Yep and I've just discovered my narcissist partner of 10 years is bisexual and been cheating on me with his workmate!! He doesn't know I know. I've got all his sordid texts, voicemails on my phone.....I took photos of all the texts! I can't leave atm because I don't have the money or any support. I'm on day 3 of the silent treatment so my room is my safe place away from him and his bullshit. I feel pity and I laugh about him alot! I'm running my own race and doing my own thing! These videos are an absolute godsend to me! When he would give me the silent treatment initially, I would be following him around like a little lost puppy! Well fuck that.....I don't speak to him at all.....we were in the kitchen together before and I was putting groceries away.....I never said a word to the bastard! I will destroy him when I can finally leave him! Got a dirty black ace up my sleeve and he's got no idea!!
They don't like EXPOSURE they will act that they will win the Oscars for best Actor they have 2 personalities Mr Jekyll and Mr Hyde they are soo sweet and charming and so cruel and evil
@@shalubanerjee308 I have one and will never forgive this SOB for what he has done to me. We haven't seen or spoke with one another in five years. Out of sight, out of mind it becomes a bit easier and I want it that way! Long time coming....
You can be tempted, just resist giving in to it. Been there, done that (tempted but resisted), observed karma hit them. You must learn patience though, natural law requires that they be given multiple second chances to repent and redeem themselves. It sucks to be us, but we learn from it. We can walk away if we are blessed or lucky enough to get early warning signs. May anyone who needs it be blessed with the fortitude to endure.
Narcissists are masters at playing the role of a victim in front of others. But I honestly believe that when they are just faced with themselves, they know what actually transpired, and they regret losing a good person. This includes friends, family, or romantic partners. so to lighten their burden of being held accountable, they work overtime to paint a picture which makes them the victim, versus the culprit. It’s a sad, and even maddening reality….but it is what it is. The part that will always be baffling to me is how they tend to stalk you after you have parted. it’s like a love/hate relationship, that I will never fully understand. But I’m grateful to be freed from the bondage of being connected to a narcissist. I am proud of myself for having the courage to place distance between my energy and their toxicity. Choosing yourself is often times lonely at first, but ultimately empowering! Always pick peace over anybody’s drama!
The narcissists are the hidden villains of the society….apparently they are quite charismatic n gentle… but that’s not their reality … their spouses are the worst-sufferers !!
The best is to just heal yourself and move on! There demonic ways block you from your purpose and personal growth! You don’t need to prove anything to them. They are sick 🤢 and suffering it one ☝️ gigantic defense mechanism. Get closer to God! As he said vengeance is mine! This is an extension of the karma they receive due to negative intentions! So don’t have any negative intentions towards them. Pray 🙏 from a distance. Only God can heal them! Taking revengance is like spitting in the wind
This person and I only knew each other over the Internet through short discussions. I never met him and never will. We are not compatible. Our beliefs and values are different. How we view the world is also not the same. It just did not work out. He has access to lots of women and he takes advantage of them. Living alone allows me to continue to grow as I always have. Personal and spiritual growth through reflection and other endeavors is what makes me happy. I do not need to have a man in my life to be happy. I am not against meeting a compatible partner, but will never settle for someone I cannot trust and where mutual love and respect cannot exist.
Being the same or seeking revenge on a narsasist is bringing yourself down to their lower energy level I live in the same building as a complete narsasist she's told lies about me to every resident By completely ignoring her it's given me the breathing space but she has now started intimidating my family and friends these people have no souls and go out of their way to purposely hurt others for their own gratification
After I started telling that ""I have moved on "" they started more efforts to come back ... Until I don't that I have an option to say ""No or I have moved on "" they took me as fun .... They know my weak point that I don't care anything untill they play any games but if they blame me I will open my voice to prove who are frod so that conversation they are taking an advantage n coming again n again.... I should control that point if I stop them ...
