @chrisjohnson383 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    You are very lucky

  • @kristentodd-o2p
    @kristentodd-o2p 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Staying put for Thanksgiving. My sweet doggo is sick.

    • @askthespiritguides
      @askthespiritguides  ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Oh no, I hope your pup gets well soon!

    • @kristentodd-o2p
      @kristentodd-o2p 29 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

      @ he has masses in his sleen and liver. We are enjoying every minute we have with him. Thank you❤️

  • @chrisjohnson383
    @chrisjohnson383 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    That is what I miss about being married

  • @peaceonearthnow
    @peaceonearthnow 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Karen ❤

  • @bonniegodson2192
    @bonniegodson2192 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Happy Thanksgiving Karen!

    • @askthespiritguides
      @askthespiritguides  2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Happy Thanksgiving to you as well!

  • @melindapye7435
    @melindapye7435 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I am so sad for my kiddo. I have stayed in LA so he could have a relationship with his dad who abandoned me the day he found out I was pregnant. All of my family is out of state. Unfortunately, his dad goes underground routinely and does the bare minimum while at the same time pretending he is sad he can't be with him on holidays or the weekends they are supposed to share. My kiddo is missing out on family and it's becoming clear staying here just for his dad is foolish.

  • @ThePaperSparrow.
    @ThePaperSparrow. 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Just followed over on Blue Sky. Not sure if I'm brave enough to post a pic of morning hair. 😅

  • @deborahburton2683
    @deborahburton2683 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Oh, and I could not find you on Bluesky

  • @chriswinter1874
    @chriswinter1874 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I searched for you on Blue Sky. Is it Ask the Spirit Guides?

  • @ms.miarenniks4413
    @ms.miarenniks4413 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thanks for hanging with me!

  • @briansomes6023
    @briansomes6023 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Been there done that and it suks for sure

  • @PatriciaFloch-q5d
    @PatriciaFloch-q5d 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I just looked and can't find you under Ask the Spirit Guides on Blue Sky???? Are the words all run together?

  • @donnagarvey6838
    @donnagarvey6838 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤❤

  • @lynnealbritton2802
    @lynnealbritton2802 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I’m trying to find you on blue sky. I am not quite sure how to do this in case anybody else reads this comment. I put her under the search and I can’t find her or are you depending on who reading this? Can anybody show me how to work the blue sky thank you and happy turkey day everybody

  • @Sprinkles-LittleRain
    @Sprinkles-LittleRain 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    ☕️😀❤

  • @ShirleyWilliams-w1q
    @ShirleyWilliams-w1q 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    What elevation are you in?

    • @askthespiritguides
      @askthespiritguides  2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      About 7500 feet .. whereas at home I am under 1000 feet =)

  • @wecanbbetter5330
    @wecanbbetter5330 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    💖💙💖💙💖💙💖💙💖💙💖💙💖💙💖💙

  • @chrisjohnson383
    @chrisjohnson383 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    🫶🫶🫶

  • @simplypositiveme
    @simplypositiveme 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Missing the angel cards!!

  • @chrisjohnson383
    @chrisjohnson383 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    I would like to be a big happy family with my ex and all my children and grandchildren. But that isn’t the way it is. So I will be happy with whatever children and grandchildren I am with. 🫶🫶🫶🫶

  • @heathercrates4139
    @heathercrates4139 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Wikipedia look up: Thanksgiving is a national holiday celebrated on various dates in October and November in the United States, Canada, Saint Lucia, Liberia, and unofficially in countries like Brazil, Germany and the Philippines. It is also observed in the Australian territory of Norfolk Island. Your body gets use to the elevation at some point.
    🥐HAPPY THANKSGIVING 🥐

  • @bonniegodson2192
    @bonniegodson2192 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I work night shift and when I get up let’s say you look better. I enjoy watching you.

  • @chrisjohnson383
    @chrisjohnson383 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I would like to be a big happy family with my ex and all my children and grandchildren. But that isn’t the way it is. So I will be happy with whatever children and grandchildren I am with. 🫶🫶🫶🫶