I moved on from my ex, with a wonderful man, who has been embraced by our son, my ex-in laws, and many friends that we both had. It's been my best revenge against him... living life well, I'm happy, people now realize that it was him who was the narc, and I'm not guilty of his lies. People figured it out on their own. He'll probably die a lonely old man, but I don't care, and it just doesn't matter to me what happens to him. My adult son was finally able to tell his father to f- off, and he never wanted to see him again. I was proud of him for standing up to his sad and pathetic excuse for a father. I not only survived narcicistic abuse, I am thriving. I've never been better!!!
I am going through it right now😢 After 3 years being with a narcissistic partner,it’s been almost 2 weeks no contact then out the blue emails rolling in him being( fake) nice he even caught me walking to work . He done dragged me into contact through emails he back to his evil self name calling all the above . I block him on email again, I feel 😢
Over the span of 7yrs and two kids, she has kicked m out 3x. The last time she said, 'gtfo!' ...I got my shit and left. Of course she wouldnt let me go quiet, she made sure the neighbors knew and even tried her best to get in a fight with me, physically. All the while my lil kids are cryn because Im leaving and instead of comforting them, she focused her verbally assault on me in front of the kids. Her new supply - has to wonder, 'what kind of human would throw a loving, caring father out on the streets?' .....that look the new supply gave me, was 'what is going on here whats happening?'. She's gonna find out.
He i isolate me from the family to validate his leaving with the smear campaign. Lord knows I’ve hoodwinked and bamboozled by his behavior, but I’m woke now and no one will ever have the opportunity to get that close to me again without examination. I would not love too fast trust too soon and care too much. That was my fault. That’s why I went wrong. It’s a great lesson to learn from and I thank God that I didn’t lose my mind
By ignoring them is not taking revenge but rather not to let you sin against God and men. Psalm 1:1-3Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful. But his delight is in the law of the Lord; and in his law doth he meditate day and night.
I will tell you about my neck ex, he flipped out and almost strangled me to death, I got free call police, got him out of my home, after all the Hoover I told him to get help or get lost he quickly found another lady
This person is a friend that I feel sad when we don't talk don't want 2 put them down I can ignore not answer phone as long as it takes and they hate that
They have no empathy at all. It is all about them. Very selfish. My daughter got badly angry with me when she held past grudges againgst me and I told her to let go of them, and she threw me on the floor and told me to get out of her house. It is over a year now and I have not spoken since. I sent one birthday card only.She has not contacted. You have described narcs very well. I know another one( male)😮
They think they are God who see people as objects that they expect to feel grateful for their weird ahh attention. They live on earth but their mind is long gone trust me
It s my third time that when I tell a narcissist or his or her superior...oh, I am scared of this person...when they let them know...they feel very confused...probably because you are not really attacking them, or really running away...you definitely are finding faults on them...but, it s not really clear...it happened to me by jobcenter coach...these people thank they are God...if you let them...I told her...and she backed off and started explaining confused...I used it again...and that other time at least they changed me the abusive coach...and the last time...the person came to apologize in front of his superior...so, it works! The strange thing is that I really mean what I say, but the way they react...is refreshing...their ego burst...because you are not really attacking...you are just fuck*ng scare😂
He played out his childhood on me. Then he alienated the kids so after they left we weren’t really a family anymore. Then he ramped up the fun. When I left he was disappointed I wasn’t having a nervous breakdown. He won’t miss me one bit. He owns the kids and they will take care of his alcoholic butt. For me it’s like 40 years wiped out.
My ex wife was this good girl type .. she ended up having an affair and when I found out she got angrier and her narc side came out which was horrifying. No remirse no apologies .. interestingly she was always jealous and insecure and that made me think or feel it was because she loved me. She always accused me of cheating but now I see it was projection. I forgave her and tried to save our marriage but she says she is not sure if she trusts me ? It’s so strange When her affair partner moved on and got married a year later instead of our marriage healing things got much worse and that makes sense with this video as the impact of seeing someone over on and she took it out on our marriage and family she did t care what our daughter was out through
I enjoyed the video; my case is a very rare case. My sister and I grew up together, we had no parents, so day by day for 63 years now but one of our staff, named J, was pretending so well, In May, J changed her attitude towards me and told me I was yelling her during the work and then my sister defended for J in any criticism from me or our mutual friends. After 60 days, the argument hasn't been solved. I enforced to my sister that J had to leave as J only come back to work at any time she wanted, I always believed these two had a secret relationship, I found a picture on CCTV in our shop that my sister hugging her from the back and J was enjoyed so I believe it was a first hug. A week later, I saw another video that was even worse; I am Chinese, J is Indian, and both cultures do not accept this kind of behaviour. Please advice what 's the problem. Is J a narcissist? or my sister has a mental disorder, J had a record of locked into a mental hospital for a short period of time but after two years, I think her situation has not improved. Any suggestion so that I can what can I do? Until this moment, my sister still denied , only moral support.
narc women are the reason a lot of men are, jobless, drunkards, retrogressive, homeless, poor, dead etc. they are the real devil's who appear as normal women.
Thank you for the information. Makes complete sense. How do you deal with a group of narcissistic gossiping, backstabbing, privacy invading,evil minded elderly people in elderly apartment when you are their target? Being very quiet, living my life with headphones on so I can have privacy while trying to live my life hasn't worked. I have been so quiet they now stalk me by taking turns standing in front of my door listening. Please can you give me some ideas on how to cope with this. I am a very sensitive lady and cannot ignore them. It crushes me when I go to do the laundry and they go into whisper mode, or I hear pieces of my personal conversations turning into nastiness. HELP !!!!!!!! Nn
The people sound bad in the senior apt bldg. Mine is normal. You have people with dementia (beginning stages). It's is a active senior community. People are upbeat here. I volunteer a lot with the store and garbage dumpster because a lot of people can't handle the weight. I check to see if the doors are locked at 9pm. I stay out of the gossip. I could volunteer more but that's enough. They gossip alright but I stay out of it. I hope this helps. I been here 5 years and it is quiet 🤫 lol
They stole from you & they will harass you to convince themselves they had the right to. They don't have a heart until it stops beating 🤷🏾♀️ read that again
I refused to give her money .she got so mad.i think she hates me forever but I don't care bcz she used to do this when we were together.she posted her new partner.
Good luck with ....they can never get ehat they deserve bc they can not see any wrong in their actions and themselves as a person.. When u are not easy to control...they just move on to somebody who feeds their ego or lifestyle more. You have never mattered to them..that is the sad ..truth.
They say anything .like I don't like your children and family and make them feel un welcome. He leave .my children live out of town he don't want to go with me and get angry if I want to go . If I let him know that I am going to go some where a week in advance he will fuss so much I change my mind. If he promise to take me to see my children .some how he gets out of it .
Asshole called me after 3 weeks and said “I know we still love each other deeply and will end up together” Then blamed my sister for our problems. Because I know now what he was all about I just listened. I am healing and still have bad days but it’s getting easier.
Do whatever you can to have ZERO contact!! Block them, ignore them, delete them from your life. If they try to bait you DO NOT fall for it. Learn what got yourself into this situation in the first place (for me it was ignoring my intuition after the 1/2nd nasty comment). Go live your best life!!! ❤
Oh yer he goes to his family n blames me but dont 5ell them i caught him in pub with a married woman ? Very cosy till he saw me n then jumped like scared cat from her to empyy seat other end of bar ? Even bar maid looked strange wen saw were he was now sat with me his wife , ? .
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Well, sigh. I will always feel like a simp for not seeking revenge. Especially since she wants to kill me, so it's self-defense lol. But honestly, she is already such a deeply unhappy person. And possibly a suicide risk. I can't have that on my conscience
She rents I have my own home,I heard landlord kicked him out now his woman friend told me he wants me back, I said to her, I want him back like a hemroid, and I ran into him, I said I never want you back,, Ever, he stood there, his mouth dropped and I put on my sun shade and walked off, feeling way taller than him,, I don't call anyone a looser, but,,o. Well, discipline Mom should have shown him
lol, my narcissist must really be in hell right now. I’ve cut them off from my affection and show no interest in them at all. I really should be careful as he has tried to kill me several times in the past, but GOD has delivered me from his evil tactics as I don’t care what he thinks about me or what he says! IM HAPPY,and he hates it.🥰
No but they keep sending me messages through the comos and saying they are putting curses on me with some other b**ch and then turn around later say they miss you and want to see you and confess there wrong doings towards me bull s**t, they are big liars and fake.
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What makes a narc more mad than anything is when you accuse them of something they are doing
Narcissist get angry when they are lying and we catch the truth
they get mad and more evil when you take their masks off.
Yep and I've just discovered my narcissist partner of 10 years is bisexual and been cheating on me with his workmate!! He doesn't know I know. I've got all his sordid texts, voicemails on my phone.....I took photos of all the texts! I can't leave atm because I don't have the money or any support. I'm on day 3 of the silent treatment so my room is my safe place away from him and his bullshit. I feel pity and I laugh about him alot! I'm running my own race and doing my own thing! These videos are an absolute godsend to me! When he would give me the silent treatment initially, I would be following him around like a little lost puppy! Well fuck that.....I don't speak to him at all.....we were in the kitchen together before and I was putting groceries away.....I never said a word to the bastard! I will destroy him when I can finally leave him! Got a dirty black ace up my sleeve and he's got no idea!!
They don't like EXPOSURE they will act that they will win the Oscars for best Actor they have 2 personalities Mr Jekyll and Mr Hyde they are soo sweet and charming and so cruel and evil
yes...the rage of them when caught in lies is scary...and then you end up feeling guilty and that you have done something wrong by exposing them
@@user9victory1968 I totally agree with this comment 110%, they like to belittle you and make you feel dumb or stupid!
Break their heart is that a joke they don’t have one to begin with
THAT IS RIGHT. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🛑✝️🙏🏾
Truuue , but heir ego has a heart tho, so break that
Absolutely. Their hearts are only for themselves. To hell with others. That is the way narcissists roll.
So true..😫😩
EXACTLY!!!!!
While I don't seek revenge, I'm not going to deprive them the opportunity of "reaping what they have sown".
What about narcissistic adult children
@@shalubanerjee308 I have one and will never forgive this SOB for what he has done to me. We haven't seen or spoke with one another in five years. Out of sight, out of mind it becomes a bit easier and I want it that way! Long time coming....
@@shalubanerjee308They are never light hearted and never laugh.Payback for the misery they caused.
What goes around comes around without any help.
@@FunUrth4All I sure hope so, but it seems to me they do fine and just keep going.
The best way is back to love yourself!😊
Leaving them alone is what you do,get your peace and dignity back
Vengeance belongs to the Lord! I seek no revenge here, as they will and have done it to themselves.
Narcissists think they are gods and only they have the rights to revenge.
You can be tempted, just resist giving in to it. Been there, done that (tempted but resisted), observed karma hit them. You must learn patience though, natural law requires that they be given multiple second chances to repent and redeem themselves. It sucks to be us, but we learn from it. We can walk away if we are blessed or lucky enough to get early warning signs. May anyone who needs it be blessed with the fortitude to endure.
Amen in Jesus' name amen
The best thing you can do is to stay away from them and don’t even think about them
TRUE
Yes, that’s the way to go.
That's not easy to do when it is someone that is in your life
@@agnesrossini9490 Its hard to do when you are still in love with them, regardless of how bad they made you feel. Love the person, hate the actions!
You can never pay someone back , you can't ring a bell that's been rung! Vengeance is the lords, he will do the payback.
Ll Allow God To Be My Advenger.His Judge In Life!!!
Allow God To Be Your Advenger!!! He does it Best!!!
@@marytaylor9504❤😅
God told me to do it
Yes allow God to deal with that evil!
They are already crazy, and they have no soul.
Tbh that's on them 🤷🏾♀️ would be helpful to us all if they had some sense though but sadly they truly are just dumb & believe everyone else is too
I'm glad if the narcissist moves on. I have no interest in living with him after all he has done. He can disappear for good.
Lmfao right please move on sir.
Narcissism means the loneliness of the world: where there is no God and no Love... Thank You!!:))!!
Exactly that's why they had no moral and values no self respect and no self discipline they're like stray animals
hahahaha, crazy, Ezkisofreniaich hahahaha hahaha hahaha, imagine a thing, don't make it real hahahaha
No this person is right about narcissism is right about loneliness is absolutely correct 💯
@@CherieGrieco well, you love the biblical fake god, but, is only punishment, rape, murder and genocide, so is christian not Narsisso,
You are wrong
That's so true
Narcissist are error that should not happen to anyone
Narcissists are masters at playing the role of a victim in front of others. But I honestly believe that when they are just faced with themselves, they know what actually transpired, and they regret losing a good person. This includes friends, family, or romantic partners. so to lighten their burden of being held accountable, they work overtime to paint a picture which makes them the victim, versus the culprit. It’s a sad, and even maddening reality….but it is what it is. The part that will always be baffling to me is how they tend to stalk you after you have parted. it’s like a love/hate relationship, that I will never fully understand. But I’m grateful to be freed from the bondage of being connected to a narcissist. I am proud of myself for having the courage to place distance between my energy and their toxicity. Choosing yourself is often times lonely at first, but ultimately empowering! Always pick peace over anybody’s drama!
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Thank you
The narcissists are the hidden villains of the society….apparently they are quite charismatic n gentle… but that’s not their reality … their spouses are the worst-sufferers !!
Soooo true ..no one can feel that pain unless you r their partner
Charm in public,Rough in private😢
They do not have hearts.
Or consciousness, compasion, empathy and it's all about the narcissist. A walking virus imo!
We just need them to have enough sense 🤷🏾♀️ nobody wants their heart
@@vodkavuitton I doubt it very much that these sick monsters will ever have sense!
No Soul
No contact effs up their world if they still wanted your supply.
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The best vengeance is forever no contact. 🤖
Yep
When I do mirroring she hates that, I think it's one of the spots on things which really works!
Never tried that. Mirror to the point of mocking them.
Thank you now learning all this information.
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The best is to just heal yourself and move on! There demonic ways block you from your purpose and personal growth! You don’t need to prove anything to them. They are sick 🤢 and suffering it one ☝️ gigantic defense mechanism. Get closer to God! As he said vengeance is mine! This is an extension of the karma they receive due to negative intentions! So don’t have any negative intentions towards them. Pray 🙏 from a distance. Only God can heal them! Taking revengance is like spitting in the wind
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This person and I only knew each other over the Internet through short discussions. I never met him and never will. We are not compatible. Our beliefs and values are different. How we view the world is also not the same. It just did not work out. He has access to lots of women and he takes advantage of them. Living alone allows me to continue to grow as I always have. Personal and spiritual growth through reflection and other endeavors is what makes me happy. I do not need to have a man in my life to be happy. I am not against meeting a compatible partner, but will never settle for someone I cannot trust and where mutual love and respect cannot exist.
How do you know all this about someone you never met & only had short conversations with 🤷🏾♀️
Catching them out when they have been plotting behind your back.
Being the same or seeking revenge on a narsasist is bringing yourself down to their lower energy level I live in the same building as a complete narsasist she's told lies about me to every resident By completely ignoring her it's given me the breathing space but she has now started intimidating my family and friends these people have no souls and go out of their way to purposely hurt others for their own gratification
After I started telling that ""I have moved on "" they started more efforts to come back ... Until I don't that I have an option to say ""No or I have moved on "" they took me as fun .... They know my weak point that I don't care anything untill they play any games but if they blame me I will open my voice to prove who are frod so that conversation they are taking an advantage n coming again n again.... I should control that point if I stop them ...
I moved on from my ex, with a wonderful man, who has been embraced by our son, my ex-in laws, and many friends that we both had. It's been my best revenge against him... living life well, I'm happy, people now realize that it was him who was the narc, and I'm not guilty of his lies. People figured it out on their own. He'll probably die a lonely old man, but I don't care, and it just doesn't matter to me what happens to him. My adult son was finally able to tell his father to f- off, and he never wanted to see him again. I was proud of him for standing up to his sad and pathetic excuse for a father. I not only survived narcicistic abuse, I am thriving. I've never been better!!!
I am going through it right now😢 After 3 years being with a narcissistic partner,it’s been almost 2 weeks no contact then out the blue emails rolling in him being( fake) nice he even caught me walking to work . He done dragged me into contact through emails he back to his evil self name calling all the above . I block him on email again, I feel 😢
Haha they do not have a heart or a soul. 😂 Block them forever.
Damn right!
Over the span of 7yrs and two kids, she has kicked m out 3x. The last time she said, 'gtfo!' ...I got my shit and left. Of course she wouldnt let me go quiet, she made sure the neighbors knew and even tried her best to get in a fight with me, physically. All the while my lil kids are cryn because Im leaving and instead of comforting them, she focused her verbally assault on me in front of the kids. Her new supply - has to wonder, 'what kind of human would throw a loving, caring father out on the streets?' .....that look the new supply gave me, was 'what is going on here whats happening?'. She's gonna find out.
Big hug, praying for you and your children
He i isolate me from the family to validate his leaving with the smear campaign. Lord knows I’ve hoodwinked and bamboozled by his behavior, but I’m woke now and no one will ever have the opportunity to get that close to me again without examination. I would not love too fast trust too soon and care too much. That was my fault. That’s why I went wrong. It’s a great lesson to learn from and I thank God that I didn’t lose my mind
By ignoring them is not taking revenge but rather not to let you sin against God and men. Psalm 1:1-3Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful. But his delight is in the law of the Lord; and in his law doth he meditate day and night.
Thanks
Hide their phone!! 😂
My friend started a fight with me because I was giving him praise. I know he didn't deserve any praise.
I am happy that I tuned in…I am an old lady and have 2 daughters . Finally found their problem
I didn't end it - was told to go . and I'm gone!!!
I have dealt with a person down to the tee of what you just explained
I will tell you about my neck ex, he flipped out and almost strangled me to death, I got free call police, got him out of my home, after all the Hoover I told him to get help or get lost he quickly found another lady
This person is a friend that I feel sad when we don't talk don't want 2 put them down I can ignore not answer phone as long as it takes and they hate that
I love him the way he is
They have no empathy at all. It is all about them. Very selfish. My daughter got badly angry with me when she held past grudges againgst me and I told her to let go of them, and she threw me on the floor and told me to get out of her house. It is over a year now and I have not spoken since. I sent one birthday card only.She has not contacted. You have described narcs very well. I know another one( male)😮
They need to seek help, but most don’t because they think that they don’t face to be accountable for their weird actions
They think they are God who see people as objects that they expect to feel grateful for their weird ahh attention. They live on earth but their mind is long gone trust me
Dr Phil said he has help people with every kind of mental but u can NOT help a narcissist 😮
If i feel heavy in my heart i always see this kind of youtube my pain reliever and my advicer.
You just explained my boyfriend to a Tee!!!! Every thing you said is exactly what he does!
I walked away from a narcissist 10 years ago and stayed away they tried to reel me back in but couldnt
He ghosted me for 2 days then stopped answering his calls next he popped up wanting to get his things I blocked him it’s been 3 weeks no contact
It s my third time that when I tell a narcissist or his or her superior...oh, I am scared of this person...when they let them know...they feel very confused...probably because you are not really attacking them, or really running away...you definitely are finding faults on them...but, it s not really clear...it happened to me by jobcenter coach...these people thank they are God...if you let them...I told her...and she backed off and started explaining confused...I used it again...and that other time at least they changed me the abusive coach...and the last time...the person came to apologize in front of his superior...so, it works!
The strange thing is that I really mean what I say, but the way they react...is refreshing...their ego burst...because you are not really attacking...you are just fuck*ng scare😂
Thanks for this reading on point
You are so welcome
Thank you for the information everything makes sense
Glad it was helpful! ❤️❤️
I am married to one. And I let him what he is. And I turn my ignore button on in my brain and that drives him crazy.
He played out his childhood on me. Then he alienated the kids so after they left we weren’t really a family anymore. Then he ramped up the fun. When I left he was disappointed I wasn’t having a nervous breakdown. He won’t miss me one bit. He owns the kids and they will take care of his alcoholic butt. For me it’s like 40 years wiped out.
31 yrs here for me. My divorce will be final July 9th
@@sandraleehurst7350 it may take awhile but life is even better than B4 because you’ll appreciate normal. Enjoy!
@@lynnschaeferle-zh4go , thank you!
My ex wife was this good girl type .. she ended up having an affair and when I found out she got angrier and her narc side came out which was horrifying. No remirse no apologies .. interestingly she was always jealous and insecure and that made me think or feel it was because she loved me. She always accused me of cheating but now I see it was projection. I forgave her and tried to save our marriage but she says she is not sure if she trusts me ? It’s so strange
When her affair partner moved on and got married a year later instead of our marriage healing things got much worse and that makes sense with this video as the impact of seeing someone over on and she took it out on our marriage and family she did t care what our daughter was out through
So right I just broke up with mine he would stay out till 11:00 and then come to me
"Deliberately, by accident?"
Paradox,huh? Oxymoronic, huh lol
I enjoyed the video; my case is a very rare case. My sister and I grew up together, we had no parents, so day by day for 63 years now but one of our staff, named J, was pretending so well, In May, J changed her attitude towards me and told me I was yelling her during the work and then my sister defended for J in any criticism from me or our mutual friends. After 60 days, the argument hasn't been solved. I enforced to my sister that J had to leave as J only come back to work at any time she wanted, I always believed these two had a secret relationship, I found a picture on CCTV in our shop that my sister hugging her from the back and J was enjoyed so I believe it was a first hug. A week later, I saw another video that was even worse; I am Chinese, J is Indian, and both cultures do not accept this kind of behaviour. Please advice what 's the problem. Is J a narcissist? or my sister has a mental disorder, J had a record of
locked into a mental hospital for a short period of time but after two years, I think her situation has not improved. Any suggestion so that I can what can I do? Until this moment, my sister still denied , only moral support.
👊🤜 was a way I used. Finished quick and fast.
Right on!
Call them out because they don’t want me to know he’s cheating
Using drugs and other men to use u mentally and sexually to break u down is not legal period
I have no time to put 1 scrappy person in my head
Well put.
forgive myself for not leaving earlier and learn where my boundaries are and when they are crossed what actions do i take.
So it’s men that an always dubbed the narcissist? I know quite a few women like this as well.
narc women are the reason a lot of men are, jobless, drunkards, retrogressive, homeless, poor, dead etc. they are the real devil's who appear as normal women.
I do too!
Most definitely narcs attract narcs😂
Thank you for the information. Makes complete sense.
How do you deal with a group of narcissistic gossiping, backstabbing, privacy invading,evil minded elderly people in elderly apartment when you are their target? Being very quiet, living my life with headphones on so I can have privacy while trying to live my life hasn't worked. I have been so quiet they now stalk me by taking turns standing in front of my door listening. Please can you give me some ideas on how to cope with this. I am a very sensitive lady and cannot ignore them. It crushes me when I go to do the laundry and they go into whisper mode, or I hear pieces of my personal conversations turning into nastiness. HELP !!!!!!!! Nn
The people sound bad in the senior apt bldg. Mine is normal. You have people with dementia (beginning stages). It's is a active senior community. People are upbeat here. I volunteer a lot with the store and garbage dumpster because a lot of people can't handle the weight. I check to see if the doors are locked at 9pm. I stay out of the gossip. I could volunteer more but that's enough. They gossip alright but I stay out of it. I hope this helps. I been here 5 years and it is quiet 🤫 lol
What if there mirroring me I ended the relationship now that I demanded my property they stole they refuse to talk or give back my property
They stole from you & they will harass you to convince themselves they had the right to. They don't have a heart until it stops beating 🤷🏾♀️ read that again
All these healed me
Exactly, well said
Forgive for your self and love you 😘 because we stuck us in the closet to try to fix people our whole lives run they want you dead 💀
I refused to give her money .she got so mad.i think she hates me forever but I don't care bcz she used to do this when we were together.she posted her new partner.
Good luck with ....they can never get ehat they deserve bc they can not see any wrong in their actions and themselves as a person.. When u are not easy to control...they just move on to somebody who feeds their ego or lifestyle more. You have never mattered to them..that is the sad ..truth.
you cannot BREAK their heart. It closed off and and they FEEL nothing. They feel they do NOTHING wrong. Why? They live in denial.
I still love him and I don't care if he's a narcissist
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She hates my guts. Because she could not control me. I took a lot of abuse from her.
Don't you have to actually HAVE a heart in order have a broken one?
Is it the way they are or it has smthing to do with their upbringing? I wonder 🤔
They say anything .like I don't like your children and family and make them feel un welcome. He leave .my children live out of town he don't want to go with me and get angry if I want to go . If I let him know that I am going to go some where a week in advance he will fuss so much I change my mind. If he promise to take me to see my children .some how he gets out of it .
Asshole called me after 3 weeks and said “I know we still love each other deeply and will end up together” Then blamed my sister for our problems. Because I know now what he was all about I just listened. I am healing and still have bad days but it’s getting easier.
Ref to the headline ,,The same things that will make a narc a killer.
What they give you the silent treatment already so ignoring them wouldn't hurt them.I mean for what
" Deliberately by accident??" WTF is that?
I could be wrong but I believe she meant deliberately but acting as if by accident.
That's like " It kills me to say so but you are looking good these days ".
i want him to go away and never seeing hearing
Do whatever you can to have ZERO contact!! Block them, ignore them, delete them from your life. If they try to bait you DO NOT fall for it. Learn what got yourself into this situation in the first place (for me it was ignoring my intuition after the 1/2nd nasty comment). Go live your best life!!! ❤
I know how you feel I say that everyday but this person is my neighbor
You can have it on video and they will still not own there deceitfulness for nothing, ever!!!
Oh yer he goes to his family n blames me but dont 5ell them i caught him in pub with a married woman ? Very cosy till he saw me n then jumped like scared cat from her to empyy seat other end of bar ? Even bar maid looked strange wen saw were he was now sat with me his wife , ? .
Your so cool❤
He ended the relationship,he blocked me.Will he ever try to come back in my life?
It’s you who decides. They like to be chased. Why chase someone to be with you look into yourself and think why would you do that
Ray he doesn’t. He will do itvv by again and again
What about when they get with your baby sister and there you have it she is also a narcissist explain
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I really don’t want revenge on my daughter I pray she has a good life but I won’t be in her life to long for me getting abused by her.
Well, sigh. I will always feel like a simp for not seeking revenge. Especially since she wants to kill me, so it's self-defense lol. But honestly, she is already such a deeply unhappy person. And possibly a suicide risk. I can't have that on my conscience
Nicki is that you?
It’s reality.. that they don’t have hearts…!!
What heart 😮
She rents I have my own home,I heard landlord kicked him out now his woman friend told me he wants me back, I said to her, I want him back like a hemroid, and I ran into him, I said I never want you back,, Ever, he stood there, his mouth dropped and I put on my sun shade and walked off, feeling way taller than him,, I don't call anyone a looser, but,,o. Well, discipline Mom should have shown him
What heart?
lol, my narcissist must really be in hell right now. I’ve cut them off from my affection and show no interest in them at all. I really should be careful as he has tried to kill me several times in the past, but GOD has delivered me from his evil tactics as I don’t care what he thinks about me or what he says! IM HAPPY,and he hates it.🥰
I want revenge.
Revenge is the lord's unfortunately for him👹
Do they work with cults
What if they ignore you
Thank God that they have! Praise God that you have been delivered!!!
Watch Diddy when he starts raging when he caught lol ❤❤devils
sure
No but they keep sending me messages through the comos and saying they are putting curses on me with some other b**ch and then turn around later say they miss you and want to see you and confess there wrong doings towards me bull s**t, they are big liars and fake.
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Also my baby sister is buying him clothes giving him money and etcetera it hurts my feelings that is my sister I don't care about anyone else
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